One of your narcissistic mother’s biggest fears
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- čas přidán 10. 05. 2024
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Tomorrow will be the first Mother's Day that I won't be wishing my mom a 'Happy Mother's Day,' and I don't feel an ounce of guilt about it.
🙌🏽
I also have decided to not send flowers 💐
And to instead make it the first day of me being ‘my own mom’
My demon mother RUINED MY LIFE 😭😭😭
That I grew up and stopped needing her.... Stopped wanting her. And yes, me going no contact for over 5 years has really put a kink in her "Mother Theresa" best mom in the world act she always boasted.
Is this not crazy tho… to realize that when we worked thru the trauma bond, we actually feel nothing. No regret no guilt nothing. Indifference
@@Apocalyptiseptical You're SO RIGHT. I feel NOTHING now.
Why is it so difficult to deal with this day. I thought it was gonna help if I just focused on my own kids but all I want it for this day to end. Been no contact for 5 years and it never seems to get easier
Mother’s Day? What comes up for you?
@@thehealingdaughter I just think about her way more than I need to and I know she’s probably struggling with this day too. I don’t feel any responsibility for it, just exasperation because it never needed to come to this. However she continues to play the victim and refuses to hear me ever.
I have been no contact 5 years. This year wasn't so bad, she called me whilst drunk on Saturday evening and left some rubbish voicemail. The second I heard her drunken ramblings, I just deleted. Seriously, who needs that? That's who she really is a drunken rambling old woman people just delete. She does it to herself, so does your mom. Radical acceptance helped this year, they only care about their delusions.
My mother biggest fear is to be forgotten I think
Ironically they need people, even though they act like they don’t