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I work in a bridal shop and this made me realize I would ABSOLUTELY reach out to one of my Brides if their MIL came back and did some petty shit. We'd ALL be talking about it lmao
Yes please do!!! I think that was the best part of the story, they cashed in from the turds AND saved the bride?!?! My heroes!!
I think it's the perfect way to handle it for the shop. If in-laws were that determined, they would just go to a different shop. Informing bride and helping her pick out a different dress is fantastic.
Iris Tinsley - Absolutely! It is supposed to be the couple's day, not anyone else's.
Here are good ideas to get back at MILs who use white dresses at weddings:
1. Do the same as the video
Pros: great pictures
Cons: Cannot be executed with short notice.
2. (My idea) Get a very extroverted dj who speaks well on the mic as insurance. If you mil arrives in a white dress then the dj will ask on the reception, in a beauty pageant voice, "who wore the dress best? In this corner a we have mil (proceeds to roast mil in law passive aggresively). And on this other corner we have the bride! She wears the dress in a classic form, etc etc". If they blame you, you act all surprised and say you didn't know whose idea it was. Maybe it was the dj himself who thought of that?
Pros: really good for short notice, without ruining anyone's dress
Cons: If your husband is spineless he might not like it at all
3. If your wedding isn't childfree train a kid to point out "hey, this person wore white? Isn't it rude? I'm ten and I know that! What's your excuse?"
Pros: Nobody questions a kid
Cons: Not for childfree weddings. The kid might end up learning and liking to roast people, so do it on your own risk.
You are heroes.
I'm loving the idea of the "wedding-themed wedding" with the bride being a splash of color in the sea of white dresses. Not only is it visually awesome, it does away with that "the white wedding dress means purity" bull.
It never did mean that anyway. It was a way of showing off how rich you were by buying what would basically be a single use dress in the old days. Before that it was just "wear your nicest dress" to be married in.
@@dawnmidnightsun2521 You're right that it didn't originate that way, and white dresses, like white shoes, were a symbol of wealth, but Queen Victoria, who was fairly obsessed with the whole purity thing, eventually turned it into a symbol and something "required" (before, even with the white being in fashion, as you said, you wore your best, if you couldn't afford it, or added colors).
So you're both simultaneously correct ^^
Its so healing to see a civil “everyone’s right!” every once in a while😌
@@justkiddingnot1913 Ha, amen to that!
Every Indian wedding ever😂
"I don't wanna a wedding" to "I will make a wedding theme wedding for revenge" is the best plot twist I ever seen in my live, Shamalamalan would be proud.
Edit: the priest becoming her friend and being at the wedding as a guest was the icing on the cake.
I'm assuming this MIL has been s pain in the priest's backside for quite some time.
He absolutely would be proud
Biggest uno reverse. MIL: Here is a priest to absolve you! DIL: Jokes on you, he is my friend now!
MIL is not Catholic I’d she attends the wedding. She cannot attend under the circumstances. And so she compounded the prob by such manipulative , passive aggressive behavior. Priest should have counseled her correctly on how best to love them both while staying true to Church requirements in the matter. I don’t expect non-Catholics or poorly catechized Catholics to understand it, but she has to comply w teaching and that includes being positively supportive in ways that she can. And not turn to toxic practices ..
Priest ??? He is clueless or just willfully rejecting Church teaching
I’m laughing imagining being one of the guests invited to that wedding. Imagine going to get your wedding dress altered so it fits you years later. I picture the tailor making small talk, asking, “are you renewing your vows?” And responding “no, I’m wearing this to a friend’s wedding.” I bet their face would be hilarious before explaining 😂
That would be wild
I'd bring the invitation and assume that most guests would be aware this is because grooms family plan on turning up in it so the dress shop would probably reply with a story of them having to inform a bride of similar stuff!
1)i love that the bridal shop called her to tell her what was up
2)but the "well we have a bunch of friends who want to rewear their wedding dresses, lets let them" was beautiful and a wonderful gift the the rest of their friends as well as a punishment to the in laws
It was absolutely perfect! That bride is classy!!
Yesss! Brilliant indeed
That was the ultimate nose-thumbing play. The fact that the mil and sisters tried to upstage her and had no idea what was coming was hilarious!
I would have bought a wedding dress for that wedding 😂
Plus all the guests think the in laws were just matching the theme while brides mom got to pop in purple too. So not only were they not able to upstage her on her day but no one else even knows they tried
Does anyone else think that the "atheist goth" bride should receive the "most pettiest bride" award of them all? Seriously, she annihilated the Mother-In-Law and won over a priest, of all things. Just amazing!
What a classy lady about it all too. I just love her.
I've seen OP comments elsewhere, she wrote about the friendship with the priest 😀 they are still friends!
And gave all those gals and their own wedding dresses a debutante affair as well.
@@cb9825 that's great, I would love being friends with a priest or nun that's chill about me being agnostic and having a bone to pick with the bs that gets inacted and excused by the name of religion. I have an absurdly high esteem of what I call very faithful and responsably practising people given how much glee I get out of "from gods perspectiv" and other critiques as well as reencounters of the pope wars
I nominate her 🤗💜
My sister wore a white dress to my end of September wedding. She looked as elegant as any bride and passed it off as how sophisticated she is. Honestly, it says more about her than it does about me. It is great to have photographic evidence of her behavior just in case I start gaslighting myself.
I feel so sorry for you really but you really should show her future fiance or her hubby that pic and tell him she has inappropriate thoughts about u r husband. They will consider relationship with her
5:39 so proud of the store calling the bride. That’s exactly what every shop should do in this situation.
I'm sure the shop tried to stop them or make them aware that it's not okay, but this family is pushy so they felt obligated to let her know. They were such a hero and help to the bride.
I personally don’t think the shop should have ordered the dresses. The call to the bride to give her a heads up was nice enough okay but why allow them to order her dress in the first place and BTW what happened to the dress the bride ordered. She said that she paid for it….It’s all a cute story but it does seem a bit suspicious…everyone wore a wedding dress…really
My friends mum turned up to his wedding in a white dress and was quickly told to go and change by his dad (he got married in a hotel and the mum had another dress up in her room, the dress she has told the dad that she was going to wear before slipping away before the ceremony and getting changed.)
At the reception the brides brother got a little too drunk and loudly exclaimed he was glad that the mother of the groom had got changed out of the white dress because he didn't think the wedding was an appropriate place to show the world the incestuous feeling she has towards her son. After all, why would the mother of the groom wear a white wedding dress to her own sons wedding unless she wanted to be the one fucking him at the end of the night.
Everyone went silent except the bride who couldn't stop laughing, she was also drunk.
The Mum ran up to her room crying saying she would never forgive the bride or her brother.
Everyone has been low contact with the mum since.
Hands down one of the best weddings I've ever been too. I'm still laughing about it 8 years later.
Lmao he was spitting fact
Oh wow! To be a fly on the wall in that room…also so I could low key fly with her to see how she’d react once she got back to her room. 😂 awesome 😎
@Max Guevara no one went with her, her husband didn't even follow her upstairs. He said that if he gave her attention it would only make her worse, best just to ignore her until she got all the drama out of her system.
He sat drinking Whisky all night and had a great time without her.
@@tangerinebabe1118 damn hubby was so used to her temper tantrum... Poor man..
@@tangerinebabe1118 oh I get that, my remark was meant in how she’d react when she knew no one was around.
I love that in the first story, the husband was not a total momma's boy. Sure he had his moments he thought his wife was exaggerating, but overall he was very supportive of her conditions to agree to the wedding and took her side when he finally realised how terrible his mom actually was. Good for them!
I feel it was not so much he didn’t believe the girlfriend/wife but more that he just couldn’t wrap his head around the fact his Mum could do such a thing…
I imagine having gone his entire life being gaslit by the family, it was hard to really snap out of it, but good for him to finally do so and take his wife's side
Eh, I still thought he was a loser with no backbone
MILs showing up wearing white has been done. I know someone who found out what her MIL was planning. The old bat had done this before at family weddings so the bride decided to tell everyone to come in white. Heck, even the brides maids wore white. The bride wore a really stunning ball gown in blue. It looked fantastic with her diamond and sapphire jewelry which she was dripping in. The MIL was completely upstaged.
Right on!
Okay but the bridal shop who called that woman to inform her what her mother-in-law and sister-in-law did is the absolute best and they deserve so much credit for that
That goth bride is a goddess! Not only did she get a dress more to her liking and style, but I bet everyone who got to reuse their wedding dresses had a blast playing dress up for the day. That is the model for standing up for yourself and still keeping it classy!
Can we as adults who are married have like one day we get to re ware are dresses and nice clothes and all just have a huge party
Once the MIL realizes your not gonna allow her bs anymore, all of a sudden your the problem, jeez.
The story sounds like her fantasy. She probably doesn't get along with the ILs and they probably don't behave according to how she wants but I would believe the story with half of the bravado removed. As is, I call BS.
@@mortimerbrewster3671it sounds like something I’d read on tumblr back in the day
@@mortimerbrewster3671 Sounds totally plausible to me! I not only know people like this, I AM someone like this (minus the goth style😄). To cultivate this level of bravado I highly recommend assertiveness training (worth the time/$ in improved salary negotiations alone! ; - ). Also spending time with artists, out gay people, or anyone else who's had to develop the art of accepting their own and others' differentness.
Conformity and tolerating mistreatment are far less necessary than most people think, especially if you can learn to tune out the haters!
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If I went to a wedding where a drama relative wore a wedding dress, or a white dress that clearly looks like a wedding dress, I would volunteer to be that person who spilled red wine down the front. I will take one for the team.
Same
Me too!!!
Or a cup of cocoa😜on the backside.
That's such a good idea
Sorry girl....I saw her first.
It's so funny how "evil" and "awful" or "scary" someone is when they finally stop putting up with people's manipulative and cruddy behavior and stand up for themselves. I'm so proud of the OP in the first story. She deserves a medal of "Most Classy Revenge" in history...at least, in my opinion ⭐️
I absolutely loved the first one, she was an absolute GIRLBOSS. She did not let the MIL and SILs get in ber way and said her opinions and likings loud and clear, i love the idea of a wedding themed wedding and cannot praise this girl enough for this amazing story fir our amusement and her victory 👀
I've been a florist for over 40 years. We had a lot of either the Mother of the Bride, or Mother-in-laws trying to change the minds of the Bride. I would literally slightly turn my back to them, and only speak to the Bride. Sometimes I would have to remind the Mothers that they already had their wedding. It's the Bride's turn to have what she would like.
I know I'll have to fight my mom if I get married someday. ^^ I've juste bought my first own house (all by myself), and I've had to fight her because she didn't want to let me chose my furniture... I won, but it was a hard time.
I'm really gratefull that people like you exist, because it's really hard to fight an invasive mother.
@@grenade8572 hope things are going better for u now. not letting someone pick their furniture for THEIR house is gruelling. i know how stressful the house market can be & im so glad u landed a deal!
My florist did the same for me when my SIL and MIL started making comments on the flowers I was choosing for my wedding.
Vendors like you are godsent!
That is PURE CLASS and PROFESSIONALISM at it's FINEST!!
@@grenade8572girl from someone with a step mum like this, you don't have to include your mum in the planning, bring your hubby to the flowers consultation, bring a friend to the dress shopping 🙏
Just so you know, as you glossed over it, the Imperial March is actually Darth Vader’s theme music in Star Wars! Brilliant choice by the bride. Even those who aren’t SW fans can recognize that music.
Omg what lmao 😂 I thought it was a British thing 😳 I just laughed out loud reading the you've made my day!
@@liv-pk7jb Glad your found my comment funny. It was obvious that the potato queen had no idea what that music was. It was playing in my head all the way through! 🇨🇦🖖🏻🇨🇦
Yes! and my first thought was "here comes The Boss"!
Yep, Darth Vader's Imperial March is my ringtone of choice for my husband.
I love it as an entrance song at this wedding!!! (I'm a Lutheran Minister.) It would really announce the bride's arrival quite nicely, and let the MIL and SIL's know to beware. The force was with this bride and her family. :)
At first I thought it was Elgar's "Imperial March" meant but then realised a Goth Atheist wouldn't choose that piece. Neither would I, for that matter!
The goth bride is an absolute stone cold legend. We should all aspire to be this petty. 😂😂
Also, totally relate to the last story. My sister has always tried to outshine me and I have a serious fear that if I ever get married she will find some way to make the day about her.
I worked at a bridal shop for a year while in school and we always tried to defend the bride from toxic relatives / "friends". It was kind of part of the job xD
Lmao imagine spending a ton of money on 4 identical wedding dresses and not getting any satisfaction wearing them🤣
It was only about $300 (I've heard this one before) Also states that a lot of women guests rented dresses from there. For various reasons didn't have it anymore, weight, never married. So the shop made out by informing OP of MIL's intent!
Omg yes!!
Now imagine being the daughter in law and getting the most satisfaction out of that purchase 😂😂
@@marshawargo7238 $300 for all 4 dresses or for each dress, meaning $1200 in total? Either way too much money on the dresses they bought purely out of spite and will never wear again🤣
@@cb9825 and now those women have two wedding dresses each that they can never wear again. I wouldn’t be surprised if the bridal shop didn’t give them a refund
Totally priceless.
I laughed at the first story.... minutes after my marriage ceremony, my husband's uncle grabbed me by the arm and said "I know you are a witch."
My husband's mother is a church going, righteous woman that slept with her contractor for a discount on the addition to her house. My husband cheated with my friend around the corner and became a Minister after we got divorced. If that is the Godly type, I will happily proclaim myself to be a witch..... at least I'm not evil!!!
Did you tell him, "That's right. Now that you know, you better don't get on my bad side since.... " And gave him a warning glance.
I'm so sorry those are the people that represent religion for you 😶🥲 yikes. As a christian I promise we aren't all like that!! 🤍🤍
Witch, woman in total control of herself! The "religious" types definitely hate that
I think those are good representations of hypocritical people, which come in all shapes and stripes including religious hypocrites.
I feel like I'd openly say, "yeah, I am. What of it?" because I'm actually pagan and don't give a shit LOL
That was the best wedding story I've ever heard! She and her hubby did it their way! Bravo!! Standing ovation!!
As a Pagan Wiccan to hear that she had a pagan handfasting and became friends with the priest as revenge is very satisfying.
Edit: I love black and purple as they're like witchy colors and the fact that she wore a black and purple dress and was on a motorcycle. She's became my idol.
I'm interested in Wicca, but not sure if I want to become wiccan.
Still.
I was invited a few weeks ago to a marriage. The civil ceremony was reserved to the closest relatives (I was not). Little we knew : bride and groom had in front of everyone (not only closest relative) a second ceremony - druidic handfasting. So cool ! I almost cried (I didn't know I was so sentimental) when the bride handfasted "for this life and all the following ones".
@@grenade8572 paganism isn't for everyone but it's something to dabble in if you're interested (Wiccans are a type of pagan). I think handfasting is better than the "original" plain wedding as the christian wedding it's all about the male owning the female back in the day. Handfasting is something that symbolizes equality, love and hardships. It's very sentimental and spiritual.
I went to a wedding as a plus one and girl, it was DRAMATIC! Everyone seemed so beautiful and I saw a older lady and a younger lady wearing whites, they looked similar. Just found out it was the MIL and groom’s sister. AH😩. The bride came out and it was a beautiful red gown and it was jaw dropping. We all stood up and clapping and cheering. Haha. It was her idea as I was told. Then here where it got interesting, before they kissed, the bride looked at her MIL and the SIL asking if they want to marry them both🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eeww
I mean if you are wearing white or a specific Colour to a cultural themed wedding that the brides typically wear , you are basically saying " I WANT TO MARRY/SCREW/FREAK THIS GROOM..." and stating your intentions really outloud to the public.... Especially screwed up if you are a direct family member to either groom or bride....
I would absolutely make a point of turning to them *just* before the ceremony started and saying "I just want to let you know, we aren't having the line about objecting. I'm really sorry, and I'm super flattered, but I already picked which member of your family I'm marrying, so I don't need to hear your love confessions or proposals"
I can totally imagine the bridal shop employees regarding the issue with raised eyebrows, taking the money for the additional dresses and then deciding "we made good business here, but that wont stop us from doing something about these dirtbags"
😂😂
I'm even thinking that probably they tried to say something (but how ?) and MIL wouldn't listen anyway (it's not like it would be easy to find the exact same dress in another shop I guess ?). Or replied with some absurd excuses, so the bridal shop employees knew what to do as soon as the MIL left 😅
Omg I would pay money to see the video of MIL and SIL arriving to the wedding in their wedding dresses only to find everyone else in wedding dresses. I can just imagine the epileptic rage
Sorry to be pedantic, but the word you want is ‘apoplectic’
The other one is a seizure disorder
@heatherduke7703 Tbf(and I have a seizure disorder) the idea of them being so angry they caused themselves to have seizures was a kinda funny mental picture. I don't wish seizures on anyone, buuuuut I also may not feel bad if they happened to certain people.
Not to mention seeing the bride in purple and "their" priest enjoying the Petty club!😄
@@nom-nomnami1743 My thought exactly.
The priest being the MC and the wedding shop employees is such good energy. Making my early morning 💖
@@CCisRight proof?
The first one wasn't petty revenge ...it was just clever
Love how the bridal shop informed her
Yep bridal consultants are great about making sure the bride has a good wedding in all areas they can help, I’m certain it’s probably not the first time they dealt with difficult families
@@marieknight9385 you are probably right
Oh that first story was so fun!!!! Ive never heard a MIL story like that where the bride totally bamboozled the MIL/SIL and so well!
It was so great how the bride switched everything around at her wedding! She was not going to let the MIL get the upper hand no matter what!!! I keep picturing the 5 of them showing up in identical wedding gowns believing they were going to match the bride, only to discover that most of the woman had on wedding gowns EXCEPT THE BRIDE!!!!
Love it.
I’m so so happy for the frosty bride. She is my absolute favorite and the only person in these crazy stories that had stood up for themselves and their husbands in a mature and efficient way.
These stories highlight why never wearing white to someone else's wedding is a rule that has nothing to do with the bride "feeling upstaged" - if someone insists on doing it, it's *for a reason.* They're sending a message to you and everyone at your wedding, and that's what needs to be addressed.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 Yikes, friend. All that aside, I generally think children have a sweeping pass. I'm sorry that happened to you and hope that everyone who needed a little dose of humility got some.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 no, no no. Don't chastise yourself for other people's total neglect of sharing important basic information or the lack of nurturing you in the optimal way from young.
Those people have *no excuse* to single you out for years because of this one innocent mistake. You can now explain and talk to them about it, but their reactions or understanding may differ from your expectations, so never take it to heart.
Also (sorry for the essay), reading your comments make me realise I'm also exactly like you, and thus I'm probably also in the spectrum (I haven't tried to get formally diagnosed yet). I didn't realise certain basic stuff or common sense until I made quite a few people in separate occasions tell me indirectly what I did wrong, and every time it happened it baffled me though I managed to mask it (as the term is when we adapted, right?), and I would compare their level of concerns with my own neglectful family members or former friends! Those people who talked to me about my mistakes weren't even close to me (acquaintances at work) and they HAD to tell me to correct my wrongs, because it irritated their normal senses lol. My busy family basically let me free range, but I was not as independent and 'intelligent' as they had initially hoped for. It took us as a family three decades to finally sit together and talk about why I am the way I am.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 Never call yourself a social idiot because you relate to people socially in a different way than they expect. If they cannot see your good will and lack of bad intentions when you do something "socially unacceptable", they are the idiots. As family, it is their responsibility to be accepting and supportive of you no matter what. If you struggle in social situations, they should step up and help you or accept you do things differently, not judge you. That's what a loving family is... and they clearly don't have the social skills to understand that.
Young ladies already struggle with so many body image issues, they don't need some bridezilla and her velociraptor guests making them feel bad for wearing white to a wedding. Kids of moderate income families cannot afford to purchase formal outfits every 6 months as they grow, much less a variety of colors/seasons/styles. The adults would have had a pretty good idea you couldn't afford special formal wear, and they should have offered to purchase something for you to wear if they had a dress code. If a couple can afford spend thousands of dollars on flowers, decorations, wedding attire, favors, venues, cake, and champagne, they darn well could afford to spent $29.99 to make sure you felt beautiful that day too. Kids get a free pass, plus any bride who feels upstaged by an awkward 12 year old is pathetic, lol.
At my wedding I'm planning to were baby blue and everyone here white so I can stand 9ut lol
Absolutely agree with you. If anyone wears white to a wedding, I'm sorry, but their motive is something horrible.
Wow! That first story was INSANE! I'm Catholic, myself, but NEVER do I push my religion on people of other faith & even atheists.
I can sympathize with this woman as I have some friends who are leaving the LDS faith, so I know the shame that comes with not only leaving a church, but toxicity they've faced while still members of the church. Power to this woman for knowing what she wants & seeing that her issue was with the institution of Catholicism & not the random priest pushed on her.
Same!!! God gave us free will, and that meant will to choose Him or not. Religious freedom is very important. Also, THEY WILL KNOW WE ARE CHRISTIANS BY OUR LOVE! And as a catholic I often times find myself ashamed of the actions of my fellow peers.
IKR? I'm also Catholic but also believe in free will. Choice of religion is a personal matter.
@@erikarussell1142 they give us a bad name. Mother Teresa, herself, never tried to convert anyone. She told any Jew to be a good Jew, Muslims to be good Muslims, etc.
@@kathy2trips 100%. These crazy religious ladies who judge everyone give Catholics a bad name. They shame even some Catholics for not going to every single Mass or not being more involved. Sorry, lady, but I work, so I can't go to every event.
I heard this quote that said sitting in church makes you a Christian just as much as sitting in a garage makes you a mechanic.
I agree with you 100% and I'm an agnostic. I greatly appreciate it when people don't push their beliefs onto anyone and respects others for their own choices. The Christian faith does say to love everyone and not to judge others but there are religious people don't practice that, which gives everyone else a bad name. My parents raised us as Christians but I don't have the same beliefs. They are aware that I'm an agnostic and that I am open minded to different possibilities but I won't define anything when it comes to spiritualty. Going to church and reading the bible is very uncomfortable for me and I'm glad my parents are respectful of that.
This is why small independent bridal shops must be supported! We get really invested in each bride. Do you think a big box bridal store (or online retailer) would have noticed this? NOPE. Great story.
The wedding themed wedding is such a perfect example of how to handle issues in a healthy way. It had to be a hoot to see them walk in and everyone but her and her family is in purple and black. YES!
The purple wedding dress, wedding themed wedding story was THE best thing I’ve heard in forever!
I can relate dealing with a toxic MIL. When planning the wedding she wanted it held at her house. She was expecting my "family" to pay for everything. Including have her property professionally landscaped, house hold repairs, repainting the entire house, and buying all new furniture. FIL asked who keeps the furniture. MIL said they get to keep it since they are the ones hosting the wedding. Needless to say the wedding was never held at their house. Everyone was fighting me over the color scheme. The wedding colors were supposed to be peaches and cream. Instead I wound up with a pink and white wedding that I still despise to this day. My now ex abandoned me back in 2015, which left me homeless and fighting for 5yrs to get off the streets, which I did. No one in my toxic "family", or even my ex know if I'm still alive. But I get the last laugh. I am the only one to have graduated college, and now live on my own without having to share a apartment.
I'm divorcing now and also have no support. Best revenge is living well, so good on you!
Did you ever get to hold a 'getting rid of the bad wedding memories' ceremony? If not, maybe a family member or friend still has the invitation or pictures you could destroy ceremonially? Being successful on your own merits is the best revenge. You are well rid of a man who let his family run roughshod over you.
So very proud of you for being able to take charge of your life and be able to look for your happiness in your own terms ♡
*My in-laws were pains during the planning too…* 🙄 My MIL picked the wedding songs, my FIL picked the date, and _the night before the wedding,_ *my FIL tried talking my hubby out of marrying me!!!* 😒
Lucky for me, my hubby’s *nothing* like his dad, and I’ve been happily married to my man for 5 years 🥰
I’m sorry you had to go through all of that😢 but you still get the happy ending you deserve! You go, girl! 💜
Not sure if I'll ever get married but I'd definitely have a colourful dress. One that I could actually wear again too. I also love the "wedding-themed wedding" idea. That's such a cool twist on the usual ceremony. The best revenge is always planned weeks (or months) ahead and thoroughly thought out. It's always so satisfying to hear about them.
I was not taught how to do petty revenge and how to protect my boundaries. So here I am! Learning from you! Thank you so much for your channel!!!!!!❤
I live to be as petty as the bride in the first story. She handled it brilliantly and exposed those in laws for the toxic shrews they were.
@@It-is-me...Melsie her story reminds me of a petty wedding revenge where OP, a woman about to get married, finds out that her sister plans to wear a predominantly white ball gown to her wedding. OP and fiancé decide to have a costume wedding instead and made sure everyone except sis and those who favor her knew about the attire. Sister sulked during the entire wedding.
Bakura!
I totally love the fact that the first Bride was not about to take any family crap! I am at home cheering her on! Looking back my Hubby & I took so much crap....literally, my parents said they were too busy to come to my wedding. And it went downhill from there! I have 3 beautiful kids. And WE ARE surviving perfectly, since his parents & my parents are super selfish! I love the ways this woman came & knew how to handle the bad behaviour! 2 snaps! YOU GO GIRLIE GIRL!!!!
Sorry both families are turd collections. NC as necessary and enjoy kids.
Being a family doesn’t always mean your blood relatives. It can be your immediate family, your friends, your pets, etc.
Love the bride who allowed everyone to wear their own wedding dresses to her wedding such a great idea!!
Goth bride story is THE best wedding petty revenge story I have heard! You go girl!! 😂
The first wedding was just wow! What a great idea to have everyone wear their old wedding dresses. 🤣 The priest being an MC, too! Ahahaha. I had to watch this for a 2nd or 3rd time... it was so funny how she talks about how her in laws plotted against her but the husband was just brushing it off. Wow! Just wow! I always say this, people who always go to church every Sunday are the most judgemental individuals that I've ever met in my life.
my wife´s family was not well off, i didn´t really mind, my mil aproached me and told me they would love to contribute to the wedding, i told her no biggie there, i love my fiancé and i would take care of everything, my mother in all of her wisdom, knowing the situation took over and made us the most wonderful wedding we could have hoped with the help of my sister who has a pretty big house, i always listen to this petty mil stories and wonder how the f* couldn´t they be happy for their kids
I wonder the same thing, smh. Why wouldn't you, as a parent, want your kid to be happy?
narcissism and sociopathic tendencies is the answer you're looking for.
They are just full of hate and jealousness that it overpowers their happiness for their child.
This makes me so freaking thankful for my mil who, while I didn’t love everything about her, I loved her for loving my kids, staying out of my business and the love she showed me. She died over a year ago and we miss her.
Cutest sneeze ever.
You know people says "bless you" because they thought sneezes were a way for the body to get rid of satan, and being blessed made sure he couldn't go back in you.
Appropriate with the story you told.
Finally a supportive husband. Took him awhile to come around, but he did! Applause!
But what took him so long…?
Mama’s Boy 🤬
@@ruh-roh9472 Or maybe it really was FOG (fear, obligation, & guilt) plus the ONE thing no one wants to be true - that your own family is not supporting you.
@@ruh-roh9472 there was no father or brother mentioned in the story. He may had a role forced on to him which clouded his vision
@@ruh-roh9472 its not shameful or wrong to love your family who you thought were good people, i mean, they could be two faced, and all youve seen are their good sides, i was raised pretty good, and if i hear my family would do such a thing it would be unbelievable for me too, it probably never crossed his mind that people he thought was good and he loved are acting like that
Shoutout to the priest in the first story for befriending the "atheist goth" and MCing their wedding. What a cool dude.
I think it might also have been a thing he had against her mil too sounded like he wasn’t too keen on mil or her telling mil he wasn’t officiating
I love the thought of the ladies getting to wear their dress one more time. That was kind of sweet of the bride 😉 who also got to wear something that she may have liked more than a traditional wedding dress.
I loved every single minute of the goth bride! She is my spirit animal.
Some people are just unbelievable. Your boyfriend says you're being inappropriate and OUTRIGHT REFUSES to be seen with you, you get told to sit at the back of the wedding and then escorted off of the property BY YOUR PARENTS *solely so you can change your outfit* ...and after everything goes down and days of this same topic being brought up *by different people* , you STILL don't see anything wrong with your behavior or attire?
-Tell the world you're a narcissistic heartless slag without even batting an eyelash.
-Hold my beer 🍺
Parents seemed kind of prepared as though they knew she may pull some BS
I accidentally wore a white sweater to a wedding and didn’t realize what I was wearing until we’d driven the 2 hours there. It was just my only clean shirt. Luckily the bride was super chill about it while I profusely apologized. She said if I hadn’t said anything she wouldn’t have noticed and no one said anything but I’m still mortified that I was that thoughtless and unprepared
A sweater is different than a whole dress, I don't think it was that big of a deal, especially since the bride even said so :)
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 I’m so so sorry that’s absolutely terrible. You didn’t deserve that. How is a 12 year old supposed to know the wearing white rule anyway?
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 ew to the girls need to wear dresses part, but the way it sounds you’re probably right about them looking for a reason. I’m no stranger to family like that. People can be so bitter and miserable for no reason, and then think they’re justified in spreading that shit like a disease. I hope you’re doing better now and have people around you who care about you. These people would have known the financial situation you and your dad were in and would have had loads of opportunities to take you out to get a new dress. And if none of them had the funds to either, then they should have shut their mouths after looking hard in the mirror. You were also 12 and in a striped dress, not 18 and in a floor length lacy white gown that actually looked like a wedding dress. You were a kid. You couldn’t have upstaged anybody or truly meant harm. Whoever can genuinely feel threatened by a 12 year old at their own wedding are pathetic (excuse me for the trash talk, that’s just an unbelievable thing to make YOUR responsibility when you were still a middle schooler) or have a seriously scary partner that should be on a watch list. I hope you and your father got far away from them and were able to flourish, and I hope your journey continues on the up and up. You deserve more than that treatment, and deserve to have people who’d never even dream of treating you like that in their worst nightmares surrounding you.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 What utter nonsense. No one normal would ever think a 12 year-old would be trying to upstage the bride. I’m sorry you had to endure such horrible people.
Dont worry about a white sweater.
A wedding themed wedding! I adore that idea! How cool would that be??
Love it, if I ever marry, I would love to do that ^^
If I get married I'm doing it.
Love how the bridal shop were total professionals in handling it by just quietly informing OP of what her toxic future in laws were up to. It was a master stroke of genius for OP to totally change everything around so their thunder was completely stolen. It also had the advantage that their blatant disrespect of both OP and their marriage proved once and for all to her husband everything she had been telling him about their horrible behavior and ill will towards her/ their relationship . It's sad that it took them so blatantly going out of bounds for him to finally wake up to see just what nasty pieces of work his female family members really are. Story 2 : I totally agree with Charlotte in ..He's STILL with her after she knowingly pulled this highly disrespectful stunt at her own family members wedding...really what's wrong with him ? What part of even after he bailed on her because objected so strongly and her own parents made her change she STILL is making ridiculous excuses and doesn't want to admit she was very wrong isn't a major red flag to him that he needs to run not walk away from this clearly narcissistic dumpster fire.
That first story is absolutely the best wedding story I've ever heard. I laughed so hard I think I hurt my ribs.
Being a guy, it may not be expected that this would matter that much to me, but, I just had to say it . . . the Idea with the wedding dress(es) was a stroke of the most exquisite genius. I found myself fist-pumping as you read about the invitation to the wives of the guests to wear their wedding dresses to the wedding. I usually only find this kind of thing mildly amusing, but that just made me soooo happy.
It usually make people happy to see jerks get what they deserve 😂 I would have loved to see their faces when it happened
Oh my god, I usually only have mild reactions to these but I literally started clapping loudly at the finale of this story! It was brilliant and sooo satisfying, the bride is the baddest b of them all.
The first wedding is pure GOLD!! The pettiness was so good idk anything will ever top this!! The best part is being able to wear your wedding dress again, I'd love to see the wedding pics!!
MIL and SILs in the atheist goth bride story are so self-centered that they think the wedding dress is the most importanting to OP because THEY think it's the most important thing. When in fact, OP already has what she knows what's important a family and a loving husband that tries and got to understand her. The wedding was just a formality. Their plot to ruin the wedding proves how much they don't know her.
They actually don't deserve to get to know her. She is humorous, intelligent, and is the love of her husband's life. What could be better?
That goth bride's story needs to be made into a movie. That was hilarious and so so satisfying!
My late sister tried to wear an off-white lacy dress to my wedding. I was at her house when she and her boyfriend started arguing about it being inappropriate. She came storming out and asked me if it was ok (thinking I'd say yes because I was always a bit of a pushover back then). Of course, to her surprise, I told her that no she could not wear it. She ended up wearing the same dress in a light blue color, but did try to cause a scene at my wedding.
@@alyssaa1328 At least it was an accident, and I assume it was not a wedding dress
I wore an "off-white" dress, not a gown to a wedding. I was 19 and didn't think it was inappropriate. I know how sensitive some people are and wouldn't do it now. I still think off-white isn't white but that's just me.
@@callysto11 I think it really depends on what kind of white the bride is wearing tbh. Like, yeah off-white may not look identical to white, but if the bride is ALSO wearing off-white, it's kinda inappropriate ya know. The bride could wear ivory, or blush, possibly an eggshell, so imo it's just a safer bet to avoid all the "white-related" colours. It's one day and I'm sure most people have a different colour in their wardrobe 😂
@@Emu19 IDK at this point. I was reading some of the comments here and now I'm confused 😕 You can't wear white, or off white, or blush, or cream, or black, or red. That list just seems like overkill to me. Maybe we can get Brides to put down their dress color on the invite 😊 Then we can be sure to offend NO ONE! I wore blush to a wedding a few years back. It was a dress and not a gown. I think these rules are getting out of hand.
@@callysto11 Pipa Midlletown wore off-white to her sister's wedding. Personally, I would never do that. I wouldn't wear beige or any color that may resemble white in the picutres. Black is fine if the wedding is at evening, a red is ok in Western weddings. In some Eastern cultures, the bride wears red, so I am not sure. But use common sense. Ask the bride what is the dress code.
I love that smart bride!! That bridal shop was so cool to let her know.
4:44 literally birdie in glass onion. still not over that quote of hers, it's such a good character moment.
First story.....EPIC!!!! the only thing I am upset about is that I wasn't invited. That wedding sounded awesome! Congratulations ❤️
Yes, I would have LOVED to have been at that wedding! Definitely memorable. And fun!
I really like the idea of everyone wearing wedding dresses, even if the bride is also wearing a traditional wedding dress. It would be great for an introvert bride. There could be so much fun to have too. Wedding Dress Trends through Time. Seeing the old ladies get to look like princesses again. Omg, I'm absolutely loving this idea. Don't want it for the wedding? Do it for the rehearsal dinner!!
With the gal who tried to wear white to her brother's wedding, that's deal-breaker behavior for me. She shows she has no respect for others and no willingness to celebrate other people's accomplishments. I don't need that energy in my life.
VLC and NC are valid punishments.
There’s more to that story. It was a gay wedding so she obviously disapproved and thought she could upstage them. Yep. She’s a horrible person.
I wore a white sundress (that looked in NO way bridal) to a wedding with 2 grooms. I figured it was fine without a bride. I still sometimes wonder if I’m the worst person ever because of that. There was definitely no even hint of upstaging, whatsoever. I just had a cute dress and knew no white except the bride rule, but I figured a wedding with no bride, it was fine. (I realize now I probably still shouldn’t have worn it, just to err on the side of not wearing white period.)
That girl in the story knew it was bridal-ish, and was definitely intentional about wearing that specifically white, floor-length dress.
Borderline homophobic. Or maybe she didn’t mean it that way, but somewhere inside, she might be disappointed that her brother wasn’t bringing a ‘sister’ into her life, and she’s playing up the fact that she’ll remain the only girl.
That purple dress, gothic bride one could LEGIT be a sick movie!! 🤣😂
That wedding story is the best thing I’ve ever heard! Well played - plus the wedding sounded fun!
Oh, how I love how that woman put her MIL and SILS back in place! That was the most brilliant petty revenge I've seen in a while! She deserves an award! Also, that bridal shop was amazing with how they reacted! That's how you stand up for the bride, I mean, come on..Getting all the sales but warning the bride what the fam-in-law was planning was a bold move. ;D
It would have been funny if the bride had paid to get all the dresses dyed black.
The bridal shop made sure the MIL and SILS did not go to another salon to pull this stunt. Really quick thinking gals there. And perhaps a little petty as well?
@@japspeedgirl6216 that's what I was thinking. The shop did good x2
As a Christian I will say this, you go hun. That is amazing and honestly if I ever get married I'd be very tempted to do the wedding theme. I like wedding dresses, but I also can't justify spending a crap ton of money on a dress you are only going to wear once. That mother-in-law and family are just toxic because they didn't need to behave like that, they could have just behaved like the priest. Be sad by the fact but still support the happy couple because it's their choice. It's like they all forget that God gave us free will, which means we get to choose our own paths and no one has the right to force you to go down the path you don't want to do. You can't save another person's soul you can only save your own soul therefore you can talk about it with them if they want to talk to you about it and be a friend to them, but you certainly can't dictate what they believe. Sorry if that was a little ranty, I just get very annoyed with these for show Christians who say they're Christian but then don't bother to follow anything that our religion teaches us and then we get blamed for their actions. Going back on the positive note that wedding sounded awesome and I really sad I didn't get to go. Blessings go out to her and her family and I hope they have a happy life.
You sound like my mom, in a very good way!
As a fellow Christian, I second this!
As a catholic, I fully stand behind this.
Came here to say just this
They will know we are CHRISTIANS BY OUR LOVE ❤️
7:15 - She walked down the aisle in a purple and black dress with everyone else in white wedding dresses. As a fellow goth I love this, and if I ever get married this is how I'm doing it. This whole thing is the best wedding I've ever heard of.
This isn’t petty. This is a whole different level. This is a PETTY EXTRAVAGANZA!!!
I don't want to get married but oh my gosh a goth wedding is the most amazing thing. I love how they made it wedding themed for the rest so it was white and then the bride and bridal party stood out in a gothic way! Amazing!!
The staff at that wedding shop are just the best kind of people💝💝💝
the first story WAS INCREDIBLE
I’m so glad the Petty Queen finally reacted to that first story! I’ve heard it on a few other channels and was wondering when Charlotte would be reacting to it too. That bride definitely deserves a Most Pettiest Bride award, as someone else mentioned in another comment!
Good on that bridal shop for giving that bride a heads up about the shenanigans her ILs were trying to pull. So glad she still had the wedding she wanted n hubby was united with her decisions yay
If I had a lot of friends and family I would LOVE to have them wear their wedding dresses! A wedding themed wedding and another chance for women to wear their wedding dresses is so sweet!
That bride who wore purple sounds like a great lady. Such creative solutions with the strength to carry them all out.
The only positive thing about my kids waking me up at 6am, is that your videos come live within a few minutes if it.
Nothing like some hot coffee, and petty drama to start the day 💃🏻☕️
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Yeeessss!!! Good morning bestie!!! Gotta say, as my Littles are now grown and adulting in life, I miss when they would wake me up at 4/5 and we would make breakfast and I'd (do) their hair and get their clothes ironed... I reminisce a lot. You'll miss it babes, but I'm sure you know that.
@@erikarussell1142for sure! Mine are 4.5, 3.5, and 1, so it’s joyful chaos!
We have just had a rough month between back to back sicknesses, and my middle child breaking her arm, so I need the time for my brain to start working in the mornings 😂
She uploads like midnight or early in the morning... And I watch her videos religiously while doing chores... These videos help me to relax..
That first story makes me glad that I'm making my dress instead of buying one. It also makes me glad that my mother in law is a wonderful woman who loves me
I love that she invited everyone to wear wedding dresses. Fabulous!
“But I shushed her like Dr.Evil shushing Scott…”
Absolutely sent by this 🤣
Perfect idea. If you have a competitive mother or MIL that insists they go dress shopping with you, call the shop, explain the situation ahead of time and try on the ‘dress’ that they like. At another fitting, try on and purchase the one that you like. Something totally different. If that’s too much, put your foot down, insist on going alone, letting them know that they will have to wait and see what the dress looks like at the wedding like everyone else.
I had my bridesmaids in off white and my sister MOH in purple for a winter wedding in the late 80s. It was the first wedding in my family and friend group. My husband's ex showed up in a racy blue dress. Petty just changes colors. It's always there.
What the heck was the ex doing at your wedding???
Walked down the aisle to the imperial march playing in the background!!! Yessss!!!!! Love that so much!!!!!
Seriously, this goth girl absolutely won this whole situation. She was brilliant, GENIUS in fact, and so so wonderfully petty! 😂❤😊 good for her!!!
I love how the bridal shop in the first video managed to be petty towards the mil/sil's by letting them buy the dresses!! Not only that but to inform the bride on what shenanigans they tried to pull on her! Honestly getting your married friends to dress up in their wedding dresses, befriending a priest, having a amazing purple dress while having a pagan wedding with star wars music its sound like the most epic wedding yet! Not only that but having your husband shush his own mother from hell icing on the cake
I think it's hilarious that the bridal shop sold the dresses to the MIL and SILs. I got married this past October so my dress shopping experience is still fresh. I found that most dress shops have a all sales final policy. no returns. so even if OP had disinvited MIL and SILs from the wedding, they'd be out all that money. At best, they'd be able to sell the dresses second hand as brides buying second hand are not willing to pay retail price for a dress that isn't coming custom for them.
The first OP's petty revenge was NUCLEAR!!!! And I absolutely loved every minute of it!!!
Thats brilliant, well done to the bride and groom inviting everyone to wear wedding dresses, thats hilarious 😂😂😂
I love the first story. That was so good on how she planned it
I was invited to be the Maid of Honor at one of my best friend’s wedding. She said it was going to be very casual, nothing fancy. So I wore a light blue skirt suit that I had. It was nice, but not fancy.
Turned out that I was the best dressed person at the wedding. When she said casual, she meant CASUAL!
She wore shorts and a pretty shirt, and her groom was wearing blue jeans and a wife beater T shirt! Everyone else was dressed similarly.
It was a fun wedding though! 🤣
That first story is EPIC! I am totally in awe. This woman is a goddess! Bless
This woman is my hero!! Seriously!!! GOAT!!!
Now that I've found these videos I don't know how else to start my day.. Thank you Charlotte!! Keep being wonderful!
Ikr?!? She's the 🐝 🦵
aww appreciate you!
Same. Look forward to seeing Charlotte every morning like I look forward to a favorite tv show!
My cousin had a black and white themed, new years eve wedding. The dress code was to wear black or white, or a combination. I still didn't wear white, just couldn't bring myself to do it even though this was one of those very few times it would have been acceptable to do so, since it had been requested by the bride and groom. It still felt wrong, so I wore a black dress instead, and so did most of the guests. Very few people wore white, I assume for the same reasons.
"a wedding themed wedding!!" 😂😂😂 Gurl I just love these wedding stories about MIL wearing white and wedding dresses just for the creative ideas of the Brides to them😂😂
LOVE this bride (purple dress) one of best yet!! MIL must of been spitting feathers!! 😂😂 oh to of been a fly on the wall for that one!! 😂😂
I have to say I'm one of those girls that doesn't know much about weddings growing up. I never really got into it and my dad's family was a different culture so they never really specified anything so, I think the closest I came to a white dress was a cream colored dress to one of their weddings and the bride thought it was awesome cuz she wanted me to look like a princess. Most of the time, I just wore the kind of colors I liked which was black or red, and the only recently found out through this channel that red has a meaning which I never knew about. I just thought where whatever you like it's a party and pick something sparkly LOL but I'm learning so much! And these stories are definitely scary to say the least!