What Your Tupe Says About You In Dating

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  • čas přidán 13. 05. 2024
  • What Your Tupe Says About You In Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdatingproblems #bbwdating

Komentáře • 41

  • @patriciacorrea8871
    @patriciacorrea8871 Před měsícem +11

    Wow we’re f’d up

    • @FreeQueen-md7zm
      @FreeQueen-md7zm Před měsícem +4

      Ikr?!? 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭...😔 I got 5 on 'em..
      smh

  • @keishamariedouglas
    @keishamariedouglas Před měsícem +26

    Ohh I feel so attacked because I do like younger emotionally unavailable guys! And I am currently working on figuring out what 8-year-old Keisha likes because back then she was too busy being in control and babysitting my little brother to actually enjoy her life.

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Před měsícem +1

      I actually end up getting those types attracted to me, for some reason. Even in highschool. The younger brother's friends and random younger guys. But I'm not interested in a guy who's not more mature than me (at least mentally), and guys always like what doesn't like them back. 😅

  • @MizzNee796
    @MizzNee796 Před měsícem +8

    😱mind blown....I'M emotionally unavailable??? Sounds about right. Emotions are my kryptonite. In reality i am a big ole cream puff...i just act hard. SMH

  • @PrettyPolyInPink
    @PrettyPolyInPink Před měsícem +9

    I like a fine man…that’s bad?? But, they’re so pretttttttttyyyyyy!!

    • @Real.Flowers.
      @Real.Flowers. Před měsícem +5

      I saw one at the carnival a few weeks ago and we locked eyes. I thought “Eww!” And turned away because he looked like nothing but trouble, lol. I don’t have time for drama or for a man who wants so much attention.

  • @shaylagoogle3097
    @shaylagoogle3097 Před měsícem +5

    Hello fairy god dating coach, lots of men are acting a fool thinking that that the 1st date should be a date at their place. A big hell no for me. More woman need to stop entertain these types of bad behavior. Enjoyed this video.

  • @TamalaLucas
    @TamalaLucas Před měsícem +6

    I need to book a call. I have had them all and I don't know what my type is. I married needy won't do that again.

  • @sararamonajohansson
    @sararamonajohansson Před měsícem +10

    Anwaaaaar why did you have to come after me like that hahaha! You're sooo on point!

  • @orbitalpl1
    @orbitalpl1 Před měsícem +1

    This is so true.

  • @adventuregirlinawonderworl3551

    I knew I was messed up when I went for all these I said I need to take some time to work on me. Took 34 years to realize this 😮

  • @dawnisaac3132
    @dawnisaac3132 Před měsícem +6

    This is accurate 😮😢❤

  • @ms.ednapost
    @ms.ednapost Před měsícem +5

    🤔What does it mean if you go for the NON Blk guys🤷🏽‍♀️😉

    • @prolific568
      @prolific568 Před měsícem +7

      Keep doing what your doing lol

    • @cheriagata6408
      @cheriagata6408 Před měsícem +1

      It means you’re miles ahead of the curve

  • @antoinettejenkins7664
    @antoinettejenkins7664 Před měsícem +1

    Yeah i got the less attractive guys...i had major abandonment issues in childhood and was self conscious...now im looking at myself like girl what were you thinking 🤔

  • @anshaguila8393
    @anshaguila8393 Před 25 dny +1

    I flippen love you
    Thank you so much for this video

  • @MidtwnMedia
    @MidtwnMedia Před měsícem +1

    Whew 😮‍💨

  • @BGZ2022
    @BGZ2022 Před měsícem +4

    Thank u so much 😭 how to heal from attractive unavailable badguys 💔 and I want them to need me 😖

  • @MizzNee796
    @MizzNee796 Před měsícem +2

    i had a type...and that type is still physically attractive to me, but and however...after this last one...i am sooooooooooooo ready for a change. and i am ready for my "playing hard to get" era!

  • @Golden-Lady
    @Golden-Lady Před měsícem +2

    I love the good guys! But I also want to do whatever I found fun between ages 8-12...been side-eyeing the skateboards for a while...😅

  • @suzannaflores1164
    @suzannaflores1164 Před měsícem +2

    Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! I feel the glued-together pages of my emotional playbook being read!!! Thanks

  • @TarotAF11114
    @TarotAF11114 Před 19 dny

    I wish he talked about attracting players and narcissists. Bc I attracted them for the longest.

  • @dawnbedingfield1159
    @dawnbedingfield1159 Před měsícem +1

    Used to attract needy guys now I have commitment issues. 😞 I honestly just needed someone to say it out loud for me. 😭

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun Před měsícem +2

    I do like the "soft dom" guy that acts like a parent.
    I also like witty banter. I met my match with that. We both had mother issues and it got a bit out of hand.
    Same with critical humor, and same thing with my mom being super critical. I do need to watch my boundary with that, however, criticism doesn't get to me as much. Shame is not a huge deal for me.
    I'm one of those types of issues girls.

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Před měsícem

      2:10 Yeah, I've just embraced my brat side and going back to being creative and being out in nature. But I still have a type!

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Před měsícem +1

      3:00 OMG, though, I do! I attract needy people. I've had to teach myself to despise them. It's a very low-rizz dynamic for me too.

  • @stephanierenee7214
    @stephanierenee7214 Před měsícem +4

    Ouch I am a combination of a couple of those things. But I needed to hear that and thank you. I am so glad that I found your page and your podcast you have been so helpful with the Nuggets that you are giving us and thank you so much

  • @angelcoyote9802
    @angelcoyote9802 Před měsícem

    This is so insightful. Thank you!

  • @dopestamp
    @dopestamp Před 14 dny

    I love you. Thank you so much.

  • @user-om8vw1xk5j
    @user-om8vw1xk5j Před měsícem +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @ElmoBiotech
    @ElmoBiotech Před měsícem +1

    Wow, this whole thing was gems of wisdom, insight, and care. Thank you! I’m off to apply…

  • @kemikobradley634
    @kemikobradley634 Před měsícem +1

    So accurate

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 Před měsícem

    What if you’re attracted to givers and people pleasers and overly polite men?

  • @thediariesofchi
    @thediariesofchi Před měsícem

    I’ve had exes tell me that I was like mean, disrespectful and act like I didn’t care or i acted like I didn’t want them fr but I feel the opposite if I’ve ever had to get nasty with them it’s bc I was giving so much of my heart and they were playing with it so, I feel like they were just trying to manipulate me to make me feel like I wasn’t doing that enough but I do everything I can to love. I know it does take me a minute to fully express everything but how do you not know I like/ am obsessed with you?

  • @littlemisshowei
    @littlemisshowei Před měsícem

    I've done lots of self healing, so I'm now only attracted to good men.
    But I like me a good man with a dominant side 😂😅.
    Lots of kinks I grew out of, but a certain level of dominance is something that I can't help but still be attracted to. And I wonder, is that really so wrong?

  • @private5149
    @private5149 Před měsícem +1

    How do we book calls with you?

  • @tendingmytiara
    @tendingmytiara Před měsícem +3

    This is so, so good Anwar!! I’m grateful for your perspective on my healing journey. 🩷

  • @NR-os2cw
    @NR-os2cw Před měsícem +1

    I married covert narcissist, short, insecure, avoidant, controlling, abusive all in one person. Now, that I so much more healed for some reason I want a Sikh man. It just popped in my head one day recently. I was in a high vibing place too. What’s that say about me Fairy Godbrother?!🫶🏾