Can You TRULY Forgive and Forget?
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
- In this powerful discussion, we dive deep into the nature of attachment and how it is formed not through sexual relationships, but through meaningful connections with our family and loved ones. Learn how genuine interactions, care, and support play crucial roles in building secure attachments, regardless of the environment.
Candace opens up about her journey after leaving the adult industry and the profound changes it brought to her marriage and personal life. She shares the challenges of reestablishing real intimacy and deep love, as well as her struggles with an avoidant attachment style. Discover how intensive biofeedback training and a commitment to personal and spiritual development transformed her relationship and led to unexpected miracles.
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The true origins of attachment
The impact of leaving the adult industry on relationships
The struggle for real intimacy and overcoming avoidant attachment
The transformative power of biofeedback training and spiritual growth
Miraculous journeys to parenthood against all odds
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The question remains.
How would you, specifically, answer this question?
@@AttachmentAdam I can forgive... But I refuse to forget.
This is so interesting. Thank you for being vulnerable and tell us your story. What a blessing. Also what Adam said about the environment and the attachment styles was a surprise for me. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind feedback! I appreciate it and I'm glad you found this helpful.
I was never in the adult industry, but i keep having miscarriages. I wonder if it is because i have fearful avoidant attachment. They can't figure out what is wrong with me.
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. It must be an incredibly difficult and emotional experience. Your attachment style can have an impact on your hormones such as cortisol levels for example, especially when you're avoidant.
If you need support or want to discuss this further, please feel free to reach out to me at support@adamlanesmith.com so we can find out together if it's attachment-related.
Often times, it has to do with birth control messing with your hormones. I would advise against using them.
I'm not native English speaking... What does "Adult Industry" mean? First I thought it's a misspelling and was meant to be "Adultery", but wouldn't that be discovered before posting? So, I'm unsure... Can somebody help me understand, please?
Porn Industry . Sex worker.
Pornography industry - an emotionally bankrupt industry people enter due to broken attachment and as a unhealthy coping mechanism to trauma.
@@Sam-ng3of Ooooh, yes, I see! Thank you so much for helping me understand 🙏🏼
Pornography. Also, OnlyFans in my opinion is another form of the adult industry or adult entertainment.
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Thanks for pointing that out. Here's the full episode link, through the I wish you knew podcast channel: czcams.com/video/lQrxZ_TV02c/video.htmlfeature=shared
I'd love to hear your thoughts!
I have serious questions about affairs
1 If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating
Ps me and stephen are ex boyfriend and girlfriend we got history can that cause emotional affair to happen.
2 can i have affair without ever ever having no sex i am not interested sex at all.
If Morgan isn't okay with it it's wrong. If you know you need to hide it from Morgan you know what you're doing isn't right because you can't be honest with him. So, yeah, unless Morgan is 👍probably not a good idea.
If you don't want sex that's okay but to sex tends to be so important for human bonding that you may have to make the choice between
- having a committed asexual partner or being okay with them meeting their sexual needs outside your relationship
or being in a community setting that provides you with the emotional input you deserve without asking for the commitment from 1 person
I was in a platonic (no-sex) relationship with a girl for about 2 years while I was dealing with my divorce and she was dealing with SA issues. But there came a moment when we both decided "yeah, we're done" and we have never spoken since, so it really had all the emotional depth of 2 people sharing a taxi even though we discussed things like living together and even adopting 🤫.
@@markmitchell590 Out of curiosity, isn't a 'platonic (no-sex) relationship' just a friendship? Or was it meant to be more than that? No judgement, just curios.
Having contact with ex is not a good idea. emotional doesn't rely on logic.
If you had no choice better tell your partner I'm meeting him for this reason and when the job gets done bye.
being contact with ex just only cause problems.
the history doesn't let you be normal and cause irritation to your partner if you become even a little close because that person what happened in history.