Egg Donor Meets Twin Children - Q&A/Interview

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  • @karenkramer3760
    @karenkramer3760 Před 5 lety +892

    No wonder the girls are so beautiful! Look at the three of you! Those girls will always love you Julie. What a great family you all are

  • @josey1917
    @josey1917 Před 5 lety +835

    The great thing about this whole thing is that when the girls get older and have questions about their ancestry or medical questions on their maternal side they won't have any issues getting that information. They are being raised closely with Julie, so there shouldn't be any awkwardness latter on when they need to ask "female" questions, also.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 4 lety +6

      I'm sure they have other female relatives! Aunts and grandmothers and older cousins.

    • @idrhj
      @idrhj Před 4 lety +12

      Lisa Lotek look in the mirror.

    • @rebeccat6825
      @rebeccat6825 Před 4 lety +1

      Lisa Lotek what do u mean?

    • @MsChitterchat
      @MsChitterchat Před 2 lety +1

      Nothing can replace a mother. We need to be honest about this.

    • @peachygal4153
      @peachygal4153 Před 4 měsíci

      @@junbh2 That is not what Josey meant. For example, does breast cancer run in Julie's family, Kidney cancer, heart disease, diabetes, dementia etc. Also, more simple things too like when Julie had her first period. Now that the girls are over 6 that will be a question in a couple of years. These are things only Julie can answer for them.

  • @bettymadden3615
    @bettymadden3615 Před 5 lety +362

    Sounds like Julie was the best choices and a wonderful choice from what I can see.

  • @phantasma616
    @phantasma616 Před 5 lety +533

    this was so nice to see. my boyfriend was a sperm donor before we met, and he struggled with the fact he felt no attachment or strong emotions about the child at birth. He's fond of her as his friends' baby, but he has no fatherly feelings about her. this makes it feel "okay", and not abnormal. He also decided to never do it again (despite being asked by 3 separate ladies afterward!) SO you're not alone in that you enjoy them, but you don't feel like being a parent or have interest in parenting at all!

    • @naylonposet2936
      @naylonposet2936 Před 5 lety +9

      @phantasma616 can you PLEASE explain all the reasons why he never wants to do it again? Details are important!

    • @stephanieschmaljohann226
      @stephanieschmaljohann226 Před 5 lety +6

      phantasma616 - BEST scenario all around. I feel this is the best for everyone.

    • @phantasma616
      @phantasma616 Před 5 lety +1

      so I can give a few of the reasons I know of, although I'm sure he has deeper rooted reasons.
      Firstly, it took about 8 months of trying, and this was emotionally and physically trying for everyone involved. There is kind of an unwritten code for sperm donors that you don't give up until the couple/mother gives up, it can be devastating to them to back out.
      Secondly, there are legal issues
      that can make a well meaning sperm donor end up paying child support down the
      line, since he wasn't anonymous the state could recognize him as the father if the couple ever sought welfare.
      (there was a well publicized case in Kansas the same year the baby was born- 2014 ).
      Third, the child ended up
      with a few health issues, and has severe allergies. I cannot remember the name, but she has a
      blood disorder that he and the bio mother must've both been carriers for. To my knowledge its not very serious, but it
      will need to be monitored as she grows. When it came out it was genetic from both of them, the couple decided against him for a second child.
      Fourth, he simply didn't feel he could make a child in the other
      situations. Basically when other lesbians found out a man they knew/their friends knew had been a sperm donor, many saw it as a chance to get a baby quickly and for free, since he'd done it for the original couple. You'd be surprised to know the other women he only barely knew, but they all jumped to him because "you did it for ____" However, going back to point 2, he wasn't comfortable with doing something so personal for acquaintances. Some of them weren't in stable homes, or didn't have income, etc, and he didn't want to feel responsible for putting a child into a situation he couldn't 100% trust. Similar to how Julie said she didn't have any concerns about their parenting and raising the girls, he couldn't say that about them.
      That last thing I can say is that overall it's a confusing emotional journey for him as she grows. Since he isn't close to the parents anymore, its an awkward relationship. My opinion is that if you're going to be a donor its either to parents you're veryyy close to (like how Julie was their best friend and the surrogate was their sister-in-law) or that y ou have no attachments to (like anonymous) I feel in both of these cases, you'd have a defined role in the child's life (aunt/uncle, or stranger). My boyfriend is more in-between, his contract says he has no obligations to do anything, which he preferred, and he has no real relationship with her (ie. child doesn't really know him) yet the parents sent him fathers day cards, and have the child give him Christmas gifts. He did have a conversation saying he did not want to be portrayed as her father, didn't want her to call him Dad/Daddy, and didn't seek that relationship, which per the contract, they knew when they asked him.
      But as I said, I know this is an odd emotional thing for him, someone who didn't want to be a father, but wanted to help his friends fulfill their dream of motherhood. It's hard to imagine the future of a human's life when they haven't even been conceived yet! If the child ends up pursuing a relationship down the road, he's open to that.
      TL;DR So this is very long, and it might read oddly, but at the end of the day, he's the biological father of a little girl who loves her 2 mommies, her grandparents, her aunts/uncles, has a little sister (from another donor) and two cats and does sports. She is a happy child with a happy life, and doesn't *need* him. He will be open to a relationship with her if she wants one herself when shes old enough to understand (shes 4 now). She doesn't even really know what a dad is, has never had one, has never asked for one. She is happy with her mommies who have been there for her since day one. Those are who she loves. The other women by the way, each found a donor within 2 years of asking him. Whether or not they're in good living situations, I do not know. I don't know the women.
      If someone were pursuing either using or being a sperm donor, I'd just recommend really sitting down and understanding what the other party wants. If you'd want to be an involved 'father figure' make sure they're okay with that (some people don't want a 'third parent' involved). If you'd want no real contact beyond medical conversations or when the child pursues it, make sure they know and accept that (not finding out youre called 'daddy' and getting a fathers day card, and not disappointing the other parents when you really aren't interested in the child, which can be a blow when they might've been hoping you'd be involved). At the end of the day, he gave them the gift of being mothers, parents, and they are their own family unit. He sees them a few times a year.

    • @phantasma616
      @phantasma616 Před 5 lety +17

      Alexis Rose yes, they were friends and now sort of drifted apart due to moving and such. I'm not sure why that's funny?

    • @kitteekittee4010
      @kitteekittee4010 Před 5 lety +4

      @@phantasma616 alexis sky is extremely immature

  • @itsmecathyw2503
    @itsmecathyw2503 Před 5 lety +1308

    They are beautiful but this would be to hard for me

    • @Melanierios_088
      @Melanierios_088 Před 5 lety +122

      Cathy W I agree! I have a STRONG motherly instinct,,, I couldn’t

    • @greenpeas154
      @greenpeas154 Před 5 lety +53

      Egg donation is like adoption for me. I could never do it. Sorry.

    • @jenniferd.6401
      @jenniferd.6401 Před 5 lety +31

      @@greenpeas154 good thing you never have to then!

    • @greenpeas154
      @greenpeas154 Před 5 lety +6

      @@jenniferd.6401 Of course, noone can force me to donate my eggs!

    • @stephanieschmaljohann226
      @stephanieschmaljohann226 Před 5 lety +60

      Cathy W - I think it was probably not as difficult for her because she doesn’t want to be a parent. And didn’t carry or give birth to them.

  • @myndigarcia1659
    @myndigarcia1659 Před 5 lety +67

    “Favorite part about being an egg donor” *holds baby up* THIS -I’m dying

  • @alanawarren8988
    @alanawarren8988 Před 5 lety +330

    They both beautiful like their biological mother

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 Před 5 lety +36

    “Being able to give them back to their fathers” that’s such a mood!!😂💕

  • @micaiahhendrickes471
    @micaiahhendrickes471 Před 5 lety +18

    You are such a badass! Being an egg donor is no easy feat. It’s not just “here have my eggs!” It’s medicines, shots, monitoring. It’s hard work. You are amazing. Beautiful babies 🥰

    • @michellecollins290
      @michellecollins290 Před 5 lety +1

      True everything is so much complicated for us females lol 😂

  • @MiraJOrtiz5176
    @MiraJOrtiz5176 Před 5 lety +47

    Truly awesome Julie for your incredible generosity and good heart to be part of these gorgeous babies and amazing daddies 😍🤩 3

  • @simplysassycreations1236
    @simplysassycreations1236 Před 5 lety +102

    Julie there are not words to express how much I love what you did for your friends. You ALL make a wonderful family-I love getting to watch the girls grow and love seeing how you all 5 interact. You are truly an amazing friend! Thank you for videos and allowing us all to have a sneak peek into your world!! much love to you all

  • @emichrs
    @emichrs Před 5 lety +30

    This was fascinating. I could never do this personally, but it's almost an interesting reminder that everyone is just so different (and that's a good thing!). Those girls are so so cute and I'm really happy Erik and Adam were able to have a family together.

  • @melissareid640
    @melissareid640 Před 4 lety +4

    His tone reading the questions.. 😂😀 lol, these guys are silly and loving what a beautiful family and household for these girls what wonderful dads!

  • @MONKEYDRUMMER2000
    @MONKEYDRUMMER2000 Před 5 lety +14

    Love This! On behalf of a mom who couldn't have a bio baby (and who always wanted to adopt as a 1st choice anyway) thank you for your selflessness. For those of us who want nothing more in this world to be parents this means everything

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 Před rokem

      Mercadeo de seres humanos. Juego que la naturaleza no permite. Tiene consecuencias, no somos Dios.

  • @curlaque
    @curlaque Před 5 lety +14

    You three are such nice people! How wonderful that Julie loved you guys enough to go thru all she did! This is a beautiful story and so amazing that you share it with all of us!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mirandahallielinkm1098
    @mirandahallielinkm1098 Před 5 lety +212

    Addison and Everest looks like you. 😊

  • @stephanieschmaljohann226
    @stephanieschmaljohann226 Před 5 lety +1

    You are one of the most selfless people I’ve ever heard/seen. You couldn’t have donated your eggs to a better couple. These girls are gorgeous. The world needs more people like you.

  • @to-nem-ai
    @to-nem-ai Před 5 lety +383

    I'm an egg donor. My mom was so mad at me when she found out, she felt like I was giving her grandkids away :/ her problem tho, not mine.

    • @makennaharris2965
      @makennaharris2965 Před 5 lety +24

      I mean she might want grandkids it's not really her problem.

    • @jadecollins7693
      @jadecollins7693 Před 5 lety +144

      @@makennaharris2965 it's not anyone's job to provide grandkids for their parents

    • @georgiannmaloney6594
      @georgiannmaloney6594 Před 5 lety +21

      @@jadecollins7693 true. We parents do hope to get grandkids, though. We can be grandparents by working with children at the local school. Helping our future leaders. Yay

    • @jamieclark6173
      @jamieclark6173 Před 5 lety +20

      Makenna Harris you can still have children after donating eggs...

    • @mero2627
      @mero2627 Před 5 lety +7

      @Lisa Lotek you can have kids again afterwards

  • @victoriar8284
    @victoriar8284 Před 5 lety +155

    i loved adams narration lmao

  • @sarahc444
    @sarahc444 Před 5 lety +33

    🥰This video was so cute!!!! Thanks Julie for answering questions.

  • @Julessou
    @Julessou Před 5 lety +3

    I regularly donate blood, I am registered to be an organ donor, I also have plans to be a surrogate in the future, but for some reason the one thing I can’t seem to convince myself to do is donate my eggs. I’m not exactly sure why but it’s something I don’t think I’ll ever have the courage to do so I really do admire you for being able to do that for a well deserving, beautiful couple ❤️ Such a selfless and amazing act of love and kindness ❤️

  • @BeautifulWreck2
    @BeautifulWreck2 Před 5 lety +241

    I watch the McHusbands religiously. I am also an adoptive mom.
    Don’t be shocked when these girls are older that they don’t see you as aunt but as their mother. Not that there is anything wrong with that. But I would like to know if the girls when they become teens and young people if they do recognize you as a mom, how would all three of you feel if they wanted to call you that especially since you are involved in their lives?
    And I say this become I have parents a child to adult hood that is adopted and our adoption is open and I have been in the infertility/adoption community a long time.

    • @annagitana1
      @annagitana1 Před 5 lety +58

      I disagree. They don't have a parent-child relationship with her so they will never view her as their mom. They know her well but in a different role.

    • @XxgabriellabxX
      @XxgabriellabxX Před 5 lety +103

      annagitana1 that’s just not how it works though, she IS their biological mother even if she is not in the “mom” role, and people often do view their biological mother/father as their parents. It’s totally possible to appreciate your adoptive parents while still placing importance on your biological parent(s). The relationship they have doesn’t matter. There are many people who see their sperm donors who they’ve never met as their real father ! The good thing is that this woman seems to be involved in their lives and the twins won’t grow up wondering where they came from!

    • @littlelambinparadise
      @littlelambinparadise Před 5 lety +23

      @@XxgabriellabxX I'm studying this in Uni and this is not always the case either. It really depends on all the people involved. Sometimes it will be a parent-child relationship but in many instances, it isn't and the children have no bond with their donor. Children view the people who care for them as mother/father or both and it has little to do with genetics. And btw I've taken 3 psychology classes, a family class and other childhood classes cause I'm in Child Studies and I'm also in classes with people that have worked with donors.

    • @kristingallo2158
      @kristingallo2158 Před 5 lety +6

      @@littlelambinparadise do you have children?

    • @phantasma616
      @phantasma616 Před 5 lety +11

      so true, its really about who was there and raised them, who cuddled and loved them. I feel if anything the relationship would just be a "cool aunt" or something. the motherly bond just won't exist.

  • @kmb3100
    @kmb3100 Před 5 lety +47

    And… here is the female version of Adam. Lol! Great vid.

  • @jacquelenedeleon6126
    @jacquelenedeleon6126 Před 5 lety +1

    This is amazing she felt strong enough to do this. Absolute respect. She blessed these men

  • @patriciagenovese4966
    @patriciagenovese4966 Před 5 lety +8

    So cute. The girls clearly love their Aunt Julie. So glad that you did this for Erik & Adam. You helped create two beautiful angels for the world.💕

  • @Nolanoyayo
    @Nolanoyayo Před 4 lety +5

    They will gravitate towards you when older.

  • @maryalice8866
    @maryalice8866 Před 5 lety

    Julie you are loving kindness overflowing, this made me cry, because I'm a mom of five grown children,nthe youngest an angel now. What a precious gift you gave Adam and Eric, and what a beautiful family you all are!

  • @samanthap.879
    @samanthap.879 Před 4 lety +2

    You’re an angel to these men and to these beautiful babies. You’re selfless and amazing ❤️

  • @Manda8789
    @Manda8789 Před 4 lety +3

    They were like “Thank you we know that we are cute” when you said that they were the cutest babies in the world lol

  • @jrbland18
    @jrbland18 Před 5 lety +27

    Julie I think you did a Wonderful thing for these guys. Eric and Adam are Great Fathers. I think it's Great that you guys stay in touch.
    Oh I like the New Hair Cut. It looks good on you.

  • @bluedoggobook9399
    @bluedoggobook9399 Před 5 lety +8

    Seems so clinical and serious. Just want to say you’re so awesome!. They are so cute :). Mel

  • @MegaCaprice123
    @MegaCaprice123 Před 5 lety +3

    Addisen seems to really like Julie, though Everest is just as keen to sit with Julie. I also think that underneath Julie’s tough exterior, she really is very maternal. Julie is an amazing friend to Erik and Adam and just wants them all to be happy. Erik gave Julie a lovely hairstyle, which emphasises her good looks. I hope that Julie will, one day, have her own family; she is a lovely young lady.xxxxx

  • @rebeccaward6392
    @rebeccaward6392 Před 5 lety +17

    “Her DNA from Adam” I always thought Addison was Adams child so I guess it’s been confirmed

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 5 lety +14

      Just speculation, they haven’t done a DNA test yet. I just said that cause it seems pretty obvious in my eyes

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 3 lety

      @A A For health reasons they're going to to get DNA tests at some point I believe. It's important for them each to know their hereditary health history.

  • @TheMoolimoo
    @TheMoolimoo Před 4 lety +5

    It’s so strange, she’s a mom, yet she...isn’t? I don’t really know how to put it but I’m happy for how everything worked out for them all 🤍

  • @vinithivini4074
    @vinithivini4074 Před 5 lety +3

    She is not the mother... She is the donor who gave the chance the couple to be parents... These girls have wonderful parents and she is a aunt who donated her eggs...

  • @MarkishaJordan
    @MarkishaJordan Před 5 lety +17

    Addisen looks just like Julie!!

  • @nathalielopez9772
    @nathalielopez9772 Před 5 lety +6

    Love your hair cut, what you did is great! You are the best auntie ever.

  • @Blade51
    @Blade51 Před 5 lety +18

    Best announcer voice XD LOL Also Julie you are amazing I'm so glad to have you as part of the McHusbands Family!

  • @sharshey6035
    @sharshey6035 Před 5 lety +6

    erik and Adam could both voice an audiobook

  • @julieannjensenwhitesell1106

    Julie, You gave 2 great guys the chance to be Daddy’s! Your a Rock 🌟!

  • @lillylune2290
    @lillylune2290 Před 5 lety +11

    This is so cool! I’m thinking about donating to couples who are in need. I don’t really want kids of my own but I think it would be really cool to do for couples that do.

  • @mackenzieb2218
    @mackenzieb2218 Před 5 lety +3

    absolutely love you. the relationship you have with the mchusbands is so damn sweet. just think of it, you would have been an aunt either way if u were egg donor or not haha.

  • @marjanf56
    @marjanf56 Před 5 lety +21

    hey julie such a gift you gave these 2 beautiful daddies..they have your coloring!!

  • @myaholmes4286
    @myaholmes4286 Před 4 lety +3

    I could never be able to do that, I would have to much of an emotional attachment to them! But good for you for giving a family a reason to smile

  • @brendad940
    @brendad940 Před 5 lety +9

    Thanks for the update! Are you prepared for the girls possibly wanting much more of a relationship with you as they get older and hit puberty?

  • @jrbland18
    @jrbland18 Před 5 lety +15

    I've Always followed your story and the Mchusbands story. I love you all. 3

  • @Bonofox1
    @Bonofox1 Před 5 lety +36

    🌟Julie you look SO CUTE with your hair short..So Happy you got to visit your besties and your precious nieces!! Love your honest answers to the questions...Hope to see LOTS more of you with the girls!!😍👍

  • @natm8368
    @natm8368 Před 5 lety +5

    I didn't want kids, then I had one, a little girl and even when labour was hell I would do it again a thousand times

  • @azrinaazri5305
    @azrinaazri5305 Před 4 lety +7

    I can see the twin's resemblance with you 😁

  • @jamieanderson3862
    @jamieanderson3862 Před 5 lety +4

    You three have a beautiful relationship. You are an angel for giving these two amazing daddies their baby girls.

  • @floor6569
    @floor6569 Před 5 lety +11

    Omg I thought the title said 'Q&A/review'

  • @mindyb3197
    @mindyb3197 Před 5 lety +11

    I could never be an egg donor 😔☹ it would break my heart to see the babies. I'm already a mom so maybe that plays a lot in with it. That's wonderful that you did though. You made a family happy, that's amazing!

  • @thoibaby8172
    @thoibaby8172 Před 4 lety +2

    Your babies are so beautiful

  • @Yeimarisquad
    @Yeimarisquad Před 5 lety +1

    Omg this is soo cool!!!I'm so intrigued. I'm happy that you get to be in their life so if they have questions later on they can ask you.

  • @mitchellkennedy7733
    @mitchellkennedy7733 Před 5 lety

    I love this video and the situation so much. As a private donor agreement sperm donor, I'm totally on the same page. I've personally chosen the couples I've donated to and it makes me so happy to see the love my recipients have for their children. Open, honest and responsible gamete donation like this, is so beautiful.

  • @BellaBoosLunches
    @BellaBoosLunches Před 5 lety +2

    Loved this! 💕

  • @Iamrightandyouarewrong51

    Awww I so loved this story! What a great idea to do this video not only for everyone involved but as education for the public. I had wondered some questions that were asked. Best wishes for your beautiful family. 🥰

  • @ivyedan7183
    @ivyedan7183 Před 4 lety +4

    The sole story of their lives and how they came from love, I think you should be honered...

  • @TheSnowReport28
    @TheSnowReport28 Před 5 lety +1

    The best aunt Julie ever!

  • @user-fu5cd8bp1v
    @user-fu5cd8bp1v Před 5 lety +1

    "do you ever feel like a plastic bag?" lol i needed an answer

  • @hanafri8
    @hanafri8 Před 3 lety

    You are so beautiful! The parents can be si grateful to have had you as their donor.

  • @dianarug4662
    @dianarug4662 Před 5 lety +6

    They are so adorable

  • @charry2142
    @charry2142 Před 5 lety +5

    So both babies are hers biologically and one is biologically from one dad and the other from the other dad?

  • @Bcdf-ei9el
    @Bcdf-ei9el Před 5 lety +12

    You are an amazing human being!

  • @yazmenfoster8338
    @yazmenfoster8338 Před 5 lety +6

    This would be way to hard for me I wouldn’t be able to see them and not want to take them home

  • @queensigal
    @queensigal Před 4 lety +5

    These are your biological daughters..so you feel a bond?
    You all look similar.dark eyes and hair.
    Gorgeous !

  • @maryannrodriguez5401
    @maryannrodriguez5401 Před 5 lety +10

    God bless you Julie.

  • @PoppyJone
    @PoppyJone Před 5 lety +52

    She has no,feelings for them because she didn't carry them. If she carried them, went through the physical and emotional changes, she would probably have changed her mind about having her own kids one day

    • @cozythembo
      @cozythembo Před 5 lety +16

      Not all women want kids, can we just accept that???

  • @brendahart7221
    @brendahart7221 Před 5 lety +9

    Julie you are BEAUTIFUL inside and out!! You're part of an amazing McFamily!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Looking forward to more videos in 2019!!...3!!😊💟🐞

  • @lesleystong4151
    @lesleystong4151 Před 5 lety

    A tad late in commenting but omg Julie what you did for Eric and Adam was soooooo wonderful you gave them the most precious gift ever. Three

  • @theuberman7170
    @theuberman7170 Před 5 lety +2

    This is gonna sound weird but if I had a kid I would choose a donor like you. You seem to be a good hearted person.

  • @justylex
    @justylex Před 5 lety

    What a great friend you are. You gave those men the most amazing gift♥️.

  • @ivyedan7183
    @ivyedan7183 Před 5 lety

    You are all so awesome and I'm so happy for you all.. what a beautiful gift you gave these great men..thank you Julia

    • @ivyedan7183
      @ivyedan7183 Před 5 lety

      Sorry honey I meant thank you julie

  • @sevenbeauty6502
    @sevenbeauty6502 Před 5 lety +4

    Beautiful I just love this family God bless

  • @tosanroro-oghoshe2102
    @tosanroro-oghoshe2102 Před 4 lety

    You are such a wonderful friend Julie, lots of love.

  • @DoubleDaysFamily
    @DoubleDaysFamily Před 5 lety +2

    What an incredible story! You are an Amazing and a true blessing of a friend to them Wow just Wow!!! ❤️

  • @paranormalinvestgations
    @paranormalinvestgations Před 5 lety +7

    You all are so wonderful #3

  • @patricadyson778
    @patricadyson778 Před 4 lety +4

    They look just like her.

  • @ennakavi2129
    @ennakavi2129 Před 4 lety +2

    Donate one more time and freeze half of your eggs. Later you can have them on your own or get a surrgogate.

  • @berthahernandez6836
    @berthahernandez6836 Před 5 lety +21

    Again , keeping it All real and Family close together goes for a solid Foundation. Julie look so wonderful with baby girls! 🌸🌼🌺their so C.U.T.E. Children urs to embrace. Smile. Somebunny in Texas love you!

  • @cathymatthews968
    @cathymatthews968 Před 5 lety

    You did such a wonderful selfless thing for Adam and Eric. You are a wonderful person and the girls will always love their Aunt Julie. ❤️💜💙💚💘💞💖💗

  • @justathoughtmyfriend1403
    @justathoughtmyfriend1403 Před 5 lety +13

    On behalf of the McHusband/Julie fan coalition, No! She still doesn't want kids, and there's nothing wrong with that. Her worth is more than just a mother title. Heck, what she's done transcends beyond that. Internal bleeding? Super auntie right there. ❤️❤️❤️Three!

  • @daniellemartinez8810
    @daniellemartinez8810 Před 5 lety

    Although it’s your choice whether or not you want kids I think you would be an amazing mother! Kudos to you for helping a loving couple have these two beautiful gifts

  • @hayleydumollard5057
    @hayleydumollard5057 Před 5 lety +1

    They are so beautiful!! Cuties!!❤️😩

  • @steelKIM11696
    @steelKIM11696 Před 5 lety +3

    i really like julie she's a great friend...

  • @JonjonTV
    @JonjonTV Před 5 lety +1

    THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO EVER ! #BigFAN

  • @rubyblue44
    @rubyblue44 Před 5 lety

    Awww!! I remember the video of when the girls were born!! This is so sweet!!

  • @annmatthews3579
    @annmatthews3579 Před 5 lety

    Julie you will always be a special auntie to the girls. Great video 💐💗💗💗THREE

  • @doreme2100
    @doreme2100 Před 5 lety +3

    Those kids are beautiful.

  • @ambermommasr1370
    @ambermommasr1370 Před 5 lety +14

    What do your parents feel about it? My grandma especially would feel as if they were my children.

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 5 lety +35

      Amber Nicole Massey Hi! So my mom initially had a hard time with it, she doesn’t have grand kids of her own yet so the idea of it was tough. But as soon as she saw them for the first time and how perfect Erik and Adam are as parents, she couldn’t be happier and more supportive. 💕

    • @jennifer5702
      @jennifer5702 Před 5 lety +11

      Julie she can still be their "grandma" even tho the girls are Adam and Erick's girls... My kiddos have alot of grandparents

    • @michellecollins290
      @michellecollins290 Před 5 lety +2

      Jennifer that's a lovely idea, she would love, I suspect, to be a grandma to the twins. My step granddaughter has 4 sets of grandparents to love her dearly.

  • @sophiawohl
    @sophiawohl Před 4 lety +2

    Their hair grew in so cute 😭

  • @catsbig200
    @catsbig200 Před 5 lety +6

    Your an amazing lady
    I would do what u
    Did to give a couple baby or babies is amazing thing to do ,and to help Erik and Adam with them having 2 beautiful baby girls was awesome what u did!!!!
    If u we're here I would give u a hug.
    Btw your hair looks great.

  • @rod8849
    @rod8849 Před 3 lety

    when the babies cried she laughed in a way of not looking annoyed because that the way i feel when i hear kids cry

  • @loribrocato145
    @loribrocato145 Před 4 lety

    Love you all. What an amazing friendship.

  • @hannajean8204
    @hannajean8204 Před 5 lety +35

    aww this was so cute. I could never donate my eggs :/

    • @jenniferandrade9499
      @jenniferandrade9499 Před 5 lety +11

      Sidney McCombs if they dont want to they dont have to ...its not just an egg for someone who has motherly instincts

    • @hannajean8204
      @hannajean8204 Před 5 lety +12

      @Sidney McCombs I doubt I have any eggs. Walking around and seeing a baby that's mine but not mine is too weird for me

    • @hannajean8204
      @hannajean8204 Před 5 lety +4

      @Sidney McCombs I have fertility problems

    • @purple00k
      @purple00k Před 5 lety +3

      Hanna Jean lol... That deescalated quickly

    • @purple00k
      @purple00k Před 5 lety

      Sidney McCombs i thought it was 500 eggs. Hmmm....

  • @victoriar8284
    @victoriar8284 Před 5 lety

    your hair looks so good!

  • @CC-yv2vv
    @CC-yv2vv Před 5 lety

    This is so special ❤️

  • @sallygrey2107
    @sallygrey2107 Před 5 lety +27

    How is things for your parents Julie? DO they feel like grandparents or get to see the girls? Xx

    • @AllieLittleMonster
      @AllieLittleMonster Před 5 lety +2

      I actually think I remember a video where the girls met Julie’s parents and considered them grandparents ? Idk

  • @donnadsmith853
    @donnadsmith853 Před 4 lety

    Love your family. All family's should be so lucky!

  • @KatTheTruth
    @KatTheTruth Před 5 lety +2

    Y'all are so cute!