When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships

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  • čas přidán 9. 05. 2024
  • When/Why/How to Leave a Guy in Dating and Relationships #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdatingproblems #bbwdating

Komentáře • 35

  • @user-xv8uu9vm7v
    @user-xv8uu9vm7v Před měsícem +70

    “If you’ve made a pros and cons list, that’s a con” 😅😂 so true.

  • @coilyqueen312
    @coilyqueen312 Před měsícem +26

    My motto is quit early and quit often so I'm with you Anwar. I just did this after dating a guy for almost 3 months were he was very enthusiastic and consistent the first half and then very unreliable the second half. Two months after I blocked him he mailed me a letter and then last week (4 months after I blocked him) he left me a voicemail asking me to tell him why I don't want to see him anymore. He should have KTSE when he had my undivided attention. I don't exert energy telling grown men why I don't want to see them anymore, I can only be as serious and considerate as they've been.

  • @Immortal_Empress
    @Immortal_Empress Před měsícem +7

    “if you’re a ride or die YOU’RE GONNA DIE!” 😂😂😂 I could never be a ride or die, I ask too many questions…where we riding to? And why I gotta die?! 😩

  • @Yourchildisyourguide
    @Yourchildisyourguide Před měsícem +26

    This is the only video so many of us needed collectively for real. This covers it. For realllll

  • @CambieSweets
    @CambieSweets Před měsícem +15

    Some guys do not react very differently and oddly, they can become violent and will cause you harm. Sadly, this is the reason why many women ghost men. They can respond violently.

    • @missx6230
      @missx6230 Před měsícem

      That’s exactly what he meant when he said differently and oddly.

  • @imaanhanif8863
    @imaanhanif8863 Před měsícem +15

    If you're not engaged or married after two years? Two years down the drain.

  • @ka8155
    @ka8155 Před měsícem +13

    This video right here is everything! I just started dating a guy that i realized im not attracted to. However, he treats me so well, and i was second-guessing myself if i should walk away. However, this video gave me the courage to WALK.

  • @nikkihamilton-moore2705
    @nikkihamilton-moore2705 Před měsícem +14

    This is the BEST BOUNDARY advice/help/step by step knowledge I ever received!!!! Thank you

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 Před měsícem +14

    I'm out! 🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @jetradaniels9528
    @jetradaniels9528 Před měsícem +9

    This is gold.

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva Před měsícem +4

    It was tough but I had to let him go as soon as I started dating him. The red flag for me was silent treatment and not resolving conflict with communication as a grown adult is expected to. It was the making assumptions and allowing misunderstandings to pile up for me. These decisions are hard bc u recognize someone's trauma is preventing them from loving u fully, but that's never an excuse for poor behavior. Get help.

  • @hobag11
    @hobag11 Před měsícem +3

    Thank. You!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 You listed all the things I felt in my last relationship and I felt them in the first few months but stayed for 2 years. NOT AGAIN GIRL! ❤❤❤❤

    • @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely
      @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely Před měsícem

      We all make mistakes.
      Forgive yourself, and don’t repeat the cycle.

  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba1264 Před měsícem +6

    You are amazing & love your shirt❤ bless you! Free Palestine 🍉

  • @shz05
    @shz05 Před měsícem +4

    Love the hoodie ❤

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun Před měsícem +3

    I think this is your most helpful video yet! I was actually just wondering something along these lines and you popped up in my feed. I take it as a sign from God to stop caring.

  • @thespot2035
    @thespot2035 Před měsícem +2

    Him not asking you out after a WEEK is a red flag? WTF happened to let yourself get to know him first THEN decide on if you want to move into a relationship?😂

    • @TheOfficialJessicaDivine
      @TheOfficialJessicaDivine Před měsícem +7

      He meant not asking you out on a date. If a man is texting,
      chatting, and calling…but not asking you on a date…it’s a red flag.

  • @lauraluna6002
    @lauraluna6002 Před měsícem +3

    I needed to hear this thank u🙏

  • @diior444
    @diior444 Před měsícem

    3 years, i’m 20, he’s 21. i kind of want engagement in the next year because this is a lot of my youth wasted if he doesn’t hurry up.

  • @lorrainecortes7296
    @lorrainecortes7296 Před měsícem +1

    That is important information, thanks!

  • @adventuregirlinawonderworl3551

    I have done great quick to fire slow to hire

  • @melissabarrett3088
    @melissabarrett3088 Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤

  • @BGZ2022
    @BGZ2022 Před měsícem

    I’m gonna die for sure 😭😖💔

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner
    @DeematheFashionDesigner Před měsícem +3

    FREE PALESTINE! Thank you! for the advice 💗🇵🇸

  • @IVvOOvVI
    @IVvOOvVI Před měsícem

    What if he’s always five minutes late for a date?

    • @lcdesigns6145
      @lcdesigns6145 Před měsícem +2

      OOH = out of here if being on time is important to you. You could suggest a time where you bake that 5 minutes in, but whew, sounds like work.😊