209. Struggles with letting go | Update on Lawsuit
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- čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
- A deep dive discussion on the struggles of letting go with an update and review of the redacted Order Sustaining Demurrer on my civil case.
❋ Show Notes
In this episode DSD talks about the struggles and importances of learning to “let go”. We discuss how difficult it is to actually do, being forced to learn the “lesson”, recognizing when you’re being pulled back in, and notice when you are stuck in the rumination cycle. Duane then shares how things really start to change ONCE you accept the situation and allowing yourself to “move on”. He also shares that unfortunately this process takes a LONG time and for some even years. DSD shares that it took him about 2 to 3 years for it to really sink in.
Duane then provides an update with a reading on the final Order Sustaining Demurrer that was finally sent and signed by the court. This leads into a discussion on various aspects of court.
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📖 Table of Contents
00:00 Start
03:17 - The Struggles of Letting Go
27:20 - Review of comments
50:05 - Order Supporting Demurrer
2:01:25 - End of show wrap-up
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Congratulation Duane! Could not have happens for a better guy!
Thanks so much for the support Nick I really appreciate it!!!
Great to hear you , your a real blessing in this community...
Thank you so much Jennifer. Sorry we missed you on the live!
The way you imitated your mother with the look on her face at the end of the hearing was priceless, and validating even for me.
LOL glad you enjoyed it! I know I probably shouldn't mimic people but it just seems funny to me...
Fantastic content DSD. One thing I've learned in my healing journey., simple does not mean easy. 😊 I.e. let go of the abuser & what transpired is simple not easy. 😊 Letting go/ healing is a journey not an event.😊
Well said Stanley! we all have to in the work to get the results! Glad you’re on the other side!!!
Great news Dwane 👏 but you still had to go through the sh1t
All over know 🙏🤞.
Mick from Ireland
Yeah that is true and sometimes it does feel like things keep coming up. Don't get me wrong I could see how I could stay anger about this for a while but as I said in the video it doesn't really help me get to where I want to go and it just keeps me connected to toxic people. Kind of like my comment about going after fees, sure I could do that but it would just keep me in the middle of this and, at least with that person, I want to be done with it... But yep it's now over! Thanks Mick!
Thank you
Thanks Duane, you are absolutely right about the learning. You get the lesson again and again and again. Until the pain is so bad, you finally let go. Let go people who don't have the mind to understand anything. Every discussion with them leeds to nowhere. Sad, but I also have to make my peace with people/Situations/even politics I cannot change. What a challenge.. 😅
Why we had to endure it to begin with is unreal to me. The fact my life was completely upended financially and mentally is beyond me. Im on year three post divorce now my son is in counseling. Im praying this psychiatrist can see why i was so defensive and protective of my son. Wow hard it is mentally, and why so many men are deleting after all these courts just wont listen to anything. How it looks vs having facts. I cant fight anymore, ive healed but this system just terrorizes my soul.
I hear you man. This was the worst thing I ever experienced in my life. It really is no surprise when someone does hit and limit and gives up. Glad you’re hanging in there and I hope your son gets better!
Yeah. All those “should have”, “would have”. They work against self-care.
So true! Good to see you in the comments!
Love this video!
Thanks itumblers!
Congrats! I hope getting more of your paycheck in your pocket goes smoothly.
Thanks spider I hope so too!
Okay so I've had trouble moving on it's been a long time. But recently I've had moments when things just seem hilarious. I mean these people are so ridiculous, they are definitely their own worst enemy. And the s*** they do comes back and bites them in the ass, my rumination has turned into snapshots from a circus full of clowns. A circus I'm thankful not to be part of any longer.
It is really weird how things switch and change. Isn't it crazy how in the past we thought we'd never be able to have a shift and realize this was all stupid. We get so wrapped up in all the chaos that it seems like we can't break free from it.
Probably the ex with the👎😂
I'll never know!