Egg Donor Ruins Relationship with Intended Parents

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  • čas přidán 3. 05. 2020
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Komentáře • 322

  • @JulieVentura
    @JulieVentura  Před 4 lety +192

    Thank you everyone for such kind words. It really means a lot to see such positivity in a world full of judgement and negativity. You’re all so wonderful! I hope you are all staying physically and mentally healthy especially in such trying times with this pandemic. Stay safe 💕

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle Před 4 lety +3

      I’m sorry that the experience wasn’t a good one. I hope that it didn’t like..permanently ruin the relationship..and I hope you guys can still talk and be friends. Living with somebody is a completely different ballgame.

    • @justjuliesette1652
      @justjuliesette1652 Před 4 lety +3

      I saw all parts omg my heart feels better glad you guys worked it out I'm a fan again. 😥😥😥 I love you guys omg I was sad.

    • @Jill99ish
      @Jill99ish Před 4 lety +2

      I don't think either of them have it in them to hate anybody especially you. I think Adam was just hurt, he was expecting everything to be amazing having you there, but you were trying to respect their space & not intrude. So just a lack of communication. Sometimes when we've been partners or such close friends with somebody for so long we take it for granted that they'll automatically know why we're behaving a certain way, so I can see both sides. The most important thing is that you have now communicated & made up. I really think he needs his loved ones atm with what he's going through

    • @SavannahSedai
      @SavannahSedai Před 4 lety +3

      Julie Ventura It’s not hard to be positive because this was such a refreshing video of maturity! I hope everything starts looking up for you!!!! People who own their shiz (and we ALL have shiz to own up to) are a rare find ❤️

    • @Jill99ish
      @Jill99ish Před 4 lety +1

      @@SavannahSedai I totally agree 🙂 I think because there's so many trolls on social media or people who grew up without being taught that age old adage "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all" we forget some people can be mature.

  • @marianneroseb.2297
    @marianneroseb.2297 Před 4 lety +145

    Honestly I understand and relate so much... when you’re depressed you’re not yourself. In my opinion you did a good choice to leave and give you all space. I hope you will be happy again ❤️

  • @juliact
    @juliact Před 4 lety +84

    Totally makes sense. Of course you would be depressed, having to leave your whole life because you are broke and homeless. It's very hard to communicate when you're depressed. I'm so glad that you were able to repair your relationships with Adam and Erik. I hope that there is no damage left. Keep communicating really honestly and I believe that if you have a solid relationship with someone you can repair any rupture in the relationship. Communication is the key!

  • @Lovelylittlehijabi
    @Lovelylittlehijabi Před 4 lety +154

    This didn't work out BUT it shouldn't have ruined your relationship. I would encourage take your moment to heal but keep communicating. This is so understandable and your right, your head was not in the right place to stay with friends. Parents home would have been a better choice.... But we can't play would'a, could'a, should'a with life. Heal and keep it moving what doesnt kill you makes you stronger.

    • @lizcoz4714
      @lizcoz4714 Před 4 lety +4

      They are bff again

    • @peachygal4153
      @peachygal4153 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lizcoz4714Exactly, she made it clear they had forgiven her, and she accepted the blame.

  • @cheryloffor6687
    @cheryloffor6687 Před 4 lety +154

    Visiting and living together are to different things

  • @joaniep675
    @joaniep675 Před 4 lety +23

    What a super mature outlook on the last few months. Girl, you’re gonna go places and depression is not going to hold you down. I know that because you are being so insightful about what all happened. Anyone who can look at something that hard introspectively and then apologize and realize they could do better is someone who is capable of so many great things ahead because you already have the gift of being introspective and so many people fail to have that. Good luck!

  • @karenfrasca8192
    @karenfrasca8192 Před 4 lety +64

    A contrite and humble heart...you're a breath of fresh air. I'm so glad for all of you that you mended those broken feelings.

  • @Longtallsal17
    @Longtallsal17 Před 4 lety +52

    Oh wow... I’m so impressed with you ALL... for your honestly ...I thought it was lovely that the boys posted a link to your side and that all of you have worked through this...I’m so sorry that you’re going through a difficult time

  • @jeannettepeterson2463
    @jeannettepeterson2463 Před 4 lety +20

    I'm so proud of y'all. Not that anyone wishes things like this to happen. I'm proud because you didn't let this defined your relationship and y'all are able to see the good and move forward. I would love to hear more about your new business. Looking forward to seeing more videos.

  • @christineriley5697
    @christineriley5697 Před 4 lety +3

    Oh Julie, you are such a sweetheart. I understand depression very well and totally get it. So glad you reached out to Adam and Eric, I am sure they understand. I am praying for you. Another comment recommended setting up an account so we can help you, please let us. All relationships suffer bumps, some large, some small, but your reaching out helped you all over the bump. Take good care.

  • @curlaque
    @curlaque Před 4 lety +8

    I totally relate. My husband and I drove in our RV to Georgia for xmas with my son and his wife and son. My husband had a heart attack and open heart surgery. We were there for almost 4 months. I would spend the day at the hospital the go straight to the RV for the night. I was so afraid I was interfering with their alone time, family time, and basically their lives. I thought I was being considerate but come to find out they thought I did not enjoy spending time with them! I did not want my daughter-in-law to hate me and never want me to visit again.
    The solution to the whole thing is just opening up and talking. I hope I learned my lesson. I understand exactly what you mean Julie. I am so very happy you have all made up! Good luck with your business. You have your whole life ahead of you and you will be fine! You also have your parents who ,I am sure, adore you! Best of luck!

  • @Khai-MediaCo
    @Khai-MediaCo Před 4 lety +43

    There is NO WAY he "hated" you (true friends are there for you in good times & bad) ... Good to hear that you are on the mend & CONGRATS on your launch!

  • @Memenator
    @Memenator Před 4 lety +8

    I’m glad everything better now. I have depression ( not as severe as years ago but it’s still there ) and I suffer with anxiety , agoraphobia, and adhd among other things. It’s hard to get yourself out that black tunnel vision when in that depressive state. Even harder to ask for help and reach out. Just know you have many people who care about you and whom support you. You are awesomecoretastic :) been watching you for years. Found ya on The McHusbands channel back they had only like 5,000 subscribers ox proud of all y’all and how far you have come!:)
    💜☺️
    Love, Mimi

  • @lauriegertenbach3421
    @lauriegertenbach3421 Před 4 lety +12

    Depression is so hard on everyone. You all have had different life styles, and it's hard to "blend" life styles and make it work. You will all be fine, the love for each other is there and it's strong and you have a beautiful bond...the sweet girls. Love to you all

  • @sineaddolan1413
    @sineaddolan1413 Před 4 lety +5

    So so difficult to be a house guest at the best of times but when your mental health is suffering it's impossible! You can't force yourself into being your best self when you're feeling that way, give yourself time and grace. You did the right thing and I'm so happy you all still want to stay in each others lives. Lots of love from Ireland 💗

  • @nursegirly3248
    @nursegirly3248 Před 4 lety +3

    I’m glad I got to hear where you were coming from. Sometimes friendships are best when you don’t spend all your time together, things can become different. I’m sorry you went through what you’re going through with losing everything. I can only imagine how hard that is for someone.

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn Před 4 lety +11

    Thanks for sharing. So very hard to admit our faults and be accountable. This is how we grow and keep long lasting friendships. All relationships can go through hard ships! So glad things are better for you all! Xo

  • @lorithompson5574
    @lorithompson5574 Před 4 lety +156

    I'm impressed with your honesty.When you get into a depression,you aren't yourself,and Depression takes over you.I believe things happen for a reason.I feel really bad for all of you,but just remember what doesn't break you does make you stronger.I believe you might even be able to help Adam,in his situation with his hearing loss right now.It's easy to go into a dark place with depression when you hear bad news that changes your life.(At the end of the day you all have deep genuine love for each other that doesn't break)Love you all 🥰

  • @deandreapinkney4372
    @deandreapinkney4372 Před 4 lety +48

    I'm happy you were able to rebuild your friendships. I'm sorry for everything you're going through. You're so talented!!! Hope's for healing and moving on to success! 💗

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 4 lety +7

      Thank you

    • @deandreapinkney4372
      @deandreapinkney4372 Před 4 lety +2

      @@JulieVentura yes exactly! Take care of yourself to feel better and know you are worth so much!! 💗💗

  • @deniseharvey211
    @deniseharvey211 Před 4 lety +19

    I am so happy you guys were able to work it out, it would have been terrible if that friendship ended. It takes a big person to admit that they were not them self that they were not in a good place and then be able to nurture the friendship. ❤️

  • @SoraLove599
    @SoraLove599 Před 4 lety +12

    I just want to hug you. Your whole world has been turned upside down 😭. You are wonderful, loving person.

  • @luckyfairfax4890
    @luckyfairfax4890 Před 4 lety +3

    I watch the guys every once in a while. I saw their vlog that you left. They never throw you under the bus, and I’m so glad you didn’t throw them under the bus. Good friends are hard to find. So so happy you all are talking,and happy.👍🏻

  • @MISSISSIPPI_Gurl
    @MISSISSIPPI_Gurl Před 4 lety +7

    I love you and both Adam and Eric. Depression is hard. Living under other's roofs is hard. Being Almost Homeless is even tougher. I'm so sorry it didn't work out with you staying there with them. But I'm so happy yall were able to work things out. May you always be Blessed.

  • @darlagreene2805
    @darlagreene2805 Před 4 lety +17

    I Am Crying For You. Not In a Bad Way But Because of How Sweet and Heartfelt You Are.

  • @raleemay
    @raleemay Před 4 lety +3

    Sorry you’ve fallen on tough times Julie 😞 But you have a great support system so that’s a blessing. Thanks for sharing your side. I think we all totally understand why you were upset. Here’s hoping things get much better for you. Going to follow your nails page now.

  • @angiewilson8936
    @angiewilson8936 Před 4 lety +28

    Julie this makes me sad for you.. depression is real.. I'm glad you are out of there and you chose to leave.. everyone makes mistakes don't be so hard on yourself.. time will heal .. I'm glad you guys are in a good place now..👍🙂❤

  • @sohinidas4797
    @sohinidas4797 Před 4 lety +1

    You're very strong because you had the courage to explain all of it. It's also not your fault, depression makes you totally a different person. Stay strong. You're truly a great person.
    Lots of love from India💞

  • @mayabenavides1592
    @mayabenavides1592 Před 4 lety +2

    I’m so happy everything worked out! Honestly like you said this was hard for both sides and I bet you guys are relieved that you guys are good again. You are never alone and sometimes you just need a break!

  • @sugrrkisses
    @sugrrkisses Před 4 lety +4

    Depression is tough. I understand you completely. Once you’re in that dark place, it’s difficult to get yourself out of it.
    Glad ya’ll were able to work things out 🙂.

  • @sarasweatt7445
    @sarasweatt7445 Před 4 lety +1

    I think we can all say we’ve burned bridges because of personal issues going on. So glad you were mature enough to rebuild your friendship. I hope people learn from you! ❤️ Thank you for your honesty! Keep moving forward! You got this!!!!

  • @bowiegirl5662
    @bowiegirl5662 Před 4 lety

    I'm so glad it all worked out. Sometimes things just don't go as planned, but true friends will get back together. Good luck with the new venture. You deserve it. You are a very special person Julie.

  • @dogmom007
    @dogmom007 Před 4 lety +2

    I have lost a few friends during my struggles with depression. I totally understand. You have got great friends and it seems you are aware of it. I am also a fan of E &A. 🙂 I also reached out to friends that I felt I offended during my dark time and a few forgave me, some did not.

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 Před 4 lety

    I am glad that you have been able to talk to them about the situation and clear the air. It can be a challenge moving in with friends and even family members and it doesn’t always work out. Learning more about your situation and head space it’s not surprising that things fell apart. You’re a giving person and not being able to do the things you felt like you should be doing for them just made that dark pit harder to get out of which is something I can relate to because I went through a similar situation while living with my brother and his wife and new baby who I was going to take care of and basically be the nanny during the day and take college classes at night while I worked on my degree.

  • @jeannejorgensen1230
    @jeannejorgensen1230 Před 4 lety +1

    You’ve been going through a rough patch. We all do at times in our lives. And depression is like a demon that takes over. But nothing is forever and the sun does return. You are a wonderful friend to Erik and Adam, and they to you. All three of you have such generous and understanding spirits and your reconciliation proves the solid foundation of your friendship. Glad to see all is right in the world again! 😁😍

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 Před 4 lety +1

    All I see is positivity. Just goes to show how amazing of a person you are. Everyone literally loves you.

  • @Kate_-hp7cl
    @Kate_-hp7cl Před 4 lety +20

    Nobody is perfect and it was what is was. I'm just glad everyone is still friends

  • @LexFerraro
    @LexFerraro Před 4 lety

    Just getting to the 4 minute mark. I have been Adam so many times. I wish the people who have left my life because they needed help when healing through a hard time, we didn’t set boundaries and it ruined a friendship living together, i wish they had an ounce of how reality was. You openly know you weren’t in the right head space and you’re owning it. i respect that so much.

  • @wendymudkins668
    @wendymudkins668 Před 4 lety +12

    I'm happy you all got to stay friends as that's who you can rely on after family depression is a horrible thing take it from someone who's been there stay strong for yourself and take one day at a time my best wishes go to you for the future

  • @xoxogabrielle25
    @xoxogabrielle25 Před 4 lety

    Im so glad you guys worked this out. ❤️❤️ this is so understandable and real. I hope your feeling better!

  • @geema2281
    @geema2281 Před 4 lety

    You are all such great people. I'm so glad you're friends again. Wishing you all a lifelong friendship 💕

  • @missanthropy5808
    @missanthropy5808 Před 4 lety +4

    Relationships are hard especially with so much stress like this covid stuff and the financial effects so many are feeling. Hope everything gets better for you soon😊

  • @lemonade9922
    @lemonade9922 Před 4 lety

    I went through this exact same thing in college. I had a friend group for the first time in my life, but I was also away from my family, had no car or any money, and I was super depressed. I had a lot of insecurities, and I’m always feeling like I didn’t fit in. I was also undiagnosed at the time and was later diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and everything became so clear to me. I was so so so unstable and got super drunk and woke up in the hospital and the friend group just dropped me and everyone who still supported me said that they were in the wrong for dropping me, but I really messed up, and I definitely feel you when you say that you weren’t yourself and you started taking it out on those around you. I dropped out and moved back home, but I still hope the best for them, and I hope the best for you as well ❤️

  • @amandawhite-swenson3798
    @amandawhite-swenson3798 Před 4 lety +144

    I'm glad y'all are worked thru it. That's what real true friends do. 💞Xoxo

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 4 lety +28

      Me too! It was quite a change to go from talking to them everyday to not wanting to bother them ahah, I'm just glad we were all able to understand eachother in the end.

  • @catfon10
    @catfon10 Před 4 lety

    Hope you're healing and feeling better, and things are coming along. You've amazing strength and beauty and can overcome things for what is better and the best for you and everyone around you. There are just those times we need healing and space, and time ... that's life. Much love and look after yourself, and push on with your dreams and goals.

  • @sariankor4584
    @sariankor4584 Před 4 lety

    Such a mature reflection on your part in what happened. No wonder you could all recover and preserve/reignite your friendship together. ♥️

  • @liliancounsel6500
    @liliancounsel6500 Před 4 lety

    Julie, your honesty is generosity. Take care and build onto the little positive steps that you make. Don’t worry about the ‘Mummy” thing. As a teacher I was called Mummy a lot. It’s only as dramatic as you all want to make it. Kids experiment, they copy and mimic. They do not understand the full emotional meaning or impact . You three will always be connected and there are many years , hopefully, for you all to travel on life s journey together. Just imagine yourselves as 50 year olds, 60 year olds with the girls. There will be more ups and downs. Love conquers and forgives. Move in in friendship.

  • @lesleyallinson8738
    @lesleyallinson8738 Před 4 lety

    Friends are worth more than money could ever buy. Big hugs love you all

  • @kerrycole713
    @kerrycole713 Před 4 lety +15

    Aww, sweet Julie. Life can be so hard sometimes. You've had a rough road for sure & I hope all the best for you no matter where life takes you next. You are a good, fine, decent human being, never forget that. The arrangement didn't work out as expected for any of you, that's ok! All of you have come out the other side. Love will always triumph. You've worked it out together. I'm glad for that, now stop beating yourself up over it. 😊 BE KIND TO YOURSELF JULIE! 3

  • @susanhawkins3045
    @susanhawkins3045 Před 4 lety +1

    You went into a unique situation at a low point. No one would know how it would want out. Well it didn’t and you moved and started to put thing right. And now you have your Adam back along with Eric and girls. You have all learned something so now put it behind you. Everything settled enjoy your time with them like before cos they love you and you love them. Hoping your depression is lifted. Your a wonderful young lady and special ❤️

  • @emmacharlotte6538
    @emmacharlotte6538 Před 4 lety +12

    Ah bless you!! It's so understandable. I'm so glad you were able to clear the air and work things out! Also omg Addisen is your double 🥰

    • @dawnegan3984
      @dawnegan3984 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes but Adam is trying his to make Addison act like him Everest get no attention almost

  • @natasha5215
    @natasha5215 Před 4 lety

    For the most part people can only give to others what they give to themselves. If you’re struggling with yourself, you feel unstable, your comforts have been taken from you all of a sudden, I can imagine most people would’ve been the same way. I hope you don’t give yourself a hard time, you were coping as best you could. Your message after was so brave and shows your true essence. I hope your friendship only becomes stronger from this. Hope you are doing okay now? You will get back to it. Hope you’re giving yourself a much much deserve break for now 🧡

  • @DavidKinlay
    @DavidKinlay Před 4 lety

    Lovely to hear your thoughts and feelings,well done on your honesty and openness ❤️

  • @virginiastoneking6661
    @virginiastoneking6661 Před 4 lety

    Julie thanks for your side of the story. Even through it all Adam and Eric tried to protect your privacy while still trying to explain why u were MIA. You are an amazing person and I'm glad you 3 talked it out. Be safe,stay healthy. Look forward to seeing you in future videos. Just always remember.... You ARE WORTH IT.

  • @alf8569
    @alf8569 Před 4 lety

    living with other people on its own can be difficult. throw in ALL of the other dynamics and it's so understandable how things went left real fast. I wish you all the best and hope you are feeling better. you're awesome!!

  • @rachel031404
    @rachel031404 Před 4 lety

    Good on you for getting through this and reaching out to them 💜

  • @angelanorthcutt8504
    @angelanorthcutt8504 Před 4 lety

    Wow your an amazing person, not to many people admit when they are wrong, it really shows what your relationship with them means to you, Kudos to you and good luck with your business.

  • @tensaimyu
    @tensaimyu Před 4 lety +1

    I’m glad that you could fix things up with them💓I just love your story💖

  • @Miranda_Jane
    @Miranda_Jane Před 4 lety

    Wow! You are probably the youngest most MATURE person on the Internet to date. I love your realness and your story. The way you handled this and yourself is very impressive! I hope you use this platform to educate and teach other egg donors the reality of what one may go through during this process. Thank you so much for your honesty and not being a typical drama queen about it. Good on ya! I’m officially subscribing to your channel. Well done my friend👏👏👏👏

  • @terrylemal5163
    @terrylemal5163 Před 4 lety +50

    Are you sure you’re not related to Adam? Holy moly you both have the same shoulder shrug, hand gestures and voice inflections.

    • @JulieVentura
      @JulieVentura  Před 4 lety +15

      Ahahaha right?! We always make jokes that we’re definitely siblings from an alternate universe. It’s crazy how similar we are

    • @SplendaChic
      @SplendaChic Před 3 lety +2

      It's no wonder Addisen is a perfect image of Julie and Adam. Strong genes.

  • @heathermillard6841
    @heathermillard6841 Před 4 lety

    I’m so sorry you had such a hard time! Hope things get better for you real soon! Hope your business gets going well! That is a lot for anyone to go through! I can understand why you were depressed!

  • @smokindragon04
    @smokindragon04 Před 4 lety +5

    I can understand that situation, you trying to give them space with their children was not wrong, they just took it the wrong way, communication was definitely the problem , so glad everything is better now!

  • @barbaratimmerman919
    @barbaratimmerman919 Před 4 lety +3

    Julie, I wish you lived closer to me, you could move here for free. I feel so bad that you are going through such trying times. I love Eric and Adam, so glad you reunited your friendship with them. Stay strong little one, it will get better.

  • @glamoret
    @glamoret Před 4 lety +162

    Julie- Set up your account so people can send you donations to help you with your business. There are good people around you. People you know and people you don’t know exist. Watch miracle happen for you this time around.
    Love and light💅🏼

    • @sherry1253
      @sherry1253 Před 4 lety +4

      OMGosh what a GREAT idea, Julie just do it and see what happens!!!

    • @amberbrink1585
      @amberbrink1585 Před 4 lety +1

      I agree! I’d donate to help get you out of a hole

    • @dgiblin1000
      @dgiblin1000 Před 4 lety +1

      @@amberbrink1585 I would also

    • @jannahali28
      @jannahali28 Před 4 lety

      Set up an account let us donate. You deserve it!!

  • @ellimaya1140
    @ellimaya1140 Před 4 lety +73

    I know a lot of people will disagree but I honestly think that if I had a friend that gave me her eggs so I could have kids and also potentially put her future health at risk with all those hormone injections and also choose to be present in our lives so that my children have a connection with her I would be the luckiest person in the universe I would basically do anything to make sure I was there for my friend when she needed the most and I would do wherever was necessary to help my friend to go through the darkest moments of her life because she gave me the most wonderful thing and without it I would be in the darkest of my life. I simply think that real friends will see that you are not in your comfort zone, you just lost it all and you clearly will have the need to withdraw a bit and get your mind on the right path I truly wish that you would have got the love and understanding that you deserve. I truly love Adam and Eric but I don’t think you need to excuse yourself and blame yourself sooo much because they took you in knowingly that you lost it all and you needed a safe place to be a place where you can be at your worse and still be loved . They always said you were family well family doesn’t hate each other family loves and work through their problems, family stand beside each other on good and bad . It is the same as if I allowed a disable family member to come live with me, I should know things won’t be the same and my family and I will have to work around things to adapt to the new member of the family and I would have to understand that there was going to be good and bad days. I am broken heart that this was how you were treated you needed your best friends support and understanding even when you yourself are having a hard time to understand the situation you are in. True Love conquers all. Disappointed at them :(

    • @debi909
      @debi909 Před 4 lety +11

      *Agreed* ... *Blessings Everyone* ...

    • @sy1011
      @sy1011 Před 4 lety +5

      White people. Honestly.

    • @debi909
      @debi909 Před 4 lety +3

      @@sy1011 What is that supposed to mean? :( ... I hope you are doing well ... GBY ...

    • @melmel8683
      @melmel8683 Před 4 lety

      @@sy1011 😂😂😂

    • @Sunflowers9191
      @Sunflowers9191 Před 4 lety +5

      I couldn’t agree more! She IS their family too..

  • @dariusrao2536
    @dariusrao2536 Před 4 lety +14

    U really don't need to worry....u had a lot on Ur plate....be brave...be positive....things vl get better....they also understand

  • @Doedee311
    @Doedee311 Před 4 lety

    It takes a lot to realize that. I'm glad things have worked out and you can still have them as part of your tribe.

  • @amethystle
    @amethystle Před 4 lety

    As someone who completely lost their childhood best friend after becoming roommates together for a few years, I just wanted to reach out and give you and Eric and Adam virtual hug (I have to do it here, because their comments are turned off on their channel indefinitely). Most people don't realize how different things are when you are actually living with a person vs. just visiting or spending lots of time with them. Throw into the mix your emotional state and the lack of communication, and it just becomes a toxic soup. I'm glad you guys were able to talk after, and I'm glad you guys are friends again. I'm so sorry about your situation of becoming homeless and losing everything. I've also been there, and it completely sucks. Feeling established and then having to start over with nothing is so demoralizing. Or thinking you know where your life is and then suddenly finding the rug ripped out from under you can really mess you up. I don't know you personally, but I've watched the McHusbands channel since the girls were tiny babies, so part of me feels like I know you. I cried watching this, because I could relate so hard. Yeah...all the virtual hugs. I have faith you'll be able to get back on your feet, and I hope it happens sooner than later.

  • @georgiannmaloney6594
    @georgiannmaloney6594 Před 4 lety +15

    Take time for yourself and in time all will be better. Glad you all are friends again.😁

  • @tinahanscom5611
    @tinahanscom5611 Před 4 lety

    I am so glad you mended ways.. all relationships have their ups and downs both of the girls look like you you are beautiful and you're all very blessed need to keep this in mind before anything else love watching you guys I'm so glad you're a part of it God bless #3

  • @KarenLGH63
    @KarenLGH63 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm glad y'all are besties again!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck on your new business!! Soon you will have your new groove!! Whatever your subscribers can do to help let us know.... I'm ready!

  • @cherylwilson8743
    @cherylwilson8743 Před 4 lety

    I'm pleased you guys have sorted things. I have to give a lot of credit and respect to Adam and Erik for not going into deep detail about what happened, I really don't think they would've even if you hadn't sorted things out between you though. I hope things go well for you with your career/ business and wish you nothing but the best. Take care, keep safe.

  • @courtneybennett6406
    @courtneybennett6406 Před 4 lety

    I am so glad you all work it out you and Adam and so cute when you are together. Space is sometimes the best answers

  • @freddy4672
    @freddy4672 Před 4 lety

    Friends are gentle with friends. Glad you’ve all moved to a better place. Good luck with your business!

  • @anls12
    @anls12 Před 4 lety +1

    Julie you going to be able to take all the pieces of your life and put together again, at the moment you are with your parent who love you incondicional, you need your TIME and everything going to be alright. You are a very delicate and brilliant spirit, take care.

  • @josown
    @josown Před 4 lety +9

    Hi! I never comment but now that I'm here and waiting, WOW! You are amazing! Love your honesty! The 3 of you crack me up! I'm the only one of my friends who really even wanted to be a mom so I feel ya on the things you say, so many of my friends are right there with you. I've been a mom for 18 years and UGH!!! I wish I had known before what I know now... LOL!!! 3 minutes and counting.

  • @abolton5458
    @abolton5458 Před 4 lety +1

    Hang in there Julie! Things will get better. One day at a time-keep pushing forward. Sending u positivity. 😊🌼🌈☀️

  • @jacquelynu.2375
    @jacquelynu.2375 Před 4 lety +1

    So happy you guys worked it all out ❤️

  • @wibblewobble489
    @wibblewobble489 Před 4 lety

    I've been watching the guys vlogs since they announced their surrogacy and love all of you to pieces, as ive watched interviews with you Julie, i've really grown to relate to you and totally understand exactly what you mean when you talk about the girls and not wanting kids lol. This whole situation was both a blessing and destined to fail from the get go though, for not only the reasons you mentioned; but also cos you were going through probably the biggest stress in your entire life and were then plonked neatly into a lifestyle you (and i lolol) would never everrrr choose to live in full time. Visiting is great and all but you get to escape the kids at the end of the day. Living with them is an entirely different story and brings with it a shitload of stress that you don't even know exists till you are thrust into it fulltime. Then add into the recipe your depression, grief and like you said, lack of communication and boundaries AND living in someone else's home subject to their lifestyle and yeah, unfortuntely its gunna unravel fast. Its nobodys fault cos you're all only human, you were all doing what you thought was best and you learn from mistakes. It was lovely of them to offer you a safe place to stay and testament to all of yours (and the guys') commitment to the friendship and eachother that you could then go back and communicate about what happened and pick up the pieces and start again without holding grudges or doing lasting damage to anyone. You should be proud of yourself for that. Not many people would be willing to be so open and honest about these things and i think its a reflection of how good you as a person are that you are putting yourself out there like this. Its nobodys fault, its just one of those really shit life events that happens to the best of us. I hope things improve for you quickly and that being home with your parents can take at least some of the load off your shoulders.

  • @jrbland18
    @jrbland18 Před 4 lety +1

    Well, Julie this is julie from ATLANTA ga. I've watched you all and followed you guys from the very beginning.
    Stay STRONG. EVERYONE goes through bad times. Hold your head up.
    You guys NEED to work every thing. Sometimes living with friends just doesn't work out.
    But, yes you guys NEED to ALWAYS try to work things out for the sake of the girls. Glad you guys are fine now.
    Congratulations on trying to start your BUSSINESS.

  • @bealong8718
    @bealong8718 Před 4 lety +1

    nobody can predict or understand how many others are dealing with life during this pandemic, as so many are suffering differently. glad you could all work things out, find some time when you're back on your feet to spend a weekend with them, and make it all about having fun. 😘

  • @danat7016
    @danat7016 Před 4 lety

    You are being so honest here. I totally understand and would probably have been the same way. I can be so socially awkward and always feel bad afterwards. It's got to be strange having to move in with a family

  • @maizhiheimei9080
    @maizhiheimei9080 Před 3 lety

    You all are beautiful people, happy things worked out,... family, love and friendship are not easy or just fun, it requires lots understanding, forgiveness, efferts, sacrifice,...true family/friendship always can workout...keep up and bless your business!

  • @susanjones7594
    @susanjones7594 Před 3 lety

    What a lovely support for them ,I’d be soooo grateful 💫✨💫

  • @FleurDeCersier
    @FleurDeCersier Před 4 lety

    Apart from depression making us different people, it's really a gamble to move in with friends. It can either ruin the relationship or you become even closer. I've seen it happen so many times.

  • @zoechartier
    @zoechartier Před 4 lety +1

    Good luck with everything Julie, you seem to be someone great really, I feel you about being in that state Im in it myself, going back to live with my dad after quarantine cause I failed my business and ended up broke, just like you. Better times are coming, xoxo

  • @cherylrobinson517
    @cherylrobinson517 Před 4 lety

    Awe...Julie, no worries k...I'm glad you all worked it out. You are a Wonderful human being with So much to give this world...Never forget that Sweetheart😊💖😊.

  • @marjanf56
    @marjanf56 Před 4 lety

    i have been in that situation..sweetie it gets better..you CAN start over..when i was younger i was almost homeless thank god friends let me bunk i lost everything through no fault of my own..keep your chin up..you have nothing to apologize for

  • @melissapickwell3473
    @melissapickwell3473 Před 4 lety

    Hi Julie, I have followed the 6 of you guys beautiful/amazing and inspiring vlogs on this journey. You are one incredible girl inside and out with the gift you gave to your best friends and I'm so pleased all is better with you all. Hope everything else in your life is on the right track because you deserve it. Lots of love from Edinburgh 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Scotland 💙❤️💙

  • @dgiblin1000
    @dgiblin1000 Před 4 lety

    I also can relate having suffered from depression. It really can make you feel and act like a totally different person. Antidepressants really helped me feel better.

  • @lauradent9480
    @lauradent9480 Před 4 lety +5

    No home is big enough for 2 families (IMHO) I’m just so glad y’all have patched things up and are moving forward from it..As the egg donor and Adams best friend, you will always be a special part of their family..I wish you all the luck with your new business and rebuilding that awesome connection with the #McHusbandsfamily 🥰

    • @Uber1937
      @Uber1937 Před rokem

      No es donante, es madre, muy tonta, eso sí.

  • @Medame88
    @Medame88 Před 4 lety

    Love you Julie, I so glad you guys are friends again. It really broke my heart to know you guys had a falling out. 💕💕💕

  • @Lena-uh3ky
    @Lena-uh3ky Před 4 lety +1

    So sorry for your situation it makes me sad 😔 but it's temporary believe me.All the best Julie.Big hug.

  • @xoxoPilar
    @xoxoPilar Před 4 lety

    Honestly good on your for realizing that you were the problem and apologizing! Communication is always key

  • @robynboreland3917
    @robynboreland3917 Před 3 lety

    Awe Sweetie many blessings from Australia,I know those boys will love and care for you forever xxx

  • @jennifersinclair7249
    @jennifersinclair7249 Před 4 lety

    I am excited for your future - keep us updated!

  • @anastasijad4830
    @anastasijad4830 Před 4 lety +2

    Make more videos! Your voice is so calming !

  • @shellysanderson16
    @shellysanderson16 Před 4 lety

    Julie you are an amazing person, and friend. Depression is real please take care of yourself. You will figure it out. Your friends know and love you. Stay safe and get well.😊

  • @michelletaggart1390
    @michelletaggart1390 Před 4 lety

    You are brave to put your depression out there, I admire you for that, and you are stronger than you think,, I hope Adam see's this to see how much you loved him even though you hurt him, you admit your mistakes and that is not easy to do or say to the person let alone the world. You have a good friendship that will overcome this hic cup in life, it will survive as will you. I wish you all the luck in the world you deserve it

  • @lindacollings8554
    @lindacollings8554 Před 4 lety

    I am so glad you guys are all friends again.
    I get depression its crap.
    Hang in there!

  • @xxgiraffe
    @xxgiraffe Před 4 lety

    You have a beaIutiful heart