Why she / he suddenly ends the relationship, leaves! How to choose the right girlfriend / boyfriend.

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
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    A friendly discussion on why someone ends the relationship with no good reason and how to chose the right girlfriend or the right boyfriend and what are the points to consider and watch for when considering a new girls friend or boyfriend.
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Komentáře • 103

  • @justinhyde3456
    @justinhyde3456 Před 8 lety +6

    Me and my partner split up 2 months ago and i have been watching all your videos.they have helped me no end.the way you explain things just make things so obvious. I feel 10 times stronger because you explained exactly how she is,and how she works.incredible.

  • @sahilsxb
    @sahilsxb Před 9 lety +11

    I never saw my grandfather,, but watching you reminds me of that grandfather image I created, I saw all your videos for the obvious reasons ;-) , now I know why I sobbed,,, thank you sir,,, you've answered my questions that I never knew

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety

      You are welcomed dear. I am honoured, thank you :) I am glad the videos have been helpful.

  • @a_m7ammad
    @a_m7ammad Před 3 lety +1

    this happened to me I was into her because she studied psychology and I thought that this makes her perfect because she might understand me and read my mind this illusion of her perfection due to her degree made me blind about her being toxic and psycho with low self steam and bad manner which has zero relation with psychology degree students characteristic ,, and she was into me because I let her feel worthy and add value to her life for the first time she felt acceptable and appreciated regardless of all her doubt about herself and she couldn't feel comfortable being valued cuz she didn't used to it she felt that there is something wrong .. and when it became more serious she left .

  • @esteban578
    @esteban578 Před 7 lety +5

    I had a beautiful relationship so there was never anything wrong with it, She then decided to move out and decided to break-up, I was torn by this cause I was so confused. It got to the point where I would of married this girl. But the part when he says that she hasn't built the person who she is on the inside yet makes so much sense to me. And I have found the reason why she left me, Thank you Dr Mehran

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      David Gonzalez Glad the videos are helpful to you David.
      Feel free to join my FB page
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      It would also be good if you share my animation promo ( you can find it with embeded link to my youtube channel on my FB page ) or any of the videos you like, on to your social media to let others know that there is support after break up and also about my work. Let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong.
      Be good to yourself always. Mehran
      P.S Remember David my university field of study is not in medicine and my elaborate research on the human psyche is not a field taught in universities....So I am not a doctor. 😊

    • @esteban578
      @esteban578 Před 7 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh thank you for your videos they mean so much to me. I will definelty.

    • @markswelt
      @markswelt Před 6 lety

      NORTH CHANNEL CANADIAN JETBOATS same Situation here. she was 20 im 8 years older. now no contact anymore from one day to another

  • @luckyreign8110
    @luckyreign8110 Před 8 lety +11

    Thank you so much sir , I was so depressed but all your lectures cleared my mind now I feel cheerful and helped me to move on .

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety +2

      I am delighted dear that the videos have been helpful. You will be fine , I am certain of it :)

    • @Alem-BelayGebru
      @Alem-BelayGebru Před 7 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh k

  • @shakiestalocachica
    @shakiestalocachica Před 7 lety +1

    I just want to thank you sincerely. I broke up only 3 days ago, for two days I lived in agony but I saw your videos and it's created such a shift in my mentality and now I'm filled with hope and confidence. Immediately I was able to sleep and eat well again. Truly you've changed my perspective, not just for this breakup but in my life.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety +1

      You are welcomed Kim. I am delighted that you feel strong again and found the channel in time! :) I know you just found this channel so you might not know what else is available for you to use throughout your life and become even far stronger by knowing who you are in actuality and how you are put together. Here is how you can explore further. Please visit my site www.MIndThatSeeksTruth.com and take a look at the table of contents of the book I have written and read a sample chapter ( click on the books and they will open page by page as you click on the pages till the sample chapter ends) and see how you feel about them. Then, notice that we are now in the anniversary month of the live talks that we have been having ( for the past year ) two times a week to support friends around the world who are or were going through a break up or had other issues to discuss and what we are doing with the books so every one from all countries regardless of their currency value difference to US dollar to be able to afford and own one. There are over 500 videos on the channel which will help you to move on and be strong and happy regardless the relationships!
      Be good to yourself always, Mehran

  • @MehranDadbeh
    @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety +2

    Thank you Maggie, it gives me great pleasure when I hear sone one enjoys the videos and finds them helpful. Wishing you a wonderful holiday season. Be good, Mehran

  • @joshualett6997
    @joshualett6997 Před 7 lety +3

    You have impeccable style my friend.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Thank you Joshua, glad the videos are helpful.

  • @wim874
    @wim874 Před 7 lety +7

    To bad is havent saw this before i gave my heart to my ex ;)

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety +1

      I am glad you find them helpful Wim. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran

  • @benjaminfranklin8026
    @benjaminfranklin8026 Před 8 lety +2

    I'm only 21 I got more time to work on myself and not worry about a relationship. I still think of my recent one, but I cant have her on my mind, but only focus. It attacks me now and then the thought of her, but I have to accept how my life is going over and over until I truly accept it.

  • @joescugoza5486
    @joescugoza5486 Před 3 lety

    My girlfriend who I had an amazing relationship with filled with love, adventure, etc. left me recently. We talked about kids, marriage, etc. I thought it was meant to be, and one day out of the blue she told me that her feelings had changed and that it was over. Ive been struggling endlessly trying to figure out why and whats wrong with me. This video has given me a step in the right direction of understanding.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 3 lety

      Glad that the videos is helpful to you Joseph. You might enjoy this one as well. Also remember we have live streams on Saturdays at 1 and 9 pm Vancouver time.Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
      Be patient with this video I am suggesting because it is from my writings and is not quick paced but worth the pondering! :)
      czcams.com/video/q2Dtuj5n9cQ/video.html

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 7 lety +2

    What if you chose a Man that acted very kind to you in the beginning then later out find out he was acting, was lying to you & hurting you behind your back & very manipulative. In other words, we don't know & should be warned about personality disorders etc.. liars, manipulators etc.. kind hearted people don't realize how they can become Victims to this type of person etc..

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Yes but it is our desire for what seems to bring psychological security that pulls a wool over our eyes so to speak, or we tend to tolerate what we see is not normal or acceptable yet we tend to feel that the trade off between the enduring and letting the bad behaviour slide is worth it! So in fact you allowed it until your were conditioned to endure it instead of refusing to chose to fulfil the desire through the pursuit of pleasure. In short " I understand what you mean! " :)

  • @torbell7806
    @torbell7806 Před 5 lety +1

    I’m really thankful for your video what happened to me is she suddenly broke up with me with no logical reason that i asked her why? And she didn’t say the reason instead she said that she warned me before and after doing that fake thing in her mind she broke up, so after she said that i tried to search for a reason and I couldn’t find and also i never ever treated her bad or in an inappropriate way(knowing that i was about to marry her), but after this video I truly understood that she was empty from inside and her friends and family in that time put in her too much value for short time so after that she saw her self more worthy to be with someone else and she was also listening to other’s opinions and ignored mine.

    • @ivanvasquez6324
      @ivanvasquez6324 Před 5 lety

      tor bell same thing happen to me. She broke up with me out of no where and I was just confused. I asked her why? and she never gave me a straight answer. Idk why but it still kills me just not knowing what really happen between us. But I would like to get your advice. Or if we can talk one on one just to get a better understanding that would be awesome. Thanks

    • @torbell7806
      @torbell7806 Před 5 lety

      ivan vasquez man look what i realized when someone breakup with you with no good reason it’s because these people scared them self from inside when things between you and them are getting real so they scared them self with false stuff and the had to leave you simple as this, i know it sounds ridiculous but that’s what’s happening so once someone was brave enough to tell they don’t want you anymore it means that’s it and there is no power in the world can change that except them if they change their minds

    • @ivanvasquez6324
      @ivanvasquez6324 Před 5 lety

      tor bell no yeah I get what you mean mean yeah it does make sense now I guess people just handle stuff differently. And just like you I tried to find out why? but then she goes on and says that I seemed desperate and I got annoying which got me frustrated and is just like I’m sorry for caring but I guess she didn’t see it that way. But how are you with your situation now?

    • @torbell7806
      @torbell7806 Před 5 lety

      ivan vasquez man it’s been3 months im getting better bro you have to move on i know it’s hard but you have to understand something just imagine you are looking to someone going at the same thing you are going through and isn’t ridiculous that you see a person obsessed with a girl and that girl doesn’t give any damn thing ?and she just see herself without him ?
      Man till now it’s kind of still hurts but i got to the point that i have to move on im not going to die for someone doesn’t want me (sounds pathetic) if i’m going to

    • @ivanvasquez6324
      @ivanvasquez6324 Před 5 lety

      tor bell yeah I know I feel you on that and it sucks like you put so much effort into someone that doesn’t doesn’t care at all. For me it’s been like a little over a month and it’s all coming to me up all at once which is harder for me and i think in my head like what I could’ve done better or like the what if‘s and it just hard right now but I know got to stay positive. But like the hardest part for me right now is like putting it in my head of just accepting it and moving on cause I know it’s easier said than done. But like did you block her from everything?

  • @kyle1685
    @kyle1685 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you so much! I feel so much better now after watching this.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful Kyle. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran

    • @kyle1685
      @kyle1685 Před 7 lety

      I am 22 and the category is break up. I am watching from New York City.

  • @wahida177
    @wahida177 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow you are great, I’m trying to improve my speaking skills by watching your clips Sir. 🙏🏼

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 5 lety

      I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Wahida,
      There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
      The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
      Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
      You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
      Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
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    • @wahida177
      @wahida177 Před 5 lety +1

      Hello Sir, it’s an honor to hear from you. Thanks again

  • @mastorakosm
    @mastorakosm Před 9 lety

    First of all I wish you Happy New year! Hope everything will be better for everyone this year!
    I continue seeing your videos because you helped me! But after 3 months of my break up I still blame myself! Why? I was feeling alone and so I pressed her! And I told bad things and she also... and she broke up with me! Why I still need her? There are times I believe that she hates me and this destroy me! I want to speak with her but....
    We didn't have time together the last months! We were fighting from phone! Can't understand how everything happened!
    Really I don't know how to forget her!

  • @2530050
    @2530050 Před 9 lety +1

    thank you sir ...... a kiss on your forehead... you just like my grandfather...
    Have a good life..take care of yourself

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety

      manish chauhan Thank you dear , I am honoured to be thought in that way. But I still think I am 25 ! :) we all live in an illusion at times :) LOL I am glad that the videos are helpful to you. Enjoy your life and spend your time with positive activities and people of character and good intentions and faithful qualities. Life has lot more to offer than any one of us could imagine dear, enjoy every minute of it with thoughtfulness and responsibility.

    • @2530050
      @2530050 Před 9 lety

      i do sir... i actually have moved on but sometimes i do miss the time spent...
      we dont miss the person but we do miss the memories spent.. just that...
      i enjoy watching your videos..
      take care of yourself sir...

  • @nasimpt
    @nasimpt Před 7 lety

    Thank you. That was very helpful.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      You are welcomed Nasim. Glad the videos are helpful to you. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran

  • @Ace-gs7fv
    @Ace-gs7fv Před 6 lety

    Epic video thank you kind sir

  • @ferhan.c
    @ferhan.c Před 2 lety

    I left my beautiful Girlfriend, we Met Short each other Last year for about 2 months, she Had No Time for me after at all only little Bit. She enjoyed that i am there. She enjoyed my Attention. My needs was Not in her Point. She chnageds her Number after she went Back to her Home country. I contact her from Facebook but she was on Defensive Mode. Ofcourse she Had another one. After 1 year she came Back, i focused if she Changed, No. I enjoyed her little Bit, i Changed the Plate, i enjoyed her Attention to me. Dumped her after my best Hotel night ever in my life. She = damaged, Not able to pair Bond, alot of friendships Destroyer her. Walk away!!! Easy.

  • @shubbledc
    @shubbledc Před 8 lety

    wow!! thank you very much somehow this brings light to me specially the latter part

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety

      You are welcomed dear. Be good to yourself always. :)

    • @shubbledc
      @shubbledc Před 8 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh
      i will, thank you for such wonderful videos you put up im currently watching other videos of yours. :) and i can honestly say they do make people feel better. thanks alot :)

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety

      Good :) Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in dear.

    • @shubbledc
      @shubbledc Před 8 lety

      usa 22

  • @MehranDadbeh
    @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety +2

    Hello Mast, I wish you a happy new year as well. Listen if you feel you need to talk to her and discuss how things happened and or need to apologize to each other for possible bad words which may have been uttered, then call her and ask her if you could meet for tea or coffee and then be polite and calm and talk to her and say the things that you need to say without anger or disrespectful words or manner. This may be what you are looking for. If she was not interested then you can talk on the phone or write a nice and polite letter to her and say what you wish to say to her. But be kind and polite in the letter. You would feel better if you are kind and polite. :) Just say what you feel you want to say in a polite and kind manner , don't try to tell her what she did was wrong too or blame her.... just say what you need to say , apologize on your own behalf for your behaviour or the things you said that you think you should not had said and have your closure. Just be nice and then move on.

    • @mastorakosm
      @mastorakosm Před 9 lety

      She even want to talk to me! I am sure she hate me because I pressed her after the break up! I will send her a letter! She left me.... why I feel so bad? Why I feel like I did only the wrong things? I was just feeling alone the last months of my relationship!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety +1

      Mast Orakos Mast, It does not matter if she hates you or not. It is all in your mind. You think it is important to your image what she thinks of you, it does not matter, only you think it matters, but in the reality of life , it does not matter. It has no effect on you or your character or your value. Your character is very kind and nice and you seem to have the need for people to know that and think of you as you are and it bothers you if some one may not like you or hate you, because you think it is important what people think of you. You think what others think of you is more important than what you think of yourself and you think it is more important than the truth of who and how you are itself. Just stop thinking in that way and live your life with happiness . You do not owe anything to any one. This was a two way relationship and it worked for a while and then it did not work any more and that is why you two are not together any more and that is all , the end of it and each one of you now needs to go on and enjoy your lives. Just because you are not together any more or because you have broken up does not mean you are a bad person. You do not need to be together or have to get back together to be considered a good person. You are a good person, both of you , just did not work out together and that is all . Now it does not matter if she hates you as long as you do not hate her then that is all fine dear. Go , go and build your life for a better future, this is not worthy to spend so much of your energy , time and emotions on. Be kind to yourself and enjoy your life dear. :)

    • @mastorakosm
      @mastorakosm Před 9 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh thank you for the respond! The words that you write are really true and helpful! I always try to help everyone and when I feel that I don't help or that I am not value for the persons I love I blame myself! I just want to end all this with a good feeling coming from her! Only this! Everything happened because i had the feeling that I was alone because I expecting more!
      Please make a video giving advice on how to love and believe in yourself! Why when someone expecting more 'good' from the others and don't get it feels that he/she is the problem?

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety

      A video will be posted soon which could be helpful along the lines you asked for .

  • @dsamsanthosh
    @dsamsanthosh Před 3 lety

    Thank-you

  • @scarlettfranzia3677
    @scarlettfranzia3677 Před 8 lety +1

    Thank you so much Sir. Made my mind clearer at this very difficult time of my life. I will be okay!

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 7 lety +1

    I love that you wing it reminds me of myself...lol!!!

  • @theraven_lear9722
    @theraven_lear9722 Před 9 lety

    hello sir. I just want you to know that you are helping me a lot getting through it. I wish someday I could ask you something (when it's already a clear question). Godspeed!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety

      You are very welcomed dear. You can reach me on Skype when you need to talk to me , my Skype address is : md.trading1

  • @lukecreed
    @lukecreed Před rokem

    We must choose very carefully who we take advice from. In a state of turmoil we can look to anyone and anything for advice. I have one this my whole life, but just look at who is giving you advice. Do you respect them, does their life seem like a path you wish to walk? The easiest thing to do is to look for external validations for a path to walk, doesn't mean it will suit you. I respect you and your work, but are you the man to offer up such advice for us to follow? I'm not sure

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před rokem

      People may all offer advice but you always have the choice not to accept or follow their advise. You can do the same with all my opinions or advices. You live by your vetoes and choices not by any thought, suggestions, advices or imaginary role models from me or any other.

  • @CA-hp9ir
    @CA-hp9ir Před 7 lety +3

    hello sir! i would just like to ask your opiniom about my situation. i have been in a long term and serious relationship with my ex for 11 years. but just a month ago he left me for someone he just met. like literally someone he just met. he entered into a relationship with her even while he was still with me. then a day later he broke up with me. in less than a week they decided to get married. will the rushed marriage be successful when they barely know each other? they've only known each for a month.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety +2

      probably not! it may look like it is successful for a while but if they do not know each other's consciousness and do not find compatibility in their consciousness level then eventually conflicts and divisions may start.

    • @JR-xp1iz
      @JR-xp1iz Před 4 lety

      Sounds like he already knew her, without you knowing. You're better off without him, it hurts now but one day you will be glad it ended.

  • @kittylikesmilk
    @kittylikesmilk Před 8 lety

    This was fantastic! Thank you. My boyfriend left me for no reason at all.... It was the strangest thing that ever happened to me and I was very very hurt. He said at the end that it was religion.... Because I was Catholic. I am not very religious and he was not religious at all, so this had to have been some lame excuse. Either way, it was moronic and he was a moron and. I am glad he is gone. I cried so much because of this.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety

      +kittylikesmilk Don't cry, celebrate as life has so much more selections and infinite better choices. :) Select better next time and be good to yourself. :) Watch this if you have not already :
      czcams.com/video/guMDhsmVNHA/video.html
      Please share the ones you like on your social media as my newly finished books will soon be arriving and I need as much exposure as I can for the marketing site www.mindthatseekstruth.com . Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category are you in. With thanks, Mehran

    • @kittylikesmilk
      @kittylikesmilk Před 8 lety

      +Mehran Dadbeh hello! Thank you for your response and I will let friends know about your videos. I will certainly choose better. I had a gut feeling in the start but I am a very giving person and I justified my little discomforts in hopes of a good relationship.... Anyhow, your video taught me a lot. I grew up without a father and sometimes I don't know how to set limitations with men... So, I've made my mistakes and I'm learning. Thank you!

    • @kittylikesmilk
      @kittylikesmilk Před 8 lety

      +Mehran Dadbeh I am watching from the USA :)

    • @kittylikesmilk
      @kittylikesmilk Před 8 lety

      +Mehran Dadbeh I am 29 years old

  • @MeanBeanMachine5
    @MeanBeanMachine5 Před 8 lety +1

    I'll give this a look someday. I think I just might know the proper reply. But still..

  • @ingula91
    @ingula91 Před 6 lety

    Oh my... 2 days ago my boyfriend ended a great 2-years long relationship with me. i'm 27, he's 23...the reason? he told me i'm totally perfect inside but he hates my body because well i'm...puffy, i have really small breasts and he can't stand it. he tried to accept it from the beginning but it didn't work. he doesn't want to help me loose my weight because he thinks i should do it on my own if i care. but that wouldn't be enough because he needs big boobs in his life so much. he has a nice, muscle body because the outside is so important. i love him, i wanted us to be together for the rest of our days. i'm angry and frustrated because we were a great couple. i'm in pain but on the other hand...i can see that his "love" was so superficial and shallow.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful ingula. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
      How to join the live talks:
      You can join my live talks on CZcams czcams.com/users/MD007ish or on my Fb Page:
      facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talks which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talks which could be held either on Face book or CZcams channel. ( Most often these days will be on CZcams and the post will provide the link to it:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Vancouver time (Pacific),
      Right here on this link::
      czcams.com/users/MD007ish
      Then with some additional information on my site or events
      www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com

  • @jananisundaralingam5880

    wow thank you

  • @yosratag918
    @yosratag918 Před 7 lety

    thank you sir. .
    then what to do to build the confidant within me ?

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      These are helpful :
      czcams.com/video/TygVTwXD3rU/video.html
      czcams.com/video/M1r5OQBYxMw/video.html
      czcams.com/video/H6BNaIqkcRc/video.html

  • @spearmint4093
    @spearmint4093 Před 8 lety

    I have an unusual question Mehran Dadbeh: what if I like how i look in mirror but not on photographs so that i photoshop the original pictures into making myself look more pretty - is that ok? Or will guys think "im insecure" and such things? I like myself in every way, except how i turn out on pics... so i really cant stand to put up pics i havent edited into being more beautiful.. I like to talk myself into like i just am putting makeup on me but i know some people notice i am not really myself... what can i do about this ? i resist putting up regular pics but at the same time i want to show the world me as my lovely (photoshopped) self... some friends and family have told me to stop photoshop but i cant... please let me get this straight

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety

      +JE ENN Whom are you putting the photos up for? who are you trying to impress by photoshopping the photos? The truth is that you look good and is to your liking then who cares if it ( the photos ) represents your exact looks or not and if it looks as good as you do in real life. Don't we all sometimes make faces in the photo ? is that then needs to be photoshopped because it does not represent how we look exactly since we made faces when taking the photo? Just rely on truth and relax, the rest of it does not matter. Do not turn other people into your judges and live your life as you know it is and no one else needs to see it as you see it yourself ! :) P.S . and go to my site and buy my book(s) ! :) lol www.mindthatseekstruth.com

    • @DIAMONDGIRL57
      @DIAMONDGIRL57 Před 7 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much! My ex left for no reason.before the brake up I noticed his behavior. He became rude and irritated for no reason. I believe he was irritated because he could not find a reason to break up with me so he sent a text. Yeah! He's 67 years old!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety +1

      You are welcomed dear: Make sure to visit my FB Page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ I have free webinars for the next few weeks and you can ask your questions live and get answers and also listen to other people's questions and answers I will offer. When you visit my FB page facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ look for the Webinar post. It should say 10.30 AM Pacific, which is 1.30 PM Atlantic and I think it will be 12 midnight India time on Saturday January the 14th. Where are you watching the videos from? good to yourself always, Mehran :)
      Visit my FB page facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ and see the Webinar post. It should say 10.30 AM Pacific, which is 1.30 PM Atlantic and I think it will be 12 midnight India time on Saturday January the 14th. Where are you watching the videos from?

  • @arunmozhim6960
    @arunmozhim6960 Před 4 lety

    You are like buddha to me sir.. I am alive because of buddha and you.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 4 lety +1

      You will be fine, just watch the videos and become clear on how the psyche is made and the role of desire, fear, ego , thoughts and so on and you will become the mechanic of your machine and will never feel as if something devastating has happened when you break up and you will always be ok with the knowledge of how your psyche is put together and how it works and why you feel, act ad react the way you do in life. You will be perfectly fine dear. :)

  • @VijaySingh-gz9jm
    @VijaySingh-gz9jm Před 7 lety

    Hello sir please give me an adviceBeing in 6years of realtion suddenly she broke up and after 4month she says i miss you andWanted to be in my contact She is married now few days ago i know she will contact me after few daysWhich will hurt me

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Vijay Singh If she is married then walk away. Dont pay attention to her attention to you. Go and build your life for a woman who would be single and will be with you and build a life with you..

  • @lefoxmethodstudiouk
    @lefoxmethodstudiouk Před 9 lety

    You are so great.

  • @sshamsi1905
    @sshamsi1905 Před 8 lety

    Sir its lovely listening to you but i would like to have a phone conversation with you and i might require some help . Please your help would really take me out of deep depression pls sir would you help me

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety +1

      Hello Shamsi,
      All my consultation appointments are scheduled through my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com please visit the site and see which appointment package suits your needs. If you can not afford the right size package then just choose any of the packages so the system can reserve a time slot and then I would be able to extend it as time slots open. Hope this will help and work for you as I don't have complete control on the time slots and are only allocated by the site automatic appointment system. Let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always, Mehran

    • @sshamsi1905
      @sshamsi1905 Před 8 lety

      +Mehran Dadbeh sir i am from india but born and raises in saudi arabia . I am 27 years old and have been having quite lots of problem with my girl recently . I would love to talk to you sir caz i have plenty of your videos and i just love hearing your thoughts and how u take life as . I have become your well wisher and a fan too . I really hope to talk to you soon and is it possible me and the girl could have a conference call so in order to know what was right or wrong ? Thanks a lot

    • @sshamsi1905
      @sshamsi1905 Před 8 lety

      Raised ***

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety

      From which country you are watching the videos Shamsi ? I have a live talk on Sunday morning 8.30 AM Pacific Time. If you are in India that would be 9 PM Sunday for you . I will be live on Face Book page "Amazing Things In The World " you can then type in your question and I would read it and answer it live on my talk. I hope this would be helpful as it is not so easy to match time and all my appointments are books by the site and open time slots are not always easily known to me.
      If you can not afford making an Skype booking for consultation from my site then let me know , I will try to find a free time slot for you to talk to me on Skype. Do not worry all these things ( break up pain...) will go away and you will be fine , it just looks and feels so bad now but in reality it might have been a blessing! :)

    • @sshamsi1905
      @sshamsi1905 Před 8 lety

      +Mehran Dadbeh sir i will surely book an appointment and i dont mind flying down to you as depression is getting over me and i am not able to know what to do . Everytime i am being judged and i just love her to death but everything seems so carried away and i don't know she feels so numb even though spending so much time with me . Sir if you can help me out i would be so much grateful to you . Pls sir help me out of this mess because its maiking my life a miserable one without peaceful sleep and just being judged . I would like to put her also in the picture so u can hear us both , if it's ok with you :( thanks once again sir and you seem to be definitely an amazing man with a great personality

  • @daria_avery
    @daria_avery Před 7 lety

    Don't assume only straight ppl are watching..thank you sir

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Yes Daria and I have asked (in other videos) every one to change the words to suit their type of relationship. The channel was originally focused on one type of relationship and from boy's point of views and later many ladies expressed interest to make it so to include their perspectives as well and then later it became popular amongst all type of genders and couples...I have now asked every one to use the concept and taylor it to their type of relationship so I may be able to deliver the sentences faster rather than include all appropriate wordings to include all types of relationships. The newer videos have considered more universal wordings in the sentences as much as possible. Be good to yourself always, Mehran

    • @jennyknott7652
      @jennyknott7652 Před rokem

      I'm a 56 year old gay lady and just use the same concepts and language..I 'm from Australia and married a lady from Texas during covid.. Stayed over there for 18 months then we moved back here to Australia.. She left 4 weeks ago after staying 8 months, citing that I changed when I returned and didn't show her the love and validation she deserved.. I was struggling with finding and keeping employment, getting the property and maintenance fixed (due to bad tenants) and I hit a little depression. I was honest with her about her and think the financial, psychological and emotional parts of 2 huge international moves took it's toll on me..I never was aware she was feeling unloved and neglected and left within a week of her Mum visiting here..She blamed me for everything and sent me all her journal writings justifying my lack of love for her...I took responsibility for my part and just wanted to right the wrongs with an action plan and to reconcile.. She was ok at first then just went straight to divorce proceedings and dividing assets.. I am slowly getting back on my feet and gaining confidence..