Fridays with Tab & Chance: Grown up conversations NOT FOR KIDS
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- čas přidán 5. 01. 2023
- This weeks episode of Fridays with Tab&Chance we invite our first couple to the room! Introducing The Coleman’s aka Them Coolin Coleman’s Catarah and Carlos!! Let’s talk about sex in marriage!
Be sure to follow The Coleman’s: / @themcoolincolemans
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I love the way Tab looks at Chance while he speaks. She looks at him with such pride and admiration. They are so beautiful❤
I have to agree. I have noticed that from day 1. Its such a beautiful thing to ser your spouse admire you in all your Glory that right there is just too damn sexy. I really love this discussion initially I was getting impatient but Upon reflection I realised they were speaking in layman's language the way the average person will speak about sex in a way that the message is delivered. It taught me a lesson that it does not have to be from the so called specialist speaking in real language is just as powerful. I see growth in Chance as he gets more comfortable with the camera he is lending his voice love yall. I pray to meet you both one day in my life time.
I've noticed this from the beginning. What a beautiful thing. There is respect there, it is celebratory❤️
I was thinking the exact same thing while watching this video! Its awesome!❤
yeah they do make a Great couple, but I aint gonna lie to you, when I was younger, I was just poppin-straight up thats how I get it ....!
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Facts!
Tab, just think, at first, he didn’t even want to talk. Now Chance, want to tell everybody, what to do😊
Amen
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Listen? And accept
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A real grownup conversation was Great! I will be 75 yrs old in 2 mths and my husband will be 79 in August. We have been married for 51 years next month and we Thank God! We have been through all these things through the years concerning our sex life. We are still active, but not as much depending upon..how our body parts are feeling, lol🤣🤣🤣
That’s a blessing!!!!!
THATS SOOOOOOOO AMAZING 👏
This is great!! Real commitment
God bless us all with this ❤ wishing you years of happiness ahead of you!
Wow!!! Peace and honor to you and your husband
Chance is showing out in front of company!😂🤣😂🤣
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He’s cutting up for sure 🤣😂🤣😂
Ain't he?🤣🤣
Fr Fr 😂😂😂
FO SHO!!!! ☠
Tab, Chance is a whole choir director!!😂😂😂😂
No one else had heart burn?😂😂😂🤣...
Thank you for giving them a Chance... lol
And more 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣
That’s right gotta have the harmonies right!
He just taught me something, and I'm a choir director 😂🤣
I love the other ladies spirit; actually her and her husband. Beautiful people
Beautiful people attract beautiful people
I totally agree and I wish they had had more of a chance to speak! Everything they said was so true and so funny at the same time.
Wow this is the most Chance has talked and he was really telling the truth.
Chance always talks more when with other couples and with other men present. Watch him on the "Let Us Tell It" show with Tank and Goose. And even on the show he and Tabitha did with the couples from the Bald and the Beautiful (Angel, Tank, Kevonstage and
Melissa).
This is a tough subject to keep classy and y’all did it while still being genuine . Chance has serious mentor/counseling skillz!
Tab say I’m his stress reliever 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chance got the choir right together and they came back in on point🤣🤣
The explanation of teaching a boy about sex and love from a man's perspective is powerful! This is what's missing in most homes. Thank you for having such transparency during this discussion.
I love that he said he wants to be desired by his wife cuz they always make it seem like it’s women who should be desired.
I just broke up with my boyfriend. Knowing that there are happy couples in the world like y’all give me the strength to leave an incompatible relationship. If the love ain’t this unbreakable, then single is what I’ll be. Thank y’all!!! 💛💛💛
A quick word... I learned this a long time ago when I bought a CD set about the Superglue to Marriage. It's not love that keeps a marriage together... it's COMMITMENT. The CD series was a biblically based study and for me this makes a ton of sense. There will be days or even seasons where you will not love your spouse, you may not even be friendly. It is in those valleys where commitment kept you together. Expecting love to ALWAYS be there is the problem. Love is about feelings. Commitment is about discipline. Can you not cheat when you think you have a right to? Can you still be sacrificial when the other person seems ungrateful? Etc.
@@LChatmanFL a WORD
@@LChatmanFL Your explanation of Commitment is the true definition of what LOVE is. There is no commitment with out it. IF you do not love someone you will not commit yourself to them. True love brings respect and commitment for the relationship. Love is more than a feeling it is action and a decision. Even God stands on the principles of Love.
What a great Word. Where can I get this CD series.
@@sharntashalurns2688 The CD is from Adrian Rogers. I just found it on Google. Superglue to Marriage.
I love how deeply Chance thinks and how well he expresses his thoughts.
He thinks before he talks
@@raeraesmith5038 He really does!
Mannn Chance was saying a word tonight...nawww quite a few words. I can't believe how he was being quiet all this time, but he was telling the truth. Sharing is caring Chance...and now we know you care because you've been sharing a lot to help the young ones. And some of us old ones too.
This is nice. A real adult conversation...I like it.
We ALL know Tab was excited for this topic. 😂
OH FO SHO!!!! 😉✅💯
@@tboykin13tb And that’s her business 😂
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Chance high key can sing 😅
Yes! I see where Choice gets it from.
Oh Yes Ma'am & can their female guest!! 🎙🎶
@@tboykin13tb Her husband can too...
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Record Deal is NEXT!! 😉🤩
Yes he can!
Chance is a whole life coach out here especially starting at 22:44 ~ 25:00. Chance we appreciate you + these young men need you! Big up to Fridays with Tab & Chance, we love yall!
This was Chance’s show! Unc was preaching. We need this for our boys too! The WHOLE conversation.
Thank you, Tab and Chance this is the conversation that Christian couples and singles need to have, bc we struggle in silence.
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Soooo true.
What an awesome, open conversation. Kudos to the longevity for both couples.
I am so glad Chance is talking more now. He has been dropping nothing but wisdom on these episodes. Friday's with Tab and Chance is just like reading an encyclopedia on life. Love it!
Chance was extremely careful with his wording - his explanation on this topic should be published - I’m gonna share this with my 25 & 22yr daughter & son - I love you guys
I was thinking of doing the same thing
That second version did hit harder💛🤣
Chance can TALK; he got real deep y'all. Very good guys. I can't wait for part 2!
He had to get comfortable first. Might take minutes. Might take years. 😆
Chance did an excellent job leading this conversation helping the younger generation 😊
Chance at 25:49 preached some much needed Truth! Real Love is willing sacrifice… sex is not exempt. It’s so much better when we willingly give ourselves to each other with open, compassionate spirits. Love this conversation, y’all! Thank you!
I have been with my husband for 27 years and 24 years married. Without the deep friendship we have I am not sure how we would have navigated through the tough rollercoaster called sex. I thank you for bringing such a needed topic and being so honest about it. I am looking forward to part 2. The first guest on Tab and Chance and hopefully more to come. God Bless!!!
27 years? That’s awesome! Friendship is important!
Wow that’s inspiring. I know one thing, if I’m not feeling loved ain’t nobody getting love. I am not the lay down and take it person. This has to be a mutual exchange. And that’s where it gets hard for folk. It’s awesome to hear someone married for so long who has stuck with it and figured it out.
Man, my favorite thing about this is how Chance has all the way found his voice and he turned into a whole choir director!! Love this family!!!
My husband and I have been together 10 years, married for 3…….God knew EXACTLY what we needed to hear at this precise moment. Tabitha Brown you are a GEM!!! I love the love you and your husband share ❤. God is GREAT!!!
Tabitha. Lolololol “my legs hurt I can’t squat too long”. You all are so refreshing
i love the coleman’s this was hilarious. you can tell how close the browns & colemans are. love it ❤
Chance is the choir director...getting the parts right
I thought they improved too lol
Exactly 😂 I’m just glad he ain’t the cussin choir director like we had one time in “Qui” rehearsal 😳😂I was like oh God we all going to hell in the Lords COGIC house 😂
Chance out here dropping knowledge!!!
It's time now for Tab & Chance to go on tour as an US TALK TOUR. Coming to a city near you. I can't wait. Amen
Chance with the low key Jodeci snippet was 🔥 🔥 love you Tab
A natural and necessary conversation tastefully done. Couples need to see that these honest discussions can happen with your partner and friends who you have built a safe space with!
Yay for Tab and Chance and their friends! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤗😁
Thanks Chance for sharing what it's like from 25 years of experience. I enjoy Tab & Chance and have been apart their family for the last 4 years.
Chase was on one, dropping gem after gem! 🙌🏾 👏🏾 Sacrificing sex to grow and allow God to bless our union is what my fiance and I are doing until marriage. It's challenging but rewarding!
I really appreciated Chance’s advice about the conversations at different stages we should be having with our young men (and young ladies). It’s not all about being safe but understanding how decisions around sex can affect your life.
This was a good discussion ❤
Yes! Definitely a conversation to have with your kids as they grow. Early exposure to the wrong stimulus can have serious consequences.
BRING-THE-BEAT-IN!!!!!✊🏾✋🏾🎶🥁 Enjoyed the Couples session. Chance is a man of wisdom. He shared some insightful information.
I been waiting for tab to talk about this.... but it's so tastefully done...not crass and ratchet. This is why I love tab n chance
It all depends on how they take care if themselves! I’m 31 years in, 30 Married, it all evolves on both sides. But we have to know how to love each other outside of sex! It makes the challenging times easier to evolve. It happens to all of us, sometimes we’re on, sometimes we’re on! You just have to learn how to navigate getting older!❤
Couples need more of these deep and real conversations. I love the Couples Edition and will be tuning in for part 2 and I hope more to come. ❤️
This was a VERY good conversation. Can't wait for part 2. Sometimes parents don't have the sex talk with their children because THEY weren't given the sex talk. I love how both couples vibe with one another.
I’m 26, I’ve been married since 22. We have 2 kids and the “early years” describe what I think we’re going through. My mind just isn’t on that because I’m a overwhelmed/stressed, but to my husband, that’s how he gets relief. It definitely takes work and it feels better knowing people have gotten through it.
I just love how yall be picking on Chance and he just smiles like FORGET YALL....LOL!!!
Lord knows I miss my husband/my best friend! They remind me so much of us!!! 🕊🤍 We were together over 25 year, high school sweethearts! I so loved that man! Yep, he had that deep voice!!!🙌🏾
0:37 😭😭 not the silence instead of the beat drop 🤣
Whew!! This was such a refreshing & real episode. I loved it!
Brother Nick brings in one karaoke machine and celebrate after an awards ceremony now Chance is the choir director, lead soloist, worship leader extraordinaire. 🤣😂🤣
The opening was hilarious!!! Tab, you know that Chance is the Master choir Director. Perfection is his game!!
I love that BLACK LOVE! Thanks for helping couples. We all need this kinda help. We can all learn from each other.
Lol!! It was the deep voice "Hello" fa me 🤣🤣🤣
I enjoy watching weekly, but this was not only a very good conversation, your friends' willingness to be open really made a difference. KUDOS TO ALL PARTIES!!
Great Conversation! The drive definitely changes with age it's the desire that you want to nurture. I have been married fo4 41 years and together for 45.yrs. My husband's drive and desire thankfully is still there 💯..but because of medical issues that come along the drive and desire can become challenging! But if the RELATIONSHIP jas been nurtured over the years you both find ways that are satisfying to one another..Through AUTHENTIC Communication! It takes growth. It's not comfortable but necessary! Thanks for the convo!
Not the ashwaganda gummies!!!! 😆🤣😂😹
That intro song and Chance🤣🤣🤣💗
This was a very much-needed conversation. It takes growth and maturity on both sides to really understand your partner and know where you stand in whatever situation you're dealing with.
Stressful situation, parent's, family, health, financial situation and children! Can all run its course in your marriage can take apart your sex drive
Oh, this was EPIC‼️ Y'all have to do a Q & A live one day for couples🤞🏾. I think y'all will make great Marriage/Couple Advisors given the long years you've been together. Pls make it happen aunt Tab😩🙏🏾
Chance said whole lot to the men about this topic...very very very good! I'm single watching this has enlightened me on some things. I am hoping for a hubby who is happy to see me every morning, misses me when I leave, crosses my t's dot my I's, good in bed and is my best friend! I learned so much in this segment! We need more men to step up and speak on this, so we can understand, heal last and love longer!
Somebody better give Chance his own talk show🔥🔥🔥
He shared a word!
Wait a minute Tab! We didn’t know chance could sing… I think its time for chance to bring that 90’s music back
Chance said Tab is his vitamin 🤣
Tab…. Chance be dropping knowledge for real!!! ❤
Dynamic Duo.. y’all are touching so many people lives.
And I love the other couple’s transparency!!! Much needed conversation!
Excellent point! And as well age and learn our bodies the diet, exercise is also important.
Thank you all for having this conversation! I chose to speak to my son regarding respect for himself and young ladies based on this dialogue-not the first time. He wasn’t as clear about it as I’d hoped, but he was less ambiguous when we left the night cap convo. I will continue these convo’s in my house as a night cap for us on Sunday’s! Thanks for speaking up Tab and Chance! It is a much needed conversations. Look forward to more! 🥰
Them Coleman's are the best people for the first episode. Yal got that fun genuine love ❤️❤️❤️
This was just a GREAT grown folks conversation filled with great wisdom and ALOT of laughter. I couldn't stop laughing 😂 Love ya'll so much and the guests were AWESOME!!! I am mad to wait for next week for part 2 though! LOL 😂
😂 Chance really taking his coral director position seriously. I love yall
Hello 37 years later sex is different but the love is stronger !!!!
First, I have to tell you guys that I look at y’all like my play cousins.
Secondly, I really appreciate how you always manage to stay in your truth. Thanks for allowing us to understand how the two of you maintain the healthy relationship including the sex.
Love the energy this couple brought. Thank y'all for the transparency!
Such Excellent & Much Needed Conversation. Chance was out here preaching & it was awesome to see. Both old & young men as well as women need to watch this!
Tab is so cute!!! When her hubby talks you can just see the love all over her face!! God has really blessed you you all as a couple!!!
I love how Carlos said when keeping it fresh and enticing after being with your partner for years, that he also does what he has to do to make himself continue to be desirable. There are men out there that think it is all on the woman to do everything new to keep it exciting and keep themselves desirable, while they do nothing but bring the same old same old. It reminded me of one of Kat Williams’ jokes about men and sex.
Whew chile I remember I was rolling my eyes like 🙄 and my man caught me and kept right on about his business because he was having a good time. 😠 You have got to be in tune with your partner or it ain’t gonna work. We are good friends now.
Come on Chance, with all your wisdom about the gender differences, respect, and the reward of the sacrifice you're committing in marriage! Go Team Chance!
Yes, ya cutting up in the into 👏🏾. I'm glad that you are bringing sex to the table because we often don't talk about it enough. Emotional intimacy is key to a deeper sexual bond.
Chance is still on that Choir Director vibe from Christmas. I'm just glad he didn't throw in the towel like he did with the Christmas choir 🤣
Chance should go ahead and start working on his NY Times Best Seller. He had some great information to share in this segment....very carefully explained and very honest. So many men, both young and old, can benefit from what he shared.
Maybe he already has but haven’t exposed it yet. You never know 🤫
Tab so proud of Brotha Chance!..❤️
Look at my nephew philosophizing tonight. Mr. Philosopher. Dr. of Love 💕 Great job y’all. Kudos to all!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is a necessary conversation. Can’t wait for next week!
That solo though!!!
Get em Chance. 😂😂😂😂 Lol. Get it right y'all. Find your place. I can't. Love yall
Proud of chance’s growth! It’s great to hear a male perspective on this! Honestly the kids need to hear this. So helpful! Love y’all!!😊
Oh honey we was tuned all the way innnnnnnnn! This was soooooooo veryyyyy goooood. Oooh Lord, we thank You🤗. Come on part 2 👀
Tab you are a riot! 😂 when you brought in that goli bottle I cracked up! 😂💃🏻⭐️
I love to hear Tab say "bring the beat in"
That harmony and unison was on point! YUP! 💜🤣😂
I love how transparent you guys are on this particular today. I pray this help to build a lot of people that are struggling in their relationship and everyone that wants to learn MORE 🙏.
Chance & his musical creativity 😄💕
Y'all this is GOOD!! Helping me with marriage. Great tips, great conversation 😃🙌🙌🙌. Enjoy u guys bery much. May the Lord continue to Bless you and keep u guys. Make His Face to shine upon you all, n be gracious unto u. May He lift up His Countenance upon you and grant you Peace. ❤
There’s a different between making love and having sex….
Great conversation!! Part of the reason I tell people I wouldn't go back to my 20's unless I could take what I have learned since back with me. Cause I really didn't know nothing 😊
I appreciate this conversation. It’s deep and raw. I’m single but this conversation enlightens me about love and marriage ❤ shows the aspects of love to look for and to accept!!! Black Love ❤️
When Tab brought out the Goli gummies. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
These type of conversations need/should be had such much more!!