Fridays with Tab &Chance/ Episode: In Sickness and in Health
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- Trigger warning: We are talking about grieving in this weeks episode and it gets a little emotional! I hope this sparks some beautiful conversations! We love y’all!
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As a person who has had no positive examples of healthy relationships & marriages, you all teach me so much. It is such a joy and honor to witness you all's honest and authentic relationship (with both the good times and the challenges). I can't thank you all enough for sharing!
I love y'all. Thank you for sharing, as always you gave some wise advice. ❤️
Yes they are excellent couple to lean on when you want to see positive vibes in the couples but please don’t forget to seek God
That's the thing... Tab and Chance discuss the good and bad. They let their emotion show which is authentic!! I am so thankful for them. I wish that they had a reality TV show based on their lives.
Like he shared the last name and gone take it back 😂😂
Same
Chance and Tab Brown..... y'all make my soul laugh and has my heart open up to receive love at 51. Y'all are so fun to watch. Congrats Chance.
Yes, they are so fun to watch!! Great way to put it
“TOOK”= tabitha’s power!
“GAVE” = chance’s power!
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I'm so glad Chance is opening up. He has slot to say and I'm here for it. Keep talking, because we're listening. 👂🏾
That moment - Chance realized that Tab was crying… pure love.. BEAUTIFUL
My favorite part of these videos is that they are willing to reevaluate the past together, learn from past mistakes and grow. That’s bomb! Love y’all
Well said! 💯
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Real love at 11:11. When uncle chance sees aunt tab emotional and he put his hand around her!!!! I can see he just wanted to comfort her!!❤
Absolutely
Exactly! Awww! He Really 😍❤️😍💞 & Cares for his Sweet Wife for Sure.
Yes
At 11:11 that’s the Twin Flame Angel Number 😇
My favorite power couple 🥰🌹👏🏾💖
My Mother died of Cancer at 39yrs. & I was 15. Then I found out that when was 4yrs. my Father died of Cancer at 54yrs., only a nine month illness. Now I’m 56yrs. & I have finally stop living under the thought I was gonna die young of cancer.
TGBTG🙏🏾 Thank y’all! 😘😘
I love how his arm immediately went out when he noticed you were crying. Your marriage is just awesome
Really? I can’t believe it
This is what I needed. Lost my mom 6/3/22 and my dad 7/20/22 . I watched my mom go thru her sickness for months and cared for her on her death bed. While taking care of her I didn't really have time to grieve because I was in do mode to make sure she was comfortable. My Dad got sick and passed 10 days later. It's been a hard journey processing my grief and emotions after they both passed. This is my first holiday season without my parents and it hurts so bad.
I’m sorry for your loss😢😢❤
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Praying for you.
Lord I thank you for comforting and strengthening you and letting you know that He is there, even when you think He isn't. He said He will never leave you or forsake you. ❤🙏
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It certainly is not easy. I lost my mom, dad, husband and mother in law all in a two year span back to back. I felt so all alone at times, but the Lord saw me through.
Thankful God helped you through this, as I get older, it feels like death is happening all around us. And when they are back-2-back, the followup deaths, you kind of feel numb to, kinda of just going through the motions, but God, is able to do exceedly abundantly above what we ask. Regardless of how overwhelming any situation is, He is still good and still is there and loves us!
@@KitaJovan yes I agree. Thanks for the reply. 💖
God is faithful, sorry for all your loss. I pray God continues to strengthen you through life, and fill your emptiness with unconditional love.
I am so sorry. That must have been extremely hard.
@@crystalynedwards4975 Yes, praise God for his love
This is going to help a lot of people… it’s already helping people right now. You’re so real and so right. God continue to bless you both to be a blessing.❤️🙏🏾
Two beautiful souls! The realness.✊🏾💕🥰
My Son Passed February 16 and I have been in so much pain. It’s like a Part of my heart Has been ripped out! My husband won’t talk about it.Grief is a part of an emotion that no one else can speak on because we all grieve differently! Yes men do grieve differently! Men handles it totally different than females. Thank you so much, Tab and Chance!
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Sending love & prayers for you
I'm so sorry for your loss, I'll be praying for you and your husband.
God send me to this Channel today I am going through that right now with my mom but I'm so blessed to hear this conversation thank you so so much cuz I'm feeling like I'm not doing nothing but you said just my presence is doing something
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I can relate to this conversation because my husband and I went through both parents passing away early in our marriage.! I think it brought us closer together ❤now celebrating 36 years 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏿🙌🏿😊
Sorry for your loss 😢! Congrats on your stronger marriage. May your marriage continue to strengthen & be blessed 🙏🏾.
Praise God, thanks for sharing!
My mom- in- love died back in 2019, and this definitely made us closer.
We have been married for 32 years now!
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Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and wisdom with us Tab and Chance! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tab your mom was the first ‘Team Chance’! I love it.
I lost my mom a little over a year ago to the same illness your mom passed away from. I relate entirely to everything you said Tabitha. From the moment my mom was diagnosed, that is when the grieving began for me. I'm still haunted and traumatized by the loss of my mom but I learned a great deal from that experience. My mom showed me what strength, determination and positivity could do when faced with such a devastating diagnosis. I am so fortunate to have been loved by such a lovely spirit, my mother. Thank you guys for sharing.
I feel this post wholeheartedly. My mom transitioned in 2017 from metastatic breast cancer. The strength I have gained still amazes me. Even when I want to give up I think about her and how that would be dishonering her cuz she fought till the VERY end‼️ When you have a wonderful mom and she leaves this Earth, it changes you forever. Totally transforms your life and thought process. Stay strong💛
Hi @@ohgiftedone6473, I can definitely relate to U & Tab.
My dear mother transitioned April 2020. 1 mos after povid, pandemic, shut dwns, deaths. 😷Mandates officially started after I got to my mom's state. Hwever, I drove scared & solo to see, spend what ended up being her last 2 weeks in Hospice @ her 🏠 while she transitioned. 🤦🏾♀️😭😭😭
So it was a very hard, scary situation to deal with.
I felt so Lost, Numb, Tramatized, devistated & in 😳that my Mama was dying.😥😢😭😭😭 So my Whole 🌍 Crashed. Mann, I Really miss her soo much.😐🥺😥😢😭😭
@@Jesus.SaVeS77 Stay strong. I won't lie and say the pain gets any better. You just learn how to deal with it. Sometimes for me it feels just like yesterday. And the holidays, birthdays etc. each year pour salt on the wound. This is our reality until WE transition. I remember the good times. The love. The laughs. I thank God for giving her to me. She was one in a million. My consolation is that she is no longer suffering in this crazy world and is back with my grandparents. She was an only child. We will see them again someday. They are with us daily😇💛
The wording in the vows have always resonated with me, which is why when I got divorced after 9 years, I realized my husband and I viewed them totally differently. I recommend couples have a deep conversation about them and other conversations such as finances, children, conflict etc..Tab and Chance keep sharing so others can learn and heal.❤️ My husband lost his mother at the age of 29, and he just shut down, did not talk about her anymore and would not seek counseling. I think it was then that our marriage started to die. However, we remarried 11 years after divorce and have a beautiful marriage and been back together 11 years. Not for everyone but it's our story.
Bless the Lord. Awesome testimony. The covenant of marriage is more serious than people realize
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This is good food for the soul. Keep on GOD'S journey y'all touching lives. # Humble.
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Released my maiden name!Oh I felt that in my spirit!
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This episode was very timely for me. I just lost my mother on Nov. 9th. We are laying her to rest on tomorrow Nov. 20th. My wife and I are navigating these waters as we speak! To her credit, she’s doing a good job handling me right now. I’m not an overly emotional person. I handle death relatively well. I’m up (emotionally) most of the time but I’ll have my little moments here and there. My wife, who has lost her mom as well, has been very sensitive and gives me my space or whatever I need when the time comes. She understands the assignment. “In good times and bad…” Thanks for sharing!
Aw, I can tell Chance was holding back his tears throughout this episode. 💔🤧Thank God they made it through, and THANK YOU BOTH for sharing your testimonies. ❤❤❤❤❤
Chance is so intelligent ! Thank God y’all got through to be a visible couple for us!
A definite tear-jerker! Thank you Tab and Chance for sharing!
I've been there. What ever don't kill you makes you stronger. Thank you for being so transparent.
Gdeve. @Yolanda Robinson,
My dear mother use 2 say that to me when I was going thru hard times. Mama RIP! May God rest yur soul.
This is what Real Loves looks like!! I wish more men would express their love on these internet streets!! And Thank y’all for having tough conversations !! Makes us all want to be better!!❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽for your Son…
I'm not crying that's just my allergies 🤣 We love You Guys..Happy Holidays to the both of you!
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@@John_summit1...Thanks
This was a tender episode. Thanks Tabitha & Chance for sharing your hearts in such an intimate way.
My momma was also given a terminal diagnosis. My focus was just to take care of her. After she died ( I guess I was in denial) I didn’t really grieve until a year later and boy it hit me hard. You both have many blessings gifted to you by God!
This was a much needed conversation Tab & Chance. Thank y'all for being open and honest. With God grace and mercy y'all got through.
To God be the Glory and Honor on this and everyday of your marriage! I love how you two have authentically grown together and allowed the Grace of The Most High to reward you publicly for your perseverance, tenacity & patience with each other. Tab, my Aquarius sister, you are an anomaly and I see me in you and it fills my soul to see you inheriting your rewards! 🦋🤞🏾🌻👑🧡
You guys were blessed to have found your person in this big world
Important message. Grace for your partner as you learn how to navigate new experiences. I ❣️ yall. Thank you. 💯🙏🏽
Hi guys you are adorable 🥰 thank God for what you bring to the black community ❤👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾keep doing what you do👍🏾
Man…..I love you both in how you show up as yourselves, which is a gift in itself….and I’m so grateful for you sharing this particular topic, for we (my husband and I) are going thru a season of loss as we speak….I saw this when u posted it, and pinned it, b/c i had just lost a sibling…little did i know, i was also gonna lose a cousin i helped raise right after…so THIS Thanksgiving, I will be EVEN more grateful for the ppl HE adds to our lives, but it will definitely be a hard one…the IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH part has been showing up all in our marriage…but THANK YOU for sharing things that i never considered….it gives me a wonderful perspective and keeps me from feeling neglect or even anger with my spouse or anyone else for that matter❤….b/c we all grieve differently….and that includes family as well. So, i definitely LOVE the talks with you both, b/c I’m learning, you can find your mentors/help/wisdom “in the streets” per Proverbs. ❤️🙏🏽 God Bless you and your Covenant, especially as you continue to be a blessing to ours. ******sorry for the long post…definitely from the heart******
"and God's grace! Say that Chance! Tab, Keep doing what you do! We watch you on rerun daily (Tab Time) Blessings and more Blessings!
Omg yasssss Tab im a Daddy’s girl too TELL’EM!!! 😂😂😂🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
The tears that are rolling down my face. This was beautiful ❤ keep them coming
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Tab and Chance……….my mom died of ALS and I can definitely relate to the feelings you talked about Tab of dealing with health issues and feeling like it was my mom’s illness all over again, except it was me. Turns out it was something else, but there’s so many emotions we go through losing the ones we care so much about. We thought we were comforting my mom but it was her who was comforting us. I thank y’all for having the tough conversations. It really helps not only me, but I’m sure many others too.❤️
Oh lawd tab and chance!!! I had no idea i’d get so emotional 😭😭 thank you so much for sharing and loving each other. May God continue to bless your family and all that you do💕
This is what intimacy looks like! This is what a marriage should be about! Have those hard conversations!
This was a great conversation. Beautiful!
Oh I’m grateful for this conversation- I lost 4 close family members in 1 year my dad, uncle and both grandmothers.. my grief is still a process, and understanding how people reacted to it,is part of the process too. I feel my family around me and that brings me much comfort
Thank you Tab and Chance for your example of Godly love. I truly appreciate your family, and using the favor God has on your life to help others
This REALLLLLLLLLY hit home for me. I recently lost my mother-in-law and my husband is the ONLY child!!!!! I am use to death but this is a different hurt 😔. I hide my grief to be available for him.
I did the same thing when my MIL passed. I was really distraught about it because her and I got along so well and she was a confidant to me and super grandma to our kids…she was just a sweet Godly woman I felt like it was unfair because she died fairly young. But I felt like I had to be strong for my husband and didn’t want to really fall apart about it….
From someone who had a mother but wasn’t really “mothered” I THANK GOD for you!
God bless you and Chance and your family.
You have changed my life.
As someone who lost a parent, I can attest to how hard it is to move through that grief while being married and raising children! Very good conversation about an incredibly sensitive topic! Love y’all! ❤
Lord I pray for this type of covering in a marriage from my future husband. I love this representation of a marriage. Thank you Tab & Chance.
Lost my mom two weeks ago after a two year battle with cancer. My grief did start with her diagnosis. Thank you for showing me I'm not the only who felt that too.
Honestly Chance is so adorable bcuz u can see his struggle between being masculine but letting Tab (& life experiences) open him up. Even after all these years.
Just too precious.
Another fantastic and needed conversation. Tab and Chance keep up the great work and healing.👏👏👏👏😊
Thankful for life, family, love and Tab and Chance sharing their journey with us. Continued blessings!
Thank you for sharing and be transparent at all times!!!
Tough conversations. Y’all got me crying 😭
Such a beautiful and important conversation. I grieved my grandfather during his sickness and it’s an important conversation that doesn’t happen enough. When we watch our loved ones die, we grieve who they were while they shift through transition. It’s so hard to put into words. I did write an article called “Pre-Death Grief” as a healing part of the process.
Im so happy and grateful that the both of you stayed together and have grown from the process. You are truly blessing others by sharing your stories. Thank you 🙏🏽 I haven’t met y’all, but I love you both and pray continued success in your life and marriage. God Bless 🙏🏽
I do the intro song with y’all including the robot move! 😂💃🏻⭐️🥰
🙋🏽♀️ me too! Lol😂
Chance and Tab your show tonight was about me in a shell. I’ve experienced death from early age and now with both parents deceased after caring for them during their sickness my husband was there and now I’m caring for him on his sick bed. I’ve learned a lot and continue to learn. This is a topic that we all need to discuss within our families! Thank you for dhsting!🙏🏾❤️
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You both should have an hour long pod cast just talking about life experiences. I always get excited to see a new “Fridays with Tab and Chance.” I click on immediately but it goes by so fast and I’m left wanting more. 😊
Powerful message powerful strong couple thank you always for sharing such beautiful beneficial knowledge true King and Queen 🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️❤️💪🏾
Thank you for sharing this with us! I’ve been through some tuff Deaths myself. One was my Daddy just after Christmas of 1991, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to face.. I was married in my mid twenty’s and still it was hard. Then next one was my GrandMaw she was very precious to me! We were very close and just like chance my husband was very close with my Daddy and my GrandMaw. All he knew to do was be their and also we had our children to take care of and he done just that as well. He was taking all this in and not only be their for me but our children had just lost their Pop and their Great GrandMaw we all are a close family.
Years go by and my husband Dad gets sick bedridden for few months and he looked at me and said please take care of me. I said Bill I’ll take care of you until God says know more,and I done just that took care of him at his worst for 13 days straight and I wouldn’t have changed one thing because that’s the way He wanted it too be and that’s how It was until God came and took him home and Heaven is exactly where he wanted to be .. Then years later the second wave came and his Mom got sick and I was their for my husband and she’s with her husband now and Jesus.. It was ruff but it taught us that know matter what be there and help where you can and see your spouse when they are facing hard things and let them know that your there to face it with them...
Tabitha and Chance thank the this with us...
It is truly a blessing to see this type of love!
My husband and family supported me through breast cancer 22 years ago,, and he has had his illnesses as well.
His mom passed away in 2019, and he took really good care of her before she passed.
Even though she was sick, it was still a shock for us.
She was planning on having therapy the following week.
He helped her and loved her in spite of her not being in his life from the age of 4 to about the age of 21.
Praise God for strength and forgiveness.
Dealing now with my daughter's illness. Very hard but expectng and trusting God to get us all through. Wish my husband could understand my pain. (She's his step-dgt). Thank yall so much for this video. May God continue to bless.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours! Thanks a lot for this moment. Love y’all
💜💜💜 Thankful for yall's journey and ability to reach so many people. Love 💜
Love….true love is so beautiful! It’s an absolute blessing to those who find it.
Didn't know I was gonna cry. This was right on time for so many reasons. Thank you guys 🙏🌟💖
Thank you for sharing this! So many people need to hear this. ❤
Chance and Tab, I love watching you both. Y’all are an inspiration to me for sure with truth and laughter is just amazing. When I feel down, Tab inspirational quotes and your words that God, gives you for us. I appreciate it and you. ❤️🌹❤️🌹💙💙
Awesome live, thank you for being a true example of love and transparency. We love Y'all. Have a wonderful holiday season.
I love you both so much! Thank you!! Happy Holidays everyone
Fridays with Tab and Chance makes me look forward to Fridays. You guys choose the best day to do this, after a long week you provide so much hope and fill my heart with more grace and remind me that I am extremely blessed. Thanks guys!!!!
You two are truly Heaven Sent and I'm so Thankful and Grateful you shared this. No one likes having these conversations and I know that wasn't easy my husband and I dealt with losses on both sides and dropped everything and were there for each other. We also have a young son with a chronic illness that can be very challenging but we get through it. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH IN LIFE ON YOUR JOURNEYS AHEAD AND CONTINUING TO LOVE EACH OTHER UNCONDITIONALLY ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so awesome to watch! Many blessings to you and yours.💕
Thank you I need this🥰 never easy talking about death or sickness of a friend, loved one or family. Thank you for sharing your hearts.
Thank you for sharing your life experiences with us. Your authenticity and transparency is such a blessing! I saw Tab getting emotional as Chance talked about her mom and I could feel her emotion. Chance reacted right away and it was AWESOME to see. You two are God sent❣️
What I like MOST about these 2 beautiful souls is that they have appreciation for each other. Many of us don’t get to this point until after we’ve lost our partner, and it’s only a regret. They know what they have while they’re in their relationship and nurture it. ✨
Thank you, Tab and Chance for sharing your hurt and your healing. Your transparency here is truly a blessing. Thank you both.
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Although, it’s not easy, I’m blessed to be caretaker for my aged parents. I call them my 90 YEAR OLD TODDLERS! 😂🥰🥹
I love it 😂
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I totally understand my mom 89.
Senior babies....🙂
Thank You, Lord. The beauty of it all for me personally starts @ 9:43. This brought me to tears and really touched my heart in a very special way to hear a man, a husband, speak this way about his mother-in-law. God bless you both for being so transparent and authentic! On another note, I love that sweatshirt, Sister Tabitha! That too is a powerful testimony, and God's amazing grace (19:20). Love you guys! I'm thankful for you both. Amen.
I watch these often with my husband who hasn’t had the same opportunity to learn these things and it raises some great conversations. Thank you.
Thank you for this much needed conversation. I Love how real you both are & that you don't mind sharing. Keep Inspiring Tab & Chance!!❤️👏🏾
Your relationship is such a beatify to behold. Thank you for sharing your ups and downs with us as well as how to maneuver through the challenges of life. I’m more eager to continue to wait for this type of love. Blessings to you!
This was heavy 😅😢. I learned valuable lessons in my journey with my husband after my stepdaughter was killed by a drunk driver. I thank God for His wisdom and His constant reminders that He was watching over me. We are still on the road to recovery, it’s only been 2yrs, but I know God will surpass all of our understanding. Ty guys for ur vulnerability❤️
Y’all are amazing keep being authentic and inspiring. Much love and blessings! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. Grief can be a beast. My mom took ill and was hospitalized three weeks after my husband and I split, three months after that she was gone. It was just me and my two young children 2 and 4. I'm the oldest so I took my mother into my home where some fond memories were created for my girls, helping me by taking her water or whatever. That was 16 years ago and as I approach the age she was when she passed, I think of my own mortality. It's a process.
Thank you for having this HARD conversation!!! It was rough to think about, but it was so helpful. We NEED an entire class on this topic. I feel like a lot of couples, included my husband and I, do not do well in supporting our spouses in times of when our parents are sick or when each other is sick. It is hard to learn how to give what is needed in these times. We usually give what we need or know based on our experiences instead of thinking about how do i supply what my spouse needs in these times.
Omg, your message is so timely as my mom passed away a week ago. Sometimes it just feels like it’s not so. We shared a lot together. She was one of those individuals that you thought would live forever. Oh, how I miss her. I thank you for opening up this talk … sharing your personal/genuine lives with this family of life. It’s real and we need to share more of it. Keep doing what you’re doing and God bless ❤
So well said, and so needed. Thank you both for sharing your heart ❤️❤️
Tab/Chance, after the loss of my son, he was murdered, a innocent by stander. After hearing you guys talk about grief, has enabled me to release some of the hurt and pain associated with his death. I didn't know how to grieve for my son. Then I was diagnosed with cancer. Thought I was going to die. Seeing you guys and hearing your story has given me hope. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.
Ohmygoodness!! You bless us with sharing your life lessons and being an example of a healthy loving relationship!! Thank you!!❤️
~As always this episode was so inspiring. God Bless Tab, Chance & their family! ❤❤
Tab & Chance, these episodes would be AMAZING as podcasts too 🤩
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My God this was amazing. I’m sending this video to my husband. Thank you for being open and comfortable enough to share your story. ❤
Definitely going thru this right now..lost my mama last year and it has been a struggle 4 me daily..but my husband's support and the Lord have been getting me thru..thank yall 4 this...luv yall 💜
Thank you both for your transparency, vulnerability, and testimonies! Sometimes it’s can be heavy when the Lord is using you but y’all blessed a lot of us with this message today! Love you guys! All Glory to God!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽😇
This was a heavy one but a needed one as well. Had me over her crying thinking about all my family members who passed away in a 2 year span it is still hard some days,but I’m so thankful for who is still here! ♥️
This was a great share. Love your affection and love for one another. And the discussion about that part of the vows. I heard yesterday that some marriages break up bc of the loss of a loved one. Thanks for also sharing the power of Grace. 💜
This was so therapeutic for me. Thank you Auntee Tab and Chance healing to my soul indeed!! Happy Thanksgiving and blessings to you and your family also. 🦃🍁🍂
Real, Raw and Relevant. Thank you both for sharing your testimonies and being so transparent. Continue to walk BY FAITH not by sight!🙏💜😘