Ep:311 KETO-ANECDOTES: CRY WITH ME ON THE LAST ONE

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  • čas přidán 15. 07. 2024
  • Dr Cywes shares ANECDOTES from his busy METABOLIC HEALTH PRACTICE. IN MY OPINION THIS IS THE MOST POWERFUL VIDEO I HAVE EVER RECORDED. The first story is INCREDIBLY IGNORANT, the second WILL PISS YOU OFF!!! The last one WILL MAKE YOU CRY AND THINK DEEPLY. IT IS MY STORY…LIKELY AS WELL AS YOURS. Please leave your own comments.
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Komentáře • 225

  • @clairehachey2189
    @clairehachey2189 Před rokem +68

    Much respect to you for all the information you share here. We appreciate you Dr. Cywes!

  • @susanv9660
    @susanv9660 Před rokem +25

    Same thing happening to me. PCP gave a statin. Bottle has not been opened. Carbs are the enemy; not LDL.

  • @marianne1959
    @marianne1959 Před rokem +30

    Wow!! This just described my relationship many yrs ago with my son. His dad, my husband died when he was 7. I raised him alone but was always finding fault from his perspective. I was anxious, nagging , yelling mom. When i changed my woe to zero sugar, provessed foods, then to carnivore ...MY way of handling emotions and interactions changed dramatically and the relationship with my son has grown closer. I apokigized many times for the hurt i caused him and know his anger was from pain 😢. Today..i am 64 , he is 25 and our bond has never been closer. I started this health journey to reverse t2d but in the end the benefits of it has changed me in ways i never knew were possible! I am so grateful to Dr Cywes, Dr ken Berry and Dr Jason Fung for changing my life dramatically. You had me in tears on this one Dr C. ❤

    • @kristinapaules3803
      @kristinapaules3803 Před rokem

      I could not agree more I went through the same thing with my daughter we are still working through it and I am hoping as each day that passes things get a little better. I never realized what an awful person sugar made me not to mention the anxious, nagging mom you described and I only wish I knew this when my kids were younger so I could have changed sooner and been a more patient mother and truly been there emotionally not just physically. Good luck to you and your son congrats on all you have accomplished not only with your physical health but your emotional health too!

  • @itzakpoelzig330
    @itzakpoelzig330 Před rokem +9

    I worked as a teacher for about fourteen years, often with the same kids from kindergarten until they graduated highschool, and I was there to see exactly when their trust-relationships with their parents broke. I NEVER saw a broken trust get fixed. I think it can be, but the parent would have to A) know what they had done, and B) be willing and able to atone. Most parents don't think that way. Everything is the child's fault. If their child has ceased to love and respect them, somehow that's the child's fault. They never ever ask themselves "could I have messed up? Could I have done something unworthy of a child's love and respect?"
    Sadly, I think schools do a great deal to damage the parent-child relationship. They assign totally unnecessary homework and projects so that the parent has to become a taskmaster at home. Most parents don't have the time or energy, after a long day of their own work, to patiently guide a child through pages and pages of busywork.
    They get angry and frustrated and then the child gets defensive, and suddenly two people who should be in a relationship based on trust, acceptance, and mutual support are now at loggerheads and acting like enemies. I never once assigned homework to my students because I figured, I'm the teacher and their parents are their parents. If I can't do my job, that doesn't mean I get to offload it onto these poor parents.
    By the way, from what I observed, trust is usually completely gone by third or fourth grade. The families where family bonds stayed strong and healthy were very very rare. I gave a lot of thought to what those parents were doing differently, so that someday hopefully I can be a parent who stays worthy of love and trust.

  • @Imoldman
    @Imoldman Před rokem +13

    Thanks Doc. I' ve lived it. At 18 I tought my dad was a dumbass, 4 years later when I returned from Viet Nam I was suprised at how smart he got in such a short time.

  • @pattylyman7907
    @pattylyman7907 Před rokem +9

    I said " Oh my God out loud when i heard about the 10 year old and statin

  • @tealelliott3870
    @tealelliott3870 Před rokem +12

    Your first story raised my blood pressure! I'm type 1 diabetic and have been given the standard bad nutrition advice for 39 years and counting. I am listed as non-compliant on my chart because I refuse to eat high carb foods that require massive amounts of insulin. Doesn't that make the most sense? Eat foods that don't require drugs! Duh!

  • @lenoresmathers339
    @lenoresmathers339 Před rokem +30

    Your wisdom and authenticity are stunning. Thank you Dr. C

  • @ketobygeorge7763
    @ketobygeorge7763 Před rokem +7

    A referral is required from my PCP(Primary Care Physician) to see any SPECIALIST. My PCP/Medical Administration fired me as a patient for not seeing my PCP during the Pandemic.(No office visits or elective surgery allowed). I was delayed three months to establish a new PCP because most doctors are not accepting Medicare coverage. I saw my doctor and he emphasized four times that if I did not comply with his Standard of Care Protocol then I would be labeled in my chart a NON-COMPLIANT patient and would be fired by him. He reviewed my old charts from three years ago and informed me I was not complying with STANDARD of Care Practices because I was not taking a statin of an ACE-Inhibitor blood pressure medication(These medications were given to me before and my body did not tolerate them.). I take 1/2 of a baby aspirin daily and my blood pressure is 105/60 for the past three years following a very low-carb lifestyle for over six years. Thankfully, I was able to bypass the referral process to see my specialist. I will be searching for another PCP.

    • @nancyhoskins197
      @nancyhoskins197 Před rokem

      I am searching for a new internist/pcp also in Central Florida.

  • @MossGlenAK
    @MossGlenAK Před rokem +10

    Your doctor story and hospital story are strong reasons why I have stayed away from doctors. I am afraid to go. I have been getting my blood work done through a health fair and the HDL/LDL are a tiny bit high so there is always inserts with the results. I carry on. I have an autoimmune thing and the one Dr I found who worked with me and my at first Keto and then carnivore diet left town. I can’t find a new Dr who isn’t a if this then do that. Not looking at the whole person. I don’t want fight so I stay away. I watch my glucose and ketones often and my BP.

  • @luciavasile2895
    @luciavasile2895 Před rokem +5

    Dr. Robert, my pcp almost kill me in 2022😢 with toxic meds😢. I start took charge of my own health. I thank God i found you sir, also dr. Ken Berry too. Proper Human Diet,💪🧠🫀🫁🦷🦴👀 help me since july 2022 by puting in remision t2d, inflamation, epileptic seizures, angiodeama anaphalethic. My son has Autism, and in october of 2022 i was watching a podcast with dr. Ken Berry and dr. Chris Palmer talking about the" Autism". It was amazing, the changes. My son he is more focus, and for the first tim in 29 years, my son call me "MAMI". Thank you, to all of you the best doctors❤. I can never find a pcp, no matter how long i will looking for😢. Sad but true😢

  • @kurtbecker3827
    @kurtbecker3827 Před rokem +5

    about 40 years ago, I brought my baby daughter to a pediatrician for a general checkup. The doctor did some tests and announced to me and my wife, that the child has serious mental issues and we should look forward raising her in an institution or at least special education.
    Totally depressed and crying, I told my own mother about it. She looked at the baby and announced with a loud voice: "There is nothing wrong with this child, this doctor is an idiot."
    Fast forward 40 years, my daughter went to college and became an architect. Today she lives in California, she is a career woman, one child and an occasional husband or boyfriend, and she makes at 40 twice the money I made as an engineer at age 65.
    This should have destroyed my trust in the medical profession forever...
    My daughter had a child... and as a grand-father I enjoyed being involved in the child's life. Also at the pediatrician (different one obviously). The pediatrician always looked first into the throat of the child even when the reason for the visit was to be found on the other end of the body... and every time she diagnosed strep-throat and prescribed Amoxicillin... and every time I did NOT give the antibiotic to the child... and every time nothing bad happen. I was a medic in the military and there was actually one thing I learned there... which was:"You do NOT give any antibiotic to anybody until 1. the person REALLY needs it and 2. You have done a bacterial culture to verify the diagnosis and verify if the antibiotic is even effective.
    ... and now I own ordeal with my type 2 diabetes and a stupid doctor again who told me:" eat normal and take your meds."
    BULLSHIT, while I will always listen what a doctor has to say... the decision what to do is ALWAYS MINE and mine only.
    I am a type 2 diabetic and things got really bad lately.... KETO and 25lbs in 2 month and A1C down under 6.0 .... the medical community can all f#$% themselves. They bled Washington to death and they have not learned anything since.
    Want more BAD doctor stories... I have about 10... all happen to me and my family during my lifetime.
    But I am grateful for doctors like Dr. Cywes... I would not have known the truth otherwise.

    • @unassailable6138
      @unassailable6138 Před rokem +2

      Sounds like your daughter was an Aspie. I'm an aspie and I was the top student in my Medical class, I'm a surgeon.

    • @kurtbecker3827
      @kurtbecker3827 Před rokem +1

      @@unassailable6138
      You maybe correct. I was not able to communicate with her until she was about 5 years old, but a doctor told me that she had a hearing problem. To be sure, she does not have a hearing problem now and she certainly is not a loner or socially awkward right now, but she was as a child.
      When she went to kindergarten at age 5, within 1 year she completely transformed and I give credit to Mrs Alvarez her kindergarten teacher, who just had magic skills.
      Do you think that Aspergers is inherited?
      Because despite I did extraordinarily well as an engineer, I am socially awkward... for the text books..., but I am aware of it and honestly do not want it any other way.

  • @umzacharia
    @umzacharia Před rokem +7

    Impactful and pivotal. Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear and learn from your message “listen and be present without advice.”

  • @juliepangborn7282
    @juliepangborn7282 Před rokem +9

    Thank you for your wisdom. My son's relationship with his father is so sad. As a parent I always gave my son the space to work things out when he was upset about anything that didn't look like he thought it should. I held myself back to rush in and fix him as I was suffering so much watching him suffer. His father was always rushing in to give his advice. I sometimes physically stood between his father and my son's closed bedroom door. We divorced when my son was in his twenties. Now my son's father is in endstage renal disease because by his refusal to manage his diabetes. Both my son and I are caring for him walking with him to the end of his life. It's so painful to watch my son who still loves his father be in that love/hate relationship. The only thing I can do is to take charge of my own health and be the example for my son. I see that he still eats alot of carbs because he uses them to manage his emotions. And I know that I taught him that. Now I eat mostly carnivore with a few cucumbers and occasionally cabbage. I've lost over 30lbs. I don't shame my son when he eats things that I know are harming him because we are witnessing his father death March. My prayer is that he will see the writing on the wall and not choose the path his father is walking. Being a parent is the hardest job I've ever done. Thank you for showing your vulnerability. ❤

  • @TheAngelaDuke
    @TheAngelaDuke Před rokem +16

    I can listen to you for hours. Thank you! Best, Angela

  • @charlescoates5761
    @charlescoates5761 Před rokem +24

    💯💯💯🙂 We need more Doctors like you love the Stories and information keep them coming please THANK YOU

  • @arthuroalcorte123
    @arthuroalcorte123 Před rokem +11

    This video helped me see a perspective that as a father I was blind to. Thank you

  • @nancyhoskins197
    @nancyhoskins197 Před rokem +19

    Oh my, Dr. Cywes: Your patient's hospital experience with horrible hospital protocols was exactly what my husband, a type II diabetic, experienced in Central Florida hospital x9 days in February. Admitted from ER, diagnosed with sudden onset of sepsis and pneumonia after recently starting Jardiance. The multitude of specialists were professional and thorough, as they tried to fined a source. But the dietician was rude, uninformed, and nearly killed my husband with carbs via breads (hamburger and bun, sandwiches, biscuits), fruits (bananas!) starch vegs. (mashed potatoes and gravy)His sugars jumped over 340, maybe from the rampant infection or horrible food choices?. The gave him insulin, too. He is only on alogliptin and glipizide at home. (They added metformin upon discharge). Home nd he hs had low glucose nd hs been taken off glipizide. You are an intelligent and compassionate man and appreciate your endeavors to inform the public. GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!

  • @lavellnutrition
    @lavellnutrition Před rokem +17

    I loved your random thoughts. I needed to hear what you had to say. Thank you so much for your candid honesty and for being so real!

  • @user-vm1pe1bn2h
    @user-vm1pe1bn2h Před rokem +4

    Dr Cywes you’re personal story about you and your dad is so inspirational. I am sharing this with my adult children and granddaughters. Thank you! Please keep sharing your stories.

  • @markharman3319
    @markharman3319 Před rokem +15

    Had tears in my eyes listening to your experience growing up..I always remember the good times..I've got a 10 year old son who worries about me dying because I'm 60 ..it hurts but I'm near enough carnivore for a year and he can see how positive it is..I've told him that I'm planning on going nowhere just yet ...he looks at me then all the 30 to 40 year old dad's and is proud..he's examining all the nutrient content of foods and has a real interest in coming to the gym with me..the way I'm feeling now I'm aiming for 120 years old keeping it basic and strong 💪 thank you for your advice x

    • @jna9888
      @jna9888 Před rokem +3

      You have a very smart son who will go a long, healthy way. Congratulations!

    • @unassailable6138
      @unassailable6138 Před rokem +1

      You're ok Robert De Niro just had a kid at 84 years old and he participates a lot on his children's life

  • @grabbergrabbs1
    @grabbergrabbs1 Před rokem +5

    this man is a GEM. I just wish i would have a Doctor like him.

  • @pondboy3682
    @pondboy3682 Před rokem +11

    Unexpected, and quite possibly the best video from you yet! Thank you!

  • @markujcich4245
    @markujcich4245 Před rokem +14

    Damn, my dad's side are all gone. Believe it or not, some of my best life lessons came from family card games. My brother and I recently had a good laugh reminiscing about the battles playing cribbage and sheepshead with my dad and uncles. We appreciate your passion and thank you for sharing.

  • @NIgirl923
    @NIgirl923 Před rokem +3

    What you said about child trust is so true. I'm 76 , I've seen this though life . If parents would hear this it would be very helpful for them and their children. Thank you.

  • @VAHelix
    @VAHelix Před rokem +17

    Loved this session. We have six children and another we call our son, and he calls us his. One note to add here is that every child has a special path to walk. For some, the road is easy, and for others, it is not. Allow your children to fail and learn the lessons only life can teach. The earlier the failures are easier. Be there as a support, but not the cure. They must be their own cure. This empowers them to accomplish bold, powerful things in life.

    • @itzakpoelzig330
      @itzakpoelzig330 Před rokem +4

      Great message.

    • @AKWarior
      @AKWarior Před rokem +1

      Like the Good Book says, "Raise up a child in the way HE should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."

    • @marshapopp1827
      @marshapopp1827 Před rokem +2

      Very powerful and helpful.

  • @ginah1956
    @ginah1956 Před rokem +8

    God bless you and your family 🙏❤🌹

  • @lowcarbRD
    @lowcarbRD Před rokem +5

    Came for keto stories left with a deeper understanding of my upbringing. Damn, Doc.

  • @azrocks111
    @azrocks111 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I found you only yesterday, and am blown away by what you offer and share -- of your knowledge as well as of yourself. We learn from stories, so bring them. When the story is personal, profound, sincere and heartfelt, it teaches on multiple levels. It is beautiful and bonding to cry together. You told my childhood story, bringing more clarity for me... at age 79. Thank you for the gifts!!

  • @peterweeden6203
    @peterweeden6203 Před rokem +1

    To be for the child, the parent first needs to be for themselves.
    Child = Parent. Parent = Child. Thankyou Dr Cywes.

  • @wilmafoster7040
    @wilmafoster7040 Před rokem +4

    I really connected with the last portion of this presentation. My whole life was spent trying to please my father but always falling short. I did the same with my children and am currently suffering the consequences ...only recently have I learned that my adult children need to make their own way in life...success and failureL Thank you Dr Cywes for bringing that to the attention of us parents in order to save that relationship.

  • @pedrocurtes8480
    @pedrocurtes8480 Před rokem +7

    I’ve been LCHF Keto with intermittent fasting since Nov 2018, started on this path by a Dr Jason Fung video. I’m a retired electronics engineer, and until then had trusted my health to my doctor without reservations. I had been diagnosed T2D in 1999 after a sigmoid colon resection surgery due to chronic diverticulitis. Put in touch with a Endocrinologist, I followed the standard T2D therapy he prescribed, looking back, hindsight vision is always 20/20 😊, had set me on the road to progressively worsening my health. Ended up on massive doses of insulin, 240 units a day, and already overweight for most if my adult life, my weight on insulin ballooned up 100+ lbs to 280 lbs, at 5ft 7” that was BMI of 40+, morbidly obese. Really bad neuropathy in my feet, with less & less physical mobility. In 2017 I lost a toe to infection. I could see a really bad end if life scenario for myself, couldn’t really understand at that point how I got there, and just thought I had brought this on myself.
    Once I understood LCHF, Keto, and intermittent fasting, the causes of my T2D through bad diet, I now saw a bright light at the end of that previously dark tunnel of my compliant acceptance that things actually could be changed for the better. I’m retired so have plenty of time for researching and so I started seriously managing my own health, researching various subjects with the goal of reversing my T2D, losing weight, getting of all meds including statin. What a seemingly never ending rabbit hole, warren that has turned out to be. And lost 95 lbs in around 1 year, got off 7 of 9 meds. My kidney function improved from eGFR of 57 to a recent peak of 88, my Trig/HDL ratio went from 4.78 to consistently below 0.8. Life long Psoriasis stabilized without meds. Sinus cleared up, heartburn gastric reflux gone, digestion much better. And yet my endo only worry was he just couldn’t accept that I refused to take a statin. As I studied my own health conditions closely, I discovered that there were other lab tests that could help me understand how to proceed. I’ve done three CAC scans, very high score of 2550, scared the crap out of me, but it set me off on researching further. I discovered that because of my LCHF lifestyle it has reduced my CAC score progression to 4% per year which places me in a lower risk of CVD events. BTW: I don’t have any symptoms like shortness of breath or angina. I can cycle around 25 kms per day without issues, and have pushed it to 40kms one time. At the moment I’m just recovering from a second toe infection, that required two nights in hospital to get intravenous antibiotics, then 20 days of a strong oral antibiotic, which so far has prevented loss of that toe, somewhat self inflicted, but this meant stopping intermittent fasting, and digestive issues due to oral antibiotics. Also I started using my insulin pump again focused onto now keeping my A1c in the 5.5 range, the infection making it difficult to control my BG.
    Having previously focused my efforts to to get off insulin completely , by reducing insulin to one or two shots per day, and letting A1c run in the high 6s. I think now this was not such a good solution or focus for me, and have decided refocus to keep BG in normal range by using my insulin pump to closely control my BG through out the day. Due to my toe not completely healing yet, I was advised not to exercise until the wound closes. Hopefully in next week or so I’ll be able to start exercising again. Result of this so far is I’ve put on around 10lbs and digestion is still not back to normal.
    Similar story whilst in hospital. Offered carb rich menu, met with blank expressions when I rolled my eyes and said I’m diabetic don’t you understand I cannot eat that!
    Ending up choosing and eating the chicken breast, steamed broccoli scrambled eggs, diet jello. Yet still they added hash browns, rice, which I didn’t eat. They also wanted to inject insulin, based on just two blood test strips per day. As I was using a CGM, and had my basal rate dialed in on my pump, I refused to let them do that as I could control my BG infinitely better by myself. Needed to sign a waver! Also upon entering I had told them that the only meds I was now was just 10 mg Lisinopril and insulin via my pump. Yet somehow they wanted to give me my previous statin, and no Lisinopril. I refused the statin when offered and took my own Lisinopril. Result was my BG and BP was completely in normal non diabetic range during my three day stay. There was a slight peak in BG as one intravenous antibiotic had added glucose to the solution, easily seen by my CGM and lower education by me adding a bolus, to return my BG to normal range.
    On my final release, the written advice post hospital stay was: stop insulin and Lisinopril, but keep taking a statin. ??

  • @TheBereangirl
    @TheBereangirl Před rokem +4

    Aw...I loved this. Thank you Dr. Cywes for sharing such a touching and private moment and the wisdom that you obviously got from your beloved father.🥹 Your son will know your father because he is living on in you.❤

  • @pointshealthcoaching8474

    The lack of true medical freedom is a real thing.... we must support the real doctors like Dr C!

  • @michaelduncan802
    @michaelduncan802 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful! Thank you Dr Cywes!

  • @annerepsch
    @annerepsch Před rokem +10

    This was a marvelous video. I am so grateful for you and your honest videos. Thank you.

  • @gigics6695
    @gigics6695 Před rokem +6

    This was wise and powerful. Thanks.

  • @Terrierized
    @Terrierized Před rokem +6

    Huge respect for you Sir
    I love dogs and music and cycling..., but your channel is my new favourite
    Take care Doc 🙏

  • @recreatingkaren
    @recreatingkaren Před rokem +9

    Welp, didn't expect to be crying this early in the morning, Doc. Thank you for sharing what I imagine was difficult to get out. ❤

  • @josephnebeker7976
    @josephnebeker7976 Před rokem +4

    When my daughters make a mistake, or do something that ordinarily would get them into trouble, I try never to yell at them or even make them feel like they are being punished.
    Instead, (sometimes after I've calmed down myself!) I sit down with them and ask why they did what they did, whether they think they should have done it, or why not, what they should have done instead, and possibly how to fix it and remember not to do it again.
    If I've ever done something like it in my past, I will often tell them what I had done, and what I did to fix the behavior. I would say it like in regular conversation, and not necessarily directed at them. Usually they'll think that's a pretty good idea, and follow it.
    When they realize I make mistakes too and was able to fix them, they're far more likely to want to follow the words of wisdom I give them.

  • @tomdixon1213
    @tomdixon1213 Před rokem +12

    I got into physical blows with my Dad. Your story was a helpful reminder of my sad relationship.

    • @HoneyHollowHomestead
      @HoneyHollowHomestead Před rokem +3

      I have stood between my son and my husband. My son finally moved out of the country. I have tried to explain to my husband, but he doesn't see where he has done any wrong. He rarely communicates with his son, even though I try to encourage it.

    • @tamigreever6852
      @tamigreever6852 Před rokem +2

      Just became a better carnivore-more importantly-a better human.

  • @belumptuous
    @belumptuous Před rokem +5

    Well that was quite the video doc, I already like and respect you for the work you are doing and sharing. But that second half is a gem of wisdom.

  • @juliarice4031
    @juliarice4031 Před rokem +2

    Hospital pumped me up with glucose served only carbs to eat after I was hit by drunk driver
    They tried to make me take insulin
    And they accused me of not eating correctly
    Finally an intern agreed with
    me and stopped the IV
    glucose!!! 2017 in Annapolis Md
    Thought I was safe here in Fl w Dr Cywes!

  • @ARefinedMe
    @ARefinedMe Před rokem +1

    I’ve got a good one. I was hospitalized last August with diverticulitis. After 5 days NPO (nothing at all by mouth, except sips of water with meds), the first thing they bring me was a tray of “clear liquids” consisting of Apple Juice (sugar), Cranberry Juice Cocktail (high fructose corn syrup), Ginger Ale (sugar), Jello (sugar & food dye), Italian ice (mega sugar), and vegetable broth. I drank and ate it ALL because 5 days with no food. I was SO SICK. Went right through me, headache, cramps, heart racing… well the next day they said I could order “low fiber” meals from the menu. So I asked for baked chicken, they said no because I had a soy allergy and there is soy in that. Fine, how about chicken tenders - nope. Okay I asked what I could have and they said - I kid you not - “Mac n cheese, spaghetti with meatballs, grilled cheese sandwich on white bread.” I’m like, wait; I’m hospitalized with a GI problem and haven’t eaten anything solid in six days and the first thing you’re offering me is gluten and dairy???!!! The dietician said “it’s low fiber.” I had pot roast and bacon and eggs for every meal thereafter.

  • @colleenhall44
    @colleenhall44 Před rokem +2

    Thank you, Dr. Cywes….you continue to make me think. You have my respect and admiration.

  • @jamiemaginness7082
    @jamiemaginness7082 Před rokem +7

    Thank you Dr. Cywes! God bless you as you continue to share truth in many aspects of health and wellness.

  • @zita-lein
    @zita-lein Před 15 dny

    Growing up is so hard. And being a parent of someone growing up is so hard. I relate strongly to your story, and remember my dad, whom I love. ❤️

  • @JamesMostowski
    @JamesMostowski Před rokem +4

    Loved the video! I too, had the hospital experience when was admitted with heart failure. I’m a T1.5 diabetic and following a LCHP lifestyle. I was lucky that I was able to order meals with double protein which allowed me to skip the carbs with no one complaining.

  • @KismetWLS
    @KismetWLS Před rokem +3

    You described my teen years insanely well.

  • @rudykatwaroo8260
    @rudykatwaroo8260 Před rokem +3

    I came here to learn more about keto and carnivore and got a lesson in life. thank you for this.

  • @juliebutler8241
    @juliebutler8241 Před 8 měsíci

    You are not just a doc, you are a father to me. The one I never had.

  • @martarico186
    @martarico186 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You are a great human being. I learned much about me in this episode. Thank you for the conviction Dr. Cywes. Keep doing it.

  • @WDWJP30
    @WDWJP30 Před rokem +2

    My youngest son (now 15) started with a lot of issues a few years ago - eventually diagnosed with a from of IBS and he also had fibromyalgia like symptoms. We went to doctor after doctor, desperate for help. He was in soooo much pain for so long. He tried the Low FODMAP diet with very little improvement. I had been researching nutrition for years and came across Keto several years ago and Carnivore 4 years ago. I encouraged him to go Carnivore last October and he was better almost immediately. However, we've found out doctors are NOT a fan and it's very unfortunate. The dietician they insisted we meet with tried to convince him he was going to die because, she said, "We KNOW eating meat causes cancer, heart disease, stroke, etc." My son has done enough research that he just ignored her and continued on.
    It's very sad to feel like we can't trust the medical field and have to figure everything out on our own. I very much appreciate channels like yours and just wish in our area (with 2 major hospitals!) we could find a doctor that sees the benefit of low carb/keto/carnivore we could go to.

  • @Sameolegal87
    @Sameolegal87 Před rokem +2

    Thank you. Just had a call with my son that went wrong again. I’ve been trying to understand why this keeps happening since he was a teenager and now grown at 30. Your story really spoke to me. Maybe part of it was me being a middle school teacher and not knowing how to just be a parent. I have a lot of soul searching to do thanks to you sharing your experience. Forever thankful!!😊

  • @jessicaboyd9148
    @jessicaboyd9148 Před rokem +5

    Thank you Dr. Cywes. My dad has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and this really hit home.

  • @Anita-yx6mm
    @Anita-yx6mm Před rokem +2

    Thank you very much for this video. We passed on the same parenting skills to my children that we had . I wish we had help and broken the cycle. They turned out well but they could have had much happier childhoods and this adulthoods oils have been better also.
    Thanks again 😢

  • @l.a.7393
    @l.a.7393 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This is such a painful subject - parents/kids relationship.
    Thank you Dr. Cywes for the insight. It all makes sense and was very well phrased.
    Hopefully it's still not too late (for me) to apply this wisdom. : (

  • @rashoff
    @rashoff Před 11 měsíci +2

    That was touching, Doc, thank you for sharing. Looking forward to more as always

  • @kriswhite2999
    @kriswhite2999 Před rokem +4

    Keep up the good work it has all gone to helping me achieve my goals, I would be more than happy to hear more of these

  • @javajo3373
    @javajo3373 Před rokem +5

    Thank you. Very moving and insightful. Loved the fasting exercise timing idea. I'd heard of childhood statins being prescribed (aghast at the notion!) but reporting parents for 'neglect' when refusing ... the state of Florida seems to have lost respect for freedom and individuality. Thank goodness for wise souls like you. We need you cloned!!! :)

  • @amiefeliccitti8238
    @amiefeliccitti8238 Před 11 měsíci

    Montessori! The prepared environment us directresses / directors set up! Bravo!

  • @pewdiepieDL3
    @pewdiepieDL3 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You just made me cry. I’m even wondering why I’m crying. I’m from Uganda and most parents keep the rod close by. Our dad used to beat or order someone or even a younger sibling to get a stick and cane our behinds. I still love him as a dad but I hate him and stay away from him and also we as siblings just talk very less to each other. He really screwed his family up just because he wanted to make us obedient and respectful of him. Guys, don’t be like my dad. At least I’ve been in that experimental program and it didn’t end up well. You don’t have to repeat it. Now thank me. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @stevelanghorn1407
    @stevelanghorn1407 Před rokem +2

    Another sad thing is that your patient was probably in no fit state to express himself as passionately & vigorously as you just have done here, on his behalf. Another reason to vocally support him, as you are rightly doing.

  • @gregorymenck5799
    @gregorymenck5799 Před rokem +1

    Outstanding!
    The agony and ecstasy of life, huh?
    A glorious journey without ever attaining a destination.
    Imposing limitations,
    I must do this or I must never do that, is to put oneself into a cage. Learning through mistakes is a perfect way to live and grow.
    I missed a lot of life by trying not to make mistakes, my biggest mistake.

  • @aybalatut696
    @aybalatut696 Před rokem +5

    Thank you Doc for the authentic stories and the part about trust between parents and a child was so needed for me. Thank you for reminding us.❤

  • @alimccoy9132
    @alimccoy9132 Před 14 dny

    Very powerful indeed. I do want you to record more of your anecdotes and observances. They are honest and teach people about themselves and others. I respect your story and much better child rearing skills than you received. Your respect for your family is so tender and pure so as to point the way to light, away from darkness. I enjoy the light you are learning. Thank you for your tears of memories and of present, pleasant family light. Honesty. Vulnerability.
    Hope. Change. Much better than a lecture or list! You are right! Humility in imperfection is cleansing and healing. Fear must be rejected to see. I reject it! Thank you for your courage!

  • @tamiroupp2075
    @tamiroupp2075 Před rokem +3

    You make so much sense in a world full of crazies. I’m feeling grateful to have found you on CZcams a few months back when I wanted info on KETO. Who knew I’d also get a parenting lesson today?! All I can say is, “Thanks! I needed this!”

  • @kurtbecker3827
    @kurtbecker3827 Před rokem +1

    Yes, it is not only our ignorance about diet... it is our ignorance about maintaining good relationships, especially with our own children. All this is very sad for humanity, that even after thousands of years of intelligence, speech, handing down knowledge to younger generations... we as humans have not evolved very much in subjects which REALLY matter.

  • @65Superhawk
    @65Superhawk Před 9 měsíci

    The good doctor here spitting bars like brene brown. I came to hear about diet and ketosis and left a better dad

  • @jeanetomblin5562
    @jeanetomblin5562 Před rokem

    Thank you, Dr Cywes. Your 3 stories had my thoughts & emotions going from anger to sad tears. I pray the relationship with my oldest child heals in time. I regret the parenting mistakes I made.

  • @msbeecee1
    @msbeecee1 Před 10 měsíci

    Oh my....I'm crying!! Fantastic story & teaching, Doc. THANK YOU for ur wisdom & ur vulnerability.

  • @back2nature608
    @back2nature608 Před rokem +1

    Amazing how he nailed it! THX for everything doc!

  • @troywoolery6852
    @troywoolery6852 Před rokem +2

    Dr. Cywes, thank you so much for your guidance and commentary. Blessing!

  • @ameliacarey3315
    @ameliacarey3315 Před rokem

    My grandson is turning 13 soon. This content is great. Thank you for sharing and showing you heart.❤

  • @dobrilajovovic-schultz3636
    @dobrilajovovic-schultz3636 Před 8 měsíci

    I knew that had to be your personal experience. Could listen to you for hours.
    👍🌞☺️

  • @Rick-zw7zv
    @Rick-zw7zv Před měsícem

    In psychology it’s important for a patient to reach his own conclusion so that he credits himself for the achieved success and not the educator, hence the “guided discovery” techniques.

  • @peajays8097
    @peajays8097 Před rokem

    I truly appreciate you. I watch you and Dr. Berry. I found you guys while searching for answers on my poor health. Unfortunately, your truths have shown me that past Drs. I've trusted with my life, have actually caused me great harm. They've drastically reduced my mortality.
    I'm seriously trying to stay alive and active enough to stay out of a nursing home. You guys have helped. But some of your recommendations are no longer able to help me. I'm very sad to know now that I'm facing a death sentence. Western Medicine has become political and profit based. Not health conscience. I now say that, "good health is the best money can buy". If you became disabled due to current medical practices, you no longer can afford to be healthy. I've been told by many doctors that what has been done cannot be undone.
    I'm following your advice the best that is possible, but it's too late for me. I just hope and pray that the people are listening to you and Dr. Berry are able to catch their problems and reverse the damage done by listening to current medical advice.
    Thank you again.

  • @subi1677
    @subi1677 Před rokem

    I had a difficult relationship with my father. He was gone for most of my childhood and we never really got to know one another. I almost lost him in 2020 to COVID, so made a concerted effort to mend our relationship. It was slow going, but getting better. April of 2022 he was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer. He fought it like no one I've ever seen and I was there as much as he would allow me to be. I lost him in October of last year. I had the honor and privilege of helping him pass from this life in his home on his own terms. I have so many regrets, but being there in the end with him is not one of them. He wasn't perfect, but neither was I . I miss him tremendously and all the time that was wasted.

  • @user-nv6vl2gh3n
    @user-nv6vl2gh3n Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing. Great advice and appreciate your videos.

  • @susancouture9386
    @susancouture9386 Před rokem +1

    Enjoyed this very much. I have been a Type 1 diabetic for 59 years. The hospital story resonates with me because every time I am hospitalized, I have to.explain to the doctors that I still need insulin to cover my basal needs. Last hospitalization they brought in an endocrinologist who drastically reduced my basal insulin and used the hospital’s standard sliding scale protocol. My glucose stayed in the 500 to 600 range and I was miserable.

    • @shaunarajotte
      @shaunarajotte Před rokem +1

      That is disgusting! You should always have Berstien's book on hand if admitted....not to educate (as if) but the hard cover version could be used cleverly .

  • @Ev-vh3pf
    @Ev-vh3pf Před rokem

    Lovely Doc. You're a good man and a good doctor who recognizes how broken western medicine is. I'm sure your Daddy was very proud of you. Yes, I like the random thoughts.

  • @JesusMartinez-mk6fc
    @JesusMartinez-mk6fc Před 10 měsíci

    You've gained so much wisdom Dr. Cywes from those anecdotes and life experiences. Thank you for sharing them. I can empathize about your father's passing as I have gone through the pain of losing my own parents in the last few years. May your father rest in peace.

  • @Fairm8n
    @Fairm8n Před rokem

    POWERFULL!!!! Thanks Doc!

  • @GaPeach2018
    @GaPeach2018 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you sharing these thoughts. I really appreciate how you inform without being preachy.

  • @lindafields3262
    @lindafields3262 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved this ❤️. So well rounded Dr. Cywes; medical, psychological, emotional..... thank you!!!!

  • @kristinapaules3803
    @kristinapaules3803 Před rokem +2

    Another powerful and inspirational message thank you so much for you and your talks I can’t tell you how much they help me and I am sure many others! Please keep them coming! I appreciate you and all the work that goes into what you do - THANK YOU! 😊

  • @tonybennett638
    @tonybennett638 Před rokem +4

    Hey Doc thanks and all the best 👍

  • @nancygorham5908
    @nancygorham5908 Před rokem +1

    Wonderful video. Thank you!!

  • @tildrik
    @tildrik Před rokem

    what a brilliant emotional video thank you for posting this video

  • @Night_Crew_Artist
    @Night_Crew_Artist Před rokem

    Regaeding the dr that prescribed the statin; I praise God my kids are all grown up and I don't have to face such evil anymore. Interesting analysis on the father child dillemas.

  • @Pnutbutterfleye
    @Pnutbutterfleye Před 8 měsíci

    I love your random thoughts. Your compassion and insights. I appreciate you sharing your hard earned knowledge with us. I'm grateful I found your channel.

  • @GrooveisKing
    @GrooveisKing Před rokem +14

    All the respect in the world. You're saving so many lives, as I'm sure you know. You're what every doctor... and person really, should aspire to be like in many, many ways. I'm sure your father couldn't be more proud of his son. Thanks for giving me and so many others the knowledge and with that the push we need for a new lease on life. Sincerely. Thank you.

  • @MartinSKatz
    @MartinSKatz Před rokem

    Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.

  • @dpasek1
    @dpasek1 Před rokem +1

    Exogenous BHB (including its precursor 1,3-butanediol) is an incredibly effective appetite suppressant. It works for keto induction, making the process entirely hunger free. It also works for people who are not keto adapted at all and are on a high carb diet. I have tried this with giving them 1/2 Tbsp of ketone salts when they complain about being suddenly hungry. It shuts the cravings off within about 5 minutes. The butanediol might take a little longer since it needs to be oxidized to BHB to become effective. This stuff should work for anyone to suppress appetite cravings on demand, whether on keto or not.

  • @flaman1967
    @flaman1967 Před rokem

    Hi Dr Cywes ,I loved your video and I never quite got over from the loss of my father who suffered and died from Type 1 diabetes ( blindness,amputations, dialysis and he never complained about it).Thank you for sharing and God bless you.

  • @lex2951
    @lex2951 Před 9 měsíci

    I really liked this one. Helped me get back into the right headspace with parenting my two little ones.

  • @roxyfarley2864
    @roxyfarley2864 Před rokem +1

    Thank for this video. I really enjoy your content, and all the science you back it up with.

  • @malindsell
    @malindsell Před rokem +4

    Wonderful wisdom shared here. Thank you doctor. Many of us out here can relate to this misguided treatment being received from health care providers. As I listen to this video I await a call from a doctor to discuss my blood test results. High LDL. I’m on a carnivore and greens diet. How do I explain to her about pattern A and pattern B LDL particles? And that it’s the insulin I’ve injected for nearly 20 years that caused heart disease and worsened diabetes? Thanks to you, doc, I’ve decreased insulin from 120 units a day to 32, I’m in ketosis (1.3 last reading), my hba1c has gone down from 57 to 51 (U.K. units I’m afraid - I think about 6.7) and I’ve lost 12lbs in 8 weeks.

  • @DJ_Kruz
    @DJ_Kruz Před rokem +1

    Now that my friends is bringing it home.

  • @texasstar8836
    @texasstar8836 Před rokem

    Dr.Cywes, I came across you on u tube a few day's ago, I became interested in the carnivor diet a few weeks ago, threw a very good friend, I was having some blood pressure problems, severe insomnia, and anxiety.long story short been going to a local clinic for 4 months, only seen nurse practitioners, still haven't seen the actual doctor. I am on BP med. now..not sure about it's effectiveness, however, been on the carnivor diet 27 days, I feel much better, and am sleeping better most nights, not sure how much weight loss yet but , I do know my clothes don't fit , so I take that as a plus. I will continue to watch you and hopefully learn more about all of this, I'm not having a problem staying away from carbs,or sugar to my surprise .Thank you, for all the information, I only wish you were in Texas..