Everyone is lying to themselves about what they want in dating.
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Really liked what you said about "dating compassionately". I was in a relationship with someone who was choosing to be celibate until marriage and there came a point where I knew she was going to compromise that in the hope that we would end up married. But I also knew that I wasn't ready for marriage so the most compassionate thing I could do was to break off the relationship. I didn't want her to compromise her values for what might have been a false hope.
well done man, been there before, but the woman was lying to me, she was not really celibate but she wanted to project herself a certain way to me. I did not leave her because she claimed wanted to be celibate but because she was deceptive and manipulative in a lot of ways. That is one thing that is so off putting about entering the relationship mine field is that there is a lot of deception and manipulation involved.
Interesting. Hopefully she moves on and finds someone who gives her what she wants.
So much L
Simp.
this was nice to read idk. i wish my sister's boyfriend cared that much about her tbh
Men ain't afraid of commitment: most of us have had the same barber and football team our whole lives...
Calling me out huh
@@allansamuel9631 ahhh, are you a glory hunter or you just keep changing your barber? Lol
Cas Martin I’m just looking for the right barber for me 😔
@@Botyoutubeaccount I hear you man, I found me the right barber aged 18 and nearly 20 years later I'm still with him, but as I moved abroad we're no longer together. Bro, I taught myself how to cut my own hair and I can do it more or less as good as my own barber now so if you can't find the right barber, teach yourself how to do it yourself (there is a hidden metaphor in there, although the story is true)
Okay wise ass. Afraid of commiting to marriage.
People are forcing themselves to live a life of casual sex when they're are not built for it.
(That's not to say that everyone is the same)
Precisely. If you're not not that kind of person or realize you aren't don't do it or try to compete with someone else. It's pointless
The idea of casual sex to me is just farced🤷🏿♂️
💯
Been there done that NO THANK YOU
Exactly, Alexandra.... HOW the hell are people even able to fuck with someone without emotions... and no, LUST is NOT an emotion… it's a catalyst that depends on actual love to fully work properly. If love and care are missing, it becomes unhealthy and damaging.
The guy “asking out” the Asian girl had the same energy as when I yelled to a boy across the playground that I liked him and he responded “sweet” in 2nd grade
Yo Lacey Green, when’re you making the next episode of Braless?? Best show on CZcams.
Am I weird for thinking they looked super cute together?
Also your story is hilarious. 😅
That was low key very Han Solo of him 😂
@DJHart bruh what
@@brianpbillingsley3687 yes you are weird for thinking that, she looks better with an Asian guy.
Somehow being friends with benefits seems harder than being in a relationship..
It’s cause you’re fighting a battle on two fronts, you’re not trying to catch feels for the person and you’re hoping the person doesn’t catch feelings for you
One of them is always more emotionally invested than the other. Most times wanting it to be a committed relationship despite the agreement
It's just the cowards and emotionally crippled people's way of dating.
@@andrelamarqjenkins exactly.. And mostly it's the girl I think
Friends with benefits is a misnomer
"Better to be lonely and real with yourself, than to be fake and be with someone who really doesn't want you." It hurts, be man ain't that the truth. I needed to hear that.
All facts
Truth!!
The truth hurts but better than a sweet lie.
truh
lol truth (couldnt delete it)
Bless that girl's heart, she really needs to get outta that relationship. White shirt is using her for a self esteem boost because she can't get a guy to care that much for her. Blue shirt shouldn't just walk out of that, she needs to run
She isn't normal either, she seems clingy and needy.
@@samyakhp4353 not really. if white shirt isn’t really interested, she would find anything blue jacket does as « clingy » and « needy »
@@thequeenofhearts4227 ppl disagree just to disagree lol u got no point bruv
Bless that girl's heart, for real. First impressions off the video she is so cute and unfortunately for me, I have been in her position before as in trying to be with someone who leads me on but wants to keep it open. It's so hard. So awful! White shirt better have broken it off by now. She has to see how damaging this relationship is for jeans jacket homie.
@@DirtyRobohobo No, blue shirt better have broken it off.
"If you love them you'll always want them to respect themselves..." Definitely taking this one to heart. Thanks for the 🦪 of wisdom.
Guys, if you are in a one sided relationship. LEAVE.
Took me nearly five years to realize it, if you're feeling more pain than happiness, get the fuck out.
Amen
Best advice. Wish I had left sooner
I love when someone uses their astrological sign as an explanation for their behavior or personality because then I know not to trust their line of reasoning. It's a massive red flag for me, even in friendships.
Never considered becoming your friend anyways
@@kwakugyebi6705 It's Aquarius, you KitKat
@@kwakugyebi6705 I imagine it's somewhere along September? (I was just messing with ya haha)
Right becuase then they act like they cant change their wrong because its just who they are
@@patriciaangelone2320 get some top lip before you make a comment you non existent rat
I am the girl in the blue shirt 🤦🏾♀️ Seeing it from this angle is gut wrenching. A comment below used the word codependency to describe this kind of attachment and to be honest I feel like I have a lot to think about now. But as always I truly appreciate Aba & Preach’s commentary. #NotificationSquad
I just wanted to give you a big hug and tell it's going to be okay. :(
Did you get out honey?
Sending good thoughts.
I don't think it's actually her but she means similar situations or at least that's what I read, because they have different names
That's obviously not the girl in the blue shirt...
@@HypeJutsu she means she's like the girl in the blue shirt
Preach should be a songwriter. He randomly sings the catchiest melodies, lol.
🎶It is very One sided relationship🎶
If yall were impressed by the guess yall gotta like and comment or Aba will fight you.
*I Just knew! I’m a genius*
Fham I guessed 8 too
yes sir
I can take Aba
Preach on the other hand, well, lets put a pin on that 💪
I'm white and am not triggered by the jokes in fact I'm howling 😂
It's almost never just friends with benefits. Someone always catches feelings.
Nathaniel Hendrix wht does that even mean nigga? 😂
PACIFIK wht does that even mean nigga?😂
That's why this arrangement, and more specifically normalizing this arrangement is bad. People go into this not wanting to be "lame", then it destroys them
That's how you get a whole generation of miserable people with the inability to function properly in a committed relationship
Now imagine what types of families they would create? The children raised in that would be just really bad
@@ang5798 of course it's bad. You don't choose who you fall in love with and you're consistently having sex with this person. You might be able to seperate sex from any feelings you might have from them as long as you got options and are capable of having sex with multiple people, but if you hit a drought or otherwise stop having sex with other people, you will in all likelihood get your wires crossed real quick.
@@danieldaw1778 you can't completely separate sex from the feelings, it's not possible, and even less for women than for men. It's like walking into fire and then crying because you're burning.
Stop walking into fire, stop spreading fire, and start actively putting the fire down, otherwise it will eat you and your children
And stop showing being eaten by fire as something normal that should be accepted as coexistence.
Thanks for the insight. I was the female in blue. I guess I wasn't emotionally responsible because I kept holding on to a dream. The F'd up part about it was that she was killed in an accident. I still carry around this endless love like an idiot but seeing this and hearing you somehow helped me to wake up. I can't keep pining after someone that is not only gone but was never really mine in the 1st place. Thanks for the reality check.
You are not an idiot for loving someone.
It breaks my heart you feel that way.
You are a loving person and that's why you love people.
I'm so sorry to hear about all of that! I really hope you're doing well and that you've learned you're definitely NOT an idiot for feeling what it is that you have felt!
Ohh sorry to hear. Hope you’re taking care and that you someday find a new love that is mutual and supportive when you’re ready ❤️
Literally me …my first love (4th grade, ik super young) ..I was told he committed suicide(I moved away so I didn’t know myself)…and I found out in 10th grade…that he was alive. But when I tried talking to him, he didn’t remember me at all. Turns out he’d been in a car accident and didn’t remember anything from that time, it apparently happened shortly after I had moved away…I definitely understand loving someone that’s not there and even loving someone that doesn’t even…remember anything you shared..no memories or anything. But what I’ve also learned is that it’s okay to love, and love hard…it means you have a big heart..but it also means you have to do your best to protect that big heart of yours. Not everyone will treat it with kindness or the delicacy that you need. It’s your greatest strength and weakness. I hope that you are doing well in your healing journey and I pray that you can find someone to love you properly but before you do so, be sure to love yourself first. 💜
Girl, you are STUNNING and I love your vibe. You deserve so much better.
Heeeelp I can’t stop watching Aba and Preach!!!!
There's no need for help here. You're good to go.
Found this channel a month ago and i cant stop also. 😂😂
I don't understand why these people stick around with someone that's not willing to commit to the relationship the same way they are. Just leave, stop wasting your time.
It's called the delusion syndrome
Self delusion and low self esteem
Hope. It's a pretty damaging thing. Hope is what kept Blacks alive through slavery, but hope is also what keeps a woman fixing a plate of food for her estranged husband who walked out on her.
Hope dies last. Bad preservation instinct and bad self image too, probably.
It's a severe lack of self esteem. They think they can't find another individual so they wait it out hoping for change.
Now I'll say that you will change as you grow older, but some people don't want to wait that long
"My first girlfriend was white... MY LA-"
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Lmao same thing happened to me I was like "that timing"
😂😂
@@375kingz Lmao, they def planned this
Lol
@@TheStrategyStudio268 for sure lol
The lesbian FWB should stop seeing each other! The girl in the blue need to move on!!!!
An open relationship means you dont have a relationship... Your just a life vest thats making life easier in a cold sea, while she swims around trying to find a boat she wants to ride exclusively back to shore and keep at the dock..
"Slid into her DMs." The start of a beautiful, modern romance.
@rumba rumba yes
Trashy asf
@@idipped2521 not always trashy...my bf "slid into my DMs" after a year of knowing each other and we started dating right away. For that year previous we weren't allowed to date each other (for reasons that I'd rather not explain). Shit just happens that way some times. I think it was sweet that he wanted me and even though during that year we dated other people we still had a thing for each other. Really just gods plan.
@@MissSimone02 but you knew eachother before he came into your dms so that's not the same thing so we can say this is trashy
@@GoncaloDCa it doesnt have to be trashy tho. Dating options are super limited rn 🤷🏾♀️
We can agree to disagree.
8 is the liar's 5.
Nah i think its mainly 7
If we're honest your hurt and you think we're mean.
If we're nice you think we playin games.
Tf.
If you're asking at that point. You shouldn't be dating for yourself.
*Flies away*
Meouch, but true
My same thoughts, he doesn’t want her to stop but 8 is to say she’s okish a 5 aka average.
This comment reflect every one of y’all’s insecurities
“One sided relationship” out on iTunes now
"Doesn't want you the way you want to be wanted" So true! Thank you guys, you really helped me.
"I don't like to commit"
Has a heap of tattoo's.
I think you will find that most people with tattoos don’t really think too far ahead
well commitment is more like emotional responsability and with a tattoo the only responsability you got is walking around with an ugly ass tattoo your whole life
Committing to yourself is different than committing to another person. A tattoo won’t break your heart
@@victoriachristina1 I swear alot of people have a thing where they regret certain tattoos almost immediately
Nicely observed.
When the girl said “use your words,” like her fwb is a child; gross. Can’t stand condescending people like that. That other girl needs to get out of there, real quick!
She also completely ignored/avoided answering some important questions, very much not "using her words"
She doesn't care about her friend she just wants her for fun time and it's never gonna change it's sad that the blue jacket girl caught feelings and it's never gonna happen she needs to move on and start loving herself a bit more her self esteem seems low
Francisco Laurean yes, I completely agree
Daniel Vulku yes, I noticed that as well. She sounds like a massive manipulator
Yup an ur right jean jacket girl needs to cut her off ASAP she is probably never going to love her the way she does but jean jacket girl might just b too in love
"Doesn't want you the way you want to be wanted"
Daaaaaaamn that hits.
That girl in white just, yoooothe faces she’s making, super unpleasant. Blue painfully unaware.
The reason why a lot of relationships fail is too much exposure. Your whole life doesn't have to be publicized.
@Skor Skoerttrue especially if it wasn't real to begin with.😬
True.
Mainly because it wasn't real. If your relationship is so fragile it can't last through an interview, you had bigger problems long before the exposure.
@Skor Skoert that's true too. Telling too many people and rushing before it manifests.
@@brandonf.8360 u right about that
That blue jean jacket girl needs to LEAVE ohmygod I’ve seen this unhealthy dynamic so much irl😭
I've been her. Holding on for whatever scrap of hope they give you because you like/love them so much. Makes you stop seeing things for what they are when your hope and desire is that high. Poor, delusional heart.
I'm good now though. 😘
Poor girl :( I just want to hug her and tell it will be ok.
EDIT: Also the Asian girl. I hope their relationship works out, but... I am not holding my breath.
Naw....apparently on her Instagram it was all a joke...they thought it would be funny to do....they are actually a couple🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️the adidas girl was receiving so much hate...and they said they were just llaying
@@nocommonsense8950 How much you wanna bet addias girl made up that story to stop the online hate she was receiving for acting like a garbage human on the internet....Those reactions were too genuine to be fake.
@@dudemcgee256 you kinda right tho😂😂...it’s funny but sad
Just found you guys on the tube yesterday, and have been binging your videos. I haven’t laughed soo hard in a long time. I enjoy how comedic, insightful, and thought provoking your videos are. Thank you. X
I’m in a similar situation to the blue jacket girl and you talking about dating compassionately was unbelievably helpful to see it from an outsider’s perspective. So helpful.
Women: Why can't men understand us? Other Women: Apparently we don't even understand each other. Men: Slow clapping ensues!
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I mean, we've had women date women to find out how men feel, and even they say wtf to some of the stuff we deal with lol.
Write this down on stone
The thing I find despicable in one sided relationship, is when the person who wants to remain open, doesn't end the relationship right here and now when they realise that the other person loves them.
It's selfish to let someone hope that things will change when it never will.
Nah, it's the fault of the person that is delusional. They are going to hurt themselves by not wanting to accept the reality. And even if the other person says it straight, or ignores it, or maybe doesn't see it, the delusional person will be emotionally hurt because they don't have the comprehension of how the world works. Either way, they'll either wake up after getting hurt, or need to go though the same process multiple times. Some may forever be this way 🤷
Sleepy Mask I agree with you, but I think that it’s surely uncomfortable for the other person who knows that they have this person who’s clearly in love with them? If I was in a situation where I wanted something casual but I knew the other person had feelings I would cut it off, it’s so uncomfortable for both people...
@@MA-se1iv yeah, but I don't believe most people, or that girl in the video was trying to have power over the person that showed to have more feelings. They might've had a discussion afterwards for all we know and made a mature decision.
Sleepy Mask that’s true. It just feels like a bad situation all around, one person has feelings for someone who doesn’t reciprocate it and the other person has to tread really careful not to hurt them
@@MA-se1iv yeah, it is a hard situation because this type of person may come with a certain mindset or pattern which is unhealthy for them, and it is hard to help them all around. And both parties are probably at a point in life where they don't and couldn't know everything about relationships and may be at a certain stage where they are learning.
So true, @Aba, the more you stay in that kind of a relationship the more you're missing out on someone who will appreciate you more and fully. A loving relationship, on both sides, is so amazing!
This is so true, I’ve been on both sides of this coin and it’s stressful either way. The one in wait is constantly being discouraged and put down by the lack of desire. Meanwhile the one that’s is exploring constantly feels constrained.
She just had to mention her horoscope 🤣🤣🤣. "And I'm a libra."...nah, it's not because you're a libra, you're just awful.
If was a true type A she would be making a decision since not making a decision is giving up power.
Right I hate when people start bringin up their horoscopes an all that shit to explain y they do what they do
Libras are awful though.. all of them..
Astrology is fiction.
Aba's ability to predict the people in jubilee's never ceases to amaze me. Cringe Grandmaster
I mean he knows cringe, and he knows people lol.
This is "CUT" channel, which is much better then Jubilee.
@@musicfilmhead9051 Oh fuck no. I watched both and Cut is definitely the more cringe and PC obsessed of the two. At least Jubilee encourages both sides to hear each other out and isn't afraid to let non liberals speak their mind. Cut's viewers are full of close minded idiots. They're Buzzfeed lite.
@@jackliang7241 you're right. I respect Jubilee a ton they really do represent everyone
I feel like preach should be a musician. I want a compilation of his random music genius moments😭
In EVERY relationship, there is always one chasing and the other being chased. If you're not sure which one you are, you're the chaser.
Whenever people gush about how good 'consentual' open relationships are, I always point out that 90% of them aren't truly mutual. There's almost always an emotional imbalance where one or more people gets used and hurt but goes along with it to be with someone
sadly, isn't that a lot of marriages as well?
A friend of mine tried to have an open marriage. It ended when the wife was not including him on the threesomes with another dude. It just doesn’t work
@@Alexis_005 So it didn’t work because it wasn’t actually for him? Crazy
@@Alexis_005 Same thing happened to a friend of mine too but the opposite. She's still with him for some reason tho and thinks they're just open like that and plus they have kids.
I think some people will agree with being friends with benefits just to have access from what I've seen and I've experienced it's ok for them to have options but they don't want the other person to have options a part of me feels like it's more of a conquer than feelings
The blue Jean girl had me disliking her at first. Clingy, dense and absorbed in the person across from her. Then as we went along I started feeling for her and really disliking the girl opposite from her. You could tell the chick opposite from her was just sucking the attention and affection out of this poor girl. Smiling with every compliment and ILY she got. And for what? To give what back?
Blue jean girl, you can't change nobody with love, except yourself. Love on yourself.
I got that vibe too. She seemed really nice and would be better off with someone who cared about her, rather than chasing someone who didn't really care for her.
Yes!! And that girl across from here was also using being Bi as her reason for not being able to commit. Like girl, Bisexuals can commit easily. You just want to fuck around and still have someone at home waiting on you.
i dont dislike her either, i just feel sorry for her because she's delusional. She's putting everything into a single person that does not love her back.
I wouldn't say so, the girl in blue obviously knew the other girl was fucking other people and that it was clearly just a friends with benefits but the girl in blue has so many insecurities that shes doing this to herself. She should be alone and seek some therapy
Blue jean girl keep taking brickshots like that cat from
krazy cat(old cartoon)
Found this channel yesterday and I’m hooked. The guys are also teaching me a lot with their serious commentary/advice so thanks for that. Great content!
"Better to be lonely and real with yourself than to be fake and with someone who doesn't want you". Oooof I needed to hear that. I think we all do.
“The want to have someone in their life outweighs the respect for themselves.”- Aba&Preach 2020. That was wise. Very wise.
Nata-Patricia Cristea 🗣
Damn...
Dammnn woke af
God that poor girl in the Jean jacket is getting played by her own kind
Honestly she let it happened, she’s not being honest with herself.
I just wanted to thank you guys. Through your discussions and watching these videos it's helped me realize toxic thought patterns and behaviors I've had in my own relationships and how I view myself and the things that I need to work on so thx you so much 😊
Love how Abe said to date compassionately. That is so true. We need more of that in the dating world.
Don't let your self be someone's plan b
Right. That was so cringey and difficult to watch. I suffered from second-hand embarrassment.
Sometimes it's better to be that then the main guy getting cheated on with plan b .
Yeah it's so one sided with the girl in the blue Jean jacket
Gramo Chopin sloppy seconds can’t be good in any way unless you’re incapable of getting your own girl
Yup that is no way to live
The person who cares less has all the power in the relationship - Chael P. Sonnen
But it begs the question.. where does Kevin Lee fit into this?
Ok great
Amaan A Kevin Lee sees holes in their relationship.
Man Dustin was really good last night, what a fight.
Undisputed champ
My favorite part of Aba and Preach videos is their songs on the spot that express the situations SO WELL and it sounds so good lol
It's so sad that Asian girl is unrequited in her love, she's so adorable
Yeah and what does she even see in him?
@@DrOmegaBattleSphere it’s not about him. It’s about how much self-love she has which clearly isn’t much. We date the reflections of how we feel about ourselves. We don’t get what we deserve, only what we can negotiate.
Take off the rose to tinted glasses…that’s poor Asian girl is getting strung along by the white guy …saw this a lot in my school.
Nah she deserves to be in that situation. I know many girls that act just like her. They turn away great guys and whine how they’ll be alone forever when in reality they focus on someone who doesn’t even care about them. She deserves no sympathy
Dude: "Do you love me?"
Girl? "..................... Yes"
Dude: "Do you want me to be your boyfriend?"
Girl: "Would you want me to be your girlfriend?"
Dude: "Yeah, let's do it"
Girl: "Did you just ask me out? We're in a relationship!!"
Me watching them: ".... Cool.... ..... this isn't going to last at all...."
Did something about that seem loaded to you too? I get the vibe that someone is gonna use that situation for a power play.
@@cyberneticxylem9614 i swear… this probably ended on their way home after this video was recorded.
@@KRAFTWERK2K6 Makes me worried to deal with people. I just stick with cars now. Being "real" makes you seem weak these days.
The rating of 8 is a way to preserve her ego on a televised show while saying its not that good
Its the back handed rating number
Its like “bitch I love you enough to preserve ya ego but you know damn well you trash, and you sorry.”
i got the feeling it was like a 4 or a 5 definitely not an 8
It was in the tone of his body language and not in the words that fell out of his mouth.
8 is the number you use when it’s bad but you don’t wanna hurt her feelings, 9 is the number you use when it’s good but you don’t want her to get too big-headed (no pun intended).
FYPNLP
she seems eager to please
Preach’s smooth transition from French to English is just *chef’s kiss* To transition and not stumble or stutter?! Woooooow
My ex wasn't supportive and im sure just used me to experiment since she's gay now. We we're together for a year and she let me off the hook without a second thought. It broke my heart since i was the only one who was attached. It...hurt. haha
@@elisal318 sorry to hear that.
Dude just laughed it off, RIP bro😂
"... I'm a Libra"
girl if you don't just...
I got to remember the next time I get called out for playing someone as a fool to say that I'm a Libra, but I have the feeling it doesn't play out the same way for a hetero Latino male.
I’m a Libra but damn that has nothing to do with any of this smh
Carlos Mosqueda
😂
Stop following this astrology shit follow Jesus you dumb mfers
Hailey T same. I swear Libras everywhere just died a little inside
Thumbnail: "Friends with Benefits?"
Reality:"Friendzoned with Benefits."
No hands being thrown over here ✋
Lol. Ain’t no benefits to being friend zoned though 😑
Friendzoned is made up. If you dont want to be friends then do yourself a favor and bail. Not like you're going to lose anything positive
@@juiceboxbzrk the friendzone is definitely a thing haha. I'm not entirely sure you know what it means, though, based on the second part of your comment.
Jonathan if u are “friend zoned” then that means u played the friend part in hopes u would be promoted. being someones friend in hopes they’d feel the same about u is nothing but negativity so in the long run he’s right u arent losing any positives being someones friend means u are giving up something one way or another and if u arent getting what u want in return then its a waste of time.
@@Pieceless I agree. I'm just saying that it's something that happens regularly enough to warrant getting its own term.
There's always one person in these fwb relationships that low key wanna commit while the other one clearly doesn't.
I agree, "Never make someone your priority while you're their option." When you know you're their option that's not going to change, STEP!
don't want to catch those hands leaving this here...
Huh?
🤣🤣
@@sthoughtsarchive2791 Aba said he will fight anyone that doesn't comment and like because of the 8/10 prediction. "Don't want to catch those hands" = "don't want to fight"
@@Brby1 ooh oky👌
Yeah bro I’m there with you.
There's a Portuguese saying I learned when I was a kid, "Mais val só do que mal acompanhado." It means, "It's better to be alone then have bad company." I've always lived by it.
👏🏻👏🏻 mejor solo que mal acompañado 😉😉
this is very true
We have the same saying in Italian too 😃
That's so insightful
we say this in latinoamerica,too. I really live by this
Man this one stung. It really hit home. Still healing.
i love the "that was dumb" kinda under your breath
Im positive the girl in the blue jean jacket cried after this and then went back to dating guys
I'm pretty sure she's still sleeping with smiley face. I agree with the crying part but she showed a lack of shame that doesn't give me hope that she has learnt anything yet.
Rule 1: The truth hurts
Rule 2: The truth MUST hurt
Nah I think she's probably straight up a lesbian and the other is maybe bi.
@@DSan-kl2yc The other is bi i think she kept referring to guys.
Kelechi Adimonye yeah jean jacket girl is too in love even after that she was probably telling herself that she can make it work
I have a feeling if Mikayla just starts doing her thing and “acts” like she doesn’t care it’ll probably trigger the other chick. Aba said it perfectly that Mikayla is just upset with the power dynamic. Like girl please just take the power back and reclaim your self respect.
Katarzyna Rajczyk but the white shirt lady said she would still be friends if the jean jacket lady got in a committed relationship.
What are you talking about? You sound like Mikayla overly emotional.
I think you are right but that just proves that they shouldn't be together.
SpinMaster yeah I think the problem is jean jacket girl looked at ole girl like a lover while ole girl looks at jean jacket girl as a human fuck toy
@@spinmaster6995 She said that, but she clearly enjoys the power dynamic being in her favour. She might be okay with it, but I think if the jean jacket girl got with a better looking girl and seemed happier White shirt would try to subtly undermine them or ask for a threesome.
That’s some entrapment on a new level and people wonder why most are so hesitant with such things because once you commit you can be devastated if your wrong and depending on how far that goes it could last a lifetime and it’s sad to see but how would someone really know when people constantly change and there’s very little help in dealing with that change. It’s practically unstoppable.
These two just slap you with commonsense each time. ♥ Thank you, Aba & Preach!
9 times out of 10, "friends with benefits" is just one person that can't manage to find anyone else sleeping with someone who has no trouble juggling three or four plates at once.
I don’t think that sentence is properly constructed. Made no sense.
Can you translate that to English please? 🤔
Ahh, the importance of grammar.
@epenies and @Kirsten:
That is perfectly intelligible English. If you have trouble comprehending it, it's because you are too dumb to read and has nothing to do with what you're reading.
Apart from being written in proper English it also explains the problem of FWB very accurately.
Now go back to school and learn to read, so you can stop embarassing yourself on YT like this.
@@allonifrah3465 It's not proper English. Go back to school and study English grammar. Preferably in England, where it comes from.
My husband's co-worker has an open relationship with a hooker. They hook up weekly and she always asks for cash after. He's like, no it's not like that. Hahah. It is though.
rofl
What an idiot. Bruh. What did he think that relationship was. It’s a transactional relationship.
Well maybe this hooker went rouge and just flirted with him next thing u know she has her hand down his pants and all of a sudden “ I want money” not how it works she has to tell him
Hig Hounty but weekly bro? She’s coming over every week and always asks for money and this guy still thinks he’s getting free coochie
Sounds like my wife 🤣
This is why I’m 22 and only now am pursuing a relationship. I’m a virgin and I don’t plan on changing that anytime soon for personal reasons, but I know how important sex is to a lot of people and that’s perfectly fine. Sure I could ask someone “hey, can you wait for me?” But that, in my opinion, opens a door for unnecessary stresses because it’s not something I want to change and I know they won’t want to either. I’m not gonna expect someone to wait around for me to be ready, and I also am not going to be pressured into having sex before I’m ready. Most people I would show interest in in the past really valued sexual relationships and didn’t feel comfortable being without that, so I would cut it off and go back to being friends.
Not waiting around for someone to change brought me to who I’m with now, and I’m very happy. Trying to force someone to be on your level just doesn’t work and nine times out of ten isn’t even worth it.
Aba and Preach are the type of channel you can watch and rewatch old vids for hours and never be bored. You love to see it
8 outta 10 is what people say when they don’t care and just want to be nice.
Pups could be worse I would’ve said 7
nah thats like really good but not perfect
9 is like one or a few flaws
and 10 is perfect and best uve had
What does it take to be a ten
I`m gonna be honest i`m a guy 23 years of age
and the hook up culture and friends with benefits stuff. Ain`t my thing it`s not what i want out of life
It's stupid as fuck. This hook up nonsense. People might as well just go to an escort lol
Yeah it's not really worth it. Sex with a random person or a friend isn't the same as with someone you really love.
You can thank women for that.
T DW I sure do lmao
I would say to save yourself the headache because it's a temporary pleasure at a high cost not only emotionally but physically. Better to be safe than sorry I'm not saying don't have sex but be picky like girls be picky because some of them out here are dusties.
Thanks ABA for your advice about being an “Option “!
Omg...”not in public” hilarious and kudos for the number 8 call.! Hahahaha
The funniest and saddest thing about these is the amount of dishonesty and unawareness these participants reveal about themselves. But thanks for letting the rest of the world know your stances. Saves us a lot of time and provide plenty of hilarity.
That's basically the best thing we can take from these videos. lol an entertaining warning.
Have you ever seen the one with the woman and her first same sex girlfriend?
@@EricTD1995 No, unless Aba and Preach are covering it, I'm not giving Jubilee any of my attention or time. What a waste.
The guy with the asian chick, they are just stuck together, they are too insecure to move on and you can tell.
Bro, they've got a third act in that duo. Insecurities don't bring about 3 ways. There's some real courage in there
@@Rabbit-the-One Sorry but anyone ypu "Love" aren't sharing you in the Bed.
@@Rabbit-the-One The Asian girl might have accepted it just to not lose him or to be part of him being with someone else. Agreeing to a threesome doesn’t necessarily mean you are courageous...
@@Rabbit-the-One gtfo with your Polygamous ideology, respectfully
@@AshleyMintz I kinda get that vibe from her but atleast looks wise she is out of his league..
This has honestly become one of my favorite channels to watch
"Better to be lonely and to be real with yourself than to be fake and be with someone that doesn't want you." - Aba
Seems that the Adidas girl shirt I would say has some narcissistic traits. Blue shirt girl seems to be codependent.
I was thinking that as well
Seemed like very mild forms tho. Definitely could be worked out with therapy I think
Perfect target for those narcissistic tendencies too. Even if not fully a narcissist.
Not necessarily narcissism...she's just not that into her enough for a commitment.
Friends with benefits is never just 2 friends. One of them always wants more and that’s the only reason it’s happening.
12:55 - I can't believe I watched that twice to get the time-stamp.
Brutal.
I love that its almost 2022 and this joke still comes up in the new video. so damn funny.
THEORY: White adidas shirt girl is totally straight, been hurt by not getting guys she wanted, and is using this actual lesbian for her attention, and delights in it to fill the void.
Pray for her soul.
(This is meant to be funny, more so than hating)
Yeah but you're only gonna go through what you allow. Thats the blue jacket girls fault.
I think thats why theres alot of aggression and abuse within lesbian relationships i think. Because they truly arent gay but hurt by past relationships
@@sasori8555 just an excuse for someone hurt to go through life and fuck someone else up.
@@sasori8555 I have personally known two women who were straight, became lesbians, and then all of a sudden were not lesbians anymore. They do not treat people well.
I wanna like this but it’s literally 222
Watching those two women is like watching a cute animal who is mortally wounded in the road like live its last moments... you know you can't save it and it's trying to hold on and it's just heart breaking. That poor girl in the blue is just... I feel so bad for her.
Yea it turned my stomach...
@@grendelsmama2302 same
I’ve only recently subscribed!
Might I just say you both speak with so much common sense ! You both speak with truth and honesty it’s extremely refreshing! Keep up the good work guys! Let’s get to 2 million subscribers 👍🏿
I’ve been in a few fwb relationships, and looking back none of them were honest and fair fwb relationships. Whether it was me or the other person, one of us was always more committed than the other and was basically just waiting and hoping the other person would eventually commit. I’m not saying it can’t be done. You just gotta be honest about what’s actually going on, which is tough to do. I was young back then and I’d like to think I’ve learned and grown from those experiences, but only time will tell.
"Why it would be bad if we dated?"
"Well, there's upsides and downsides to everything"
My guy DODGED that question like it was nothing! What a G! He's like neo from the matrix out here 😂
Satisfied Skull Servant he as serial killer calmness...it’s kinda impressive tbh
... I'm just here cause I made a skull servant deck earlier today 😅
"Subtle hints do not work," AMEN TO THAT 👊🏿💯
Very insightful. Food for thought.
Okay I’m a Libra and I’m in a fully committed relationship. She’s an asparagus...
That "8" is like my answer when a woman asks me how old I think they are. My answer is always "21", because nobody ever got slapped for telling a woman she looks 21... Lol
I tell them they look 8. Maybe I’m doing it wrong.
@@d-fens5866 - Well, you probably won't get slapped. You might get the cops called on you, but probably not slapped... Lol
Always tell the truth, don't be asking questions you don't want to hear the answer to.
@@awesomeoftheshizy - I respect that. But I'm anti-social enough already. I don't need to add radical honesty to the mix... Lol
Maybe not slapped in the face by her, but a slap in the wrist from a copper
Some wants friends with benefits, and some are just in a hostage situation feeling the Stockholm syndrome.
simp syndrome
last part sounds like a lot of marriages sadly.
@@MusMasi bruh, that's not simping haha
@@TheJbh147 lol it might not have been used right I gotta admit it's a bit funny or sounds atleast
It got liiddo air from the nose laugh. You know not quite a full lol but a whisper of a haha . . . I dont even know what it's called and too lazy to look.
@@MusMasi person: Doctor what's the prognosis? Will he be okay?
Doctor: I'm sorry to have to tell you this but given the symptoms all signs point to Simp Syndrome. There is nothing we can do but be there when they come to there sense if ever they do not many do tho . A simps mind cannot be changed for they are under the spell of thou simp-y ? Simp-er ?? Person being simped over? Lmao idk this already went farther then need to be just killed it
The Cut seemed like a dope channel when it was new, I loved their "100 years of Beauty" series
Preach need to go on ‘head and drop that mixtape lol.
“8” compliments her but still gives room for improvement. Practice will make her better.
Most girls don't know what good head really is.
Adam zoabi
Practice. The only way to improve.
Adam zoabi
That’s the biggest problem in the world today. The solution is practice. I’m going to start a global campaign where all women can learn.
@@adamzoubi96 saying most girls is a big statement my guy. I've never been into monogamy so I've had my fair share and I had many different experiences. I couldn't say it's a 50/50 but it's definitely not the way you're saying it. What I can tell u tho is that I like different types ,from the really skinny to the BBW type and anywhere in between. The chunky ones and white girls have been the best in my personal experience. When it comes to the petite girls , pretty face with a fat ass and nice tittys those are either freaks or complete failures at sex. 80% of those 9-10s were horrible at it. 20% were freaks.
@@giordanobruno1333 they hardly ever practice because she always think everything about her is 10
Why do people make themselves so vulnerable on these dating videos, holy shit
Hoping for fame and money
Clout
Clout, but also extreme loneliness. Some of these dudes are hurting and it really shows lol
Catharsis
They now have an opportunity to be honest with their feelings. Most of those folks don't have the courage to tell someone "Hey, we need to sit down and get serious.". Now they have a guise, "Hey, it's a fun little show thing. Gonna talk about our relationship. No big deal." Then they get in here, have some drinks, questions are being asked, and now the real stuff comes forth. When the questions are being asked, and they have a segue into saying how they truly feel and you know once this is recorded there is no going back on doing nothing... Easy to see how this stuff happens. I'm very ashamed at some of these replies. Very cynical and apathetic.
Great advice guys
Thoroughly entertaining commentary. Thanks guys