What to do when you don't know what to do

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  • čas přidán 17. 03. 2024
  • What to do when you don't know what to do
    Move your Body
    Help Others
    Listen to Unconscious
    Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
    Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: / conorneill
    Visit my channel for more videos: czcams.com/users/rhetorica...
    Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
    What is Persuasion?
    * What does it take to move people to action?
    * What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
    * How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
    These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
    Where do I begin?
    The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
    10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
    14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
    Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
    6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
    17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
    Free Speaking Course bit.ly/speakpractice
    Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

Komentáře • 62

  • @user-xd7ll3ee3m
    @user-xd7ll3ee3m Před 2 měsíci +7

    Thank you Sir. Couldn't be better put. Taking a walk has been a great stabilizer for me when I am anxious. 7 years ago I almost gave up something special because of stress, but after a long walk, I settled my thoughts and decided to hold on, and today, it's the most beautiful blessing of my life. Thanks Conor

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Years ago I think I heard Tony Robbins talking about "strategic recipes" - and what he meant was a process that guaranteed to put you in a positive, abundant, grateful, curious state - and some of my recipes are walking, exercise, listening (and playing) to music...

    • @user-xd7ll3ee3m
      @user-xd7ll3ee3m Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ConorNeill❤

  • @joseluishuertasfernandez4892
    @joseluishuertasfernandez4892 Před 2 měsíci +4

    For me, #1 and #3 clearly work. #2 not so much. When I'm struggling and I think of others who matter to me and what they would expect from me (sons, wife, parents, friends...) I become absolutely terrified and the pressure makes me feel paralyzed, making the situation worse. But I guess everyone is different and others can find the right amount of motivation and inspiration.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci

      I have a list of people that are always positive for me to speak to... not everyone is on that list!

  • @catalinamariei9037
    @catalinamariei9037 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you, Sir!
    Since I found your channel, a couple of months ago, not just I, at my midlife time, have found answers to my questions but, as I use to send the links to my 20yo daughter, she found valuable life lesons in it. So... 2xThank you!

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +3

      I love that. I have 2 daughters and I am really just practicing my stories here so I can share the stories with them when they are searching for ideas ;-)

  • @MuhammadSaleem-st4dc
    @MuhammadSaleem-st4dc Před měsícem +1

    Hi Sir:
    I love your convincing thoughts ! You are a source of inspiration and a model to look for!
    Keep sharing and we will desperate to learn from you!
    Alots of loves from Pakistan!!

  • @za7125
    @za7125 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This was in right time because I'm now in this state...
    Thank you 💚

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +2

      I'm glad it was helpful. A walk outside can really shift our emotional state. Even if it is just a walk around the block.

  • @danielcanoniero7587
    @danielcanoniero7587 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I agree Conor. Journalling is one of the most important thing to understand what really matters.
    Thanks for all your inspirational notes

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +1

      It has played a long term important role in my life

  • @francesraiford8190
    @francesraiford8190 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @prakashlingam9751
    @prakashlingam9751 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for your inspiration words

  • @mikeraza3223
    @mikeraza3223 Před 10 dny

    THANK YOU!!!

  • @meseganamekuria8125
    @meseganamekuria8125 Před měsícem

    Greatest advice I heard today!

  • @talitaschrepp6070
    @talitaschrepp6070 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks for these words, means a lot! 😊

  • @armandomorales5857
    @armandomorales5857 Před 2 měsíci

    Great video, thank you !

  • @Pavlo_Polupan
    @Pavlo_Polupan Před 2 měsíci

    Another week - another great advice! Thank you for sharing your wisdom, and thank you for inspiration

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you 🙏 glad you guys keep coming back!

  • @andreashulten2161
    @andreashulten2161 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Really good! Hope you have a nice spring! 🤗

  • @ashokanselliah9571
    @ashokanselliah9571 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wonderful video. Really appreciate.

  • @medjad_canal
    @medjad_canal Před 2 měsíci

    Good advices, thank you

  • @jhonvanderceelen
    @jhonvanderceelen Před 2 měsíci

    Hi Conor, again many thanks for your work and this video as a result. Trying to get your advice set to work, but really struggling to get to the discipline of writing. Any tips (or maybe a video I missed) on this topic? Thanks, Jhon

  • @nilanthad
    @nilanthad Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Conor. You add value to many peoples lives who watch your videos. Thank you!!!

  • @mustakizahzakaria6800
    @mustakizahzakaria6800 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing this information and knowledge with all of us in this digital space👏👏👏👍👍

  • @Amitesh38
    @Amitesh38 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @lorenaescoto2780
    @lorenaescoto2780 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you, Sir. Your words are diligent, kind, gentle, and attached to real-life experiences. Thank you.

  • @pitbed
    @pitbed Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and motivating videos. For me, it is activities as well as breath exercises. In the next few days, I will try to paint/draw more and see what comes out!

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci

      At the retreat last week there was a breathwork session... and I can remember when I used to do a lot of scuba diving, how well I felt after a dive... and I think a lot of it has to do with the way scuba diving forces me to really slow down my breathing

  • @HeavenestStCyr
    @HeavenestStCyr Před 2 měsíci

    #2 is beautiful

  • @CuchBe
    @CuchBe Před 2 měsíci

    It's true, 2:07 But you have to be in it to understand and do what you did.

  • @mudrangrajgor2631
    @mudrangrajgor2631 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thankyou

  • @muhy9247
    @muhy9247 Před 2 měsíci

    informative

  • @lainpadang8033
    @lainpadang8033 Před 2 měsíci

    Nice, thank you ❤ ²⁴²⁴

  • @CuchBe
    @CuchBe Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤

  • @arthurthomasware5004
    @arthurthomasware5004 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Our Unconscious, Conor, is linked to every other person in the world - and even those who are no longer IN this world. We are linked to and part of the Collective Unconscious...which in turn, is linked to and part of The Universal Consciousness. And you're right about writing. And if pursued deeply enough you can even receive guidance via automatic writing this way. I know, mate, for I've been doing it for fifty years.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci

      thank you Thomas - and I've loved some of the writings that you have shared with me over these years. I am glad you are starting to see your videos have a bigger and bigger audience. Well done.

  • @GhanaLiving
    @GhanaLiving Před 2 měsíci

    Hi Neil, i am Jonas from Ghana. I think i don't know what to. I feel stuck and everything seem to fall apart.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci

      walk for a few minutes, then take a pen and keep it touching a page for 5 minutes. let out your worries, your hopes, your frustrations, your ideas, people that can help, people that you could help...

  • @Jo_240
    @Jo_240 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Think of others depending on the situation, I have no time for idiots and people who take no responsibility of their work

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +1

      hehe yep... a friend of mine says "be very careful of energy vampires"

  • @bc220FIZZAIRFAN
    @bc220FIZZAIRFAN Před měsícem

    hi you are a
    turkish national

  • @Selfloveyoga1111
    @Selfloveyoga1111 Před 2 měsíci

    I feel having happy healthy family is my priority yet Universe hasn't sent me anyone in years to make it happen.Im educatated, attractive , friendly and feminine yet cannot seem to be able to get what I want...Instead I'm in high demand professionally and I'm getting frustrated as its not a new job that I need but someone to have a family with 😢what should I do? Dating apps don't work for me

    • @BozhidarKurtev
      @BozhidarKurtev Před 2 měsíci

      *I originally planned to write a very angry comment.
      As a person on the opposite side of this argument, what you wrote is very stupid and disturbing to me.
      Just go "outside" and find someone. And you girls are extremely complicated, I swear to god(if there is one). Drop your baggage.

    • @BozhidarKurtev
      @BozhidarKurtev Před 2 měsíci

      PS: it's your attitude and approach to the issue.

    • @Selfloveyoga1111
      @Selfloveyoga1111 Před 2 měsíci

      @BozhidarKurtev wow! That sounds very judgmental and narrow minded! Very off putting mindset in people to have.How about next time you come across someone or something that may be of trigger to you ask yourself first why this is triggering and what you can do to help others instead of being a dick.Sending you love and light

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  Před 2 měsíci +1

      This is hard. I can see you've had a response or two here. I can imagine your frustration. I've had periods of my life (particularly 2008-2010) where I really felt stuck and alone.

  • @hakimdmhakimdm3282
    @hakimdmhakimdm3282 Před 2 měsíci

    Read or learn in general about Islam
    I promise you will thank me later

  • @rapidaction7944
    @rapidaction7944 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Conor. I'm suffering from a serious illness for more than 2 years, and frustrated about it. Can you suggest me any good reading about how mental wellbeing practices can impact of cure physical illness? Again, thanking you