How comfortable are you in your relationship? | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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When I started dating my partner 8 years ago I tried to leave his house in the middle of hanging out because I had to use the bathroom. He said "girl you better go blow that bathroom up and get back out here and finish this movie". Thats a story we still laugh about to this day. 😂😂😂😂
😂 I love that.
This was too funny 😂 😂
One of my favorite couples, that is a REAL MARRIAGE,🎉 There is nothing like real people. That's why I hate starting a new relationship, because for some reason, it is hard to be real at the beginning of a relationship. I love it when people can be real feom the start. There is nothing wrong with being pleasing to other's, just make sure you are pleased first', and formost !!!
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Chance: “Ain’t nothin’ gentle about it. Trust me. They come out real grown.” I’m cryin’ 😭🤣😂🤣😭😂🤣😂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's like idk what u say...nothing is gentle about it 🤣
As soon as he said that, I was like, "That's all that avocado she eats. "...🥑 🤣 😂
Right 😂😂😂😂😂
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That realization, and Chance loosing his train of thought at "I wear my heels in the air" was EVERYTHING!😂😂😂 Thanks Tab and Chance for your authenticity always!
So Caught Off Guard...Took Chance Straight Out 😂😂😂
I laughed so hard! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I been married 27 years. When we started living together I use to wait until my hubby go to work before I pooped. He said, I thought you were like a robot who ran on oil 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Me too😊
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Chance looks so relaxed since he retired! I love y'all - so beautiful together 🎉
My son is 13 yrs old now and has been taking all of his clothes off since he was potty trained 😅😅😅
That’s how it suppose to be. That’s the point of retiring so that you can finally relax. What an amazing couple
Yes he does. I'm so happy for them both❤
Grrrl you attracted to him..stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Grrrl I caught that shade.. that's why you're single 😎
That's why Tab is so amazingly joyful and happy. She's not all stopped up! Better out than in😂😂
Lol, good point☺
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I've been with my husband for 20 years and the comfort we have with one another is crazy. He literally walk in the bathroom while I'm taking a number 2 and have a full blown convo. I be like baby how are you breathing with the way I smell 🤣 he doesn't care. We have no filter at all 🤦♀️
😂😂😂i love this!
How romantic ❤❤❤😊
No I Can not😅
That’s just nasty 🤮
Same here with me and my husband, we're very comfortable with each other's bodily functions. We liked to liked each other with the amount of gas we passed on our honeymoon😂😂😂
Man I just love the chemistry..friendship and love and laughter
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Chance: "First of all, you ain't NEVER pooded around me....
YOU FART"😂🤣
I love Tab and Chance they're the most funniest and down to earth people in the world. ❤
😂💯 My son's laughing at them
I agree. It blesses my heart to watch them interact. 🥰
Yal had me laughing so hard this episode! 😂😂😂
My tummy hurts from laughing so hard🤣🤣🤣🤣
I tried to play shy around my now husband, he made it a point to bust in the bathroom while I was 💩🚽 and said don’t be trying to hide from me. I haven’t had true privacy since! Most comfortable relationship I’ve ever had. 😂😂😂😂😂
My mama always said, there is more room out than in and no need of making yourself sick to save someone else. RELAX, RELATE, AND RELEASE!
😂 Facts
My mom won’t even say “poot”
She says “who let out wind?” Bless her ❤️ 😂
We had to say pass gas lol e we got in trouble with all of those
Chile, my mother says break wind. 😮😅😂
Broke wind in NC
😂😂😂 Right! My mom will only say passed gas
@@Natishasprofessionalhairtips yes we did too and I still say it now. 😊
Husband and I met online. We were together 6 months before we met in person. The 2nd night we spent together I was at the desk, he was on the bed and let it RIIIIIIP! then looked at me w a straight face to see what I'd do. I laughed until I cried 😂 😂😂😂 and 9 years later, he still letting it rip. Now I check the furniture for holes 😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂 I love that!!
Not holes! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same night he 1st came to visit. Lol
This one took me out, 😂😂, the riiiip, then chech for the holes😂😂😂
The Fart smell wet! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I gave up at that point!!😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅
"We went from looking like Kings and Queens now we looking like jokers and Jacks" 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 uncle Chance is hilarious 😂. Still reigning to me 🙌🏾❤️
Y’all must’ve had an amazing time because Chance is engaged participating in your Robot 😂❤
#facts he all in…lol
I said the same thing 😂😂 love it❤
Same thing I said!
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Chance batteries re charged all the way up..smiling
Didn’t think it was possible, but I love her even more now. No one else as genuine as her.
Right
Me too 😊❤️
"I wear them heels in the air!" Had Chance all kind of discombobulated! Lol!
The 'watching people walk through it" is what took me out! Tab & Chance are my new Ruby & Ossie Davis❣️😍☺️😆
THANK YOU👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I thought the same thing.
Love how comfortable Chance has gotten with the episodes. You two are entertaining!!
True I agree ❤
Childlikeness is really joyous. Having the freedom to be yourself without feeling embarrassed or not good enough unless you fit into a certain mold. Thanks for sharing this episode.
When I say I was crying the whole time, laughing, coughing, nose running because y'all too funny! My husband does me the same way in the stores. This topic is so relatable! 😂 I love the humorous side of this topic, the let's get real and be serious for a moment and back to...we have fun y'all!
Kings and Queens to Jokers and Jacks… y’all are too funny AND beautiful!!😂😂😂😂
I pray to manifest a love like this. Just to see y’all laugh and find joy in each other makes my heart believe that true love is possible!! I love y’all beyond words Auntie Tab!!
My first husband told me if I can’t stay size 10 or less then he would replace me. And he did. While trying to please my then husband, I starved myself to fit into his idea of what was appealing. I feel better after healing from that. I appreciate y’all talking about healthy relationships cause some folks never had seen healthy relationships. Truly thankful❤
Oh wow! So sorry you went through that!
As hurt as you may have been, thank God he kept his promise and set you free from what could have been worse. Hope you're doing well
That's awful 😔. God bless you for your healing 😊 and know that he has more and better for you 🙏❤️
My wusband once told me I was a biscuit away from being fat. That was a huge red flag.
Unfortunately, we all are attracted to what we're attracted to...some mature and wouldn't fathom leaving but others it matters.
I have had things said in which that person was not thin their damn selves.. n I met them where they were. Released them.
The break up is a Blessing. It let's you know how far someone is really there for you, as we all are going to breakdown from aging. Hope that impass elevated your feelings about You and not kept you down.
Idea please: Can you do an episode about coparenting with Ty-leah's mother? What has your journey looked like? Successes? Lessons? Also, Tab and Chance, how have you navigated this part of your relationship?
Oh I love this topic especially since we have a blended family as well
They have the love that most ppl only dream about....I love it!❤
I can tell y'all had a good time on your anniversary vacation because you two are glowing.
Facts
It’s when uncle chance realized what she said that had me crying 😂😂😂😂😂 go head auntie Tab!!
They're only 43 and 44 years old. I'd imagine even their oldest nieces or nephews would be 10 years younger than they are (with a sibling making them an early uncle or aunt).
Y’all had me so tickled in this house laughing at y’all!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
My husband and I dated exactly two years before we got married, I never would let my “poots ” come out around him. On the other hand, he got comfortable and didn’t hold his at all. I would go into another room or just ball up and make it stay in. Not because I wasn’t comfortable with him, it was because I couldn’t stand the smell. 😂
He would run behind me to smell my poots! Boooyyyyy….the day he did, let’s just say he wished he had let me mind my business when I poot!!! 😂😂😂
We couldn’t say “fart” as children. It didn’t sound appropriate.
That’s it, Tab!!! Heels in the air!!! 😂
Tab, the leg part “V” in those heels. Had chance thinking 😍😍😍😍
"Put your hands on the steering wheel and drive that car!" 😂
This was a much needed episode! I love Tab and Chance’s relationship! Y’all got me rolling!!😂😂
Yep! I love how they keep it real and had me crackin up big time.
In tears!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
“No that’s brown noise” goes crazyyyyy 🤣🤣🤣
"It's okay baby I ain't gonna trip, I know you with me." I love, love!! ❤❤ Ps.. I also love Tab's comment "I wear heels in the air. " Chance almost speechless and Nick response in the background-- It's that whole part for me😂😂
Wear the heels in the air Tab!!! You done messed Chance up! He stuttered😂😂😂😂😂😂 👠 👠👠👠👠😂😂😂😂😂
Not it smell wet! 😂😂😂 Y'all are hilarious, and I love it! 🥰
I laughed at that too 😂😂
Chance said, you didn't even try to get a ahead of it. I love you two.
No chance u will not do my good sista 👸🏽Tab when she said she wears her heels 👠 in the air it’s cool ❤
First off congratulations on the anniversary and photo shoot. Y’all looked soo amazing HOWEVER I HAVENT STOPPED LAUGHING SINCE THIS INTRO!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They had me crackin up😂
“I’ll wear them heels, in the air” and “What you say?” “Nothin” That me OUT!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yes Tab!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Only if I am miserable, constipated and strugglin to go. Im sweaty, nauseated, and can't go anywhere, so yep, everything is comin off. I feel for anyone who has experienced this, so do whatever you need to to get through it. And good partners understand, give you room, but will check in if you need help, can they get you anything (medicine, a fan, whatever gives you comfort). That is priceless.
“The smell is offensive…you could’ve got ahead of it”😂🤭😆🤣
It was about a month or two in our relationship before I ever went #2 in front of my husband, and even then it was by accident. I was staying over at his house. Since he was downstairs and I was upstairs, I figured it was the best for me to try to “sneak” and go to the bathroom. Well, I ended up clogging his toilet and had to ask him for a plunger. I was mortified at the time, but it was on after that! No more sneaking for me! 😂
Mannn the embarrassment that was sitting in your spirit that night, look at ya now free to let it riiiiip. 😂😂😂
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😂😂That's when the relationship became "official" 🤣🤣
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Thanks for the great laughs today Tabitha and Chance, I really needed it, lol😂😂😂 After being married for 51 years with my husband, we are very comfortable with each other. We even know what the other going to say before they say it, or even thinking, 😂😂😂😂😂
Congratulations on 51 years of marriage!! Awesome 👏🏽 ❤💐
I'm a 37 year old woman, and I disrobe for #2 as well 😊! I chalk it up to the relaxation of not feeling the clothes against skin, not feeling the jeans or pants or skirt around your waist. For me it's an overstimulation thing...matter fact I also turn off the lights 🤷🏾♀️
My 6 yr old son does this and his grandmother (Dads mom) was like I know he don’t take his clothes if to poop! His dad (her son) and his twin both did it and still do. 😂 I just smh. i just have to take my shoes and/or socks off. 😂
I turn the faucet on put the light off
I do the exact same thing!
I love how laughter heals u Inside out❤as a woman we do have BM we fart 💨 it’s ok ladies and men we do poop 💩 jus get u some of that spray u KNO ur gonna have a BM u spray b4 that way it doesn’t smell as bad jus for being respectful too others ur spouse significant others. IM WITH U TAB WE WEAR THE HEELS 👠 IN THE AIR YESSSS🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
My mom made us say pass gas!
I’m so happy that me and my honey are open and fun like you two are. I don’t do nails, lashes, or other people’s hair and he loves me wholly and unconditionally.😊
Me and boyfriend broke the ice early in our relationship and it’s one of the best and freeing relationships I’ve ever been in.
I think it's what Tabitha said about fronting. Sometimes, what people do to get someone wasn't showing their authentic self. So now they have to keep up this facade. You have to start with being yourself or you created an unrealistic expectation you can't live with trying to keep going.
Awww…. You got the real kinda love , I love how Uncle Chance loves Auntie Tab, it’s so beautiful ❤💕🔥
This episode was hilarious. One of my favs. Tears in my eyes!
Me to😂
"Put ya hands on the steering wheel! Drive!" 🤣🤣🤣
Chance is sooooo much more comfortable in front of the camera! kudos!
This was by far one of the best & most hilarious episodes of Fridays with Tab & Chance
Thank you Nick for the awesome topic of discussion today…Lol! I enjoyed it!
Trash bags and some converse. "You still look good."That is so sweet.🥰
“I wear them heels, in da air”!!!! 😂😂😂👐🏾👐🏾❤❤
I couldn't be with my husband if I wasn't free to be flawed we are human. Love is stronger than that!!!38 years married!
I think maybe ppl are uncomfortable about certain things is bc they are not fully comfortable with themselves...society also plays a role in placing large amounts of pressure in being perfect with both genders. I think once ppl love themselves fully and realize no one is perfect it makes it more easy to be transparent even with body functions...
Totally agree!!
@@antoniabae agreed
You two, Nick and JR are so silly😂😅‼️ I love you guys so much!! My ex’s philosophy when he had to let one go was “better out than in, I’m not gonna bust a gut to keep a friend!” 🤣😂
My son is 29 and ever since he was potty-trained, he always took off EVERYTHING to poop. I told him he doesn't have to take his clothes off. I'm sure he probably still does. I always thought something was wrong with him. Thanks for sharing that, Chance and confirming that nothing is wrong with my son.
I am laughing so hard. My mom didn’t allow us to use the F word either WE HAD to say pass gas! Lol I still don’t say it. LOL she also say it’s better to let it out in shame than hold it in….in pain!!! Lol
Break wind... That was my daddy's word
You guys had me laughing and remembering how special my marriage is! ❤ When we first met, maybe after a few to four days in, we were holding each other and laughing in the kitchen. My first poot came. Then we looked into each other’s eyes and laughed even more. Still holding each other. Of course, laughing made more come. And the pooty-poot-poot game came all at once. 😂
We married soon after this. His potty habits are different then mine but as Tab said, “That’s not my business” ❤
The only boundary we have is he likes privacy on the potty and I need privacy when wiping. Hey… we’re keeping it real here right? 🤷🏽♀️😂
Thank you Brown’s 20th Anniversary couple for coming back with a BANGER filled with the “opposite” of what people think of you after your (finally, well deserved) honeymoon. You came with the “dirty real” 😂😂😂
Thanks for being a part of such a beautiful and nurturing couple to keep, at least me, hopeful even when it’s not easy.
I never laughed so hard in my life. This is absolutely me and my husband. Except for in the store, lol. I love y'all ❤❤❤. 37 years together
My husband told me that there is more room out than in. Let that go!
Another brilliant topic! I agree, there's nothing like feeling freedom in your relationship and in your home. I had a boss who slept in her makeup because her husband never wanted to see her without it. Maybe she should have asked him to sleep in a tool belt. Like Chance said, when Tab is happy, he gets the benefit. And as Tab said, she still wears heels...in the air! That should be enough to keep a man. If not, he's in love with the "idea" of you. It's a compromise that works for both of them. I love this couple!
I have literal tears rolling down my face from laughing SO HARD. OMG 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
I'm feeling like I don't have any manners listening to yalls boundaries. Lord! Let me re examine!!!
I LOVE that you guys laugh so much.. God bless your union forever!
Y’all got me in tears 😂😂😂
I love how y’all laugh at eachother
Me and my husband are completely free! We do however give a flush as soon as the poop comes out and we use room spray.
It’s normal. We all do it. Be comfortable with your spouse
You guys are glowing today & dancing together 😍 Y'all had my stomach hurting it was so funny 😂🤣
I have read a few comments that said it must be a man thing to take off all your clothes. Not a man thing. I totally get what Chance said about being comfortable. I take off my clothes also. Chance also mentioned he could never do it at school, he would wait until he got home. Same here, not going at work and I don’t even go at my mom’s house. I will hold it until I get home so I can “get comfortable”. I admire you two a lot. I miss being married.
Mane this is the most funniest episode ever 🤣😂😀😀🤣🤣😂😂😂
The two of you give women like me hope...knowing that there IS someone out there that is capable and desires to love the AUTHENTIC version of you💜💞Thank you for being that inspiration, reminder and confirmation Tab & Chance!
Tab SAID WHAT SHE SAID!!!...Dem heels in the air! Drop the DAMN MIC!!!
Ok I haven't laughed this hard in weeks. Thank you Tab and Chance for being my breakthrough. ❤❤❤
Thank you Uncle Chance and Auntie Tab, for being so vulnerable and transparent with us tonight. That beat y’all dropped tonight was amazing. Uncle Chance, when are going into the studio and give us that mixtape of beats
Erykah Badu said ‘its very good when you have someone who rejoices with you when you CAN release’!!!
Nick's laughter is sending me 😂😂😂 . That intro vibe said that y'all had a great vacation. Chance is still singing. 😊😂Drive that car! 🚗 DRIVE! I'm hollering 😅 Lawd 19:16, Chance said... did u just say... 😂🤣🤣🤣 Tab! I ain't mad atcha lady
Keeping it real. There is no future in frontin 👍🏾
I am so cracking up right now, cuz this is real talk!! Thank GOODNESS my hubby and I are "comfortable" with one another!! LOL
Comfortability builds confidence
I loved it. Thanks y’all. ❤🕊
Thank GOD for Covid, it let me know it wasn't the clothes or heels that made ME. I too can wear sneaks, matching, of course, and still feel beautiful. I found in relationships I stopped eating certain things because of what my person believed, they left, I found my true self once again! This is my fave Friday night reality show. Keep going!🤟🤟💌💌🧤🧤
Listen y’all had me laughing so hard my mom said what in the world are you watching!! Lol…. I needed this laugh today!…. But great topic and I’m grateful my fiancé and I are free and comfortable even before marriage!! ❤
I absolutely loved this episode I laughed so much love yall!
Y’all are so cute! I truly was cackling with y’all
“They got your size” Chance tickles me 🤣
laughter is contageous 😂😂😂😂 thanks for sharing this topic. I definitely thought this was going in a DIFFERENT direction
Thirty years in, respectfully, my husband do the same 😂😂
Love your brother. His vibes and energy is beautiful!
I love yall so much. I look forward to the video every week. ❤❤❤
Loved this!!! Now that's a marriage 😂. Being free, having fun and being One. Thank you Chance and Tabitha! ❤❤
I really needed this laugh today THANKS!! Me and my husband are free we are very comfortable with each other!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
YALL came back live! Glad your vacation refreshed you both😂
This was perfect. Thank you always for the conversations
I love this!!