Man Comes Face-To-Face With Woman He Believes He Fell In Love With Online
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- čas přidán 25. 10. 2017
- A man meets a woman he believes he met online and has been calling his fiancée. Is she really who he has been talking to? Or is her picture being used to catfish him?
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Are you nuts?
Hello Dr Phil.
Lol I just wanted to say hi. For once
@@EvolutionIX219 I think I had a couple to many beers when I posted that😂😂😂
It's called catfish nev n max easily could find who it was
@@michaelconnelly1799 I took too much LSD
$211,000 on a person he never met? Just don't get how these successful men can be so dumb.
Hours and hours of flirting and phone calls of love and time. One tragedy. Another one. Going to meet him in person in need of a home. Missed the airplane. That's extra cash to keep. Then even more because of needing help since you couldn't go fly out there to see them. Don't send anyone money. The moment they ask they better be on love video and have followed through with their walk the walk.
Successful my foot! A guy who borrows money from his mother for carnal pleasure is dumb by all standards!
@@suavismilsten1873 that I understand.. internet dating, long distance, its not crazy. But there was no phone calls, no video chats, or anything? That is what is crazy to me.
@@kingtodza8541 Fools and there money are soon parted and the bigger the fool the more money they loose :)
@@Polecat54941 i don't even have money in the first place .
Never trust a person that is asking for money especially on the internet come on 🤦♀️
Yes, (E)specially. You are correct! 👍
yes ,my aunt got scammed millions
@@stellamanurung519 millions? Not bad! Why so much?
NEVER TRUST A PERSON WHO DONT USE A WEBCAM!!!!
Or someone from it who always needs some or a favor.
"Is she gonna give me my money?" What a dork.
🤣🤣
The way Dr Phil introduced her seemed almost designed to make him think it was actually Kimberly Escobar. Considering his situation, he would have thought it it was actually her.
You can see his big realisation when Dr Phil explains about the identity theft. The camera manages to capture it.
HE'S a dork
Items such as tools and lawnmowers can be
Dr. Phil: "You're looking at the women of your dreams."
Her: 😬
🤣
The accuracy of the emoji🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😭😂🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂👏🏾DESERVES more likes!
I can’t believe that’s his mom. 😳 I thought they were the same age. 💀
May I ask, did you make your profile pic?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@purpleheart4ever same
What? I thought they were married too
Yeah I was scrolling around to see who she was. Was hard for me to just let the video play because it's so cringey. So sad and stupid at the same time. $200k??? Was the mom's money? And her idiot son gave it away to some dude posing as a chick? Lord have mercy
I will never understand how these old men can never get it through their heads that no beautiful young woman will EVER be interested in anything but their money. WHY WOULD THEY BE????
And if you got 200k to blow, blow it on some quality hookers who will do it all, not internet scammers lol.
its not just guys though
the guy can still get it tho
HEY! I AM AN "OLDMAN" I AM FIFTY MY WIFE IS SUPERHOT SHES 34 AND I HAVE NO MONEY!
@@condorgebecke9059 I don't think 30 is how young he's talking like more 18-25
I feel for the Mom the most. She's old and all she wants for her son is to have a great life. Must be a more hurtful experience to her finding out her son was scammed.
That's why people should play runescape. Free armor trimming will get you every single time.
Agreed.
Likely broke her heart to see her child in pain.
U should feel for him the most, because he is the one getting bankrupt not the mom
@@secrets.295 Pay attention to the details. Ofcos you missed the part that she loaned her son $20000 to get his supposed fiance back in America.
"Im in the beauty business"
Yes you are sweetheart, yes you are!!
Simp
lmaoo
😂👍🏽
Simp police wya
down bad horrendously
She's gorgeous
Meh
She aight
Not the point
So is the brunette!
She's stunninggggg
This man fell out of the idiot tree and hit all the branches on the way down.
A BIG *roblox oof*
Good one
Lol!
Then got up and ran into every tree in the forest
😂 😂
The way he was looking at her at first. Poor lady it took a lot of courage for her to even speak to him.
@@DroneWorldbelo TF is wrong with you? Did you listen to the video or is your comprehension off? She didn't steal.anything from him. Someone stole her photos and used them to scam him. He lost 200k because he was foolish.
@@DroneWorldbelo bruh, that's on him though? I'd still have the same opinion if it were a lady. He isn't looking for love at all. If he were then he'd be looking for women of all ages and not spend countless of money on them. Smart ppl would meet up with them first before doing anything like that
@@DroneWorldbelo bruh what are you talking about..? I'm saying what he did was his fault. He should have been more careful and we all know he wasn't looking for love. It was lust.
@@Bychance37 It shouldn’t take any courage for her to speak to him if she didn’t do anything. So the use of “poor lady” really doesn’t hold any weight.. like at all.
@@martialharpistmatthew1837 Yeah I said she didn't do anything. I said what I said. If you don't know what I meant by that comment then you don't know. Control what you say. How about that?
"I hope she has my money". Still he didn't get it.
He said that before he knew
He's a bit thick
Lmfao he got the nerve to ask the real woman if she got his money😂🤣
Right? Does he not understand that she isn't the actual scammer/ her identity was stolen smh
That was before he was told that she was not involved in any way.
He didn’t ask her ...he commented to dr Phil
@@MrPaultopp yeah he did. Before she was brought out and on the live stream video he asked where his money was!
@@DineRez4life *Got what he deserved*
I’m sure he thoughts were like; Forget my money, just give me this Kimberly. And we can forget about it all
Lmao
😂
Yup 😂😂 you can tell by the way he was looking at her
🤭
Yes, met people his kind. look at Body Language.....even if Kimberly was real, keep her safe from him.
Mama...im really sad youre older and cant do anything for your kid, Ms Barbara
Dr. Phil definitely takes pleasure in delivering these news
no cap
As he should. It’s hilarious 🤣
For sure
The more it crushes someone and ruins their life, the better! More pain = more views & more views = more money
@@dootdoot94xo44 who’s mind was I reading?
Dr Phil’s? Or maybe I just watch his tv show and keep up with the news you A hol
@@dootdoot94xo44 it doesn’t take a mind reader to look at the facts and come to the obvious conclusion
This man needs to go onto catfish! They will find whoever is cat fishing him
Lol haha. True
Lmfaaoo
My immediate reaction was, When did Mr Phil turn to MTVs catfish?
Baaaby yes, cause Nev can help him!
Hi Mary
Just pause it at 0:49 ...her face is priceless. He is giving her a death stare and she's like "oh shyt, he really thinks I'm that person, maybe this wasn't a good idea to come here" 😂😂😂
Maybe she thought: "Well let's see who is this guy who fell in love with "me"" - but then, it's not her taste, and additionally he looks devastated by his error, not just in the mood to flirt. He lost his fantasy, his thrill, his money, everything.
Just did. Worth it. Thanks
Yeah I was kinda scarred he was going to attack her he you could tell he was about to explode - But come on man you have to be an IDIOT to give that much money to someone you have never meet.
😂
Yup. Agreed. This could end badly.
kimberley ESCOBAR!!!!! and he fell for it. LOL
In Amsterdam 😂
I can’t 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
💀😅😅😅
@@AlexandreG its a good move for a pre-selection to make sure you find gullible men who would actually send money though 😂
Moral of the story: DON'T SEND MONEY TO ANYONE YOU MEET ON THE INTERNET !!!
I think you can send any money you like just be ready to loss it all... I think I will bet a dollar win or loss.
exactly. only send money to people you know and for good reason. and never send more than you can afford to!!
That goes doubly for you simps sending money to girls with only fans
I would ask the question ”Who does that”Now we know😏 shaking my head
This woman is drop dead gorgeous
Yep agreed... beautiful inside too
Yeah she id
@Amnesiadejavu222 Jesus loves you
@Amnesiadejavu222 Just telling you
@@nitehound5264 Jesus is just a man, nothing but a righteous prophet of God. He pooped and peed after he ate, that’s something dirty God does not do, but we do it: humans, just like Jesus was
Imagine a man at his age got scammed, never believe people of the internet at all.
He is the dumb one lol
or off the internet... especially if they ask you for money ;
@@nh6central *NOT FOR AN INSTANT !*
@@m.a.1874 *So dumb he really makes Dumb & dumber look rather intelligent.*
Young enough to be his Granddaughter!! He should feel Humiliated.
She's beautiful, no wonder why her picture was used. She's gorgeous.
The way he was looking at her before he was told again that she had nothing to do with it irked me, like he was catching the person who was lying to him, dr Phil had to make it clear again that she had nothing to do with it before he calmed down, something about that guy just irked me
Lol he just wants someone to blame
"Identity theft is not a joke, Jim"
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.
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If only he watched Office more often.
And goes on impersonating everyone with wigs😂
As soon as they ask for money, that’s the time to block them. No matter how real the situation seems, never trust anyone who asks for money on the internet. It’s a scam 99% of the time.
It's either medical Bills or Amazon cards to begin with. Instant warning signs.
put your tinder on venezuela and first thing they ask is if you have paypal ^^
@@DS-od1kb I used to be on these dating sites. Whenever a woman from Ghana would make contact with me, I would always say, "Okay. what are your problems and how much money do you want me to send you through Western Union?" I knew it was a scam
I used to be a teller, and, unfortunately, we saw this kind of thing a lot with the older generation. They didn't grow up with our technology, and they're used to the general population being "trustworthy," so I did have to feel sorry for them. But it was so frustrating when they got mad and wouldn't believe us when we told them they were being scammed.
younger generation falls in NFT scams. there are scams for everyone. Young kids? Gambling scams. Young adults? Crypto and nft scams. medium adults? weight loss scams and investment scams and fake courses. older generation? love scams. everyone is covered. Oh and I wont even touch people who pretend to have illnesses just for community donations. its like each group have some scams going around for them. Tell NFT bros that NFT is a scam or a rugpull and they will tear you to pieces lol.
@@teaja211 absolutely true!
@@kaelanbradford3664 or people should use their common sense and do not send money to people that you don't know. You should never trust people that you don't know.
The look she gave the old fella was priceless 😂
I don't get why they wouldn't prep the guy beforehand. He could easily have gotten aggressive, or even violent, and he clearly still believed she was responsible for it.
@@davids3539 my feeling is 90% of it is faked for entertainment don't believe all TV shows like Dr Phil are legit
@@davids3539 He could’ve turned violent, he was shamed in public, looking at how old he is, this happened to him before! His mother gave him 20k to bring his fiancée to America! There’s something wrong with this guy!
Hehe
The producer was probably hoping he’ll get violent. Good for rating.
It's sad that is all a woman had to do is pay attention to him and he gave her $211K without even knowing her. It's hard when you have no self worth so when a beautiful woman contacts you and tells you what you need to hear is what makes you a victim. If it sounds too good to be true, then it usually is.
Deb, where did you get your knowledge from? Do you do this for a living!? 🤔
Or maybe he has too much self-worth and believes women his own age are insignificant. That's what makes these men such easy targets. They buy into the Hollywood and media fantasy that women have expiration dates but men stay virile till the grave. As long as they keep believing that, con artists will thrive.
@@Sumarluco Nah, he's just dumb. With 200k he would live like an absolute king in Thailand with a lot of smoking hot young women for many years. Instead he was stupid enough to give it away over the internet 😆
How do you wanna know it's a woman? It was just a woman identity used for the scam. Could also had been a man behind it all.
Sumarluco Very interesting, and a different way of looking at it 😊
SHES SO UNCOMFORTABLE I FEEL SO BAD FOR THIS POOR WOMAN😭😂
I was catfishes once... it’s terrible to do that to someone. They really reel you in. There are sick manipulative people out there.
She looks so nervous 😬 she real and he’s crazy if he thinks she would ever be w him. She’s gorgeous
You are saying that she's much better than him.
Better looking than him!
I love that "eeeewwww, you've gotta be kidding me" look on her face - HA!
Right !!!
@@mariec3527 *GOD ! Tell me about it........I would've walked as QUICKLY OUT as I did IN ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !*
This has been going on for many years! I out’ed my sister for doing this! Guys would call for her and if I answered the phone I would tell the guy on the other line to google a certain name and there they would find who they thought they were really talking to. I got into a huge fight with my sister for revealing! IDC. I hate when people deceive other people for profit!!!
Good for you for calling her out, and I’m sorry she has done something to harm people and your relationship with her.
We need more people like you
Turn her in to the feds
That’s good but A lot of the time, its men from Nigeria doing this.
Damn dude you are a good guy hero infact
Dude: "I hope she has $211,000 on her"
Me: "Why? She's not the one that scammed you, so she owes you NOTHING
Yup as soon as he said that I knew still did not understand what was going on. How can people who do so well in life lack such critical thinking skills that would keep them safe from situations like this.
Because it was before he knew
The power of beauty. I doubt anyone would be entertaining an average looking girl, even if she's honest and not asking for money.
👍🏾🙈🤔
@Mariska Rodriguez it’s not sad. That’s part of life. If you don’t get blessed with looks, do something else that will get peoples attention.
Beautiful people also have problems.
And no one would be pursuing that man if he didn't have 211,000 to give away
True, that's why ugly women are so jealous of beautiful women. Ugly fat women have to work 10 times as hard to make the same amount of money and achieve the same lifestyle.
The better looking a woman is, the more money the man has to spend on her.
Desperate man. Stick to women your own age, not your daughters age and MEET them first.
That fictional person (Escobar) was born in 1977...
Facts...these older man don't understand.
I'm his age, and believe me, all the women our age are either crazy, disingenuous, or fat asf.
And yeah, you're right... we are desperate.
@@NataliaMarquesa and neither do you ...
@@keithhinchcliffe5629 Are you in the best shape of your life? Is your body like that of a 30 something year old like Henry Cavill? Is your skin as tight like that of a 25, 30s or 40 year old? If you are not in the best shape of your life or looking younger why would an older man expect to be with a more youthful woman? Unless you are a millionaire and want a gold digger I cannot feel sorry. U need to stick to women your age.
Considering that this woman is a victim of identity theft this woman doesn’t actually owe this man anything and for him to say “I hope she’s got money” is quite frankly rather arrogant with him
WOW.. you didnt watch the video.
You didn’t watch the full video did you..
Typical ignorance talk about arrogance.
Ok to those who are saying he is a dumb, remember two things destroys a man: his ambition and love for women
...and the fact that he's stupid.
Ambition, i disagree love more like lust there is no such thing as love
Ego as well
It's not a love for women that got this one. Arrogance, delusion, and lust, maybe! LOL
Only one thing destroys a man: his ego
What a sweet mother ! …
Everybody give your mother a hug … nobody will ever love you like your mother
MEN WHO PAY FOR LOVE. HE DESERVES THAT. YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU TOLERATE!
Deep
It ain't love. It's lust
@@midnightstorm6986 "She" could've told him a sob story and he sent in the money to help "her". It's way too much money for it to have been just a normal "Can you give me money for some stuff?".
The script on this show is better then wwe these days
Hahah so true
wait , so its all scripted from 0-100 , all of it?
all fake
I don’t really think it’s scripted, it does not seem scripted. But idk.
This is real , this happens everyday in Nigeria 🇳🇬.
She is like a 20 out of a 10 OH MY WORD 💥💥💥
Make up works wonders......
@@dannyyo7948 Danny you cant get a woman at all ! and for sure not like this one. She is a natural lovely beauty
@@weantoine at least I dont pay my women like you do for the night. Lol
@@dannyyo7948 lmao yah it’s literally all makeup people don’t realize that 😂😂😂
yes, i agree she is a beautiful gem!..🧡💦
This happened to someone I know , they lost 😞 their entire savings. Such a shame
Simp: I have money and I will give $211,000 to a woman online that I have never seen before.
Also Simp: I want my $211,000 back.
Hahahahaha!!
Dr Phil is taking a chance. That man is Steaming Furious. He wanted to jump out of his seat with hate and attack her. I could FEEL his animosity.
YOU NEED HELP
@@joeynumbers2659 why
Nope i didn't think so. He was in shock in finding out the truth
I hear this.
Out of all Dr Phil is the best. World needs people like him to help people mentally and psychologically
As a victim of identity theft myself, I feel for all of them.
He’s embarrassed asf 😂😭
What's the old saying? "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is."
It never fails to tickle me when I see middle-age to old people in my age range who think that without millions of dollars in their pocket somebody a third their age who is young and beautiful would want anything to do with him with sort of sad pathetic delusion do they live under
What’s hilarious to me is when men cry about “gold diggers” when the whole agreement was mutually beneficial. Like in the case of Hugh Hefner. The woman gets paid and the old man gets a beautiful woman a third or fourth his age who he’d never have a chance with otherwise.
Ask sugardaddies 😂😂
i am 53. i don't have millions. i don't even drive an expensive car. beautiful young girls are after me. of course, i don't look my age and have a better body than most 20 somethings. still, not necessarily a delusion.
Yeah it's for your body. You have a nice physique. If you looked like a boiled chicken. They wouldn't care about you unfortunately. I'm 40, but I look 20, but I'm a size 12, so I don't get many suitors due to the combination of being a size 12 and my age. It's like well if you were 20 I could be ok with the size 12, or well if you were a size 4 I could be ok with your age. It's like really?! You don't even want to get to know my personality?
So??
This is a sad situation for all three of these people but really how could these people be so ignorant to send money like this to people they have never actually met? Especially these days?
You don't need a university degree to know, don't send money to someone who asks you online, on the other hand this man seems like a nice person who's just looking for love, got to feel for him.
Jesus is not the Messiah nor Sabbati Zevi. The Messiah has yet to arrive.
@@m.j.c.6969 buddy, you are on the wrong channel.
So sad that people allow themselves to be scammed in this way, to this extent.😔. You can't buy love.
Sure you can buy love. Marriage is nothing more than the most expensive form of prostitution.
Wow!!! She’s gorgeous!!! I will never understand how some people can trust someone they’ve never met!!! Mind boggling!!! You have to be desperate to have these kinds of problem. And no one to blame but yourself.
No
There is a downside to being a stunning woman with photos online...... They use those photos to scam people! Luckily I won't have that problem....
Rule number 1 - if money ever comes into the conversation of someone you've never met then it's not you they're wanting. End it immediately.
He’s the guy that falls for the your car has an extended warranty phone calls
Rule of thumb: Never fall in love with someone who is unwilling to video call you and never send them money. Even if in love, video called with them, they start milking you for money, find another who wants you for you! If you do the fiancé Visa, there is no need to send money to them, you send it to USCIS. I feel sorry for this guy, she is a beautiful woman but not the one he was talking to.
The way he stares at her give me the creeps
I'm a man and we ALWAYS think with the wrong head!!
I feel so bad for the guy he's just holding in tight poor guy. Nobody deserves this it's really messed up
Who would send someone they don't know money, especially 200k?
The fact they had to walk him through this...
And there’s a lot and lots of them like him who, even with the advices of many of their own circles of friends not to fall into a scam like this continues blind folded. It’s really an addiction somewhat that these people is unable to stop until the hit the dead end.
She is stunning😍
His money went for botox face lift tummy tuck breast implants teeth implants she looks squirrelly remember what the other commenter said she’s probably in it and took her cut! Sorry mom & stupid! Stupid is as stupid does......something like that! 🤪
@@alethastevens6151 you seem jealous 🤔
Yes I'm Takeoff Can't Stop Me Now I would agree, but I think it’s the Meth. It’s a helluva drug 🤣
People are so mean calling him an idiot. I feel so bad for him. This brought me to tears...
He didn't deserve to lose all that money, but also he shouldn't have given it all away.
Well he is an idiot really, he says he knows she's not the same person yet still staring at her like she has his money and broke his heart 😂
I agree. The person who judges don't know that these scammers are trained to con people as a profession. It's easier to always judge others when they do not face the situation themselves.
If you send money to someone online you should be aware of the risk that it could be a scam, this man has absolutely no common sense.
🙄🤔😂🤣🤣
If I was in that guy`s situation being put on the spot like that, I`d feel such a classic fool.
I don't think any woman in the world can scam me, coz I don't have money
Musse Faarah Then you’re safe!
Do you have a few bucks I can borrow for french fries?
You can see him blush throughout
The way he look at her!!happiness with tension with anger !!!
So apparently he gave so much of his money to a woman who isn't even remotely attractive. She's a 4 at best. Jesus.
I can't grasp the mentality of this dude.
Nothing complicated here. His balls r where his brain should be.
And he doesnt know that.
@@yogib668 *BULLS-EYE !*
How can this old man actually think this beauty would be in love with him!! Get a women your own age!
@John McNeil🤣
@John McNeil Very smart! I think love is a drug and that's what gets them. They get high on the endorphins!
If he was rich. Happens all the time !
That’s harsh! Why can’t he be with a beautiful woman that is younger then himself!? 🧐
X Raided because no young women would be attracted to an old man?? Why would she when she has dozens of young striking fun masculine men to choose from?
I'll never understand how someone can be dumb enough to send money to someone they don't know!!!
That old man is delusional...
She looks disgusted when she first came out and looked at him! 😆 😂
Maybe she felt uncomfortable with that poor guy but didn't want to skip the journey for free.
@@Alyssasrealm exactly
I wouldn't say she looked disgusted. I think she was just extremely uncomfortable with the stare he was giving her. He looked kind of angry while he had his finger over his mouth (which is a body language sign that means you're thinking something bad about the person but holding it back by putting your finger on your lips) because he still believed that she was the one to con him. She could read his bodylanguage and it made her very uncomfortable.
HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO DUMB SENDING MONEY TO PEOPLE WITHOUT EVEN HAVE SPOKEN WITH THEM ON CAMERA??? WWE HAVE USED WEBCAMS SINCE 2000?
Dont send money.....
She's beyond gorgeous
Damn. Being exposed as a mug AND having all ties with your crush instantly, completely and permanently severed, all on live TV in front of millions.
That awkward smile😬😬
She looked kind of disgusted when she sat down especially when dr. Phil said the women of your dreams lol
I mean how would you feel if you were introduced as "the woman of your dreams" to a complete stranger..
She looked scared and uncomfortable to me
she is so soooo beautiful.
This woman is gorgeous 😍
She is very beautiful 😍❤
What if her saying she is a victim is also part of the scam? 🤔🤔🤔 That could have been part of the scam too. It's genius.
Desparate sadness,you are competent Dr. Phil,how can you not drown in tears?
Shes thinking 'Damn, I need to send my pic to some old guys and get me $200k!'
Wow. She is absolutely stunning.
Has he looked in the mirror recently? if he had he would be 211,000 richer!
Lol the way she looked at him with disgust
Must have made his money very easy to throw it away like that, no sympathy.
WOW. What a beauty!
Plot twist:
They ended up falling in love and he blew the rest of his money on her.
LOL
😊
It's all fake.
*How much was that????????? .50c ?*
He’s on he’s arse mate. He’s lost it all since leaving the show
He’s like “I totally understand and I hope me and her can work this thing out”
When people ask for money online, have a quiet laugh and block them.
Must be desperate to fall for a woman he never met and give that amount of money. What was he thinking? The small head took over.
Dirty Old Man 😂😂😂
So sad that the mother won't get the best health care providers or home health nurses because of her son's choices.