Pretty Women Have The Hardest Time Dating

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  • čas přidán 8. 12. 2023
  • Pretty Women Have The Hardest Time Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdating #bbwdatingproblems

Komentáře • 23

  • @sonofhibbs4425
    @sonofhibbs4425 Před 2 měsíci +31

    Yup!
    Doesn’t help either when the men question why she’s been single for so long.

    • @suzannaflores1164
      @suzannaflores1164 Před měsícem +4

      This is their insecurity projection. Or your inner thoughts reflecting back to you by the other person. I've heard this exact comment from a man, who turned out to be an abusive alcoholic so there's that. Don't take it personal take it as a compliment you didn't settle for the crumbs.

    • @KaylaL830
      @KaylaL830 Před měsícem +2

      Or ppl assume you’re in a relationship. I’ve gotten that before and it still baffles me. Like dang now I think how am I ever gone find someone if everyone thinks oh she must be taken already or don’t even believe I’m single 😅😔

  • @stefanierobertson101
    @stefanierobertson101 Před 6 měsíci +48

    Omg! Thank you so much for explaining this dilemma. I've had multiple relationships with "mid ugly men" lol, who have always felt like I was their competition when I am complimented. Which led to other problems, smh. I have had people tell me that I was too attractive for the guy and I could do better. However, I am a sapeosexual, which speaks to my choice in mid-ugly men. But, the attractive men also feel like they are in competition and feel like they are the prize 😩. It also doesn't help being a black woman with a high level degree. Lawd, I just want to be happy. 😂

    • @91earthybae
      @91earthybae Před 2 měsíci +1

      I’m floating in the same boat lol!! 😂

    • @stefanierobertson101
      @stefanierobertson101 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@91earthybae😂 I feel your pain sis. But our fairy god brother is going to get US RIGGHHHHTTT 🙌🏽

    • @stefanierobertson101
      @stefanierobertson101 Před měsícem

      ​@@and93077out of 10...yes.

  • @misstrice84
    @misstrice84 Před 6 měsíci +15

    I've never heard the term "mid-ugly men" until today. 😅 This makes a lot of sense, thank you for sharing.

  • @Sasha-K
    @Sasha-K Před 2 měsíci +11

    I keep attracting old dusty men…what does that say about me? 🤣 lawd, this is a cruel world…

  • @earthangel8399
    @earthangel8399 Před 23 dny +2

    Lol.... this rating math is hysterical

  • @aprettyliltarot333
    @aprettyliltarot333 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Thank you for this… makes sense 🤔 interesting

  • @missfranniepants
    @missfranniepants Před 6 měsíci +5

    This explains so much. I appreciate the break down.

  • @beautifullyours
    @beautifullyours Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hmm interesting, Thank you!

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun Před 2 měsíci +3

    This is so it. The fives and sixes think that the nines they like don't settle down with them because of women like us, but it's because of women like them. They pick quantity over quality.

  • @god563616
    @god563616 Před měsícem +1

    Wow! This is eerily spot on.

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee Před měsícem +5

    not really. ugly women have the hardest time and even when we do have someone it is because he is biding his time and waiting till he can get the woman of his dream

    • @MeMyself984
      @MeMyself984 Před 29 dny

      Dorothy Dandridge talked about beauty being a double edged sword. She’s right. You damned if you do and damed if you don’t in a sense. When you’re beautiful men just want to posses you, they don’t care about you or treat you better at all.

    • @theupgraded6558
      @theupgraded6558 Před 8 dny +1

      true, they'll treat it like a doormat, sleep around with some other women on the side & demand 50/50 cuz he aint paying for that pussy till he can finally afford his dream woman

  • @arikinui05
    @arikinui05 Před měsícem

    Wow

  • @sinceresinclair
    @sinceresinclair Před měsícem +2

    And don’t be pretty AND bodied up!

  • @queenred.6159
    @queenred.6159 Před měsícem

    Yea once ugly always ugly unless you are really doing the work and I have never seen it