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  • cheaters that didn't think they were getting caught today - REACTION
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  • @RooHue
    @RooHue Před rokem +7701

    You could hear the children in the background when the woman was kicking out her husband and the mystery woman. How awful of a person do you have to be to do such a thing in front of your kids and allow another woman to disrespect your wife in the process. I’m glad she’s divorcing that man, neither her nor her children deserve that.

    • @DaiNoShoujoNoYami
      @DaiNoShoujoNoYami Před rokem +410

      I would have had the cops come and throw them out - I tell you to get out and you refuse? Sorry honey, this ain't your house, and your boytoy signed this place over to me in the divorce *we are still going through.*
      It's like the guy is just adding fuel to his pyre with the judge doing something dumb like this 😒 🙄 🤦‍♀️

    • @aussiefamily4886
      @aussiefamily4886 Před rokem +204

      I would of said to her" if it ain't my house why do I have a key and if it ain't let's call the cops and see who house it is "

    • @alanh.7668
      @alanh.7668 Před rokem +69

      Agreed, except calling him a man is too generous! You trying to be a saint? 😂JK, well said Roo!👍

    • @katyadade1041
      @katyadade1041 Před rokem +56

      Sometimes addicts do it.
      My mom’s ex husband, an alcoholic, was bringing women home at the end of their marriage, to the exact same apartment my mom was in, and she had nowhere to go.
      She just asked women to leave, and the women usually didn’t have enough connection with reality to understand they should leave immediately, so mom just slept at the kitchen waiting for it to be over.

    • @tigressqueen911
      @tigressqueen911 Před rokem +47

      @@katyadade1041 he was probably hoping she would willingly leave, so he could have claimed she wanted to leave in the divorce, so he could still live there instead of her

  • @kendramanuel968
    @kendramanuel968 Před rokem +1610

    I was in treatment for drug addiction a few years back (clean now). We were sitting in group 4 hrs from home and this girl starts sharing about her sugar daddy. The more she explains him I get more flags. Finally I said what’s his name? She then said my husbands name! I was absolutely EMBARRASSED in front of 40something women. This girl was mortified. She didn’t know 😢

    • @sadrera3593
      @sadrera3593 Před rokem +222

      Omg! I'm so sorry. It shows your amazing strength though. So many could have fallen off the wagon so early ( or even later) in sobriety. I'm glad to hear you're still clean. A hat tip to you and prayers for an amazing, happy future. 🙏❤️

    • @sophj8896
      @sophj8896 Před rokem +133

      Grats on being clean, super proud of you! Stay strong

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 Před rokem +73

      Dang...I don't know what to say except sorry for pert of you two ladies.

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Před rokem +88

      Congrats on being sober.
      As for that girl she must have been horrified she not only outed her SD but to a woman she knew!

    • @Beachbby850
      @Beachbby850 Před rokem +55

      Divine intervention

  • @ravynedrake8527
    @ravynedrake8527 Před rokem +1346

    For the woman trying to convince the mom 'it wasn't her house' best response should've been "Then why did my keys work?"

    • @meliisonthemoon8130
      @meliisonthemoon8130 Před rokem

      Isn’t that wild??? I woulda pulled the trespassing card and just pulled her hair to get her out of my bed, no warning, just get out

    • @savanahdahlsten3149
      @savanahdahlsten3149 Před 11 měsíci +43

      I would have charged the girl in my bed with breaking and entering! Then both cheating guy and the girl in my bed would be getting sued and I would have denied knowing the boyfriend and have them both arrested for breaking and entering!

    • @calliopesm4336
      @calliopesm4336 Před 11 měsíci +11

      i would have strait up punched, i could definitly NOT be that calm

    • @scarlett8895
      @scarlett8895 Před 9 měsíci +17

      I would've called the police cause on the intruder.
      Girl you do not get to sleep in my bed, which is already a big NO, and then have the audacity to tell me that's not my house!? Disrespect me in my house and in front of my children!? It's either the police or the ambulance, either way you're getting out of there asap!

    • @coffeegirl18
      @coffeegirl18 Před 8 měsíci +4

      ​@@scarlett8895I don't know if the cops would even show up. In my area they avoid all domestic disputes like the plague. (I'm in Canada so it's probably because they don't want to get punched.)

  • @KyaraExMachina
    @KyaraExMachina Před rokem +192

    I was dating the love of my life when his WIFE called me one night! I didn't know he was married until she called. She had a feeling that I had no idea! Her mother suggested we get together to talk. She figured out he was cheating when ANOTHER GIRL called the wife to let her know she needed to get tested because he had given her...and us...Gardnerella vaginalis!! The other girl knew he was married, but he told her "we're separated! " It was a fiasco, but we all got tested and treated and I helped the wife pack up his stuff and we hauled it to his mom's house! DiDi (the wife...now ex-wife) and I have been best friends for almost 30 years now!🤣😂

    • @gyn4762
      @gyn4762 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Omgosh. I Love that you and Didi became Besties and it's been 30 yrs. That's a win 👏🏽 😊

    • @Gyatt689
      @Gyatt689 Před měsícem

      How old are you, I am 26

    • @monroerobbins7551
      @monroerobbins7551 Před měsícem +1

      Hell yeah, I’m glad you found a best friend in all that! Also, I’m so sorry for what y’all went through, that sounds like a rollercoaster and a half. :(

    • @jeongyeonsupremacy1274
      @jeongyeonsupremacy1274 Před měsícem +1

      Now that is some badass story, how you meet and become best friends and spitting the cheating bastard

  • @Keshlynne
    @Keshlynne Před rokem +3441

    I know a couple who met because his fiancée was cheating with her fiancé. They literally met in a bar on the night they caught their partners cheating. That was 32 years ago, they've been married for 31 and have two kids together. Some people just make the best of a bad situation...

    • @maeannengo4908
      @maeannengo4908 Před rokem +243

      They should make that into movie

    • @Keshlynne
      @Keshlynne Před rokem +286

      @@maeannengo4908 Right?!? Would that not make a hilarious Christmas Hallmark movie? They could even put "based on a true story" at the end of it.

    • @maeannengo4908
      @maeannengo4908 Před rokem +29

      @@Keshlynne yes!

    • @aaaduccs6667
      @aaaduccs6667 Před rokem +20

      @@Keshlynne HAHAHA YES

    • @starryy_nightz
      @starryy_nightz Před rokem +21

      This sounds like a Reddit post 💀

  • @my3sons757
    @my3sons757 Před rokem +4604

    Charlotte thank you for pointing out that it's NOT because of imperfections that we get cheated on. It's because of the flaws of the CHEATER. AMEN girl! Amen.

    • @kendramanuel968
      @kendramanuel968 Před rokem +8

      Mmmhmm yup!!!

    • @melanieveloso82
      @melanieveloso82 Před rokem +10

      Yes indeed 😂😂

    • @usernameisunavailable8270
      @usernameisunavailable8270 Před rokem +55

      Yep. Their low self esteem is what causes them to stray in the first place. They aren't confident in their relationship so they seek validation elsewhere.

    • @my3sons757
      @my3sons757 Před rokem +40

      @@usernameisunavailable8270 agreed. Though sometimes they are just low down and dirty narcissists who ENJOY sneaking around and gaslighting others. 😠

    • @datheamore6395
      @datheamore6395 Před rokem +25

      As someone who cheated, this is true. People who cheat need to work on themselves instead of vacillating in a relationship and attempting escapism to avoid their issues.

  • @Keya3596
    @Keya3596 Před rokem +117

    I once saw an clip from a podcast where it came out that one guy thought cheating was ok, and was trying to defend it, but also said that he’d leave a girl if she cheated on him, and if that is not the most hypocritical, selfish, and butt-backward thing ever. How can someone sit there with so little empathy for someone they supposedly love and say that “it’s ok if I sleep around, but I’m dumping you if you do.”

    • @vanessaland5090
      @vanessaland5090 Před 5 měsíci +1

      because they're narcissists and fcked in the head.

  • @BM-ef4sx
    @BM-ef4sx Před rokem +58

    9:36 the fact they were THAT determined to empty the pool💀💀 made the time for it and everything

    • @monroerobbins7551
      @monroerobbins7551 Před měsícem +1

      Plus, all that chlorinated water, if there’s any grass or plants in the way of those buckets, then they’re straight up dead, too.

  • @mortician403
    @mortician403 Před rokem +3218

    I remember a colleague who was married was cheating with another colleague. When the wife found out she came to the office and made everyone know about it including the management. I’ve never seen 2 people getting fired that fast. The CEO just took them from their arms and literally throw them out of the building personally. That was nice to watch. And we had no clue they were cheating.

    • @ching2443
      @ching2443 Před rokem +259

      God bless that ceo

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 Před rokem +201

      @@ching2443 Yep, today all workplace relationships are a serious liability to HR and the company!

    • @EmyN
      @EmyN Před rokem +40

      I don't understand why were they fired, isn't it only a problem when it's a boss and an employee? Otherwise isn't it your personal business?

    • @aaaduccs6667
      @aaaduccs6667 Před rokem +7

      @@ching2443 fr

    • @aaaduccs6667
      @aaaduccs6667 Před rokem +247

      @@EmyN sometimes companies don’t want people with a certain type of moral code, because who they hire reflects what their company’s stand is, and if it was within the contract that the signed parties agreed on. Then yes, the company had every right to fire them (I’m pretty sure, depends on the laws ur country/state has too)

  • @JenLMcCarty
    @JenLMcCarty Před rokem +4092

    Not cheating is about the kind of person you want to be, it's about wanting to be an honorable person with a developed set of ethics, it's NOT ABOUT WHO YOUR PARTNER IS.

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 Před rokem +133

      THIS! Only one person is at fault for cheating, the cheater! 👏👏👏

    • @13gondolla37
      @13gondolla37 Před rokem +73

      I mean...Unless its an abuse situation and someone is afraid to leave. We make one exception. Every one else, Spot on.

    • @jodyknight
      @jodyknight Před rokem +12

      @@13gondolla37 *exception

    • @13gondolla37
      @13gondolla37 Před rokem +19

      @@jodyknight I blame auto correct

    • @13gondolla37
      @13gondolla37 Před rokem +15

      @@jodyknight thank you

  • @Sunseeker_02
    @Sunseeker_02 Před rokem +14

    Also notice how it's always the less attractive partner in the relationship, that cheats on the one that is entirely out of their league 💀

    • @leigh4326
      @leigh4326 Před 5 dny

      Yes!!!!! They want to break you so much that’s why they do that.

  • @valeriaprado8001
    @valeriaprado8001 Před rokem +30

    8:55 “when you give the ugly guy a chance”

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 Před rokem +1561

    After a couple months of dating this guy I found out from a friend of a friend of a friend that he had a girlfriend.... that he lived with.
    Girlfriend was kind enough to reach out to me. I apologized profusely. She said it wasn't the first time and she was done with him.
    We talked for quite a long time and found out we had a lot in common (besides him). She invited me to come over and hang out for a while and to surprise him when he got home.
    I suppose it could have been a trap but it wasn't. We were hanging out in the living room eating pizza and drinking beer when he came home.
    He was completely casual when he walked in the door and saw both of us there chilling in the living room. He said "Hey ladies, lemme grab a beer."
    He strolled past us into the kitchen, but instead of hearing the refrigerator open we heard the back door open and he exited.
    And he never came back!
    We hung out for a couple hours before I eventually left. He never returned. About a week later he sent some friends over to get his stuff.
    Girlfriend and I have now been besties for years.

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat Před rokem +62

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @SMJSelena
      @SMJSelena Před rokem +58

      This is awesome ❤️

    • @GregBrownsWorldORacing
      @GregBrownsWorldORacing Před rokem +1

      Borders on Evil you two - but he SO deserved it. He probably wet himself while sneaking out the back door.

    • @chelseahulmston9056
      @chelseahulmston9056 Před rokem +27

      Yes girl

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +111

      I love everything about this! Good for you, you two took out the trash and gained a wonderful friendship!

  • @ShayBoogie679
    @ShayBoogie679 Před rokem +1243

    My aunt found out her husband was not only cheating on her but also had 2 babies on the way by 2 different women. She invited both women plus his first child mother to her house. Once they got there she called him to come home. She said he walked in he stopped and looked at all of them he didn’t say anything just walked to their room and started packing his things then left.

    • @anakatsukifangirl2944
      @anakatsukifangirl2944 Před rokem +189

      He accepted his fate before they even had to say anything. He knew it was over before the confrontation even began. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know your marriage is finished when your partner locates and personally invites over the people you've been cheating on them with to let you know that they know exactly what you've been up to.

    • @kaihiroku8495
      @kaihiroku8495 Před rokem +193

      He better not run away from the responsabilities of thoses babies though, actions have consequences.

    • @anakatsukifangirl2944
      @anakatsukifangirl2944 Před rokem +106

      @@kaihiroku8495 Unfortunately he more than likely will try to dodge the responsibilies of the kids. I feel bad for all four of those women who probably had no idea what was going on behind their backs.

    • @denalihedgehog
      @denalihedgehog Před rokem +58

      @@anakatsukifangirl2944 and he probably will try to start it all over again and perhaps knocks up some other women

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 Před rokem +49

      I hate that it happened, but I love the solidarity between women these days ❤

  • @carolhuget5922
    @carolhuget5922 Před 9 měsíci +20

    Cheating isn't about sex usually. It's about a combination of many things: low self esteem, big egos, "thrill of the chase", "the grass is greener on the other side of the fence" syndrome, excitement, danger, etc. As someone that's been cheated on and betrayed in the most bizarre ways, I will never understand why someone wants to throw their family away for such stupid reasons!!

  • @andreawoods
    @andreawoods Před rokem +89

    I wish my baby's father felt the way you do... I can't believe the effort this man put into cheating. If he put 10th of that into being a father things would be great. This baby was planned. We have been together for 6 years. This is the man I thought was great and who would never ever cheat. I thought he would be the best dad. I can't believe how things turned out.

    • @MatarikiAzul
      @MatarikiAzul Před rokem +2

      You don't need him hun you are great without him fuck him and fuck all men we don't need them women are fabulous without them

  • @mrssweetcaroline04
    @mrssweetcaroline04 Před rokem +2186

    I had a client few years back who was married and had two daughters, both under the age of 10 who was cheating with a guy that worked in our same building who was also married and had twins under the age of 10. It was absolutely disgusting. One Valentine’s, they both called out from work & went to a hotel cuz at night they had plans with their spouses. How do I know all this? SHE WOULD TELL ME! While others were around! Zero shame.

    • @kayleighandhercat1351
      @kayleighandhercat1351 Před rokem +155

      I'd be like "why are you telling me? Sharing isn't always caring."

    • @MJ-mt4cg
      @MJ-mt4cg Před rokem +162

      I had a similar situation at a previous job. They ended up both leaving their spouses for each other and then they didn’t last three months after that. Sometimes I think it’s about the excitement of sneaking around. You are so right, it’s disgusting.

    • @GregBrownsWorldORacing
      @GregBrownsWorldORacing Před rokem +46

      I guess she needed You SweetCaroline, to understand just how HOT she was (In addition to being a double home wrecker)

    • @mrssweetcaroline04
      @mrssweetcaroline04 Před rokem +66

      @@GregBrownsWorldORacing That’s so funny you say that cuz she really did think she was hot sh*t. She was the type that flipped her hair every 3 mins. 🤣

    • @mrssweetcaroline04
      @mrssweetcaroline04 Před rokem +19

      @@kayleighandhercat1351 Honestly? Work was so stressful I needed some entertainment lol.

  • @davinastein5776
    @davinastein5776 Před rokem +510

    When I found out my ex was cheating I packed all of his stuff into boxes and dropped them all off on the other woman's front lawn. (former friend, I knew where she lived) She called me hysterical begging me to come get his stuff and him because he couldn't stay with her. I said, "Sorry! Not my problem!" and never answered a call from either of them again. It felt great.

    • @zero95lucky
      @zero95lucky Před rokem +27

      Good on you.

    • @tealablu3759
      @tealablu3759 Před rokem +13

      🤣🤣🤣 oof, sucks for you, ex friend. Toodaloo!

    • @dlm4708
      @dlm4708 Před rokem +18

      Great! I have a solution for her:
      his stuff being on her lawn does not constitute that he needs to move in with him. This isn't 1700s puritan america.
      She can ALSO pack up all his stuff and drop it off somewhere, like at a dump. Technically when you sign it to goodwill, you have to attest that these things are yours on the donation form. Soooooo... don't.
      Now his shit ain't at none y'all's houses. Fixed!

    • @maatnofret1234
      @maatnofret1234 Před rokem +4

      “To the left , to the left
      Everything you own in a box to the left…”

  • @lilyt5855
    @lilyt5855 Před rokem +33

    Long story short, but I went to high school with girl #1 and her long term boyfriend. I ended up working with the bf, and just making innocent conversation, I asked him if he was still going out with girl #1 in front of our coworkers, including girl #2. What followed was the most awkward silence I've ever experienced, and I later found out guy was cheating on girl #1 with girl #2 and it was sort of an open secret and everyone knew about it but didn't talk about it. (Girl #1 had been told, but she was just in denial). Fast forward 15 years and I hear girl #1 was getting divorced from the bf because of his chronic cheating.
    TLDR: once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't find that out the hard way, people!

  • @jessicaspecht
    @jessicaspecht Před 6 měsíci +3

    I'm pretty sure the dog shelter doesn't want him either. I would refuse him at the door, saying we don't take "drop offs", make an appointment. LMAO

  • @stephanielkey
    @stephanielkey Před rokem +933

    My ex(20) was cheating with a 16 year old. He told me she was a church friend, and that his family helped her out because she had a rough home life. I met her she was a nice girl, and there definitely signs that her family was garbage. It wasn’t until he convinced me to move in with him with no family around, struggling to support us. He wasn’t working, I was working, and going to school. I had come in while he was sexting her. I freaked out, packed my stuff, called my mom, and drove 9 hours to move back in with my parents. He wasn’t even ashamed, but I did hear he had a nice long visit with the police.

    • @cheriremily9360
      @cheriremily9360 Před rokem +262

      He wasn't cheating, he was preying on her.

    • @oldwelshlady6584
      @oldwelshlady6584 Před rokem +76

      Where are you? Its legal to date a 16 years old here!??
      I wish they would up the age for everything to 18!!! I mean you can have sex here at 16 but can't buy a cigarette to smoke afterwards!!!!!! Its crazyyyyyyy !! 18 for everything makes it easier!

    • @my3sons757
      @my3sons757 Před rokem +1

      He DESERVED statutory r*pe charges. She was a minor. How many 16 yr old girls aren't impressionable? Not many. He was a dirt bag!!

    • @alyssanixon9268
      @alyssanixon9268 Před rokem +55

      In the US, some states have the Romeo and Juliet law, stating if she’s 16, it’s legal IF he’s UNDER 4 years older.

    • @blackbunnie1389
      @blackbunnie1389 Před rokem +52

      @@cheriremily9360 No he was doing both

  • @sleepypandaaaa
    @sleepypandaaaa Před rokem +1165

    I knew my ex was cheating when he couldn't stop talking about this girl he worked with. Everything he talked about was about her, even started comparing me to her. When I asked if he was cheating he went crazy on me and threatened to kill himself.
    Edit: My ex is very well alive 😒

  • @Cro-tje
    @Cro-tje Před rokem +13

    0:49 The caption: "Bro Exposed His Boy For No Reason"
    Excuse me, what?! 🤨
    "Bro Teaches His Boy Valuable Lesson in Life" There, I fixed it 😊

  • @selenamarchuk2352
    @selenamarchuk2352 Před rokem +4

    Okay, funny story 😅
    I came across your video on my recommendations.
    My daughter who was sitting beside me, not really paying attention to anything else. As soon as i play your video, she immediately looks up at the TV and starts the smile 😄
    She was smiling, laughing and jumping up and down through out the entire video.
    It was adorable!! 🥺
    This is her first time watching you and you became her favourite.
    Thank you for making her day 😊❤️

  • @podlingspodcast551
    @podlingspodcast551 Před rokem +590

    The thing that still makes me angry about previous unfaithful partner is not them, the lying, the gaslighting, the blatant disrespect or the side pieces. It's the fact that i will forever question anyone's motivations. My husband, friends, children, coworkers. Any possible connection i make is always tainted by doubt and then shame for not being able to trust. THAT is rage inducing and makes me wish fervently for the duplicitous toads down fall.

    • @PJ-sh3nh
      @PJ-sh3nh Před rokem +33

      Right? that's the part that gets me too! I find someone amazing who is into me and seems to want all the same things I want, then I start to question it all. Which isn't fair to the person you're with, so you keep your mouth shut so that you don't drop your damaged rantings onto an innocent person...then it bottles up, you worry, you fret, you get exhausted, you even get angry - and we both know danged well, that will eventually begin to affect the person you're with, they'll end up unhappy and either cheat on you or leave you thereby completing the cycle. Took me years to break that cycle. And I truly feel horrible for anyone I dropped that BS on, not their fault and they deserved better.

    • @downhomesunset
      @downhomesunset Před rokem +9

      Yeah, I haven’t gone on a date in ten years since divorcing my husband. But not only was he cheating on me with a hooker, he was becoming abusive. So there’s that too…..

    • @neamhcridhe6475
      @neamhcridhe6475 Před rokem

      my current boyfriend has been my online friend for 15 years. he was there when i was married. he was there when i found out i was pregnant with my second child. he was there when my now ex husband denied that child and claimed i was cheating on him. he was there during my divorce with my ex husband and baby drama crap with my 3rd son's bio dad. he knew of my feelings for him back in 2011, but chose someone else instead and so i stopped talking to him. 5 years after that i missed the friendship i had, so i added him again in 2016, but it wasn't until 2017 that we talked and he realized that he had feelings for me all along. 5 years later with one of those being no contact (2019-2020), we're in a comfortable place. communication is key for us, especially because we live literally overseas from one another. anyway, he knows all about my past and the damage done and while he hasn't made the best choices himself, he is making changes in order to focus on me and help me through all of that crap. because of the distance, we do have an open relationship of sorts, but i am ace, so i have zero interest in finding anyone to scratch that itch, but i also don't know what he does because he prefers his privacy and if i push too much he will get mad and ignore me for a while.....but that is one of the changes he is making in order to make me feel more relaxed.

    • @miki_moonchild
      @miki_moonchild Před rokem +4

      You shouldn't let the actions of one horrible person effect every relationship in your life. I said something similar to my ex when I found out he was cheating but the fact is, when everything is out of control, one thing you can always control is your reaction and the way you handle the situation. In a way it also somewhat feels like the other person "Wins" as once they are out of your life, they still have such a huge impact. Do yourself a favour and don't close yourself off, be open to the love you deserve. ✌

    • @luluscaglione
      @luluscaglione Před rokem

      I hear you. I have been cheated on by all my previous partners before I met my current one and the trust issue is so real. It's been five years of cooperation and understanding and I still get major anxiety and panic attacks

  • @scepticalhyenas5750
    @scepticalhyenas5750 Před rokem +877

    Yeah I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone and thinking _"hm! You know what would be fun? What if I just um.... left the person I supposedly love with massive emotional trauma, trust issues and a completely shattered sense of self-worth?"_

    • @anxietyembodied732
      @anxietyembodied732 Před rokem +31

      right??? i dont get it!!

    • @lilacea6047
      @lilacea6047 Před rokem +22

      Can't understand this, if the person wants so bad to be with others while in a relationship, they could have just found someone who wants and likes an open relationship. Why would they insist on taking a path of lies, fights and manipulation? It's harder for them too, so why?!

    • @akiluckyakilucky7524
      @akiluckyakilucky7524 Před rokem +17

      @@lilacea6047 i guess its because they dont want that. They want secrets, lies, the thrill of living a double life. They wouldn't be satisfied even IF they had an open relationship. I have heard of people in open relationships that still act shitty. Its a them problem

    • @jaebyrd4608
      @jaebyrd4608 Před rokem +8

      @@akiluckyakilucky7524 exactly some people are narcissistic and those people get off on the thrill of manipulation which honesty doesn’t give

    • @stormmysmith4606
      @stormmysmith4606 Před rokem +1

      Honestly I agree with part of your comment. It shouldn't be up to another person to fix someone if they're already "broken" in a sense. Yes you shouldn't just be with someone, create an emotional connection, and then cheat. But I don't think someones mental health is a reason to stay with someone. It would be worse for them both, and eventually do more damage for the relationship and the individuals.

  • @jacobbieganowski9136
    @jacobbieganowski9136 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You're very good at showing BOTH sides of cheating. It's not just men who do it and not just men who are wrong for doing it.

  • @toipritchett-dantzler2193
    @toipritchett-dantzler2193 Před 11 měsíci +5

    The guy at 9:02 must have a LOT of money because there's NO WAY he got all of them because he's such a great guy. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před rokem +224

    "If Jay-Z can cheat on Beyonce none of us are safe" - Charlotte 😁 . Just wanted to add a corollary to that statement . "If Jay-Z can be kicked in an elevator for cheating , none of the cheaters are safe" 😜 .

    • @monstermcboo7282
      @monstermcboo7282 Před rokem +24

      I hate how the narrative since then has low key been Solange is crazy. Discredit a person (or her sister) for reacting to cheating in outrage and then they can’t call you on your cheating. Men often even do this in divorce and family court; it was done to me. I had the nerve to yell at my first husband in front of his mother (who had enabled and even encouraged the cheating, BTW), while our son was nowhere around, and once we got to court, his attorney brought it up and the judge just couldn’t believe I would act so “irrationally.” Um… I yelled at him. He screwed a woman repeatedly in my bed, sometimes with my son in the house, and forged a check to clean out MY bank account. But I was irrational. That’s how it is. There are people who still call Solange crazy.

    • @katelady1370
      @katelady1370 Před rokem

      Why we acting like we know how Beyoncé is in a relationship. Most really famous people are horrid to be in relationships with because the type of person who becomes famous more often than not are very narcissistic which is one of the worst things in relationships. That’s why very few Hollywood marriages last. Most of those people suck irl.

  • @kevincoon1809
    @kevincoon1809 Před rokem +281

    I don't understand cheating either. One of my ex's cheated on me. I found out and she left then came home to all her crap in trash bags outside the front door and the lock changed. If you're not happy in your relationships just get out of them. It's gross and wrong on soooooo many levels.

    • @lollsazz
      @lollsazz Před rokem +29

      It's fair. A friend of mine did the same thing. Her ex cheated and then proceeded to treat her poorly while living in her apartment. She went home from work early and carried all of his stuff outside. He then shouted at her about "gow can you do this?! I'm homeless now???". Should've thought about that BEFORE.

    • @PrincessQ-fj9ly
      @PrincessQ-fj9ly Před rokem +7

      My thoughts exactly! But I guess some people like to have their cake and eat it too. Super selfish and entitled if you ask me. (⁠-⁠_⁠-⁠;⁠)

    • @beauteoussounds1156
      @beauteoussounds1156 Před rokem +7

      Same, same.
      It was glorious: stacked the trash bags inside garage door then opened it as he pulled in after a work trip.
      Very satisfying reveal.

    • @kevincoon1809
      @kevincoon1809 Před rokem +14

      I told her to go live with the person she cheated on me with or move back in with her parents but she wasn't coming back in my house

    • @krocket3064
      @krocket3064 Před rokem +5

      We were engaged, he cheated and I sent him to his momma’s house. No regrets I’m grateful I dodged a bullet .

  • @joscelynpease6656
    @joscelynpease6656 Před rokem +2

    "The one time I agreed either Logan Paul about anything." Same 😂

  • @mantan9400
    @mantan9400 Před 5 měsíci +2

    LMAO @ "Who are you Sir?, "Just an innocent bystander doing the Lord's work?"

  • @rosegoldhiips
    @rosegoldhiips Před rokem +389

    Kennie JD said something about cheating that I will always keep with me from now on. "Cheating is the act of someone who hates you" And I agree with her statement 1000%. If you can get out of a relationship where you know your partner is cheating on you then don't even THINK, just LEAVE because they do NOT respect you, they do NOT love you, and they may very well just straight up hate you. I wouldn't want to be in a place where I'm not wanted.

    • @brittanyr2927
      @brittanyr2927 Před rokem +1

      Was this during a bad movie and beat?? 😮

    • @wallflowernook
      @wallflowernook Před rokem +18

      @@brittanyr2927 I think she mentioned this in the Ned Fulmer scandal video

    • @LMnYng
      @LMnYng Před rokem +8

      Literally was bout to comment bout Kennie JDs quote but absolute facts

    • @brittanyr2927
      @brittanyr2927 Před rokem

      @@wallflowernook ooh I haven’t seen that 😳 Thank you!

    • @ChelleKT1
      @ChelleKT1 Před rokem +8

      I don’t think it’s hate, it’s pure narcissism and greed. The cheaters never want to leave their perfect partner but do want the cherry on top.

  • @nyneeveanya8861
    @nyneeveanya8861 Před rokem +377

    The man with the twins could do a dna test but they could be his. I have large extended family. My cousins and I range from dark to light. We are part Native American. Some look like full blood native some look full blood white. In one family alone there are four children ranging from blonde/blue eyed and so white you’d think they were Irish to black hair and eyes and so dark you’d think he was full native. And uncle who looks Greek a cousin with Scottish red hair and complexion. This also leads to weird things like blue eyes with dark brown hair and a red beard.

    • @belialbathory2299
      @belialbathory2299 Před rokem +61

      Was looking for this comment. My father in law shares absolutely no physical resemblance to either of his kids. They are most definitely his though especially his son (my partner).

    • @sarahhunter1114
      @sarahhunter1114 Před rokem +46

      Ya, my bio grandfather is Puerto Rican and of my moms 7 siblings, two of them came out with blonde hair and blue eyes. Everyone else looks Latin, or at least mixed.

    • @melissagreen7327
      @melissagreen7327 Před rokem +65

      I came looking for this comment! The children could be his, especially if mother is white or even mixed race. Genetics are crazy but look at the twins that were born where one was white and one was black and I believe both parents were black.

    • @monstermcboo7282
      @monstermcboo7282 Před rokem +45

      The one black and one white twin girls had a white patent and a black parent. So crazy. The girls look just alike but different races and they are gorgeous! Genes are WILD.

    • @kirbydufour8305
      @kirbydufour8305 Před rokem +8

      Agreed! Genetics are crazy!

  • @chrisasdfasd
    @chrisasdfasd Před 11 měsíci +3

    Its genuinely disheartening to see that so many individuals resort to cheating. I can recall an instance from my time in the military when someone in a facebook group brought up the Buzzhumble site that had been featured in the news. As a result, people who had created dating app profiles approximately six years prior found themselves exposed and caught

  • @gulyanjay1667
    @gulyanjay1667 Před rokem +2

    First time ever watching you and immediately I loved it because you reminded me of my aunt who passed away recently and it felt so nice to see someone with the same attitude and personality as her

  • @mackenziemohnacky7465
    @mackenziemohnacky7465 Před rokem +218

    The fact that that girl was able to get the three girls her boyfriend was cheating on her with was very impressive. I hope she dumped him, and the four of them became besties :)

    • @Isa-nj5fp
      @Isa-nj5fp Před 11 měsíci +5

      When you don’t blame the girls but the guy and him alone. 💁🏻‍♀️

    • @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith
      @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith Před 11 měsíci +11

      @@Isa-nj5fp I would blame both, IF the girls knew he was in a relationship. If they thought that they were the only one in his life, then yes, JUST him, they are as much a victim as OP... and, yes, it DOES occasionally happen.

  • @thehangmansdaughter1120
    @thehangmansdaughter1120 Před rokem +138

    I broke up with a guy for cheating on me with his ex. He had the nerve to say "Why are you hurting me like this?" It was at that moment I lost the last tiny scrap of respect I ever had for him.

    • @hannahwillis9838
      @hannahwillis9838 Před 4 měsíci +5

      You were a mirror for him, he was saying that to himself.

  • @la_gobba_di_aigor
    @la_gobba_di_aigor Před rokem +5

    4:21 YES!! EXACTLY!
    Let me share a little something with you. When I met my boyfriend we both were extremely clear about not wanting a relationship. We both wanted to explore and still be able to go out with other people. We were just good friends who talked everyday, lived in different cities and hooked up when we saw eachother. Let me tell you, in the five months this went one, not ONCE, not a SINGLE TIME, I had the occasion to hook up with someone else. After these 5 months my bf asked me if we wanted to let the thing become more serious and I said yes, but we weren't quite ready to "close" the relationship, yet. When he finished his studies he came back to his city (where I also live) and we closed the relationship for good.
    I never hooked up with anyone, and not because I didn't want to, I just didn't want to go on a crusade to find someone to hook up because THAT SHIT IS TIRING. He was able to hook up a couple of times because living in a dorm gives you more occasions, but still, a couple of people in almost 6 months.
    Cheating is absurd to me! You have to ACTIVELY GO OUT and SEARCH for a hook-up, and it's difficult even for single people/people who are trying to find a one night stand. It's not just the act of cheating that is disgusting, you are not accidentally falling into someone's privates. You're actively going out, lying about where you're going, omitting to people to whether you're in a relationship or not, hooking up, going back home, and then keeping that shit a secret.
    WHY????

  • @jackimoon8284
    @jackimoon8284 Před rokem +3

    Charlotte, you’ve never sounded more Canadian then when you yelled
    “HOLD theh PHOENEEE”

  • @mrs.natashaellwood8634
    @mrs.natashaellwood8634 Před rokem +588

    Just wanted to clear something up she said in the beginning. CHEATING IS STILL POSSIBLE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP

    • @erindelaney2103
      @erindelaney2103 Před rokem +67

      Exactly. If your partner is unaware of someone else in your bed that's cheating

    • @akiluckyakilucky7524
      @akiluckyakilucky7524 Před rokem +73

      Yup! I once had a guy tell me polyam wasnt cheating. Well he's right, but forgot that cheating is defined by that relationship's specific boundaries. I would consider cheating to be messing with my friends, hiding partners, lying, manipulating, or hitting on a relative 🤷🏾

    • @KoolAidMansBitch
      @KoolAidMansBitch Před rokem +14

      oh 100% i got cheated on by my (ex) polyam partner

    • @cosmicplanetastic
      @cosmicplanetastic Před rokem +19

      Yup. And They don’t have to have physical touch to be cheating. You can still cheat by what u say, do, and how u act. Flirting is cheating.

    • @teresakirkland995
      @teresakirkland995 Před rokem +11

      True story! If every person in the situation doesn’t agree to a new person and new person is allowed in anyway then it’s cheating!

  • @LynetteTheRogue
    @LynetteTheRogue Před rokem +385

    I would have called the police the second the girlfriend refused to leave and told me my house wasn't my house. Be like oh it isn't? Let's test that hypothesis shall we?

    • @meliisonthemoon8130
      @meliisonthemoon8130 Před rokem +31

      Right??? She was so calm!! I wouldn’t have even said anything, woulda just yanked her hair and dragged her out of MY bed. She ain’t gonna clean up the love juices anyways, least she can do is relieve your tension right then and there 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 Před rokem +2

      ​@@meliisonthemoon8130 lmao

    • @PandaMonium92827
      @PandaMonium92827 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Why tf she let him crash there in the first place?

  • @ghostthebeast8666
    @ghostthebeast8666 Před rokem +3

    I was with my ex for 10 months, almost a year. One day he mentions a girl that confessed to him, he then went on to tell me he wasn’t sure what to do because he liked her back. I tell him not to leave me and after a while I trust him. Few days later I find out he was actually dating two other women. He had told me he did nothing wrong and even got his friends to bully me. Oh and also both of those women were 4 years older than him, him and I are both minors

  • @bmiller2866
    @bmiller2866 Před rokem

    Truth tells. Love this so much! Thank you.

  • @cheezpuffg0rawr
    @cheezpuffg0rawr Před rokem +3395

    As a polyamorous person I absolutely do not understand cheating. Like... If you want to see other people ASK YOUR PARTNER. If they're not okay with that dynamic then you need to stick to being monogamous or leave the relationship.
    Edit: I've been with my longest partner for 10 years. I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum and he is not. I am polyamorous still and seek deep romantic and emotional connections with others. My long term partner needs an emotional connection before being intimate with others. If/when he is sexually active with new partners he and his partner(s) are tested before and after. No one in our polycule has tested positive for STIs because we test regularly and take protection seriously. I'm currently with only one partner at the moment because I'm working too much to properly invest in additional relationships. This doesn't make me any less polyamorous in the same way being single doesn't make you aromantic or asexual.
    I recognize this relationship dynamic isn't for everyone and that is okay. Please just be respectful. There are people who abuse polyamory/open relationships, people who claim to be this but don't communicate with their partner(s) about it. They are not the polyamorous community. They're just jerks.
    And honestly, I've seen more jerks in previous monogamous relationships than I have being polyamorous.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar Před rokem +260

      Or seek counseling. There is such a thing as the poly monocross pair too.

    • @grace.stewartt4224
      @grace.stewartt4224 Před rokem +79

      THANK YOU💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Euphoria7777
      @Euphoria7777 Před rokem +52

      EXACTLY

    • @jman217
      @jman217 Před rokem +36

      @@rnbsteenstar poly monocross??

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar Před rokem +114

      @@jman217 I was referring to the Cross pairing of a poly mono relationship because one of the partners is mono and the other is not.

  • @amymandeville8342
    @amymandeville8342 Před rokem +517

    Once a cheat, always a cheat. If they're willing to cheat with you, they will cheat on you, too. Also, "I had to cheat to be sure I really wanted to be with you " is the lamest excuse ever. A leopard doesn't change it's spots.

    • @Divine1767
      @Divine1767 Před rokem +9

      Facts 💯💯💯💯

    • @happyhellopeople6673
      @happyhellopeople6673 Před rokem +26

      I cant even begin to wonder why people want to cheat. You know for a fact that if your partner finds out then they are going to be heartbroken. I think they just want to cheat for the thrill of not trying to get caught! If you actually cared about your partners feelings and just fell out of love then break up. It would still hurt them but its better then cheating!

    • @The_Lazy_Crafter
      @The_Lazy_Crafter Před rokem +19

      Gonna expose myself here. I cheated once on a bf and I can tell you for abosolute facts I would never ever ever do it again. It was over 15 years ago and the guilt still eats me up to this day. My reasoning was it was to erm experiment with the same sex before we officially committed. Still wish i had just told him and not hurt him. Not all cheaters like myself do it again. However sadly many many do xoxoxox

    • @jenniferbates2811
      @jenniferbates2811 Před rokem +17

      I disagree, if people are willing to work on themselves, they have the ability to change. They just have to want to change.

    • @jenniferbates2811
      @jenniferbates2811 Před rokem +3

      @@happyhellopeople6673 Most of the time, it's about opportunity.

  • @promise3333
    @promise3333 Před rokem +2

    I love that my fiancé and I have morals and respect for each other.

  • @Nacht0katze
    @Nacht0katze Před rokem +11

    I was recently cheated on and this video made me so much happier :) thank you! Doing great 🌻

  • @perhaps1131
    @perhaps1131 Před rokem +320

    This is the power of social media, once one person knows you’re cheating on your partner, then EVERYONE knows because everyone joins in the hunt of finding the person being cheated on to inform them

  • @ahyesverygood1336
    @ahyesverygood1336 Před rokem +336

    4:25 - People who cheat don't love the person they're cheating on, as they don't have the emotional maturity and intelligence (which actual love requires) to stay faithful or fix/end the relationship when they're not happy. Cheating just doesn't make sense to anyone who can genuinely love.

    • @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith
      @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith Před 11 měsíci +4

      I'm Aro/Ace (in the sense of never having felt love of that sort for another) and even I don't see how cheating makes sense.

    • @ahyesverygood1336
      @ahyesverygood1336 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith I've come to the conclusion - using acquaintances as examples - that a lot of people say they love someone just because they get to have sex on a regular basis and end up in shit relationships, having to raise kids they never wanted. Brain power at work😏.

    • @mysticjen379
      @mysticjen379 Před 11 měsíci +3

      True this.

    • @karenwilliams5941
      @karenwilliams5941 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Some people are emotionally connected and not sexually and visa versa kinda try find a partner that fulfill both needs but that's hard

    • @ahyesverygood1336
      @ahyesverygood1336 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@karenwilliams5941
      Many people also don't take time to get to know themselves and figure out what type of person they actually want to be with, instead of just getting into a serious relationship with someone they don't really know that well.
      When you genuinely know what type of person you want to have a proper relationship with, you won't accept anyone else. You will also have made enough space in your life to notice when your ideal person enters it.
      [sorry for the loooong reply🤪]

  • @patrickvanveenendaal4916
    @patrickvanveenendaal4916 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love how the flamingo light sometimes looks like a bow in your hair hahaha

  • @lilyt5855
    @lilyt5855 Před rokem +3

    0:26 even the cat was disgusted with that man-child's foolishness!

  • @whyaddnamehere
    @whyaddnamehere Před rokem +172

    My ex threw a full on 3 year old tantrum when I caught him cheating. All I could do was laugh.

    • @luckygusher6355
      @luckygusher6355 Před rokem +1

      Gurl u deserved better

    • @jessieh9127
      @jessieh9127 Před rokem +14

      Go you! I'd just laugh at him too. Throwing a damn tantrum like a little kid cuz he thought he could get away with it - glad he's your ex. You deserve better!

    • @MiaMaraa
      @MiaMaraa Před rokem +10

      Ew 🤢 i disgusted just by reading your comment 🤣 I'm happy for you 😘

    • @pattmahiney
      @pattmahiney Před rokem +4

      As you should 😂😂

  • @jayschoenhaaar5369
    @jayschoenhaaar5369 Před rokem +152

    My oldest brother was married three times. He wrecked every marriage by cheating and with different women, and this was before the age of social media. His wives found out every time he just sucked at covering his tracks.

  • @yvonne4648
    @yvonne4648 Před měsícem

    I can't stop laughing at that one line: "and that guy, wow, I'm not even mad I'm just impressed, how did that happen?One big family, love pentagon 🤣🤣".

  • @pinkyhc4130
    @pinkyhc4130 Před rokem +139

    This is a daily reminder that people do not cheat with better, they cheat with EASY.

    • @NoudlePipW
      @NoudlePipW Před rokem +13

      Well hang on. Yeah I agree it doesn't mean better, but it's not fair to shame the single person if they didn't know.

    • @pinkyhc4130
      @pinkyhc4130 Před rokem +1

      @@NoudlePipW i didn't mean the other person is 'easy' in some patriarchal slut shaming way, really I meant convenient and accessible.
      Being deceived isn't a moral failing.

    • @jennacisterman7479
      @jennacisterman7479 Před rokem

      Sounds like bitter immaturity to me, when your man cheats on you the stupidest thing you can do is come at the other woman sideways. The smartest thing you can do is befriend that bitch and compare notes over a couple glasses of wine and plot your revenge. Actually, the fact that you two would be hanging out is actually any cheaters worst nightmare wanna see him squirm? Befriend the other woman. She didnt lie to you and hurt you, he did learn where to place your anger hun

    • @victoriafelstein7038
      @victoriafelstein7038 Před rokem +3

      Not necessarily, it is a bit weak to blame the person you're not in a relationship with though. Says a lot.

    • @doodoodoodle
      @doodoodoodle Před rokem +23

      @@NoudlePipW I think by easy, they didn't mean "hoe" necessarily. I took it more as easy = opportunity (which is why cheating happens a lot of time)

  • @XxOddstitiousxX
    @XxOddstitiousxX Před rokem +150

    I took being cheated on so badly. It was 6 years ago. I've had to do a lot of self healing but to say I have ptsd is an understatement. I still have a hard time hearing or saying his name or her name. He cheated on me with a "friend" of mine.
    It's s long story and still pisses me off. I think the friend part is what made it so traumatic since I already had trust issues when it came to friends.
    But, I have married an awesome guy and have two beautiful (no, seriously, they're adorable) kids. I'm happy now. 😊

    • @monstermcboo7282
      @monstermcboo7282 Před rokem +3

      If you pray, pray to break those soul ties. It worked for me and it has worked for so many people. Break those soul ties and the other bonds dissolve one by one. I hope you can get out ahead of this. It’s not fair or fun to live in chains of guilt, regret, shame, or pain, whether you did anything to “deserve” those feelings or not. You’re worth doing what it takes to live in spiritual health and freedom. ❤️

    • @jenn8179
      @jenn8179 Před rokem +1

      I believe you...they are probably the cutest 😇😇

  • @mustang5gtx
    @mustang5gtx Před 4 měsíci

    I love the second one. That cat was looking at him like "What the hell is wrong with this dude!"! lol. 😀

  • @davidponseigo8811
    @davidponseigo8811 Před 11 měsíci +4

    No one deserves to be cheated on.

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 Před rokem +793

    Miss Charlotte: You know what’s cool? Being monogamous and respectful to your partner!
    Every Tater Tot ever: 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @DBSKxSECRETsarang39
      @DBSKxSECRETsarang39 Před rokem +2

      I could never lol

    • @aleey_yo
      @aleey_yo Před rokem +20

      We may be taters but we are all RESPECTFUL taters! 💯

    • @castielabloodwings6301
      @castielabloodwings6301 Před rokem +74

      I’m polyamorous so I was like “hell naw monogamy sucks” but honesty is everything

    • @dynogamergurl
      @dynogamergurl Před rokem

      👏🏼 🥔 👏🏼 🥔 👏🏼

    • @meisjeViv
      @meisjeViv Před rokem +57

      Being monogamous is fine, and do honour any agreement of only being with each other if you've made this agreement - the being respectful to your partner is key! Another polyamorous person here... Yeah, I go out with someone new every now and again, but I'd never do it behind a partner's back or lie about it! Really not that difficult.

  • @Luna-wh6tq
    @Luna-wh6tq Před rokem +143

    Left my ex after he was caught cheating . I was gone for 3 days when I got a call from his boss . His boss begged me to take him back and to come see him to talk . Given I was young , I gave a second chance and went back . Second time it happened, I packed up without saying a word and never went back . Man enough to cheat , childish enough to have a tantrum when realizing he did wrong .

    • @maeannengo4908
      @maeannengo4908 Před rokem +22

      Why did his boss begged you to take back your ex?

    • @pinkybunny
      @pinkybunny Před rokem +3

      the ex probably faked the call

    • @Luna-wh6tq
      @Luna-wh6tq Před rokem +12

      @@maeannengo4908 the only thing I can think of , crocodiles tears in front of his boss . It was pathetic and I was dumb enough to fall for the BS .

    • @randomgeneration7781
      @randomgeneration7781 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@maeannengo4908 if he's the boss' reverse nepo all the ex had to do was "act up" enough for the boss to do anything to make it stop. I don't know if that's what happened, but we have two of those in one of the restaurant outlets I worked at - one was actively perving on me (same-sex perv, which in his words meant no one was gonna believe me if I snitched) and the other dumped all the work on me and cursed out anyone who accidentally gave him more work i.e. wiping a drop of water off a table. I wanted to say something to my original manager, he just told me to let it go, those two were protected by a company CEO because they were "old buddies" and held more power as a dishwasher and a chef than upper management. To my knowledge they're still there.

  • @cindyhoomalu1566
    @cindyhoomalu1566 Před rokem

    Best video yet!!! Thank you! ❤

  • @maylonieldridge5658
    @maylonieldridge5658 Před 23 dny +1

    The girls emptying the pool need to learn how to use a water hose as a syphon lol. Makes it a lot more efficient😂😂😂

  • @TsukiKageTora
    @TsukiKageTora Před rokem +237

    People can’t take accountability… especially the one who cheated on her boyfriend and when someone posted the truth against her video playing the victim, she reported it as harassment.
    Girl, the truth doesn’t harass people, it only feels like that to you cause you can’t play the victim anymore when so many people know now

    • @lilblkrose
      @lilblkrose Před rokem +2

      Technically it is harassment as it is posting her name and face without her consent. However, he was making a response to her own tiktok, I believe, so hmmmMmMmMM.
      You right on people not wanting to take responsibility and get free pity.

    • @TsukiKageTora
      @TsukiKageTora Před rokem +16

      @@lilblkrose she posted a lie online and someone responded to it. Not his fault she put her real information (name, who she’s dating, etc) online. He just called her out on lying to people

    • @lilblkrose
      @lilblkrose Před rokem

      @@TsukiKageTora That's why I was like, hmm hmm but agreed.

  • @CorvieClearmoon
    @CorvieClearmoon Před rokem +285

    Back in the late 1990's I lived in a small town. I was in my late teens and one of my friends was dating someone in their early to mid 20's. Creepy but I digress. He had an ex and a kid with that ex. When the ex saw my friend she would flip out and start doing all these petty things. Showing up unannounced, talking about their kid, talking about how great their sex life was, etc. My friend was always upset but just kept quiet. Welp, I lived right near one of the only bars in town and got to witness some funny stuff over the years. This night I had gotten up to grab and drink and pee. I thought I heard a familiar voice coming through the kitchen window. I go over and take a seat only to see my friends BF and his Ex making out. They were waiting for a taxi and talking very loudly about how they can't wait to Ef each others brains out. The ex said something along the lines of "what about your GF?" and he said something disgusting about only liking her for being young and she'll never find out. I told my friend the next day and she broke up with him. What a creep.

    • @randomsandra4039
      @randomsandra4039 Před rokem +11

      ✨It was the ‘90’s✨

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +27

      @@randomsandra4039 If my life depended on remembering every guy I shagged in the 70s and 80s, I'd just have to stand up for the firing squad and say, "Let's get this over with"!
      Funny thing is, now I know I'm asexual, and back then I was trying on men like I tried on shoes, just couldn't find the right fit. I thought there was something wrong with me, because I found sex boring and icky, but I thought if I kept trying I'd find someone I felt passionate about. I finally did, and I was faithful to him. Sex was low on the list of what I loved about him, but at least it wasn't icky! He died in 1989 at age 32. I've been married twice since, but never felt that way again. Both marriages ended badly, the 1st one ended up being a murder story on "Unsolved Mysteries".
      I won't try for a third unless I find another asexual with whom I can enjoy a deep friendship.

    • @oldwelshlady6584
      @oldwelshlady6584 Před rokem +2

      @@LazyIRanch wow! Mine story is a bit like yrs, the beginning bit and men like shoes. Life is a funny ole game. Now I'm in church and work for Jesus. Funny how we all different. He saved me!!!!!

    • @my3sons757
      @my3sons757 Před rokem +1

      YOU are a good friend! Kudos!

    • @my3sons757
      @my3sons757 Před rokem +3

      @@LazyIRanch He was murdered? Oh, honey, I'm so sorry you went that! What a nightmare!

  • @starlingswallow9406
    @starlingswallow9406 Před rokem +1

    "Where does one find the audacity?"
    Well, at *Audacities-R-US*
    OF COURSE!! 😂😂😂

  • @Fiona2254
    @Fiona2254 Před rokem +1

    Way back when, before I met my husband I had a friend. We grew up in the same neighborhood, he was a friend of my brother whom I had a crush on when I was an awkward 15 year old. Fast forward, not my crush anymore because he was always flying from girl to girl, he just loved all kinds of girls, I was 19 and he asked me out. I told him I’d go out to movies but since he was so into girls just as friends. Turns out I’m at the beach and a young woman from the neighborhood whom I knew as his ex asked me if I’d gone out with him. Lol we figured every time they fought he’d ask me to a movie. We sat there chatting because we knew he’d turn up at some point. He did and we called him over. He knew, we knew and he was mortified that we didn’t really care he was a dog. 😂 it was so much fun to see him squirm.
    Cheaters never change, don’t stay with them. Edit: this was back 1983/84 no social media back them, dumbasses still got caught.

  • @jamssnana4084
    @jamssnana4084 Před rokem +23

    Married 43 years here, and neither of us have ever been unfaithful. And it's EASY! You just don't do it. If it's offered, you just say, "No thank you. I have better at home." No strange sex is worth losing your SO, your family, your dignity, and your self-respect. A good marriage is so worth it.

  • @sophiegeorge2816
    @sophiegeorge2816 Před rokem +121

    My ex cheated on me with my best friend. I caught them and we all worked together so Monday shift was interesting but I was over it. I sent her a sympathy card on the first anniversary, they married and he cheated on her but not with me I don’t have sloppy seconds

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 Před rokem +6

      Perfect karma and revenge. I would have sent her a joker so she knows that she’s the joke

  • @katGuzman11
    @katGuzman11 Před rokem +1

    Lol all your accents I love it. I do the same thing haha

  • @chelseahoney31
    @chelseahoney31 Před rokem +1

    Cheating is hard and I would never do it. Hiding from your partner, making sure people you know don’t see you, and trying to keep up with lies. That’s a full time job and I already have one!

  • @markharrisllb
    @markharrisllb Před rokem +64

    I’m 62 and just been told by Charlotte that I’m cool, I’m totally monogamous and respectful of my partner.

    • @joycemelo88
      @joycemelo88 Před rokem

      Did you think you weren't cool just because you're 62?
      Please don't think such a thing! 🙃

  • @draconicfeline6177
    @draconicfeline6177 Před rokem +125

    The tantruming ex thing - we've seen it a few times. They have the emotional maturity of children, but the capacity to lie like adults. Terrible people.

  • @OhLookYouFoundCristalina

    10:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you Charlotte you made me feel better

  • @aciddrinker2194
    @aciddrinker2194 Před rokem +3

    “Monty, where does one find the audacity?” 3:46

  • @CaitlinSmith-yh5rp
    @CaitlinSmith-yh5rp Před rokem +229

    Even in polyamorous relationships, we don’t cheat. Communication is key to that.

    • @TheSnowdogsShorts
      @TheSnowdogsShorts Před rokem +13

      In fact the chance of being cheated on in a poly relationship is not really a thing.
      It is one of the things that I love about being in a poly relationship.
      Honesty, trust, communication, support, and consent.

    • @allyb3510
      @allyb3510 Před rokem +43

      @@TheSnowdogsShorts unfortunately it very much is a thing. There's a small, small but still there. Percentage that feel just saying they're poly is enough and that it allows them go do WHATEVER they want without communicating anything.

    • @TheSnowdogsShorts
      @TheSnowdogsShorts Před rokem +20

      @UCUUBEeiEmqs98VTgboh8JEw You seem to be under the misunderstanding that poly relationships are about having sex with multiple people, when they are actually about loving more than one person.
      Sex and love are two very different things.

    • @TheSnowdogsShorts
      @TheSnowdogsShorts Před rokem +9

      @@allyb3510 Those few people are maybe saying they’re poly, but are probably not.
      That kind of behaviour and lack of communication, is very unpoly.

    • @kiyavi
      @kiyavi Před rokem +25

      100%!! I was in a poly relationship at one point and had only one immovable boundary - do not sleep with or pursue a relationship with my roommates (who were also my coworkers). Anyone else at all was fine - just not these 3 people because it would make life very difficult for me if something went wrong. Well, one of my partners seemed to take that as a challenge and started sleeping with one of my roommates in secret (who had an out-of-town fiancé btw), meanwhile telling me nothing was happening with her. He broke an established, agreed upon boundary (he agreed to it from the start) - so indeed he cheated in our poly relationship. I ended up having to move after I ended things with that partner, and it made my work environment tense for the rest of my contract, but I made it through. He ended up regretting what he did, and she broke up with him 2 months later to get back with her ex-fiancé. Fast forward, I am now happily married and doing well. To all my poly people - please remember to communicate well in your relationships and respect your partners’ boundaries.

  • @BlakeGildaphish76
    @BlakeGildaphish76 Před rokem +64

    i am convinced that a large portion of the human population was born without a conscience.
    Heck, i recently heard that nearly half of humans don't have an inner voice/dialogue, and i thought inner dialoguing was something that EVERY human being does.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings Před rokem +5

      Wait what? They don't???? For real?

    • @kailah8249
      @kailah8249 Před rokem

      Doesn't mean they don't have a conscience

    • @BlakeGildaphish76
      @BlakeGildaphish76 Před rokem +5

      @@kailah8249 If they do have consciences, they sure as hell don’t act like it. Look at all of the stupid evil shit that people are doing.
      Stuff that could have easily been avoided if they stopped to think about consequences.
      People are not considering consequences for their actions.
      If they were, Charlotte would not have much content to work with.

    • @molly1532
      @molly1532 Před rokem

      Where did you get that info from 🤔

    • @flamefangstar
      @flamefangstar Před rokem

      A what? Sometimes I have to think to myself, but I don't have a voice in my head.

  • @donnastrawstream
    @donnastrawstream Před 2 měsíci

    I just found your channel a few days ago and I love your humor 😂🫶

  • @faysky4070
    @faysky4070 Před rokem

    I love your reactions! Laughing so much!

  • @morriganmidnight5500
    @morriganmidnight5500 Před rokem +34

    Omg that audacity of that girl to not leave someone else's house! You actually have to made of audacity for that!!

  • @candicemorgan979
    @candicemorgan979 Před rokem +258

    @charlottedobre as an FYI your skin tone can be as dark as your darkest parent or as light as your lightest parent (or anywhere in between).... there are even fraternal twins of interracial couples where one twin is black and the other is white (in skin tone)... it just depends which genes you get from each parent and whether they’re recessive or dominant 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🌟🌈 so those twins could be his as the wife was white (and he also probably has some white genetics)

    • @bethanbaker7066
      @bethanbaker7066 Před rokem +59

      Thats what I was thinking, I wasn't going to immediately assume in that scenario because there have even been twins born with one really white and one really black so I just normally think it's just genetics.

    • @seeingthepattern
      @seeingthepattern Před rokem +55

      This was the case with the twins of friends of mine. The girl was a dark as her Ugandan mother, and the boy was as white as his British dad.
      They both went to the same uni, and, to save money, shared a flat.
      They'd been there seven or eight months when one of their neighbours (to whom they had never spoken beyond polite greetings) spoke to the girl to warn her that her "boyfriend" was having other girls around when she wasn't there.
      It was all sorted out with red-faces and laughing. Thoughtful neighbour though.

    • @imme4360
      @imme4360 Před rokem +20

      That's very true. I have Indonesian blood and I have dark complexion, but my daughter is dark blond with a bit darker skin and my son is just blond and white. I always have to remind myself that he has to have sunscreen even with little bit of sun, because he will burn. My husband was as kid silverblond so he takes after his father. 😅

    • @kawansiesquad6659
      @kawansiesquad6659 Před rokem +14

      Yes, my dad is white as can be and my mother is Filipino with olive skin that tans very easily. My younger sister is very white as well but I have a darker skin tone like my mother. A lot of teachers don’t realise that we are sisters until they see our last names😂

    • @tlkey
      @tlkey Před rokem +22

      Thank you for that. I have interracial children and grandchildren and I have never understood why people don’t get this concept. Genetics, baby!

  • @mariemichellewillie6663
    @mariemichellewillie6663 Před rokem +3

    I‘m in an Open relationship with my partner and meeting new people is not stressful to me at all, it’s so much fun actually if it’s openly communicated and boundaries are respected

    • @ButAVapor
      @ButAVapor Před rokem

      Been learning more about polyamory and how WOMEN are designed for this, for the fact they wilk have children with men with the best genes, and have a community of women raise them. The man can also be with different women but only to keep his strong genes going, and the weak ones die off...That's what I've learned so far.

  • @jodiemccoy8892
    @jodiemccoy8892 Před 11 měsíci

    I'm not even upset just impressed
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @AndriaTheKobold
    @AndriaTheKobold Před rokem +57

    I was once "the other woman", and completely oblivious to it. Hung out with my ex's best friend, cuz he said: He had the day off, he and his wife got divorced etc. I shrugged, went with it. I get a phone call later at work FROM HIS WIFE. Who says that everything was a boldfaced lie, and he was supposed to be at work that day and he's done this before many a time. She wasn't mad at me, she was mad at him.

  • @rikrob
    @rikrob Před rokem +34

    It is when you see they've somehow got 2 seperate lives with the houses, kids & everything else that always gets me.
    I've had a couple of partners cheat on me, and now although it might seem a sad existance, I have moved onto a single, multiple-animal daddy lifestyle & couldn't be happier! Just chilling with my cat & reptiles is much more stress-free than trying to understand & please another human being!

    • @rikrob
      @rikrob Před rokem +2

      @@leeannarcher I've yet to find anything as heartwarming as looking down & seeing my corn snake peeking up at me from inside my onesie or the sensation of my bearded dragon snuggling in deeper to my neck. My others are nice to handle, but those 2 are especially affectionate. 😊

  • @PiNkzThiNkz
    @PiNkzThiNkz Před rokem

    The video at the pool lol look at his dog just standing there watching 😂

  • @kezia-lemonthorne2507
    @kezia-lemonthorne2507 Před rokem +2

    For what I've heard, cheaters are people who either can't handle compromise, or are scared of intimacy and go back to the stage of relationship they can handle but with another person, or find what they already have is not enough, or they don't like that the everyday of a couple is not as exciting as they thought so they get to new relationships without ending the main one because of cowardice.... and so on.
    Anyway, a commited relationship puts aside the being with someone just for the kicks and because you simply want to be with them in all the senses. If you don't then have the guts to be straight about it.

  • @luvsiberians8006
    @luvsiberians8006 Před rokem +14

    When I confronted my (now) ex-husband for cheating, he said: "I had hoped that you'd never find out". THAT's at the bottom of every cheaters motives - they think they won't get caught.

  • @HannaBenana
    @HannaBenana Před rokem +160

    My dad decided to tell my mother over 20 years after the fact that he had been cheating on her throughout their early relationship until she was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. At the time they had two small children. He knew her feelings on cheating, and he waited until she was so sick she absolutely needed him to function day to day to tell her. Or rather to clean his own conscience. The knowledge didn't do anything helpful or healing for her. I hope any cheaters who got away with it and feel guilty about it take this little nugget of advice. Your partner is happier not knowing and you deserve the guilt that keeps you up at night. Keep it to yourself and maybe your kids won't hate you.

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 Před rokem

      That is absolutely horrendous. Sorry to say but he needs to rot in a special place

    • @TShirtAndReeboks
      @TShirtAndReeboks Před rokem +15

      That may be true, but I think people have the right to know, even if it is painful.

    • @HannaBenana
      @HannaBenana Před rokem +33

      @@TShirtAndReeboks They had a right to not be cheated on too. Obviously the cheater didn't care about that, why is caring about the "truth" more valuable than honoring a monogamous relationship? After 20 some odd years, when your partner can no longer function without you, and has always expressed how unforgivable cheating is to them, the truth is no longer in the innocent party's best interest, at least it wasn't in my mother's. It broke her heart and soured the last 39 years of marriage for her. Now she feels trapped with a man she no longer trusts, and she's too sick and tired to leave. She's said herself she wished he'd kept his lying mouth shut, his peace of mind wasn't worth shattering her world.

    • @andrewguzman5003
      @andrewguzman5003 Před 7 měsíci +8

      and both times he cared more about his feelings and emotions than your mother and that is simply disgusting, I’m sorry for what happened to you guys.

    • @dione2610
      @dione2610 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I agree, take the guilt to your grave, but do them a favor and break up with them. They deserve better than a cheater.

  • @hearmeout4663
    @hearmeout4663 Před 6 měsíci

    I flipping love you girl keep it up 💓

  • @ButAVapor
    @ButAVapor Před rokem

    LMAO the pool bit is hilarious 😆

  • @hyldrklein451
    @hyldrklein451 Před rokem +79

    This reminds me so much of 8 years ago. Me and my now husband were part of several arcade gaming and competitive groups. And there was this one guy that always hung out with us to train because we were around the same range of skill level so we became quite close. I became friends with his gf cause he would bring her along. After about a year, he got quite popular because he got really good in the games we were competing in and would start bringing in several different girl “friends” every training session. Then some years later, I was invited into a facebook group by his former gf, and now ex-fiance. Turns out that they were supposed to get married but she found out that the guy was rotating through more than a dozen women and they were all clueless of each other’s existence until they were all brought into that facebook group. And I was invited there to be their witness so I got to witness all the craziness. 😅

  • @AC-cg6gz
    @AC-cg6gz Před rokem +45

    On a sadder note, my youngest sons, first gf cheated, he married his second gf and she tried to commit suicide. He said it was worse than the cheater, because the love between them wasn't enough to live for...Now he's in fear of will he find her dead and will he even care enough anymore to even call for help.

    • @itssteph263
      @itssteph263 Před rokem +39

      As someone who has attempted suicide and who is now alot better, please let your son know that alot of the times it's not that our partner's love isn't enough it's just that our minds make us believe that we aren't good enough or deserve that love so we shouldn't be around. I highly recommend if they aren't already therapy for not just his wife but, for himself. I wish you and your family all the best.

    • @belialbathory2299
      @belialbathory2299 Před rokem +12

      Please please tell your son he's the best thing for her. To remind her she deserves the world in his eyes. It means the world to know someone sees through the pain and loves you. No one was there when I needed someone, please don't give up.

    • @divahc1
      @divahc1 Před rokem +18

      My nephew took his own life. His parents and only sister loved him deeply, and he, them. He felt as if it would be better for them if he wasn't here. Someone in such a state of mind that they can harm themselves that way, is
      clearly not in a healthy state-of-mind. Please, tell your brother it's not about him not being enough, on the contrary, it's about his girlfriend believing she's not enough.

    • @divahc1
      @divahc1 Před rokem +2

      I'm so happy you were unsuccessful. You are more than deserving of life. Never feel your family would be better
      off without you. They'll suffer the rest of their lives.(My 26 year old nephew suicided in 2020.)

    • @motherrabbit4991
      @motherrabbit4991 Před rokem +3

      As a person who has struggled with chronic suicidal ideation, your mind convinces you that the people you love are better off. It is a deep pain that was there before him and it can be absolute agony to deal with. Loving a person who has those ideations often helps them through it, but it's not his fault and it's not that he's not enough, she's in agony and frankly when others (especially family and partners) make a person's suicidal attempts about themselves it makes it worse. She's struggling and getting help is the only way to get through it, but having his love will help her more than he will ever realize. I hope that they both get through this and she can work past her struggles, but please let him know it's not his fault and if he starts making it about himself it will not do anything aside from hurt both of them more.

  • @caitlinadalton
    @caitlinadalton Před rokem +2

    If I ever found another woman in my bed, I would beat her until the cops came, and then turn on the man until they arrest me 😡
    I feel soo bad for her and I applaud her for acting so calmly and maturely despite the situation. Good for her for leaving him!!!

  • @LonelyJest
    @LonelyJest Před 11 měsíci

    "Monty... Where does one find the audacity?" literally the motto of life right now

  • @haleighford2366
    @haleighford2366 Před rokem +44

    I’ll say this about the twins.. a friend of mine is white her husband is dark skinned. One of her kids is as dark as him two look mixed but have her blonde hair but curly and her youngest looks completely white!
    Someone else I went to school with she’s black and her baby dad is white. The baby was white blonde hair blue eyes but she had her moms features and curly hair. So her black mom pushed out a pale blue eyed blond baby with freckles.
    It happens.

    • @brandyhuff8487
      @brandyhuff8487 Před rokem +4

      My daughter is mixed, shes got blonde haired blue eyed babies 💜💙 genetics are great!

  • @shantigarin7272
    @shantigarin7272 Před rokem +110

    Oooh I fell that bathroom interaction sooo much! I was not in a bathroom but in a break moment with all my coworkers (mostly ladies) and everyone was sharing what they did the day before.. So there is this thing if you are seeing anyone of the colleagues casually, especially higher grades it's mostly kept hush hush... Not something that most would share with colleagues. So the day before one of the higher ups invite me to go for sightseeing, for me it's pretty normal, walk around, have a nice conversation and just stay outside a bit... thinking nothing of it I went and soon this guy started talking about how much he was making and getting sort of flirty in a way that made me uncomfortable, for his personality, his conversation... All of it. So the next day having a boring gazillion hours to pass with the other coworkers we were talking and I shared that I went sightseeing with said higher-up. All of a sudden I notice one of the girls turned around from making her coffee, with a strange face she asked me if he had invited me for dinner... And she was so anxious as though she wanted me to say "no he didn't"
    He didn't invite me in fact... But the time we said bye was around dinner time...
    This coworker then became so silent and you can see something boiling inside her... In fact next thing she does she "takes a walk" I. E. She goes to the higher up in question...
    What I can only guess is that guy did a "double date" that previous day and invite her for dinner just minutes after saying bye to me.
    Turns out without saying anything my coworker had found out what kind of man she was getting involved with before it would be too late

    • @tigressqueen911
      @tigressqueen911 Před rokem +13

      bosses dating underlings is also a very scummy and sometimes illegal thing why would you even participate in that

    • @DraconiInfernalus
      @DraconiInfernalus Před 6 měsíci

      I never unterstand why people dating colleagues at a job

    • @karenwilliams5941
      @karenwilliams5941 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@DraconiInfernalus I got a thing for dudes in my industry they are so much nicer then tradies and office workers lol

  • @PhoenixRisingEra
    @PhoenixRisingEra Před rokem +1

    The random strangers blowing up the spot needs to keep happening.

  • @grappler240
    @grappler240 Před 5 měsíci

    To quote Buford T Justice from Smokey and the Bandit.. "You can THINK about it... but DON'T DO IT."

  • @SunneyDae
    @SunneyDae Před rokem +40

    I 100% agree with something I heard once before that cheating is an act of evil. Its evil. You cannot claim to love somebody while making the conscious decision to do something that you know will hurt them. There can't be love there.