You can't want it more than them | Conor Neill from Montevideo, Uruguay
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- čas přidán 15. 10. 2023
- Whether you are a teacher, a leader, a parent... if you want growth for someone else more than they do... you'll be bashing your head against a brick wall.
Inspired by a recent blog post by Iris H / you-cant-want-it-more
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
Questions? Ideas? Tweet me: / conorneill
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Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
What is Persuasion?
* What does it take to move people to action?
* What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
* How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
Where do I begin?
The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
Free Speaking Course bit.ly/speakpractice
Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.
Feeling a lot of connection with this message. I've been in that place both in professional and personal life. Pushing and encouraging others, getting more excited than they are, leading to me being frustrated... Now I try not to take for myself the potential excitement for other people's projects in life and work. But it's still tempting, because I enjoy so much seeing others grow and succeed at what they thought would be a dream! It's good advice here. Thanks for the video 👍
So true. I guess many of us found themselves mentoring people who are not deserving our efforts and passion. Took me some time, but slowly had to learn to detach my passion from their negativity and focus on those who do want to learn. The worst thing is there is usually a boss who doesn't take action against those 'energy vampires' whatever they do, because for a boss it is easier to be liked by everyone.... And you're left with the task of getting something out of those elements .
Thank you Conor, there is a saying in my country... "You can take a horse to the well but you cannot make him drink water".
One must be intrinsically motivated and desirous of change.
What a valuable message! Connor's insights about not wanting something more than the person you're trying to help is incredibly important, whether you're a leader, friend, or teacher. It's a reminder that true growth and success must come from within, and our role is to support and guide, not impose our desires on others. The concept of creating an environment where everyone genuinely wants to succeed is a game-changer. Thanks for sharing this wisdom, Connor!
glad to hear! thanks to you
Sir your words always have the way to touch my soul when I urgently need it .. even if I don't usually comment on your inspiring videos because my words don't help me to appreciate your efforts. make sure there is someone who always looks up to have the mentality that you have .
glad my words make a positive difference
I think you just saved me a lot of grief. Thanks.
Great insights, pal. Or, as my mom loves to say, "Where there is no hook, you cannot hang a jacket." :))
Great message Professor, I have missed the 15 times you have been to Uruguay. I invite you to visit our city, Salto Uruguay, on your next visit to Uruguay. I wish we could have him in our city to help us be better. Our city has the highest unemployment rate in the country. It would be nice to learn from you. I am his fan and I use several of his videos in my aviation school.
Greetings from Salto.
MARTIN
I recommend "How to Start a Speech" by Conor Neill for this video 😁
Thanks, Conor. I'm a firm believer in 'serendipity' and this video provided me today, with just the right message I needed to hear at this time.
Another great video . S
Thank you Conor !
give your BEST effort as a leader only when they want it at least as much as you
Thank you ❤❤
It's a waste of time, when they don't invest time and efforts.
Very frustrating to carry all the load...
You made my day sir. Been a while though
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Oh my goodness, that's the last 2 years of my lifes misery explained in a nutshell xx
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❤❤sir I need your personal guidence regarding communication skills can you provide your what's app