Relationship Guru Fails At Marriage... DERRICK JAXN CAUGHT CHEATING AGAIN.

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  • @CronosGolden
    @CronosGolden Před rokem +3894

    Guys really suck at hiding their "infidelity". Any tips ladies?

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  Před rokem +4047

      You only know about the ones who get caught

    • @warren010h
      @warren010h Před rokem +169

      😂😂😂

    • @thegamingkitchen8429
      @thegamingkitchen8429 Před rokem +766

      Idk ask LOW

    • @longbeachmaumba7059
      @longbeachmaumba7059 Před rokem

      I'll tell you this though, if Paternity tests were to become mandatory at birth let's see how good their hiding would be after that.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 Před rokem

      The key is to smash her half sister. She will not be fully invested, just like her father.😂😂

  • @longbeachmaumba7059
    @longbeachmaumba7059 Před rokem +2419

    Smh all those years Derrick acted like he wanted to be a father figure to women but secretly he wanted to show them who their daddy was.

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle Před rokem +3550

    The gag is that Derick has been talking about himself the whole time. That’s why he created content so easily and regularly.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Před rokem +143

      Exactly!!!! I think more women need to go and watch his videos .

    • @glennwallace6742
      @glennwallace6742 Před rokem +24

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @jboa
      @jboa Před rokem +96

      @@Goddess_Infinity Right, directly from the source😂

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones Před rokem +83

      "Write what you know" :)

    • @adrianchatman5734
      @adrianchatman5734 Před rokem +123

      It's like Clark Kent writing a story about Superman lol.

  • @drewyetti
    @drewyetti Před rokem +479

    “Ladies, if you feel that your man is cheating on you, just remember he is sharing his love to other women because they are queens like you.” - Derrick Jaxn

  • @SMD2x
    @SMD2x Před rokem +54

    The slow zoom-in on the wife face did me in 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @gisellegeorge6184
    @gisellegeorge6184 Před rokem +1727

    The most disgusting part of this is that Derrick is the one cheated, allowed his wife to humiliate herself on social media defending the marriage and then HE filed for a divorce. The least he could have done is let her file for divorce and save face. Thank God I don't idolize anyone because we are all capable of doing terrible things

    • @tumweonlycommentary2797
      @tumweonlycommentary2797 Před rokem +34

      Amen🥂

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 Před rokem +60

      Last days people become lover of themselves

    • @sosmooth13
      @sosmooth13 Před rokem +85

      For years we got shit on by all the ladies calling us dusty for trying to call this man out. I’m with Aba on this. I’m not going to throw shade at this man. I’m kicking my feet up and watching the show. Feel the sorriest for his girl though.
      Edit: nevermind. She sicced Jesus on me.

    • @ofekmizrahi3079
      @ofekmizrahi3079 Před rokem +44

      Hes a narcissist but people are blind

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy Před rokem +15

      @@DMWatchesCZcams that’s not how it works, he’s a guy there’s no escaping it unless she’s richer then no one get 💩 💀

  • @Chimiri88
    @Chimiri88 Před rokem +511

    Moral of the story: Live your life. Stop listening to these online relationship gurus. They don’t know any better too

    • @LotusHoshi
      @LotusHoshi Před rokem +18

      Listen to the WORD of God; He knows everything and everyone!

    • @denizece3672
      @denizece3672 Před rokem +7

      If longevity in a relationship were the goal for the core audience, why even listen to anyone who got married 4 years ago? Not that people can’t have valuable insights after 4 years of marriage, but calling oneself a guru seems cocky. I want to hear the folks that stayed married til the end

    • @melruth5
      @melruth5 Před rokem +3

      @@LotusHoshiamen

  • @k.j.w.9531
    @k.j.w.9531 Před rokem +511

    I feel sorry for the wife. This man has publicly humiliated her so many times. I hope she gets the help she deserves.

    • @TheDweeb002
      @TheDweeb002 Před rokem +26

      At least now she knows what not to look for...we hope

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 Před rokem +43

      The public humiliation is just the icing on top of a cheating husband. Talk about insult to injury.

    • @carboy101
      @carboy101 Před rokem +22

      Don't feel sorry for her. She has common sense like the rest of us.

    • @KMark2688
      @KMark2688 Před rokem +10

      She’s allowed it to happen.

    • @qtaro-7097
      @qtaro-7097 Před rokem +3

      hol up he cheated again???

  • @beloveddaughter7336
    @beloveddaughter7336 Před rokem +136

    She has broken all the way down. But I think she was still believing the lies he was telling her. They've been together since high school, I think he said. She wanted to believe she hadn't wasted her life with a liar but she has to accept it. Once she does it will get better.

    • @michaelturley8222
      @michaelturley8222 Před 6 měsíci +2

      You know someone's lost it when they're making death wishes in Jesus's name lmao

  • @Forevermocha
    @Forevermocha Před rokem +349

    So all of his books were his memoirs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AlchemyGames88
      @AlchemyGames88 Před rokem +42

      Lmao 😂clearly we just didn’t read the fine print “black men don’t cheat….. but please understand I do” 🙄🥴

    • @ceejay1476
      @ceejay1476 Před rokem +6

      It was so obvious tho

    • @kerrian4564
      @kerrian4564 Před rokem +1

      🤣😂

    • @leedirtybriches
      @leedirtybriches Před rokem

      You gon be driving the short bus for that comment. 🤣

    • @handsomeprince215
      @handsomeprince215 Před rokem

      @@AlchemyGames88 because you women are dumb ass hell

  • @C.R.Cole331
    @C.R.Cole331 Před rokem +559

    Derrick Jaxn was so good at what he did because he was talking about himself the whole time😂😂

  • @MrAngel-ir2lj
    @MrAngel-ir2lj Před rokem +58

    That's why...never look at another other person or relationship ever. Because behind closed doors you never know who they really are. Because who you are isn't about blasting on social media and shit. It's when no one Is watching.

  • @HomeBizTaxLady
    @HomeBizTaxLady Před rokem +29

    The fact that people STILL listen to him is INSANE! 😂😂
    His wife actually cursed everybody that spoke against their marriage.

  • @crystalxchi8576
    @crystalxchi8576 Před rokem +1996

    I actually felt sorry for his wife but hearing her wish evil upon the people talking about her husband's infidelity erased every ounce of sympathy in me. She's crazy, brainwashed even. She's lost her damn mind and i hope she finds it soon. What an embarrassment.

    • @omolevincentia3447
      @omolevincentia3447 Před rokem

      The woman has some psychological issues due to the pain and humiliation, don't take her rants seriously,she just needs to heal and grow

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee Před rokem

      anyone who dates a man who says dumb shit like '________ men dont cheat'. put anything in that blank. if they talk stupid as fuck like this ESPCECIALLY about something that they have been caught doing, its a wrap

    • @miguelangelthomas5154
      @miguelangelthomas5154 Před rokem +337

      Shes a very hurt woman who invested way too much time and energy into a man that couldn't respect her enough to keep it in his pants time and time again. I feel for her but somebody needs to take her phone away from her. This much pain and a cellphone make for a toxic cocktail.

    • @Jayisinvisible
      @Jayisinvisible Před rokem +201

      But whats crazy is thats exactly why I have even much more sympathy for her. They've been together since their teenagers…his evil ass had decades to prime and brainwash her.

    • @samadgriffin6853
      @samadgriffin6853 Před rokem +51

      Bible thumpers...

  • @robertmcarthur3776
    @robertmcarthur3776 Před rokem +1150

    Derek Jackson is like the Dexter of relationship coaches. He's committing the crimes, hiding the evidence then solving the shit like he didn't know anything 😏

  • @Megan6772
    @Megan6772 Před rokem +9

    Here now, i saw her on a podcast holding herself and speaking so eloquently and candidly. She's healed and leveled up and I'm so happy for her and proud of her ❤❤❤

    • @achhkay4229
      @achhkay4229 Před 11 měsíci

      She really sexy but made her look i attractive

  • @Under_theHill
    @Under_theHill Před rokem +31

    I remember watching his videos years ago and falling off his content cause we know the preachiest people out there doing no good, but damn the fact that he was living the things he spoke against in real time and not the past, is crazy. 😩😳 I hope his soon to be ex-wife comes out of her delusions and can emotionally heal. It’s humiliating and those children are gonna be confused

  • @onemorescout
    @onemorescout Před rokem +1460

    Crazy how he made an entire career out of projecting

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera Před rokem +25

      Damn that’s true 😂💯

    • @PeaceLoveAndJoy
      @PeaceLoveAndJoy Před rokem +52

      And people fell for it is even crazier

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Před rokem

      All of these gurus are just different versions of the "family values" preacher who jacks off dudes in rest stops

    • @Cyber-Rain
      @Cyber-Rain Před rokem +35

      @@PeaceLoveAndJoy fell for it A SECOND TIME

    • @DopeDevastation
      @DopeDevastation Před rokem +37

      @@Cyber-Rain and will a third cause they refuse to accept reality

  • @Soh23
    @Soh23 Před rokem +582

    If they start the video laughing, you are in for a good one

  • @xoxoTash
    @xoxoTash Před rokem +197

    As a licensed female therapist, I wholeheartedly believe that DJ is a narcissist - the dangerous type because he has the intellectual capability to be deceitful on a grand scale. But, even more apparent, he is in need of serious therapy, and so does his wife. I speculate they coexisted in a trauma bond their entire relationship and that the signs were always there. The perfect recipe for these bonds is a narcissist and a partner with little to no sense of self (the wife). This is what you get.
    Once I started seeing men speak out against him, I recognized that something was egregious in how he pandered and was turned off. The thing is, the average woman doesn't have the insight of a licensed clinician, so they'll fall for this stuff. I hope this is a lesson to everyone.

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 Před rokem +12

      Oh God people...can we STOP brandishing the word Narcissist in 2023.....JESUS!

    • @stephk5797
      @stephk5797 Před rokem +20

      There's kind of a difference between people brandishing it needlessly to excuse their own shit and a therapist calling out someone who actually does have the symptoms

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 Před rokem +8

      @Steph K agreed..however therapists are humans..cab be wrong..I my opinion, throwing out psychological diagnosis of someone u have never met is tantamount to..brandishing

    • @xoxoTash
      @xoxoTash Před rokem +28

      @Ruby Chame at no point in this comment did I diagnose this man. Furthermore, I agree with you 100% that word is overused in social media and its terrible. However, I would hope my years of studying and working in this field would have some merit, so please trust I wouldn't just use the word. Secondly, we all possess levels of narcissism. This man's high level of the trait is undeniably evident.

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 Před rokem

      @@xoxoTash OK 👍

  • @e.mountain1637
    @e.mountain1637 Před 8 měsíci +4

    😂😂 “Thou doth protest too much.”
    “Are you quoting scriptures too?”
    “No, that’s Shakespeare.”
    😂🤣🤣😂

  • @InsanelyIrish
    @InsanelyIrish Před rokem +554

    It's like a drunken alcoholic trying to tell us the benefit's of sobriety.

    • @missdarkhumour2222
      @missdarkhumour2222 Před rokem +27

      Lmao 😂. Well done.

    • @jtymusic100
      @jtymusic100 Před rokem +39

      It's like a homeless person telling you how to flip house's.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Před rokem +21

      Drunken alcoholic could have been sober over a multi year period and completely understand the benefits of sobriety. Derrick jaxn basically said don't put up with his shit or people like him and he's right.

    • @jtymusic100
      @jtymusic100 Před rokem +14

      @@dennisrobinson8008 but he was trying to present himself as the good guy... Making women think he was the greatest thing walking. And if anyone called him fake... That would be a crime worse than murder. That's where the problem is.

    • @nobodyknowsforsure
      @nobodyknowsforsure Před rokem +4

      Doesn't make what that person is saying is wrong, it just makes them a hypocrite, so not the best example.

  • @carlosrosado9560
    @carlosrosado9560 Před rokem +82

    The split screen with the ex wife while he talks took me out 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @powerliftingsloth1711
    @powerliftingsloth1711 Před rokem +20

    I think Preach made a great point at the end. All these "relationship coaches" do is offer bad advice with zero liability, and then shit talk actual professionals like psychologists who go to school and have structures in place for the protection of their patients.

  • @ayanaatthrivebewhole
    @ayanaatthrivebewhole Před rokem +5

    Certified Life Coach here. Fyi, the way that I was trained was not to force any agenda on people, but to empower people to help discover their own Journey and to help them find the tools to really be who they want to be authentically. It was also about helping them advocate for themselves, and develop soft skills that could help them get to that next level! It was very helpful similar to therapy, helping people get to the root of why they struggle to reach their goals! So when done properly, it can be extremely helpful! Health coaching was what helped me lose 50 lb and live a healthier lifestyle! But, you're right, that there are people who are not doing it for the right reasons or from the right lens!
    Also, I used to watch his videos, and a lot of them weren't bad. There were a bunch of them that were just about loving yourself and knowing you're worth, and setting appropriate boundaries. To be fair, when he was speaking ill of men, it was more about if you encounter this type of behavior here's what you should do. I never got the impression that he was condemning all men.
    But his behavior is fraudulent as hell right now.

  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 Před rokem +281

    He is literally everything he warned women to watch out for 😂

    • @nickodemusjohnson
      @nickodemusjohnson Před rokem +1

      And even when the sh*t stank, those women still didn't seem to smell it😂🤫

    • @baddieandabook
      @baddieandabook Před rokem +33

      That explains why he was able to speak so confidently about it lmaooo

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Před rokem +16

      His wife should have listened to him.

    • @maxhatush5918
      @maxhatush5918 Před rokem +8

      Women LOVE men like him tho.

    • @91son92
      @91son92 Před rokem +2

      Men saw this this years ago

  • @Waywardfolk
    @Waywardfolk Před rokem +262

    Showing his wife’s face while showing him trashing “lame ass dudes” killed me 😂😂😂 dude was really talking about himself 😂😂😂😂

  • @lenamonee997
    @lenamonee997 Před rokem +21

    What can you say….he was doing field work to gather the info necessary. 😂

  • @stevenprince9963
    @stevenprince9963 Před rokem +7

    I wonder how many "I told you so's" replaying in her head from the ppl who was looking out for her and told her to leave

  • @danparish1344
    @danparish1344 Před rokem +218

    A narcissist doesn’t care about being a hypocrite or deceiving and hurting people, they actually can get enjoyment out of it.

    • @nocapnobs7845
      @nocapnobs7845 Před rokem +14

      They actually do get enjoyment out of it. It turns them on physically.

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee Před rokem +4

      dan, that said, a lot of these men may not even be narcs. narcs have a lot in common with most abusers, same that cheaters have a lot in common with gaslighters and so on. depending on ones griff, whether its financial abuse or just a sex addicted person etc.....the cocktail of deceit varies and have a lot in common with narcissism

    • @dahliaherrod4301
      @dahliaherrod4301 Před rokem

      That's not a narcissist. That's a psychopath.

    • @izzylandyt
      @izzylandyt Před rokem +1

      Narcissists LOVE to talk about themselves

    • @kadebebesis4204
      @kadebebesis4204 Před rokem

      100 percent, yes. Narcissists carry sadistic traits/tendencies.

  • @HasanPikerIsADouche
    @HasanPikerIsADouche Před rokem +187

    He's still teaching men about marriage, like exactly what not to do lol

    • @Forevermocha
      @Forevermocha Před rokem +1

      Excited like a kid on Christmas day lol

  • @MrMadu-rv6lr
    @MrMadu-rv6lr Před rokem +3

    Yo, the close up of his ex wife's face though. 😂😂😂 I feel bad for her, but that editing is funny storytelling.

  • @may8043
    @may8043 Před rokem +4

    The stuff Derrick Jaxn said about men who cheat was spot on. I realize now he is an expert at cheating, so it was all accurate.

  • @AllMad111
    @AllMad111 Před rokem +527

    I hear Jaxn say his name, and I start laughing uncontrollably. Really shouldn't have watched this at a funeral.

    • @sebswede9005
      @sebswede9005 Před rokem +38

      Michael Jaxn

    • @Xander9608
      @Xander9608 Před rokem +30

      @@sebswede9005 bro stop, i'm dead =))

    • @weswolever7477
      @weswolever7477 Před rokem +6

      Axtion Jaxn

    • @Jam-bt7qu
      @Jam-bt7qu Před rokem +7

      😟 not a funeral.
      Sorry for your loss.

    • @AllMad111
      @AllMad111 Před rokem +26

      @@Jam-bt7quIt was just the funeral of Derrick Jaxn's career, so it's all good.

  • @willardth
    @willardth Před rokem +5

    She's so hurt she don't know what she doing. Praying she gets healing. It will take a few years

  • @controversialcommentswithmia
    @controversialcommentswithmia Před 10 měsíci +2

    I choked on piece of fish I was having for dinner from laughter it got out my nose
    Aba you are crazy 🤪 the black man don't cheat msg was iconic.

  • @kadebebesis4204
    @kadebebesis4204 Před rokem +444

    Aba being petty is so funny! “Black men don’t cheat.” Goddamn. 😂

  • @PrinceRevolver
    @PrinceRevolver Před rokem +55

    I lost it when Aba started reading the titles to Derrick Jaxn's books 🤣🤣🤣

  • @carltonmanoxide6268
    @carltonmanoxide6268 Před rokem +6

    You guys are the Siskel & Ebert of modern society that we really needed 🔥

  • @Azoth742
    @Azoth742 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I’m glad my algorithm is playing all the old videos this one’s golden

    • @KurlanAank18
      @KurlanAank18 Před 4 měsíci

      I actually wondered what happened to him when I first heard about him cheating, and hearing that he got caught again I never clicked on a old video so fast. Sorry for necroing your thread.

  • @ernestonoir5796
    @ernestonoir5796 Před rokem +60

    After that voodoo curse she chanted, I’m scared to crack a joke now 😮

    • @didyallseethat499
      @didyallseethat499 Před rokem +18

      Why? Her dum dum self spewed a curse right into a mirror (camera lens) and all that happened was it came back and hit her right in the face 😂😂😂😂 You’re safe 😂😂😂

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 Před rokem +10

      @@didyallseethat499 Yep! 😂 She did that to herself.

    • @candyc4713
      @candyc4713 Před rokem +4

      It only applies to lies and slander. No lies told.

    • @indiashante1560
      @indiashante1560 Před rokem

      @@didyallseethat499 OMGoodness 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ebabz2102
    @ebabz2102 Před rokem +102

    I just realised talking about himself in third person keeps him from taking responsibility and being accountable.

  • @ericw.1061
    @ericw.1061 Před rokem +13

    These guys are the best reactors out there. We need more bars from Aba.

  • @terrinplez9391
    @terrinplez9391 Před rokem +2

    I’m glad to see that I am not the only one that has been binge watching Aba&Preach. Great commentary.

  • @lordpaps2270
    @lordpaps2270 Před rokem +421

    I feel so ex-wife for his wife cheating is one thing, but cheating while making a carreer denouncing cheat while also using your wife as a prop is simply villainous.

  • @joshuaconniff7712
    @joshuaconniff7712 Před rokem +515

    I started watching your videos during the first Jaxn cheating scandal. Good to see he's still consistent

  • @DappaDan23
    @DappaDan23 Před rokem +4

    Aba and Preach are my favourite. Always cracking me up but there just aren't enough videos for me 🙃

  • @daniellehunter5318
    @daniellehunter5318 Před rokem +68

    I can't but feel like Derrick has been trolling for this entire time 😂

    • @goyonman9655
      @goyonman9655 Před rokem

      🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Interesting theory

    • @tinamoul
      @tinamoul Před rokem +1

      Nah, don't give him an out, he is a scammer.

  • @Bessbeauty
    @Bessbeauty Před rokem +142

    He was EVERYTHING he was speaking about! Literally speaking from experience 😂😂

  • @SenecaCz
    @SenecaCz Před rokem +283

    I was holding myself up successfully until "I've come too far" part; now I'm howling. Thanks, Aba, for your pettiness 😆

    • @joshuaottley7902
      @joshuaottley7902 Před rokem +38

      "I *still* want it" was the one that took me out

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 Před rokem +1

      That book collection tho. when does part 5 drop. I got a co-worker I want to gift it to. 😂 She loves this man, just as much he loves his sideHo_es.

    • @ericapaquette9624
      @ericapaquette9624 Před rokem +16

      He's got a gift 🤣

    • @AT-ts1se
      @AT-ts1se Před rokem +3

      😂

  • @Kal.El1
    @Kal.El1 Před rokem +4

    I have far more respect for someone who screws up & owns up to it soon after. The ones who get caught out, then try & hide behind fake platitudes & scripted apologies are amongst the worst hypocrites.

  • @HiGlowie
    @HiGlowie Před 10 měsíci +2

    Anyone who spells “Jackson” as “Jaxn” has another thing coming

  • @rivkathegreat
    @rivkathegreat Před rokem +269

    Derrick really couldn't keep his secret a secret. He talked about himself every single day, even wrote a couple books on himself.

  • @lillylee2410
    @lillylee2410 Před rokem +383

    I was seeing an expensive relationship/marriage therapist (to save mine) bc she was beautiful, successful, dripping in luxury, married. Later to find out, she is a high class escort (caught with my boss) and her husband is her hustler boyfriend. Boy that solved many of my marital problems quick.

    • @jewelsvermin8866
      @jewelsvermin8866 Před rokem +25

      How did that solve your problems?

    • @sugarwaterpurple5280
      @sugarwaterpurple5280 Před rokem +93

      Was she an actual therapist with qualifications? Just wondering because beautiful, successful and dripping in luxury aren't things I'd look for in a therapist.

    • @dioumagogoba7606
      @dioumagogoba7606 Před rokem +35

      @@jewelsvermin8866 wondering too?? This story is spicy.

    • @lundoren5240
      @lundoren5240 Před rokem +7

      @@sugarwaterpurple5280 cause it’s a woman choosing lmao. Cmon man think about it.

    • @sugarwaterpurple5280
      @sugarwaterpurple5280 Před rokem +22

      @@lundoren5240 I'm a woman ad questioning the choice, so the OP's gender is irrelevant.

  • @jver6503
    @jver6503 Před rokem +6

    I agree the rise of relationship gurus need to leave because some of their advice does not depict real relationships. Everyone is different which means every relationship does not abide by the same rules or experience.

  • @MBJean
    @MBJean Před rokem +2

    8:42 Bish! Don’t put that evil gypsy curse on me

  • @capo4270
    @capo4270 Před rokem +34

    "I'm sorry Ms Jaxn" 🎵🎶
    "I am for real" 🎵 🎶
    "Never meant to make your daughter cry but I gotta be a philanderer til I die" 🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵

  • @FinalB055
    @FinalB055 Před rokem +21

    Jaxson talking about breaking generational curses, as he helps create another single mother and children’s growing up with controversy over their family.

  • @yanab4284
    @yanab4284 Před rokem +7

    I disagree about the divorce thing, sometimes it's better for people to separate, there's undesirable consequences to stay in a relationship when there's distrust, issues, personality conflict and layers in-between. It's like walking into street as soon as you get home, you don't even want to be there because it's so stressful. But I mean there's a lot of people with divorced parents who's issues and stuff you can relate with so, it's not the worst option

  • @madheremadthere4616
    @madheremadthere4616 Před rokem +8

    I am so in love with Preach! Love you both guys! You are fabulous! Thank you for the videos and the laughs!!

  • @Out_the_matrix
    @Out_the_matrix Před rokem +17

    “I cheated on you to make you stronger “ -Derrick Jaxn probably

  • @DubR424
    @DubR424 Před rokem +52

    The way y’all kept showing his wife’s eyes the more he would talk was priceless 😮‍💨😮‍💨😫😂😂

  • @khambrelmathis6101
    @khambrelmathis6101 Před rokem +1

    “I’ve Come Too Far” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-eh5cr4or6k
    @user-eh5cr4or6k Před rokem +8

    I have a feeling the best part of this story is going to be when we hear about him crying about how she took half plus.

  • @Gesusthebarbarian
    @Gesusthebarbarian Před rokem +350

    As a man who has cheated and regrets it deeply, this man was on my radar the moment I heard his goofy ass.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 Před rokem

      That book collection tho. when does part 5 drop. I got a co-worker I want to gift it to. 😂 She loves this man, just as much he loves his sideHo_es.

    • @VolumePerfection
      @VolumePerfection Před rokem +83

      Respect to you if you are on a path of improvement.

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 Před rokem +23

      @@VolumePerfection my man’s name is Casio Yamaha. Dude plays music. He gets around.

    • @luanaalmeida809
      @luanaalmeida809 Před rokem +63

      Never cheated and could still tell this guy is full of it. Only resentful women or the ones looking for confirmation bias fall for this type of talk.

    • @XonTheOne
      @XonTheOne Před rokem +13

      Yo Same, When you own what you have done you never Project this perfect image.
      i cheated when i was young, its been 9 years and i have never done it again.
      we are all flawed Human Beings but with Discipline we can be less Sh💩ty

  • @AsiaMare
    @AsiaMare Před rokem +39

    The zooming in on his wife’s face … 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @theaverageitaliandon998
    @theaverageitaliandon998 Před rokem +3

    Honestly the wife’s side is absolutely tragic, just got absolutely dragged through the mud and having one of the lowest points of her life being made public on the internet is just devastating.

  • @candywilliams9164
    @candywilliams9164 Před rokem +5

    I think she either wrote or helped to write the books. I feel for her. I hope she finds peace in this however it turns out. Where are her friends and family?

  • @fmcscarkenlife
    @fmcscarkenlife Před rokem +73

    Prayers for his wife.

    • @Rachelllllll2024
      @Rachelllllll2024 Před rokem +11

      Nope. He showed her who he was. This is on her now. She shoulda walked away and expedited the healing process, but now it's double the trauma because of HER decision.

    • @Faminetheblack
      @Faminetheblack Před rokem +12

      Nah she's kind of Wilding

    • @letrice2892
      @letrice2892 Před rokem +12

      @@Rachelllllll2024 I agree and she made a video spewing some nonsense in regards to ppl talking about the situation smh she shouldve had that energy for her husband from the start not the internet

    • @thomasarnoldcoe6527
      @thomasarnoldcoe6527 Před rokem +3

      I still feel sad for her.
      Seems like she tried to hold it altogether, not realising the foundations of the marriage were broken.
      They needed to get out of this industry and never did.
      Posting curses and putting Jesus’s Name to it was a bad move, she’s not helped herself or anyone else, even if she felt better after.
      The whole thing is a tragedy, no one wins, we all lose.

    • @niccotalbert4378
      @niccotalbert4378 Před rokem

      Nah. I feel for their child. She's wishing death in the name of her god. I'm good.

  • @sarahmiriam3950
    @sarahmiriam3950 Před rokem +1

    Listen to meeeee 😂 I remember that little rap you did, and at random times, "HAM..... THANKSGIVING" will play in my head and i start absolutely dying. Usually while I'm at the office. I am in tears 😂😂

  • @sodaPapa7176
    @sodaPapa7176 Před rokem +1

    Bro these edits are too deviously good

  • @HFFCANADA
    @HFFCANADA Před rokem +161

    Maybe the only really true key to happiness for a relationship is being happy with yourself and coming together as two content people.

    • @mariaamor2496
      @mariaamor2496 Před rokem +16

      🎯 🎯 🎯

    • @gnhun101
      @gnhun101 Před rokem +2

      Where do you find happy women? If you find them, please let me know.

    • @honeybee9393
      @honeybee9393 Před rokem +5

      ​@@gnhun101don't look for them its dangerous you'll always end up with the wrong one seek the kingdom of God and let him add a woman to you if it's meant and the relationship with be right

    • @sashimi879
      @sashimi879 Před rokem +3

      I like the way you phrased that

    • @breatheeleganceheart-talk
      @breatheeleganceheart-talk Před rokem +1

      Spot on! 👍👍👍

  • @Reshme77
    @Reshme77 Před rokem +188

    My best wishes go to danaia
    She's damaged from being surrounded by manipulative bigots, including her jaxn.
    I hope she gets all the help she can.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Před rokem +8

      Yes there is no medals in the Struggle Love Olympics.

    • @max2beuz
      @max2beuz Před rokem

      THATLL teach her. Dumb bitch

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 Před rokem +6

      @@beewest5704 I hope she gets away from those toxic family members and church members she knows. Just like the duggers that poor lady has been brainwashed

    • @SMD2x
      @SMD2x Před rokem +3

      At least someone feels bad for her because I don't, I'm fairly sure there were signs before it came out to the world and she sat there and stayed with him after talking all that shit and kicking her back in as he did it and she sat there with him in front of a camera and just kept nodding like a yes man knowing he ain't shit.

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 Před rokem

      She might be mental a lil

  • @philip9823
    @philip9823 Před rokem +2

    8:55 “The third of The Ten Commandments states, ‘You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain" (Exodus 20:7).
    This is exactly what she is doing. THIS is what it means to take the Lord’s name in vain.

  • @tuckerdixon8032
    @tuckerdixon8032 Před rokem +1

    8:34 fire alarm chirp. Stereotypes are wild.

  • @brennanb4911
    @brennanb4911 Před rokem +367

    This man deserves an Oscar, the guilty has spoken and had been speaking this whole time. Also keep up the great work guys.

    • @minecraftvvg4250
      @minecraftvvg4250 Před rokem +2

      I think Jackson and low from playback deserve an Oscar

    • @dipset4016
      @dipset4016 Před rokem +1

      Love his catchphrases though. "Don't forget your crown." Forget an Oscar, get this man a Nobel Prize in Literature.

    • @backoff8062
      @backoff8062 Před rokem

      Yo Derrick big fan. I just wanted to get in touch with you, so I can learn how to finesse the hoes too. Big UPS my man, waiting for divorce number three and four

    • @garawa1987
      @garawa1987 Před rokem

      Na the narcissist is just playing itself.

    • @jay_1212
      @jay_1212 Před rokem

      Bro Derrick is the literally a real life Tyler Perry villain.

  • @anthonymontes7454
    @anthonymontes7454 Před rokem +107

    Your guys' Derrick Jaxn commentary needs its own separate weekly segment on this channel 🤣it's just too hilarious

    • @carleighrousseau4226
      @carleighrousseau4226 Před rokem +9

      So fuckin great 🤣 play play

    • @dandaadnad529
      @dandaadnad529 Před rokem +2

      Honestly I was so happy when I saw the title...i missed some roasting if this fool 🤣

  • @mommakimmins5554
    @mommakimmins5554 Před rokem +5

    Spoken word segments with Aba are my favorite part of this channel

  • @almamarisoul
    @almamarisoul Před rokem +2

    THE INTER-GET 🤣 14:24 Y’all.

  • @danielle6228
    @danielle6228 Před rokem +523

    As someone who is studying to become a psychologist; do not give general advice and claim it to be the answer. There is a reason why we treat people individually. The treatment depends on the person, just like Preach said.
    Now there are situations where you can give some tips, but only if you state that these are tips which aren’t specific and that if they need more than generic they need individual help.
    Same goes for doctors treating patients. Everyone knows that eating fruits and vegetables is good for you and knows some generic things to do when you feel sick. When it gets more complicated, you call a doctor. Same thing

    • @joshuabritt5677
      @joshuabritt5677 Před rokem +1

      Hahaha. I've seen some dump ass psychologist using there degrees and station to give their own personal view points on to peoples lives. Believe no one and take no prisoners. Fuck psychologist.

    • @marloncebo242
      @marloncebo242 Před rokem +17

      I don't mean this in a bad way, but change your major. You can absolutely do it and get your degree, but I don't think I've ever met a happy phycologist ever. haha

    • @XOChristianaNicole
      @XOChristianaNicole Před rokem

      Except vegetables aren’t good for you - or anyone, for that matter.
      Anti-nutrients, for starters - they are plants defense mechanisms (plants don’t wanna die, too); and they prevent nutrients from being properly absorbed.
      I mean, Hell.. Brussel sprouts have over 30 known carcinogens, for example.
      On average, about 70 people die from potato poisoning, a year. I didn’t even know potatoes with any sort of green on ‘em can be dangerous to consume - as improperly stored potatoes produce a poison called “Solanine.”
      If beans aren’t cooked fully - the lectins in ‘em can cause severe sickness.
      It’s dangerous to consume real raw almonds, as they have a toxin the body breaks down into cyanide (not the store-bought labeled “raw” - they still go through a pasteurization process; either with Propylene oxide, a carcinogen (good luck finding organic almonds. I am from an area that is one of the largest almond agricultures, in California - almost impossible to find organic, still), or with steam processing, which, destroys most of any potential nutrients [which, the phytic acid in almonds would prevent the absorption of such nutrients, anyways]).
      As well as the human GI tract is not designed to break down fiber, in the amount majority of people consume.
      Also, oxalates - which, are like little glass shards, which, build up in the body.
      Especially, in teas.
      I have had ‘em pushed out of my skin, before, while healing/fasting for severe liver disease.
      Legit felt like glass was pushing through my skin.
      I won’t even tell you how vegetables made me more sick - and just how gruesome what I went through was, personally - during my near decade tenure of being bedridden/housebound, due to GI/stomach complications.
      Though, my own person experience is beside the point - as everything else is applicable, to every living person.
      Nutrition With Judy is a great channel to check out.
      I am only taking the time to mention such, being you are studying psychology.
      Vegetables, legitimately, have the potential to cause depression, anxiety, mood disregulation, and so much more (and don’t even get me started on how awful vegetable/seed oils and corn all are) - yet, many medical professionals fail to consider such as contributing factors, to One’s psychological/mental health.
      I pray you find this information supportive.
      Best wishes, in your studies and endeavors.

    • @Quest1luv
      @Quest1luv Před rokem +13

      @@marloncebo242 I agree. Psychologists are greatly appreciated by many, but they also have an inherent bias, which can be harmful to themselves. They have a lot more belief and faith in specialists, and they subconsciously tend to shy away from good or common advice offered to them by people who aren't in their field. In other words, it's often hard for a psychologist to trust and adhere to the word of someone not in their field when they need the help that they offer to others. Hopefully, this is not the case for the OP, but it is something to keep in mind.

    • @thesovereign1893
      @thesovereign1893 Před rokem +30

      @@Quest1luv The irony is that you're generalizing when her original comment was about not generalizing. That may be your subjective negative outlook on what the profession does to people, but that would always depend on the individual, and the only thing we know about her is that she is at least not as black and white about the world as you are.

  • @ChampionAnalysis
    @ChampionAnalysis Před rokem +273

    It really feels like this man became a dating coach to cope with his infidelity. Instead of confronting himself for his socially unacceptable behavior, he puts all that energy into crafting his public image (a man who not only lives in a socially acceptable manner, but acts like a champion of it). I'm not a big fan of Psychoanaltic Theory, but sometimes that shit makes sense. Speaking on that part Preach said about psychology though, I did 4 years of psychology and even then I'm not fit to be a dating coach. Yes I have learned more about relationships than the average person, but to be a coach or a counselor you need additional schooling and certification. It's not easy. So I get the frustration with random people coming up and claiming to be coaches or experts.

    • @tatlifelover
      @tatlifelover Před rokem +14

      He could spin this whole thing and say he was just warning women about males like him.. some naive folks would fall for it.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Před rokem

      He discovered a market "desperate women seeking validation from a good looking male" and saw $$$ signs. Then he also saw free sex.
      Men always follow this sugar trail like ants.

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy Před rokem +11

      You're spot on. In psychoanalytic theory, what he's doing is called reaction formation, where he presents as strongly against the very thing he is. This is done to overcompensate for the uncomfortable feeling of being who he is, a dishonest cheater.

    • @ChampionAnalysis
      @ChampionAnalysis Před rokem

      @@NN-re7cy Exaaaaactly. You smart.

    • @ChampionAnalysis
      @ChampionAnalysis Před rokem +2

      @T.H. It's crazy that a market will always exist for con artists man. All we can do is try our best to stay on top of our game out here 💪

  • @crissyingram5060
    @crissyingram5060 Před rokem +2

    I wish people would have more empathy dor his wife. Getting cheated on like that and used for years will literally make you lose your mind and yourself. I've been there unfortunately.

  • @rontoineson8869
    @rontoineson8869 Před rokem +1

    "I came with some hams Thanksgiving, We here with some Lambs"! BARS ABA I REPEAT BARS

  • @JodyMay05
    @JodyMay05 Před rokem +157

    The gag is he wasn't cheating, Derick jaxn was. He and Derick jaxn are separate that's why he refers to himself in the third person. In his mind, he's done nothing wrong 😂

  • @lakendraburdette2247
    @lakendraburdette2247 Před rokem +43

    The wife’s curse worked because who was talking ill about them and cursing their name was her husband. Now her husband is leaving her, her children will be raised in a broken home 🧐.

  • @APIEngineering
    @APIEngineering Před rokem +1

    Every time Aba wears that yellow hoodie I be thinking he looks like a big evil pikachu lol.

  • @sabrina9556
    @sabrina9556 Před rokem +3

    I love the pettiness in this video 😂😂😂😂”heal together and let’s not hurt each other”

  • @bungleboy7
    @bungleboy7 Před rokem +40

    Preachs immediate laugh after Derricks intro got me dead 💀💀💀💀

  • @Bendilin
    @Bendilin Před rokem +134

    Preach is 100% right; A good relationship guru needs to be a psychologist/therapist before they can even be any good at giving relationship advice.

    • @musical_lolu4811
      @musical_lolu4811 Před rokem +10

      Nope. See, the word 'relationship guru' is ironic in and of itself. There's theory or stats or 'guidelines', but then there's in-the-wild life experience. We're all fallible humans, and that includes 'certified' psychologists. I wouldn't want a certified person like Greg Mathos for instance giving me advice on anything really.

    • @kingcort8073
      @kingcort8073 Před rokem +8

      Only married Psychologist/therapist that have been with their spouse for at least 20-30 years..not having a baby momma y'all live with but y'all got married and still going ...only those folks I talk advice from ..the rest not much

    • @nnekemnsh
      @nnekemnsh Před rokem +2

      Gottman.
      Esther Perel.

    • @rlj615
      @rlj615 Před rokem

      Even with that I still wouldn't trust what they are said. You have skim listen to them through their answers. Just use common sense, you know what is right from wrong.

    • @omanamalgas7725
      @omanamalgas7725 Před rokem

      @@kingcort8073 fr

  • @KapitalP73
    @KapitalP73 Před rokem +2

    Hypocrisy has been normalized in our society.

  • @efrainrodriguez1324
    @efrainrodriguez1324 Před rokem +1

    That thumbnail. That foo knows something we don't 🤣

  • @ComposedSage75
    @ComposedSage75 Před rokem +73

    Sad thing is how many men called this out and were called all manner of insults by folks online. Now that the cat’s out of the bag about him that he admitted *again* they see what those men were saying. Some folks will still be on his side tho.

    • @babyhoho6745
      @babyhoho6745 Před rokem

      Folks aka delusional Women

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 Před rokem +8

      @Dank Waifu that's exactly what happens, the rules are broken for men like them.

    • @SoLoboo
      @SoLoboo Před rokem +4

      Back when I was on facebook still years ago, me and my homie shared one of his videos and was clowning the bozo. One of this fanatics tagged him and then him and a whole wave of his worshippers came through defending his honor while I’m sure he got off to it all. Wonder where they are today with this news.

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV Před rokem

      Well, his content wasn’t wrong. He just so happened to be a perpetrator of that very content. I always skipped over his videos because he wasn’t saying anything rocket science-very basic. Fast talking narc 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 Před rokem +12

      @@AboveRubiesTV he was wrong on many ocassions. he is selling lies that women want to hear, not what they need to hear to help them.

  • @imjusmoody180
    @imjusmoody180 Před rokem +25

    Aba been waiting for this day😭😭😭

  • @blushface
    @blushface Před rokem +4

    8:15 what in the absolute fuck

  • @NiDasia2984
    @NiDasia2984 Před rokem +2

    It was the wife deciding to dabble in some witch casting curses on folks trying to use the Bible in defense of a man who doesn't love her whatsoever, that's what was taking me out...

  • @lukasgordon2199
    @lukasgordon2199 Před rokem +37

    15:19 Aba: “She out here casting spells wishing death on people”
    Preach “In the name of Jesus”
    😂😂😂😂😂 *reaches for inhaler*

    • @zeenkosis
      @zeenkosis Před rokem +1

      Which bible 😂😂😂😂

  • @ArsenalofMikeocracy
    @ArsenalofMikeocracy Před rokem +129

    I had an ex that would start a fight with me every time after she watched one of this guy's videos.

    • @slaveofgod3481
      @slaveofgod3481 Před rokem

      Dayyum... she must feel dumb now....

    • @Mizzmolf
      @Mizzmolf Před rokem +27

      Imagine 😂😂🤦

    • @adeeltk
      @adeeltk Před rokem +53

      Send her this video

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 Před rokem +31

      Ahahahahahahahahahaha! Oh my lord the irony. You should be petty and send this shit to her

    • @Kroitk
      @Kroitk Před rokem +2

      There's a reason that crazy bitch should be your ex. ANY female that gets off to watching "relationship gurus" and shit, and then starts ARGUMENTS about it is a sign she is UNSTABLE from the start--or at the very least your relationship has RED FLAGS. Crazy how I never had that issue, almost as if there are actually dudes out there like me who KNOW how to avoid crazy bitches and only find quality😂

  • @phoenixmight5971
    @phoenixmight5971 Před rokem +6

    11:12 supa hot fire 🔥. But I'm not a rapper.

  • @washurass4627
    @washurass4627 Před rokem +1

    You know what they say when a single woman is going to God it means she's already dead inside and cannot be brought back to life. Her loving soul gave up on her. Leave her be, say a prayer and keep it moving

  • @Golflegend410
    @Golflegend410 Před rokem +60

    I just lost it when Preach started laughing right in the beginning when Derrick Jaxn introduced himself 😂