What to do when she breaks up with you| The Power Of Silent Treatment
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- This video shows you the exact steps you will need to go through if your girl just broke up with you. It will help you heal very fast or have her running back to you in no time.
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00:00 - Intro
01:42 - sponsor plug
02:01 - If she just broke up do this
05:13 - 4 ways silence will benefit you
06:01- benefit 2
06:22 - benefit 3
07:17 - benefit 4
08:02 - How to implement no contact rule
08:53 - Rule 2
09:37 - Rule 3
10:35 - Conclusion
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Hi jessica, is this method working with an ex who lose their feelings towards you and is on an LDR relationship?
@@ltgaw1665 You are amazing, you are doing good job with the information you shared always. Keep the good work.
Thanks
Everyday I learn something new❤❤❤❤
@@ltgaw1665 🔥🔥🔥
This is my message to my fellow men. Go to the gym. Lift weights 💪🏾. Be dangerous and silent. Become logical. Destroy the old u and unlock the new u. If a woman or someone that close to you hurts you. You have to go to war with yourself. You your pain and rage to conquer the world. That's what a man supposed to do. And for the women that gives us men the knowledge. Thank you. Use your pain and rage to better yourself, not hurt people. Only control what you can control. And that's u
Thanks dude your comment is 🔥
Thanks nice words of encouragement.
Thanks I needed that
Thank you very much.
Bro you go fire 🔥 🔥🔥👍
"Silence is the best response to someone who doesn't value your words". That's Gold.
Definitely a Dimond
Lot of men are going through what you just break down. Men always stress just to give women better life, working long hours, cherish them like a queen and still get treated like dustbin. Thank you for saving our heart ❤️
My current situation. Working my ass out only to get to a fierce house 😅
Briffault's Law - No matter what you have done for her, the benefits she derived from those acts are always temporary and her question will be, "What you have you done for me lately." If the answer is in the negative, you're on the bubble.
@confirmdad, this is what i am facing right now, in the same situation, but not yet break up. I worked long hours, and she's not even working with 4 kids. Giving me a kinda of trauma and I tryna concentrate at work but with God has been helping me out. Once, I closed from work, going home is another thing for me. A lot of thinking 🤔 damn. Thanks for this piece madam Jessica
Indeed
This works!! I got quiet and turned to God even more. I was transformed, strengthened, smarter, wiser, God did his thing on me. It’s crazy how much clarity you get when you get quiet.
@@temitopeoyeyemi899 you can do it bro. As long you chose to focus on yourself. Not in a selfish way but in a “growth” way. During this time try and see how you can improve yourself. Pick up a book or an hobby. Most of all, yield to God bro. He will transform you.
Amen brother it is amazing when the heart is broken and in the reshaping process when you turn & give it to the Lord you grow exponentially Psalm 51:17. Im living proof. Started to pray, read my bible & get back in Bible based church. In less than 2 years. Gym, wrote a book, started LLC, started mentoring again. Rediscovered my true purpose. Side note my ex once me back...but unfortunately I've out grown her. I kindly & lovely rejected her request.
@@mattd8868 praise God!! I’m so happy for you broda. I’m so much better now. So much transformation and revelations received. To God be the glory. When we turn to God during heart break or any unfortunate life situations, we will never lose because we have a solid foundation. Much love broda.
Amen me to brother. 7 year relationship and God ripped me from her put me in isolation and reshaped my heart. I went from wanting bad for her to praying she find her way to God also. But we’re done I’m not going back
@@MentionDav3 amen brother. Stay up in the light bro. God is your strength bro.
Giving them the silent treatment is hard, but it MUST be done. Do not initiate contact even if you want to talk to them. Silence really is golden.
Does it means you shouldn't pick their calls and answer their text as well ???
@@godjudah6422 Now that choice is up to you. If you have to pick up her call, keep it platonic, be happy, do not display anger or grief and above all, KEEP IT REALLY SHORT.
Text wise, do not respond immediately. Give it a couple of hours or a day. That shows you are NOT desperate.keep the text short and do not let the conversation drag.
Show high value ✌🏿
An old saying is, "Silence is golden." There is a time to speak, and there is a time to be silent.
@@godjudah6422 Yup....
If you really want the gal back, your only chance is to use the silent treatment. It sucks - it's like going cold turkey from nicotine or caffeine. But if you act on your instinctive reactions when she bolts, you'll permanently wreck the relationship and prove her accusations correct about you "pressuring" her. Women cannot stand being ignored and are totally confused by it. It's your only remaining effective - and legal - weapon, men; use it wisely. And under no circumstances should you publicly lose your temper - go scream into an empty canyon if you have to, but never at her....
Silence, no contact exactly what I practiced on my previous break up.
I must say it gave me peace of mind.
Once someone hurts me I’m done with them
@@stevo6891 are you perfect?so you don't hurt anyone?
Did they reach out to you
Guys seriously? Girl never break up just not reason … never !!!! Maybe you do something wrong ? No ? Seat chat another girls , made tinder or only fans ? And she figur out it’s ? Nobody think why she do it! It’s have a reason always then maybe it’s you first hurt she ?
I thought traders don't got no emotions no more😅😅😅
My partner of 7 years just ended things with me a week ago. It was so sudden and felt like the whole world was ending. I've been trying so hard to keep in touch with her, trying to mend things to no avail, acting like a desperate fool.
No more. That ends now.
Thank you for your message. I needed it.
I am with you right now, I did the same.
Bro go to the gym, read more books about growing and be silent.
This is exactly me!!! But as you say… no more!!! There’s a new me!
Sorry to hear
I know how it feels, stay strong...
The funny thing is, my ex pulled this on me right when I broke up with her. I tried to contact them, reconcile in a couple weeks, but no reply. I was going crazy until one day, I completely ceased trying to contact them and focused on myself instead. Keep in mind we were still friends on Facebook. I than started going to the gym, spending time with friends and family, meeting new people, picking up new hobbies and focusing deeply on my career. I ended buying a 2021 Mustang and losing 25lbs within two months. She looked at my social media of me enjoying my life and BOY WAS SHE PISSED (lol). She was so upset she left a angry note on my door a month later trying to blame me for the breakup and I just ignored it and threw it in the trash. I guess the silent treatment worked for the both of us :).
WHY DO YOU THINK THAT MOST exs WANT TO KEEP THEIR FORMER PARTNERS HOSTAGE WHILE THEM THEY'RE ALREADY IN OTHER RELATIONSHIPS..???
ATTTA BOY!!! Kill ‘em with kindness!! Work on yourself, and you SURE DID!!! Happy Holidays!! 🎄😎
Why did you want to break up with your ex , what was the reason ?
@@mikeomondi6941 thank u
why would u want to risk it by breaking up with someone then decided later on u want to contact to reconcile....? Sound like an indecisive grown boy game.
I tried his when my wife left because I had quit my job to concentrate on art. I disappeared completely out of site and she started living it up with a new boyfriend who had quite a good job as a clerk. It took me a year before the sacrifice I had made began to pay off when I started painting portraits. I earned in a week, if not far more , what her new guy made in a month. One day they went to a posh nightclub and some of my portraits of jazz musicians were hanging on the wall. Her new boyfriend loved jazz and remarked to someone who by chance knew me. When my ex heard that they were my paintings she desperately tried to get back to me, but I had moved on. She tried committing sucide to get my attention but to no avail. The boyfriend had met another girl whom he got engaged to and later married .
She's in it for the thrill and high life
What a story 😃👌🏾
Ahahaaha karma!
In swahili there’s a saying we have “mtaka yote, hukosa yote”
He who wants it all, loses it all
this is the happy ending i wanna hear
Went silent after a break up and she still call me today , that’s how I actually healed .😁
That rush of emotion... convert that energy into "doing something", don't fight it, don't push it back down, feel it and then MOVE. Go to the gym, lift some weights, do some sit ups or push-ups, but convert that feeling into something good!
Man, people don’t know how to commit anymore… technology has truly made relationships harder
Technology makes people feel they have options.. which are not real options though...
I agree 👍 wholeheartedly
@@MultiPrincelove facts
Jessica is right on the no contact rule. If your partner breaks up do not contact that person. Absence according to Robert Greene creates attraction. If you chase when you are most vulnerable, that person will reaffirm why they left you. Most people find it difficult to end certain relationships and when they do the last thing you don’t won’t to do is to give them the opportunity to affirm their thoughts leading to the break up.
During no contact, engage your self with other stuff that will improve you. Learn a skill. I recommend learning how to play the Saxophone 🎷. You meet more women and more people. Hopefully, you’ll find someone worth your while. I’m done. Great vid. Jess.
Great contribution! Thanks
But in my case.. her mom kept on txting me about her daughter..
@@cheyo2151 block the mom. Not because you hate her or anything but because she reminds you of someone you’re trying to let go.
Great addition to it.
But what if we don’t want to leave that person & if that person is more important then our life
I dont care what anyone says. People may have forgotten what you have done for them, but they never will forget how you made them feel. If you were good to them one day or one year, they would come back at some point. Try to do you and live life. Just take it one day at a time.
If someone was good to you in a relationship and still leave then that's not being loyal at all don't tell someone you want to date them and then just turn it around and break up with them that's why women can't keep a man now
There are someone people they don't appreciate anything so try them
Jessica OS you're a gem. You are so uncut in your delivery that your value screams in a such a way that it hits home
💯. Not too many women are this transparent. You are spot on with this!
Give this woman a million subs🤝🏾👏🏾
I appreciate you Jess for how articulate you always are in your videos and this was a banger. Well articulated and elaborate
This works 💯 percent... U deserve a million likes for this!!! 👏👏👏👏
Thanks sis. I really appreciate you for taking the time out of your day to give such great advice.
Shifted all my anger into my work, am workaholic.
This is my first encounter to your channel & I must say, it is awesome & eye opening. I really needed this & I'm grateful. Thank you Jessica.
This is the only good and effective thing you can do.
Also, this video is truly golden and detailed unlike other people who just talk about feelings but no methods are given.
Thanks!
Jessica you have helped me through a hard break up. It wasn’t the longest relationship but we clicked so fast so thank you for the tips and help
one thing I love about you Jessica is that you're very genuine
After giving her the cold shoulder and moving on with my life, my ex recently sent me a text telling me she didn’t know if it was me or a friend of mine sending her threatening text messages telling her “be careful. I know where you live”. She was basically telling me to stop bothering her. In my head I was like “wtf? Lol”. And I told her the truth. I said to her “good luck with that but you don’t have to worry about me. I’m done waisting my time”
I was left wondering if that was her way of breaking the “no contact rule”. I would always tell her that im there for her and would protect her from everything and everyone. She was probably expecting the same response, but nah. Good luck to her.
Your words are healing my soul and I feel so confident right away thanks love you for your great works 👍💯👏
This woman has a special place in my heart
I once said this and I will say it again. I love the way in which your brain works Jessica. You've just nailed it again....as usual. I will definitely watch this over and over again.
One of the greatest lessons I have learnt since 2021, in my young adult life.
Love 💕 you sis.we need more powerful black woman like you.
I'm very lucky to be watching you for years now, miss Jessica, love from Tanzania and DRC 🇨🇩
I always appreciate Jessica for her wonderful advices .U know when people go through such situations and they don’t know what to do cause most of people really don’t aye don’t worry just listen to jessica cause it helped me a lot to realise the facts .Thank u jessica ❤️
This one came at the right time for me. Thanks a bunch Jessica
This is the most clever and wise woman I’ve ever seen wow
I have watched most of your videos and you always give practical and reasonable advice to real situations. Thank you.
i did this in Feb. Painful at 1st, but worth it. U rock Jess
Time heals most wounds, silent treatment works wonders and keeps the other party interested in a way which they can't understand... Jessica speaks volumes, no contact rule makes all the very difference in a heartbreak situation. When it's time to move in it's a sign that things need to move smoothly from there. (Keep it simple stupid) the kiss rule! What is important is knowing your self worth and sticking to your guns with your confidence intact.
My day is going to be 100 times better due to this video. I really appreciate it. Thank you 🙏🏾
This woman is gold. Thank you so much, Jessica. I am getting through this hard situation. I've been dumped 1 month ago, and I have mixed feelings and my self-esteem has been severely damaged... And for the moment, despite the fact that I had the temptation to break this 0 contact, I am still abiding to it, no matter it hurts. Silence will be without any doubt my best friend in my new journey and will help me to heal all wounds
Jessica, you are a Diamond! I experimented it in the past and it works so well! Silence is everything!
Thank you Jess. This video is solely mine 💔😭😭😭
I think I needed this video and Jessica comes to the rescue❤️...Thank you🙏🏽💞
Much love from Kenya ❤️❤️❤️so creative and to the point
Thank you so much Jessica. I really needed to hear this 🤍
Jessica - you are the best and you speak from your heart - thank you ever so much for helping humanity. God bless.
This is why I don't want to unsubscribe, love you more❤
Like you stated earlier, I really thought I have found the one, it was such a beautiful beginning, at a point she started behaving strange, stopped ignoring my calls, stopped replying my messages. I taught it was all a dream, I taught I won't survive without her, until I decided to work on myself to become a better version of me and today I am gradually getting used to it, recently I unfriend her on Facebook, delete her contact as if I knew this video is coming. Thanks a lot for this enlightenment
Stay strong king you're doing great. Keep pushing. Women are very very fickle and they will lead u on and bullshit you until the very end. ALWAYS remember this, because I'm actually going through something as we speak.... SHE BROKE up with YOU. Her loss, your gain. She'll feel it after some time has gone by. She will most likely contact you if you follow these methods, and when she does, just deal with her for what she is, which is just for a good time 💯💯💯
Did she reach out
Update?
Auntie Jessica she used me but I moved on, the moment I started watching ur videos it mend me, know am new and focused, thankyou
Wow, I never thought of this facts, this are powerful gems that needs to be kept in a library for further references...
Jessica thank you so much. That's what I'm going through right now although she blocked me from all social media. Thanks for this message ❤
Again Jess your right on the money...always on point..👍👍💯
Depends on the person,silence also means lets both leave it alone.And youre most likely to never get it right.
Let them be ,,, so you will have rest of mind
Vintage Jessica. Another masterpiece. You are just super, Jessy.
This video has seriously convinced my just 2days back broken heart Grateful for your sound minded advice 🙏🙏🙏
That’s a great video Jessica. Thanks for sharing it with us💯❤️
Guys trust me this works like a charm…we ended things 5 months ago and so i went dead silent after i told her it was nice getting to know her…she texted me a week ago telling me she missed me💀
I absolutely love this. Thank you so much for keeping it real.
You are indeed an Oracle. Your words are really medicinal. I have just regain courage in heart to on. I appreciate you
What a stoic sort of philosophy in controlling emotions ... A wow video
This is the kind of situation I'm going through now but me watching this has made me have a change of mind now and I'm okay.....thanks so much for the advice 🙌🙌
how is it now ?
Wow that's true! Silent is the key of all we face in our life. Thank you very much.
What happens if none of you really want to break up but you both follow the no contact rule?
Hi there, hope you are well... Your words it's like a great medicine for my pain, however the moment that I am going through now is giving me fuel to go training twice in a day...
May Allah bless you
You are so amazing. Thank you for all u do for we the opposite gender. I beg you to talk more on obsession. I am trying so hard to admit I was and finding measure to heal from it and let every moment you discuss with us count.
My gf just broke up with me and you just healed me
Jessica thank you. I’m from Liberia and have been following your post, but I live in the US , thank for your advice.
Silence is the best ever
Thanks mumy❤️👍🏾
Really struggled with my breakup but i did engage the silent treatment it's hard but am getting better each day. Thank you Jessica your advice has proven to me am on the right path
Same. It’s really hard but trying
Should I block her bcus she use to call me,sumtimes I pick sometimes I ignore so shuld I distance her by blocking her
Same to me it's hard but am trying
I think i fambled i tried so hard to get her back "i hate my self for this
Update us
"Silence is the best response to someone who doesn't value your words." This quote 🔥 What about if you stayed friends yet you're in no contact?
No contact means no chatting,. No calling and no texting
That is an impossibility please. Friends keep in contact so obviously you will be contacting your ex and that will delay or even make the healing process impossible.
I think this is super helpful advice. And 100% right. I had a tough conversation with myself. I still love her, but i can’t control her feelings. I deserve someone who loves me and wants to build a life together.
Thank you for your advice. Listening to your calm voice has really calmed me down. Wicked appreciate it, subscribed!
This exactly what am doing now and it helps a lot , trust me
You nailed it. 👏
Silence and no contact are best ways to deal with the stubborn partner 👌
Definitely my case I know she likes me but is stubborn and wants me to go nuts I’m actually very positive if I stay silent she’ll come back but if not meh I’m actually doing good even tho it’s been 2 days but I started working out months ago and have a cool job and begin to study in a month I’m actually looking forward to the future but I really miss the sex but I’ve just decided to not jerk off or contact another girl from my past I feel like this control over my urge is giving me control in other areas of my life too so it’s really nice and finally giving up on the endless arguments is relieving too
These videos actually even save lives...
Being silent is very difficult to under go because the temptation to him/her is too high , though one is afraid of time but silence will help, there's a lot of maturity in it. Madam I salute your channel ❤️❤️🇨🇲
Thank you for this video, this is my situation right now
Thanks alot for the awesome information. Ur one in a million and the best counselor ever come across. Ahmed from Qatar.
J Jessica I really love you! You give good advice keep up the good work
YES! Silence!! It's the best tool. I have done this in my past relationships that didn't go well and they always start calling after some days and weeks but because i needed that time to rethink it out, it worked for me.
Thanx Jess. whoever doesnt use this tool will definitely fall into that bad relationship again and again.
Jessica your video was a game changer for me thank you! I was about to contact my ex wife but I decided to follow your advice and stay silent. So my ex wife knows that I’m hurt but she can’t feed on my weakness because I just don’t try to get her back or talk about it. I can tell she is already very confused. We are co-parenting our son and I act like the break up means nothing.
I wish I watched this video before... I already did all those stupid things and put my self in the lowest situation... but I got it now .. thanks Lady .
Thank you very much this helps a lot silence stop begging she left you.
A very practical approach. 👍
Your advice is always spot on Jessica. Thank you for your help on this!
Your advice is priceless. U r a source of inspiration for the guys who r in a failed relationship
Wow. I needed to hear this. Thankxx Jessica OS
This is the best video ive seen on this topic. Thanks alot ❤, the way you broke down everything and delve into.
To my fellow gents, keep chasing excellence in your ambitions & passions above all else. Be ok & content with what you have whether you've got a special lady in your life or not. Eat well, sleep well, workout regularly & pursue your passions are what I live by.
You read my mind Mrs Jessica..☺ perfectly doing all these.
Thank you - just the advice I needed really well structured and shared - thanks Jessica ❤
Glad it was helpful!
Excellent content as always! 👏
She broke up with me without saying anything. She just blocked me in the midnight. In all social medias. I felt like part of me died for like 10 seconds, and now nothing. I feel nothing. No happyness, no sadness. Like I am an empty shell of something, called "human"
hope u doing better now bro since its been 9 months now. It's even worse when they just ghost u like that, makes you feel like ur the crazy one
@@denzeilconway905 Yeah, bro, I found wonderful girl, and now we want to get married in 2 months, I am so happy. I can't even believe that it turned so good. Thank you very much for your support!
Keep strong I’m going through the same
Always hungon.. ts always hard at the start, but eventually you absorb it.
no manipulation strategies will bring anyone back...only love
Totally agree with you, now I fully understand how to act after break up. ❤❤❤
I love to alottttt silent is the best answer to someone who doesn't value ur word's
This is great advice for everyone. Thank you for your videos, Jessica. You are spot on!
It's my first time listening to ya words and they're just enlightening, this has always been my favorite option whenever am dating just incase things don't go my way,, rather than silence tormenting ya ex it's my best weapon to making sure I can smile after 30mins of a break up,
Thanks Lady Jesca.. I really love the content
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