If your partner has EVER said or done these, THEY'RE CHEATING!
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- Yes, there are tell tale actions and phrases all cheats use. I'm sorry to say but if your partner has EVER said or done these ten things i've outlined, They're cheating on you.
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A narcissist will never admit to having cheated, but if you have evidence that they cheated, they will blame you! 😮
Very true 👍
You nailed it.
I believe I was with one for 20 something years and didn't even know it go figure...... Be careful out there is a jungle out there
Trust me I understand this from experience. And it's sooooo true!!
Truth
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Getting cheated on hurts for years and it's hard to trust ever again
I agree.
I'm still accusing other woman for her mistakes
Speak for yourself because there's not a shortage of men and women in the world. Trust issues will leave you lonely and miserable.
Only hurts as long as you refuse to accept reality....you are now free from a cheater .
When you lose all your worth that's is when they ditch you. Their only anxiety is you being able to move on. I just found a face book account after I deleted mine because I was being accused of cheating and I still got accused only to found out an account was set up using my number. I never set it up I'm starting to think it's a deflection of what she might actually be doing to me as an excuse and diversion and constantly having petty arguments to go knowing I can't as much as I may want to it's hard. I know it's better to have nothing than to be in a harsh relationship, but it's the frustration to be built up and than to be dragged down and start again is the pain.
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Cheaters lack self control. Point, blank, period 💯👍.
And are deceitful.
Nah they have self control they just CHOSE to make the decision. Most cheaters dont just have drunk one night stands, the other person usually been around secretly, they had to build up some kind of relationship to end up in bed. Man or woman. They had to text talk etc first
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Being cheated on made me not trust nobody else
Understandably. It does run deep. I feel you
It sticks because I’m dealing with the repercussions of my boyfriend who’s been cheated on by his ex. I’m doing everything I can to make him feel secure but it’s damaging me at the same time. I’m so sorry you went through that because I’ve been in that situation as well but hopefully you don’t ruin something good with future relationships over what a shitty person did to you
If you don't trust the person don't be in a relationship with them. Stay single.
Correct.
Facts
Well said. 100% agree. So much better being single than with a toxic liar
That's what I do
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I am going through the storm guys please pray for me. I need to see a therapist I am miserable
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Everything’s gonna be ok. Things will get better. Storms are temporary ❤
So painful to be cheated because you automatically feel unloved..it hurts deeply.
LIES RUMOURS RUMOURS AND LIES 😕
plus it makes it hard to trust the next person
Yes it's very painful when someone cheating on you you feel that you didn't ment anything to that person, you're betrayed, hurt, mentally and physically abused, and you feel useless at that point.
@@cyrilblaauw9927 very true..AND YOU FEEL USELESS AT THAT POINT.
@@ishma2100 you know truth hurts..IT REALLY BECOMES SO HARD TO TRUST NEXT PERSON
Cheating is a choice not a mistake this I don't take lightly.
absolutely!
I agree! Its zero tolerance. 1 and done.
@@brianyerger583 That was my principle but I am starting to realize that It gets really complicated when underage kids are involved.
@@beaverg2348 compromising 😥
Thanks it's afraud nt amistake
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@@Laurus44 he’s my friend lol
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnson spy*
Cheats almost always accuse you of cheating. This is a fact and I’ve seen this personally done to myself and others
i never cheated even though i had the chance many times. and i accused my ex of cheating when she changed. and guess what she was cheating never admitted it but i found out from vids from her affair guy and affair lady as they sent it to me as payback since i helped them. also turned out she was a narc at the end of the relationship when i went for therapy. so nope what ur saying is false. cause my situation also happened to a close friend in a different way.
@@mohammadkhamees6644 wow
@@mohammadkhamees6644 yes this so true people kill me when they say you are a cheater just because your accusing them thats not true at all
MY so called woman accused Me all the time and I'm about to go
Not true because I always accuse my man for cheating because he will do things that cause me to think he was
In addition, cheaters are quick to say "you don't trust me" they are doing that to defend themselves and making the other partner feel guilty
That is what my girlfriend use to say all the time but I don't she is cheating on me
One I hear often in my profession is “It only happened once.” If you hear that, you can bet your next breath that it was a lot more than once!!🤔
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“If you’re a cheat watching this video then your time is up” - great words Jessy 🔥
I hear ya - Nketiah! Lol - Great Content - by Jessica!
If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done)
You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life.
Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to.
And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
No if you are a cheat.. you need to change levels and step up. 🤣🤣
@@OBAINO37 😂
Cheats get angry when they are confronted with their cheating. They get angry, defensive, they countet-accuse, they basically throw fits just like in the movies when the bad guy gets upset when asked if he is responsible for a crime. It's a dead giveaway. That's not to say ALL cheats get mad. The real pro liars will act like they've done nothing.
Hey! My girlfriend breakup with me due to the fact that she traveled and claim not to be coming back to the same town where we once stay together, so she left me for someone else. And I now discovered that the both of them have been seeing each other even before she breakup with me, and guess what!!? She is back in town., so we decided to meet to talk about the whole issue, so she gave me an excuse that things were not working out well with us that's why she breakup with me so we talk for some while and then meet on two or three occasions and things started going on between both of us despite the fact that I know she has someone else although am still single.. Am just kind of confused..
emotional cheating is not only cheaqting but its also worse
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True
It's been my experience that a narcissistic cheater will never admit to it no matter what they will use plausible deniability and try and turn the whole situation around on you.
Who u gonna believe? Me or your lyin' eyes!! Is what ex hubby would say
@@Pennybeau-belles caught her and she said I should believe what she’s saying and not what I heard, she forgot to hung up using headphones after talking to me. Later she said it wasn’t her voice lol
@@Elikem2982ohhh I can imagine ! Its baffing, they're caught hand in cookie jar and stil its 'Wazzant me 🙄"
They always accuse you of having an affair every time whilst they are the ones who is cheating
They accused me of cheating but he was cheating then said their was a misunderstanding
It took me 10 years to realize he cheated I feel like shit
Learned this from my ex fiancée
Do not be hurt, just use them for what they are made for, simple.
Very well said
As somebody that has been cheated on many many times. The "he is just a friend" is a BIG BIG red flag. A man and woman can never just be friends. TRUST ME PLEASE. Set an ultimatum and walk if you have to. You will be saving yourself A LOT of problems. Worst outcome her falling pregnant and not knowing if your the father.
I know that ur being honest❤️..it's sincere and plus u make sense
I've had several Platonic relationships with men. My best guy friend has been my friend for 31 years and I have others in the 15+ years.
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I really appreciated this dude for the great services. I gained access into my husband's phone without him knowing or suspecting! Had always thought it was impossible to monitor your partner without his notice, but all thanks to the above named, I am able to view his activities. It feels good and safe to know what he's doing!! Thanks so much for the helped so far!!!
Be careful... red flag for cheaters
Since my gf broke up with me, I’ve been depressed and I’ve been going to the pharmacy everyday for drugs just to relief the pain and sometimes I will get drunk😩 but since I’ve started watching your videos, it helps me to relief the pain and By God’s grace am now focusing on my life. But I still don’t give up on LOVE because I know there’s a good woman out there.
Thanks Jessica. 🙏
Me too here I started watching her videos it healed me am so super happy....moving forward...much love from KENYA
People that cheat dont love themselves. Continue to work on your self..love on yourself. And dont date a women that dont love her daddy..I been married 3 times.all them cheated..most women out here have manly ways..Keep your heart open..and never talk about your pass..stay positive. Have fun.like its your last day.its a billion women out here.get to know them before you have sex..And never go backward on a relationships.
Yes a good and special lady is there for you
Wow I am a woman, I have been cheated on it hurts. I can imagine what you went through.
Watch ams, Darius m and steph is cold. They'll show u the red pill. It helped me. I'm 1 year out after wasting 13 yrs w a single mom. Lost my 20s and 30s trying to do the family man thing. Don't attach to women, just hang out an hour or two about once or twice a week and THAT'S IT. Female nature and hypergamy will have them always trying to better deal u behind your back. Don't hate them or be mad at them, never take them seriously, never believe what they say. Just what they DO. Don't ever expect anything from them and it always ends it's just a matter of when. Always have more than just 1 ur dating not marrying them. Time to set down the fairy tale u were sold as a lie.
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You have done an outstanding job and proven your merits with sincerity! You've proven to effectively handle any given job. With your help, I was able to track my boyfriend's activities. *JohnsonSpy* made a positive name out here for your excellent services!
Hi im new here what is johnson spy? My bf i feel is cheating and maybe worst so in need help!
Another phrase cheats use is, "I don't love him/her. It's you that I love". Sometimes too they have this mood that comes intermittently and when it does, they don't talk to you for a certain period of time.
So true !
This is typically vocalized as “I love you ONLY.”
Last year I caught my girlfriend picture of her kissing with him on social media. I show it to her and denied it and told she doesn’t like him she doesn’t care about him. I told her you did made a choice and is clear and I walk away
you totally nailed it cheating comes in many different ways its not just physical but i would say most of the time it does become physical at some point
And this friendship thing will always be used...in fact u will be told they met the friend before you
& they will try to cheat on you with their “friends” saying “we are just friends there’s nothing wrong”!
They always will do excuses with their friends to cheat on you saying same “ohhh she’s my friend since many years ago & i that’s why I follow her I know her stop thinking wrong”!
Always a friendship between them is something more than “friendship” & they’re trying to fool us they don’t have a closer affair with them meanwhile they do!
My goodness, Jessica deserves an award for best relationship advice ever on earth
She deserves 🎖
Because she has experience, most of people talk of what they do or have done.
I second that
Yes.... Jessica's video's are helping me alot..... Jessica really you are helping alot of people keep it up you're doing the right thing
I'm looking for a beautiful and good woman I can trust and Marry, but it seems to be difficult 🥺😰💔
There’s something wrong in a relationship if one or other person is hiding something!!
I THINK one OF thé MOST common signe IS to play défensif and gaz lighting.
Another great job Jess!
Here's another red flag. If the person you're with now cheated on their ex to be with you, they might cheat on you and use the excuse "well you knew how I was when we met."
Stay True Green and live with Passion!
Spot on
@@JessicaOS and that was a personal experience from my first ex-wife
@@michaelg7456 phew
@@JessicaOS most at times she says, I don't like your comments cause it looks like I have another apart from you, anytime we are making call she includes me in many incoming call, as conference call buh there is a particular one she never did so, when I questioned, oh he is just a friend so don't be scared buh also scared.
I always heard that if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you. Great video, Jessica. Any info I can get about detecting cheating is very welcome. Every man I've ever been intimate with cheated on me & I've been celibate for 15 years, & it's ok.
Cheats are gonna hate this one. I super love it! 😍🥂
Kindness, being loyal and honest goes a long way. Cheaters dont know that whatever course of action they do, the pleasure of obtaining it is temporary and leads to greater consequences. Absolutely love your message and spreading care to the world.🙂
How to find someone who cheats on you in long distance relationship, we thank you for teaching us how to handle our love ones 👍👍
Good video idea
@@JessicaOS yes 🥰
Great tips! And speaking of “Cheating…”
If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done)
You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life.
Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to.
And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Thank you very much🙏
You've helped me mature and to understand that people are really what they project themselves to be... Thank you Jess
*Thanks to TUSKHACKING I got to find out my husband is cheating on me by having access to his social accounts without his consent*
Being cheated on in a relationship has put a lot of us into a phobia of the other gender. Like right now, I find everything my current partner does to be very suspicious and I am not very happy with that, especially for the love I have for her; but once beating is twice shy.
Please be that way with politicians and people in authority too.
First you have to heal your inner child. To love someone is about trust and proper communication. You need to come to understanding your feelings set up new boundaries and never… never settle for less. Recognize red flags 🚩i have changed my manifestation. Become what i want to find in my future wife. I am always happy and positive and I surround myself with good kind loving people. Find the peace you need first before finding a new partner. Don’t live in the past, never compare your partner with a past experience, it will hurt your partner. Compassion and empathy is important and if they ask you can tell them. Some of us want to understand and love our partners feelings, but don’t dwell on the past be able to put it behind you and build a kinder loving future. I know that not all women are as bad as my wife is to me. I know that there is someone for me. I trust. But i am careful. If the relationship feels fake and I just get excuses, jokes. They are not worth my time. Find someone who loves you and is willing to put you first in their life. Never give you negativity. Look for someone who will never cross your boundaries and never settle for less.
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It's a horrible feeling.. u question everything.
@@mychicksrthick I hear you sir/ma
If you have 100% proof they are cheating LEAVE THEM. I was a serial cheater. Then I grew up I held my self accountable for my actions and made a promise to my self to never cheat on a partner again. I never have since then I never will. I don't ever think or suspect my partner is cheating, because thinking and believing that is #1 showing my own insecurities #2 you are creating a trauma bond. #3 I don't care if they are cheating, they know the relationship wll end if they tell me, so out of guilt they will leave me anyway. If you ever feel insecure in a relationship then it's probably not the relationship you need to be in. Move on.
No they'll actually stay with u for YEARS on end while cheating 😂 you'll never know lmao
@@daviedood2503 It’s crazy how they don’t even want to tell you 🤦♀️. They will stretch it out until they get exposed or finally tell you years later.
@@Va13chka bc it's fun. That's rhe "spice" and excitement they like. That's how low they see u. U don't do that to someone u look up to etc. The gossip group is above all. They need SOMETHING to talk about. Well gotta go start stuff to add to the stories. That's how boring their life is outside gossip and drama
@@daviedood2503 I understand how they see it as “spice” but I don’t don’t know about the gossip part lol. I agree that them doing that behind your back is disrespectful. Personally I’m never forgiving a cheater there’s no way I’ll ever respect you as a man or trust you lmao.
@@daviedood2503 And give you diseases; Stds/HIV/Aids! So what she said is really kind of naïve..
Thank you! Really helped a lot. If we had more people like you in this world…it would be a better place. Cause I’ve been in my share of toxic relationships, especially this one that’s coming to end I believe after 4 years and a “marriage” without a reception at that. That’s what I get for being kind hearted Fr.
We need more immeasurably wise and compassionate humans like you on this planet. Thank you for sharing *Johnson Spy* , Adam. I bet Im not alone when I say this video found me at the perfect moment, and there are a lot of things here that I needed to hear
When you know she’s cheating and you don’t care anymore.
I agree. Technology has taken cheating to another level. I recently got on IG and I swear I've lost my Innocence all over again..I told someone that if I had seen his IG activity before I met him, I would never have given him the time of day... it is about to become a deal breaker...
Hi Jessica, you 'slam dunked' this topic. Very enlightening narration. Keep them coming girl!
This video really talks about the relationship I'm in. Thank you so much Jessica for opening our eyes to such narcissistic partner in our life.
Lady Jessica, you are gifted in matters of relationship and it's only God that has endowed you with this unique gift. Thank you for sharing your gift. This is greatly absolute. More power to your elbows!
Cheaters don't always accuse their partner. Some people are really really insecure with themselves and have trauma they think its happening.
Then, that insecure person should NOT be in a relationship and work on themselve(s) instead.
Jessy, the truth is cheaters come up with so many lies that u may end up gaslighting yourself! They keep evolving new indisputable lies that u end up questioning yourself why u even asked and end up apologizing to the cheater. It's just God not to fall victim.
This is fact especially if they’re good at lying.
U are awesome Jess.. I don't know what else to say just AWESOME !! The world needs more people like u .. thanks for everything 🙏👑👌👍
And if your partner has no respect for you and is quick to fight that shows they don't care anymore
Thanks Jessica OS....
By this video I found out that sometime when your partner is cheating on you and he is discovered,
he either gets angry or plays the victim.......
Pay attention. Don't be fooled
Thank you Jessica. I needed that. I allowed myself to be mistreated for 7 years and you have described her to a T
can't be tired of listening to you Jessica
Omg, this made me actually smile. He said/did ALL of these, and blew them off as no big deal.
Truely, i really feel the pain of having a cheater as partner . Thanks jessica for enlightening the ward of relationship.
Hey *Johnson Spy* the work you did on the project completely changed the way I was looking at it. Thank you for giving. I can’t say enough how grateful I am that you always take ownership of your projects. It’s so nice to know that you’ve got it covered.
Jessica you brought in life into my world. You deserve an accolade 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You have a lot of fans from Nigerian
Congratulations Jessica on this post. You know, the truth is often compromised by cheaters/liars coming from two different positions. Either subjective truth or objective truth. This is where the line between truth and fact get confused.
The truth is the truth. Again, well done on bringing such welcomed honest simplicity into a world of human created complexity.
My estranged husband was a chronic cheat, very abusive and a stunch Narcist. He gaslighted me so much that i became confused and frustrated. I gave up and was just there praying for him to change. Moreso, he made me look and think 50 years older than my self. Infact, my experience with him taught me that abuse is progressive and tortures the victim until you commit suicide, give up on life or be rescued by good people around you. Neighbours, friends, my employer, my colleagues and our Priest noticed I was suffering and gradually losing myself in trying to save the marriage in which I happen to be in all by myself. It took radical counselling, prayers and support to save me. Now the pain was more excruciating when I found out he not just cheating but, that he does it under my nose. Random unknown ladies he tag as long time family friends showing up at my house but were his girlfriends and lot's more. The one that broke the camel's back was physical and sexual abuse 😢 😪 💔 😔.
Well, I thank God for everything 🙏 🙌. Still healing from the trauma and working on my divorce process......
Ouch! I'm so glad you eventually rose above that. Thanks for sharing to your story. ❤
Are you completely perfect in all of this? Did you or do things wrong or deceive, there is always 2 sides
Lucky me! that I watched this video she keep telling me she is a kind of person who likes having so many mail friends. Fuck she is cheating on me. Thank you Jessica.
Male not mail
Having someone who is failing to commit is a real problem. 😪
Almost everything you said in this video is what I've been experiencing with my boyfriend of only 2 months. We had been dating for a year and half before becoming official. As soon as we became official he started accusing me of cheating. I wasn't cheating, wanted me to not be friends with the person he thought i was cheating with and i stopped. He's friends with all of his exes…past flings and other women he's attracted to and flirts with them. I feel so broken right now. I confronted him and he told me if i look for things I'll find them…i wasn't looking. He won't acknowledge his jealous behavior only mine. Won't see me and barely talks to me because I'm bringing him negativity now. He blames me for everything, hasn't flat out denied cheating either. I'm at a loss..
But just as a hardened criminal leaves traces, cheaters leave traces. But we tend to allow the strong desire for attention come first before reality. In Nigeria, when you hear someone saying you don't eat thesame type of soup, sometimes you eat egusi, ogbolor, Banga soup, etc, pull of your shoes, look for an excuse and run as far and as fast as you can! What the person is telling you is that he/she sleeps with different partners, that's his/her life. So getting married to you will not change that.
ITS BETTER TO BE HAPPILY SINGLE THAN TO BE WOEFULLY MARRIED TO AN UNFAITHFUL PARTNER.
Accurate 💯in my opinion "flirting" for me is cheating full stop. Why flirting with other people while I'm in the picture? if you are single I understand but once you step in a relationship you got to have some respect for your partner even if they are not around, flirting with other people should stop the only person you should flirt with is your partner that's it.
Exactly..especially if they defend the action. Its not controlling, its respect for your other. Dont let them lower your value.
Ive been accused of flirting when i was just being nice to her friends at work. I know i wasn’t flirting but when ur on the outside looking in i can see how it might come of that way.
As a young man I enjoy watching your videos!!! You’re awesome!! I’ve been in a rs for 5yrs and been cheated on idek how many times but I found out until after it ended. Now I’m jumping out again and I find it a bit tough to let this young lady in, especially when she exhibit signs of cheating or toxic behaviors. I open to her about it to clear the air… and I’m certain she dodges the topic, quickly wants to lay it to rest, gets upset and tells me that nothings happened, this dude is only a friend who I tlk to wen I need guiding. A part of me wants to believe her but I’ve a gut feeling due to past experience this
Don't waste time. It will consumate you and you can't achieve anything positive. Stay away before it is too late. Mind you, they will do it and do it again. There is always gonna be someone lurking in the shadows. Just consider it a lost and look out for that person who is genuinely into you. Just distant yourself, and the pain will vanish. Remain with her, and your sanity will be negatively affected. Stay away, nye bro.
I love this video. Lots of accuracy in this. I look forward to watching more of your videos!! Great knowledge drop.
1m subs by year end. Let's push her to that height. Keep up the good work Jessy. The biggest would-be African CZcamsr.
The use of religion and friends is also a perfect shield for infedility. Thank you so much Jess
Yes, you find them singing in the choir.
Religion is their camouflage and that word..friend friend friend. They go about helping people to cover their tracks and find potential victims along the line, just in case you ditch them.
Lol This comment right here the definition of my current situation
Thanks Jessica Os.
I’m so glad I found your channel, God bless you
Thanks Jessica for the eye opener. So mistakes doesn't happen again
My girlfriend for two years has been using 90% of these tricks to hide her cheating and I swear I could see her name all over each point shared on here. I am so heartbroken but I could swear I saw it coming.
Sorry my g
Great insight thanks
Every 2.5 years in our relationship. I request a lie detector test and hire a investigator to follow her if it's that serious. 😕 better safe then sorry 🤷🏿♂️
@@ishma2100 that’s actually crazy. If my BF did that I would brake up with him cause that’s just weird. If you don’t trust your partner leave them that’s it.
@@ernestabor most men cheat you mean.
Jess, love all your shows, girl! Keep it up, sis. Besides your content, it's also your personality and voice that keeps me coming back. God bless.
I fully agree on this "Blaming the technology "
Jessi OS you are damn right , Most of the Qualities you stated are what we see around , Nice one and Thanks for enlighten us on such Characters (From Nigeria )
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Nice words 👏
I can tell you for free that I experienced everything you mentioned here. These few right here are sings to watch out for.
1. They tell stupid lie.
2. Increased interest in appearance
3. Communication will definitely change
4. They also accuse you of cheating.
5. Their schedule changes with no good explanation.
6. If you ask you see them, they will tell you “I’ll let you know when I’ll be free” it’s bcos they wanna be sure if their schedule with the new guy or lady won’t clash with yours or they won’t even create Tim and attention for you.
Thanks so much Jessica. You are such a amazing person. Your messages have made so much impact in my life. I really do appreciate you a whole lot.
I'm from Liberia
Jessica your command of the Queens language is fantastic. And this talk is on point for all those who are in relationships.
I dated a cheater that would stand me up and claim that she was doing it for me. For example, she'd say things like, "I knew your were tired so I was just letting you sleep". Another one of her favorites was to go somewhere and claim that she rode with someone else (mother, friend, cousin....), therefore coming/going is out of her control. 51 yr old woman acting like a 17 yr old high-school girl.
This type of behavior has been going since there younger daze . It's become 2nd nature. We know in our hearts 💔 when something is not right 🔎( your gut instincts never let you down = the six sense) . They are very good at misinformation. In the beginning the usual tactics work 🤔 (except TIME AND DATES ) Friday Saturday nights / whole weekends ECT . It typical starts out a night here a night there just so called friends. As the FIRE gets hotter it becomes more frequently to point they can't hide it ! Eye know this pain been thru it 3 times over 40 year's. 2 GF 1 30 year m = it hurts it takes about 1 year to heal ⏳🤤
Yep , they have patterns!!! Especially on their days off !
@@aleacejordanyou think so?
Wow Jess..you got it all figured out,tears are rolling as I'm about to confess buh naaaah ima hold my tongue and work on getting better ..thanks ma'am
I thank God that you have been able to grow your channel
My partner told me it was my fault when I confronted him. He said I'm too miserable. I have never stepped out of my relationship. It's been 13 yrs of living together and nearly 16 yrs of knowing and talking to them. I might be miserable but that's because things are not going how they are supposed to go. Yes, people change after years of being together but it should be for the better, not for worse. Some men hate when you are also doing better financially that them even that can cause them to cheat. Sigh
oh my God!this really opened my eyes and i felt so dumb for just taking and suffering from hurtful words she uttered for me since years back when she first did the changes without any explanations and answers to my the same unanswered questions til now.and recently when i spied on her thru technology, i saw and heard convos but with not so clear audio but im certain that its her voice.and when i confronted her, she denied everything and even told me that i am hallucinating.that really made me question my sanity.i dont know on what to do now.really! i am so devastated.why people cheat when their partner gave them more than what is asked? i feel like im drowning in shit!
Oh Jessie you are always spot on. Thank you.
Thanks so much for Clarifying everything you have mentioned is what he says and doing to me along with cussing me out and telling me to go home, then later he asking me to come over and telling me it’s not me he just has things on his mind.
I’m Out because I don’t deserve to be treated this way.
I appreciate the confirmation.🙏🏽