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I can relate to the majority of these. It's amazing to hear all this while I'm in my early 50's and my mother passed away last week. So many mixed emotions.

My mom was insane with how I looked. I’m 38 years old, she is deceased, and her words come into my mind every day. Every morning when I put on lipstick and perfume, I automatically think of her telling me I looked like a, “cheap whore and smelled like a French hooker.” And her daily reminder I was ALWAYS going to be, “eh, just AVERAGE.” 😑

When I got married, my mother came over to my house to get ready with like 8 different dresses for herself to choose from. She made a big deal about which one she should wear, it was all about her. She kept trying to choose this cream colored dress and my friends and I were like, "you're not supposed to wear a similar color to the bride". It was SO WEIRD. When we drove the 15 minutes to the venue together, she didn't speak a word. What was the most heartbreaking moment of that day was when they said, "everyone rise for the bride" and my mother was the only person that didn't stand up.

You grow up doubting yourself because you're always wrong or a shame

Unfortunately, the best men always choose the worst, heartless women.

Yes!!!

Yes this is excactly my covert narc mom and she felt entitled to my children . She used me as a doormat and invalidated and manipulated me .and brainwashed my children to keep them from me to secure onto her younger husband since she could not have anymore children and keep him for the financial. So she can maintain her superior facade .Its just the worst ,no contact .!!!

thank you, so well explain !

Right! Narcissistic parents don’t take accountability because they have so much pride in themselves. When you don’t worship the ground a narcissistic person walks on, they will demonize you.

Mine is just complicated! 😅 She infantilizes me constantly, but on the other hand, she financially exploited me when I got my first steady corporate job. Used me to sign for a mortgage for her and I pay for her lifestyle and upkeep of her 2 homes, etc. She made me her replacement husband after her 3rd divorce. But, I have a curfew, she has an issue with me staying the night anywhere ,and she has an opinion about every one I date. It's infuriating. I'm working with therapist on detaching fron her, first, mentally and emotionally and then we will work on how to proceed with the legal and financial ties. I've been healing for a year now and It's exhausting but worth it. I want my freedom and independence!

Yes! I only got one mother but my mother only got ONE ME!

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I was both neglected and infantilized … I have cut of contact but what I notice in moments of stress or grief… I get this feeling “ wanting my mommy” to save me or help me but im trying to escape that.

I detached from my mother and my family. She passed away on the 4th of July and I'm not going to her funeral. I've been grieving the mother I wished I had for 5 years now. Her leaving her earthly body comes with mixed emotions but no regret or guilt.

" I'm not perfect" but you're malicious

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