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Some people sure have a lot to say.

I agree with everything outside of being trapped by desires. We are "hardwired" to pursue the best life possible for ourselves and to share it with others. Community and family is the easiest way for us to feel connected and valued, but it is not the only way to live. Furthermore, any man who is "trapped" by his own desires is nothing more than a human animal pretending to be a human being (and yes, there is most certainly a difference). If you can't help yourself because "nature", you should really reevaluate your value system. Nobody is trapped if they simply choose not to be.

I like the comment section , we don't play their games

It’s because they want to control us instead of loving us. There’s no controlling behaviors in genuine love and trust, just respect and acceptance.

I DO NOT LIKE PEOPLE BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. I DO GENERALLY LOOKING AT PEOPLE WITH HATE SOME MEN UNDERSTANDS THIS AND SOMEMEN CAN TOLERATE THIS BUT WOMEN CAN’T STAND SOMEONE WHOM LOOKING TO THEM WITH HATE EVEN IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME

I just got a headache LOL

What if shes in vacation with friends? But when shes at home we converse all day and night

There's a difference between genuine interest and low-key disrespect.

I disagree , instead of defending yourself it’s much more fun to make fun of them back - they like it too

I have noticed that now that I'm down 50+ lbs and getting more muscular, I definitely get more women saying hi to me at the grocery store and elsewhere. When I was 265 and in my third trimester, I was invisible to women. Same guy, new body. Body game not only improves your perception to women, it also improves your self-image, which I think is just as important. As they say, become a better product. Combine that with some game and you're off to the races.

I am subed to so many dating advice channels and this applys to me the best

1st one is so true

This was very helpful!

Dudes have to realize no matter how good looking u are , no woman will ever approach or initiate conversation or interest with u, u have to do it. Men don’t really have an ez switch to get women to just straight up ask u out

Ah girls dont like me so im probably handsome

I literally will have women talk to all the men around me not to me. lol

Ive had some really attractive women do this to me.

Thanks for posting. Lot of accurate observations

Never be a Manvy/Menvy... Men who are envy of other men looks or success. The ugliest and lowest form of masculinity. Focus on your own spiritual development, internal/external beauty and discipline !

Suffered this problem most if not all my adult life. It's teachings like yours Danny that have helped me come to terms with this huge problem. Thanks man.

This video is Ai. Crazy.

Bcs you easily get the girl the other guys want and have been trying to seduce for a long time ...

For me, the most important reason to be physically strong is to be able to protect. If you can't fend off attackers, you ain't shit. Aesthetically, it would be nicer to be skinny.

The amount of profanity from these chicks mouth is the most unattractive part in my opinion.

Felt this for years, but never had anyone explain it like this. Thank you for this

I’m 6’4 naturally ripped and I get told a lot that I have a really good looking face. It’s not all positive, women always assume I’m an fboy and guys even friends try to talk me down in front of women, I always feel many people are mean to me for no reason. When I do one thing very well some people call me arrogant or a narcissist. I think it’s jealousy.

I feel like the “black pill” guys are moving on from looks and blaming money for what they used to blame looks for.

Social media and old, not to mention there's too many people on this planet now. Its done.

I aprecciate the info. But if I have to play some kind of implicit game of seducction or pass trough some test for just dating (like applying for a job) Im out, Don't have time for this.

A little testing is something we all do. Men test women by seeing if they act maturely to small rejections, test their co-dependency. Even just trying to suss out if someone likes similar things in the bedroom without actually having sex, it's all a test. I don't test men on purpose but I do look closely at how they react to things. Most times though people will let you know who they are on the first date even without saying it.

As an ugly mf, its better to be lonely from too many options than having no options.

the Latin girl 👍 wishes her the best 💯

15:00 got hit with that reschedule one a few months back Fell for it though and tried to reschedule and it kinda just went nowhere. I stopped trying after the 2nd attempt but that test is precisely what happened now i see thanks to this video

Men pull ALL the same crap that you accuse the women of!

You do become a target for predators

No my definition of incel is the most accurate and backed by data. First, let's look at my definition of incel. Incel: A single male that is not in a long-term loving relationship with a partner that THEY find attractive. They may or may not have kids. These men are likely to be excess men of low social and financial standing. But due to our Darwinian high pressure, society...."more above average men" are finding themselves locked out of having a long-term loving relationship. This is what will cause society to destabilise and fall in quality and safety. Indeed, we are seeing it NOW already. And these men will either check out or become destructive. Both are not good news for society in terms of economic, social, and security reasons. Remember, the media and even others are not correct about what an incel is. It's not about just getting "3ex"......its realising that you have been unable to find a long-term loving, mutually validating relationship with a partner that YOU find attractive. My question to the world is this..... If a man IS IN a long-term loving relationship with a partner that THEY find attractive and they have kids. And that man is close to his parents and relatives and family, kids and friends. If he does a job that may not earn him all the money in the world. But it's enough to get his family by in dignity, and he finds purpose in that line of work. And that man is respected in HIS family, community........ TELL ME HOW MANY MEN LIKE THIS DO YOU FIND COMMITTING CRIMES, RIOTING, LOOTING???? THEY ARE THE PILLERS OF A STABLE SOCIETY. Now, "chads" that trun a lot of plates and have a lot of options are not strictly speaking incels, providing they don't have prolonged dry spells between "relationships".....but make no mistake these men are not necessarily destructive like incels, but are ultimately unfulfilled.....they are not as happy/stable as the man I described above. And that's all these is to know on the matter..... Peace

Women have also made it impossible to hit on them anymore

So this actually hits home man. I’m always wondering what’s wrong with me what am I doing wrong why is this so hard but I guess this makes sense

2 years and 1/2 went by (no contract) and she found me . Saw her in person and I went off towards her and left

Youre not even atractive or handsome🤣

Basically it’s a game of chess

This video itself is an example of guy that makes a 8 minutes video saying, no offense, only obvious things, but it's ok because he's handsome.

Life is weird. People have so much insecurities but we only see our insecurities. At least us men. I am a barkeeper and on bigger events I get hit on by girls who say I am hot or at the last event a girl told her friend what you think he is on a 10? She said 10 right away. On the other hand, I get ignored by women so often while I just look for normal and humble conversations. Just a "hey" or a "see you" and they already look at you strange and next day they don't even say hello. It's so weird because you just act humble and normal. It seems just your appearance is a threat to them if you are muscular or athletic and care for your attractiveness so this is why I became a really cold person and stopped giving a shit about women when it comes to respect, bond and relationship

No my definition of incel is the most accurate and backed by data. First, let's look at my definition of incel. Incel: A single male that is not in a long-term loving relationship with a partner that THEY find attractive. They may or may not have kids. These men are likely to be excess men of low social and financial standing. But due to our Darwinian high pressure, society...."more above average men" are finding themselves locked out of having a long-term loving relationship. This is what will cause society to destabilise and fall in quality and safety. Indeed, we are seeing it NOW already. And these men will either check out or become destructive. Both are not good news for society in terms of economic, social, and security reasons. Remember, the media and even others are not correct about what an incel is. It's not about just getting "3ex"......its realising that you have been unable to find a long-term loving, mutually validating relationship with a partner that YOU find attractive. My question to the world is this..... If a man IS IN a long-term loving relationship with a partner that THEY find attractive and they have kids. And that man is close to his parents and relatives and family, kids and friends. If he does a job that may not earn him all the money in the world. But it's enough to get his family by in dignity, and he finds purpose in that line of work. And that man is respected in HIS family, community........ TELL ME HOW MANY MEN LIKE THIS DO YOU FIND COMMITTING CRIMES, RIOTING, LOOTING???? THEY ARE THE PILLERS OF A STABLE SOCIETY. Now, "chads" that trun a lot of plates and have a lot of options are not strictly speaking incels, providing they don't have prolonged dry spells between "relationships".....but make no mistake these men are not necessarily destructive like incels, but are ultimately unfulfilled.....they are not as happy/stable as the man I described above. And that's all these is to know on the matter..... Peace

This was helpful, thanks.

I just had a break up and he blocked me. I don’t want him back. I just want to stop missing him.

Now they'll be scared to talk. Peddling insecurities.

As a medium ugly guy i can confirm i do in fact fu**

If these crazies were investing the energy into their relationships instead into playing games they all would be happily married. 😂

6’1 former male super model here. This is all true.