Conor Neill
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People are Different... Finding your IKIGAI
Finding your IKIGAI.
IKIGAI is a Japanese concept meaning “A Reason for Being”
People are different. Don't try to be the same, or play the same game as other people. Find your strengths and play your own game.
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill
Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetoricaljourney?feature=mhee
Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
What is Persuasion?
* What does it take to move people to action?
* What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
* How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
Where do I begin?
The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
Free Speaking Course bit.ly/speakpractice
Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.
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What should you change first? Yourself... or your Environment?
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Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetoricaljourney?feature=mhee Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadershi...
Welcome to the 2024 Leadership Retreat | Florian Mueck and Conor Neill | May 6-9 Barcelona
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Welcome to the 2024 Leadership Retreat | Florian Mueck and Conor Neill | May 6-9 Barcelona conorneill.com/leadership-retreat24/ @FlorianMueckSpeaker Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill Visit my...
3 Necessary Keys to Achieve your Goals (State, Strategy, Story)
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To achieve anything, you need 3 ingredients: State, Strategy and Story I think I heard this from Tony Robbins several years ago To fail... you only need to mess up 1 of the 3 Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: twitt...
What do you do with a Spare 30 minutes? | Conor Neill | Leadership
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What do you do when you have a spare 30 minutes? Many "achievement-oriented" individuals do the next task. Stephen Covey says there is a better way... #taketimetothink #clarity Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: twi...
Do you have your Dream Job today? (are you searching?)
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Jim Rohn once asked a lady "is the work you are doing providing for your family, and giving you the growth and challenge you want?" "...No..." and Jim asked "How much time are you searching for the opportunity that will?" Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barc...
What to do when you don't know what to do
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What to do when you don't know what to do Move your Body Help Others Listen to Unconscious Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetoricaljourn...
Compassion and Setting and Holding clear Boundaries (from research by Brene Brown)
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This video explains the connection between being compassionate and good at setting clear boundaries. It covers the reasons why people who show compassion are often better at establishing and upholding boundaries, offers advice on how to improve these skills, and discusses the benefits for personal and professional relationships. Ideal for those interested in emotional intelligence and its impac...
The Single most important aspect of Being Influential
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Understanding the difference between what I want to say and what you need to hear is the single most important ingredient of learning to become influential. When emotion jumps, intelligence drops. Practice using the word “interesting” when you start to feel a surge in emotion. #emotionalintelligence #influence #tiktok #getmunch Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of...
Powerful Coaching Questions: 6 Types of Questions that Great Coaches use
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6 Types of coaching questions: G R E A S E Goals, Responsibility, Explore, Action, Situation, Engage Responsibly with Life Set goals Understand the situation Explore options Provoke action Raise awareness Assume responsibility About Dan Sullivan: @StrategicCoach what are you willing to change to make things better? 3-5 years, what needs to change for you to be personally and professionally fulf...
3 types of Decisions (that require 3 different approaches)
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Inspired by James Clear's recent weekly email - the three types of decisions we take in our lives: hats, haircuts and tattoos In Vistage we approach these 3 types of decisions with 3 different processes: intuition, judgement and perspectives Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetoricaljourney?feature=mhee Conor is a sought-afte...
What do you not do and why not?
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Success is not just what you do... it is also what you deliberately choose to not do each day. Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: conorneill Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetoricalj...
Take time to Think (Why El Bulli is famous?)
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This summer I visited Foundation El Bulli. El Bulli was the world's number 1 restaurant for 10 years. How did chef Ferran Adria turn a small beach bar into the world's top restaurant? He took time to think. Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain. Q...
"It is not the mountain that will wear you out; it is the pebble in your shoe" Muhammad Ali
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"It is not the mountain in front of you that will wear you out; it is the pebble in your shoe" Muhammad Ali Take great care to not accumulate pebbles in your shoe... They will ruin any great adventure Watch carefully for everything that reduces your motivation for the important projects in your life... act soon to remove the "pebble in your shoe" Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Per...
Life is Hard... if you expect much of others... and Easy if...
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Life is Hard... if you expect much of others... and Easy if...
"If you can do your job perfectly well from home... be scared" inspired by @TheProfGShow
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"If you can do your job perfectly well from home... be scared" inspired by @TheProfGShow
The Essential Skills for Being Human... from NYT columnist David Brooks
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The Essential Skills for Being Human... from NYT columnist David Brooks
Everything Worthwhile requires Sacrifice
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Everything Worthwhile requires Sacrifice
The Greatest Distance in the Universe
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The Greatest Distance in the Universe
You can't want it more than them | Conor Neill from Montevideo, Uruguay
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You can't want it more than them | Conor Neill from Montevideo, Uruguay
Setting Coherent Goals: Learn to do Hard Things (love the journey)
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Setting Coherent Goals: Learn to do Hard Things (love the journey)
Finding Meaning and Learning from Setbacks
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Finding Meaning and Learning from Setbacks
"Without a Goal, you can't Score" | from Ireland, the Ring of Kerry
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"Without a Goal, you can't Score" | from Ireland, the Ring of Kerry
New Online Program - Persuasive Communication: Developing the Logos-based Persuasive Speech
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New Online Program - Persuasive Communication: Developing the Logos-based Persuasive Speech
Active Patience vs Passive Patience | "Stand in the Traffic" to get what you want...
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Active Patience vs Passive Patience | "Stand in the Traffic" to get what you want...
Customer Strategy: How to build a High Value Business as an Entrepreneur
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Customer Strategy: How to build a High Value Business as an Entrepreneur
Strong Boundaries in Leadership will Irritate Others... and that's a Good Thing
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Strong Boundaries in Leadership will Irritate Others... and that's a Good Thing
New Online Course: Leading Oneself and Others | Now available
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New Online Course: Leading Oneself and Others | Now available
There Are No Solutions, Only Trade-offs | Conor Neill | Leadership
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There Are No Solutions, Only Trade-offs | Conor Neill | Leadership
Exceptional Results
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Exceptional Results

Komentáře

  • @anadi6530
    @anadi6530 Před 2 hodinami

    Thanks 🙏

  • @roel3377
    @roel3377 Před 16 hodinami

    I just did this. And I feel a lot more confident already!! I also recorded a video for myself to open in 10 years.

  • @salaammazloum912
    @salaammazloum912 Před 22 hodinami

    Interdependence/competition with self > codependency/comparison. The odyssey of a son avenging his own identity from perceived prior life paternal defeat is a tale told as old as helenic times of those who dared to cross seas for trade and climb mountains for networking. I appreciate your channel's message. Thank you for what you do.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 21 hodinou

      Thank you 🙏 and yes, my story has been repeated 150,000 times since the beginning of Homo sapiens as a species!

  • @BishopKisato
    @BishopKisato Před dnem

    How can i get that Picture you shown on the screen,about IKIGAI? Thanks

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 20 hodinami

      you can download it from the blog post here conorneill.com/2024/05/13/people-are-different-finding-your-ikigai/ I think you should be able to right click and hit download

  • @Ariffarazi
    @Ariffarazi Před dnem

    Nice

  • @gavada8596
    @gavada8596 Před dnem

    Thank you sir! Really inspiring!

  • @FlorianMueckSpeaker

    You are certainly different, my friend. It is so great to be on this IKIGAI trip together. Can't wait to be back at this wonderful Villa Almanita for the second edition of our Buffalo Leadership Retreat.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 21 hodinou

      It was some of the most valuable learning and change for me in the last year 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thefurnitureartistscollective

    Hi Conor, as always, this snippet is extremely valuable. Would you be open to presenting a piece on what to do when you've fallen out of love with your business? I work in coaching and am still very new to it. I love the research, the learning, the self-development and the massive strides I've made towards becoming a better leader via your example.. But sometimes, I find that there's so much demand from students to give more and more and more and yet they go away and do nothing with the learning that it kind of feels like a big waste of everyone's time. Very sad because I genuinely want to deliver value and help people change their business and their lives for the better. but indifference and apathy is killing it

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 21 hodinou

      When anyone asks me for “advice” I always ask “why is this important for you?” And if they cannot express why it matters, I do not share any advice/experiences/tools

    • @thefurnitureartistscollective
      @thefurnitureartistscollective Před 21 hodinou

      @@ConorNeill@ConorNeill That's a poignant question and a lesson in itself. The question produced an unexpected emotional response. I don't have a "snappy" answer, it deserves more than that. I appreciate the steer towards some deep self-reflection and a considered response. Thank you

  • @juliovildosola1075
    @juliovildosola1075 Před 2 dny

    Proper deep this content!. The temptation to follow the exact same path as mentors, bosses or even parents is clear, if only to make them "proud". But as you say, we are indeed different so more likely than not these paths are not the right ones.

  • @johanzlarines2767
    @johanzlarines2767 Před 3 dny

    05/15/2024

  • @MJayB26
    @MJayB26 Před 3 dny

    Wow, another beautifully crafted message. Very much needed today. Thank you so much.

  • @audreybrotherson5624

    We are all uniquely created with talents, gifts and skills and we must use them accordingly! An inspiring presentation

  • @JosephAkoc
    @JosephAkoc Před 3 dny

    It's a good speaking really, I appreciate it

  • @mxd7713
    @mxd7713 Před 3 dny

    Hi Mr Conor Neill, I love the way you give advices and explaining by examples, do you give permission to translate your videos into my language and putting on to You tube, I mean your videos but in another language, sorry for my english

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 20 hodinami

      Go ahead... there are lots of my videos out there in different languages... I create to share these ideas, and for my own personal journey of learning

  • @richardhuang7586
    @richardhuang7586 Před 3 dny

    Each one of us has a gift that is unique in our own way. The best thing we can do in life is to maximize this gift and share it to the world

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 20 hodinami

      although it is very important to remember that people only value what they pay for in some way... "free advice" is never taken... if someone doesn't pay with something (can be showing up on time, can be doing the homework, can be with money, can be any way that they show that they are committed)

  • @nickkemp9848
    @nickkemp9848 Před 4 dny

    "The art of life is to learn how to be yourself." Love this. I guess this is one of our greatest struggles, to fully accept ourselves. Just a heads on the Venn diagram. While inspiring, it is not Japanese in origin and doesn't accurately convey ikigai in the context of Japanese culture. For Japanese, ikigai doesn't require payment and you don't have to be good at your ikigai. For example, an ikigai source could be a new life affirming hobby you have just started - one that you wouldn't be good at, something you are doing for yourself that is intrinsically motivating, where you are not seeking payment, but instead are are wanting to learn and grow. Rather than being a sweet spot, ikigai is a spectrum of the small joys, people, relations, hobbies, aspects of your work, goals etc that make life feel worth living.It certainly involves purpose, but it doesn't have to be about finding a single grand purpose in life. Ikigai includes feeling a sense of purpose in one's everyday tasks and activities that makes one's life feel worth living as a whole. I hope this perspective offers some value.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 3 dny

      Thank you for the valuable perspective on the origins of IKIGAI

    • @nickkemp9848
      @nickkemp9848 Před 3 dny

      @@ConorNeill Thanks for being open to it, Conor. Love your content.

  • @andreashulten2161
    @andreashulten2161 Před 4 dny

    Thanks Conor! Really interresting!

  • @osamaissa1694
    @osamaissa1694 Před 4 dny

    I wish your thoughts would never end, Thanks a zillion Sir for your videos. Keep going ❤

  • @alanward992
    @alanward992 Před 4 dny

    Hit the nail on the head, Connor! Thanks for sharing!

  • @srenporskrog1431
    @srenporskrog1431 Před 4 dny

    Excellent Conor! Thanks. I just realised that I knrw IKIGAI already. Jim Collins' book Good to Great has almost the same concept: What you can be the best in the world at, What you are deeply passionate about, and What drives your economic engine. Maybe Collins got the inspiration from IKIGAI 😉 to his Hedgehog Concept. I just wrote about standing on the shoulders of my father on LinkedIn the other day. Now I can write about why my sister and I are not doing the same although we stand on the shoulders of the same father AND I am a bot more aware of how to lead different people differently. Thanks ❤

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 3 dny

      The hedgehog 🦔- you are right! Great connection between worlds!

  • @rishiraj2548
    @rishiraj2548 Před 4 dny

    😌🙏💯

  • @sirajkhoso8564
    @sirajkhoso8564 Před 4 dny

    But Connor, I may be arguing with you because besides being in life what qualities we have, we often imitate or try to follow our role models? Is that anything bad and should it be avoided???

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 4 dny

      you have to test out some things, and ways of being, in order to discover what you like, what you are good at... so there is a need for some copying and practicing early on in your career

    • @sirajkhoso8564
      @sirajkhoso8564 Před 4 dny

      @@ConorNeill got it. Thanks

  • @sirajkhoso8564
    @sirajkhoso8564 Před 4 dny

    Bravos ❤

  • @balakrishnaprabhunallendra999

    Any given point in time ,each one of us is UNIQUE.... You are Original in your shape!. Try to imbibe that idea of uniqueness & cultivate the same!

  • @Umar-tc2uf
    @Umar-tc2uf Před 4 dny

    ❤😊

  • @Nicktuck333
    @Nicktuck333 Před 4 dny

    Thank you, this helps me a lot especially number 3.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill Před 20 hodinami

      I am beginning to think that number 3 is the core and any lasting long term systematic change you want to make, has to happen at the level of story (or "being")

  • @thegraciefighter102

    It’s a good speech with great tips but Conor does need to work on his body language - constantly touching his nose or clapping hands together

  • @ThiagoSilva-dj9qz
    @ThiagoSilva-dj9qz Před 6 dny

    We need more Mandela?Omg😮

  • @PinkFlowers365
    @PinkFlowers365 Před 7 dny

    Great tysm!

  • @MuhammadSaleem-st4dc

    Alot of loves to you from pakistan

  • @Sqmueel.
    @Sqmueel. Před 9 dny

    "A value you would Share with a Child as the Basis of A Good Life"

  • @hormishimzing4910
    @hormishimzing4910 Před 11 dny

    👍

  • @user-ox1yq4fv4n
    @user-ox1yq4fv4n Před 11 dny

    Seeing this late, but the ideas are still powerful

  • @retd.col.harbanssarnraspea6264

    Thanks🌹🙏. A very useful and informative vedio.

  • @Marrow9000
    @Marrow9000 Před 12 dny

    Opening up a speech with a FALSE face is a way to get people's attention.....also unethical or ignorant.

  • @DandreKelly-xp9ib
    @DandreKelly-xp9ib Před 15 dny

    you bring such joy and knowledge to your viewers, it's amazing!

  • @ABBASUNIVERSE
    @ABBASUNIVERSE Před 15 dny

    Beautiful, thank you for this.

  • @muhammadkhanakamk7317

    Awesome stuff! Thank you!

  • @Zaykai777
    @Zaykai777 Před 18 dny

    5:55

  • @sirajkhoso8564
    @sirajkhoso8564 Před 18 dny

    ❤❤❤

  • @johnkey777
    @johnkey777 Před 18 dny

    Fast and direct to the point. Really strong advices and information. Congrats and than you so much!

  • @UlrichBlode-vu7vt
    @UlrichBlode-vu7vt Před 18 dny

    One should ask: Why did I win? Why did I lose? Did I win because I was so good (training, commitment, knowledge) or I did win because the situation/competitor did not require much effort to overcome.

  • @user-nl6yd4sx4k
    @user-nl6yd4sx4k Před 19 dny

    I'm watching your videos to learn english...❤

  • @mdimranulaziz9976
    @mdimranulaziz9976 Před 19 dny

    Fabulous sir.....

  • @clementgoodliving6399

    Sunday, 28.04.2024 I will stick to this advise and make a consistent practice until I become the greatest speaker I could be.

  • @JimDorman
    @JimDorman Před 21 dnem

    There are more people alive today.

  • @cleisonarmandomanriqueagui9176

    i guess its more than 10000 hours , its your whole life , its how you really are , when you fell happy in a certain field time stops and you feel free , then the start in you heart start to bright . Main difference its just few people really find what they are really good at when childs ,some find late and some never find it . "When you find your passion , discipline is the least important thing" .

  • @nachotilestoneinc.941
    @nachotilestoneinc.941 Před 21 dnem

    I agree with everything but honestly leo messi was a natural. He didn’t need to practice he was born with that gift no amount of practice will get you to the level of Messi. Im not saying he doesn’t need to practice to stay in shape.

  • @UXXV
    @UXXV Před 23 dny

    This taught me nothing.

  • @duibanglarkobita7899
    @duibanglarkobita7899 Před 24 dny

    great