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  • A woman comes face-to-face with her ex-boyfriend who she claims has been secretly communicating with her. What does he say about her claims?
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  • @maiamarbella9554
    @maiamarbella9554 Před 3 lety +2296

    The guy is so uncomfortable sitting beside her

    • @hothotheat3000
      @hothotheat3000 Před 3 lety +64

      Agreed. She’s the type to kill him because she’s so fixated.

    • @kurliigurlii
      @kurliigurlii Před 3 lety +64

      I'd be terrified of her, especially if I was told she drove 80,000 miles looking for me.

    • @davedailey3455
      @davedailey3455 Před 3 lety +3

      @@kurliigurlii Ya think?

    • @davedailey3455
      @davedailey3455 Před 3 lety +6

      @@hothotheat3000 Can you say psycho?

    • @downtown82
      @downtown82 Před 3 lety +4

      I feel that was a bad choice.

  • @lkpeace911
    @lkpeace911 Před 3 lety +1458

    She’s not lying, she’s delusional. She actually believes the things that she saying. Something is wrong....She needs help

    • @kimberleesara9486
      @kimberleesara9486 Před 2 lety +51

      Exactly. My sister was like this, she’s in a psychosis

    • @CJack14dt
      @CJack14dt Před 2 lety +21

      If you watch the whole episode you find out she's having a common long-time side effect of one of her meds.

    • @sarahwilson8115
      @sarahwilson8115 Před 2 lety +23

      Paranoid schizophrenia

    • @melinaesposito3434
      @melinaesposito3434 Před 2 lety +12

      That's why she is on the Dr. Phil show, she will get the professional help she needs which is way above her pay grade. The best of the best. She needs to be restored to factory settings, she's insane.

    • @babyclaws4360
      @babyclaws4360 Před 2 lety +5

      How is it that you can judge as to whether or not someone is actually experiencing what has happened or that they are suffering from paranoia?
      I had a conversation with someone on a cell phone in my upstairs bedroom that my ex knew about the following week. He had to have had some kind of spyware in my bedroom or in the cell phone that I was using. (We were not a couple at the time)
      A police officer had the audacity to write up a letter to the courts on his behalf imploring them to get a restraining against me because I was suffering from delusions.
      The only thing delusional about that is having an untrained police officer that obviously doesn't know the first thing about domestic violence.
      Until you've been there don't be so quick to judge. When you ignore someone's repeated plees for help...because YOU think she's delusional.
      You may very well be leaving her in danger.
      Times have changed and so has the faces of domestic abuse.

  • @eightosaurusspelunk1598
    @eightosaurusspelunk1598 Před 3 lety +2636

    Seems like a genuinely nice guy. He handled this very well.

    • @patriciaabbott7383
      @patriciaabbott7383 Před 3 lety +34

      So Canadian 🇨🇦

    • @bottomratmom7329
      @bottomratmom7329 Před 3 lety +73

      I feel kind of bad for him. He had to be embarrassed.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo Před 3 lety +68

      He did, and he still managed to keep a very firm boundary of distance. I hope she's stopped harassing him

    • @TheNicholle23
      @TheNicholle23 Před 3 lety +28

      He’s really nice because he keeps saying “sorry” like “I’m sorry but no I didn’t do that”. She needs help and I hope she got it

    • @mrs.d2411
      @mrs.d2411 Před 3 lety +4

      He really did

  • @teddyjam8134
    @teddyjam8134 Před 3 lety +2958

    That was so embarrassing. She stood up to greet him with a smile on her face, and got rejected on national TV.

    • @shaikharkongor7165
      @shaikharkongor7165 Před 3 lety +94

      She should have waited for that....l felt sorry for her....but the guy is okay, he looked like a nice guy

    • @kurliigurlii
      @kurliigurlii Před 3 lety +367

      It was a greater kindness. He rejected her so as to not feed into her romantic delusions. Hugging (a friendly, intimate thing) her would have simply encouraged her untrue and unhealthy beliefs about their relationship. Turning the hug down just sent a message of "I don't like you *that* much" that she desperately needed. There are times when you have to hurt someone to do right by them.

    • @mrfester42
      @mrfester42 Před 3 lety +74

      Her embarrassment, if any, is the absolute least of it.

    • @kurliigurlii
      @kurliigurlii Před 3 lety +94

      I'm also sure what he was told about her obsession with him creeped him out. I'm pretty sure I would have been terrified of her...

    • @jiminshii628
      @jiminshii628 Před 3 lety +55

      I think it was better than hugger her and her thinking it’s another sign or communication.

  • @yep.1106
    @yep.1106 Před 3 lety +1741

    The guy has been dragged on TV to prove he isn’t doing what she claims and still feels guilty and apologised... that right there is a good man trying to get by in life.

    • @lauriehamilton6246
      @lauriehamilton6246 Před 3 lety +30

      That is a true Canadian. Apologizing for everything. 😆

    • @adamburling9551
      @adamburling9551 Před 3 lety +18

      Oh please spare me the B.S. nobody dragged him on TV pal, and don't forget it. He could've just said no. And this wouldn't even be a show..do you know how many people turn down showing up that don't go through on thr show..

    • @yep.1106
      @yep.1106 Před 3 lety +19

      @@adamburling9551 it’s a figure of speech sweetheart 😂

    • @lloydrodriguez9969
      @lloydrodriguez9969 Před 3 lety +22

      @@yep.1106 Even though I agree that the guy seems to genuinely be a good person and means well, Adam Burling is correct in that the best move for most is to just not go on this show.
      Dr. Phil is known to take advantage of the sick individuals he has on his show and profit with little regard for them or their help. He uses his time more to degrade than to treat.
      There's a CZcams channel "Squirmy and Grubs" with a couple that is interabled. They were asked to do the show and thought it'd be great. Then they were told by people to think it over. They watched some episodes and realized it was more a circus show than something that would benefit interabled advocacy and education so they backed out.
      They watched the episode they were originally supposed to be part of and it was just Dr. Phil making the partner that was physically abled feel like they were a slave to the partner that was physically disabled. He made the entire episode out as if no interabled couples work despite reaching out to the CZcamsrs first (which is an obvious evidence that there are interabled couples that are in healthy rewarding relationships, because that's what the entire channel is about promoting). He just ignored that premise because he wanted a dramatic show.
      So the CZcamsrs basically said they saw firsthand that Dr. Phil's intentions aren't good and they were glad they declined. But other people will go on because it's a popular show, but they're only going to be taken advantage of. Same with actress Shelly Duvall.
      Dr. Phil isn't in the business of healing the mentally ill. He probably sees his show more like a freak show.

    • @gingerkat74
      @gingerkat74 Před 3 lety +4

      Nah....he's just Canadian..😂😂

  • @reedv16
    @reedv16 Před 3 lety +1207

    “Can I have a hug” “Nope”

    • @kurliigurlii
      @kurliigurlii Před 3 lety +126

      He didn't want to feed into her delusions.

    • @pattiferrari6213
      @pattiferrari6213 Před 3 lety +79

      He was smart not to give her a hug. Someone like her who is overly obsessed with this guy would have decided it was some kind of sign or something and blown it up in her head to mean something else entirely.

    • @keithhinchcliffe5629
      @keithhinchcliffe5629 Před 3 lety +33

      "not today" is what he said.

    • @neygonzalez9349
      @neygonzalez9349 Před 3 lety +2

      @@keithhinchcliffe5629 that guy at school who can't get the hint

    • @simonebrooks202
      @simonebrooks202 Před 3 lety +13

      It was the tears in her eyes for me...she's clearly obsessed with the guy

  • @maaeva_
    @maaeva_ Před 3 lety +682

    “there’s no guy that read my palm in Cuba”😭😭😭 I’m crying rn

    • @sharonjimenez8097
      @sharonjimenez8097 Před 2 lety +5

      🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Jay-407
      @Jay-407 Před 2 lety +3

      ⚰️⚰️⚰️

    • @kennanlukacs
      @kennanlukacs Před 2 lety +5

      I heard poem! I was so confused. I was like, what does his poem have to do with the rest of his life??

    • @DeepThinkingGPU
      @DeepThinkingGPU Před 2 lety +8

      I am the palm reader in cuba, there is a plot twist coming

    • @sweetmtnhome2617
      @sweetmtnhome2617 Před 13 dny +1

      It seems too easy. None of the things she said have happened? I have traveled many places and do not have one single 'travel stamp' on it. This whole things is weird.

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel7675 Před 3 lety +495

    This poor woman, she wanted to run into his arms and he wanted nothing to do with her. He broke up with her a long time ago and she needed to accept that.

    • @wayupsoftlyroberts8139
      @wayupsoftlyroberts8139 Před 2 lety +15

      That's what am getting

    • @bellerain381
      @bellerain381 Před 3 měsíci +4

      If this were a cartoon, at the end of that episode, there would be a speed dust cloud in Simon’s seat! He wants to leave so badly!!!

  • @DesertBluebells
    @DesertBluebells Před 3 lety +615

    I feel sorry for the lady as I can tell she is truly sick. But I feel saddest for this innocent man!

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 Před 3 lety +6

      On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless.

    • @Initium1000
      @Initium1000 Před 3 lety +8

      Why did you put the soggy bottom boys on your youtube account?

    • @NATEG01
      @NATEG01 Před 23 dny

      My mom had Schizophrenic / Psychotic episodes like this of having delusional beliefs. They are called Delusions of Reference - it's when you believe unrelated, everyday occurrences have special meaning to you. I truly feel bad for people like this. Hopefully she can get the help she needs.

  • @Lunchladydoyle
    @Lunchladydoyle Před rokem +37

    I’m so proud of him for not hugging her. That is a man who respects himself.

  • @blueturtle3623
    @blueturtle3623 Před 9 měsíci +133

    Rejecting the hug was an act of kindness, i hope people know. It would only feed into her delusions and make the whole thing harder for her. He was also protecting himself from someone who is not living in the same reality as everyone else.

  • @oldandnew1234
    @oldandnew1234 Před 3 lety +1076

    Body language... I've seen this...
    He's telling the truth..I think that troubled look he gave her... Dear God she's deluded.

    • @nonyobussiness3440
      @nonyobussiness3440 Před 3 lety +63

      Duh. There is no possibility in this reality her claims are legitimate.
      You seriously there is a possibility think he bugged her car and phone?
      He is making cryptic hidden messages in songs on the radio?
      She clearly is delusional and he is scared shitless.

    • @BlueberryMI
      @BlueberryMI Před 3 lety +17

      @@meyou245 Looks away or closes his eyes? Are you kidding me? Lol. He could be doing that because he’s VERY uncomfortable. Good lord.

    • @mike47734
      @mike47734 Před 3 lety +2

      It’s sad

    • @bottomratmom7329
      @bottomratmom7329 Před 3 lety +22

      @@meyou245 He dated her for a few years in the 90's He's not denying that.
      Then they reconnected via Facebook about 2 years before this show. but nothing came of it. He's not denying that, either.
      He's denying the crazy accusations of sending her messages by controlling her radio and I pod. And a few other crazy things.
      But he's not denying that they dated.

    • @bottomratmom7329
      @bottomratmom7329 Před 3 lety +12

      @@nonyobussiness3440 don't forget she said she knows his ex girlfriend is controlling her ipod with her mind.

  • @ashleygilliland4331
    @ashleygilliland4331 Před 3 lety +424

    He’s a genuinely honest & kind guy. He doesn’t need this. She needs to get help before it gets worse.

    • @adamburling9551
      @adamburling9551 Před 3 lety +2

      How do you know he is?

    • @adamburling9551
      @adamburling9551 Před 3 lety +6

      Anything she says that he very likely could've said, which he denies will automatically be dismissed as if she's making it all up. Lol. Nobody knows the first thing about who's telling the truth. He could just be denying it to save face just so that he doesn't have to say " yeah I did say that " but I never intended on coming back or ever keeping in touch.

    • @ashleygilliland4331
      @ashleygilliland4331 Před 3 lety +6

      @@adamburling9551 his body language. He’s clearly uncomfortable sitting beside her. I can’t say I blame him.

    • @adamburling9551
      @adamburling9551 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ashleygilliland4331 Yeah he very well could be. But guess what. That can very likely be for multiple reasons, as well as being uncomfortable by sitting next to her... and it still doesn't mean he hasn't lied or mislead.

    • @adamburling9551
      @adamburling9551 Před 3 lety +4

      @@ashleygilliland4331 You have to consider being on the show, being forced somewhat to show up... being in front of an audience etc..

  • @LGteehee
    @LGteehee Před 3 lety +525

    I feel bad for both of them. She clearly needs help and is delusional. And this man is clearly genuinely kind and doesn't want to hurt her.

    • @kathconserv
      @kathconserv Před měsícem +1

      He’s a kind man.

    • @lissfeld1
      @lissfeld1 Před měsícem +2

      @@kathconserv Seriously? I think he's a callous jerk. He could have been understanding.

    • @deannekliene2673
      @deannekliene2673 Před 20 dny +1

      He's doing what he can ...he probably saw this side on their first date n never returned ...

    • @Alanboy395
      @Alanboy395 Před 16 dny +2

      @@lissfeld1his conduct was likely strongly recommended by Dr. Phil. When you are dealing with massively delusional people like her, you can’t even give any appearance of anything that would encourage that deluded person’s feelings. He had to be VERY firm in this situation.

  • @hothotheat3000
    @hothotheat3000 Před 3 lety +1781

    She is lonely, and has talked herself into this story because she wants to feel like she is still wanted and important. She refuses to accept the truth because the truth is that she is alone and insignificant. It’s sad.

    • @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160
      @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160 Před 3 lety +54

      Its very sad and she is a pretty girl if only she can understand that there is someone out there for her

    • @scottishpaul414
      @scottishpaul414 Před 3 lety +23

      So, she's a Redditor?

    • @carolinehannah5188
      @carolinehannah5188 Před 3 lety +1

      That is best way to describe it,

    • @TransVirgin118
      @TransVirgin118 Před 3 lety +8

      That's a good take. I guess she refused to believe rejection. But her story is so wild you wonder if parts were true. Like, some people say things in a joking way others think are serious. Or, some hold what people say from intoxication as fact when really, reality is wacked. This is a interesting case.

    • @rachelxx1991
      @rachelxx1991 Před 3 lety +5

      She has erotmania.

  • @r.u.nuckinfuts7359
    @r.u.nuckinfuts7359 Před 2 lety +21

    His body language says that he is very uncomfortable .

  • @sadeatthewhip1846
    @sadeatthewhip1846 Před 3 lety +569

    This has stayed as fresh in my mind as the day I first saw it. Really one of the weirdest and saddest situations imaginable.

    • @pcam21
      @pcam21 Před 3 lety +16

      Same! And I still have so many questions about the situation.

    • @Yo_Gma
      @Yo_Gma Před 3 lety +10

      Yes! Where is the rest of the story?

    • @johnnyace2287
      @johnnyace2287 Před 3 lety +3

      So did they know each other from the past or not??

    • @jamesroboyle
      @jamesroboyle Před 3 lety +8

      @@johnnyace2287 yes , they dated in the 90s

    • @chacecrowell3638
      @chacecrowell3638 Před 3 lety +1

      Same this is the one I always remember. "You are just not that important."

  • @LauRa-re9un
    @LauRa-re9un Před 3 lety +1289

    I feel so sorry for that woman. It made me cry. Lonelyness can play horrible games on us.

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Před 3 lety +36

      Thats not loneliness

    • @heyitsbella1734
      @heyitsbella1734 Před 3 lety +22

      @@yellowdayz1800 then what is it ‘honey’

    • @fresh5959
      @fresh5959 Před 3 lety +18

      @@yellowdayz1800 right I also loved the condescending “ honey “

    • @paulasuasua6080
      @paulasuasua6080 Před 3 lety +27

      She’s not well

    • @kurliigurlii
      @kurliigurlii Před 3 lety +19

      This is something much more than loneliness. I've seen word in the comments that Dr. Phil may suggested her psychosis could be from a negative reaction to her rheumatoid arthritis medication. I didn't see the episode myself, and I didn't find more information about how this episode ended, so I'm not sure what's going on with her.

  • @SunBunz
    @SunBunz Před 3 lety +183

    He was such a gentleman, despite how uncomfortable he is. I’d scoot that chair a lot further away from her if I were in his position.

  • @familyvideovault5202
    @familyvideovault5202 Před 2 lety +54

    This man really really regrets dating her, I can tell 😂 He’s like this is the worst BS I’ve ever gotten myself into

  • @WavyFBaby
    @WavyFBaby Před 3 lety +544

    He’s definitely lying. I was there at the Battle of Gettysburg when he made all of those promises to her.

  • @yellowdayz1800
    @yellowdayz1800 Před 3 lety +120

    I would not want to be with someone who obviously does not want to be with me.

    • @Snowowl64
      @Snowowl64 Před 3 lety +11

      That's Why I Left My X Boifriend. He Didn't Want Me, He Wanted His X Wife!!! I Told Em They Could HAVE Each 0ther, And I Packed Up And Left!!!

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Před 3 lety +5

      @@Snowowl64 GOOD for you! Good riddance!

    • @KJ_PhD
      @KJ_PhD Před 2 lety +6

      Her alternative is facing the fact that she is all alone. Either way you are left unwanted & alone. Neither positions are ideal.

    • @joshuamartinez6105
      @joshuamartinez6105 Před 2 lety +3

      I been craving a subway sandwich with a vitamin water and sweet Chile doritos

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Před 2 lety +2

      @@KJ_PhD being unwanted hurts.

  • @madysenclingan4667
    @madysenclingan4667 Před 3 lety +123

    I genuinely feel sorry for her. She truly believed all of this was happening and it must have been heart breaking for her to find out none of it was real on national tv.

  • @brittanymercer1527
    @brittanymercer1527 Před 2 lety +50

    This happened to me when my psychosis first started. I really feel for both of them.

  • @dorothyfromoz6360
    @dorothyfromoz6360 Před 15 dny +3

    She seems almost harmless until she starts to get mad when he tells her no.

  • @rockydee7499
    @rockydee7499 Před 3 lety +117

    omfg. she has created her own reality to herself now that reality is what you are seing right now crumbling to pieces.

  • @james-bryannaadams6928
    @james-bryannaadams6928 Před 2 lety +56

    I like Simon…you can tell he’s just a cool dude.

  • @Yourmomsbasementt
    @Yourmomsbasementt Před 2 lety +42

    “Can I get a hug?” “Nope,not today” 💀 that’s funny

  • @asianwick153
    @asianwick153 Před 3 lety +292

    Dr.Phill needs to have a long talk with the person who is making these "Titles".

  • @imissmybed3469
    @imissmybed3469 Před 2 lety +58

    It looks like this whole thing stemmed from her inability to get over him. But she looks so calm and well-adjusted at a first glance. I hope she is getting the help she needs.

  • @jesusiruegas5956
    @jesusiruegas5956 Před 3 lety +25

    It amazes me how Dr.Phil found the guy, like wow!

  • @ironnalo3180
    @ironnalo3180 Před 3 lety +140

    You can tell he's Canadian by the way he says "sorry"🇨🇦🍁

    • @lovellrodriguez8567
      @lovellrodriguez8567 Před 3 lety +1

      Ahe

    • @doeeyes2
      @doeeyes2 Před 3 lety +1

      @Pavu Narts thats the dummest thing i ever heard. Canadians have higher average household income than Amedicans. America has way more poverty. Theres plemty of rich people. Im Canadian and have been in a limo many times.

    • @Gun5hip
      @Gun5hip Před 3 lety

      @@doeeyes2 When I was younger my school used to book limo rides as a prize for winning contests, it was one of the lesser prizes but we had fun as kids. I'm Canadian too

    • @Charlie_Kelly666
      @Charlie_Kelly666 Před 3 lety +1

      @@doeeyes2 The minimum wage is double there's $14 in Ontario

    • @harvindersihota4295
      @harvindersihota4295 Před 3 lety +3

      Don't insult us Canadians we know how to come together to attack you back

  • @MF-bl6ed
    @MF-bl6ed Před 3 lety +48

    That was the weirdest game of a 100 questions

    • @MrAgmoore
      @MrAgmoore Před 3 lety +4

      Where were you on the night of November the 6th, 1966? Maple syrup on the table before the pancakes, always before the pancakes, not after.

    • @MF-bl6ed
      @MF-bl6ed Před 3 lety +1

      @@MrAgmoore Didn't you always say Mrs. Butterworth would be your signal that you would come back?

  • @cristinereeve4002
    @cristinereeve4002 Před 2 měsíci +7

    She is living in the past and trying to reinvent him in her present life.

  • @raukawa4732
    @raukawa4732 Před 3 lety +152

    This poor women obviously needs some serious help, and I'm pretty sure using her for entertainment purposes and allowing her to make a fool of herself on tv is immoral.

    • @rnstoo1
      @rnstoo1 Před 2 lety +5

      darn right it is

    • @shrishri5029
      @shrishri5029 Před 2 lety +3

      Ikr. I feel so sorry for her. I can't imagine how confused and hurt she must be feeling.

    • @tugboat2
      @tugboat2 Před 2 lety +3

      Hey, if she can accept that she has been confused then, to me, it’s worth the embarrassment. Do you realize how paralyzing her delusion has made her?

    • @rdoodoo2021
      @rdoodoo2021 Před 2 lety +4

      It's Dr Phil's entire act. You must be new here

    • @susantully1533
      @susantully1533 Před rokem +3

      These ppl write Dr Phil and ask for his help. They want to go on national TV. I understand how some could see it as using these ppl but I don't feel it is. They sign the paperwork, even mentally unstable ppl can decide to be on TV. It also serves to shine a light on mental health. Maybe watching this will be the catalyst that drives someone to seek help for themselves or others.
      If you think this is immoral then I would love to hear your opinions on zoo's and live animal shows.

  • @amandastein6247
    @amandastein6247 Před 3 lety +27

    This guy really kept it together very well.

  • @alexwhite2377
    @alexwhite2377 Před 3 lety +55

    This guy is very classy. Has a good sense of humor, doesn’t make fun of her tho, and understands that she needs help while at the same time making the case that he has not been in contact and messing with her for years

  • @riverstone9005
    @riverstone9005 Před 2 lety +37

    When I watch shows like this I'm always reminded how lucky I am to have a sound mind.

  • @artistjoh
    @artistjoh Před 3 lety +219

    If I had to sit beside her I would have the same concerned for my own safety look on my face as he had. I had a friend who developed schizophrenia and turned a memory of a genuine friendship (but zero more) into a fictional love affair and she started stalking me. It was painful having to deal with her via the authorities, but when someone is very sick like that they can become very irrational and stab someone, or take their own life. The don’t need hugs that reinforce the obsession, but medication and time in the ward.

    • @haileym444
      @haileym444 Před 2 lety +6

      I’d hate to be in that position with a best friend, I’m sorry that happened to you. It sucks, I’ve been psychotic before too but people can recover. I believe everyone experiences delusions and mental confusion and are even in an almost psychotic state while dreaming (brain waves), but sometimes the chemicals get out of balance, and it becomes extreme and people become out of touch with reality. Just the human brain’s way of coping with severe trauma though, it’s kind of amazing. Throw in the fact that a lot of people have spiritual experiences and feel energy surges/spiritual awakenings in psychosis and it becomes even more wild. It is very confusing and distressing to someone while in psychosis. Have to make sure everyone involved is safe first of course but one of the positives you can get out of psychosis is deep insight into someone’s psyche and state of wellbeing. Breaks tend to happen right after major trauma. They are also in an altered state where subconscious material rises to be seen and dealt with.

    • @missym5196
      @missym5196 Před 2 lety +4

      I'm sorry that's hard. I've got an old bf that lurks my neighborhood on his Harley bc I was a good friend, we got close but he's nutters. I've had to call the police too.

    • @thiyaforts9235
      @thiyaforts9235 Před 2 lety +8

      I will never ever befriend or associate myself with a schizophrenic ever again. I don't feel like sharing my story because no cares really. The biggest mistake I ever made was allowing schizoeffective monster into my life. People with schizophrenia especially schizoeffective are extremely dangerous and should be avoided at all cost.

    • @soldier8424
      @soldier8424 Před 2 lety +2

      @@thiyaforts9235 i would be interested, but if you dont wanna share thats fine.

    • @GingerOMG
      @GingerOMG Před 2 lety +10

      @@thiyaforts9235 please don't create stigma because of your bad experience, everything is a spectrum of people. The stigma isolates, and there are kind people who try their best, who get affected very badly by the exclusion, judgement and hatred. Not everyone is dangerous, they just struggle and need human contact and support. But the stigma vilifies them and bring them further in to the hole.
      I'm sorry for your experience though.

  • @Teetee-kp3ph
    @Teetee-kp3ph Před 2 lety +15

    This is actually very sad. Poor lady. I hope she’s better now.

  • @guinevereinthefield176
    @guinevereinthefield176 Před 3 lety +73

    I wonder how she’s doing now.

    • @hymatwat9412
      @hymatwat9412 Před 3 lety +18

      She changed her name to Jodi arias 😏

    • @AK-ql8yp
      @AK-ql8yp Před 3 lety +4

      She looks like she has been trippin

    • @tonibauer2949
      @tonibauer2949 Před 3 lety +7

      I don’t know, but I hope she got help for her delusions.

    • @eightinches6094
      @eightinches6094 Před 3 lety +12

      She's convinced there was voter fraud in America in Nov. and that Trump was the greatest president this country has ever had.

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 Před 3 lety +2

      On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless.

  • @claytonlusby2505
    @claytonlusby2505 Před 3 lety +49

    Its actually very sad. This kind of Delusional thinking is a sickness. The horror of it is that in her mind, she believes everything she is saying happened. I don't believe she is a bad person or has any bad intentions. She is sick and needs help. My heart goes out to this lady.

    • @dusktilldawntarot9757
      @dusktilldawntarot9757 Před 3 lety +2

      Did it ever occur to you that maybe a few of the things she was questioning him about were actual things he said, but now on national tv, he denies them. Lots of men do this to women, then when the woman confronts them or reveals to others what was said and done, they deny it, and she appears as the "Crazy" one. He is obviously one of those people that tells the lady what she WANTS to hear at that moment in time with no intentions of following through in the first place

    • @rebeccajelenawang4306
      @rebeccajelenawang4306 Před 2 lety

      @@dusktilldawntarot9757 She's obviously very deluded/having mental issues & I really hope she got the help she was in need of.Who said Simon was a Saint tho'.🤷‍♀️

    • @JuMiMi86
      @JuMiMi86 Před 3 měsíci

      ​​@@dusktilldawntarot9757 they broke up 2 years prior to the show and had no contact...🤔 he's not "obviously" doing anything...he moved on...

  • @jennpostlethwaite3319
    @jennpostlethwaite3319 Před 2 lety +7

    Why subject this poor man to this crazy dangerous person

  • @davidmccaffrey3477
    @davidmccaffrey3477 Před 3 lety +20

    They got to him! Just look how nervous he is.

  • @misfiringpistons
    @misfiringpistons Před 3 lety +37

    Shes extremely delusional

  • @4everu984
    @4everu984 Před 3 lety +235

    She needs help. Let’s please be kinder as people unravel in front of our eyes.

    • @timdoomlabern
      @timdoomlabern Před 3 lety +1

      That belief is all that is going to be right for us.

    • @MzElaineMarie
      @MzElaineMarie Před 3 lety +12

      Kindness isn't going to break her delusion. Harsh reality will.

    • @bottomratmom7329
      @bottomratmom7329 Před 3 lety +7

      @@MzElaineMarie you're right. Even though the truth hurts, it's time to come back to reality.

    • @chandlerrose4545
      @chandlerrose4545 Před 3 lety +7

      @@MzElaineMarie You aren’t a doctor and have no idea what will or won’t. But that said, this person means that people in the comments are making fun of her and it isn’t right. She’s sick.

    • @andrewmhurth9845
      @andrewmhurth9845 Před 3 lety +3

      Let's not but say we did. Stop excusing people's bad behavior

  • @jamariascott7201
    @jamariascott7201 Před 2 lety +9

    Sheila: can i have a hug
    Simon : nope

  • @carolburke4359
    @carolburke4359 Před měsícem +4

    I feel more sorry for him than her. She has no right to upset his life. Her delusions will keep her from having any real remorse.

  • @nicoledemerville5111
    @nicoledemerville5111 Před 2 lety +5

    She is actually delusional. She needs medication. Poor lady

  • @juniperq4900
    @juniperq4900 Před 3 lety +20

    Imagine being in his situation. Omg so eerie..

  • @irina383
    @irina383 Před 2 lety +21

    When I have a hard time after break up I remember this episode, telling myself to work through it, do whatever you can, get every help you can not to turn into this woman. It’s scary. In reality there s a whole lot of people who can’t process their emotions and deal with reality.

    • @eustab.anas-mann9510
      @eustab.anas-mann9510 Před rokem

      This has nothing to do with not dealing with a breakup. This woman has a form of psychosis, delusion, delerium or all of the above.

  • @hymatwat9412
    @hymatwat9412 Před 3 lety +243

    She’s deluded. She’s obviously got a thing about him and won’t accept that he doesn’t want her later she changed her name to Jodi arias

  • @loanthruag6778
    @loanthruag6778 Před 3 lety +27

    It seems that this woman is filled with accusations and paranoia. Her ex boyfriend is guarded. Seems like the right thing to do with the way that she has tried to paint him into a corner.

  • @sarahlane4241
    @sarahlane4241 Před 2 lety +12

    She has schizophrenia. Poor thing. That's really just so sad. Wish her all the best.

  • @bonnyschendel4181
    @bonnyschendel4181 Před 3 lety +30

    He’s a good guy,what a shame that she can’t let go , he respected her through the whole interview and never led her on ,she clearly needs help

  • @SmartFool24
    @SmartFool24 Před 3 lety +19

    He didn’t say no to a hug because he was mean, he said it because he was scared her level of crazy is contagious.

  • @arthurneddysmith
    @arthurneddysmith Před 2 lety +7

    0:49 The audience got uncomfortable and started to boo when he refused to give her a hug. Now imagine the situation reversed and a delusional man insisting on hugging his ex-girlfriend and she refuses. How many boos do we get?

    • @arthurneddysmith
      @arthurneddysmith Před 2 lety +1

      Before the MRAs get all excited, this is not a comment on relations between the sexes. It's a comment on the fickleness of Phil's audience and how they'll happily take the side of the aggressor if it suits their feelings.

  • @lightnlove1689
    @lightnlove1689 Před 3 lety +35

    Trauma makes the brain remember things in ways that allow one to cope with things. Who knows what she went through ):

  • @ilovemypugdog
    @ilovemypugdog Před 3 lety +17

    She's not gonna let this go. Its gonna continue till she gets well

    • @queenbee3647
      @queenbee3647 Před 3 lety +2

      I noticed that as soon as the reality didnt match her fantasy, i.e. bf right there yet rejecting her, she got very ANGRY! Danger!!!

  • @GodSeesAll2023
    @GodSeesAll2023 Před 3 lety +6

    There's people in every town and village with the same problems.
    This is NOT entertainment its sick

  • @aronrhys4920
    @aronrhys4920 Před 3 lety +45

    See why he left her

    • @weltonvillegal6258
      @weltonvillegal6258 Před 3 lety +5

      Yeah he ran away.

    • @rhoonah5849
      @rhoonah5849 Před 2 lety +1

      @@weltonvillegal6258 He moved to the other side of the world to get away. That's commitment.

  • @cazmataz6579
    @cazmataz6579 Před 3 lety +71

    The previous clips of this episode gives details of how this woman has got to this point in her life. Please spare a kind thought for people who have a mental health problem. It can happen to ANYONE at ANYTIME without any warning.

    • @ArubaAysha
      @ArubaAysha Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly he's no innocent victim he led her on

    • @alanbbrady8196
      @alanbbrady8196 Před 2 lety

      @@ArubaAysha You are as nuts as she is. Get some help.

  • @Bradbull111
    @Bradbull111 Před 3 lety +67

    This is incredibly bizarre, at first it seems funny, like it's a joke. This poor lady actually believes what she is saying and that reality is totally true to her. I feel very sorry for her and I hope she got the help she needed ❤️

  • @myballsitchsomethingfierce6319

    Never entertain anyone's delusion this fella handle it right.

  • @TDog14126
    @TDog14126 Před 3 lety +24

    She said her memory is pretty solid?

    • @stanbalo
      @stanbalo Před 3 lety +3

      Solid bec she created those memories herself in her mind.

  • @246trixie
    @246trixie Před měsícem +2

    This person needs to go into an institution because she is clearly out of touch with reality

  • @JMSONE
    @JMSONE Před 3 lety +22

    DAMN the NO HUG was ICE COLD.
    She really thought he would hug her.
    Even the other people on stage was like "good move"

    • @PostcardCathy
      @PostcardCathy Před 3 lety +9

      And he played it perfectly. To have done it any differently would have just fed into her delusions.

    • @Snowowl64
      @Snowowl64 Před 3 lety +1

      I Thought It Was HILARIOUS!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @RHBR01
    @RHBR01 Před rokem +3

    The audience did not need to "oooh" like that. He doesn't owe her a hug and it shouldn't be perceived as a jab or a clapback at her that he didn't want to give her one.

  • @santcano
    @santcano Před 2 lety +6

    Ooof, that last part of him saying sorry was so sincere and sad

    • @tessa7778
      @tessa7778 Před měsícem +1

      Yeah I literally said “Aww” about that part right before I read your comment

  • @Lesley246
    @Lesley246 Před 3 lety +45

    It’s crazy that in this day and age we are allowed to exploit people like this for TV.

    • @sara-po3re
      @sara-po3re Před 3 lety +8

      i know. there’s no reason for dr phil to have an audience or televise any of this. he does not care about his guests at all. it makes me sick.

    • @Lesley246
      @Lesley246 Před 3 lety +1

      She’s clearly not in her right mind, that’s the point.

    • @rdoodoo2021
      @rdoodoo2021 Před 2 lety +1

      It's the modern version of the old sideshow freaks. We can't stare at them anymore, so now we use the mentally ill for entertainment. (I mean, I'm guilty of it, I'm here after all.)

  • @mikelee8243
    @mikelee8243 Před 3 lety +8

    Schizophrenia..

  • @tanithjackson8686
    @tanithjackson8686 Před 3 lety +33

    I wonder how this show ended. Did she accept help from Dr. Phil? I felt bad for Simon. He was obviously very uncomfortable being around her.

  • @ElectricShark
    @ElectricShark Před 2 lety +5

    Poor woman is schizophrenic. This made me cry. I feel so heartbroken for her. She is suffering so much. I want her to get help. Poor thing.

  • @luxvella1598
    @luxvella1598 Před 3 lety +30

    That lady has "crazy" eyes. The kind that will stand by your bed in the dark and watch you sleep.

  • @senianns9522
    @senianns9522 Před 2 lety +3

    In Australia the expression is 'As crazy as a cut snake'!

  • @yasmine5737
    @yasmine5737 Před 2 lety +4

    He did the right thing by refusing to hug her, she needed to wake up and its for her own good.

  • @veteranbroad8802
    @veteranbroad8802 Před 7 dny

    Best face-crack EVUH!! 😂😅, him saying NO, was everything!!

  • @vickih5615
    @vickih5615 Před 2 lety

    Genuinely kind, nice man! He handled the situation well.

  • @callofdutycrazyfreak
    @callofdutycrazyfreak Před 3 lety +47

    Plot twist: He actually was talking to her through the radio, and he’s been GASLIGHTING her the entire time

  • @LLOOYYYDD
    @LLOOYYYDD Před 3 lety +142

    *if you watch the whole show they give a good explanation behind her behavior. Nonetheless I hope she got the help she needed. And kudos to the guy, he was obviously annoyed but handled it pretty well*

    • @nutritiousinsecticide925
      @nutritiousinsecticide925 Před 3 lety +14

      is she schizophrenic

    • @Riviwriter
      @Riviwriter Před 3 lety +19

      Yeah later on dr Phil mentions that it was difficult to track him down, leading me to believe he’s off the grid or at the very least not wanting to be tracked down and placed on a reality show

    • @hothotheat3000
      @hothotheat3000 Před 3 lety +34

      He probably got off social media because he has a loony ex who is a clear danger to him. I would do the same thing to protect myself.

    • @nonyobussiness3440
      @nonyobussiness3440 Před 3 lety +13

      @@hothotheat3000 I feel so bad for him. I dated a weird girl like that. The nightmares, phone blowing up. Awful. The fear she would randomly show up at my family’s house. Worst part it’s never a serious relationship it’s a fling or causal dating that results in this.

    • @donnahollywood8007
      @donnahollywood8007 Před 3 lety +13

      Where can I view the whole episode?

  • @amberv2012
    @amberv2012 Před 3 lety +5

    "No ugh im pretty much good"🤣he looks so uncomfy

  • @peterolbrisch1653
    @peterolbrisch1653 Před 3 lety +32

    This woman believes in palmistry? That's a problem right there.

    • @vegandemon3259
      @vegandemon3259 Před 2 lety +4

      The problem is not palmistry. It’s her brain.

    • @garyholt4445
      @garyholt4445 Před 2 lety +1

      I had a girlfriend a couple of years ago. We seemed to be getting on well until one day she went to see a fortune teller ($100 for an hour consultation, her money not mine), and the fortune teller told her she was with the wrong guy. Three days later she dumped me.

    • @sharonjimenez8097
      @sharonjimenez8097 Před 2 lety +1

      @@garyholt4445 welp...probably her loss any way

  • @erin8492
    @erin8492 Před 3 lety +18

    I feel so sorry for this woman.... I can't imagine being that out there. Hope she can have something good

  • @davidlittrell7465
    @davidlittrell7465 Před 3 lety +9

    She wants something that's not there.

    • @KJ_PhD
      @KJ_PhD Před 2 lety +1

      I feel sorry for her

  • @pietropodesta1303
    @pietropodesta1303 Před 3 lety +11

    She is sooo delusional

  • @julieallen1386
    @julieallen1386 Před 2 lety +10

    This type of illness is a terrible thing she truly believes what she is saying so she is comfortable with what she is saying..When you are on the receiving end of it it's a terrifying experience..

  • @kandikane2633
    @kandikane2633 Před 3 lety +10

    The woman clearly has issues and they're laughing at her.

  • @MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis

    It’s sad how she let herself believe that. It’s sad how at the end- the hen the thing about the limousine came up. I wonder if he said that messing around or something, it was so insignificant he doesn’t remember. But she latched into a few words, really believed them, remembered them, and she thought he was absolutely serious. It sounds like maybe for him it was just a fling but for her, she pinned her entire life on just a few meaningless words.

  • @YY-ei1gm
    @YY-ei1gm Před 2 lety +1

    I feel so sorry for these people that disconnect. It’s so sad. People are so fragile.

  • @alexkaplan1368
    @alexkaplan1368 Před 3 lety +8

    I think she needs help. There's no need to poke fun at her. I think she's making it all up in her mind.

  • @kelleyjohnson5157
    @kelleyjohnson5157 Před 3 lety +6

    She's clearly not over the relationship

  • @julieharrison5772
    @julieharrison5772 Před 3 lety +1

    Yikes!!! Crazy!!!!

  • @lushX1
    @lushX1 Před 2 lety +7

    I really hope she gets the help she needs.

  • @AntajuanGrady
    @AntajuanGrady Před 2 lety +3

    this reminds me of Carly Simon's your so vain LOL

  • @guineapig4701
    @guineapig4701 Před 3 lety +6

    Dr Phil should've stepped in and stopped her from badgering that poor man. If I were him I would've just ignored her.

  • @elizabethkoster4788
    @elizabethkoster4788 Před 3 lety +19

    Dr. Phil just looks so done😅

  • @nicolii7321
    @nicolii7321 Před 2 lety +1

    This lady reminds me of my mother in law. She always acts super nice so you drop your guard and she wins.

  • @justcallmejessz3712
    @justcallmejessz3712 Před 3 lety +26

    Wouldn't it have been much more fun if he had come out and said, yep! She was absolutely right. I did all that. LoL

  • @thailah2392
    @thailah2392 Před 3 lety +3

    The way he points his finger.
    😔 yes Dr Phil.

  • @Frenchylikeshikes
    @Frenchylikeshikes Před 2 lety

    Entering my Sunday Dr Phil's rabbit hole.