Tyrone Holmes
Tyrone Holmes
  • 112
  • 172 929
3 Barriers to Effective Listening (And What to Do About It)
We don't always listen very well but there are reasons for our listening ineffectiveness. This video describes 3 barriers to effective listening, which include a natural tendency to want to speak first, negative feelings regarding the speaker or topic and our ability to think much faster than we can speak. More significantly, the video identifies 6 steps we can take to improve our ability to listen and understand our communication partners.
zhlédnutí: 39

Video

How to Communicate When Your VALUES are Different
zhlédnutí 43Před měsícem
At one time or another, every one of us has interacted with someone whose values and beliefs differ from our own. Whether these differences are based on religion, politics, morals, work ethic or some other value, it can negatively impact communication and the development of productive relationships. This video describes 5 actions we can take to improve communication with people who have differe...
Equity, Empathy and Your Role As An Ally Promo Video for ITC
zhlédnutí 15Před měsícem
This is the promotional video for a 4 session Equity, Empathy and Your Role as An Ally series I am facilitating for ITC Holdings beginning in June 2024.
When English is NOT the Primary Language
zhlédnutí 208Před měsícem
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, more than 68 million Americans speak a language other than English at home. That's about 1 in every 5 people. There are at least 350 different languages spoken in the U.S., which means there are millions of Americans for whom English is NOT the primary language. This video describes 5 actions we can take to improve communication with these individuals. It re...
The Problem with Cultural Noise
zhlédnutí 51Před 2 měsíci
This is the fifth video in the series I am developing on NOISE, which is anything that interferes with the accurate transmission of a message between a sender and a receiver. Cultural noise is noise that is grounded in our differences such as race, religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation, job position, gender, socioeconomic status or personality type. This video describes three ways...
3 Ways to Overcome Emotional Noise
zhlédnutí 55Před 2 měsíci
This is the fourth video in the series I am developing on NOISE, which is anything that interferes with the accurate transmission of a message between a sender and a receiver. Emotional noise is a specific type of internal noise and what makes it unique is that our emotions interfere with the communication of our message. The current video offers three actions we can take to lower the volume of...
Unconscious Bias & Uncomfortable Conversations Promo Video for Meritage Homes
zhlédnutí 74Před 3 měsíci
This is the promotional video for the Unconscious Bias and Uncomfortable Conversations workshop I am facilitating on April 18, 2024 for the Multicultural ERG at Meritage Homes.
Reduce External Noise by Planning Ahead
zhlédnutí 47Před 3 měsíci
This is the third video in a series I am developing on NOISE, which is anything that interferes with the accurate transmission of a message between a sender and a receiver. External noise is noise that emanates from outside of us. It's any background stimulus that can distract us during a conversation. The current video offers two actions we can take to lower the volume of external noise and im...
Reduce Internal Noise by Taking Care of You!
zhlédnutí 371Před 3 měsíci
This video is the second in a series I am developing on NOISE, which is anything that interferes with the accurate transmission of a message between a sender and a receiver. Internal noise is noise that emanates from within us. The best example of internal noise is having something on your mind, which can interfere with the quality and effectiveness of your interactions. The current video offer...
Communication Problems? There's Too Much NOISE!
zhlédnutí 155Před 4 měsíci
This video is the first in a series on NOISE, which is defined as anything that interferes with the accurate transmission of a message between a sender and a receiver. It is noise that interferes with our ability to communicate and there are 4 types of noise: internal, external, emotional and cultural.
Why Empathy is So Important
zhlédnutí 152Před 4 měsíci
This is the seventh video in my series on empathy and the first to answer the question, why is empathy so important? I describe 3 important benefits of engaging in empathetic behavior: building a stronger connection between diverse human beings, correctly understanding what another person is seeking and making sure others understand what you seek and need from them.
Another 2 Ways to Demonstrate Empathy
zhlédnutí 110Před 5 měsíci
This video is the sixth in my series on empathy. As yet another "microlearning" video, it describes two additional actions we can take to powerfully demonstrate empathy: Use MINIMAL REINFORCERS and OFFER HELP.
2 More Ways to Demonstrate Empathy
zhlédnutí 104Před 5 měsíci
This video is the fifth in my series on empathy. It's another "microlearning" video in that it is specifically designed to teach a particular skill, which in this case is withholding judgment and using self-disclosure to demonstrate empathy and to be seen as an effective listener and communicator.
2 Simple Ways to Demonstrate Empathy
zhlédnutí 182Před 6 měsíci
This video is the fourth in a series I am developing on empathy. It's another "microlearning" video in that it is specifically designed to teach a particular skill, which in this case, is the use of open-ended questions and sentence prefixes to demonstrate empathy and to be seen as an effective listener and communicator.
3 Sentence Prefixes That Power Your Active Listening
zhlédnutí 181Před 6 měsíci
This video is the third in a series I am developing on empathy. It's another "microlearning" video in that it is specifically designed to teach a particular skill, which in this case, is the use of 3 sentence prefixes that make active listening easier by creating a structure for paraphrasing what your communication partner has said to you.
Active Listening: The Key Skill of Empathy
zhlédnutí 143Před 7 měsíci
Active Listening: The Key Skill of Empathy
The Role of Empathy in Allyship
zhlédnutí 54Před 7 měsíci
The Role of Empathy in Allyship
Allyship: Empowering Outsiders Through Sponsorship
zhlédnutí 49Před 8 měsíci
Allyship: Empowering Outsiders Through Sponsorship
Allyship: 5 Ways to Amplify the Voice of an Outsider
zhlédnutí 70Před 8 měsíci
Allyship: 5 Ways to Amplify the Voice of an Outsider
What is Allyship? Promo Video for ITC
zhlédnutí 34Před 8 měsíci
What is Allyship? Promo Video for ITC
Allyship: 5 Practices of a High-Value Mentor
zhlédnutí 78Před 8 měsíci
Allyship: 5 Practices of a High-Value Mentor
What is Allyship? Promo Video for AZSGMP
zhlédnutí 41Před 9 měsíci
What is Allyship? Promo Video for AZSGMP
Allyship: 5 Key Behaviors of an Effective Confidant
zhlédnutí 152Před 9 měsíci
Allyship: 5 Key Behaviors of an Effective Confidant
What is Allyship? Promo Video for NEI
zhlédnutí 22Před 9 měsíci
What is Allyship? Promo Video for NEI
What is Allyship
zhlédnutí 118Před 9 měsíci
What is Allyship
How to Practice Your Presentation: Know the Order
zhlédnutí 381Před 10 měsíci
How to Practice Your Presentation: Know the Order
How to Practice Your Presentation: Rehearse Your Story
zhlédnutí 236Před 10 měsíci
How to Practice Your Presentation: Rehearse Your Story
Affinity Bias and Your Comfort Zone
zhlédnutí 239Před rokem
Affinity Bias and Your Comfort Zone
How to Practice Your Presentation: Rehearse Frequent Statements
zhlédnutí 144Před rokem
How to Practice Your Presentation: Rehearse Frequent Statements
Unconscious Bias & Uncomfortable Conversations for NNE Marketing
zhlédnutí 26Před rokem
Unconscious Bias & Uncomfortable Conversations for NNE Marketing

Komentáře

  • @themandalalady
    @themandalalady Před 6 dny

    as someone who is hearing impaired, I would SO LOVE IT if people annunciated better and slowed down. ❤

  • @111figvam111
    @111figvam111 Před měsícem

    stop feeding people with such bullshit

  • @trineemoore9770
    @trineemoore9770 Před 2 měsíci

    Once and again, Excellent information

  • @PathsOfReason
    @PathsOfReason Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing. This is brilliant.

  • @theofficialMaestro
    @theofficialMaestro Před 3 měsíci

    havent seen a chris rock similarity comment yet

  • @ak-tx6kj
    @ak-tx6kj Před 3 měsíci

    Really struggle with my Lisp to articulate myself ur advise has been life changing god bless u sir

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 měsíci

      I am very happy this has been helpful for you!

  • @sametekiz3709
    @sametekiz3709 Před 3 měsíci

    great idea.

  • @PoliticaV
    @PoliticaV Před 3 měsíci

    Very effective speaker.

  • @naimatullahbhi
    @naimatullahbhi Před 3 měsíci

    Second what what do you say ,this happenes to me i am like this

  • @prakashmungekar3119
    @prakashmungekar3119 Před 4 měsíci

    Reduce the rate of your speech.... Brilliant. Thanks for sharing.

  • @TyroneHolmes
    @TyroneHolmes Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you!

  • @user-zf2me4tq4w
    @user-zf2me4tq4w Před 4 měsíci

    C'est un bon enseignant

  • @liviu445
    @liviu445 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm an introvert to the core, but presenting has gotten so much easier to the point that I can clearly speak and even improvise, it is not a perishable skill.

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 6 měsíci

      I’m so glad to hear this. I’m an introvert as well but I feel very comfortable speaking in front of people after doing so for a long time. Practice goes a long way!

  • @user-zf2me4tq4w
    @user-zf2me4tq4w Před 7 měsíci

    C'est de l'art !! Je mal l'anglais je vais trouver de l'inspiration avec vous

  • @odysodys1098
    @odysodys1098 Před 7 měsíci

    And keep your body and head still, a minimum of head movement. People will take you more seriously.

  • @user-zf2me4tq4w
    @user-zf2me4tq4w Před 8 měsíci

    Bonjour Monsieur, j'aime beaucoup votre manière donc vous parlez. Aidez moi pour devenir compétent

  • @KasaBlanca007
    @KasaBlanca007 Před 8 měsíci

    My left ear is smarter now because of this video, thank you.

  • @mohammedal-muqimi8562
    @mohammedal-muqimi8562 Před 8 měsíci

    😍😍

  • @zach.bashir
    @zach.bashir Před 8 měsíci

    excellent, thank you

  • @user-zf2me4tq4w
    @user-zf2me4tq4w Před 9 měsíci

    Bonsoir Monsieur, j'aime beaucoup votre travail,je voudrais être en contact avec vous pour mieux apprendre

  • @bean-a-dine8488
    @bean-a-dine8488 Před rokem

    Good job this helped with my college homework there's not enough about social affinity on the net

  • @Valentino016
    @Valentino016 Před rokem

    I used to be so quiet I couldnt even say hello to people. I did a drama performance and the person I played was a mute person. After that I got more into theatre and my public speaking changed drastically overtime. I started using tone I started to think before I speak. The art of language is truly amazing. But im still quite an introvert.

  • @charliestipsandtricks669

    thank you so much

  • @Vaultyboi22
    @Vaultyboi22 Před 2 lety

    I agree with the whole point of affinity bias i just believe it is heavily misconstrued how that works. Many go off the assumption that it is race/sex based, but if i see a relatively well dressed black man i will be 100x more likely to sit/associate myself with him than a poorly dressed white man with baggy jeans and a wife beater. And the opposite was true when i was poorer, i would never even dream of hanging out with people that are wearing classy dress shirts and khakis, not because i looked down on them, but rather i knew it was less likely for me to have similar hobbies and such But i dont think this is a bad bias at all, its perfectly normal and even healthy to hang out with people that have more in common with you. I mean its just basic human sense, if you're in a room woth someone that hates pets, loves sports, hates videogames, loves movies and so on, and you have the exact opposite likes and dislikes it just makes sense you wouldnt get along

  • @shabdavedhi
    @shabdavedhi Před 2 lety

    I'm bowled by this amazing presentation! In India we are in dire need of such fired up teachers/professors!

  • @meryamle6270
    @meryamle6270 Před 2 lety

    Great presentation 👏👏👏👏😍

  • @katrinaanota9362
    @katrinaanota9362 Před 2 lety

    thank u sir

  • @AntiMasonic93
    @AntiMasonic93 Před 2 lety

    When employers see that the candidate is a Black, it is a game changer. They don't want to hire Black people. I hate implicit/unconscious biases.

  • @cristianstoica4544
    @cristianstoica4544 Před 3 lety

    Late to the party but... two things. You are clearly articulate and what you say makes sense in many ways. Second, although I don't know where you see or like to see yourself on the woke continuum, you may want to reevaluate the use of 'inclusive language' metaphor when talking to a large audience as you suggest. Otherwise, all the best.

  • @thesouthpawangle9226
    @thesouthpawangle9226 Před 3 lety

    I took something from today too. Thank you!

  • @vidstige7516
    @vidstige7516 Před 3 lety

    My left ear enjoyed this

    • @sovereigneats
      @sovereigneats Před 3 lety

      Hahaha lol exactly

    • @iduenejustice6579
      @iduenejustice6579 Před 8 měsíci

      Lol

    • @TheSkeletor1993
      @TheSkeletor1993 Před 6 měsíci

      I’ve been trying to figure out what was wrong with my headphones and then I saw your comment.

    • @premlatasingh3431
      @premlatasingh3431 Před 5 měsíci

      Left side of my headphone's doesn't work and I was wondering that why I am not able to hear. After reading your comment I realized the issue then I removed the headset to listen to the video. :D

    • @ILLRICARDO
      @ILLRICARDO Před 4 měsíci

      Shame I am deaf in my left ear.😢

  • @breatheeasily4013
    @breatheeasily4013 Před 3 lety

    In the past, I was a horrible speaker, I would freeze talking to people. Fast foward nowadays, after reading 3 books in 2020 plus practicing with people, I can speak without pausing to think for words. Im becoming articulate and eloquent. Good video.

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 lety

      Thank you. So happy to hear you have made great progress. Well done!

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 Před 3 lety

      @@TyroneHolmes Thank you

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 lety

      @@breatheeasily4013 You're welcome!

    • @futureobituary9661
      @futureobituary9661 Před 3 lety

      Good for you bro keep going 🏆

    • @bujnotbooj
      @bujnotbooj Před 3 lety

      @Breathe Easily - Were those 3 books related to speaking and communication or just general topics of your own interests?

  • @101RealTalker
    @101RealTalker Před 3 lety

    Eminem is a sticker about this....for the right reasons

  • @theengineered1949
    @theengineered1949 Před 3 lety

    I don’t articulate well enough

  • @mrblues5996
    @mrblues5996 Před 3 lety

    Great tip! I am slowly incorporating this into my presentations as well. Meditation, having a flow of thoughts from one topic to the other .. all help me stay relevant and focused on the content I'm trying to present. On a similar note, how should I be better prepared for handling situations like odd audience behavior (checking phone/talking) that can break my chain of thought? Should I call them out of just continue as though nothing happened?

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 lety

      One step you can take is to address these issues from the start by setting expectations for audience behavior. For example, you can ask participants to wait until a break or after the presentation to answer their phones. Another step you can take is to make sure your audience members are actively engaged participants during the sessions. Active participants are less likely to participate in problematic behaviors. I hope this helps.

  • @TheOne9661
    @TheOne9661 Před 3 lety

    Very important tip.

  • @waynegreen7970
    @waynegreen7970 Před 3 lety

    Good content! Are there some drills one can do to improve with this? Currently, I do tongue twisters to help improve my enunciation. I also practice pronouncing 4, 5, 6, and 7 syllable words. With that, I still have trouble speaking publically in small groups and get jumbled over my words. Are there some drills/ techniques one can do to improve with this?

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your feedback and questions. First, look at my response to the comment above. I think that will help. Second, I think what you are doing can be very helpful; however, it's not the same as actually speaking in public. What you want to do is practice what you are actually going to say. For example, I will often practice the opening and closing lines of a presentation until I am comfortable with exactly what I will say. Likewise, a lot of my asynchronous video content is scripted, at least in part. I practice my lines over and over again until they no longer sound scripted. That also improves my ability to speak this content during live, extemporaneous presentations. I hope this helps!

  • @zairagutierrez7538
    @zairagutierrez7538 Před 3 lety

    I'm short (sad) oh well haha

  • @raghdaeltaher9273
    @raghdaeltaher9273 Před 3 lety

    One of the best speeches I have even heard on CZcams!

  • @indian3197
    @indian3197 Před 3 lety

    Great video. Any tips for introvert people who normally hesitate to talk in group or share their views and opinions. While talking, I am unable to get the right words to form the correct sentence. Can you please share your advice?

    • @TyroneHolmes
      @TyroneHolmes Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your feedback. First, I'm an introvert as well. Briefly, the three things I recommend are to think about the words you want to say in a given situation. It's okay to pause, to reflect and to consider what you want to say in a given circumstance. Second, practice, practice and practice some more. The only way to become a better speaker is to speak. Finally, observe people you admire in terms of their ability to articulate themselves. What do they do to get their point across? How are they able to express themselves so effectively? What are they doing to communicate their message? I hope this helps!

  • @whatyouneedtoknow
    @whatyouneedtoknow Před 3 lety

    We also made a video about unconscious bias czcams.com/video/RhqMEiTVICU/video.html I hope you, and your viewers like it.

  • @whatyouneedtoknow
    @whatyouneedtoknow Před 3 lety

    Hi. We made a video about Unconscious Bias czcams.com/video/RhqMEiTVICU/video.html which we thought you might find interesting.

  • @whatyouneedtoknow
    @whatyouneedtoknow Před 3 lety

    Hi. We made a video about Unconscious Bias czcams.com/video/RhqMEiTVICU/video.html which we thought you might find interesting.

  • @vaseemali4004
    @vaseemali4004 Před 3 lety

    Great 👍

  • @ramprasadsharma6170
    @ramprasadsharma6170 Před 4 lety

    Nice

  • @travisharwood4535
    @travisharwood4535 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for the help

  • @rongonza2539
    @rongonza2539 Před 5 lety

    Fact 85% of journalists self align with democrats, hiring democrat journalists is Affinity bias, 85% of reporting is not questioned this is confirmation bias. The mainstream media organization is vowed as unconscious and partisan bias and this is perceived as FAKE NEWS. Thank you.

  • @rongonza2539
    @rongonza2539 Před 5 lety

    FACT: 85% of journalists are Democrats, Affinity bias and selection bias of like minded people, leads to confirmation bias among mainstream media. Biased, partisan and slanted reporting is FAKE News, thank you.

  • @janellenevarezgomez3935

    The beauty bias only works in favor of men. Beautiful women do not get the same rewards. Matter of fact, beautiful women are not taken serious and get stuck in lower positions

  • @jonmichael3362
    @jonmichael3362 Před 5 lety

    Wow. True