r/Bestof INSANE Stalker Thinks She Owns Her Daughter
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0:00 Intro
0:14 Crazy MIL
6:33 Comment with the truth
8:26 Crazy lady replies
11:08 MIL legal advice
12:36 OP update
13:24 Response from Bea
15:45 Op continues
18:43 OP removes son from will
22:29 More from OP
24:46 AmItheDevil reply from OP
26:53 Comment in bestof
29:04 Funny comment bestof
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This women can't afford a taxi, but she can afford a lawyer and a private detective?
"I can't afford a taxi or uber" was a direct manipulation of having her son drive her around. And I wouldn't be surprised if she took on a crap ton of debt to cover for a lawyer and a private detective.
She can also afford a pot/alcohol dual addiction
Selectively broke
She also mentioned she would quit her job to babysit
Woman*
Women is plural.
Her son moving out without telling her should be the moment when it becomes clear where this is heading.
I caught that too. I immediately clued-in when I heard that.
i unfortunately doubt this will be the end of this story. this woman sounds so deranged and so delusional over the whole story that i do frighteningly see this ending in violence in that she will either harm the dil or will off herself in the end.
This woman's life will fade out alone and unloved and she won't have the ability to be anything other than grudgeful and bitter, because there is waaayyyy too much narc in that head for there to be any ability to reflect on her own behaviour and actions. Even calling her a narcissist doesn't fully encapsulate the self-serving delusions she displays.
So much this. That was the first major red flag that OP is the problem.
It was the DIL ignoring her that made it clear that there’s something worse happening
I'd honestly be afraid that if she finds her son's family, she'd murder the wife to "free her son from the evil clutches of his wife." That's how unhinged she is.
Especially cus she's a stoner and a drunk
She'd kill the wife and kidnap the kids then plead innocent in court after driving drunk and getting in a wreck with the kids
@@Jesseuer I know a family court lawyer here in NZ. According to her, stoners are the worst people for breaching protection orders.
Have to say, she's just insane enough that yea, I'd be very worried.
She’s definitely the wrong side of delusional 💀 🤡
Define stoners, because if it's just weed i think it's more likely the ppl that opened the protection orders are the assholes, but drunk people are a different story alltogether.
The hoarder part makes sense, as earlier her son said her house wasn’t safe for children-the masses of trash and piles of stuff would definitely count as that
Yeah, I grew up in a hoarder house and caught that shit pretty immediately. It was my literal first thought when the son mentioned it being unsafe for kids; "Oh, she's a hoarder isn't she?"
And she wants to possess the people around her, too. No wonder the son is sneakily moving away.
@@TwighlightLugia me too, I had the exact same thought long before it was confirmed.
On top of that, she probably leaves her drugs where kids could reach them.
She sounds like the kind of nutcase who would also have a her house full of very friendly Pitbulls, Honestly trust me they have never bitten me personally.
For anyone curious. She left out INSANE STUFF. Threatening to unalive herself, lying to CPS, Saying her DIL was holding her son hostage... Probably more, but these were the highlights from the Best of post, which Is why i'm commenting them... Yikes.
Wait, really? How did they know it was her?
@@squeaktheswan2007she confirmed it was her daughter in laws post in another thread
Link to the post / can you share title of JNMIL?
"Yikes" is not enough to express how yikes it is.
I remember reading the post on there. Crazy doesn't even begin to describe this op
This is an "I killed my son and his wife to rescue my grand babies from that witch's manipulation" Law and Order episode waiting to happen.
For real though, this woman will not stop trying make her son's family miserable until she dies. And even then, I'm sure she'll still find a way
I can hear the intro now.
"Dolores just wanted a happy relationship with her grandchildren. When their parents set up boundaries, she broke them down one by one until nothing, not even the parents, remained. This is Monsters."
Doo doo doo doo doo doo....
"Dolores Umbridge was born on June 6th, 1966, to Fur and Lucy Umbridge...."
@@ChrisLeigh 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Why
@@cathylanders6377 because these are the kinds of people you only hear about in true crime podcasts. Because these are the type of people to do the most evil things you can’t imagine.
@@RealCoolstriker64 true
As a resident of Indiana, I cannot describe the simultaneous terror and shame I felt when I found out she lived here.
So does Indiana have uber?
@@RhythmShorts absolutely
@@RhythmShorts She said it was too expensive. Funny, while reading this I originally thought she was from a village in England, lol.
The second I heard she was in indana I froze, I was thinking some small town in a different country, maybe in Canada (do to the "cultural differences" quote)
@@shells500tutubo But not too expensive to hire lawyer or private investigator to go after her son.
This is a super minute detail: but did anyone else notice how op expects bea to return her calls but when it comes to apologies, she’s never direct? That she always apologizes to her SON about the hurting bea’s feelings?? Gosh this woman.. no matter how many times I listen to this story, I never fail to see something else that perfectly illustrates her bat-shit insanity.
she also expects Bea to talk to her directly she says i want her to be able to come to me
Dude... this woman went from just being a bit entitled to THREATENING SU1C1D3 AND STALKING HER SON... I really hope they're able to get a restraining order against her
I am surprised if David isn't on r/insaneparents
I feel they need more then a restraining order
Yep they need someone to take her out, and I don’t mean for dinner 😂
I'm really worries this woman is going to try to unalive her daughter because in her delusional mind her daughter in law is the problem
Here is the removed post btw:
My MIL made a few reddit posts recently, and over the last few days one got some attention and they were all made into a tiktok. My best friend shared that tiktok with me earlier today. I found the post, and many people said she belonged in the sub. Reading the comments on those posts made me feel so much better about what I was doing. I then came here and began reading others stories, and it has been cathartic, so I wanted to share my own.
Husband and I have been married for 3 years, together for 4, and he has a daughter from a previous relationship. We just had a baby girl who is a couple of months old.
To make a long story short since no one wants to read the novel the last few months would be, my MIL is a bitch. She treated me terrible in my recent labor, and postpartum. Called constantly during the birth, wanted to be there, threw a tantrum that I said no, posted that my baby was born before me and before all my family knew, threw a fit about taking it down, then was shitty we wouldn't see her when we left the hospital. I had PP pre E, had to go back to the hospital, almost died, she downplayed it and was a bitch because I didn't return her call at 7 am and had my husband do it instead while I was laying in a hospital bed for the second time trying not to die. I called her because she was rude to DH and he got shitty with me, she said some really shitty things to me, my mom wanted to fight her (she sums this up pretty well in her post, honestly. And yes, she doesnt think she did anything wrong, she truly doesn’t understand how insane she sounds) 😅.
When we left the second time, we stopped by so she could see the baby since she couldn't drive. This was nice because it wasn't at her house (which is disgusting), and we could leave when we wanted. She came to our house about 2 weeks later, and my DH had to pick her up. She definitely overstayed her welcome and woukdnt leave when my DH tried to get her to, he had to essentially force her out. Note: she has not asked to visit once since then. She has threw a fit about us "keeping SD from her". She wants us to read her mind.
She apologized around 2 weeks ago to my DH to pass along to me for everything that hurt me. Wasn't really an apology, but I had moved on and decided I didn't need an apology already.
Then, out of no where, a friend of hers reaches out and tells us SHE IS GOING FOR GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS?! She also informs us that I'm a vile women, DH made a mistake marrying me, and she has a plan to get us to divorce by lying and getting me to believe my DH was sleeping with an ex she is still very close with according to friend.
Both DH and I lost our shit. DH was ready to call and rip her a new one, but I finally wanted to stand up for myself so I sent her a text message laying it all out (she edited my text cutting out the info about her plan to sabotage my marriage). I told her that we would have no contact with her, and I blocked her. She later called DH and sobbed to him, and he told her to fuck off essentially.
Until my friend sent me the tiktok, I was honestly feeling really guilty. I felt like maybe I was being too harsh on her. My gut tells me I'm doing the right thing, but in the comments she admitted she acted out of anger. DH will do whatever I want to do, but he said he can't forgive her. The fact she would try to legally make herself a parent and felt so entitled that she would steal some of the precious time he gets with SD really hurt him.
I honestly expected her to show up over the weekend since it was our weekend with SD, but she didn't. We haven't gotten served with anything yet (and we may never - fingers crossed). I screenshotted everything she posted in case I need it (if I can even use it).
I'm incredibly disturbed by some of the things she said, especially about me not being a suitable parent for my baby, but I know she loves SD, and she also admits in her posts she acted out of anger. I think she is a narcissist, and have for a while now based on things she says to DH when they fight (the good ol' "you owe me because I birthed you and provided the bare minimum so you have to bend to my will."). I also think she has some other mental health issues, and some trauma that it stems from. I know that doesn't excuse anything, but it gives me a reason for why she is acting like this. We've only had one major falling out before, and when things are good with her she's a very different person.
This is hopefully the end of my awful mother in law story, but thank you to everyone who has posted theirs so I could read them and cope over the weekend 😅.
I'm a RN and I was literally borderline yelling "She is probably breast feeding you idiot! Of course she doesn't want to take the meds!" Then you literally say the same thing. Thank you!!! That mom was probably in pain but was putting her baby before her pain or needs. That's a reasonable and caring mom.
Exactly! When my daughter was born I also breastfed her and refused to take any pain meds, and I had an emergency c-section 😬 this MIL is such a monster
Real moms always put their child first. That crazy b**** doesn't comprehend anything!
@@victoriadoppke yeah and just like lifetime movies 😒
You don't have to be an RN to think she's being reasonable for not wanting to take pain meds while breastfeeding.
This MIL is wild.
I did yell, but I'm not an RN lol Can't reason with a narcissist, even with literal logic. She doesn't care about the baby, just herself. Fits every check mark of the narcissist so perfectly she's the textbook example, look up Narcissist, there's her face. The face she'd hypocritically be demanding be taken down lmao
It’s so weird that OP is blaming the younger generations for not understanding her because they don’t have “good family values”. When was stalking considered a family value?! I hope OP gets the mental help she needs.
The mother is a classic narcissist. I hope Bea and David and their little ones have more peace in their life going forward
I’m an “old” woman on Reddit. I’m due to turn 65 next month. The OP in this post is nuts. I would never do anything like this to my son. I raised him to be an independent adult. He lives about 2000 miles away with a great lady. We can’t afford to travel and visit right now and that’s fine. We keep in touch and have a great relationship. I don’t try to control him. He’s an adult. His life is his.
I wish my mother was more like you :( my mom is more like OP...
@@anapellegrini1764 sorry to hear that. Remember that if you choose to have kids you can raise them differently than you were raised. My mom wasn’t awful but she could be controlling. We made our peace over time but it caused me to adopt a healthier and more realistic view on raising a child.
I'm an "old man" on Reddit myself at sixty five. I don't have a son, but I do have a daughter (age thirty), who lives with me. She'll come to me sometimes for advice, and sometimes has done things, that were her choice, and we'll talk about it. Her mother and my late gf passed away when she was still nineteen, but we raised her to think and make decisions for herself without any real recriminations from either of us. However sometimes I've used something my dad would say to me with her, "use your head for something besides a hat rack.
happy extremely early birthday
Yeah
I feel really sad for OP’s son. Either he grew up and this was his whole life, or he watched his beloved mother slowly decline to this state over the years. Either way, it’s heartbreaking.
There's no way this just started with the 2nd grandchild. Otherwise, sonny boy wouldn't have shut her down so quickly while at the hospital.
As soon as Dabney read out that her son moved out without telling her I knew there was a problem. Poor guy
the thing that make this funny is went they go to court and when the court finds out about the fucking PI its over for her
@@SaraSG1 Yeah, I remember that from the first time I've heard this story and the way it went - even before the add-ons I hadn't heard until now - figured that there was a reason why "David" moved without saying anything.
OP is mentally ill. This series of posts is a fascinating window into the mind of someone who is mentally ill. It is hard for them to understand that they are the problem, and when they momentarily gain insight, sometimes it doesn't stick. Sometimes they stress their family members out so much that they drive away their support even though they badly need support. The son and DIL tried to help OP but eventually reached their breaking point.
When I was a kid, I didn’t know how toxic and messed up my own mother was. The fact that I had to listen to this story for far too long before I was sure this wasn’t *my* mother…😅 How I made it to adulthood is surprising.
My mom was/is the exact opposite of this delusional person…in her mind, her job was done when we got to be school age and she pretty much disengaged from those of us who moved out. Eh, her loss, I turned out pretty good and have 3 great kids she hardly knows.
I didn’t realize for a long time either, comrade. Took several wake-up calls and I’m still continuously shocked I made it past 20.
love how the fake name she chose for her daughter in law is "Bea" totally not an indicator of their feelings towards the girl from the start
"Ch"
Don't know the context of that. Mind explaining?
@@spydersoup8447 the implication is that “Bea” is short for “B-itch”, which tbh I wouldn’t put it past this woman to do that
@@crab_legs403 Huh. I see. So, it looks like OP has been taking this whole thing out on her son's wife, almost like she believes that she's trying to separate him from his immediate family. Well, to be far, we've seen stories where that happened, even stories rSlash wrote where fiancés try to completely separate their wives from their direct family and make it that only his immediate family matters. But I agree that in this case, that is not at all what's happening here, but OP believes it's what's really happening.
"She was diagnosed with post partum preeclampsia, but I'm sure that only happens during pregnancy"... what does this lady think POST PARTUM means?
it means this lady is insane, thats what it means
That was my immediate thought and when I realized things were going to go off the rails
I read it as her assuming her son got the "preeclampsia" part wrong considering she mentioned being convinced DIL had "post partum depression". So she legit thought her son was stupid/ignorant enough to confude DEPRESSION with PREECLAMPSIA.
what do YOU think preeclampsia means?
@@abiean222 what is wrong with you
"I told my son it was despicable that he couldn't man up to his wife"
He manned up to his mama 😂 so many men can't do that.
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Actually OP being a hoarder didn't come out of left field. It was strongly hinted at in Bea's response "Your house is unfit to live in". 9 times out of 10, that describes a hoarder situation.
This OP is an endless nightmare. Now we see why her son had to get out of her house without telling her, I bet she would have done a crazy stunt to keep him from leaving.
The ‘cultural differences line’…is very revealing.
I SO WANT the son to post his side of the story.
Same! I also want to hear Bea's side of the story!
The MIL is a narc black woman. I think the racism is the least of their worries here.
@@your_local_questerianaparrently on beas side she confirmed that op was an older black woman which confirms the racism, unfortunately rslash kinda stopped in his tracks on the racist angle after she implied that she was black with all the talk about how be couldn't look after that kind of hair (which is a big racist dogwhistle in itself)
@@Lilith-RoseYeah, funny how he can sense racism, but only until OP's race becomes apparent.
Then again, Dabney has got to be the whitest name I've ever heard, so he's probably self conscious about how easily he could be labeled racist for criticizing a POC.
@@Lilith-Roseknew it when she started talking about hair and skin color that was the case. This lady honestly sounds so much like my mom who's around OP's age
What we're witnessing here is the genuine motherly love and instincts being trampled by this woman's narcissism, alcoholism and genuine delusion. All she had to do was lay off the alcohol, get help for hoarding, give them all space and just make a proper apology and instead she kept digging herself a hole so deep that even that pure motherly love got twisted into incestuous stalking. This woman needs to be in a mental hospital and then later in a retirement home holy hell.
Honestly
Yeah, she has SEVERE mental health issues, and I’m gonna agree with RSlash that this woman has the potential to be a danger to her son’s family.
I don't think it's plain old narcissism, I think it's full blown narcissistic personality disorder, which is more complicated, difficult to treat, and socially self destructive than typical narcissism.
The second she said "he left without a word" and "I didn't know he got married", I knew she was the real problem. And it just kept getting worse.
Maybe she's one who believes that if you dig a deep enough hole, you'll eventually reach the other side of your situation 🤔
This woman is an absolute nut job, she needed help, like yesterday
Gotta love an rSlash episode dedicated to a single post, they're always the craziest, weirdest stories.
i honestly cheered out loud for the son and his family when they moved without telling that psycho gramma
The son and his family need witness protection program level anonymity. She is a clear and present danger to those children, and he and his wife cannot keep a close enough eye on them.
This is an NCO (No Contact Order) case, full stop! I did it to my egg donor and her entire side of the family, best thing I ever did. I also had her write me out of her Will and return my baby book. I made it very clear I was to not exist in her/their world AT ALL, that includes my children and husband. The Judge ruled in my favour, told her to do it within 10 days or face jail time. That was years ago and it’s blissful!
@@Sorchia56OP’s son and dil need this so badly! I hope they can get that.
The DIL said they had that case going and they were planning on moving out of state.
Facebook fucks everyone now.
Yeah "culture differences" is her way of being racist.
Its always like that, isnt it? Conservatives and bigots in general tend to operate on this mentality that their ignorant, bigoted beliefs are simply "a matter of opinions that we can agree to disagree with".
Yeah definitely. It's funny though considering she's from the US and most of the redditors are probably from the US as well. Racist to the very people who would probably share her culture
Technically she's not wrong. It's just that her "culture" is total garbage.
Based on the description of the difficulty of taking care of the hair, I'm guessing she herself has a similar hair.
Whatever happened to “Do not mistreat or oppress a foreigner, for you were foreigners in Egypt"?
@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 how do you know she's conservative? That's presumptuous of you
"Do you think this woman would steal one or both of her grandkids?"
100%. When "Bea" wouldn't let OP hold her daughter on mother's day my immediate thought was "thank fluff" That woman, just from the information she herself provided, absolutely sounds like she would have run out of there with the baby the SECOND she got hold of her. Petty my sweet behind ...
I want Bea to update that they've sold the house and never heard a peep from OP ever again. This woman is a monster.
Probably better that Bea doesn't because obviously, OP is watching her on Reddit.
Nothing says rebuilding trust and relationships like hiring a private investigator to track down people who cut you off for good reasons...
But she's so delusional that she thinks the reason for cutting contact is because Bea is the evil manipulative monster. So obviously, she needs to track her son down to save him and repair the relationship his no good wife worked so hard to destroy.
@@skorpiongodyeah a lot of projection there
Not to mention then trying to figure out if it is viable to become a squatter to force the sale to fail. Likely in the hopes that the couple will need to move back into that town so she can find them, probably because hiring a private investigator costs money.
Worked in simpsons when homer hired investigator on lisa tho
not just that they cut of contact with her. SHE told THEM she wanted to go NC and would take him out of her will, if that doesnt say "i love my son" idk what does xD
I’d call rSlash insane for thinking that she’d kidnap her grandkids but then I remember that he’s covered stories about that exact thing happening
most kidnapping cases are unfortunately someone the family knows, and even happens over custody between parents, so i can believe this
@@CakeofRagei was in this situation and, yeah... i can confirm :’D
A lot of kidnappings happen from family members, especially over custody/visitation issues.
My mom's ex actually kidnapped my two baby brothers (6 & 7 at the time) and took them 2 hours away to Dallas because he wanted them to live with him for majority custody.
It's crazy.
She’s most likely a clinical narcissist. I base that off of a lot of different things in the post, but I’m just gonna ask you to trust me on this until you find my other comments about this.
Basically if there were 1 neuron that activated every time you did something, and another neuron that would activate if something that just happened was wrong, OP has an impenetrable wall between those two neurons, meaning she can’t think the thought “What I did was wrong.” What we see throughout the story, is a result of her increasing frustration because she *genuinely* does not understand that her actions are the sole cause of the conflict here. In fact, she *can’t* understand that. So she won’t change her behavior. As her family pulls back, she pushes harder, they pull back harder.
That’s why I’d say Rslash was right on the money when he said that last post was her covertly asking how to delay the house sale. By that point she’d pushed the targets completely into no-contact. Since she can no longer get an interaction from them without them choosing to, she’s going to start becoming a problem to *force* them to interact with her. Because at this point: any engagement is good engagement, even if it’s negative. If you look into it, this is the exact kind of behavior stalkers display. From this point things will be a “cat and mouse game” where OP tries to find any lingering ways she can access the family and try to leverage interaction, and the victims will attempt to sort that situation and sever that line of access.
In my other comment I talked about “the break” narcissists go through. I said the end of the story is definitely that, but on reflection: this *could* be the break, or it could just be the first crack. Who knows.
“The break” is the point at which their delusions have them so far removed from reality, they they can talk themselves into just about anything. THIS is the point at which OP may attempt to kidnap the baby.
You’ve already seen OP’s delusions evolve from “Bea talks negatively about me” to “Bea is a manipulative abuser!” And if you really think about it, a manipulative abuser who baby trapped OP’s son is basically holding him against his will, since “he’s only doing this because of her.” And from there OP’s line of thought could REALLY jump off the deep end. From there she could claim her son is being coerced, or held hostage. Remember: she isn’t *just* claiming these things, if she says it: there’s a good chance she *genuinely* believes it to be true; or at the very least what she actually believes justifies lying about it for some “greater good”.
And think about it. If you genuinely believed your only child was in that extreme a situation, how would extreme would you go to save them?
That’s what makes people like OP so dangerous. They’re basically psychotic-time bombs waiting for someone or something to draw their attention and invoke their “righteous” judgment. And it takes one brief look at history to see that same self-righteousness reflected in the words of it’s greatest monsters.
She literally wants to stalk her son, dil and grandchildren. Kidnapping isn’t out of the realm of possibility.
This woman wanting to find a way to get CUSTODY of her grandkids makes me fear she'd be willing to frame her son and/or daughter in law for crimes that would require her needing to take custody, like planting drugs in their home or something
would you mind deleting your comment? For real man, someone that goes to reddit is very well capable of coming here and reading every comment just because it's their life we're talkin, appreciated.
@@fss1704….what? Could you elaborate that?
@@frootsnacc6790 don't give people ideas, this could do wrong in the real world, isn't worth a comment, i don't want to censor you, just think about it, you don't want the crazy grandma coming here and even entertaining that as a possibility because you posted, people have real problems and it's not fun, i ask politely, if i was an ass i would rpt u, please man, the world is already f'd for a kid to grow with a crazy b like that.
I think this woman needs to be institutionalised honestly. She really needs help.
Honestly, all these nightmare MIL stories make me sad because I absolutely adore my MIL…she’s one of the sweetest people I know
The fact she speaks to a therapist makes me feel like she is the type to used weaponized therapy. Like she goes to therapy only to plead the victim and then use what her therapist tells her to further her manipulation, but spin it I can’t be the bad guy because I’m in therapy to fix my issues so I can’t possibly be the problem.
Narcissists, man. The sad part is if she *did* actually go to therapy then there probably was a genuine attempt to course correct, even if it was just a small flicker of doubt in the back of her mind. Unfortunately: even if you go to therapy you can’t get help if you can’t recognize you need it. And so if she did go, you’re probably right about what would happen.
Narcissists have such a hard time with self Assessment, reflecting all grounded criticism. And have such strong superiority complex’s, that therapy rarely sticks for them, because most Narcissists won’t internalize any of it. I worry for my sister, she’s no where’s as bad as OP, but she can’t see how she pushes people away and creates conflict. Reflecting all her flaws onto others. I hate to see it, but what can I do…
yeah like my mom does. she is histrionic and i have bipolar and anxiety and panic disorder and ptsd from my childhood and i went no contact a few years ago and i feel better everyday. but this post reminded me a lot of my mother and usually histrionic personality disorder having people are monsters and this really sounded like a monster that learnt english and bought a computer...
She’s not apologizing for her actions because she understands they were wrong and genuinely hurt people, she’s apologizing for her actions because they had negative consequences for her and she knows that’s what people want to her.
THIS!
My ex wife was the same. She screwed up, she aplogized, rince and repeat. There's a reasson we're divorced now
MAN this is well articulated. Stealing this
Did anyone catch the fact that she never apologized to the person she hurt? She was always apologizing to her son
@@molliannstocks1709 Exactly. A non-apology. And then offended "You never accepted my half-assed apology that I gave to my son and not to you"
Yes the whole time I thought she was going to ask Reddit if it was wrong too kidnap her grandkids to "keep them safe " 😔 smh. People like this are just as scary as monsters in horror movies.
Woman goes online to ask random people for advice and sympathy, but is so stubborn that she refuses to accept all the people who are saying she's wrong and just keeps arguing with strangers and making things worse for herself. Lol
That's how narcissists always act. They can never admit that they are in the wrong.
This OP is 100% the kind of person who would kidnap her grandchildren and think it's justified and legal. She needs more help than anyone can provide!
She thinks that kidnapping is strangers kidnapping random children, when in reality kidnapping can be taking a child from their parents if they do not have any legal rights to do so
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Next update will be: "AITA for murdering my daughter in law and wearing her face as a mask to be closer to my son and granddaughter?"...
maybe, not sure.
This women is not only insane, she makes the Joker look like a sane productive member of society. She belongs in a high security mental ward for life.
This is….literally so eye opening. This is EXACTLY the monster-in-law I would have had if I went though with my previous relationship, and got married…wow
I think the reason why the oldest granddaughter was becoming more distant from OP was because she recognized her grandmothers hoarding and narcissist tendencies and was getting uncomfortable
I remember hearing this story. I still can't believe that OP was so far into herself that she thought she was right and entitled to her grandchild.
I remember reading this mess as it happened on reddit. My daughter had just had my youngest grandson and I just cringed so hard at this woman. She's a classic narcissistic personality disorder. I bet her photo is in the text book 😮
Oh yeah, I remember this story, but some things have happened since I last saw it. Absolutely mental.
@@vp-oe1em Oh no, I meant between when I read it and this video! I'm actually taking a break from reddit right now.
This whole story is just "lady, this is why your kids don't want to be around you" personified.
If someone has bought a house under an LLC to avoid you, *finding out where they went* is incredibly creepy and ... there's no way in hell this woman is sane.
Reading this post reminded me of my "father" to an honestly scary level. He had threatend to get full custody of me and taking me to Africa, threatend to call CPS on my mother multiple times, called the police on my mother multiple times and fed me things i was deathly allergic to, the terrifying thing about these people is that you never truely know their limits, you don't know how far their willing to go to get what they want. I'm planning on going full NC with my father once i get out of collage when i'm older. I honestly wish the best for this family and hope they move far, far away from that crazy woman.
Just like to point out that this crazy woman said she doesn’t have the money to afford an UBER, but can afford to hire a lawyer for what would probably end up being a six figure custody battle.
Not to mention the cost of a private investigator on top of the lawyer consult
@@tcullen2283 she really should save the money and use it to get herself some mental health care.
Not to be on her side, but it could be a “pay me when we win” lawyer. But idk if those exist in family courts.
Depending on what type of hoarder she is, she could have been spending all of her money buying stuff and is now redirecting some of that towards lawyers.
She's cheap, she thinks hiring an Uber is not worth it at all.
When se said, "I am OWED visitation, and the courts will agree with me," I knew she'd be in for a rude awakening. 😂
A claim that won't fly with the courts.
This grandmother sounds like my mother! She hired a PI on me too! The joys of an INSANE parent. We don’t talk to her anymore and I’ve been writing off her will, a small price to pay to be rid of her
i love stories that get rSlash furious, he gets so intense and it brings me joy hearing him go off on someone like op in the first story
The whole video was 1 story
👀 U ok there, dude?
Oh yeah. OP1 is nuts! She isn’t angry that Bea won’t talk to her, she’s angry Bea isn’t giving OP an opportunity to manipulate her.
Because her son and Bea have corresponded the best they could given their situation and her insanity. She chose to believe that they were misinforming her.
Bea immediately put a pin on her behavior and that just sent her into a steaming fit.
And she's blaming Bea for everything, despite being the cause of the rift herself. Talk about trying to pull the (supposed) straw out of Bea's eye while ignoring the giant rafter in her own eye.
I'm in the exact same situation right now with my mom. She just got done gaslighting me to make me come back to her as he "best friend". Her manipulation no longer works on me and that is making her lash out.
There's no OP2
The hoarder thing totally makes sense. Considering she literally said that Bea said her house wasn't fit to live in. I was wondering if she was either a hoarder or neglected animals and her house was filled in animal filth.
honestly i wouldn't be surprised if it was both
i remember a number of hoarder stories where they've found an unfortunate amount of "lost" pets under the piles...
I thought Op's house was just too small or something 😅
Ppl who neglect animals should have a place reserved in hell, prefferably soon.
Well that and all the weed and booze probably laying around 🤷♀️ Surely there's empty glass bottles and paraphernalia littering the house, especially if she's a hoarder too!
If a taxi is out of her budget; then how is taking care of a grandchild not WAY out of her budget?
I swear, I spent 2/3rds of this thinking to my self “It just keeps going!” People like OP are the kind who, regardless of how kindhearted you are, have to admit defeat over - they’re just to far gone at this point to waste the time and energy to deal with
"I apologized to *my son* for hurting his wife's feelings, that's good enough right?"
Maybe OP should try pulling her head out of her ass and giving a genuine, sincere apology to *Bea* and NOT to OP's son. Telling her son that she's sorry means nothing to Bea when it was **BEA** who was insulted
And being “sorry” for only hurting someone’s feelings and not being sorry for your actions doesn’t cut it in the apology department.
@@lorilancaster5917 1000% this
And then she has the audacity to be upset that she didn't get a response from her daughter-in-law. Lol "I sort of apologized to my son for being mean to his wife and I can't believe his wife doesn't contact me back to let me know that she's okay with my apology" lol this woman is delusional!
@@lorilancaster5917 yup. It's a non-apology.
She doesn't respect her DIL as a person, she sees her as the *probably* white devil that now controls her son like how OP used to control her own son.
One of the most terrifying things my narc mother said to me before I went No contact after being low contact was "you can never truly hide from me, I know your social security number." This mother sounds so much like my mother, minus the drugs and alcohol. I hope Son and Bea get a restraining order and can move far far away to keep their kids safe.
They may have to change their names and get new SSNs too, or even move to a whole nother country.
I believe you can request a new social security number if you tell them your identity is being stolen by your mother. Even if she only threatened to abuse it, she doesn't need to know it without your permission.
On the upside, simply knowing your ss number can't give her your current address without her also using it to commit fraud. There's no simple way to use it to find you that would give her that information without violating some other law that she can be charged with.
She would have to call and trick someone using the number, because there's no public database that just lists that information.
@@Vincent_Beers Oh I know, because she had to change her name and SSN because of an ex who was stalking her, at attempted to kill us in the 90s. Mama knows how to pick them, lol. But it was an empty threat really to try and scare me. I've removed myself from the white pages, yellow pages, Google searches, social media for the most part. She does know where I live and tried to love bomb me with gifts and even money, while sending her flying monkeys (step daddy and grandma) but it's been 5 years and she hasn't bothered me in 1.5 years so I think she finally got the hint, but I still get a little anxious around my bday and holidays and her bday.
Really hope they crossed state lines at the least
This story really sent shivers down my spine.. What's scary about it is that I never really realize how awful my mother is and then I looked at this and god... It's terrifying, how much this reminds me of my own mother.
The second I heard her son moved out without saying anything i knew she was crazy. Your children dont just move out suddenly unless youve created an environment they can no longer stand to be in.
I'm pretty sure that the majority of the lawyer parts were her saying that she got a lawyer, when in actuality, she just got a consultation. There is no way a self respecting lawyer would ever get into that mess pro bono.
I doubt that any would even be willing to follow through with the case ,even if they were wiling at the onset to consider taking it. Many would even bail on her on getting more in the way of details.
I love how she says the reason everyone on Reddit is bashing her is because they aren’t parents or grandparents, but she forgets that they are all children and grandchildren and the one who doesn’t want a relationship isn’t her but her daughter in law and son. Everyone is telling her exactly what she’s doing wrong and why her son and his wife are upset with her and she refuses to even consider the idea of her being wrong.
I am a great grandmother that watches my great-grandson twice a week. I have never felt entitled to him or given my opinion on anything unless asked. OP has mental issues. She should give up the detective and hire a therapist!!
Which I'd bet that she also thinks she's the all wise, all knowing, all seeing, and the most perfect of the most perfect. I'd bet that some of those who responded are parents, and maybe some being a grandparent.
She isn’t refusing because she doesn’t want to, she’s refusing because she *can’t.*
If she’s a clinical narcissist (like I highly suspect), then she’s psychologically unable to self reflect, and come to the understanding that all of this is her fault.
Narcissists operate at all times from the cognitive premise that they are the most special person in the universe and nothing they do is wrong. If there's a problem, the problem is obviously not them but you. The problem is always someone else. How could it not be? They are perfect, after all.
This is how the narcissist mind works. So they're completely bereft of any of the mental faculties necessary for normal emotional responses. They're just ghouls who prey on others to get what they want and given they lack a soul, all they have left is trying to fake it.
So they become experts at manipulating others--saying and doing all the right things to try and massage the outcomes they want out of others. But it inevitably fails because you really can't fake being an authentic human being. Eventually your mask slips and people see the ghoulish visage that sits behind it.
If you ever chance upon a narcissist, sneak away quietly under the cover of darkness. Don't tell them you're doing it. Don't tell them where you're going or why you're gone. Just slip away quietly into the night. And ghost. Because if a narcissist thinks you've turned on them, they will begin hatching schemes to destroy you. But if you leave without warning and leave no trace, then they can't do anything about it.
You see, deep down inside narcissists know they are con artists. The only control they have over others is the elaborate maze of deception and artifices of personality they have erected around them. Like Patrick Bateman from Americana Psycho--they live a lie hiding in plain sight, among unsuspecting normal people. Their greatest and deepest fear is that someone will find them out and then expose them to others. So narcissists will pre-empt their victims. They'll covertly sabotage their victim's reputation. Turn their friends and family against them. Try and get them fired or arrested. Spread fake rumours and lies about them. All kinds of stuff. All of it designed to protect their elaborate con from being exposed.
And meanwhile, if you're in the grasp of a narcissist and don't safely evacuate as soon as you can, they'll just continue strangling you with their gaslighting abusive behaviours and toxic manipulations. Which they don't see as being wrong at all. Because, remember, if there's a problem, then it's not them. They're never the problem. You're the problem. And what's more, they feel entitled to whatever you've got that they want. And they feel justified in doing whatever it takes to get what they want. Even if that means unapologetically stepping all over you. But to ensure your compliance and submission, they'll make sure to undermine and abuse you, so they know you're firmly under their control and they can do with you as they wish.
Narcissists are the worst.
I’m surprised this doesn’t have more likes, you are exactly right. This sums up everything, I wish I could like more than once.
I live in NJ. "Grandparents rights" would be 1 day a month and only if there's an established relationship. She'll never get custody or partial custody unless both parents are deemed unfit.
I read this post last month on Reddit and I was WAITING for Rslash to cover it in his videos. I’m so glad that he did because now more people than the Reddit community are able to see this psychopath of a lady. Hopefully she gets it together before it lands her behind bars or in the ground because that’s absolutely ridiculous.
What's ops username I wanna read the comments on her posts for myself & find out just how much op got trashed
My heart goes out to the couple at the center of all this. No one deserves that kind of bullshit from anouther person, but especially not from a person who is supposed to be family.
Kinky shit detected.....
“ I want what I want when I want it! “ sums her entire acritudes toward her life and family. Her hubris and self entitlement knows no bounds. Her racism is just an added bonus.
This lady is insane if she expects a new mom to make stops on the way home from the hospital after just giving birth. The OP made no attempt to be at the hospital. The new mom would only want to get home with her new bundle of joy and get situated.
"Getting an Uber would be over my budget,"
Proceeds to hire a private investigator
Atomic Shrimp and Jim Browning and Nerd Explains and Binge-Xpress
2 Internet-Safety CZcamsrs and 2 Generic Safety CZcamsrs
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I don't mind your "interruptions;" I _love_ when a story frustrates to infuriates you: it makes the story ever more entertaining and hilarious.
Agreed!
Wow, an r/Bestof video that’s half an hour, this must be a special
I just encountered something weird with this comment, seeing "an r-" looks grammatically wrong but saying it is the only way to say it, I'm conflicted 💀
It's old. Mark Narrations covered this a half a year ago
OP is “special”
Thought it was an error!
@@destinedtogame (G)old is more like it. goddamn
To me it was like reading those books where you get to choose what the characters do next and OP chooses the worst possible option OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Then is absolutely SHOCKED her life is in ashes😅
Never use "my house my rules", hold this deep in your heart and always look for this pattern if you want to separate crazy people, seriously. " my money my rules" also.
The “cultural difference” that she’s referring to is that she is black and her DIL and the mother of the first daughter are not. She’s claiming this is all black culture, but, no. It’s not. She’s just crazy.
You know those news articles you see where it's something nuts like "Grandmother steals her own grandchildren, tries to flee the country under heavy disguise, leads police on 2 hour car chase, shots fired, grandmother facing 25 years in prison"...
We just watched her villain origin story
Now that you say that I can see that
god i hope not, those poor girls.
They should also warn the kid's school about their grandmother, because she is absolutely the type to just show up at the school to "pick her up" if she finds out where they live, and claim it was because she had no other way to spend time with her. And the fear it causes the mother not knowing where her daughter is will be icing on the crazy cake for her. I hope they don't own a pet rabbit
OH GOD WITH THE BOILING
My mom did this with us. She gave us a password and if anyone was to claim they were picking us up, we had to ask the password. My father was arrested for child abuse and grandma didn't believe her baby did it.
i'm not sure how it is in every school in indiana, but in my area's elementary schools there was a list of people who are approved to pick us up from school if they had to remove us from school midday. would definitely be a thing for them to look into (or edit if they have it and she was ever on it in the first place.)
This comment. Schools take this super seriously as well. At least, the one I work at has. We had a grandparent like OP try to kidnap a child and went into a soft lockdown, then a full lockdown when she started throwing chairs at the door trying to get into the school because 'I have rights to MY grandbabyyyy'. She, in fact, did not have rights and after being tazed by the local police, was carried out in cuffs and thankfully jailed. Schools would much, much, muuuuch rather be overly cautious and over warned of crazy family than under-warned or prepared and something bad happens to a kid. Always warn the school.
@@breestone2009 nowadays, yeah, most do.
I was a kid in the 90's. Wasn't as serious then.
I really hope private investigators do some kind of background check on their clients or something. Otherwise, whoever she hires would just be leading a whacko to a family that just wants peace
rSlash's comments during some of these stories is what makes some of them more funny. Also when he stops reading and there is rapid typing sounds as he looks something up.
The stories where he inserts sound effects or does editing tricks are the funniest.
I think the woman is fully capable of kidnapping her children without remorse. She tried to get grandparents rights and custody for crying out loud! I was like "Yeah, I heard this story before, and the parents cut op out of their lives." I wasn't aware there was a bigger update... I hope "David and Bea" will be okay and that the op doesn't find them.
I hope the same thing, but add particular nastiness to OP's future.
It mentions she is in therapy. And it is important to remember that 99.99% of the time narcissists don’t get better in therapy, they just become better manipulators.
In this case, we can't even be sure she's telling the truth about that. If she really is, though, then she's 100% not telling that therapist the truth, and is using that person to help herself justify her actions.
That was my first thought. Apparently, my narc mother and enabling father went to couples therapy at one point. It did not take long for NM to convince everyone in those sessions that everything wrong in the universe was my father's fault, well, except those things that were my, (the black sheep's), and my sister's, (the scapegoats') faults.
Unfortunately, too many therapist buy into the 'everyone has right and everyone has wrong in this situation' mindsets, failing to recognize that often someone, usually the narcissist, is completely in the wrong. This type of approach especially allows the narc to take advantage to show how everyone else is wrong and the narc is right, and for some reason the therapist is all too willing to then drop the 'both sides are to blame' mentality...
Shit i didn’t know that
no fr the moment she mentioned therapy i went 'oh god she's lying to the therapist isn't she'
They are virtually incurable. They often cheat on their spouses too, That is probably why there is no mention of his father,
I truly believe this lady is capable of kidnapping those babies. And im genuinely terrified for that family...
yeah i would move out of the state or even the country
@@sytherwusky frfr
There was a lot of details left out from the post so here are some of them.
- MIL threatens suicide because "they turned the whole family against her and won't let her see her granddaughters." Is placed in psychiatric care for 72 hours and released.
- MIL called CPS and said they were starving and neglecting their infant. CPS had to show up.
- MIL also says OOP is holding her husband hostage and police show up
-Thankfully the police and CPS see there is nothing wrong and all charges are dropped
-OOP states she and husband are going to try to move
“My child suddenly moved out with no warning”
Crazy parent red flag #1
my mother pulled that shit, even though there had been PLENTY of warning and her and her husband also tried to push me out only six months earlier to a house I had no hope in hell of affording (was like 70% of my wage just for rent). that was 12-13 years ago, I have spoken to her about 10 times since, the last being 6-7 years ago.
All I heard from everyone after I moved out was that she was going around bad mouthing me saying I up and left and that I'm a drunk etc. (I drink at most once or twice A YEAR and even then, its usually only 2-3 drinks). the one time I try and mend fences and agree to go over for dinner I have a couple of conditions, 1 no seafood as my partner had a bad experience with food poising a month before and that we had to have dinner at a 'normal' time (they tend to eat late) as I had work early in the morning (4am start)
we get there, nothing is mentioned about dinner, I am immediately ushered into the study to fix the PC, her husband does not even say hello and at 7:30 I ask about dinner (after 2 hours of removing his porn viruses) and get told the we would be having curried scallops at 9pm. I just got up and we left. we had maccas on the way home.
a couple of months later on my birthday, she called and i let it go to voicemail as I was having a good night and did not want to deal with her, she left a voice mail and I made the mistake of listening to it. so much passive aggressiveness, "I guess you don't want to talk to your mother on your birthday" etc. I have not spoken to her since. I did send her a txt when my first child was born, but did not hear back, so did not bother with the second.
@@myopinion69420 sounds like you aren't missing anything important with her out of your life.
@@abiean222 honestly, the only thing she brought to the table was reminding me of birthdays of distant relatives I met once when I was 3.
I hooted at the part where she told her son she was "glad he put his foot down." I had to pause because it really took me a minute to process exactly how bats-t this woman is. She really sat there and believed that her son fought for them to go to that dinner with the baby. Despite all of her sons words and actions, she truly believes that he's being manipulated and coerced into cutting her off. And in the end, she's willing to go so far as to try to make it so they can't sell their old home... Dang. I feel bad for any family that moves into that house after-there's no telling what she'll do.
She believes that because that is what she does to maintain control, she just sees DIL as competition.
I was in labor for 24hrs before having an emergency Csection, that procedure left me unable to properly walk, or care for myself. This ladys expectations are insane oh my god. This woman is insane, I didnt want to see anyone for at least a week, and Im a single mother and was almost completely reliant on the people in my house. If someone had been as crazy as this woman oml i dont know what i would do this is crazy
Yep. Called it. The minute B said "your house is not fit for children", I knew it was a hoarder situation. Hoarders commonly have alot of underlining mental issues, and often substance issues. So it's not hard to imagine that OP is probably an all around mess that her son's family is trying to avoid.
One thing that hasn't been remarked on: kudos to David for having the strength to get tf out of dodge and protect his family, even in the earliest stages. That's not always the easiest thing for children of narcissists to do
Being the son of a crazy parent will do that to you.
Thank gods I had such a high self preservation instinct lmao
Hmmm 🤔 I wonder why the daughter in law doesn’t want a relationship… and why the son hid the daughter in law in the first place…. Hmmmmmmmmm…….
I looked it up on reddit. after getting slammed on reddit (which she blamed on it being a young people site because apparently older karens agree with her), she turned to r/legaladvice making a query about grandparents rights. got slammed there as well. then she posted an update saying she had gone to see a lawyer (she can get herself to a lawyer but not to the hospital/son & dil's house) and is going to sue them for grandparents rights. from the comments I read, she has other children as well (and grandchildren) but she is no contact with them. gee, I wonder why? she definitely pulled this with them as well and they cut her out. now it's her son's turn.
Her own daughter is on/off LC/NC with her.
She claims that Über doesn't run in David and Bea's town, but it likely does run to a bigger, metropolitan city where she'd find a lawyer.
The older granddaughter's mum _also_ doesn't want OP associated with her. When both mothers of the children are in agreement, you know that OP is the actual problem. However, she _also_ believes that the older girl's mum doesn't have the capacity to care for her child 'due to cultural differences.'
I doubt OP had the good relationship with the 10-year-old that she believes. She likely saw her regularly for his custody time because Daivd lived with her and once he moved out, his custody time took place at his new home.
OP _ALSO_ posted again after Mother's Day. Either DramaKing or Ask A Lawyer (two channels, same person, I don't remember which) in which she acts out against Bea again.
ETA: I mentioned Mother's Day because I hadn't reached that part of the video yet.
The way she said he hid her for 6months and it’s like… that isn’t that far to me? Like, around 6 months it’s getting serious and I understand it might be long for some but…. It doesn’t seem like it’s weird to wait until 6 months to meet a partner you’re serious with
@@slytherinlibrarian3501 yeah I should've waited to the end of the video. I honestly didn't think it was all one story. absolutely insane.
@@iridescentsolace didn't they say it was during covid?
Another thing about the painkillers, she just had a 3 DAY LABOUR, she'd need to know right away if she was in pain for her own safety!! If she was in pain, that'd be something was horribly wrong and she needed to go back to the hospital, why would she jeopardize that so OP can see the newborn baby she has no rights to??
Because in op's eyes the world revolves around her.
That was one of the best RSlash episodes.
That escalated way quickly and I am here for it 😂
That poor daughter-in-law. So glad the husband sees his mother for who she is and is dealing with it.
BROOOO I AM SO HEATED RN
I’m an expecting mother. My son is due in October. And I have to say, Bea handled this a LOT more gracefully than I ever would have. Good on Bea and her husband for cutting out that toxic grandmother. Also having a toxic grandmother, I cannot imagine the repercussions that those poor girls would’ve had to go through if she hadn’t of been blocked by the parents.
The worst kind of people are the ones that want to give a good image for others while treating the known ones like shit, and these people still have children, then it's really difficult for the children when everibody seems to be on the parent side, i know that.
Imagine gaining a last generation videogame and your mother telling the gifter to switch for a ball because she didn't think you deserve it.
I would love for this son and DIL to move very, very, very far away and go no contact. This shit is crazy
Congrats on the kid though, dont turn into an evil future grandma/in-law
Congrats on the kid though, dont turn into an evil future grandma/in-law
She just needs a psych ward for the rest of her life. There's no amount of therapy, no matter how professional, that will change a mind like hers. She's beyond help and the best course of action is keep her somewhere she can't hurt herself, her friends, her ex-family.
Honestly agreed. Im normally one of those people who would say maybe she can change. But with a crazy delusional mindset like that and her ignoring all the signs that her son and DIL want nothing to do with her and want her as far away as possible. Ya she definitely needs to be in a padded room
@@nicholassanabria6493 the problem with someone like this getting help, is first they gotta genuinely want help, and to do that they gotta believe they need help
which is where the hold up, if she's got what i think she got, she's not wired in a way that allows her to reflect on herself and realize she's the problem, she CAN'T recognize she needs help, and consequently can't want help
@@d3str0i3r Until she does something, anyway. Law might force her.
@@d3str0i3r I'd agree with you. I've got a lovely cocktail of mental illnesses myself so I'd prefer she get so genuine help. But like you said, she doesn't seem to have the part of her brain (or it just doesn't function how it's supposed to) that tell right from wrong. I don't think she knows what she's done is wrong, I think she genuinely believes that she's in the right, an honestly she can't be blamed for that because as messed up as the stuff she's done, she has no actual control over it.
It's like, yeah I'm pretty pissed at what she did to her own family, but I also feel pity because I've also been in situations that my mental health puts me in that I'd desperately like to have control over but don't.
@@d3str0i3reven if someone with NPD does go to therapy and stays in therapy, they usually just learn what therapists want to hear and repeat it to them
"I'm going to stalk my son to rebuild his trust" really sums up OP.
The family needs a restraining order against this woman. Not because it will keep her away, but because it will put her in jail WHEN she infringes on it. Pretty sure that's the only thing that will keep them safe from her at this point. Good on them for doing a surprise relocation though.
Yeah I 100% agree with you. This woman is not gonna stop until she does something that puts her behind bars.
Or with some lead in her head
@lefevrecorinne7608 Judging by how she acts, I think there may be lead in her brain already.
Dabney. Whatever you do. PLEASE keep tabs on this story and make a video any time you see an update. Please. This is too good.
Ah there’s no better way to rebuild trust like hiring a PI to hunt down your son so you can reestablish contact by force
The really crazy part is how quickly she shifts between apologizing, and doubling down, and apologizing again and quintupling down!..
I don't blame her son moving from out of nowhere and keeping silent about his personal life. The lady is deranged. Who in the hell sues for grandparent rights? This is one ticket to "No contact station" in "Please do not speak to me ever again" city.
Thank you thank you thank you for respecting the "Do not share this anywhere else" that Bea likely wrote! This is why you're my favourite Reddit reader. You want us to enjoy the stories you find but you genuinely care for the story OPs and want to respect them as well. You don't put CZcams profits over human souls. I love you so much for that. I hope you and your family find extra luck and joy shower upon you for the goodness you show! 💜
Agreed. RSlash is respectful, and therefore respectable.
It makes his AITA videos so much better, knowing that he's got a functioning moral compass.
That said, I would have really liked to hear Bea's side; and I don't want to make a Reddit account. And, there's really no expectation of privacy when posting on a public forum.
So I kinda wish he hadn't teased it if he wasn't going to share.
@@davesaylor7829sadly some people have posted it in another comment thread. It is pretty much what you would expect. Respect for Rslash for not revealing it... shame not all his viewers are as decent as him.
It wasn’t that he didn’t want to share it, it was because he couldn’t. The post was deleted over a month ago.
@@jennbuchanan8694 He literally said he knew the details but didn’t even want to _say those_ because Bea asked that her post not get shared. So yes, he was choosing not to share the info from Bea because he _didn’t want to._
It's respectful that he didn't repeat it, but honestly..... don't post something on the internet that you don't want to last forever. Especially something getting as much attention as this. She can't seriously expect it to not get screenshoted and repeated. People are absolutely going to post it and go looking for it. He might have done better by not even mentioning there was another post so most wouldn't seek it out
The lady sounds absolutely off her rocker. The only thing I can kind of agree with is, when you decide to cut people off, you can't expect to be in the will. The family in question clearly did the right thing, this lady is insane.absolutely beyond crazy.
"What you said was NOT an apology. You apologized for what you did to hurt my feelings, not that my feelings were hurt." I don't know what sort of backwards world Bea is living in, but that's what you're supposed to do when you apologize. You're supposed to apologize for your actions, not the way that the recipient feels. That's callous and mean. Did Bea really want her to say "I'm sorry that you felt that way", as opposed to "I'm sorry for what I did to hurt you."?
That was confusing to me, but at the same time she JUST had a baby and her psycho MIL is threatening to off herself and sue for custody, I think we can give her a pass for one small confusion when her MIL is batshit insane
You don't have money for a cab but you have money for a lawyer.
and saving up for private investigator
And (allegedly) for a therapist. AND she manages to get to all of them on her own.
she has money for a cab, its just a power move on her son. its a way of saying "my wants are more important then your time"
Sometimes you forget that people who’re actually insane aren’t fully aware of it, and then you get stories like these where she can’t see her wrong doings, apologises for them without sincerity and continues to do more wrongs. Clearly Bea caught right onto the manipulation that was happening which is why she wasn’t having any of it, also why the son moved out without saying anything. Why their entire family moved without saying anything, that Mother’s Day lunch was probably her last chance and she screwed it up with her backhanded compliment to her son while trashing his wife. She ruined this for herself because she couldn’t be any semblance of normal, I say this as someone who has their unstable moments
"My plan is to hire a private investigator to find my son and then rebuild our relationship and his trust..."
How much trust are you planning to rebuild after your son realizes you hired a P.I. to find him after he went no contact?
I had a old roommate (72) who was just as crazy as OP. Manipulative, narcissistic, psychopathic and a whole other host of crazy. She was a fake Christian too. Her own family saw very little of her and it was clear the daughter was keeping her at finger tips length. She was evicted from our house and left a whole notebook to psychotic ramblings wishing people in the house dead etc. she canceled her last rent check and cut all the lamp cords in her room before leaving. She stashed a moldy banana in the living room couch cushions. She cut the cord to another roommates iron she kept in the laundry room. She vandalized an antique painting in the living room and it was blamed on another problem roommate ( that's another story) and she hid and threw out a cushion to an antique chair in the house. She relished in creating drama and wasn't happy unless others were miserable. I can't imagine being THAT level of crazy to where you drive everyone away. It's insane how people are!