210. You MUST deal with the pain!
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- čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
- Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this
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In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things
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Watching the replay on CZcams - no ads here. I'm not on any paid thingy either. Thanks for all you do, Duane!
Awesome, thank you!
Another great talk. I remember the pain going thru family court. I embraced it....because I knew I couldn't run away from it. I found no way around the pain, so I didn't bother fighting it. Worked for me, ultimately. But not easy.
Thanks Duane. I can highly suggest a book “Letting go” by David Hawkins. It opened my eyes and I stopped seeking revenge.
Thanks
My narc best friend passed away 2 years ago. Once in awhile I still find myself obsessing about a wrong or micro aggression she did against me. My Psychiatrist calls it ruminating. Hard to let go of! At least for me. Do you have tips?
DSD, you regularly say stuff like, “I don’t want to think about it anymore.. and I say that as I’m hosting a livestream on this channel talking about this topic.” (Around 1:05:00)… and you often wonder on the channel why you’re still doing this content while you also feel you’ve moved on and aren’t negatively affected by the crazy anymore (also @ 24:00 you mention it) ……
Just wanted to give you an outside perspective from an appreciative subscriber… It’s very obvious that you’re a strong, resolute man who is very much past the negative effects these people try to impose on us.. I don’t think you continuing to do this content is a reflection of any latent cptsd still affecting you in any way whatsoever. It’s pretty obvious to someone who’s been through the same stuff and who’s been watching your content for a year or 2 now, that these people truly are effectively dead to you, as you eloquently put it.
No, instead, it’s fairly blatant that you’re still doing this content to help others who are where you have been, who are suffering as you once did long ago, to hopefully help others expedite their own recovery and get back to thriving instead of surviving as we all have had to do going through this hell on earth.
In case nobody’s ever told you that, just wanted to let you know that your obvious strength and resilience is an excellent example for others on how to survive, learn from, and then resolutely deal with the cptsd, pain, ,suffering, & hell we’ve all gone through.
Most people do disappear once they’ve finally overcome the hell, narcissistic abuse, child alienation, etc and once the people who have done these things to us we’ve declared dead to us.
But you haven’t disappeared yet, and you’re such an awesome beacon of light for us all to aim our compass toward as we make our way out of all of our own personal hells.
So, thank you for keeping your hand outstretched in the dark for all of us who have reached out looking for guidance on how to escape hell, and progress toward the thriving we all deserve. Finding your hand in the dark, finding your channel, is such a beneficial weapon, an invaluable tool in our toolbelt, as we fight our way back into the light.
Thank you & keep it up brother. I believe “Godspeed” works well here 👍
Well said. Duane’s content helped my husband and I when his ex pulled the “silver bullet” attack on him. I know this has to be draining for him to talk about, but it’s so helpful to so many.
Fire stick was bad for ads. Has twice as many as when I watch on a chrome cast Fire stick has its own ads on top of CZcams’s I think but I’m not sure how all that works
Oh wow I didn't realize that but I guess it makes sense. Thanks for the feedback. When you watched on Chrome cast would you consider it "a lot" of ads?
@@DSD it’s not too bad anymore actually, it got ridiculous for a period of time but they dialed it back. It’s pretty reasonable these days I’m my opinion. Especially for how much information youtube has for free It’s really not bad at all
@@DSD Everytime I go to ask you a question I have, I either can’t get through the explanation when I it comes to talking about my mom passing or I feel like I know the answer is gonna be what I already know. Needing something from my ex just gives her power over me and I have to find a way to forgive myself and my ex. Get it through my head that she will never apologize or admit the truth. I just can’t believe I let it happen. SMH.
@@SketchybrainD well even if we know the answer it doesn't mean it is easy to accept. I really can relate to wha tyou said there because I had the same issue. Even when I finally started to "understand" what I was dealing with I kept refusing to believe it. I wanted her to apologize or admit the truth (as well) I basically just wanted something to prove DIFFERENTLY that it just wasn't true... I think I missed on what you were talking about with your mom though?
I tried a couple times. I can’t The guilt tears me apart. I couldn’t think I don’t understand how someone could do that
Mom's fifth husband, you are talking bout my ex. Maybe I will be f.. you'd someday as well.. Brad Pitt speakes wisdom..