2 Bad Habits DESTROYING Your Success With Women
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Discussing two of the most common issues I see men having with understanding attraction with women in a dating context. focusing on the essential roles of polarization and personal growth in dating
0:00 Intro
0:15 Separating yourself
7:45 Think in opposites
9:45 Overvaluing the wrong traits
13:00 Separate skillsets
#selfimprovement #datingtips
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Danny I love the environment you talk in, very calm and I can easily understand and concentrate on your words, Thank you.
💯 Thanks for watching man
Be happy alone with who you are, you don't need anybody
if you're not happy alone, then you will not be happy with anybody!, females or guys or any creature
I always appreciate the value you provide, including your personal stories.😂
I also like the points you make about social skills and how it is a trait that when stacked with physical appearance (fashion and physique) increases your attraction. People are drawn to people who have great social skills (emotional intelligence).
💯 Those social skills carry over to so many areas of life too. A lot of doors and opportunities open up when you're good socially
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I agree a lot of guys focus on the ‘ on paper qualities’. Height ,looks ,money. Yeah, those are important, but honestly, just being an engaging person, a person that people want to be around, will take you way farther when it comes to women, as well as your social life in general
Wow. So much truth packed into such a short video.
the job and the car, will get you a conversation,
thats about it,
This channel is hitting algorithm. Too the moon bro🚀
Thank you Danny! Loving all your videos about break up’s / dating advice. No clue why it took me so long to find your page. Keep it up bro!🎉
I’m waiting for this channel to blow up. Some of the best Contant in the space that I have listened to. Very well thought out and not coming from a place of resentment or insecurity.
Dope content my dude 💯
Great Video again. Am new to the Channel & gotta say I wish I came across this information sooner. Just kind of information I need to level up in a few areas of my life 👌
I just wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the incredible content you produce. I've listened to hundreds of CZcamsrs discussing a wide range of topics, but by far, you stand out as the best. Your tone and delivery are impeccable, making it a joy to tune in to your videos.
What sets you apart is your ability to find the perfect balance between various topics. Instead of being firmly planted on one side of an argument, you present information in a fair and unbiased manner, allowing viewers to form their own opinions.
So, thank you, bro, for consistently delivering top-notch content. You've earned my respect and admiration, and I can't wait to see what you have in store for us next.
Shogun method had a beautiful effect on his mindset
Hey Danny, I've been binge watching your content, it's very transformative. Keep up the good work man.
🙏 Appreciate you watching brother
I've already shared with some friends who are facing this problems.
another great video. excellent advice. that inner masculine core can only be developed through being polarizing and openly expressing yourself in a secure way.
🙏 Much appreciated bro
Damn, this is a good channel
Hmm.. Real!
people are more attracted to those similar to them. this is very clear in the psychological research, so remember the “opposites attract” only applies to the unsophisticated lens of “masculine vs feminine” trait bins
I have seen few pf your videos right now...really liked your content which is useful will help us to get matured ....one recommendation add some visual of what you saying like lyrics or like that ...... Respect from you from India
11:51 this..men don’t know this
Sometimes you just have to go with the flow when you’re with a girl
No pressure for a relationship of any sort (unless she’s asking you for money )
Listen, that works when you've already become the thing women like. When you hold the right interests and have the right experiences.
he's right! your tongue game has to be on point..you have to master the gift of gab
You almost always hook us with the link to your next video at the end.😂. I find myself watching like 5 to 7 videos of yours on the spot.
Hmmm!👏🏼
Haha appreciate you watching brother, thank you
@@itsdannyvera As always!♥️✅🚀
What’s funny is that guys who signal higher value are mostly doing it on purpose which actually means the opposite, which means they’re trying too hard but women don’t realize that
Material things don’t mean anything if you can’t talk to anyone. I appreciate the video
She told me today i can be very toxic😂
Danny - what are some good ways to be around women more often? I live in Santa Monica but I work at home so other than the gym I don't really have much of a reason to go outside. I'd prefer to avoid bars since I don't drink much anymore and talking in loud environments isn't the best. I was thinking more beach activities like beach tennis or volleyball, but maybe there are other ways. I deleted all of my apps. I just want to meet women in person.
Danny, I’ve been binge watching your vids and saw your videos on no contact. I want to ask you a question, I’m 21 and relatively inexperienced with women. I’ve been seeing this girl for 5-6 months, and her and I are non-exclusive. My goal in dating right now is not a LTR but rather FWB like the one I have. The issue is I have feelings for her, but I suspect that is only because I don’t have other options right now. Would you recommend I drop her immediately or wait until I have other options? Early on I also caught her lying to me, and she has shown signs of disrespect, but she’s still giving me what I want if that makes sense. Thanks.
Yo man. Im not danny, but i think i got some advice for you. If you and this girl are seeing each other but the vibe feels off, disconnect. If you're normally the one to always reach out, stop for a week or two. See how she reacts. If she doesn't reach out to you, dump her immitiately. She isn't attracted to you anymore, and you have become a side guy. If she does, keep the relationship going and see how it goes from there. Hope this helps.
Just be an extrovert, dude, it's simple. (Well, if you're an introvert, just reborn being an extrovert.)
Scribed!
and still, even when your not into relationship coaching and self development. You’ll still be able to find a partner because i see it everywhere but I don’t believe many know about this material…
Our fathers didnt need to do all that. And rarely is a woman worth the effort.
I can see the attraction in all you are saying, but what is there for a man left if he has to totaly change of who he is?
Every woman will say, take me as who I am or you are not worth it of me. So why does the man has to clown around her.
I am Greek but I don’t have a Ferrari
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Polarity is always woman negative, man positive to work. She's the negative because she has to go through menstruation, menopause, and possibly childbirth. We men don't got to deal with none of that. We're nowhere near as impacted by our biology as they are. We're just the support team. Stay positive.
Life makes up for that 10,000 times over: men aren’t aloud to show emotion, men aren’t aloud to be vulnerable, women and children first, modern feminisms existence, who’s doing all the life threatening work remind me again?, add modern “dating” to the equation or do we just call it “fucking” now. Modern dating HEAVILY favors women.
@@BEATmyguest31 It's not a war. That adversarial attitude is why you struggle. Generating conflict when the ideal is a peaceful partnership.
@@aelfredrex8354 I have yet to find a women who wanted a "peaceful " partnership. They all want excitement and drama. Peace isn't interesting.
Im either a dickhead or to nice
If the girl is extrovert, is she more drawn to intovert guys based on polarity?
not at all LOL
Relying on substance (alcohol) to talk to women is a weakness
If you are a seriously good looking guy, women need to alcohol to be bold enough to talk to you. Took me forever to figure this out. I don't need to be drunk, but THEY DO.
No wife, happy life.
Thats sounds cowad to me. Dont ever give up to find a good woman to share your Life.
There are lots of reasons men won't have "Success" with women.....lots of them ! Some People don't like to hear this said nor admit that it is true, but LUCK is probably the primary reason a man might have success with a woman.....stupid blind unexpected and unexplainable LUCK. LUCK means NO CONTROL which is an uncomfortable feeling.
7:18 honestly bro, I don't recommend teasing because then that will be her idea of where you want to steer the relationship.
eventually it will get to the point of lack of respect so, you don't want that to be the focus because then she'll start trash talking around your peers or family. (even if you sprinkle it in here or there.)
He’s not saying to put a red ball on your nose and act like a clown. Just some playful jabs here at there. Being a robot won’t get you very far.
@@schroederluck7984 Yup, good way of putting it. You don't want to be a clown or come off as a guy that can't be serious. It also depends on the girls personality type, because there's different archetypes. The idea is to lean more toward the James Bond end of the spectrum rather than a standup comedian, though.
It's hard to cover all angles in a video, but in general it's going to always come back to her respect level for you. They look at the whole picture of who you are, so if she genuinely respects you, some teasing here and there isn't going to ruin that. In fact, it should go up. If she doesn't respect who you are, it's over, regardless of your approach.
blud thinks he attractive?
Who cares?...... you know, that could be part of most mens problem.