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most people refer to your pronouns based on secondary SEX characteristics not solely on how you fit in cultural stereotypes so if you where confused why you get missed “gendered” then… now you know. It’s caused by biological differences that you still have that is common or apart of the opposing sex like your voice or you know. Before judging others maybe we should think before we speak. Good day 🙂

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i used to watch this video basically every week when i was 14 to cope with dysphoria, first time coming back to it in a long time, im finally getting top surgery next month thank you for making videos, you made a trans kid feel safe when he really wasnt :)

Thanks for this video - it’s still out here helping. I’m 8 weeks post-op and just started using CicaTape and I was like wait, didn’t Ash once say to cut this in half or something? And I searched for this video. NOW it fits me so much better. Thanks!!

Here we go again! My fiance and I are getting married before he gets reelected…I hate it here but I love them 💖

Omg @2:40. The Man Replacement lol

Im male but nonbinary and only dress feminine and worried about the flight attendant interview dressing according to my gender expression. Im wondering if i should put on my man disguise to avoid possible hiring discrimination. What are your thoughts on this? Should i go to the interview under cover and then show up to training dressed feminine or should I just show up to the interview dressed feminine and risk discrimination?

I think I'm greygender but the unknowingness and my lack of really caring for my gender makes it feel like I'm not greygender but I still think I am 🥲

Do you just like hearing yourself talk?

Get to the point!

I’m dressing up as the twitter logo grave! Cool video idea tho 😊

Thank you to the person who told me about this! 😃 Edit: I love magic so thanks for representing us 💖

Ya'll know Jeffrey marsh is a child predator right. You need a new markering exec.

Im fluid in sexuality but i want a gf 😭 can you date if your abro?

This series of videos was so very formative for me, thank you for creating it and having it be available online! I ended up meeting an Ace person and in part thanks to these videos I was already decently informed so they didn't have to explain it to me. To this day I'm very good friends with them and ended up meeting my husband through them!

I found Morgan Paige in the comment section of vlogbrothers 12 years ago. I must have watched this video when it came out, but I have no memory of that.

you said "you guys" right out of the gate. Are you assuming everyone is a guy here or something??? I am deeply offended

This was the video that indoctrinated me

I’m a 13 year old boy but I feel like a girl I think I’m transgender but I’m too scared to tell my parents😭

can someone tell me the doctor & what city in Florida he is? planning on asking my dad to go there. since my grandma lives in florida alot and we all visit.. would be fun to go down with him when im 18 (im 15 rn) and then get surgery :)

Androsexualism is beyond🎉 czcams.com/video/xuZ4cZTj8AA/video.htmlsi=0OujJ6dcq7N7-jSV

Why does CZcams allow these mutilation videos?

Hope you are doing ok and better now Ash!

I am so sad that in America, we have to advocate for ourselves. The nurse was ready to break waters without informing the patients about risks. The fuq?

Jeffrey Marsh...if he was on my team, I would change teams.

This isn’t aging very well. lol.

beautiful kitten!

Yes they are and always will be. Even intersex people. Intersex people are still either males or females. I wish common sense weren’t so damn rare.

It's so cool how the dysphoria didn't make you unalive yourself. Who is breastfeeding?

I LOVE YOUR INTRO

i dont use gay slurs because homosexuality is not a visible thing and i can see saying slurs even tho i am pansexual would absolutely get me into trouble and me telling people i am pansexual would and has been questioned and denied by people.

I want you to know I think about the pouty peanut guy every time I fly

Omg, I just watched your video about top surgery with Jackson Bird (from like, 5 years ago). I just wanted to say, you look amazing!!!! ❤❤❤ Your face looks so different, in a good way!

this was so beautiful, kids should see this at school ):

I’ve been watching your videos for like six or seven years now. I remember when this video first came out and I already knew I wanted top surgery at that point. Now it’s five years later and I’m rewatching it because I’m just two months pre-op and I’m feeling overwhelmed. Seeing you go through this is scary but also so hopeful. I think your results are amazing :) thank you for being a part of my life even though you didn’t even know. I grew up (in my teens) watching you and now I’m finally an adult. I feel like you’re always on the next stage of life and I look to you with respect. I think that’s beautiful.

I recently came out as Demigirl as I've been feeling not fully female for many years. I've been questioning myself for the entire time and when I finally found the Demigirl label I felt at peace for the first time for years, my parents, friends and family support me a huge tonne I actually cried 😭. I'm finally myself!!

Fuck this shit

i feel so sorry for your poor mother. 🚫👎🌈

Abrosexuality is homophobic. People cannot change their sexual orientation. The extreme Christians believe people can. If you like a lot of different kinds of people then you like a lot of different kind of people. Liking same sex does not make you gay. Switching from same sex to something else does not mean you stopped being gay. Go ahead and like what suits you. But if you are an adult human male or female and are gay/lesbian then you can’t change that. Nothing can.

Are you waisian

As a fellow transman, I found cloth pads to be a helpful tool for periods. They reduce cycle times by upwards of half. I was a 8 day cycle person and it went down to 4 days. Also, they can be washed in the washing machine and dried in the dryer. No chemicals to cause a period to be worse.

As a nonbinary person in a queer marriage and both of us recently considering kids once we’re more financially secure, your videos about it is so relieving because I’m both so sure and unsure about so many things so this does make me feel better about it ❤ we’re still very much thinking about it but seeing others like us experience these big decisions helps a lot. Been watching your videos since maybe 2016 💕

I realized when I was a teenager that we girls all dressed for other girls not for the boys.

Dear, you are a woman, will always be a woman

Still makes me tear up, this is still so relevant, this and Not Gay Enough. Literally had CZcams comment section discussions this week, one with a queer female person about us both being afraid to call out cishet artists on their queerphobia in the fear of being labeled as "cancelling snowflakes", and another one with a transphobic queer person who claimed trans women are not real women and therefore only being attracted to cis women was being attracted to "real women"... The second one gets even worse with context, there were two blatantly queerphobic people in the conversation, but luckily my anti-queerphobic comments gained a lot more likes and more positive comments than theirs, so... And the original poster is a cishet woman. You and I were discovering our nonbinary identities around the same time and I want to thank you for making me feel less alone <3

i remember as a kid i had a scar on my face that my mom made me put some oil on every day for a few years and it did actually help fade and soften the scar quite a bit btw the way you showed off things visually is creative & also very clear, very nice

Rewatching this the night before my own consultation is so surreal. Thank you Ash for being such a role model and support for me in my journey ❤

Literally y’all being abrosexual suck I try to love someone then I turn aroace it suckd

Why I didn't see this video when it came out!? It took me years to realize that I was actually asexual (I thought I was a "not practitioner" bisexual 😅) and now this video feels like home.