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  • @vandaken3612
    @vandaken3612 Před rokem +2404

    I remember once i had broken up with a girl that wouldn't leave me alone. I walked into work and yelled "all women are crazy" and one of my co workers looked me dead in the eyes and said "Please don't blame all of us women just because YOU attract all the crazy one". That statement lived rent free in my head for a long time

    • @elizabethcrossley6853
      @elizabethcrossley6853 Před rokem +237

      If your ex is crazy.... Sometimes you need to ask yourself if YOU are the problem and if you fucked with them too much.

    • @smurfsup8434
      @smurfsup8434 Před rokem +25

      We're all mental!

    • @PandaMonium92827
      @PandaMonium92827 Před rokem

      As it should. There be crazy men out there who try to kill us because we told them NO. Women aren't the problem because you have low standards.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem

      If you are in the USA know that women in the USA consume over 20% of the psychotropic drugs manufactured, worldwide each year, but only account for like 3.4% of the world population. More than likely, the woman who responded to you, was nuttier than squirrel poop.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem +135

      @@elizabethcrossley6853 sometimes, if someone is being victimized, you shouldn't blame the victim.

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před rokem +2803

    Inviting the cheating boyfriend to a family dinner and kicking him out with a speech is a masterclass in petty . Be petty not crazy . We want to end up in Charlotte's videos the right way . 😁

    • @Sage3356
      @Sage3356 Před rokem +11

      Yeah, Just wait untill he sues the girl for sharing private pics of himself to everyone without his consent, be Petty not Crazy, you are damn right

    • @theresathompson7651
      @theresathompson7651 Před rokem +43

      Dude bringing down his bags…👩‍🍳💋

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 Před rokem +52

      @@Sage3356 She said they saw the screenshots and pictures, not that she sent them to everyone. And for that to happen, she would have to post explicit photos of him online. It would have to damage his reputation in some way.

    • @Sage3356
      @Sage3356 Před rokem +6

      @@Pumpkin0_0 oh damn im stupid, lmao

    • @JonJon-wf5yj
      @JonJon-wf5yj Před rokem +9

      Then he is living rent free in your head and you are the loser, best thing to do is completely forget him/her and move on that will be the biggest thing that pisses them off.

  • @KM-rd6qn
    @KM-rd6qn Před rokem +1329

    When my husband and I start planning our wedding, my sister told us to get a security code for all booking. I thought it was weird because my sister had no problems with anyone trying to cancel stuff but she was really adamant about it. So we did and people even asked if we had someone they needed to look out for. We said no but still wanted the extra security. Turns out we needed it. My husbands sister tried to cancel the food, DJ, and videography a week before the wedding. She didn’t know she needed a security code to cancel. What was the reason? She thought her friend who’s had a crush on my husband for over 20 years should be with him and not me.
    She wasn’t allowed at the wedding……
    I don’t know how my brothers did it but all three of them and a huge group of their friends all got dressed up and play secret service at our wedding. They even got sunglasses, fake headsets and walkie-talkies.
    Super sweet and fun.

    • @xiakexin
      @xiakexin Před rokem +28

      She wasn't aloud? .... you mean....allowed? 😅 But good for you for ousting crazy SIL.

    • @KM-rd6qn
      @KM-rd6qn Před rokem +53

      @@xiakexin I fixed it. I obviously cannot spell or do proper English this week lol

    • @NoName-it4uu
      @NoName-it4uu Před rokem +127

      Your brothers didn't just made the wedding safe, they made it cooler. Feeling like being a VIP at your wedding.

    • @maidofthemisty
      @maidofthemisty Před rokem +45

      How did your sister know! Was it intuition or did she have drinks with your SIL?

    • @KM-rd6qn
      @KM-rd6qn Před rokem +98

      @@maidofthemisty my SIL has always hated me because I’m younger than her and her best friend has always liked my husband. My sister said she just had a gut feeling. If it wasn’t for two of my “ Secret Service” at the wedding my SIL would’ve ruined our wedding.

  • @MindiB
    @MindiB Před rokem +783

    Um, yeah, adulterating a drink and deliberately spilling a drink on someone, then following and threatening them in the restroom is all kinds of assault and will definitely get you a criminal charge. The minute I saw the ex was the waitress I woulda noped outta there imMEDiately.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +25

      As soon as he saw her car in the lot, he should have noped out of there! That can't be the only restaurant in town. I live in a small town, where Applebee's is the only chain restaurant and where most folks go on dates. I hate that place! We have lots of small, family owned places that are so much better.
      I've had one date in the last 7 years, a lovely man who invited me out to lunch. He said, "I have a favorite place, but it's on the East side of town (sketchy neighborhood) and looks shabby but the food is great". I was hopeful, and asked "Are you talking about Consuela's??" YES!
      We had a nice date, I invited him to follow me 10 miles up the mountain to see the gorgeous view from my off-grid goat ranch, and meet my newest baby goats. He stopped his SUV when we got to the place where the pavement ends, and the next 3 miles to my house is a narrow dirt switchback road that descends 1000 ft. in elevation. He decided that looked hella-dangerous, so he left.
      Sigh, that's why I've given up meeting anyone.

    • @christopherconard2831
      @christopherconard2831 Před rokem +10

      I've worked in restaurants on and off for almost 40 years. Having a recent ex come in with a new partner is generally an acceptable excuse to switch servers, assuming one is available.

    • @attractivezombie1959
      @attractivezombie1959 Před rokem +4

      I call bs on the whole story honestly. How did she get the laxatives to taint the his drink? I don’t think 17 year olds or anyone around that age range generally carry laxatives around on their person and it’s not something the restaurant would have either. It’s probably a made up story for internet clout

    • @saras123
      @saras123 Před rokem +1

      Yeah because that’s a made up story

    • @saras123
      @saras123 Před rokem +1

      @@attractivezombie1959exactly my thoughts

  • @TheScarlettrouge
    @TheScarlettrouge Před rokem +1425

    The ex cancelling the catering is exactly why you should have a code word with your vendors.

    • @stinks7065
      @stinks7065 Před rokem +105

      yep! also important if you have meddling family. I’ve seen too many stories where a bitter mother-in-law or an entitled sister or whatever has changed or cancelled something with wedding vendors

    • @NvrDieNvrSurrender
      @NvrDieNvrSurrender Před rokem +18

      Exactly! Like you have to know an ex is crazy and capable if they're willing to do that.

    • @paranormalelizabeth
      @paranormalelizabeth Před rokem +10

      Exactly. Word or number.

    • @jenniferwentland1736
      @jenniferwentland1736 Před rokem +13

      So…his ex didn’t know he was dating someone else. Didn’t know he was engaged. Never did anything to him before that, but waited until she found out he was getting married, until the day before to, let me get this straight, find out who his caterer was just so she could cancel?? Nope, I don’t buy that at all. To many holes in this story.

    • @cc1526
      @cc1526 Před rokem +56

      The code word is *email* and *phone number.* This vendor was just stupid. Any good event planner knows that any contact that came from a phone number or email address that wasn’t in the contract needs to be followed up on, especially if the person is requesting major changes or cancellations. As a person who did event planning, this lack of attention to detail boils my blood 😡

  • @infinitum8558
    @infinitum8558 Před rokem +970

    Let's stop calling these women "crazy" and start call them "abusive", because that's exactly what they are.

    • @llamamama2910
      @llamamama2910 Před rokem +25

      Stalking, attacks, terrorism

    • @jakemarie828
      @jakemarie828 Před rokem +55

      I'd actually like to hear the "crazy ex's" side of the story on some of these because a few of them seem like reactive abuse. (Meaning they were devalued and abused in private over and over until they snapped in public.) Especially the one holding the chair accusing former roomates of selling her things. The dryer cheating one is also obviously a f-ed up video where the betrayed partner is obviously not crazy.

    • @danielleS257
      @danielleS257 Před rokem +18

      Crazy is how they act. Abusive is what they are.

    • @infinitum8558
      @infinitum8558 Před rokem +21

      @@jakemarie828 That's a fair point. I'm not trying to suggest that men are always the victims. I'm only highlighting male victims because they don't get enough attention.
      But I agree, there are some guys who do reactive abuse on their exes.

    • @megorex630
      @megorex630 Před rokem

      @@jakemarie828 I’m a crazy ex. I endured 4.5 yrs of emotional, verbal, psychological abuse… he lied about having cancer, lied about being a hospital corpsman in the navy, lied about fathering 3 kids with 2 women including the ex right before myself. I was reeling from my first divorce and a bad short relationship, he took total advantage of my low self esteem and vulnerability. I paid for every bill, grocery, appointment, gas, etc.. It was my house that I had bought. The constant abuse and gaslighting honestly drove me mad. He was having affairs the ENTIRE time we were dating and married… I’m fact two weeks after our divorce was final he married his side chick and popped out a kid 6mo later… do the math, we weren’t divorced yet. He called his ex crazy when i met him, she may have been a little unstable but not “crazy”. He was a narcissist sociopath and pathological liar. Ive finally starting to rebuild myself (divorce finalized oct 2020) thanks to therapy. But I know for a fact he calls me his “crazy ex wife”

  • @cc1526
    @cc1526 Před rokem +341

    Dear wedding vendors: STOP BEING STUPID. Lol if someone calls you to cancel services, double check the phone number to see if it matches the one the couple gave you in the contract. Also, make sure you get it in writing as well and specifically require that the request to cancel email be sent from the email listed *in the contract.* Then, after they give you a bunch of excuses as to why they can’t do that, call the number in the contract to double check that they actually wanted to cancel. This can happen due to crazy exes, crazy MILs, etc. You’re destroying weddings and losing money and business by not doing your due diligence. 🤦‍♀️

    • @essennagerry
      @essennagerry Před rokem +29

      Yeah like they can give all sorts of excuses like their hiuse got flooded and all their electronics are broken and they have no access to their original phone number and email (cause they don't know their passwords yada yada) but it doesn't hurt to check because if you call the original number and write to the original email you might _get an answer and the answer shows it was not the real client._ Whatever the excuses is and regardless of how good the acting is checking the original contact info given causes no loss it could only be good.

  • @nickmoney
    @nickmoney Před rokem +130

    The ex who is a waitress was flat out breaking laws. The restaurant probably got in a ton of trouble as well for what she did.

  • @patriciahamel5674
    @patriciahamel5674 Před rokem +631

    I love how the one friend comes downstairs and throws a bag with his stuff at him at the end of the speech. They planned that so well.

    • @Sage3356
      @Sage3356 Před rokem

      Just wait untill he sues her for sharing private pics of him without his consent, be Petty, not crazy

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 Před rokem +20

      @@Sage3356 It's impossible for him to sue her.

    • @Sage3356
      @Sage3356 Před rokem

      @@Pumpkin0_0 dude, as i said in the other comment, i misheard, i made a mistake

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 Před rokem +10

      @@Sage3356 Dude, I wrote this comment before you replied to my other one.

    • @izajakastam9558
      @izajakastam9558 Před rokem

      I thought it was a trash bag for him to get into as the trash he is lmao

  • @RotGolem
    @RotGolem Před rokem +325

    "How is it that easy for wedding vendors to get canceled?"
    My Queen, you just heard a stalker disconnecting a family's phone number up to 60 times and then impersonating that same number to make threat calls. Canceling a vendor is nothing in comparison.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +36

      I've heard that story in detail on MrBallen's channel, and it is over-the-top scary! MrBallen is an ex-Navy seal who has a real talent for storytelling. He finds mind-blowing stories like this and relates them with details and pics.

    • @ashleygraham3402
      @ashleygraham3402 Před rokem +13

      @@LazyIRanch for fans of the dark and mysterious in story format lol

    • @melissagreen7327
      @melissagreen7327 Před rokem +5

      @@LazyIRanch what video is it? Do you remember? I was looking but MrBallen has quite a lot of videos.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem +19

      A lady I dumped and threw out of my house tried to do weird shit to my Netflix account; she was trying to somehow get my CC number from them via email and it didn't work. When I was sent notification of this, I called and spoke to a rep, and we agreed to lock the account so that changes could not be made to it unless I personally called them. It was a non-issue after that... Oh and she was writing her name on official court docs as her first name and my last name. A deputy showed up once, and I indicated the fraud, and she left and I was never bothered again.

    • @pamelajohnson7813
      @pamelajohnson7813 Před rokem +15

      You would think that after 5, 10, 12 times the company wouldn't allow anyone to cancel without a code or something. 60 times?!

  • @mariapdr3261
    @mariapdr3261 Před rokem +513

    I bet the guests were secretly thrilled to find out they were getting pizza instead the usual wedding food.

    • @dianedenham5259
      @dianedenham5259 Před rokem +39

      Pizza & Box Wine. A winning combination. 👍

    • @thraelen
      @thraelen Před rokem +47

      My catering didn’t show up for my wedding, so I went down to Little Caesars and got a whole bunch of pizza and crazy bread. It was top tier and I have a lovely picture of myself in my wedding dress at Little Caesars 😅

    • @faeri_
      @faeri_ Před rokem +10

      @@thraelen now I need a story time. How do they just not show up 😭 did they have their days wrong?

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Před rokem +2

      I would've been absolutely down for pizza 🍕

    • @ManolyaATALAY
      @ManolyaATALAY Před rokem +4

      Pizza should be wedding food

  • @lena7623
    @lena7623 Před rokem +132

    Maybe I watch too much true crime, but that guy ringing the doorbell and hiding had me screaming, "Don't open that! He's gonna kidnap you when you come out to check!"

  • @mollyfox
    @mollyfox Před rokem +265

    The fact that the guy flipping off the door camera was one of the tamer examples in this video, is so hilarious to me

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx Před rokem +25

      Yeah instead of crazy it's just feels bitter asf lol.
      Man went out in the rain all the way to their ex's place just to flip their front camera off and spit on her porch. 😂
      Well he might've come over to talk but realised no-one was home or no-one intended to answer the door, so he got prickly.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem

      CDC statistics on domestic violence indicate that women initiate 79% of domestic violence situations; they are more likely to attack their partner and seriously injure or kill their partner. The stats also reinforce this fact because, as it turns out, gay male couples have the lowest domestic violence rates, and lesbian couples have the highest. Women, simply put, are just more violent than men; of course that dude flipped the camera off.

    • @nick.p.9328
      @nick.p.9328 Před rokem +1

      yeah, he was cool, but long live clickbait yknow

  • @NHarts3
    @NHarts3 Před rokem +1083

    Someone needs to make a sticker pack with all of Charlotte's facial expressions 😲😟😯😳😦☺

  • @CindersVale
    @CindersVale Před rokem +102

    Rules of thumb with obsessed exes; don't ever assume they won't do anything. Change your cell phone number, get your locks changed, and have your home checked for hidden cameras or listening devices. Move when the ex is at work or away if you need to. Take the ex's name off of everything. Cancel everything with shared passwords, or change all your passwords, and check that the ex doesn't have a key logger installed. Inform all family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances that they never give out information to your ex. If you go somewhere and see your ex? Leave immediately, don't engage, or call if you have a restraining order that the ex is violating. I read that one guy went out of town, got his car repainted a different color, then installed his new license plates so his ex couldn't spot his 'old' car anymore.

  • @eternalbookwyrm9481
    @eternalbookwyrm9481 Před rokem +50

    When it comes to the crazy ex who stole his current girlfriends identity and texted herself threatening messages. I don't think she expects to get him back. I think she just doesn't want anyone else to have him. An 'if I can't have him no one can ' moment!!

    • @nicholasjessup6788
      @nicholasjessup6788 Před rokem +6

      That story truly shook me. I’ve never been in a relationship with anyone that “crazy” but I unfortunately tend to attract the wrong people. All I can hope is I never end up with someone who feels the need to ruin the life of the people I love.

  • @heymsparker2816
    @heymsparker2816 Před rokem +247

    I had an ex break into my security camera and I can definitely say, it was totally not funny and had me literally terrified. People who do that are weird af.

    • @dianedenham5259
      @dianedenham5259 Před rokem +46

      Exactly. It's strange that so many people in Comments think it's hilarious. Probably because she's laughing through it. Presentation counts, I guess.

    • @Star_R666
      @Star_R666 Před rokem +24

      Agree - that's next level stalking and she could get arrested for it.

    • @heymsparker2816
      @heymsparker2816 Před rokem +18

      @@dianedenham5259 yea I actually don’t get why charlotte found that funny

    • @tetherballobsession
      @tetherballobsession Před rokem +22

      yeah pretty sure she can get hefty prison time for that especially since she recorded herself admitting to the crime. I just saw a case recently of something similar of a guy recording his own family and got a hefty prison sentence. can't imagine the charges that psycho will get. Obsessive and stalker behavior. just cus he's an ex doesnt mean you get to terrorize him and make him feel terrified in his own home.... I mean if she's spying in his room who knows what else he saw, and I'm sure thats what he's thinking about and thats terrifying for anyone. but my god seriously this isnt ok or funny in the slightest. Hope she gets charges. Felonies arent cute.

    • @gigilarigi3132
      @gigilarigi3132 Před rokem +13

      I can only imagine how terrifying it is and it’s obviously a trigger for you but I do think it was “funny” because of how it was presented. In all actuality, it probably never happened. Sorry it upset you, tho. That’s pretty effed up.

  • @ArinSauls
    @ArinSauls Před rokem +132

    The one sleeping outside totally had me dying. My ex did this to me. He was drunk. Said he wanted me back. I told him he couldn’t come in, so he laid down in front of my door with a blanket and said he wasn’t leaving. I live in a condo where the front doors are on the outside and across the way is access to my neighbors front door too so I’m sure my neighbor next to me saw this grown a$$ man sleeping on the ground drunk as hell. He slept there for like six hours (was probably 20-30 degrees outside at the time. I’m not sure if I still have a video of him from when inside my sons window or not. If I do, I should totally send it to you.

    • @rhondaflesher8313
      @rhondaflesher8313 Před rokem +2

      Several years ago, I drove past a house real early one morning (just as the sun was coming up) and seen this guy sleeping out on a small porch. He was laying on what looked like all of his clothing and a few other belongings. Apparently, he had gotten thrown out and instead of gathering up his belongings and leaving he just made a nest out of his clothes on the porch and went to sleep.

    • @nutelloza
      @nutelloza Před rokem +3

      At least he wasn’t cold!

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem

      Most dudes are too wimpy to sleep outside like that. Imagine waking up after doing some shit like that; he got what he deserved.

  • @ZieSpiralOut
    @ZieSpiralOut Před rokem +106

    Beware: some people will say they have a crazy ex but occasionally, they are just stepping out on them and the crazy ex behavior is actually just a partner getting cheated on. Or the crazy ex is someone your partner is cheating on you with. I have seen this in many Reddit stories. The red flag is when your partner says they are so crazy you need to block them from sm and their phone number and they do everything they can to keep you from interacting with that person. There’s times they are that crazy ex, but often are not so crazy that they are a danger to you or something. The key is the dedication they have to keeping you blocked off from this person.
    Disclaimer don’t trust anyone’s word. Proof is important, people lie all the time.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem +3

      How do you mitigate your statement with the fact that out-of-control and/or violent behavior is encouraged in women?

    • @dhaliablack2804
      @dhaliablack2804 Před rokem +12

      It can be like that. I had one ex who made me look crazy, I did stupid stuff(not like those in the video) and it got to the point that I honestly thought I was crazy insane. He was manipulative, verbaly abusive and been a narcissist. And after all of these years I still can't believe that I was so basicaly addicted to him, basicaly. I only realized that everything was fine with me when I found myself a boyfriend that treated me like a person, wasn't mean, manipulative, you could talk to him like a grownup as you are, you have his support and stuff... And vice versa.

    • @twit3537
      @twit3537 Před rokem +1

      For the phone thing I can understand them encouraging their partner to block them if their partner is being harassed already, but outright warning to block them right off the bat can be a redflag for the reason you put. But the fault for the ex's actions if he is cheating still lies on her if she tries to hurt the alleged 'affair partner' who by your example didn't even know of the ex when they got together with the cheater. It happens a lot where the 'AP' is labelled a homewrecker/attacked more than the partner without finding out if it was obvious that the 'AP' knew.
      Also there is a mental danger to stalking/harassment that can take a major toll on the persons mental health and stalking without outright physical violence is usually not taken as seriously/not as severe repercussions. The emotional damage to the persons life by trying to get them fired from their job, hacking their socials to look like them, etc, is very damaging and is just as dangerous/radical behavior to an ex physically trying to hurt you/get close to you (because stalking with the end goal to hurt you versus making your life a living hell can be very differently played out and the timespan for the first one is a lot shorter than the latter).
      And damaging things such as labelling the partner/alleged AP an affair partner can damage the persons reputation and relationships with others (heck, some jobs could consider it a liability if the ex makes enough of a stink to make them worry it could affect their PR). A lot of the stuff the 'crazy exes' do that may seem minor to outsiders (or even the exes themselves) can be very traumatizing for the new partner, regardless of what other people's standards of what is considered something 'crazy'.
      I 100% agree that labelled 'crazy' for an ex, espeically if repeatedly referencing ALL their exes as such, is a red flag, but other red flags to look out for if he is cheating is if you don't meet any of his friends and family after a certain point, and even then be cautious if they are friends because friends soemtimes cover for one another in these situations. Also finding out the name of the ex and seeing who they are visually to make sure you know how to spot them if they are stalking you from a distance or repeatedly 'innocently' goes to your work (like say in a cafe) when your scheduled can also help you determine/fact check her behavior yourself (also if she really is crazy, there will be stories or possible photo/video evidence of it from others in the social circle/area that could be tracked down to see for yourself)

    • @ZieSpiralOut
      @ZieSpiralOut Před rokem +3

      @@davidmistoffelees8459 where do you see gender in my comment? Nowhere. Guys can be crazy, girls can be crazy, or any other gender can be crazy. I also didn’t state this as fact for every situation.
      It’s simply a potential situation, and one that I have been in myself.

    • @hobistinyheartbag
      @hobistinyheartbag Před rokem +2

      I’m just realizing what my ex did years ago from your comment…

  • @HippieHorticulturalist
    @HippieHorticulturalist Před rokem +61

    I want to know the backstory behind the sleeping bag woman because I feel like that potentially could have been some petty behavior 🧐🤣

    • @brandiflurnoy184
      @brandiflurnoy184 Před rokem +9

      Agreed to me that was more of a petty tantrum than actual crazy person stuff.

    • @tarafeliciano8287
      @tarafeliciano8287 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That shit looked more like a funny prank. Me and my friends did similar pranks. We would do stuff like set up tents in the backyard (he had cameras he checked every week) or do some crazy movie reenactment and then cover our tracks like nothing happened. He'd eventually see the footage and we'd laugh.

  • @deepindaydreams
    @deepindaydreams Před rokem +138

    After breaking up with my abusive ex I stayed at my parents for a week and when I came home he jumped out of the attic, I live in an upstairs flat. He climbed the guttering and came through the bathroom window. I have a restraining order now

    • @witchqueen1296
      @witchqueen1296 Před rokem +10

      Oh Jesus Christ... 😰 Are you okay???

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem +14

      The sad part is in a lot of places you still can't get a restraining order against an ex-bf or gf; in those areas they only allow it if you were married to the person.

    • @ji604
      @ji604 Před rokem

      The common misconception is that "restraining order" is no different than a no-contact order or an order of protection. Those latter two are what apply to situations where people aren't married. I wish these terms were more mainstream so people know what to ask for or just know they don't have to be married to try to get authorities involved.

  • @jenelizabeth7822
    @jenelizabeth7822 Před rokem +333

    I know we are usually wary of men that call their exes crazy. But I found out the hard way, sometimes they are genuinely trying to warn you. That’s a relationship I never would’ve gotten into had I known the level crazy this girl actually was. Sometimes it’s actually a warning!

    • @NvrDieNvrSurrender
      @NvrDieNvrSurrender Před rokem +29

      Yeah in my younger years, I had a few phone calls from crazy exes so it's now one of my rules, if the crazy ex calls or harasses me by text then I'm out. It always felt like I was in the Twilight Zone like WTF is going on!

    • @katrinascarlet5637
      @katrinascarlet5637 Před rokem +27

      My husband's ex tried to stab him. She was indeed crazy at the time for thinking trying to stab a black belt was a good idea but she's much better now. As far as I can tell there's no hard feelings but living 20 hours away helps.

    • @AnEarlyDawnInAField
      @AnEarlyDawnInAField Před rokem

      Fcken amen to that, b!tches out here be 100% certified crazy

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 Před rokem +6

      @@NvrDieNvrSurrender awww that's sad for the guy. He's a victim of abuse.

    • @RogerMoments
      @RogerMoments Před rokem +34

      100% this. Women really need to stop living in this weird world where "women are always the victim: defend women always" when in reality women are human too and humans be cray-cray. ANYONE can be a victim of ANY crime and that shouldn't be taken lightly

  • @MrHaluska1
    @MrHaluska1 Před rokem +49

    The cancelling the wedding catering story got me laughing because I'd love pizza at my wedding hahahaha

  • @iamblakeraines3069
    @iamblakeraines3069 Před rokem +9

    3:03 - She screamed "Piece. of. Garbage!" the same way the live studio audience screams "Wheel Of Fortune!"...
    ..I'm up way too late. lol

  • @nynnenrgaard-heinsen7901
    @nynnenrgaard-heinsen7901 Před rokem +194

    Thank you for putting in subtitles to the videos! Makes your content a lot more accesible to people who dont have english as their first language

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +22

      English is my first language, but I rarely understand what people are saying (or screaming) in these Tik Tok videos.

    • @hesherette
      @hesherette Před rokem +6

      @@LazyIRanch lmao came here to tell OP this as well! I appreciate the subtitles as well, even as a native english speaker. love to see Charlotte getting love from around the world!

    • @meisjeViv
      @meisjeViv Před rokem +6

      Seconded! Especially when people scream at each other or if they walk away from the camera I can never figure out what is going on in half the tiktoks 😅 Sooo much better with subtitles!

  • @hanaj
    @hanaj Před rokem +116

    I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life vs acting like this.

  • @joanahalfeld
    @joanahalfeld Před rokem +29

    After watching this video i feel so good about my ability to control my emotions like a non psychotic person.

  • @mbourque
    @mbourque Před rokem +18

    for the crazy ex's that stalk their ex's girlfriend/boyfriend... they are chasing off the other people in the belief that their ex will have no options to date others if they are all ran off and they will eventually 'come to their senses' and come back to the crazy person.... BUT since they're crazy, they don't understand that this never happens....

  • @father_mae_i
    @father_mae_i Před rokem +204

    I would've called the police on that first one oml

    • @busymom4kc
      @busymom4kc Před rokem

      100%. That girl needs psychiatric help. 😮

    • @frog1812
      @frog1812 Před rokem +5

      I agree

    • @K9Charlie
      @K9Charlie Před rokem +25

      I was thinking the same. You're in my car, police will be there in a heartbeat

    • @onecatshortofcrazy12
      @onecatshortofcrazy12 Před rokem +28

      The one with the girl sitting outside the window recording. Before 10 minutes went by, why were the police not called?

    • @rosaliamoon4525
      @rosaliamoon4525 Před rokem +30

      Agreed. Like, I would not have been calling my kid to come deal with his ex. She would probably have not listened to him either. She needs a therapist

  • @Stopthisrightnow560
    @Stopthisrightnow560 Před rokem +9

    Seeing her hand come through the window genuinely freaked me the fuck out. 😂😂😂😂

  • @TheSnowdogsShorts
    @TheSnowdogsShorts Před rokem +62

    My ex was crazy, in that she was genuinely certified, although not until about 2 years after I left her. She was incredibly abusive. She was diagnosed about 2 years after I left.
    It actually helped my recovery, as I realised that the way she treated me, had a reason, and that it wasn't anything that I had done.
    However, I never refer to her as my crazy ex. There is no reason for it, I just don't.

  • @DemonCatDaphne
    @DemonCatDaphne Před rokem +38

    This just unlocked a memory. My ex would talk about how all his exes were crazy... that should've been a red flag
    TW for self harm:
    At some point I was trying to get away from him (we were already broken up but we lived in the same house and he had a lot of control over me) and I don't even remember how we ended up in that situation but he started cutting himself on his chest to get a reaction from me (which he got, but apparently panicking and telling him to get medical help wasn't enough of a reaction so it meant I didn't care). Now I don't like calling people crazy but that was definitely some crazy behaviour. Who tf does that???

    • @nicholasjessup6788
      @nicholasjessup6788 Před rokem +2

      Shit. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. I’ve heard of exes threatening to harm themselves, but this is the first I’ve heard of someone actually harming themselves. I will never understand why some people act “crazy” because they are no longer with someone. Just move on for crying out loud. Anyway, much love to you and I hope that’s the last you’ll have to deal with that.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 Před 5 měsíci

      My second husband did that crap. I just let him and told him to have fun.

  • @Kayruda
    @Kayruda Před rokem +54

    The first one is totally insane, no wonder she is an Ex.
    Do they all honestly think when they got crazy the Ex say: Oh yeah I want you back.

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před rokem +10

      "aww they really love me and respect me by refusing to take my words seriously. So sweet. Love them. 😘"
      Lol jk. That's crazy shit. Run.

    • @alexisgrunden1556
      @alexisgrunden1556 Před rokem +1

      I think it's more of a don't-rock-the-boat thing, like, "if you come back to me, I'll calm down and this won't happen again...but if you don't, I'll crank it up even crazier." It's a combination of intimidation tactics and outright emotional abuse/manipulation. She was also probably trying to scare off his current gf (ie, 'do you really want to have to deal with me to date him?'), and increase her odds of a successful rebound. I wouldn't put it past that loony tune to fake a positive pregnancy test if she could sleep with him once on the rebound, just to trap him. Once her cycle comes, she can fake a miscarriage, get all weepy, and guilt his @$$ off even more.
      Women like this give the rest of us a bad name.

    • @maramau2485
      @maramau2485 Před rokem +1

      Looked like a teenager to me. First time a broken heart and all those hormons and stuff going on can make you a little crazy, it seems desperate to me, not something i watch as an adult and make fun of. Just a bad situation.

  • @justsomegothgirl
    @justsomegothgirl Před rokem +7

    I have a story about not a crazy ex, but my ex's best friend. This guy became enamored with me, and showed up at my front door after getting out of the psych ward for threatening to unalive me and himself. I HAD NEVER TOLD THIS GUY WHERE I LIVED. I was terrified. Its been years, and I've moved several times, cut all contact with anyone who associates with him, and haven't seen him, but I still wonder if he's watching. Being stalked is horrifying

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie Před rokem +18

    OMG, I work for a catering company. It would totally be easy to cancel especially if they paid the cancellation fee. Many things were cancelled last minute during Covid. That scenario is horrifying.

  • @carolineschofield5811
    @carolineschofield5811 Před rokem +126

    The last story is disgusting to be honest. Imagine hooking up with someone and then finding out their ex thinks it was okay to watch you without your consent using a hacked camera. You being mad with your ex does not make it okay to invade someone else privacy. She sounds like the psycho ex tbh.

    • @itsmikki44
      @itsmikki44 Před rokem +55

      okay but can you also imagine hooking up with someone and finding out they have a camera in their room in the first place?? i'd get double the trust issues

    • @twit3537
      @twit3537 Před rokem +15

      @@itsmikki44 This is actually a very good point and iirc some places its illegal to have cameras in private areas (such as bedrooms/bathrooms), especially if any parties who go in there don't know about it. If it is illegal its probably to have a reason to charge people for recording someone vulnerable and possibly using it as blackmail even or to sell it.
      There was one case where this repair man or something (I forget what they are called) at an apartment complex put cameras in vents or other hidden places angled directly into the shower/bath tub and all bedrooms directly at the beds. He was collecting and I think possibly selling what he 'got' from the cameras. He was charged and the charge was labeled as sexual in nature (iirc, it was awhile ago since I saw/heard about it) for the recordings not even including the possible distribution of it. He may have also tried to blackmail them/their partners but I can't remember because it was awhile ago but I do know it was highly illegal of him to do so and at the minimum it was because they didn't consent to being recorded in that manner.
      If the camera has the ability to record and not just 'monitor' in real time then him having it in the bedroom in the corner (probably hard to notice/not easily noticed initally) and inviting women over is very suspicious.

    • @wardenm
      @wardenm Před rokem +9

      Pretty sure it would qualify as a crime. I mean, videoing others in their own home, having sex, without their knowledge? At the very least doesn't seem like something you should openly admit to for TikTok clout.

    • @chiomorii
      @chiomorii Před rokem

      As long as they know about it, I don’t see much of an issue. In my experience, we have security cameras in my house. Though not all in bedrooms. May be odd, but it can be for safety and some cameras don’t save videos.

    • @DelphineTheWorstBladeEver
      @DelphineTheWorstBladeEver Před rokem

      Yeah, even if it's not recorded, there's just a line you shouldn't even think about crossing.

  • @TheOGPokemonGirl
    @TheOGPokemonGirl Před rokem +6

    I remember watching that A Current Affair segment when it aired and oh my God it was crazy. What that woman managed to do is absolutely insane. She literally dedicated her whole life to ruining that relationship. She was even a guest on a podcast being interviewed about her experience with domestic violence. It wasn't a huge or well known one, but the host was telling her how amazing and strong she was for talking about her experiences and for surviving the abusive relationship she had allegedly been in. She's one messed up woman.

  • @gloriaobianujuuwaezuoke5596

    😂😂😂 the last one though, Charlotte always understands the assignment 😂😂

  • @merrivideo
    @merrivideo Před rokem +6

    Saying an ex is "crazy" is to normalize stalking and being abusive. You should report that kind of behavior.

  • @joystrawnhill
    @joystrawnhill Před rokem +28

    I absolutely love your pearl drop earrings behind your listening devices. Makes me think that if someone offered blingy listening devices it would be consumed by the market. Do it! Make a line of your own 'Petty' blinged out gear.

  • @GlamourNNail
    @GlamourNNail Před rokem +6

    As a mom, I'm horrified that the mom was telling her son to come talk to the ex in the car! Call the cops and get him somewhere safe! A girl who is willing to steal her ex's mom's keys and make a scene like that is dangerous! I'd be keeping my son far away from her. Keys and a car are not as important as my son's safety.

  • @justhearmeout3959
    @justhearmeout3959 Před rokem +66

    Okay the one with the chairs could go both ways. Either she's the crazy ex... Or her crazy ex has driven her to that point. I honestly can't figure out which it is 😅

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před rokem +22

      Yeah. I need more context. she looks crazy, but could just be really fed up and at her breaking point, which happens to everyone eventually.

    • @pjm4653
      @pjm4653 Před rokem +23

      yeah, she was talking about someone trespassing and selling her stuff without her knowledge, if I heard it right

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 Před rokem +21

      @@pjm4653 that exactly what I was thinking. Also, I remember my narc ex used to push me and push me until I broke and got really upset, and then he'd record me to "prove" how crazy I was.
      Funny, now that I'm in a healthy relationship those insane outbursts have stopped altogether.

    • @lifewuzonceezr
      @lifewuzonceezr Před rokem +4

      @@justhearmeout3959 I haven't had the cops or emts at my new apt in 8 years!!

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 Před rokem +7

      @@lifewuzonceezr isn't it amazing how getting away from the people causing us so much pain can completely change our personalities!

  • @nactrumofficial5450
    @nactrumofficial5450 Před rokem +44

    I've had literal crazy exes, so I feel for those people. I've also been cheated on in all but 3 relationships over 30 years of dating, so I feel for those cheated on as well. However that last one completely made me lose my shit and spit my drink with the whole talking through the speaker, lmmfao!

  • @rachel-lou3318
    @rachel-lou3318 Před rokem +4

    I’m surprised the one where the girl pretended to be kidnapped and murdered isn’t a lifetime movie. It sounds like one.

  • @sngray11
    @sngray11 Před rokem +149

    Charlotte, thank you for serving us a daily dose of humor with a side of sunshine. 💗 Have a Happy Holidays everyone! 💞

  • @GrimTheguy
    @GrimTheguy Před rokem +167

    Thanks for being you! Hope everyone is doing well, I'm proud of y'all 🩵💙🩵

  • @CarRobbin
    @CarRobbin Před rokem +5

    12:01 This whole segment reminded me of when I worked as the manager at the local Movie Gallery ( shop went out of business in the mid 2000's). This kid comes in and sneaks into the adults only section(porn movies 18 and older only). He and his friends did not think i noticed. I got on the p.a system and embarrassed him. Years later I bought a car and you guessed it he remembered me and said hey Mrs Carey thank you for not outing me that time by calling my parents.(I still laugh about it and see i left a lasting impression on the kid.)

  • @petekaiser8856
    @petekaiser8856 Před rokem +2

    The breakup party was perfection. She had support AND protection in that room...we all know breaking up can be dangerous for people, women particularly...so the breakup party was perfect!

  • @neilprice513
    @neilprice513 Před rokem +21

    When a woman "Crazy Screams" (ear bleeding loud) it's time to call the cops, even if it's just for mediation and/or to have a record. YIKES!! 😩😨

    • @fourlittlebirds6166
      @fourlittlebirds6166 Před rokem +4

      Thought that through the entire first one. Don’t try to reason with her. She’s way past that point.

    • @neilprice513
      @neilprice513 Před rokem +1

      @@fourlittlebirds6166 exactly.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem

      What's the point? The police won't arrest a woman for violence and even if they do, if she's charged, her sentence will be 20% of what a man's would be.

  • @kayleighandhercat1351
    @kayleighandhercat1351 Před rokem +21

    Call the cops!!! That first ex is psycho.

  • @claralucelafond
    @claralucelafond Před rokem +10

    The timing of this video is spot on! I just had to publicly expose someone who's been stalking me for 9 months. When I saw the story about the girl that was stalked for 15!! good grief !!

  • @gregbrown8881
    @gregbrown8881 Před rokem +42

    OMG that last story got me good! I'm a grown-ass man and I still screamed when she mentioned talking to them over the speaker. That woman is a legend!

    • @dotar9586
      @dotar9586 Před rokem +6

      And, in most places, just a little bit of a felon.

    • @davidmistoffelees8459
      @davidmistoffelees8459 Před rokem +5

      That was psycho and illegal, but also, funny as hell.

  • @caljones
    @caljones Před rokem +13

    “I can be a little nuts.” It’s why we love you 🤣

  • @andreabradley5837
    @andreabradley5837 Před rokem +6

    I have an ex that would call me crazy, I told him "you ain't seen crazy". Then one day he did. People can only take so much.

  • @gawd4582
    @gawd4582 Před rokem +18

    When will people recognize their 'EX' cannot cheat on them..... they are their damn EX.

  • @SUGAs_Shadow85
    @SUGAs_Shadow85 Před rokem +6

    Omg that last one tho 🤣🤣🤣 the first time I realized our security cameras had mics, I scared my dad half to death by talking to him on it 🤣🤣 and that one was OUTSIDE. Omg I would so do this.

  • @scaathreykr
    @scaathreykr Před rokem +8

    2:48 -- Powerful voice, I must say. If she puts a bit work into it, she could totally kill it as a heavy metal singer.

  • @gloriaalex11
    @gloriaalex11 Před rokem +11

    A lot of people claim their ex is crazy. But obviously it's true in some cases. Stop and think about why they were attracted to the ex, and the circumstances of their relationship and breakup. If you question their judgment, don't kid yourself. It's not worth risking your safety and sanity.

  • @nikkiberns1365
    @nikkiberns1365 Před rokem +3

    Pro tip for anyone who experiences last-minute event catering disasters (my friend’s wedding caterer lost their license the week of her wedding): call up virtually any restaurant with Mediterranean/Middle Eastern cuisine. They’re geared for huge feasts at the drop of a hat - one of my friends is a Pakistani caterer and she confirmed this 😅 I made the suggestion to my friend, and she told me that out of all the recommendations people gave her, mine was the one that worked! We had a falafel bar and she said it was better than the original menu 😂

  • @amandacox4211
    @amandacox4211 Před rokem +25

    That last one, OMG, she's a trip! She's not stalking the ex, she's just playing with his head...... and I'm here for it!! 😂😂😂

    • @DrPatANelson
      @DrPatANelson Před rokem +3

      That was FREAKING AWESOME!

    • @Garbox80
      @Garbox80 Před rokem +9

      Yeah, it's kinda funny. But being the party pooper I am, I just started to think that how many crimes did she actually admit on video, online?

    • @zero95lucky
      @zero95lucky Před rokem +6

      @@Garbox80 1st rule of cyber security is don't give your password to someone you don't trust.
      He gave her the password, she didn't like hack it or anything. So she has access legally. It was his responsibility to change the pw if he didn't want her to have access anymore.
      Whether that would hold up under scrutiny, dunno. But noone's prosecuting a small prank between exs.

    • @darkphoenix3347
      @darkphoenix3347 Před rokem +7

      would u be here for it if the genders were switched

    • @amandacox4211
      @amandacox4211 Před rokem +1

      @@Garbox80 🤫 we'll never tell🤣

  • @soulaww4563
    @soulaww4563 Před rokem +5

    The edits of you in the dryer just crack me up 10/10

  • @ShanniBananni
    @ShanniBananni Před rokem +3

    The girl in black immediately dissociated when the speech started. Lol
    That's how I am. I can't handle second hand embarrassment.

  • @rhondasisco-cleveland2665

    It isn’t about getting him back, it’s about feeling like they are in control.

  • @audreybeitel7986
    @audreybeitel7986 Před rokem +3

    The waitress situation actually happened to me in college except I was the server for my ex, his parents (who I’d never met), and his gf. Literally just ignored the awkwardness, pretended that I didn’t know them, and gave them the same service I would anyone else. Worked out for me because the dad gave me a $20 tip 💁‍♀️ Turns out it pays not to be crazy

  • @YourWaywardDestiny
    @YourWaywardDestiny Před rokem +27

    OH BOY, STRAP IN, KIDS, I ACTUALLY HAVE A RELIVANT STORY!!!
    My (now) husband's ex-girlfriend (the girlfriend just before me) would knock on our apartment door and then hide just out of sight of the peephole, hoping he would just willy-nilly go "oh, knock on the door, but nobody there? HOW CURIOUS! LET ME JUST POKE MY HEAD OUT AND HOPE IT'S A NICE SURPRISE AND NOT SOMETHING AT ALL SUSPICIOUS!" Or maybe she was hoping for either one of us, honestly, I don't know what she thought was going to go down. Either way, it was a double secured building, but in a real sketchy area, so that was never going to be something we were going to do in the first place. Her mother lived in that building, so she could get in easily. I never opened the door if she was going to hide like that, it was all off. She was the one who dumped him, of course that meant as soon as she found out he got a new partner, she wanted him back, and she did _not_ stop trying to get this to work for at least a year.
    A few days before we moved about 100 miles away, he caught her in the act of doing her knock-and-dodge thing and let her say her piece. My man told me she wanted to come over and "hang out/work on things" with him a day she thought I wouldn't be home. She didn't say it in exact words that she didn't want me home, but it wasn't exactly hard when she pushed for very specific days and times to see what was up. She learned my work schedule (that by then I had quit wasn't something she was in on, apparently) so I was feeling extra validated in never opening the door for her when I heard that, because that's creepy. But it got better: she didn't know we were moving either. The day _after_ we were moved out was one of the days I would have been working. He told her "sure, come over THAT day," and then feigned having to cut the conversation short for whatever reason. We left the apartment door slightly ajar so when she knocked, it'd open to a *COMPLETELY* empty apartment.
    Haven't heard from her since. She must have finally gotten the hint.

    • @YourWaywardDestiny
      @YourWaywardDestiny Před rokem +10

      Oh, guess what, she also stole his gun and the police didn't do anything about it. So, you know, there was also that to think about, but I wasn't informed about that little detail until well after we moved away.

    • @Yuri92001
      @Yuri92001 Před rokem +5

      ​@@YourWaywardDestiny waaaat this is a crazy story

  • @adrianschannel5643
    @adrianschannel5643 Před rokem +67

    Loved this - I have never noticed how evil Charlotte is. With all this knowledge, you would never want to cross her. We need some Christmas content Charlotte.

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před rokem +33

      LOL I prefer the term antihero😝

    • @Margotrivera1980
      @Margotrivera1980 Před rokem +3

      @@CharlotteDobre Swiftie💓

    • @adrianschannel5643
      @adrianschannel5643 Před rokem +4

      @@CharlotteDobre A red head like Deadpool and claws like Wolverine. Scary. Your reply has made my Xmas. Merry Christmas Charlotte - I wish you all the good things you so deserve, for brightening our day every day. 🥔👑

    • @jchristiansen42
      @jchristiansen42 Před rokem +3

      Don't forget the horde of loyal footsoldiers who are just as petty as her.
      -If Mike cheats, he's gonna be in trouble .

    • @adrianschannel5643
      @adrianschannel5643 Před rokem +1

      @@jchristiansen42 NOOOOO leave Mike alone. He knows how lucky he is - I'm sure. 😀

  • @shawnlawrence4066
    @shawnlawrence4066 Před rokem +1

    I love how the people you start dating are sweet as pie and then turn evil at the drop of a hat. Like the guy flipping off the ring camera in the rain. I literally heard the line from the Cindy Lauoer song. "I see your true colors shining through"

  • @ThePandaCam555
    @ThePandaCam555 Před rokem +5

    4:52 ummm if you notice your ex (which you stated you already knew was crazy) is your waitress, this is where you stand up and walk out.. or ask to be seated in someone else's section. Why on earth would you let your "crazy" ex serve you while you are with another female???? You are just asking for what you got.

  • @Mouthymensch
    @Mouthymensch Před rokem +3

    11:33 when the person gave the payment info for the cancellation fee… did the vendor not question why the name was different from the bride and groom…?

  • @taylorjorgenson7230
    @taylorjorgenson7230 Před rokem +6

    Fair warning to people wanting to get married early. Take your time. I started courting my now wife when I was 30. She was my one and only girlfriend, fiance and now wife. Got married when I was 35. I'm not saying you have to wait that long. I'm so glad I waited. She did do a background check on me after we started courting. Be upfront with the person. Hide nothing. Have empathy with their faults. Men it's our fault. All the time. Lastly: COMPROMISE! COMPROMISE! COMPROMISE!

    • @hamstergal643
      @hamstergal643 Před 8 měsíci +1

      It's not always men's fault. Some great men are in my life like my dad and cousins who steeped up when I was abused and got me out and picked up pieces try didn't have to. I see men helping woman against men that abuse them and they have no reason to get involved. There are men put there that are wonderful. Don't think we don't know it.

  • @kellyfoster6983
    @kellyfoster6983 Před rokem +2

    you have to set a safety word with your vendors just in case of crazy exes lol

  • @janalock6267
    @janalock6267 Před rokem +37

    Just a thought. Sometimes crazy exes are crazy because their partner drove them to it. I was in a toxi relationship. I was gaslit so much, I started doubting my own name.

    • @TheQueenRulesAll
      @TheQueenRulesAll Před rokem +5

      You are right, I became someone unrecognizable and knew it was time to leave. We only see one side of these stories.

    • @AnEarlyDawnInAField
      @AnEarlyDawnInAField Před rokem +8

      This is true, however as soon as they cross the line of breaking the law/harrassing you I think it's safe to say that they're just straight up crazy lol

    • @jessicah3782
      @jessicah3782 Před rokem +2

      You might have been dating a narcissist. IMO people need to walk away when someone don't treat them right. There’s usually red flag signs too.

    • @TheQueenRulesAll
      @TheQueenRulesAll Před rokem

      @Jessica H Absolutely correct, it is usually a narcissistic person and there are signs to watch out for that are not too hard to spot.

  • @rebelwithacause666
    @rebelwithacause666 Před rokem +4

    That story in the middle where the woman is accused of kidnapping is scary and so sad.
    Crazy exes are no joke my husband's ex wife's new boyfriend tried to T-bone me and my MIL. Ended up having a miscarriage from him trying to kill us and had to go to court for it.

  • @cosmicmoonmilk
    @cosmicmoonmilk Před rokem +11

    Oh I have one! When I started dating my husband it was a few months after he and his crazy ex broke up. She saw us at the store together and complimented my hair and when we got to the car my husband told me that was his ex. I was like ok and the next day I had a friend request on fb from her even though we had no mutual friends and my husband didn't have fb. Idk how she learned my name or found me since my name is spelled weird. But I accepted anyways trying to be nice. She messaged me a whole novel about how my husband was her best friend and she had nobody else in her life who she cared about that much and blah blah blah. She asked if she could text him since she still had his number and asked if she could be his friend. And knowing my husband hates her and would never let her in again I said "sure if he wants to". So she tried and got ignored as I expected. Then it was quiet for a few months until Halloween. She showed up at our apartment and was the only one to knock on our door and I didn't recognize her so I was being nice and gave her a little shot bottle of fireball and almost all of our Halloween candy because I didn't like the kind we got and it would go to waste anyways. She met our cats and I talked to her for a good 20 minutes. Then when she left my husband was like "you know that was her, right?" And I was like lol nope I had no idea. Then it was quiet again for a few more weeks. Husband and I were watching TV in bed one night when we got a knock at the door. So I checked and it was a sonic order sitting on the welcome mat. I brought it in and it had my husband's name written on the bag in ballpoint pen and it was his exact order he'd always get every time he ate at sonic. An American dog, tots no salt and a large Dr pepper with no ice. I doubt anyone else orders like that for it to be a coincidence. Then my husband got a text from his ex saying "funny that you order doordash the night I'm dashing" but neither of us ordered food. She went and ordered his food, paid for it herself and dropped it off for him. He refused to touch it because it came from her which is weird because he never turns down free food. We ended up throwing it away. Then it was quiet again for a few more weeks until my husband texted me that his ex was having an interview at his work. He told the manager his history with her and that it was a bad idea but she got hired anyways. He had some problems with her at work because she constantly called out and when she got fired she blamed my husband. Even though he had nothing to do with it. She showed up to our apartment when my husband was getting in his truck to go to work and she blocked him in and started yelling at him. They were screaming at each other in the parking lot for a good 5 minutes before I got my shoes on and went out there fully expecting to fight her but when she saw me and I asked "is there a problem? Husband is late for work now" she said "no, no problem we're just talking." And I said "ok well goodnight, he has to get to work" and she left. A few weeks later we saw her at the store again after I had found out I was pregnant but I hadn't told anyone. And she was asking what to get for a new mom who is expecting. Idk why I figured she was talking about me but after the conversation she said she was pregnant and i told her so was I... after that we never heard from her again and she stopped popping up places that we were. And it turns out she was lying about being pregnant anyways.

  • @tinamoore4310
    @tinamoore4310 Před rokem +2

    I’m so glad I’m older. My children will never be embarrassed because I was on Tic Tok . Sometimes you gotta look ahead and think twice about what you are about to do.

  • @truneilson
    @truneilson Před rokem +4

    I wish the girl at the end with access to the camera had used her best Siri voice and said "recording complete, card full".

  • @RandomMcRandomness
    @RandomMcRandomness Před rokem +11

    The most recent episode of Dateline was about an obsessed ex who had the new gf killed. 😬😬

  • @raebsen
    @raebsen Před rokem +3

    This video flared up my ptsd from my husband's ex-wife. I just could never! When i was datingz if it didn't work out, I literally did everything in my power to avoid my exes!

  • @Bane_Amesta
    @Bane_Amesta Před rokem +8

    I have to say thanks to the editors for adding subtitles, for non native English speakers, some videos are very hard to follow wihout a little help :'D

  • @ravengilliam2736
    @ravengilliam2736 Před rokem +1

    Her friend came down the stairs with his bag. Love it!

  • @MalcolmReynoldsQuotes
    @MalcolmReynoldsQuotes Před rokem +11

    My son is asleep! It’s time for Charlotte ❤

  • @callybo1
    @callybo1 Před rokem +5

    Police would be getting called for most of them I swear what is wrong with some people. I can understand break ups are hard but heck nope. They will never take them back acting like this. The women that slept on the porch would be getting cold water thrown over her. 😒
    That last one was amazing 🤣🤣

  • @RoughStoneRollingLapidary
    @RoughStoneRollingLapidary Před 10 měsíci +3

    0:41 Poor girl. I know that feeling. Notice how he’s the one staying out of it. Obvious guilt.

  • @tinytaz6668
    @tinytaz6668 Před rokem +1

    The “get the f*ck out” speech, it’s the person dumping his bag at his ass, perfect timing 🤣

  • @vikkitee4686
    @vikkitee4686 Před rokem +5

    Lol love the woman that did her whole night routine on the porch 😅

  • @danahowell36
    @danahowell36 Před rokem +5

    The last one was hilarious 😂😂😂😂

  • @AB-bc9tf
    @AB-bc9tf Před rokem +4

    2:18 I want some context I feel this might be something on the petty level for her.

  • @kleine.5438
    @kleine.5438 Před rokem +6

    Will definitely be hoping for an eventual part 2 please, 7:30 I'm guessing this is years ago but I hope they caught Sarah and put her in jail permanently geez!

    • @PeterSeiryuu
      @PeterSeiryuu Před rokem +2

      I tried to look for the news video but I couldn't find it... because I wanted to know how it all ended.

  • @jamesholt7612
    @jamesholt7612 Před rokem +5

    That's epic Charlotte. Behind most crazy women are the men who made them like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LoreilDarksky00
    @LoreilDarksky00 Před rokem +4

    That first one, with the son's crazy ex, at that point you just call the cops. She stole the mom's keys to a car, if that ain't cut off right then she's just gonna get worse

  • @MzCheecharella
    @MzCheecharella Před rokem +7

    Second video in: The ex BF wasn't "hiding", he simply gave up on the door being answered and left... after a reasonable amount of short time trying might add. Seems the person that posted it, may be the one with problems re making up non existent drama. Really surprised Charlotte included this under here. Other than that, love your stuff CD!!!

    • @nicholasjessup6788
      @nicholasjessup6788 Před rokem

      Maybe. More context is needed but I would feel a bit uneasy if my ex showed up, rang my doorbell and went behind a door. I understand that’s where he lives, but still. I understand the reaction.

  • @lauraleihand9362
    @lauraleihand9362 Před rokem +7

    Charlotte's content makes me feel like my life is not so crazy..... Or Petty. THANK YOU CHARLOTTE for always being you! Ya Beautiful, Bishhh! Xoxo💜😘

  • @duqky4860
    @duqky4860 Před rokem +25

    Thank you for posting Charlotte 💕 I’m going through a rough time right now, and seeing that you made another video always makes me feel so much better. We appreciate you💕

    • @notericforeman
      @notericforeman Před rokem +1

      sending you my love, i hope things improve for you! Have a beautiful day, friend ❤

  • @dianaquill9969
    @dianaquill9969 Před rokem +3

    I HIGHLY appreciate the subtitles! Thank you for adding them! :D

  • @grnwvfm
    @grnwvfm Před rokem +2

    9:40 it’s the guy coming downstairs and giving the boyfriend his break for me.

    • @houseofschenck6230
      @houseofschenck6230 Před rokem +1

      *bag I think autocorrect messed that up for you.
      That part was great!

    • @grnwvfm
      @grnwvfm Před rokem +1

      @@houseofschenck6230 thank you. You are 100% correct. Autocorrect will be the death of us. Lol

  • @robertvandiver7921
    @robertvandiver7921 Před rokem +2

    Sometimes you really need to make sure you're centering yourself while you're having a complete psychotic meltdown on your ex's stoop.

  • @Deedoof
    @Deedoof Před rokem +4

    It's okay to be angry and hurt, but your ex is not property and you are no longer owed their time/energy. Some of these people who destroy multiple lives are terrifying and need therapy, jail, or both.

  • @reginamachamer821
    @reginamachamer821 Před rokem +5

    When I was a teen I went through a bit of a "crazy ex" phase lol I am not proud of this. I showed up at my ex house unannounced while he was hanging out with his new gf and a bunch of our mutual friends. I walked in and kicked all of her stuff off his dresser and threw her slippers out the window 🤦‍♀️
    Marilyn from SE Pennsylvania, if you're seeing this, I am so sorry lol

  • @emmamcmahon1738
    @emmamcmahon1738 Před rokem +2

    The last girl casually admitting a crime💀 like bro people need to chill

  • @AnimeNarutoAkatsuki0
    @AnimeNarutoAkatsuki0 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for the subtitles! I have hearing aids and it makes me so happy whenever a CZcamsr or editor puts in subtitles so I can understand the video❤️❤️❤️