How to DM Girls on Instagram (Strategy & Tips)

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    Discussing tips and ideas around how to DM girls on Instagram
    0:00 Intro
    0:19 Mistakes guys are making
    0:51 Comments about a girls appearance
    1:37 What should a guy say?
    2:21 DM or wait to reply to a story?
    2:55 What to say in a story reply?
    3:27 Do girls message guys that send signals by liking her photos?
    4:19 Should you like a girls photos to send her signals?
    4:31 How many messages should a guy send?
    5:10 What should guys post to make them look attractive?
    6:13 Design your Instagram intentionally
    6:24 The trend of having zero posts & no profile pic
    7:01 Trying to look mysterious hurts your image
    7:32 What are some turnoffs on a guys profile?
    8:30 Do girls go through a guys story highlights?
    8:49 Maximize your story highlights
    9:05 What should a guy post in his story highlights?
    9:47 Think about your Instagram game as a whole
    10:08 How should a guy show intent to avoid a friends vibe?
    12:10 How can a guy identify a girl who is a waste of time?
    13:38 Don't fear rejection, there's tons of women
    14:10 Do the guys in the comments get girls?
    15:32 Don't use the call feature lol
    16:10 Should a guy use the "react" emojis on a girls story?
    17:35 What to do if a girl says "thank you" to your DM
    19:30 Checklist
    20:58 How long is too long to wait for a reply from the girl?
    21:33 Be aware of the follower difference (it matters)
    #selfimprovement #dating #instagram

Komentáře • 35

  • @itsdannyvera
    @itsdannyvera  Před 9 měsíci +6

    Timestamps:
    0:00 Intro
    0:19 Mistakes guys are making
    0:51 Comments about a girls appearance
    1:37 What should a guy say?
    2:21 DM or wait to reply to a story?
    2:55 What to say in a story reply?
    3:27 Do girls message guys that send signals by liking her photos?
    4:19 Should you like a girls photos to send her signals?
    4:31 How many messages should a guy send?
    5:10 What should guys post to make them look attractive?
    6:13 Design your Instagram intentionally
    6:24 The trend of having zero posts & no profile pic
    7:01 Trying to look mysterious hurts your image
    7:32 What are some turnoffs on a guys profile?
    8:30 Do girls go through a guys story highlights?
    8:49 Maximize your story highlights
    9:05 What should a guy post in his story highlights?
    9:47 Think about your Instagram game as a whole
    10:08 How should a guy show intent to avoid a friends vibe?
    12:10 How can a guy identify a girl who is a waste of time?
    13:38 Don't fear rejection, there's tons of women
    14:10 Do the guys in the comments get girls?
    15:32 Don't use the call feature lol
    16:10 Should a guy use the "react" emojis on a girls story?
    17:35 What to do if a girl says "thank you" to your DM
    19:30 Checklist
    20:58 How long is too long to wait for a reply from the girl?
    21:33 Be aware of the follower difference (it matters)

  • @AT-mv2mr
    @AT-mv2mr Před 7 měsíci +8

    She seems chill af. Genuinely funny, good content and tips

  • @thejovontorres
    @thejovontorres Před 9 měsíci +9

    Emily was great and came with the jokes. 😂 Cool format for the video. It was like a mini podcast episode. I hope Emily makes more appearances in future videos.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Trust me she’s got jokes for days 😂 Thanks for watching bro 💯

  • @aminnoor7590
    @aminnoor7590 Před 12 dny +1

    it's a practical video sir. thanks

  • @stern_standard
    @stern_standard Před 3 měsíci +4

    Insult them and watch the conversation get started

    • @41BOT
      @41BOT Před měsícem

      Works everytime, but insult has to be measured not hateful, there has to be some interest in it for you and her. Be creative and subtle lol

  • @41BOT
    @41BOT Před měsícem +3

    She tells plenty of truth which makes me feel some respect, but she also beams that vain attitude which makes me roid rage, and I don't even use roids.

  • @brettm6016
    @brettm6016 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Great info! Thanks 👍

  • @TurntableTV
    @TurntableTV Před měsícem

    I'm the type of guy with no posts on instagram but I don't use it as a dating platform either. Before IG was bought by facebook, I had about 500 pics in there. After that, I was kinda reluctant to share my image with facebook.
    That being said, I don't fully agree with her on the "no pfp or posts on instagram" being a red flag - what an individual posts on their social media may or may not be the truth. We have this image of perfection that we want to reflect to the world and behind that might be an actual shitty person. Overall, great insight from her.

  • @emmanuelsanchez4321
    @emmanuelsanchez4321 Před 9 měsíci +4

    What are your opinions on not having Instagram or any other social media? Don't like using it

    • @berrybestlifestyle9188
      @berrybestlifestyle9188 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Imo it makes you more mysterious and definitely less distracted in life…

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  Před 9 měsíci +11

      I’d prioritize what you like and your mental health first. If you feel like your life is better without social media, then forget it. However, realize you are leaving some potential on the table in terms of being able to reach more people, potential business opportunities (depending what you’re posting), and crafting your image in a certain way. Be aware of the tradeoff, and be honest with yourself if you’re avoiding it for legitimate reasons or out of laziness, but prioritize your mind and peace above all else

  • @DanLetts97
    @DanLetts97 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I hate Instagram, and I’m not on it. Any woman that’s constantly on her phone checking Instagram it’s not a woman I can be with anyway, or would want to. They’re not attractive in anyway as far as I’m concerned. I want a woman with a higher spiritual understanding.

  • @vinG91
    @vinG91 Před 4 měsíci

    i usually dont like to add girl i wanna know on instagram
    I find stories very intrusive and spoiling
    I dont need to know what someone is doing all the time.
    It also leads to a lot of wrong interpretation

  • @berrybestlifestyle9188
    @berrybestlifestyle9188 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Yo bro, what jacket are you rocking?

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  Před 9 měsíci +9

      It’s a Safari Jacket from GAP. Utility jackets also have a similar style

    • @Papertrail1908
      @Papertrail1908 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Bring her back, Danny. Good stuff

  • @Overclocker45
    @Overclocker45 Před 9 měsíci +24

    I like your content but this social media game is dumb. Go out there and approach girls in person. When you send DMs, you compete with hundreds if not thousands of guys, many of them pretending to be someone they are not. Getting rejected in person hurts but you will have more chances approaching girls in person than online.

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  Před 9 měsíci +12

      I agree that in-person approaches should be high priority since you can show more of yourself as man - that’s important. With that said, diversifying approaches online has led me to some high quality women/friends too, so it’s worth considering multiple approaches, and I’ll share ideas and content for those interested. Appreciate you watching 🤝

    • @wealthmotivation6
      @wealthmotivation6 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@itsdannyveraHey man. I noticed you haven't been posting in a while on your twitter account. You are missing out on revenue due to lack of regular contents. I can help you run your Twitter account and generate daily attention grabbing content, with your video as a guide.

    • @dongmei3810
      @dongmei3810 Před 8 měsíci

      I don’t have time to approach woman in person because I have so many from IG and dating apps. They are insane lead generators where you can get thousands or hundreds of thousands of impressions daily and plan as many dates as you want per day. If it’s set up correct, you should have a flow of so many woman you can choose the top 1% of your nurtured leads and still not have enough time to date them all.

    • @jessewright8930
      @jessewright8930 Před 7 měsíci

      Yea but he talking to mostly handsome men. As a handsome man you really don’t have to do all that you don’t have to dm girls girls first. I literally messages from messenger from beautiful woman. I feel if you let it flow instead of chasing the woman you want would show up. But if you just have to go out there than hey

  • @ideasandtrucking
    @ideasandtrucking Před 8 měsíci +6

    I don't need to be jumping through f-ing hoops to be perfect to f-ing please you. You feel me? I'm just sick of it

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  Před 8 měsíci +5

      I hear you, but less is actually more a lot of the time. Make sure your presentation is on point, shoot your shot once if you see a girl you're interested in, and move on if it doesn't pan out. Presenting yourself well does most of the heavy lifting

  • @FawadNaeem898
    @FawadNaeem898 Před 7 měsíci +22

    Don't ask a fish how to fish.

    • @newerax1009
      @newerax1009 Před 16 dny +1

      This is such a bad opinion 😂

    • @user-df3op4jz1f
      @user-df3op4jz1f Před 7 dny

      ​@newerax1009 you're cap n save a whole

    • @newerax1009
      @newerax1009 Před 7 dny

      @@user-df3op4jz1f ya, and you lack any real critical thinking. You're told what to believe and you follow along like the good boy you are 🙏🏽

  • @fetB
    @fetB Před měsícem

    why does the camera switch to side view every time she answers? YOu're both talking into the front camera. Whats up with that

  • @DonaldScott910131
    @DonaldScott910131 Před 4 měsíci +2

    If anybody listens to this woman, then your in big trouble. Do what works for you, stop listening to woman per say. Also what a woman finds attractive about you or what she is attracted to you for ultimately reveals the woman. So take that as you will, if a woman is looking at petty things to disqualify you, that tells you what kind of woman your dealing with

  • @frankwise88
    @frankwise88 Před 2 měsíci

    She 🧢

    • @nicholasrodriguez4990
      @nicholasrodriguez4990 Před měsícem

      Facts you don’t ask a fish on how to catch fish 😂😂😂😂 ASK THE FISHERMAN

  • @birdo623
    @birdo623 Před měsícem

    Tip 1 of 1: Don't