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My sister's wedding wasn't intentionally child-free, she was just the first of her friends and in our family to get married. She got married on a public beach and there was this group of three little girls that stood down the beach watching quietly. My sister noticed them and after the ceremony she and her new husband walked over to say hello to them. The girls thought for sure she was a princess and my sister humored them and said that today she was. The mother of the kids panicked and thought her daughters were disturbing the wedding but instead my sister invited the little girls to join in on a photo. She got the Mom's email to send her a copy of that picture later. Once the bride and groom were gone after the reception myself and the rest of the bridal party were cleaning up I noticed those girls come back to see if they could say goodbye to the princess before they left. I told them that she and her prince had already gone but (and I just made this up) she told me to let them pick a flower from the decorations to take home. They were so thrilled to get a flower and hear that the princess had thought of them. 10/10 best wedding experience.
Your sister is a princess! How sweet of her to give those little girls a special memory.
How sweet. That's awesome.
Love this, thanks for sharing 🥰 see it’s not that hard to be kind on your wedding. These bridezillas are delulus and unreasonable 😅
That's so adorable 🥰
That's so wholesome 🥺 i would definitely rate it 10/10 too 🥰 oh my heart melted
I never get tired of bridezilla and wedding shaming videos, I love the monkey too, she just wanted to be included
Never!!!!
That monkey saying, THIS IS YOUR BABY!!! WHAT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY!? lololol
I think the monkey wanted him to spin her around like he had the bride but he didn't 😥 poor mama monkey
Also, she was showing off her baby. It was so cute
Bridal videos are funny, right? Hahaha
I have friends who are super nerds, and are turning their wedding into an adventure. They're going full LARP, complete with mini-games and a storyline for the guests to follow. They told their guests YEARS in advance (ok, just two years, but still, years), and made everyone RSVP choosing character class. They specifically requested costumes be worn in place of formal attire. If you want to do fun things with your occasion, you need, need, NEED to make sure everyone is on board well in advance.
Omg that sounds amazing I would and should do something like that but maybe pokemon undertale harry potter or mha themed
That sounds like a blast!!
My current partner is a LARPer and introduced me to the game before we "officially" started dating so it hold a very special place in my heart to say the least. I hope that whenever we get to the point that we start considering engagement/marriage we can incorporate it into the occasion some how 😁 not to mention a lot of our mutual friends also play! And I've met so many amazing people through LARP that it just seems natural it will play a roll in our "fairy tail" story so to speak 🥰✨
That sounds so fun 😁
I would do that so everyone is not just sitting around but definitely tell guess in advance so they can dress prepare.
The one where the bride doesn't want her friend in the wedding party because of her body type made me feel like crying 😥 The friend seems soooo sweet
Like so sweet the bride didn't deserve her as a friend.
Tbh shes not her friend, shes someone she keeps around to look down on and use as an ego boost.
I would legit never talk to that person again
No to mention she doesn’t have a problem with her friend spending her money on the wedding, but not allowing her in the wedding
I'm a grown ass 37 year old dude... and i cant get enough of the pettiness... It teaches me to NOT fuck up and to always treat my girlfriend like the queen she is.
Good job. Take it in. Take it all in. Lol
She's a lucky one.
and wtf is she doing for you? Nah this aint it! Sexism aint cute with this total BS of "she's a queen". Hell NAH unless she treats you like the King you are. I swear str8 people cant do anything right -_-
I am a 74 y.o. beeotch and neither can I . I even have a petty tee shirt!
@@RogerMoments call down mr. social justice
My best friend let ME pick out the dresses for me (MOH) & the other bridesmaid because I had gotten really sick about 4 yrs earlier & was put on meds that blew me up. Like, gained 60 lbs in a month. My body looked like Jack The Ripper had gotten ahold of me. Stretch marks were wide, sensitive, & BLOOD RED. She said, “ I want you to be comfortable, so YOU decide what to wear”. THIS is how you treat your real friends. That bride so worried about pictures is a major b!tch!
😂😂😂 had a friend ... maybe I should say “friend” invite me to be in her wedding... we had been besties in uni, and she had always talked about us being each other’s MOHs (I may have had someone else in mind for mine but never said anything), but grew slightly apart (I lived in a bunch of countries after graduating which was part of it)... she asked me to be a bridesmaid while I lived overseas... I wish I had NEVER said yes... I agreed to FaceTime when they went bridesmaid dress shopping... BUT they didn’t FaceTime me and when I tried to FaceTime her several times, I got ignored... I wasn’t too worried as she had sent me a handful of dresses she had in mind that would look fine on my body type (would cover the girls) and weren’t super expensive... THEN she tells me they picked out a dress and it was EXPENSIVE. I agreed to pay thinking it was too late to back out... but really didn’t want to...to my utter HORROR when I returned to the states and had a dress fitting, I found a dress that I had told her beforehand was a style I couldn’t wear- a very low cut v bust dress... i pretty much never wear anything like that bc my girls are huge and always have been... and it makes me uncomfortable when ppl just stare at them... even worse both her parents and his parents are super super super religious and conservative... in fact his parents are pastors 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I have no idea why she would approve such a dress (as she would never wear anything like that either even though she has small girls) aside from her MOH forced her to that decision (the MOH was skinny and had like no boobs, so a deep V cut up top isn’t revealing in the slightest, but I feel still inappropriate for the bride/groom families)... to say I was sweating like a whore in church while walking down the aisle is an understatement 🤦♀️ everyone was looking and def thinking “whore!” (Even though I had no choice over the dress.. I had even tried wearing a bra with this lace detail that goes straight across to make it less revealing but was told by the coordinator and the dress ppl that I couldn’t wear that bra bc it would “ruin” the look of the wedding!)🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ it was horrible and I didn’t know anyone else in the wedding party so it was awkward... and her MOH was the worst (and clearly didn’t like me)... and I def got flack from the bridal party about how revealing it was 🤦♀️ and the parents were all pissed 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@candicemorgan979 Wow! I am so sorry you had to go through that. As a huge busted woman myself, I felt that so hard. Ugh! Second hand ick!
I checked every dress with my bridesmaids including my trans sister making sure everyone was happy, ugh some people are just awful 😖
@@candicemorgan979: Did you tell everyone that that was the dress that was picked for you, without any feedback on it? I'm sorry you were body-shamed.
I had been friends with a girl from elementary school and especially in HS she wasn't very popular but I still was her friend publicly and let no one crap on her. After a brain injury from my first husband she gets a boyfriend and decides to get married within months. We were 27, epilepsy meds and a macrosomic baby had me gain weight. I knew she had become closer with a girl from work so I wouldn't be MOH and was relieved. I went to conventions, and and maybe the 3rd time dress shopping her soon to be SIL who is a news anchor and struggles with ED said something about my weight while shopping but I never took it seriously. That friend never called or returned my calls again. I'm 40 now. It still hurts but I have the greatest most supportive best friend in my husband and in the end she's the one who truly lost.
I love that the couple didn’t get upset by the monkey and her monkey baby interrupting their shoot but instead went with it and laughed. That would be such a memorable experience!
Id be honored if a rendom monkey and their baby decided to climb me. They must have felt at ease and safe with him. ❤
Green flag energy in my book
Yes, I was thinking the same thing. They were so sweet, no wonder monkey momma trusted them around her baby.
Yeees! I like to think the mom monkey could feel they were nice people! Also what a cute baby monkey!
We got photo bombed during the pictures by a horse and a cat, and those are honestly my favorite photos!
The funny thing is, my mom always wears her wedding dress to weddings and any fancy event. However, she gets away with it because the dress is a traditional folk costume from the region in Sweden she comes from, it's green and red, so she kinda looks like a walking Christmas tree. It's the only fancy dress she owns pretty much and she's stuck to it all these years!
if it works it works! I've heard of Indian wives doing similarly since most of their cultures dictate wearing anything BUT white for their weddings, as the color is reminiscent of the ash of the dead and associated with funerals. So they can choose from any color of the rainbow luckily!
Had me in the first half!
"I wouldn't pay $550 to go to my own wedding"
BEST quote ever.
Period.
same
I don't enjoy going to weddings in the first place, and both of mine were JP quickies and cost $75 for the first, and @ $200 for the 2nd, in Vegas. We were gifted a free hotel room by my (now) ex's coworker who had a free room because he gambles there a lot.
I might go to a wedding if they pay ME $550!
At ages 32/40, we spent $150. $75 for rings, $75 for officiant. 3 relatives, 2 witnesses. Free city park with views and walk-through guests. Food at home. Thank God I insisted on frugal - it didn't work out.
I'm scratching my head here - is it now the "thing" to charge wedding guests for the meal? or especially the venue??
For the seafood lovers -- they could have a special post-party plate of seafood in their honeymoon suite after the wedding. So they can enjoy alone time and taste the food they want without murdering her best friend.
Or go to red lobster after or for brunch the next day😂😂😂 they act like this is the only time they can have seafood 🙄🙄🙄
I honestly don't get it. I don't think the bride was thinking of murdering her MOH for wanting seafood lmao that's outrageous. If anything she can still have seafood and get the plates separately to the guests at their respective tables. I mean to not have it at all when the bride and her fam loves it is a Lil weird. Yes if it was the families choice and MOH is family then sure go ahead but to expect that for all the other guests is just a bit much...
@@rayyayd2623 She can't even handle the smell without breaking out. You can have a wedding without seafood. You will survive. Have steak and chicken.
Not necessarily, because with severe allergies food preparation is a factor and there are many steps needing to be taken to avoid cross contamination. And if someone messes us, it is a person's literal health on the line. It is doable of course, I've been to weddings with gluten free options and also had meals modified for my dietary requirements, but the point ultimately is this person cares more about one meal than she does about another person's health and wellbeing. That is selfish
@@Fragmented_Mask *That's shellfish!
"You cannot just water a relationship whenever it's convenient for you"!! Boy did this sentence just hit home after a messy break up of a friendship
10:56 "Shouldn't even have to give this much thought to someone else's feelings " GOOD THING YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED!!! Vowing to LOVE, HONOR and CHERISH ANOTHER PERSON is right up your alley. Your man is SO lucky 💜
Yeah my thought exactly when i saw it - lol
I'll take "Wants the wedding but will divorce soon enough when she realises her special day is over and she has to be married" for 500, Alex
HONESTLY
Photogenic Trophy-husband
I'm soooo appalled by the level of obsession on the "look" of a wedding versus the love and support of your friends and family.
One of my brides maids was 8 months pregnant in my wedding. She looked beautiful! It BOGGLES my mind how brides say the way their friends look will "ruin" pictures. How?? This isn't a magazine ad...these are the people in your "circle"...supposedly 🙄
Mine is gonna be boho upcycle. It’s gonna be a calico if a wedding and I’m going to love every second of it because I’ll be surrounded by my family and friends, and their love and support. I can’t wait.
@@jenn8179 it's always bizarre for me too to hear that that friends "ruin" pictures because they might not look as good to you... but at the end of the day doesn't that just make you look even better in comparison?? i don't understand why it has to be such a problem...
It seems a lot of weddings are done just for social media. What a way to start married life
@@shirleyn546 Very true, it's all about 'the image' and how well that image sells the lies about their perfect life/marriage.
If I went to a wedding and there was a competition for food and drinks I would promptly LEAVE...with the gift I brought.
Same
Leave or just be like "I lost. Gimme food truck food." lol I don't care about fancy catered food, and food trucks can have some awesome stuff!
@@ZeniaRose yep this was my thought too.
I know this sounds prissy, but the idea of using your unsuspecting guests as entertainment really bugs me. What about Grandma and pregnant women and Uncle Joe with the defibrillator; will they have to participate? And then the idea of separating guests as " winners" and " losers" doesn't sit well with me. Someone's been watching too much Squid Games.
@@ZeniaRose It's actually becoming a trend for people to hire food trucks to work at their weddings. Taco trucks are getting a lot of wedding business in my area! The couple pays them by the hour, and the supplies needed to make whatever number of tacos/burritos/quesadillas, and the guests just line up at the window and get their order. It's really neat!
The monkey climbing the groom should be seen as a blessing. A momma monkey felt safe enough around this couple to come and hangout! Also gibbon monkeys are super sweet and friendly. Very cute video
When I got married my MIL said that mothers of the couple are supposed to wear blue! She said this was common knowledge and was surprised I hadn't heard that before. I still have no idea where this idea came from, but after watching so many videos of yours where the MIL wears white I am very grateful that she had such a firm opinion about blue lol
its a thing, my best friend has 4 siblings, now all 5 are married, and their mom wore blue in all of them no matter the wedding colour, along with the other mil. idk why though
I like how the OP's tone changed towards the end when she was talking about her friend being her bridesmaid
It went from: I don't want to hurt her feelings
To: I shouldn't give so much thought to anyone
She was converting into a bridezilla as she typed
Her demons came out & typed the ending
She’s an absolutely vile human 🤮
She knows it's crappy and wrong. That's why she's trying to justify it so hard.
pretty sure she started off that way she just didnt wanna seem like a B**ch to those reading it cause you know APPEARANCES are apparently everything... -_-
@@paperweight8853 I just picture her head unzipping like a costume as they lurch out the top, grinning, forked tongue flashing, and take over the keyboard.
Too bad people don’t invest in their relationship with the same tenacity and passion they put into their wedding. These bridezillas kill me.
yeah some people seem obsessed with the idea of the perfect wedding and don't seem to care much about the state of the marriage or friendships afterwards .. it's ridiculous
When I was planning our wedding I also got into a state of tunnel vision, tbh, and joined a bunch of bride forums. I noticed the more Conservative the brides were, the more they got a power trip. Probably the only time in their life when they could really make all the decisions and considering they will soon get a bunch of babies, their last hurrah as well.
I personally noticed that I put a lot of stock into if people would show up for me, because I was the kind of person who gave a lot and never asked for help, so I thought this one time I am asking and I want them to come through.
Yeah, the wedding was a mess, but people showed up for me and my husband left and right.
Well said!
People always forgot a wedding is not even a whole day. It goes by so fast that’s it’s barely a blip. It’s the marriage that matters.
Yes! 💯
As someone with really bad food allergies, the seafood one is tough for me. I get the bride really loves seafood. I did too until I became allergic to it. And she doesn't seem like a mean person, only under a lot of pressure. But I don't see why she can't have a separate dinner with her family later, before or after the wedding, or have a seafood heavy honeymoon. People with allergies have to live differently and not take part in the food things other people can all the time, and while the wedding isn't about her friend, and I think she would at least try to understand if she was asked to sit it out, because shame about feeling like a burden is a huge thing for us, if it was me, I would have trouble not feeling hurt and a little resentful.
I just think if they got a little creative, it would be relatively easy to find a solution that works for everyone.
Honestly hoping she does the MoH a favor and chooses the seafood over having her at the wedding (if i had allergies that bad I wouldn’t put myself in that situation) because it’s clear she doesn’t value her friendship.
I’m convinced that some people just want an extravagant wedding, they don’t want to actually be married.
Why don't they just have a party instead?
The couple taking photos when the monkey came they were so graceful and the bride laughed and they seemed amused.
This will be a memory to add to the story for their kids.
It's kind of awesome to have such a surprising and memorable thing happen right when the cameras are rolling.
They'll definitely be telling that story and sharing that wedding memory forever 😂
Seriously a wonderful memory. Mama and Baby brought a tear to my eye. Such sweetness ❤️❤️
I've seen similar wedding photos, where a deer crashed the pics (he wanted the flowers😆), and the bride and groom freaking loved it. They just laughed, and enjoyed their accidental Disney Princess photoshoot~🥰
It was so cute!
@@cbpd89 I saw some days ago a wedding video and a bear was killing an elk 😢 during the ceremony...
$550? 😭😭😭 omg
“Hey you’re too single to be my friend. But you’re not single enough to not help me pay for my venue 😌😌.”
THE ENTITLED BEHAVIOUR AHHHHHHH
"you're too much engaged to be my friend...sorry"
“Hi I know we haven’t spoken in two years but your invited to my wedding despite me cutting you off because your single. All you have to do is hand over half a grand to help pay for it.”
Waiting for the future post where she gets pregnant and cuts all her "non-mommy" married friends out, but then pulls them back in as a cash grab for her baby shower.
Perfectly put, Sara!😁
Ironically, my entire wedding cost $550, 22 years ago.
That was invitations, flowers/decor, venue, preacher, music, my dress, my MOH dress (we're old school where the wedding attendants don't buy their own stuff), my shoes, renting my husband's morning suit and getting his ring.
It was a lot of work, but it was fine. A good time was had by all. It's just a wedding. The Marriage is the part that really matters.
The obstacle course wedding sounds kinda fun, however imagine Grandma and Grandpa/ older aunties and uncles in their finest trying to get through something, and end up with a hotdog and a can of premix.
Also, that monkey mama and baby was the cutest!
I'm actually picturing grandma and grandpa elbowing all the young folks out of the way and stuffing the good food into their mouths as quickly as they can. 😂
Fr. That sounds amazing tbh. And I do think the food trucks would be super cool. I love that idea. And I mean, their family might be super active in general.
I had a bridesmaid who didn’t fit into the dress, but fit in one very similar, same pattern different color, with sleeves rather than straps. I made her my maid of honor. She said she’d never felt so beautiful. Best decision ever. I’ve never felt a wedding is about the bride. It’s about the union and everyone coming together for that. Changes can be made. F-ing bridezillas 🙄
Tip for the seafood bride: having your MOH break out in hives, and possibly go into anaphylactic shock, will definitely take attention away from you on your big day.
Just arrange a family only party the day before or after if you really must have a big seafood spread to celebrate.
That's what I don't get, maybe because of cultural differences because I'm Indian and we usually have different varieties of food so almost everyone will have something to eat. So if MOH is allergic to seafood can't she eat something else? I mean have a separate dish for her and you/your family can have your seafood? I really don't understand why it was a big deal to the point where they can't have any seafood
@@apoorvaverma9118 Some food allergens can become airborne through the cooking process (steam/vapors/etc) which can cause an allergic reaction without having to actually ingest the food. I remember hearing a story about a kid who died when his family was cooking fish because the allergen became airborne and because he was in the kitchen at the time, he breathed it in and went into anaphylactic shock. So it would be better to not risk her MOH's health/life for the sake of having favorite food at the wedding reception. The idea of having a separate party where they can have an all-you-can-eat seafood buffet is a good one.
@@apoorvaverma9118 also cross contamination can be an issue. It depends on how severe the allergy is, and it sounds like it could be very dangerous for her if they just have sea food
@@apoorvaverma9118 it sounds like an airborne allergy where if she breathes it in, it will cause lethal allergic reaction
Exactly. She can have all you can eat seafood on her honeymoon.
You know it's a bridezilla when it starts with '' MY wedding'' and not ''OUR wedding''. Another great video Charlotte
GREAT point!!!!
Two of my bridesmaids were larger, but one was a really close friend from college and the other was my husband’s sister. They are important to me so I wanted them to feel beautiful and love their dresses. So I got their input and had dresses made for less than buying them in a bridal store (I got married in 2000, so there wasn’t as many choices as there is now.)
When I look at the wedding photos I’m reminded of all the love my husband and I were surrounded with. My bridesmaids were beautiful. Everyone thought the wedding was gorgeous. Love is what matters. Being surrounded by those closest to you who are excited to share your love and your wedding day. Not aesthetics.
And honestly, the aesthetics will be there if the love that is being celebrated and shared is evident in the pictures! That's what I always think anyway...
That mama monkey and her baby made me squeal. That was such an adorable and precious moment 🥰 I would be thrilled if that happened to me when I was getting my wedding photos done.
I usually don't wish bad things on other people, but I truly hope that bride who won't include her best friend because of arm fat has a terrible disaster of a wedding. I also hope her friend finds a new best friend who truly loves her just the way she is.
As I was watching that part, I came up with the perfect thing for that bride to say to her friend that wouldn't hurt her friend's feelings over not getting to be a bridesmaid, though. "Sorry, you can't be a bridesmaid because I'm a self-obsessed c-word who gives more of a crap about appearances than a friend who's been there for me. I don't want you to feel insulted by this because it's not you, I'm just a complete b-word and you should get the word out to everyone."
A modified version could be applied to the seafood bride, too, just by changing "appearances" to "shrimp".
She will
yes 🙏💙
Question: For the Bride who is a combination Leech - Dyson - "Perfection?". Are you getting Spayed before the wedding? 😁. I would like to live in a world with LESS of people like you. Please DON'T procreate.
If you are REALLY her best friend, you would ALREADY have accepted her. The whole her. Not because she has money and willing to share them with you. Just listening to your whining. You sound like you're an Opportunistic User. I hope the other person figure it our before her heart gets broken.
The monkey: “Take a picture of my baby too!!” She really wanted to show it off. So cute!!
After hearing about the horrible story with the bride talking that horribly about her best friends appearance at the end I was losing faith, but then the most wholesome video with the couple and the mama monkey and her baby, how sweet!!
I love how the last couple were absolutely BEAMING at that cute monkey crashing their wedding! ❤ 😆 too sweet!
My husband is highly allergic to shellfish. My sister for her wedding was okay with not having shellfish at her beach wedding to accommodate (not the only example as she also made arrangements around other people's allergies such as having gluten-free cupcakes). My husband is unfortunately military and found out about a month or so prior that he wouldn't be able to attend. My sister was able to have Ceviche added to her wedding in the end. It always astounds me how some people would prefer their day to look a certain way instead of having people they care about (or you would think they do) be in attendance.
Thank you! Like..not having seafood would ruin your wedding? What about your MoH dying?
@@kbelle3523 Nah, having your best friend break out into hives, then spend her last moments wheezing on the floor of your wedding won't ruin it.
But not having shrimp cocktail? Now THAT'S a disaster!
Am I the only woman that never dreamt about my wedding as a child? I remember trying my moms wedding dress on but I wanted to use it for a costume. She didn't care because my parents were divorced lol
I never did either, it always seems so awkward and weird to wear a wedding dress, something I never wanted to do. I never fantasized about having a wedding, it felt/feels so wrong. I'm 40 and never had one, it seems too extra.
Nope. I didn’t and still don’t.
In fact, the idea of walking down an isle in front of people makes me very uncomfortable.
Always thought I was weird for this but it calms me to see so many like minded people 😅
Never did as a kid, never did as an adult and even when I got married I didn't really care about the details greatly lol, all I wanted was to marry what I thought was the love of my life; nothing else mattered to me.
"You can't just water a relationship when it's convenient for you" 💯
You just explained why I have a petty grudge when a friend comes back into your life when they need you.
3:50 this is exactly why I’m not friends with a lot of the people I used to be friends with. My friendship always took the backseat when they got boyfriends. It made me feel so horrible like I never was a friend to begin with.
“So then in the eighth grade, I started going out with my first boyfriend, Kyle.... and Janis was like weirdly jealous of him. Like if I would blow her off to hang out with Kyle, she’d be like, ‘why didn’t you call me back?’ And I’d be like, ‘Why are you so obsessed with me?’” 😂😂😂
The Childfree Wedding commentary for the Mama Monkey and her baby was the icing on top of another great Wedding Shaming Cake Slice! I loved your quips and dialogue there Charlotte!! 😂😍
The baby monkey was so cute!!!!!! That would 100% enhance my wedding day. It was so sweet that the mother trusted the couple so much and let them hold her and pet her baby. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah, they're cute. But bear in mind, they transmit parasites, diseases, can bite and infect you with rabies
OMG I would cry from cuteness overload. And the fact that she chose them, says a lot. What a lovely moment!!
@@BederikStorm Those with rabies aint sweet and nice, you will note those with rabies
Are monkeys showing up at a wedding considered good luck?
@@BederikStorm I'm willing to risk it.
That monkey was so precious! And I would love my husband so much more for being so so respectful and gentle and not freaking out with the mumma. What a beautiful moment to share ❤
I don’t think it was an “accident”... I think this is a captive monkey forced to do photo shoots 🤦♀️ No way would a wild monkey (esp a mama) approach someone like that and ask to be held (nor would they let the baby be touched)... the only time wild monkies approach humans is to steal from them.. and a mama would never (too risky for the baby’s safety)... I feel sad for those monkies 😢
I love the last bridezilla who said “I shouldn’t have to worry about people’s feelings.” Weddings are about what we feel with loved ones and wanting people we love to share that joy. It is literally a day to celebrate feelings and emotions. I kind of wonder if she even loved her fiancé, or if the only thing she cared about was having her big day. I wonder if brides who act like this are aware that a marriage goes on past the wedding day and honeymoon? Is she marrying for love or could the groom have been anyone as long as he proposed? Can’t imagine being that self absorbed that you can’t look past yourself and see what you’re getting yourself into.
First story: when asked why I couldn’t come I’d say, “I couldn’t possibly socialize with someone who isn’t single!”
If a monkey mum and baby crashed my wedding, I would be THRILLED! So cute! As for the wedding with the food competition, if guests were told in advance, had a place to change into a less formal outfit, and were able to opt out if they wanted, maybe with a standard buffet style meal instead, I think that could be a really fun idea.
Yeah, my thought was would they just make all their elderly relatives eat at the food trucks because they couldn't do it!?? Pretty shocking if guests don't know it is happening :O
The monkey mom with her baby is so cute, and the wedding couple's reaction is heartwarming, caring less about the interruption than the animals, this is the right human attitude, living beings are more important than pictures or videos. As for the bride who doesn't want her so-called best friend as a bridesmaid because of her looks - at first I just wanted to pity the girlfriend, but thinking more about it, she seems like a gem and hopefully in the future she will find better, real friends, but this bride obviously doesn't know what real friendship means, and one day she will pay the price for being left with good-looking but shallow "friends" who she cannot rely on in times of need, so maybe she's the one who should be pitied even more, let alone the poor guy who's going to marry such a shallow woman.
The more of these bridezilla stories I hear, the more I'm convinced weddings aren't about love and commitment anymore.
😂😂😂 the history of weddings is actually insane... most ppl just had informal gatherings (like potlucks) to get married (bc most ppl were poor)...only the rich had formal weddings... but the royal family in England (namely queen victoria) really changed the game having a white cake (which during the time would’ve cost a fortune- more so than they cost today) and a white wedding dress.. and so the weddings we know today were born for all status obsessed brides 😂😂😂 I’m doing a destination wedding with just us and 2 witnesses and a reception back home 😂😂😂 no drama
You only hear of the bad ones. Never hear of the good brides.
To be fair, no weddings about love and commitment end up on these subreddits.
My heart breaks for that friend. What a disgrace of a person! My friends are my family. I don’t care what they look like, they are beautiful to me as I love them.
I would not get married without my two best friends by my side.
I hope this girl realises she deserves a hell of a lot better!
Same. Some people think pictures are about looking perfect. They’re about having a record of a special (or ordinary) time with those we love. My mom deeply regrets not taking many pics with me when I was little because she was insecure about her appearance.
The loss is definitely the bride’s. She has a true friend who has been there for her their entire lives and doesn’t even appreciate it. My friends all look different and I couldn’t imagine caring how they look over how much love and history we share. I love their faces and their imperfect bodies that have embraced and comforted me over the decades.
I hope the non-bridesmaid friend realizes the bride is a POS and ditches her.
@@TheSub2rainen The bad pictures are sometimes more fun than the "perfect" pictures. I treasure my Wedding photos that show all of the kids getting into mischief and all of the family and friends being happy for us.
@@mamalupine7604 I love the random pics. Like kids just being silly. Adults, too!
The two times I was a bridesmaid my besties were like "here is the color of the dress please be comfortable and buy a dress that looks good on your body." Like some other vague rules of "I'm wearing a mermaid so pls don't choose that silhouette" but all in all it worked out so well, pictures looks great. Everyone looked great, and I'll be doing the same for my own wedding.
Thats exactly what my best friend did. She said this is the colour and me and the other bridesmaid picked our outfits. I had a long dress and the other bridesmaid had a jumpsuit, it worked so well!
Yep! When I got married I only had a MOH (other friends weren't able to commit which is fine) and the only requirement was that it was purple, she chose everything else about the dress style wise, as long as she was happy!
I love that last, beautiful couple! They are absolutely delightful. The way the groom
interacts with mama monkey and baby is adorable. That couple looks genuinely happy.
9:00 - Let the Wedding Hunger Games begin! Bwahahahaha 👿
Sheesh. What a horrible idea.
There's just so many more options than seafood.. I'd want my bestie there no matter what, she will help me with the decisions anyway. also I love the reaction to that bridezilla talking about her "friend" not "looking as good as them" I almost gagged too...
Why not have seafood after the reception while in your suite? Or home? Wherever…?
Why not carry an epi pen
@@anieb8316 well epi pens are super expensive which is why you just don’t serve seafood.
@@anieb8316 epi pens do not treat all allergies. Nor do they prevent an allergic reaction. They basically keep you from dying long enough to get to a hospital.
How could you choose one story to gag at? They’re all pretty horrible people. It’s hard for me to choose
I’ve NEVER heard of guests having to pay ANYTHING to attend a wedding (other than a gift). Perhaps it’s different here in the UK, but this seems insane to me! You want to get married, you pay for it… Why do weddings make people go in insane?
I've gone to soooo many weddings and never paid for one thing!
Yeah I’m in the US and I even find it ridiculous. I’m having friends bring food for a potluck, instead of gifts. That way I don’t have to pay for catering. 😅 and they aren’t over contributing. I plan on paying for everything, including the bachelor/bachelorette party and the gifts for my team of friends and bridesmaids. The entitlement is insane.
Had to pay for one about 19 years ago. Didn’t 😂. But in the UK, my brother and his wife made us set up. It was so rude because it was last minute and we weren’t asked. It was just told to us.
It’s definitely not the norm and is tacky af. I’ve never heard of anyone charging their guests for a wedding.
Because it's not what NORMAL people do.
That couple at the end seems so sweet! They were totally cool with the momma and baby monkeys being there! May God bless them as they begin their lives as a married couple!
I was in a wedding, where the bride was, so considerate, she picked different style dresses to fit each of our bodies. They were all in the same deep, beautiful blue. We all looked fabulous, fabulous bride!
"It's my day and I shouldn't have to give up perfection for someone else's feelings." But you sound pretty okay with accepting her money, cupcake.
Best one I've heard is that one of the bridesmaids "accidentally" spills red wine on anyone wearing white. LMAO
I've heard of two of those. In one, the friend was jealous and ruined the wedding dress 'accidently'. In another one, one of the wedding party spilled wine on one of the mothers who insisted on wearing a wedding dress to the ceremony.
@@lindapatton4478 I feel sorry for the bride in one but the mom doing it got what she asked for even if not out loud hahaha
Awwww!!! I'm all for monkeys crashing wedding photos. Well, nice monkeys anyway!! How cute was that!! Very trusting of the mama to bring her baby to strangers too!!
That must have added some extra greatness to their wedding pictures!!!
Now Bridezillas will be screaming " where's my monkey!?! I deserve a monkey!! It's my day!!!". Hahahaha!!!
I wish there was a way to tell the “best friend who is not a bridesmaid because she has a real body” that her so called best friend isn’t who she seems to be cause she deserves to be happy with friends who genuinely care about her…makes me sad…
That spider monkey & baby made my entire day, not gonna lie
I'd cry and die of cuteness if that happened to me
I've actually seen multiple videos of spider monkeys climbing on people getting married. Apparently it's relatively common 🤣
I was thinking the same thing
IKR? ❤️🐒
That monkey went right to the groom like she knew what she was doing, baby in tow and making direct "I know you remember me" eye contact with the groom. 😂
Was she looking for the baby-daddy?🤣🤣🤣
That's what I thought too XD
That obstacle course wedding.,,
‘Here comes the bride…and may the odds be ever in your favour!’
Awww, the monkey with her baby crashing the wedding was so cute. ❤️ It would definitely be a highlight of our wedding, I love animals, and so does my partner.
Wedding fun!!
Edit: this whole "its my day" bullshit to excuse awful behaviour... yeah, its your wedding day, but that does not give you a reason to be mean and treat people badly. Ever.
Get over yourselves. Be nice. Have fun. Get married.
It really isn't anything other than some legalities and a party. The point of a wedding is to be legally paired with your chosen one.
Everything else is added fluff. Dont get hung up on the fluff.
Agreed
Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff. - Erma Bombek
@@shawnycoffman omg, I love Erma! Miss her
Omg that last wedding was so adorable. They were so sweet to the monkies, too!! What a beautiful couple 💑
The last one was was cute. The monkey really said "Hey sis, I know it's a child free wedding, but my sitter cancelled last minute. Hope you don't mind!" 😂😂😂
Awww.... that momma monkey with the little babe on her back.. yeah... that got me.
Way to sweet. 💖
My favorite is the part where she says “I shouldn’t have to be bothered with someone else’s feelings.”
And she's about to pledge her lifelong commitment to someone else 💀
What is crazy is that you posted this video and I literally got ENGAGED yesterday. It still feels so surreal. I also am very thankful my partner and I would NEVER be bride/groom zillas. We are so happy about the love we share together and want to share it with those we hold dear on our special day. That is what truly matters!
CONGRATULATIONS!!! I hope you and your fiancè(e) have a wonderful life together.
Congrats for your engagement !
You're saying that now but one of your friends may cause you to lend in one of these bridezilla videos in the future
Saw an interview with a wedding planner one time, she said she could tell the marriages that would last by how the couple treated the guests. If they were careful to accommodate, the marriage was golden.
Bridezillas don't know they are bridezillas. Good people don't become bridezillas, they just start bringing out the true side of themselves. Congrats!
God, that last one with the baby monkey was so cute, just the serotonin i needed to end 2033 off with
I swear if I was getting married in white and someone else showed up in white, I'd be greeting everyone with a glass of red wine in my hand, "Oh no ooopsies I ruined your white dress, that you inexplicably thought was OK to wear to my wedding." Go ahead and go home and change, we won't wait, but that's OK. The last one I'm not crying you're crying. Best wedding EVER. I hope an animal crashes my wedding photos. That would be the BEST photos ever.
The monkey in the last one was like, "Lookit my baby! I made this baby." Cute!
Does the seafood lover realize that her best friend not only has to bow out of her role as MOH, but can’t even come to the reception if she has seafood?
They see each other everyday ain't nothing if she leave early
@@miamibarbiee2295 they can have seafood any other day, as well. What kind of argument is that???
@@lilscenechick1995 Yea I was gonna say the bride could just take her family out for seafood the next day
@@lilscenechick1995
This part!
That monkey mom and baby was the sweetest. That would make my wedding.
OMG the monkey in the video and how cool the newly married couple were about it. Makes me think theirs will be forever. So cute!
The first story sounds just like my ex-bestie. We were close since I was 19 and she was 20. She's never been in a serious relationship and from what I remember that's all she ever wanted and 3 years ago she finally found her dream guy but that's when she cut ties with me, never received my calls, never called or text me back. Apparently, she pull the same stuff with her other single friends like she did to me. Last November, I met her at a fancy restaurant where she dined with her mum, and the way she greeted me was fake af, she was all nice and cordial to me, pretending as if nothing changes in our friendship. Safe to say, I'll never be her friend again and that's A-okay with me.
I was not expecting the wholesome way that ended 😭 I dare say we need more endings like this to offshoot against the entitled folks, that was so, so cute 🥰
Honestly, these videos will never ever get old. Literally never.
The monkey bit was so cute, the mama was like ‘Bye sweetie. My groom now.’
12:15 she really said “that’s MY man now” 🙊 😂
I can't imagine not seeing my best friend as the most beautiful person in the world. This girl needs to reassess her friendships!
Something tells me that her best friend is around to make the bride feel better about her own looks.
I wish i had a female best friend like these people. It's horrible someone could treat somebody who's clearly an amazing woman, like this. Disgusting behaviour
Same! It can be so hard to find a nice lady friend.
I sit and watch these with my mom, we both enjoy them and its helped us spend time together.
When we got married, I had a blue dress. Several attention seekers were very “the only dress I have is white.” I had not told everyone I was wearing blue, so I encouraged them to wear white (I was going to put my bridesmaids in white, but it was outside).
Not a single one of them showed up in white. 😂
I was getting a dress ready for a wedding, and this family is always very put together and glamorous, so I wanted to wear a beautiful structured dress I hadn’t found a use for yet. While trying to find it, I asked my SIL if it would be the right one to wear. This is when she reminds me that the dress I’m trying to find… was pure white. I felt like an idiot. We settled on one of my performance gowns (yes, that was the level of glamor), and it was perfect. And I’m always such a pitbull when it comes to wedding faux pas that disrespect the couple. Sometimes people are cruel and narcissistic, but sometimes you really just aren’t thinking. Another reason I always bring another outfit with me, just in case.
Wearing white as a guest doesn’t appear to be a problem at our Aussie weddings, although to be fair, I haven’t been to one for a while. The couple and wedding party are always going to be the focus and the main event, the saying of vows, all eyes will be on bride and groom. That’s what’s important, not getting upset because a guest wore white. Does this rule just apply for women? What if a male guest wore a white suit?
@@miriamiuricich6636 No one should wear white at a wedding or a funeral.
@@miriamiuricich6636 In America, traditionally it’s seen as trying to steal the day away from the bride (and groom). Of course that’s wavered in modern times to we’re some brides don’t care at all, but it’s really just not a good idea. Knowing that bride, she would’ve been rightfully pissed, not enough to call me out or stop the wedding or anything, but it’s seen as disrespectful. Then again, I’ve heard that Americans have a weird fascination with marriage and weddings, much more so than a lot of other countries, so I can’t say for others.
Edit: To answer your question, a man can wear a white shirt, as long as the jacket or trousers aren’t white he’s good, so no to white suits. While grooms can pretty much wear any color suit, brides are relegated to white, so it’s the important color. Of course they can choose any color they want too, but white is tradition.
I swear Mama and Baby make monkey were just so, sweet, and beautiful. What an AMAZING wedding memory for the couple.
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ Don’t be fooled.. the monkey was hired for it... the monkeys aren’t wild and most likely have horrific lives - they are forced to do those photos and if they don’t do exactly what their slave owners want them to do, they get brutally beaten.. and when they’re not doing photos they’re probably crammed in a small cage (like a dog carrier) 😢😢😢
ooooh, I love the little baby monkey! And how the bride and groom reacted to it! THAT is a wonderful way to handle such surprises!😍😍😍😍😍
If a mummy monkey & her baby crashed my wedding, all my bucket list wishes would be infinitely fulfilled. Just adorable! 💕
Bestie & I were inseparable after we met in 4th gr! A friend actually found a picture of bestie & I age 5 @ church camp! EVERYONE knew Kortney and Niqole were a Duo!
Every time she got a boyfriend, it was as if I never existed... Who was there EVERY time said boyfriend left? You got it!
When she started dating her husband, I felt as if I has been a placeholder her whole life until the 'real' important person came along.
I didn't realize it but, we were no longer friends! I went on w my life, thinking she was still my best friend! Silly me! She refers to me as her 'oldest friend' anymore.
Not really! We are in our mid-40's, sadly, it took me til about my mid-30s to figure it out... Shame on her!
When her daughter's started dating, I said "Make sure to tell them not to be ' THAT GIRL'! You know, the kind that leaves their bestie high and dry every time they get a boyfriend? You know, we all secretly hated that girl..."
😬
It went right over her pretty little head!
My sister tends to do this to me.
I had a friend who did that, too, and like you, I was always there to be a shoulder to cry on when things were bad or they broke up. She seemed to mostly grow out of it by the end of high school. Weird thing though is when I met my husband and was clearly very interested in him, she got really aggressive and nasty about and towards him. I think she might have expected me to act like she had and the idea that I might not be her fallback relationship anymore scared her.
@@melissaj.beaver9164 I'm sorry... It sucks!
The weirdest thing was, she told me years after her wedding that when they look back through the pictures, I am the only one out of their entire wedding party that seems genuinely happy for them! And I was! Even knowing I was losing a part of her for for that day; I was genuinely happy for them! He treats her remarkably! I just wish she didn't feel like she could only have one important person in her life at a time...
@@funnyusername8635 she prob assumed she'd be married before you, (I guess I'm assuming that's what happened) and when, like you said, she realized you weren't going to be her back-up, she didn't like the "new arrangements" bc you were always supposed to be *HER CO-STAR*
@@AliceNsWonderland Oh man I never thought of it that way before but thinking back on the way she used to talk about her future, especially when she was with a guy, there was a very co-star vibe for me in a lot of her fantasies. Useful insight. Thank you!
It's been WAY too long, thank you Charlotte! 😂
Lol
Honestly, these wedding videos are my favourite :)
Charlotte!!! You are the one channel I keep coming back to, and love you more all the time! You are so real & funny and onto 'it' 💙💙
That last one was awesome even the bride loved it and was petting them.
I'm a 60 yo woman and these videos remind me why I'm so dang happy with zero friends for the first time in my life!
So funny when the baby monkey mama makes herself known for the first time at the wedding🙈🙉🙊
I used to think bridezilla stories were hilarious and outrageous. However, now that I'm planning a wedding I understand how bridezillas happen. There is so much stress and pressure from people that it makes you think irrationally. All these people that are not paying tell you how to do things and that you need to spend more money. Not saying I defend all bridezillas, it just makes more sense.
I had 2 weddings 😅. My husband is the worst at small details and planning. He's more of a go-with-the-flow type. But my family is not as relaxed like my in-laws, so we ended up having 2 weddings. 1 was in Mexico with his family and the other was in Japan with mine. (We're both Mixed Japanese). His parent's just finished building their dream home and most of his family lives on their street. We had a backyard wedding there. Tons of amazing mexican food, literally meat grilling with smoke Lol, neighbors stopping by, karaoke, my nieces and nephews playing, plus a dance floor with live band. My mom walked me down the isle, my brother was my MOH and his fiancée did a drag number for us lol. We had really nice tents with so many beautiful lights and flowers. My husbands sisters hand made these beautiful paper flowers and maché stars with lights that hung from the tent cieling. I loved it. My MIL and SILs helped every step of the way. We're all really close.
My dads family are mega wealthy racist snobs and refused to come to Mexico and act too good for my husbands family, so I was happy they didn't come. My brother and I aren't super close to our dads fam for many reasons. But they were upset. They acted like I chose my husbands family over them.
Despite them knowing that they were going to go to our 2nd wedding in Japan 🙄. It was over the top fancy since I let my moms parents plan it. They 1, paid for the 2nd wedding along with my parents (mostly our mom), and 2, I'm the oldest grandchild. My brother and cousin are both gay and gay marriage isn't legal in Japan sadly, so they knew this was probbaly the only wedding they'd personally get to host. Even though it wasn't our style I wasn't even going to attempt to plan a wedding out of the country.
I had 5, yes 5 dress changes! In Japan you do photoshoots with *ALL OR MOST* of the guest pre-wedding (and you send them to the guest later) So we took almost 5 hours of photos, I was seated the whole time but my poor husband had to stand lol.
Than I changed into my 2nd dress and took photos with my close relatives only.
Than I had to change in my actual wedding dress for the ceremony. 3 of my dresses were just different wedding dresses, I found it so weird but again for me, this was a wedding for my grandparents whom Im also close with as well.
Than formal dress for the ceremony and dinner and lastly ANOTHER DRESS when when hand out small gifts to the guest to thank them for coming, like goodie bags and make our grand exit. So its like I changed again for an exit look. AN EXIT LOOK! What in the what!?
Haha it was a whirlwind and we went to the hotel and immediately fell asleep. We didnt even shower. Just. Stripped pur clothes, put on comfy shirts and conked out.
Id much rather have the bavkyard wedding any day.
That last one with the monkey mama was SO PRECIOUS!! B&G were way cool about it. So was mama monkey.
I have had a long-standing tomato allergy and I would NEVER ask a bride to bend their food to my allergy. If needed, as always, I bring food with me as I see fit to make it easier for everyone around me. It is now a full blown night shade issue so I can't eat potatoes, peppers, tomatoes, etc. Honestly, people with food allergies find a way around everything.
For the gold dress that is definitely a wedding dress, I would personally go up to them and say wow congrats how long have you been together
As a former formal wear consultant, that wasn't a wedding dress. She needs to be asked how the prom was and told it was so nice of her to come straight from there to a wedding.
@@lane6866 OOF hahaha I want you on my side in my next confrontation
I would say "Oh, are you getting married too?"
My daughter is deathly allergic to all fish and shellfish. She can't even be around it, so I get this. My daughter has not been able to participate in certain events when she did competitive dance because of this allegy. She was really hurt but she understands and doesn't expect special treatment. At the same time, I feel like if she's that good of a friend, I'd rather her be in the wedding then freaking food!! My daughter agrees, she said she would be devastated.
I just find it crazy... it really shows how inconsiderate and rude the bride and her family are... I worked overseas for a gov and was assigned a flat mate. I had never met her before and even I said we could be a gluten-free apartment bc of her allergies (and even put on the list for the person contracted to buy our food that we would be gluten-free 🤷🏼♀️).. I mean I love some good pasta but is it so good, I want to see someone have an allergic reaction? No... and I wasn’t even friends with this girl and it wasn’t just one meal 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Candice Morgan Exactly!! Like what is more important your best friend sharing your special day or having seafood that people probably won't even eat. Just seems like a no brainer to me. Giiirrrlll you're a very nice person cause idk if I could never eat pasta 😂😂
Charlotte 😭😭 I've been binging your videos and I LOVEEEEE them!! Thank you for being you and for doing what you do. You're the best. ❤
That 1 at the end with the monkeys was so amazing. I'd love that to happen ❤
that last one with the monkey and her baby had me smiling big!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
12:06 that shouldn’t have been in a wedding shaming video. It was unexpected, but funny and sweet.
We can call it a mood booster after all the crappy brides and MILs
These C U Next Tuesdays forget that there are 2 people getting married and it not just THEIR special day. My wedding was the guests' special day. Every last detail was planned to make it the very best wedding that any of them have ever attended...or at least that was the goal. This was my wife's idea, and it's a top 5 reason why I love her.
That first person was me with a friend who I hadn't spoken to in 4 years - they asked me to get the flowers for the wedding and I flat out was like no way, we aren't close like that! Then when I tried to help them get something more affordable, they took offense to all my suggestions. I did not end up attending their wedding...she cheated on their military spouse and moved away with their lover to work at Wal-Mart. Classy.