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Komentáře • 133

  • @alwayshavingfunwithkids5467

    Hi Victor! This is Toni from Santa Barbara! You are an invaluable coach/teacher. I am a 44 yr. old recovering codependent and a child of an alcoholic mom. I am so grateful for the unique way you explained how my guilt was being magnified so my divine self can correct the ego. Keep pushing those good vibrations!! May your day be full of magic!

  • @grandpa58
    @grandpa58 Před 7 lety +1

    I love the image of "growing" negative feelings. It's very apt.

  • @mimimad324
    @mimimad324 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you, Victor! Yes, this resonates with me. I swear these types of thoughts of "Why am I feeling guilty about bad decisions of my past?" was going through my head. This really helped me!

  • @gonzoman66adventures27
    @gonzoman66adventures27 Před 7 lety +2

    I find you videos helpful for people and a good way for you to self check. Self analyzing. keep up the good work.

  • @stellasshadow2766
    @stellasshadow2766 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you for making this video. I do this more often than not. It can be so exhausting and discouraging. Again thank you. So very happy I'm not alone in this. Namaste

  • @lordgaga2009
    @lordgaga2009 Před 7 lety

    You smile when talking about your children and a whole different guy flashed across the screen. Your children mean the world to you and now I know that you are the soul I had hoped you'd be. Right on Victor! You got me.

  • @sarahsankey5460
    @sarahsankey5460 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you victor 💖 u are awesome and very real 💖words of wisdom 💖

  • @christinaralston3646
    @christinaralston3646 Před 7 lety +1

    Extremely helpful tips as always! Thank you for taking the time to do this for all of us, hearing this sort of thing from others who are going through it is very helpful for those who feel all alone on their own journeys.

  • @danygilbert6603
    @danygilbert6603 Před 7 lety +1

    thank you Victor...Have an awesome day with your amazing Lightworker work and nice family..me doing my best hehehe... Namaste..

  • @kristennurse6543
    @kristennurse6543 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank You

  • @wildfire8737
    @wildfire8737 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for this perception extremely grateful for this connection! Namaste ☆

  • @kokkales1
    @kokkales1 Před 7 lety +1

    Fell out of my routine today. Ate real shitty sugary food to start my day and made me feel like crap. I have a journal to remind myself to forgive myself and love myself but I was still in a funk...low and behold I stumble on this video. Thank you god/universe/souls/spirits and you victor since this was perfect timing! Love you all!

  • @katherineearplightworker2515

    Fantastic message wishing you and your lovely family a wonderful day LOVE and LIGHT to ALL your mess are inspirational

  • @MsMelmike
    @MsMelmike Před 7 lety +1

    Amazing as ever... Thanks for using your personal stories. It means a lot more and is so much less abstract than in some teachings. x

  • @sunshineherselman5066
    @sunshineherselman5066 Před 7 lety +3

    I had that day today Vic, good sync vid, you are incredibly helpful. I resonate easily with some of your experiences =D Keep up the momentum.

  • @jdawggg6650
    @jdawggg6650 Před 7 lety +2

    Dude you're like channeling how I'm feeling with every video. Crazy feeling guilty because I haven't found a job yet after 3 years of spiritual awakening and growth, trying to get back into the working life. Feel like my life has gone backwards.

  • @HolisticHealthatHome
    @HolisticHealthatHome Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Victor, I just found your channel and cannot thank you enough for putting these videos out there. I've been struggling with so many feelings of guilt and inner unease lately. At times I feel trapped. Please keep sharing these messages.

  • @henryk1262
    @henryk1262 Před 7 lety

    Perfect timing, as always. Thank you!

  • @ursbhasker
    @ursbhasker Před 7 lety +2

    came on perfect time... thx a lot...

  • @msj5807
    @msj5807 Před 6 lety

    *EVERY MORNING* SINCE I FOUND YOU.
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR CHANNEL AND YOUR INSIGHT♡

  • @americanhobbymomma6065

    I dont comment ever on these. I just want to say ty for sharing your journey. I hid in my Christian home my visions. The spirits. Bipolar diagnosed at 17 to be drugged. When I was 24 I awoke to accountability to my actions and ideas. Seeking no 9 to 5 after a divorce to become the main bread winner. Trauma after trauma from early on I also got a bachelors in Psychology. Trying to understand "me". I've been medicine free for over 5 years. I just decided to fight for my recovery. I resonate with your videos. Like we went through it together. That has never happened before. Ty because I really appreciate the guidance and transparency. Say hello to your beuatiful wife and Merry Christmas Sir!

  • @kirstiehill7245
    @kirstiehill7245 Před 7 lety +2

    you blew my mind

  • @christinaarger3742
    @christinaarger3742 Před 7 lety

    Thank you! Your videos have helped me better understanding of myself!✌🏼

  • @NorthernGem88
    @NorthernGem88 Před 7 lety

    Wow. This video helped me so much. I have been losing patience too quickly with my son but I really appreciate your encouragement here and I am definitely feeling more confident in the strong, loving self that I know I am ✌❤

  • @candygirl6193
    @candygirl6193 Před 7 lety

    Listen to your vids everyday And they are very calming......thank you so much 😊😊

  •  Před 7 lety

    i gonna pray for you to have one bigger... everything i pray become reality !!! you deserve it ..you and your family

  • @allydee9536
    @allydee9536 Před 7 lety

    Thank you Victor!

  • @roslynivas4127
    @roslynivas4127 Před 7 lety

    I actually cried when I saw this video. So like what's happening in my life. Ending made me feel better. Thankyou Victor

  • @craigbailey624
    @craigbailey624 Před 7 lety

    getting caught up in negative malfunction i completely understand it happens and you have just got to do your best to rectify the situation and move froward every relationship has its ups and downs BRILLIANT WORK VIC
    PEACE RESPECT

  • @anneschneider8984
    @anneschneider8984 Před 7 lety

    Very helpful! Thank you, Victor! 🙏🏽

  • @jackieperdomo4532
    @jackieperdomo4532 Před 7 lety

    YES thank you for explaining it is didn't know what it was I felt like I was going backwards. but is part of the process to overcome it. thank you.

  • @cecilyt006
    @cecilyt006 Před 7 lety

    Again, Thank You Victor.

  • @catherinecarnation4335

    Thank you Victor

  • @erikb6794
    @erikb6794 Před 7 lety

    merci, Namaste

  • @windowcleaningalchemy2853

    Victor your so right. It seems like we learned to obsess about events instead of let go of them. Perhaps this is part of the seething cauldron we are transforming in Alchemy. Living in such a small place would be most difficult for anyone.

  • @annemariecousineau1826

    thank you Victor! It speaks to me a lot with my son who is 4...Peace

  • @lindalouisedumais982
    @lindalouisedumais982 Před 7 lety

    You made this video right on time for me! I send you lots of love! Big thanks!

  • @jamescrossley4028
    @jamescrossley4028 Před 7 lety

    I think about this all the time!! I think fear and then guilt are the 2 most negative human disease's. I gotta say brother, you and I are lined up and in sync. I'm 37 I live in Philly, I've got a family, and I'm a service connected disabled vet, I'm also now awake for about 2 years, and all those things I said to describe me, are not me. And THAT is the biggest realization I've ever had during my awakening.

  • @tylerridgway6333
    @tylerridgway6333 Před 6 lety

    Love your videos Victor. Thank you for helping.

  • @deanmazza1116
    @deanmazza1116 Před 7 lety

    Thank you.. Your awsome. Much love

  • @caminodelcorazon3283
    @caminodelcorazon3283 Před 7 lety

    This video is great help for me in a particular situation that i just had.. just about an hour ago.. wow .. synchronicity Thanx so much Victor

  • @Jzs20
    @Jzs20 Před 7 lety +1

    This video is me. 100%
    Your channel speaks to me bro. Thanks for creating these videos. I look forward to 'em

  • @petersmith425_
    @petersmith425_ Před 7 lety +2

    Hey man, I just got into your videos a few weeks ago. Gotta say this one really hit home for some stuff that has happened the last 24hrs. Funny how that works huh? :) Many thanks for your vids and perspective, but especially your honesty/humbleness. As a seeker, husband, and dad, I can very strongly relate to your experiences. Best wishes.

  • @karinunfer9382
    @karinunfer9382 Před 7 lety

    Love your work and your energy. Thanx a lot! :)

  • @careydoriswidman872
    @careydoriswidman872 Před 7 lety

    I had an experience this week which opened my eyes to my ego aka lower vibration behavior. People trying to provoke me at work and me falling into the trap of reacting and feeling guilty that I let myself get caught up in the madness. It's not worth it to me especially psychologically but on all levels. By the time I returned home I was spent from the day and I also gave blood so I was feeling extra tired on top of that. Thanks for your helpful insights Victor. They always seem to resonate with me. It's nice to know others who are going through their own ascension process. I am grateful for the sharing. BTW, I love Arizona especially Sedona and Tucson.

  • @CHIKaur1111
    @CHIKaur1111 Před 7 lety

    thank you for putting this up , Victor . i felt guilty cause i couldn't figure out fast enough what was going on , when i had a dark night of the soul. i still dont, but working my way.... and growing.

  • @anthonygutierrez9748
    @anthonygutierrez9748 Před 7 lety

    Hay, great info victor, thanks for sharing that with us. Keep up the great work!.

  • @pattycake5643
    @pattycake5643 Před 7 lety

    thank you.

  • @satchitananda1820
    @satchitananda1820 Před 7 lety

    So much synchronicity. I had this video open yesterday but didnt watch it but yesterday I was thinking I need to stop reacting negatively toward my mother as it has become a habit for far too many years. Just anything she says or does would cause me to react. I need to stop reacting and breath and respond in a normal way and I will transcend this behavior alltogether. I subbed a few days ago and thank you for what you are doing, you amazing loving soul :)

  • @crispdays3686
    @crispdays3686 Před 7 lety

    thanks alot, god bless

  • @projectattraction1363
    @projectattraction1363 Před 6 lety

    Great video Vic, I love your raw honesty and personal experiences. It’s hard to put our faults out there, especially as a CZcams authority figure. Props to you for having the balls to show your imperfections to inspire others. Keep going. -RR

  • @MegGreenlee
    @MegGreenlee Před 7 lety

    perfect timing for me on this video!!!!! Thanks, vic :) awesome as always.

  • @rajvimittal3753
    @rajvimittal3753 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this 🥺❤

  • @tarakathrine5292
    @tarakathrine5292 Před 7 lety

    Vic i think you are amazing. Thank you so much so✨

  • @tarakathrine5292
    @tarakathrine5292 Před 7 lety

    And eloquently said 💜

  • @Dan-qp1el
    @Dan-qp1el Před 7 lety

    Thank you Victor.....this all resonated with me. I kick the hell out of myself until my feelings toward others are affected in a bad way.....its such a destructive cycle and it cost me my marriage.....now I'm picking up the pieces....its hard.

  • @ilonahough
    @ilonahough Před 7 lety

    Namaste

  • @SlackMagi
    @SlackMagi Před 7 lety

    Good video man. Thanks for putting this out.

  • @JK-ek5jv
    @JK-ek5jv Před 6 lety

    I love how timely these videos are...this one just showed up on my feed. I reacted to my son this past week and have felt really bad about it since. Thanks for offering a different take on it. I like the idea that one big blow up means that I make changes swiftly so I don't just act like an asshole forever.😂. Phew! I definitely judge myself harshly with this because I think that I "should" be past some of this stuff of the ego. You nailed my feelings. Thanks for putting them into such easy to understand words.

  • @tano3515
    @tano3515 Před 7 lety +8

    Wow it's uncanny how your videos show up right at the time when I'm dealing with what you're talking about. Just over the past few days, I've been struggling with guilt over past actions and behaviors. Comparing myself now to the old me is just shocking; I can't believe how disconnected I was. It's eating me up inside lately.

  • @Nomantras
    @Nomantras Před 7 lety

    You are one wise guy

  • @whiterabbitwellbeing4716

    Hey dude..
    As usual its like you are talking directly to me about my life...
    I was feeling super guilt about my habit of blaming others when things dont go to plan...
    Awareness is sometimes a heavy burden when examining my own behaviour.
    I was lituraly at the point of giving up on following my path as a light worker, then you threw my the lifeline of this video. Thank you dude, keep up the fantastic work and keep throwing them lifelines..
    Namaste

  • @mikebasil4832
    @mikebasil4832 Před 7 lety +15

    Guilt is a learning experience and our learning experiences are growth. Thanks, Victor. Namaste.

  • @paulpiper3588
    @paulpiper3588 Před 5 lety

    Yes. That's exactly what's going on. The Universe is slamming me almost into homelessness and making me react in a negative way. I just don't know how to get unstuck. I have been sleeping in my car a lot and am becoming a recluse. Having thoughts of moving to the woods and living in a Van. I have quite smoking but now am smoking again. This has been going on for a very long time. Not sure what to do anymore.
    Thank you for the Great messages. Peace Love and Prosperity to you.

  • @alexanderwollgarten8157

    Thanks, helps a lot! Realized that i am mainly in that guilty state. Its very hindering. Nobody is perfect :-)

  • @BrandiEckert
    @BrandiEckert Před 7 lety +2

    OH MAN, Victor....I must say that going through my awakening with older kids DEF. has advantages! I felt guilty about something the entire time my kids were little....damned if i did and damned if i didn't. I used to stew in it...proclaim it, accept it and yes, GROW IT. It DOES seem as though the world conspires against me on days now, though...lol...probably does. I will even get snarky with my Guides..... like "OH YEAH? ONE OF THOSE DAYS, HUH? WELL, THANKS ALOT!"....LOL. When I first learned what a huge block guilt can be was at the time when i had changed my diet, I had been meditating regularly for close to 5 years, and I was stuck...nothing was happening, and I wanted soooo badly to have an experience....ANY EXPERIENCE. Looking back, I had an experience alright, just not the one I had pictured. Instead of bursting through the veil, I slowly tore through a wall of guilt, one block at a time, thousands of tears, and too many hurtful memories to process at once, and I was met by my inner child standing there, saying "It's ok, I still love you.". I HAVE guilt now, but I am learning to PROCESS IT and talk myself through it, just like I would talk to a child in pain. Something tells me those kids would have no other Dad if you gave them a choice and honestly....I would bet the same is true with your wife, but you know all that! RESONATE? YOU BET! Some days I miss so terribly my kids being little....some days, i think about that confined space, and am glad they all come once a month for taco/game night! Much love...thank you as always for being so willing to share! ~♡~

  • @vegansintonada4436
    @vegansintonada4436 Před 7 lety

    This is where I am at now, the guilt feeling of always scolding my little girl and saying things kinda painful to her and I do feel guilty of why did I say that to her and punish her by ignoring her.. and now I understand.. Thanks Victor !

  • @catarinasundvall8540
    @catarinasundvall8540 Před 7 lety

    YES, It will help me on the yerney, And as you say , it really sometimes happends so fast, And the best of all I`v learn from it to, like OK? Not again-move on...THANKS!!

  • @lisacaswell6063
    @lisacaswell6063 Před 7 lety +5

    Yes its an unfortunate part of awakening. And it hits when we no longer can escape it. We have to face it feel it and deal with it.....

  • @rcuchyahoocom
    @rcuchyahoocom Před 7 lety +7

    Every waking and breathing moment is an exercise. Life hands us the situations we need to work on and practice to become the being we are intended to be. See everything as that...before acting on the impulsive reaction...ask yourself what does life want from you in the situation instead of asking what you want. It takes time and practice but more and more...well, don't believe me...have a look.

  • @moonface_alpha
    @moonface_alpha Před 7 lety

    Hi there mate. I like to say Thank you for your videos they are great. The thing that turn my symptoms around was the day I became aware of my thoughts. I was thinking symptoms and getting more of the same. I was thinking what I did not want instead of thinking what I want. I put in to my heard I want my life to be this way and then it became that way if you know what I mean. Think what you want and not what you do not. As if you think what you don't want you will manifest it in you live.

  • @pkay5982
    @pkay5982 Před 7 lety +6

    Divine timing yet again!

  • @mistumukherjee
    @mistumukherjee Před 7 lety +7

    Surprising! Today was my guilty day! Missed meditation, ate too much! Felt negative!

  • @blumystery8828
    @blumystery8828 Před 7 lety +1

    Learning (know) thyself. Ha, ha... YES, the psyche and the term gas-lighting comes to mind. We have to learn from this self sabotage. What it is and how we allow it from ourselves and others.🤔

  • @alsouanarus631
    @alsouanarus631 Před 7 lety

    That bush behind you, moving because of the wind...already saw it somewhere, not just in your previous videos lol...somewhere way before..in my reality...noticed it and it felt familiar

  • @alsdean
    @alsdean Před 7 lety

    Haha, needed that video half a year ago, it was like guilt was the only reason for my awakening... don't take me too seriously it's just funny how I discovered this for myself just a few weeks ago;) like sth or someone wanted me to get to this one on my own and it really was the major issue of my dark night of the soul! keep the good work up victor, you're really appreciated! :)

  • @xxuncexx
    @xxuncexx Před 7 lety

    Yeah while man and woman are equal, the man is literally like the head of a family. The way you feel and behave reflects upon everyone and makes them feel the same. Be careful with that. Glad you realized it and are taking action to better yourself. Stay humble. Stay hungry. Godspeed

  • @grabbabmasteryourmind4562

    really what i needed to hear bro trans alots

  • @heathersfullcatastrophe
    @heathersfullcatastrophe Před 7 lety +4

    Thank you! Once again I feel so validated listening to you.

  • @shiningwaterss4496
    @shiningwaterss4496 Před 7 lety +7

    The universes loves you and so do I.

  • @yohami
    @yohami Před 7 lety

    "horrible person, suck" is not guilt, but shame. Bad feelings based on 'being' is shame. Guilt is the bad feeling for the bad repercussions of something you did.

  • @zethkingi5300
    @zethkingi5300 Před 7 lety

    my brother.

  •  Před 7 lety

    now i got your attention

  • @gear14
    @gear14 Před 7 lety +4

    Preach on man, I sense you and I, are not so different, and you really go through the similar psychological issues, just amazes me that this is really happening, I also sort of destroyed my stability when I was waking up, got so many upset with me and lost many opportunities but I would never trade my awakening for the life I used to have prior to it, I really appreciate your videos man, keep up the good work 🙂

  • @lexbreal
    @lexbreal Před 7 lety +4

    💚💜💚Straight up integrity.. and those are the moments most parents gloss over.. great to see you address these very real moments and feelings. ✌💜💚💜

  • @samanthafreda9287
    @samanthafreda9287 Před 7 lety

    Yesssssss 🙏🏻

  • @helensmith4126
    @helensmith4126 Před 7 lety +6

    Thanks Victor, perfect timing for me for this video

  • @nilshachmann9480
    @nilshachmann9480 Před 7 lety +1

    Victor: who is it that judges the ego? ......right.......its hunting its own tail.......

  • @kellsmum1
    @kellsmum1 Před 7 lety

    Your wife sounds awesome too! It would be great to introduce her. Maybe do a video with you sometime?

  • @slyman190
    @slyman190 Před 7 lety

    I feel that I've over extended my stay at my grandmother's place but for the moment, I'm waiting here for someone to give back the money they borrowed.

  • @lunarmoods7770
    @lunarmoods7770 Před 7 lety +2

    Thank you Victor. This happened to me last week. And I still feel guilty about it.Thank you for your videos, you make my days bright and cheerful.

  • @clairewalsh5306
    @clairewalsh5306 Před 7 lety

    Also and maybe we can practice noticing how often we get it "right" - and that is why so noticeable and uncomfortable when we feel "mean" or selfish. Children forgive so easily.

  • @kingofswordsaquarius4036
    @kingofswordsaquarius4036 Před 7 lety +6

    Love your vids vic and watch them everyday, and again thanks

  • @chiptrippyfox6106
    @chiptrippyfox6106 Před 7 lety +2

    The last 3 days or so you've released the PERFECT videos for me.
    I feel a very strong resonance with what you're doing here on youtube for us Awakening folk. I've even become inspired to start telling my own story; for my own benifit/records and for anyone else who might resonate with me as well.
    Thank you for doing you!

  • @FaithFluro
    @FaithFluro Před 7 lety

    Yes, I resonate with this. Guilt and then victimhood. I'm trying to no longer be a victim by taking responsibility and practising forgiveness, but as I do this, I'm noticing a lot of other people who have this really deep-seated victimhood or Martyr complex. I think empaths are pretty liable to force martyrdom on themselves because we don't always want to shake up things, addressing them and perhaps have a painful/awkward address about a real flaw and hurtful thing they're doing.

  • @WakeUpUniverse66
    @WakeUpUniverse66 Před 7 lety +3

    AWESOME VIDEO VIC!!

  • @Elvan.Productions
    @Elvan.Productions Před 5 lety

    “Whatever you resist, persists”. Be careful of this reverse law of attraction. Feeling guilty is like saying “ I don’t want this thing to happen again” by that you create a new wave of emotions and thoughts that goes out of the universe to create a similar situation for you and you end up yelling at your kids again because you created it. You need to transcend the guilt n all negative feelings n don’t invest in them emotionally too much. We are all human n your spiritual transition from caterpillar to butterfly surrounded by a world full of sleep caterpillars and living in a camp away from the rest of the world is affecting your mood. I resonate with you and I’m in the same situation n I get agitated n sometimes I take it on my puppy n yell at it n feel guilty n the cycles goes on again. We need to find a way out of the cycle. We are gonna make it buddy hopefully. Just keep it up coz I learn a lot from you. I’ll join CZcams today n start making videos thanks to your inspiration. I love you victor and keep it up my friend :)

  • @Yamatheebeauty
    @Yamatheebeauty Před 5 lety

    Definitely feel constantly provoked, frustrating

  • @JoysEternal
    @JoysEternal Před 5 lety

    I did this last week and was so surprised at myself, but it sure felt good while I was bitching it out. 🤣😅😂 Of course I apologized for hurting feelings and the way I said it. 😣😖😔

  • @Elvan.Productions
    @Elvan.Productions Před 5 lety

    Watch a video titled “ the importance of breakdown” from school of life channel. It also give rational understanding of our breakdowns. Cheers