@@tommie6186 I'm doing it to pay for school and top surgery! I'm actually enjoying it, might as well use my unwanted chest accessories before I yeet them off of me
@@harleyquinn9682 that's awesome! I'm wprking up the confidence to try out for that kinda gig bc I'd love to go back to school (couldn't afford it so left after 3 semesters) and to help jump start my transition and get a car and junk. But that's so awesome dude!!
Asexual and still very much interested in sensual wear. :) I think its so fascinating too to find out what people think or used to consider as belonging to one gender or the other...its so freeing to see people admitting that we can all wear whatever we want and whatever makes us feel good.
I just wanna add for anyone considering buying/using breast forms - cheaper stick-on ones will stick about 6 times, and can last for hours (or longer). Be extremely careful with sharp items - the silicone inside is not exactly solid, it'll easily break apart and fall out of the plastic wrapping/covering that seals it. If you don't have stick-on ones, but still have individual forms, they can be glued on with *skin safe* tape and *medical* safety glue. You *need* to wipe them off after using glues and adhesives though. Take care of them, try to store them on the backs to prevent damage, and keep them away from direct sunlight when storing them.
I laughed really hard at "dressed like a lazy guy, going to bed" What a transmasc mood. I haven't gotten top surgery but going on hormones helped me not have to do that anymore
OrigamiCustoms, they have a custom made mesh binder that's about the same cost as gc2b excluding shipping (it compresses less though) and RebirthGarments has colorblock and mesh binders :)
OMG I just looked that's so awesome! I can't wear underworks binders bc I'm prone to fits of anxiety and they just make it worse so I've been wearing GC2B. I'll definitely have to check them out when I have more money. The life of a uni student *sigh*
@@HeyThere005 As a Genderfluid person who prefers they/them pronouns due to past trama this really opened some doorways in my mind for when I do start buying stuff like this so thank you so much!
Count on Ash to make a video that is slightly serious, but also giggly. 🖤🖤 Also, not to do with lingerie, but I love meshing different clothing items together and bending societal rules of gender and clothing. I also feel SO good when I bind and wear dresses at the same time. People say its weird, but lately that's the only way I can feel okay in dresses and skirts in public. And I don't feel feminine when I wear them. I've been testing out lots of different ways to express myself that are different from how I was raised that I had to. I also love dressing very masculine (to me) and then putting on sparkly makeup. Thats one of my favourite things to do. It's fun to experiment with different clothes and styles, and find different ways to express my gender outwards in ways that people normally question. Anyways. Loved the video, as always. 🖤🖤
*watched the video on someone else's account* Ha! so much for that CZcams... You can't stop me!!!! xD Also Ash, I would like to say that I love your videos, you've helped me a lot as a GNC myself, I find myself relating to you more than other LGBTQ+ influecers, so thanks!!! Sending all the loves to you and Grace ^w^
You are absolutely hilarious ...in an incredibly natural and charming way. I never subscribed to "vlogger channels" ...but I just did to yours. Rock on!
My boyfriend just bought me a pair of packing undies that we can also play with, last month for our 3 year anniversary. We finally got a chance to try them out yesterday and honestly, as somebody who was very skeptical about something like that alleviating my dysphoria, I am so glad that I was so wrong. It felt so good and made me feel so masc and empowered. It was amazing! It definitely makes me feel more confident with myself. So maybe I’ll ride this new found confidence and try some of these tips as well! Thanks, Ash!
I am a Demi-boy who uses male pronouns and prefers to present my body masculine, but I dress very feminine and I am just now learning to come to terms with the fact that this is perfectly okay, and you have helped me a lot with this, so thank you, Ash.
I love you so much, honestly, you’re part of the reason I came out to my best friend. She’s the only person I’ve come out to as panromantic asexual, but it’s like a really big step in me coming out to more people. 🙂🖤
jorodon loves squishy it’s PANROMANTIC asexual, not whatever you said. But it means that I can have a romantic relationship with anybody of any sexuality or gender , obviously as long as they want to be with me. I can be with trans people, cis males, cis females, nonbinary people, genderfluid people, etc. but I also don’t want to have sex. Some asexual people do have sex with their partner, but I personally don’t want to, and I’m ok with that.
watching your videos really confirmed my idea of non binary and made me discover my own identity. Personally I hate labels, either about gender or sexual orientation, and the less I have labels, the more I am comfortable. And playing with masculinity, femininity and androgyny is so fun! Feels SO comfortable and natural :) Thank you for your videos! I wish you always the best in life
Thx for the vid Ash! I have been awaiting more content for you. This has always been a question of mine for a while, and I'm glad someone answered it! Love you lots!
This was an awesome video (as per usual)! Thank you for all the hard work you put into your channel for us! (Also, I ordered your book and it arrived today!! I've only gotten a few pages in but love it so so much!)
I love your personality! The way you presented this topic was simply AMAZING! Your added humor lightning the topic wile engaging it was way cool! You my friend have earned your self a sub! Great work.
Godddd Ash you're goals. I'm 24, agender, going on T soon (I know you're not on T but I really want to be), and getting top surgery when I have the money for it. I hope I'm as confident in my look as you are someday.
Ash you really put in so much thought into what you teach to people, and I appreciate it so much. It takes a lot of love for others to put yourself out like that and share your experiences!! Keep it up. :) Much love from WA
I love that you talk about this stuff without like weirdness and giggles, but still comfortably (for us viewers). Thank you for talking about these things!
hey, Ash! I’ve been watching you for uhhh 6 years now? You’re constantly an inspiration to me, and the sound of your voice actually calms me down significantly. Thank you so much for everything you do! Please don’t let those who don’t like you influence the way you think about yourself
You look so so comfortable now Ash. You're personality has always shown through your videos but you seem so happy and it makes me really happy to see. ❤
I never realize how much I love/miss your videos until I’m watching them!!! I love you❤️ and your videos always makes me soooo happy! This was so interesting to me, playing with idea of masculinity and femininity has always been interesting to me. The names when describing the Dong thing was amazing.
Thank you so much for this Ash, like you have no idea how much of a difference it makes to see stuff like this. There's nothing worse than thinking you're the only person trying to navigate these struggles. So...thanks for existing and making content like this. Keep it up!
I'm a trans guy and I used to present in a very masculine way. But now that I'm 1 1/2 years on t and have had top surgery, I'm starting to enjoy dressing more flamboyantly or "traditionally feminine" and I love painting my nails and experimenting with different hairstyles and makeup. It's just so much fun, and now that my body looks masculine enough that I don't get misgendered so much anymore, I finally feel comfortable presenting that way. I've been wondering if that might indicate that I'm not a trans man, but a non-binary person, I thought about it a lot and came to the conclusion that, no, I'm definitely a guy, just one that likes to present more androgynously than most.
I love you so much Ash. You make me feel so comfortable with everything you do. You have helped me so much. This is wonderfully informative and helpful. And quite funny too.
This is really inspiring. I am cis gendered, but I always liked wearing more feminine sexy time things, but recently I got some boxers and sports bras that match and the androgyny that came with it was so empowering and I really loved the way I felt.
I feel like this will happen to me after top surgery. I feel like I have to dress masculine right now to make up for my female body, but with a flat chest, I'd totally wear more feminine things. Like, I want to be seen as a kinda masculine girl, feminine guy, or in between.
Me: Ooooohhhh all of these are great I need some of this stuff! Also me: Is asexual and would never actually use it (but I love the aesthetic, what can I say?)
Hey Ash just wanted to say that you have helped me get through so much. Ilysm and wanted to let you know that ur very inspirational and extremely amazing. Stay awesome!
“And the suspenders make me feel gay.” Why is that so damn true?
that moment was so real :'D i mean, how damn relatable
Agreed
Lol I get that
I was the 666th like ☺️
Agreed
THE NUMBER OF DIFFERENT NAMES YOU HAD FOR PRIVATE PARTS WAS MY FAV LMAO
lollerskates21 Same 😂
Same
Me too, man
SAMEE
As a trans man currently employed as a stripper, I think this is my favorite video on the internet.
I c o n i c
@@tuel7664 ty I try 💖💖
This is the dream! I actually wanna start stripping or something to afford top surgury lmao trans icon
@@tommie6186 I'm doing it to pay for school and top surgery! I'm actually enjoying it, might as well use my unwanted chest accessories before I yeet them off of me
@@harleyquinn9682 that's awesome! I'm wprking up the confidence to try out for that kinda gig bc I'd love to go back to school (couldn't afford it so left after 3 semesters) and to help jump start my transition and get a car and junk. But that's so awesome dude!!
thank u so much for including my gf (alekundra) music in this video! she is really happy and excited, u made our day 💕
they are wonderful!
I cannot harness my excitement!!
Watts The Safeword REMEMBER ME? Yours was private, this one was private. They are always private.
WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE FASTEST FUNNIEST COMMENTS.
you put us all to shame.
Ash Hardell I’m a glutton for pun-ishment. Obviously. 🐶❤️
Watts The Safeword lmfao
Ash Hardell I think it’d be interesting if you two made a video together.
“Hand? Boob? Hi-five!” 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 loved it!
😄 Love it
That was great but also pls no. Don’t highfive the boob
I don't get it ._.
I kinda realized they're like a smol Thomas Sanders
I was reading through the comments and I think I found a new friend I thought I was the only one who day that
Okay, but imagine if they did a collab with Thomas?
as in, they're cringe as fuck and have a fandom full of 12 year olds?
Omy they are! I would love to see a colab one day
Me, an asexual: **clicks on this video** I just love Ash, okay?!
Same friend same
Lingerie doesn't have to be sexual, maybe just sensual! *Tie-in with Ash's vid "How (some) asexuals have sex"*
Same
Meeeeeee
Asexual and still very much interested in sensual wear. :) I think its so fascinating too to find out what people think or used to consider as belonging to one gender or the other...its so freeing to see people admitting that we can all wear whatever we want and whatever makes us feel good.
I beg to differ, I think you put exactly the right amount of time into nonbina-quin, it's a fantastic word.
Bless you and all the new names I have to call my partner's wing-wong
Okay but boxer shorts and lacy tights? An absolute LOOK that I might have to adopt
I just wanna add for anyone considering buying/using breast forms - cheaper stick-on ones will stick about 6 times, and can last for hours (or longer). Be extremely careful with sharp items - the silicone inside is not exactly solid, it'll easily break apart and fall out of the plastic wrapping/covering that seals it. If you don't have stick-on ones, but still have individual forms, they can be glued on with *skin safe* tape and *medical* safety glue. You *need* to wipe them off after using glues and adhesives though. Take care of them, try to store them on the backs to prevent damage, and keep them away from direct sunlight when storing them.
I laughed really hard at "dressed like a lazy guy, going to bed" What a transmasc mood. I haven't gotten top surgery but going on hormones helped me not have to do that anymore
I freaking love that sheer robe with your flat chest. To me that’s my ideal androgynous look xD
6 to
sammeeee it's such a good combo.
The pants you thought u wouldnt like but did look absolutely AMAZING on you!! Just so u know..lol
There's a couple etsy stores that make mesh compression binders!
W H A T
OrigamiCustoms, they have a custom made mesh binder that's about the same cost as gc2b excluding shipping (it compresses less though) and RebirthGarments has colorblock and mesh binders :)
OMG I just looked that's so awesome! I can't wear underworks binders bc I'm prone to fits of anxiety and they just make it worse so I've been wearing GC2B. I'll definitely have to check them out when I have more money. The life of a uni student *sigh*
I love how open you are talking about ‘sexual’ things..i just cant its weird for me to talk so openly about it. But for those who do..Good for you!🖤😂
NONBINAQUIN 😂😂😂
Jinkx Monsoon’s chipped tooth the name was QUIN-tessential
Watts The Safeword The puns: far too great
The Spanish song intro 😍💕
I was wondering what language it was. Thanks!
“Who’s wingle woo is purple?” 😹😹😹 honestly I actually love this channel so much.
Wieners wanna feel pretty sometimes... Ash.... U R so adorbs
I love the nonbinaquin, is so adorable!!! ☺️☺️💜💙💚💛🧡❤️
Breasticles.
My friends and I call them Chesticles ;)
I'LL STOP RIGHT THERE :'D
shoutout to miranda sings aka colleen hahahaha
Ash called it a boober
Honestly this is the most informative thing I've ever watched.
Thanks, I wanted it to be really educational!
@@HeyThere005 As a Genderfluid person who prefers they/them pronouns due to past trama this really opened some doorways in my mind for when I do start buying stuff like this so thank you so much!
You know its a good video when ash says and I quote "and the suspenders make me feel gay."
I wish I had a harness like that. It would be great for cosplay.
Yeah , maybe when you do some rappelling on high rising tall buildings you wanna climbed off.
Richard Senson weird
It really would
“the leather makes me feel tough and the suspenders make me feel gay.” LMAO. oh my god please don’t ever stop being your inspiring, adorable self
OMG this is how I feel about bottom surgery as a MtF, I feel way more comfortable in masculine clothes as well as feminine clothes! :D
“The suspenders make me feel gay” I’m dying😂😂😂
omg when you high fived that boob, I held mine because I felt that omg 😅😖
I LOVE your profile picture!!
Army is that you?😂
I cringed because it gave me secondhand dysphoria, the babydoll did too.
I’m a cisgender woman but I find this interesting and kinda hot lol 🙂 great video.
Same!
Same
Cheese that is creepy, she has the chest of a 10 year old boy.
@Depressed Hero Films Sorry I don't play by your rules.
She cut off her breasts...both of THEM!
@@sablechicken Can't you respect someone's preferred pronouns. Ash goes as they/them and it's quite offensive to not accept that fact.
Count on Ash to make a video that is slightly serious, but also giggly. 🖤🖤
Also, not to do with lingerie, but I love meshing different clothing items together and bending societal rules of gender and clothing.
I also feel SO good when I bind and wear dresses at the same time. People say its weird, but lately that's the only way I can feel okay in dresses and skirts in public. And I don't feel feminine when I wear them. I've been testing out lots of different ways to express myself that are different from how I was raised that I had to.
I also love dressing very masculine (to me) and then putting on sparkly makeup. Thats one of my favourite things to do.
It's fun to experiment with different clothes and styles, and find different ways to express my gender outwards in ways that people normally question.
Anyways. Loved the video, as always. 🖤🖤
I feel you
Same
I watch this even tho I’m asexual. Luv the vid anyway, Ash. LOVE U ❤️💕💕
TheAwkwardAce +
SAME PROFILE PIC!!!!!
S Jacobs OMG THATS AWESOME
TheAwkwardAce one of my friends also has the same flag
S Jacobs that’s awesome dude! I love that
"MANNYQUINN THE NONBINIQUINN"
Omg Ash yesss 😂😂
*watched the video on someone else's account* Ha! so much for that CZcams... You can't stop me!!!! xD
Also Ash, I would like to say that I love your videos, you've helped me a lot as a GNC myself, I find myself relating to you more than other LGBTQ+ influecers, so thanks!!! Sending all the loves to you and Grace ^w^
Ash’s vocabulary is everything😂♥️
"nonbina-quin" is the cutest thing i've heard all day my heart is so warm rn sdfdsfs
I feel special I speak Spanish
“That’s my sexy noise.”
“And the suspenders make me feel gay.”
-Ash
"The faux leather makes me feel tough, and the suspenders make me feel *g a y* " DEADD ACTUALLY MEEE
P h a t mood
I was so early it was private 😂🖤
RandomPotato .-. Same.
RandomPotato .-. Me too
RandomPotato .-. Same
Also same.
I know that was a weird glitch for second, I couldn't even watch my OWN video for a minute...odd.
You are absolutely hilarious ...in an incredibly natural and charming way. I never subscribed to "vlogger channels" ...but I just did to yours. Rock on!
My boyfriend just bought me a pair of packing undies that we can also play with, last month for our 3 year anniversary. We finally got a chance to try them out yesterday and honestly, as somebody who was very skeptical about something like that alleviating my dysphoria, I am so glad that I was so wrong.
It felt so good and made me feel so masc and empowered. It was amazing! It definitely makes me feel more confident with myself. So maybe I’ll ride this new found confidence and try some of these tips as well! Thanks, Ash!
Thank you so much for putting subtitles on! I've been waiting to watch this and now I can :D means a lot
I am a Demi-boy who uses male pronouns and prefers to present my body masculine, but I dress very feminine and I am just now learning to come to terms with the fact that this is perfectly okay, and you have helped me a lot with this, so thank you, Ash.
I'm a demiboy too!! * high-five *
I’m a demi-girl! Nooiiccee
@@user-tt6ft7fp9c demigender power!!! 🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🎊🎉🎊🎉🎉🎊
Mikel Montoya yeet
So you’re trans....
You're so handsome!!!
“And the suspenders make me feel gay” I love that line. Next time I wear suspenders I’m gonna say that.
Those pants look amazing on you!
I love you so much, honestly, you’re part of the reason I came out to my best friend. She’s the only person I’ve come out to as panromantic asexual, but it’s like a really big step in me coming out to more people. 🙂🖤
congrats, that's a huge thing!!!! :)
AndroidinhumansClothing thanks :3
I have a question what is a panramoc asexual mean?
jorodon loves squishy it’s PANROMANTIC asexual, not whatever you said. But it means that I can have a romantic relationship with anybody of any sexuality or gender , obviously as long as they want to be with me. I can be with trans people, cis males, cis females, nonbinary people, genderfluid people, etc. but I also don’t want to have sex. Some asexual people do have sex with their partner, but I personally don’t want to, and I’m ok with that.
@@luna._.9888 Asexual doesn't mean not wanting to have sex. It means not being sexually attracted to anybody.
I'm a very feminine cis woman, and I enjoy the idea of lingerie in the bedroom, as well as sheer, or smooth silky things. I also really like lace.
AbbyViberStirlingite1219 , you were born a girl?
@@denergized7993 yes, I was assigned female at birth.
@@denergized7993 that's what cis woman means... (well people are actually born genderless but whatever)
AbbyViberStirlingite1219, then I can safely say, you are a beautiful woman!!!
@@mikelmontoya2965 yes, exactly.
“Trouser snake”
Love it
BLESS 😭💘 You're such an angel, I'm so weak for this content
Changes my birthday info just to watch this
This is hands down one of my favorite videos of yours !! Soo funny soo good !! Thank you !! 😁😁😁😁💗💗💗💗💗
watching your videos really confirmed my idea of non binary and made me discover my own identity. Personally I hate labels, either about gender or sexual orientation, and the less I have labels, the more I am comfortable. And playing with masculinity, femininity and androgyny is so fun! Feels SO comfortable and natural :) Thank you for your videos! I wish you always the best in life
You make me feel so comfortable while watching this! Thank you so much for being so honest and funny at the same time!
when it says the video is private more than five times
Thx for the vid Ash! I have been awaiting more content for you. This has always been a question of mine for a while, and I'm glad someone answered it! Love you lots!
Love how educational and fun your videos are! Looking extra dapper in your shirt too!
This was an awesome video (as per usual)! Thank you for all the hard work you put into your channel for us! (Also, I ordered your book and it arrived today!! I've only gotten a few pages in but love it so so much!)
Early!! Also cool and it was private the first couple times I tried to open the video
Love you ash!!
ash why are you so adorable >:[
I love your personality! The way you presented this topic was simply AMAZING! Your added humor lightning the topic wile engaging it was way cool! You my friend have earned your self a sub! Great work.
I'm in LOVE with your aesthetic in this!
Omg I am SOOOOO HAPPY WATCHING YOU THRIVE LIKE THIS!!!!!
Godddd Ash you're goals. I'm 24, agender, going on T soon (I know you're not on T but I really want to be), and getting top surgery when I have the money for it. I hope I'm as confident in my look as you are someday.
Ash you really put in so much thought into what you teach to people, and I appreciate it so much. It takes a lot of love for others to put yourself out like that and share your experiences!! Keep it up. :) Much love from WA
I love how you're always able to talk about something serious, and make it funny and goofy at the same time 😄
I love Ash’s videos
I wish there was a making of where we seen ash trying to put on Manny all those clothes
I love that you talk about this stuff without like weirdness and giggles, but still comfortably (for us viewers). Thank you for talking about these things!
Heyy ash, this vid is helpful and affirming on so many level. THANK YOU!
I had to wait 6 days until I turned 18 so I could watch this video! Honestly it was so worth the wait!! 🙌🙌 you are too funny, Ash 😂
Ohh my god this is the best birthday ever!!! Thanks Ash!! 💙😅
I went to watch it so early that it wouldn’t let me it was private😂
hey, Ash! I’ve been watching you for uhhh 6 years now? You’re constantly an inspiration to me, and the sound of your voice actually calms me down significantly. Thank you so much for everything you do! Please don’t let those who don’t like you influence the way you think about yourself
You look so so comfortable now Ash. You're personality has always shown through your videos but you seem so happy and it makes me really happy to see. ❤
1. Hispanic artist, yay!
2. You're just too adorable and sexy at the same time, how do you do iiiiit haha
Your chest honestly looks perfect and I'm jealous 😩
I never realize how much I love/miss your videos until I’m watching them!!! I love you❤️ and your videos always makes me soooo happy! This was so interesting to me, playing with idea of masculinity and femininity has always been interesting to me. The names when describing the
Dong thing was amazing.
Thank you so much for this Ash, like you have no idea how much of a difference it makes to see stuff like this. There's nothing worse than thinking you're the only person trying to navigate these struggles. So...thanks for existing and making content like this. Keep it up!
I'm a trans guy and I used to present in a very masculine way. But now that I'm 1 1/2 years on t and have had top surgery, I'm starting to enjoy dressing more flamboyantly or "traditionally feminine" and I love painting my nails and experimenting with different hairstyles and makeup. It's just so much fun, and now that my body looks masculine enough that I don't get misgendered so much anymore, I finally feel comfortable presenting that way. I've been wondering if that might indicate that I'm not a trans man, but a non-binary person, I thought about it a lot and came to the conclusion that, no, I'm definitely a guy, just one that likes to present more androgynously than most.
Just when I think you cant get anymore lovable and adorable .. you do ...
You are .. my absolute.. fave ... ❤
Ash this is why I love you 🤣 your videos are so funny and unique!
I love you so much Ash. You make me feel so comfortable with everything you do. You have helped me so much. This is wonderfully informative and helpful. And quite funny too.
This is really inspiring. I am cis gendered, but I always liked wearing more feminine sexy time things, but recently I got some boxers and sports bras that match and the androgyny that came with it was so empowering and I really loved the way I felt.
Love the intro song
Your confidence is so infectious :)
You're amazing and I love all of your content. Never stop!
I feel like this will happen to me after top surgery. I feel like I have to dress masculine right now to make up for my female body, but with a flat chest, I'd totally wear more feminine things. Like, I want to be seen as a kinda masculine girl, feminine guy, or in between.
Me: Ooooohhhh all of these are great I need some of this stuff!
Also me: Is asexual and would never actually use it (but I love the aesthetic, what can I say?)
OMGoddess!! Thanks! You made me rethink a lot of things! In my life now and in my past!
Hey Ash just wanted to say that you have helped me get through so much. Ilysm and wanted to let you know that ur very inspirational and extremely amazing. Stay awesome!
Your synonyms for penis cracked me up. 😂😂 Also...boxers with stockings? Hell yeah! Definitely gonna try that.
I wish I had your sense of style! You're always so handsome and cute and it makes me jelly! 💙
Jesus christ the different names you had for a Weener and other body parts made me laugh. I love it haha.
I'M GETTING A BINDER
YOU UPLOADED A VIDEO
MY GARDEN IS WATERED THANK YOU
And the suspenders make me feel g a y
As Ash cringes in pain in the background
When I clicked on this vid as soon at it uploaded, it said it was private and I couldn’t watch it. Dunno why
Such a freaking great video! Love you ash!