How to detach from your narcissistic mother
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- čas přidán 6. 07. 2024
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I detached from my mother and my family. She passed away on the 4th of July and I'm not going to her funeral. I've been grieving the mother I wished I had for 5 years now. Her leaving her earthly body comes with mixed emotions but no regret or guilt.
Desperate for her Love! 💯 it’s never going to happen. I’m NC and working on me.
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Mine is just complicated! 😅 She infantilizes me constantly, but on the other hand, she financially exploited me when I got my first steady corporate job. Used me to sign for a mortgage for her and I pay for her lifestyle and upkeep of her 2 homes, etc. She made me her replacement husband after her 3rd divorce. But, I have a curfew, she has an issue with me staying the night anywhere ,and she has an opinion about every one I date. It's infuriating. I'm working with therapist on detaching fron her, first, mentally and emotionally and then we will work on how to proceed with the legal and financial ties. I've been healing for a year now and It's exhausting but worth it. I want my freedom and independence!
I paid for my mother’s home, all the utilities and her storage unit. I also paid for her car repairs and home repairs. It was our second home we needed to rent out. It was never enough! She crossed a huge boundary and I told her she had 30 days to get out. She did and now she’s the victim. I put my family in a huge debt.
Hang in there it will get better 🥰
@@janawiegel849 wow!! 🫶🏽 Sending you so much love and light. That's quite the leap you took. Thank you for sharing!! Hope to be as strong as you, one day!
@@SkiTTleSbaBy8 You already are 👍
I was both neglected and infantilized … I have cut of contact but what I notice in moments of stress or grief… I get this feeling “ wanting my mommy” to save me or help me but im trying to escape that.
Instead of escaping it have you cultivated an inner mother or maternal figure or even a nurturing inner parent?