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Most of my matches are not black on the sites . Moving forward lol

Once again amazing advice...you're the king Anwar...absolutely the best dating coach ever AAA+±+

Lmaoooo 😂, no. Those men aren’t checking for you, you don’t qualify. No one hid anything 😂

You saved my life with that one line “you will never go no contact with your future husband “!! This ❤❤ Thank you and for your recommendation on dating apps because I was so done! You’ve helped so much as I’m 40 and dating and out the loop

This!!!! Thank you

Boting = Peace ❤

Beautiful

Everything you say is so true, big facts!!! Yet i feel it's best for an African American woman to date non African American with money, than within this so called community. African American men with resources made themselves unreachable to sista's. Big facts

Best advice ever especially for us perfectionist people.

Should the man pay your gas/toll fees to drive X hours to see him after initially meeting him from a vacation, or should he come to see you?

Very good insights

I’m listening 😩 I hear you😂

Men will even envy your looks, weird weird behavior. I had an ex who used to never complimented me, he would only make "joke" like comments like "mmmh look at you, you think you fancy" whenever I looked nice. His one of those "good ones", so people were asking me why on earth would I break up with such a good guy. I struggled to explain to my friends that he had me making that exact face too many times 🤣

As a white woman, I seriously wish this was true. 😂 It depends on the people in front of you. I think if you radiate a wave of kindness and inner peace, people feel that and value people like that, just like they value kids for their innocence and men for their stoicism and focus. If you just expect strangers to move for you, they won't. Don't expect it, don't demand it from others. Radiate a wave of happiness and content, radiate appreciation for others and love, without forcing yourself. And people will want you to keep you happy so you remain the same. A light among us.

No lies detected

I want a man with a good income. Especially if he wants me to have his children.

Anwar I’m in complete tears over here! 😭😭 thank you for what you do and for this episode! ❤

Speak for yourself cupcake

This just happened to Me while I was walking but he also called me pretty. And then he showed me his kids and I saw that I'm definitely his type...😂

But what if you do me this men in your daily life?

Ugh…. WTF!? That’s not being soft spoken, it’s a homosexual affectation!

crushes will crush you!!!

True!!!

Omg this triggered me real bad. 😩😮‍💨💯🔥 Heavy on highly critical mothers. That’s exactly what I had so that made me into a perfectionist.

My mom is the QUEEN of asking men for help! She says “if a man is around you shouldn’t lift a finger”

Everyone that’s laughing don’t deserve a relationship stay getting pumped N dump like you use to.

Ooh I’ve kind of already had this type of audacity?😬🥰😂

For me, it depends on who is touching me and if we're close. A lot of males try to touch women who they don't know. No to anyone who I don't know touching me or invading my personal space.

The compatibility piece is key! If you as a woman are sociable and personable it’s easy to get along with ppl. I’m pretty extroverted so I can have good “chemistry”with ppl. But if our lives, schedules or purposes aren’t compatible it will never work!

I JUST LAUGHED SO HARD

So so true I learned this in high school and yes there’s a major difference

I feel like my profile has been shadow banned or Ive lost in the Hinge algorithm game. Pre and post pandemic I used to get many matches but for the past yr or so Ive been getting fewer and fewer matches. I wonder why.

I give a full page paragraph lol because it quickly weeds out the bullshitters lol

Oh wow! I have fumbled so many potential dates with hotties because I didn't know the friendly banter or "polite" conversation was their way of flirting. Thank you Fairy God brother!

The kissing heaux!!!😂😂😂

The thing about dads with daughters was untrue. I've seen them be horrible partners. Their ability to be kind to their daughters don't translate to their partners--I've seen them be horrible to baby mommas from my personal experience. I don't think we should go into false expectations. But all the over advice was spot on.

“Not enough for me!” 🤣

The ones who are “obsessed” with me are NOT MY TYPE like at all. And I’ve tried at times, but I haven’t developed any attraction for them. 🥴😩

🤷🏻‍♀️ I always preferred situationships so if it’s mutual then y’all good. It’s only a problem if one of you wants to be in a real relationship

Best kiki yet! This episode really helped, from focusing on being my own feminine instead of waiting for a man to make me feel feminine, and the intimacy talk so helpful…

I disagree this is a form of playing games not genuine the guys will smell it a mile away.

I'd rather be alone with my boundaries and peace of mind than with an abusive boundary pushing partner.

I was just having this conversation with myself yesterday. He spoke to me on Monday has not called me on Tuesday and I was certain he would not call on Thursday and Bonzai....I was right. I told myself NOT to call him like I would do in my former life. I deleted his number, deleted him from my messages on the app so I would not be tempted to reach out. He knows what he is doing, and I told myself nothing is attractive about a man who does not even call you. So I turned my focus on my workouts and eating clean.

I am so excited for your show. Ima be like I've been watching him before the show when he was doing TicTok Lives :)

Is this similar to how people say only black women are thick? Im not thick at all and a lot of these southern white women who are raised on country fried steak and cornbread are very thick just depends 😂 black men are still bigger on average but the modern diet is messing up a lot of length and girth.

I missed it so im watching it here. I was sleepy

Anwar is such a cutie! ❤ Thanks for coaching the ladies and giving excellent guidance.😘

Plus size girls should look at Gabby Sidbe. Dark skin plus size girl with a husband who adores her and is expecting twins.

the whole world bonds when it comes to hating black males