NO CONTACT: How to STOP Missing THEM
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In this video go over some ideas & tips on how to stop missing the person you have gone no contact with, in order to heal and move on for good.
0:00 Intro
0:45 The biology issue
2:58 Avoiding triggers
4:32 Mindfulness & replacement
7:12 Verbal & written outlets
8:10 The social factor
8:56 The physical shapes the mental
#selfimprovement #nocontact
Ignore those who ignore you.
I agree
@@stevo6891 👍
@@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls this one girl I liked in the past never gave me the time of day she tried talking to me one day I avoided her
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No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
@@stevo6891 Ignore those who ignore you.
Day 3 of no contact.
Every time I feel the urge to phone, I watch this video.
mine became 5 months😂
Learn to be alone, learn to do the things you used to love to do. Finally learn to be happy or at least try. Love finds you , you don’t look for it. Just don’t hate the world and turn cold. Remember to smile even if it’s hard.
Use that pain as fuel for your inner fire to become the best version of yourself. Remember nobody cares about you, but you.
Still doing No Contact......38 Days now......Still in Pain.
Bruh I’m 6 months in and still think about her every day. It gets easier. But the only way to really heal is to fill your life. Hobbies, friends, exercise, work, new experiences. You have to rebuild a life and identity apart from them. You’re resetting your life
Day 130
Dude date other woman
@@makingmodernmen8843that’s facts but dating other women who are better physically and mentally is way better. Leave the past in the past who you are today is not who you was yesterday therefore women you use to date are women you probably would never date now. Only if your evolving would this makes sense.
@@makingmodernmen8843you got This broo god bless you
Guys go talk to other females even if its a plutonic one. They help give me new insights from the female view that guys miss. For example when you hurt a girl through withdrawl she may feel she isnt good enough and fade away. And even if she contacts you in say 2 months, your head maybe far away by then. I think its safe to say if you havent heard from her within a couple of weeks its time to move on. Some women never give in, no matter how much it hurts them and its for reasons men dont quite follow.
Its been 9 days no contact with a girl after an 8 years (as a GF ofc). Its hurt like hell but when i remember her words, i'm glad that i did NO CONTACT with her.
How’s it going
Did she reach out?
@@barabele directly no, but i found that her sister stalking my ig.
@@riyz7599 perfect, i found my inner peace.
@@riyz7599 great tbh, I’m trying my best to heal from that RS.
Girl here. You guys are sweet. It’s good to know some of you care😍😇
Why shouldn't we? We are human just like you are, no? "Some of you" makes it sound like there is a statistically higher chance of males being sociopaths.
Well, I'll say it anyway. It's been a long time and I'm hurt. And what? She doesn't care. I was thrown away. Still, good to know some of you care, right?
I'm sorry.
My main physical destressor is judo. The problem is I met my ex at judo class, and we bonded deeply over that activity, but now it can be a bit of a trigger. This place is also my main social location. She doesn't attend anymore, but I'm still reminded of her. Yet I don't want to lose the primary destressor, source of fun, and physical activity in my life rn.
I dated a girl for awhile that went to my jiujitsu gym and it screwed with my mind for awhile too, but eventually it goes away and you don't associate the two anymore. Keep going brother and don't change up
I use to do Judo killed my joints over time
When I went through my last break up, it was so hard to follow the no contact rule.
I kept looking at her social media and missed her more until I finally blocked her and cut off all contact.
The social factor was great for me to get over her. And working out kept my mind focused too.
For sure. That's good though that you were strong enough to finally say enough is enough and cut it off. It's tough for a lot of people to do that, but its necessary
Hard when you see her everyday...
Agreed, that’s so hard. Doesn’t mean we can’t do it though. We’ve got this!!
had to go through this too.. It is breakup on hard mode. Nevertheless, you get out even stronger once you are over it. There is a secret benefit in every situation. I believe in you guys!
I`m an 18 year old girl and I needed a video like this. I wasn`t the one that chose to go no contact and that has made it significantly more painful. Me and this person hurt eachother constantly during the relationship, but I still wanted to stay so bad. the process has been really painful and I`ve been seeing this person in my dreams plenty times, missing them everyday and all that stuff. Just wanted to say thank you, to you and all the creators that make content like this, it really gives a sense of comfort and it is incredibly helpful 💗
Omg I'm 19 year old female and I've been going through that exact situation, that's crazy. Good luck to both of us I guess ❤️
Love how you present your videos!!!
Really appreciate you making this video mate 🙏
Just in time. I needed this one.
Man Dani.. this hit deep! Thanks for the information! 👊🏽
Great videos sir ! Keep up the good job !
This was helpful. Thank you, sir!
First time passing by here, your videos are amazing! Love how you include science explaining everything. It helps a lot!
Great content! Thank you.
Regression therapy is great. All that pain of from that little boy not getting enough love and attention from his mum and afraid he will lose her and die. That can be healed and then breakups are more factual and little unpleasant instead of crushing. Heal those parts in you
It has been over one month of no contact from a girl who accused me of cheating on her and engaged in revenge sex only to learn that it was a false accusation. My life has been better and looks more filling looking back now at her immature self. Don't settle with the childish and low value, aim for the stars my boys 🎉
Thank you so much for this video. I tried no contact and even when I try so hard, still i get weak and start contacting. Failed many times. This time I hope it's permanent. I was doing some of the things you have discussed. Now I will try doing it all and do it more seriously. Thank you for explaining so well detailed. I hope everyone who is struggling, gets over this trauma one day.
Yup I tell myself to get the hell out of my head.
I just had a break up and he blocked me. I don’t want him back. I just want to stop missing him.
It was my fault that my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me. I'm gonna take your advice to heart. All I have to do is move on and be better.
I stopped counting the days but it's been a little over a month, I still think of her everyday but she doesn't consume my thoughts. It's getting easier each week but man I still miss her and the memories we had.
Everytime I miss her though I remind myself of the way she discarded me and threw it all away like it was nothing.
It's bin about 4 months now and now and then I feel the pain sll over, but am doing better now and will be in the near future
I am in no contact for 6months now and don’t intend to have her come back
12 days no contact
The no contact is hard. I used to call my neighbors granddaughter my grandneighbor. 8 years I watched and helped her grow. Now poof a disagreement over another grandneighbor and I have no contact, but she lives nextdoor. Very hard to get over. Any advice will help!
1 year of No Contact. First 8 months were tough, but I’m happy that I went through it because of how rational my decisions in dating and time have become. Life will become simpler and better if you focus on the goals that you have that are bigger than a person that was part of your life
On my 5th day today 😢🙏🏽
Love you videos, and i only see you a few days ago, i doing tbe no contact rule again, whit the mother off my son, shes been for a good wile showing low respect, and she also keeps texting me when i have my son,
Has been my fault for a wile, by leeting her, and beeing to soft, but i defo want out my brain and life, i started meeting new girls, again, thanks for any advice
her parents are making us go no contact until she’s 18. She could sneak to talk to me, but she doesn’t want to because she tired of fighting it. She wants to just let what’s supposed to be be, just trust God. I love that idea, I love her ideas, I love her beautiful mind, and I love her. But I can’t do this. I can’t do no contact for 10 months when I love her so much.
31 day.. still in pain.
Im struggling to move on from person i was “ dating” he never wanted relationahip and i was cool taking it slow but he says because his past he cannot move on. But he still wana talk and tell me everything about it
Day 1, but she works in the same company as I do..
First comment of 2024:
I did this to a family member last year who showed disrespect to me that I told them, cut them out of my life for more than six months.
Failed to hold back After less than 20 days. This time I hope it's the last time. I hope this time it's forever. Been almost 3 months. Still in pain. Probably will take more time. Trying my best.
My bm block me so I only can call my son but even he gets told not to pick up
great content man
recently broken up with a 34yr single momaa
im 22
lasted like 2 months but shit hurts i broke it off btw
Yeah man, sometimes the short ones can hurt the most. It's weird how that works. Stay strong bro, it'll get better
@@itsdannyvera Thanks so much brother big blessings coming your way the channel is growing!
im 27 and recently broke up with a 31 yo single mama. lasted 2 months also but shes my coworker and i gotta see her ass every day with another dude now LMAO
@@bigdaddyslick4961don’t date single moms come on!
@@bigdaddyslick4961 lol
Yo Danny, I think you will be super popular and I have an interesting life, let's do a podcast together. I haven't done any btw. I have been kidnapped and had 4 businesses though
Brother, 4 subs… never done a podcast… what do you have to offer him lol, you just want free exposure
Sending pictures of yourself relaxing on a nice tropical beach works wonders. Drives them nuts that you can adapt overcome and ultimately triumph without them. The same applies for any activity, their jealousy is easily heightened.
the no contact rule is really hard as no one knows how long it will take
What if she wants to come back but she waiting for you to make the move
She’s no waiting for you she already got someone else!
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