@@tobiaslawrence8928 been playing D&D with the same group of friends since middle school my buddy Josh is the attractive nerd I've had tons of hot nerdy cosplay girlfriends. The rest of us arr Perpetual virgins though. I guess it's no different than being an ugly jock just because you're hanging out at the gym doesn't mean you're getting opportunities with the attractive girls at the gym. being attractive Dork is still being attractive and being ugly is still being ugly The Click you happen to be in doesn't really matter. What matters is how desirable you are to the opposite sex the more desirable you are the more and better options you have. The less sexually desirable you are the less options you have and the less picky you get to be. One of the hottest chicks I've ever seen in my life was one of Josh's ex-girlfriends and she was a huge Star Wars nerd who played D&D with us and collect digimon cards she still had a super high body count of super studs because she was smokeshow hot. Josh is just as big of a dork as any of the rest of us but he also has an extraordinary Lehigh body count all high quality
being a guy nerd is 100% different than being a girl nerd, not same level, just like preach said. The popular nerds are either very attractive or not actually that nerdy
i see it more as the definition of nerd being very open ended. i will never consider an attractive person a nerd, since they have hygiene to be attractive, and a nerd stereotype is having bad hygiene. the guy at the beginning is a total nerd. i never saw "nerd" as reflecting any actual intelligence, just as a descriptor of someone who loses at life because they are too much of a fanatic
I don't fully agree with that. Because I think people hyperfocus on the nerd aspect and neglect everything else. Because you having nerdy interests doesn't inherently make you undesirable. It's simply a quirk at the end of the day, but how you outwardly project it is where the problem can arise. If you watch anime, game when you have time to, and idk play dnd on the weekend, but you have your life together, have social skills, and know how to present yourself, you're not being hurt by being a nerd. I was a nerdy ass dude from the jump, and the big things that changed for me in the years was getting into lifting, improving my social skills, and becoming more confident. I have 0 shame to my geek game and it works just fine. Once I got confident in my self, I could exude my personality in a way good way to people I meet, and they tend to not care about my nerdy interests. At the end of the day, it's simply passions. You're not wrong that attractiveness helps, but that applies to everything in life tbh. Keep on being a geek, but please don't fit the physical and social stereotypes, as that's where you push people off. I have a friend group that started back in 7th grade. The only one who has had no interactions with women refuses to work on his style/presentation and thinks he shouldn't have to put any work into being more presentable for society. That attitude and what he does (read: does not do) for his appearance is his biggest issue.
@@DrHeavenly i don't really think the higiene is the biggest "nerd indicator", it's being socially awkward and unaware. And if you're socially awkward but cute/hot you pass🤷
My big problem with this button thing, is that the rejected party does have the opportunity to go back to the group and say what went wrong or what they didn't like and poison the group against the person who rejected them. I think some of these episodes would have gone differently if they came in fresh.
As someone whose been a nerd their whole life and it was never ever cool. It is definitely a trend right now to be a nerd and it's hard to find real nerds
You need to go to the nerdiest of places. Anime and gaming Cons are no longer valid as they got infiltrated by them. Go to hackathons and niche conventions based on Sciences.
@@babywizardkelly166 you don't need to watch either to know the difference. I'd have hit the button too. Not because she didn't watch it, but because she doesn't appear to be intelligent.
Okay, so the way y'all break the behaviours and characters of different people down is SO USEFUL, especially for people like me, who tend to be slight ignorant with these things. Thank you.
Frfr. It’s soooo important to be able to read people. Stereotypes are useful when you understand the psychological reasons a person acts like that. At the same time you can’t marry the stereotype cuz there are plenty of outliers in life
That last dude is a prime example of the looks privilege. Any lesser attractive man talking the way he did, mumbling, not seeming 100% present, just being an overall weirdo, would've gotten him buzzed. She didn't even move toward the button because she thought he was hot and that is literally all that matters today.
I didn't know the difference, well I never pay attention to the difference till I met my fiance. He's onto thoes stuff, eventually I got into Anime, marvel and DC films being around him. I liked cartoons so it was easy for me to follow up lol
" he rejected me for not liking Marvel" is equivalent to setting a place on fire and walking away ...she was like "oh yeah" " fuck all your chances with everyone here" lol
I think it's because most nerdy men, at least the majority I've met, don't pick up social queues very well. The one time I went to a YuGiOh convention, I saw a butt-ton of ass crack; let's not forget the overall hygiene stereotype. I'm not going to say nerdy women don't have their own (rightfully earned) stereotypes, but that's what I've noticed with nerdy men.
@@misariumchan9448 Most of those guys were forced by the environment to not development any social skills outside of their circle Back in the day been fan of any nerdy thing was synonymous of bullying and a beating on highschool That's why a lot of male nerds are gatekeepers about those hobbys
Also, the Latina female didn’t even give the guy a chance. She was influenced by the women in the back to get him out. It was obvious the last guy wasn’t into her but she went for the guy that is unavailable.
The black guy? Man she passed cause he only wanted a Latina 🫤 but asked what do you look for in a woman the second time in front of her he said some mush mouth bs
@@FrostbitexP doubt? If she was into black men she would’ve ignored them Also if he only wants you for your race there are plenty women who find that a turn off 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
The button is easy to win; you just have to be attractive. 😂 My man said “How did you fit in the hierarchy with the other women?” And she was like “Yeah 😍” They shouldn’t be allowed to be go back and talk to the group. It becomes a get back at the other side deal.
The last guy was either high or psychotic. It’s funny how she was still down and seemed to have a little epiphany when he finally rejected her. It seems like like women are into a little bit of danger, but little did she know that this guy was Patrick Bateman
I'm pretty certain he was high, there are some people in the comments saying in other videos he was not like that. I just hope he gets off of whatever he's taking and gets help.
More like neediness isn't unattractive if the guy is attractive. Nerdiness itself though doesn't enhance attraction. As for most men they either don't care if the girl is nerdy or if they are into the same stuff then it's a bonus.
Depends on what the nerd is into. If he nerds out on things a woman nerds out on too, that's attractive. If he nerds out on stuff she doesn't care about, it's neutral or a negative for a woman.
@@jzen1455 all that doesn’t matter if the person isn’t attractive. Let’s say I meet a girl that collects yu gi oh cards just like me i mean that’s cool but she’s unattractive so I don’t care same vise versa.
The dude said "I think its dangerous for someone like me to be sober for too long" and this girl fell for him? ARE YOU KIDDING ME. Dudes vibe was off since the start but I immediately yelled out "red flag" when he said that!
@Livin' Large with Marc "Safety" has nothing to do with it. Your twitter trigger words don't fly here. If someone wants to push you for an explanation as to why you dare turn them down...yes, be honest and tell them it's because theyre obese.
I’m a nerd girl. I don’t know what nerdy men go through but hearing you’re weird from other girls is hard being teen, but my daddy helped me through it. Thanks Dad! However I have always loved nerdy guys. I was married 27 years to a nerdy man. Now I work with a room full of them 😂.
Because being called weird is the worst thing ever, omg. Nerdy men still get stuffed into trashcans if they aren't big enough to defend themselves. Swirlies, hitting, endless harassment beyond being called weird.
@@l.s.11 Nah, "nerd" moreso generally means "book smart, not street smart," while "geek" is mostly associated specifically with obsessive fandom, so the original comment better reflects the dichotomy.
I feel like have the 'contestants' being in a room together afterwards kind of defeats the purpose of meeting strangers. You can all just team up and have an opinion on someone before even meeting them this way
He was the most manic and awkward person out of all the guys you can tell this as he was talking to her looking away and everything and she was still trying to pick this dude.. women be bugging bro
the guy literally said 'its dangerous for me to be sober for too long' and she just sat there like 'hmm... okay im down'. This how dumbasses end up with the next jeffrey dahmer 😂😂
@@CommanderCodyChipless It's 100% true. If you ignore very obvious MASSIVE red flags like that...your chances of ending up a Jeffrey Dahmer victim is WAAAY higher. If that person really is a serial killer you're screwed. If they're not, you're lucky. You gotta pay attention to these things.
Worst date I ever went on was with a marvel guy. When I said I wasn't a fan, he walked out in a fit of rage because I wasn't intelligent enough to understand the complexities of the cinematic universe 🙃
Lol and you just KNOW he is mentally visualizing and channeling that ONE GUY from growing up (with aba) who'd always preach at him at every single barbeque and hangout
I was so shocked by that last couple. That dude was either trollin for TV or he was on something but it just goes to show men and women are shallow as hell. She only kept going cause she thought he was cute. That personality on a less attractive man would have gotten the button in 3 seconds. I mean he straight up told her he was an addict and she was like "Yeah cool awesome lets go out." 🤣🤣🤣 I am truly ashamed of her.
@phljawn Waayy off...and she still went for it. I know the button is more of a game than an actual opportunity to meet someone but I couldn't even pretend to want to see that guy again.
Women claim that they don’t care about attractiveness, but studies show that when it comes to actions, women absolutely take into account attractiveness
@justadummy8076 Well of course we "take it into account." Lol like all human beings we need to be attracted to someone we date, it's just not top priority to the average woman.
Can I just say that I appreciate them going off script and shooting the shit with eachother about the state of Marvel movies and the industry in general. Thank you for not saddling up with the tomfuckery that Disney has allowed to bleed into all of their Marvel properties, even the comics have been disappointing, and don't even bring up what they did to black panther in the recent comics, anyone who reads the comics knows the pain I'm talking about Oh hi...Mark?
Lmao “we can make jokes about race but we can’t joke about the other stuff” - Aba “She might be a Joe Rogan fans but she forgot about the fitness stuff” - Aba😂😂😂😂
When she said “I think he made the right choice” Aba was 100% right, she was actually saying he’s crazy. It was all over her face 😆 when he was explaining why he rejected her
The funny part is she was willing to look past that because she was attracted to him. Women know the red flags but proceed and be mad when they are left Witt a baby and trauma when all the flags were there. That was wild to see in real time
@@dfredankey WRONG Men are more logical. I’ve backed out of a lot interactions with women I found attractive cause they were fckin batsht lol I’ve only ever overrode my instincts when they were irresistible and I went bonkers and that’s been like twice ever. I’m in my 30s, so 99% logical haha Most guys I know are this way also. Maybe like 15-20% of guys I’ve know have been complete dummies. But most have way better control over their desire Whereas holyyyy shhhiiittt the women I’ve known that have gone for guys that are absolute trash. Very few ever listen when you tell them too smh
Let's be honest. She went out like that because he was overweight. If that Marvel Fan was built like Joe Manganiello, she would have said something very different... like "Oh yeah! I am a Pokemon Fan too!" 🤣
So maybe he can stop over eating and move his body. Everybody knows being big isn't attractive, that's why he got rejected and all the big girls got rejected too.
I'm gonna have to disagree there Aba, being a nerd is only trendy if you look a certain way that is sexually fantasized as "quirky" and as a society nerdy men are just seen as that "nerds" and it also doesn't help if he is overweight, because nerdy-overweight-men have a ton of stereotypes holding them back, where as women who are nerds just come off as being pretty and quirky. But in some rare cases it can also be a set back depending on the woman. So again, Being nerdy is only trendy if you fit the romanticized aesthetic criterias that people love about ATTRACTIVE nerds/geeks. Also the type of nerds MOST people fetishize about aren't necessarily the DND, comic book, video game loving types. Its usually the person who is obsessed with math, science, history, biology, psychics, etc.
LOL my brother watches that stuff!!!! Anime 😄she looked so happy & proud like she really just connected with someone or said to someone that's super into video games, or books, or whatever "nerdy" hobby some deep fact she knew about the subject surprising & fascinating them with how well she understands it. It was painful watching it man, and I agree all the beautiful girls that are into more "nerdy" things, that's when its heavily sexualized or romanticized & lusted after, and the sad thing is girls like this who openly display it aren't available for relationships for one reason or another. The girls who are genuinely into all this stuff not because guys they know are & they want to be "cool" or "hipster" or one of the bros, and have all their own passion for it away from men entirely, those are the best ones with real compatibility to begin relationships with out of the shared passion.
@@fundash5124 hell nah, female nerds almost never get trashed, male nerds have this very bad stereotype that comes with it. An Average guy with a bunch of comic books on his wall will get made fun of but when average girl (or even below) does it it's not even mentioned
Kinda sucks, she was the best looking one in the group. I would’ve found a way to get over it & explain later if she didn’t hit the button on my fat ass if I was him.
All that response told me is “this woman lives under a rock.” Like you can have your interests and such, I’m not shocked if someone’s not into Marvel … but to not know what it IS??? To have heard of ANIME, but not be aware enough to know Marvel isn’t it??? I’m flabbergasted. I genuinely wouldn’t know what to say to this woman. That’s like someone saying they’re into keeping tabs on the National Sporting Leagues and the other person saying, “yeah, sorry, I really don’t care for pro wrestling…”
I felt bad for homie honestly. Like, he’s an attractive man, and they kept sending these women knowing full well it’s a mismatch 😂 They knew what they were doing lol Also, Aba was on some other shit for this video and I loved every single minute of it 😂😂
This proves dating is so dead. She ignored all the red flags with Nicotine guy just because she was physically attracted to him. Him buzzing her represents modern women in the dating world.
As a girl that’s a nerd (Marvel, and Anime) I personally have to agree. As much as I love the marvel franchise it has fallen off with the the newer stuff. And when they put out the newer content for Blade I’m gonna pray they do it justice cause Blade will always be one of my favs.
You know they won't though, right? I'm not a nerd, can't stand Marvel movies, but I'm a big fan of Blade and Mahershala Ali - this is Disney, it's gonna get watered down to pander to as broad an audience as possible to bring in the dough. We can assume it's gonna be a PG-13 film too, for the exact same reason.
The way that mans eyes were darting around like he was watching a fly buzz around says ALL we need to know. He was on another plane ✈️ of existence and shawty dodged a missile 🥴🤣💀
This is insane… he said it was not good for him to be sober. He acted like he didn’t give a shit at all. He was talking off track and interrupting her. She STILL wanted him.
I’ve been a marvel nerd for a long time, both movies and films. I gotta say, being a nerd is only trendy if you’re attractive. Prime examples are Doja Cat and Megan the Stallion. Because they are attractive their nerdy qualities are easy to digest and some people use them as figureheads to rally behind/fetishize. Hell some people watch the movies just to see Chris Evans or Chris Hemsworth shirtless.
I'm so happy I'm married because women and men like the last 2 freak me out. She was into that crazy until it got real, and he seemed like he would kill his ex and her man. Everyone watching saw creep in him and saw low self-esteem in her. That was dangerous. And that's what connect like magnets in this world. Thank you, wife, for saving me from the public.
indeed everytime i think i want to do the relationship thing I see/meet up with 3,5 different crazy chicks that have me changing my mind.. especially when i’m asked if i’m single.. Everytime I think an feel “oh maybe a relationship wouldn’t be so bad” I just listen to a single independent woman speak for a minute or so and I disregard the idea for another few months. ppl will ask aren’t u lonely..an ill say i prefer freedom..and quiet..ANY sign or redflag I’m gone! besides sooo many women nowadays hate man.. i grew up seeing that kind of hatred, an disgust..so i’ll ✌️ghost a chick quick if i sense any sort of hatred,scorn,distain of guys.. zero tolerance.
This only works on dumb women and she seems to be one. He pulled some Andrew Tate attitude but couldnt even look her in the eyes...what a sad sight. Someone who tells me he thinks, that its not good to be sober for to long, can walk right off. He has a typical f-boy look and doesnt seem like husband material at all.
@@calistafalcontailI noticed the same thing with the lack of eye contact. He was trying to make his voice slower and lower to project a manly vibe but then stared into space and at the ground the whole time. Dude was definitely tweakin lol
7 out of 9 women were body positive, that's why "you're not my type" was the most common answer. Whoever is recruiting these girls really isn't trying, or maybe is also a body positive. By the way for thise who may not know, "body positive" is the new terminology to say fat chicks if you don't want to get canceled.
Why dont you just say FAT or obese...thats what it is. And I think its either done on purpose, meaning they go for these ones, cause they will create controversy...or they cant find more normal, sane women who want to go on this dumb show.
@@calistafalcontail People like you and I, we're nobody. So we can say fat chicks are fat chicks because it won't cost us anything. But officially, the politically correct way is to call them body positive. Just putting it out there for those who may not know.
@@akumaisreal2090 Nah nah wait, you used that watered down term in a random comment that wont get you in trouble either, even though you could have just been real. You are not putting anything out there and why do you say it like others should follow along? We know it, we just dont want to use this bs. Where I come from, I can for sure still say obese and even if I would be a guy I would still use this word and not "body positive", cause thats the opposite of what this is. We have to stop caring about pc-culture instead of fueling it.
@@akumaisreal2090 exactly why i could never be a CZcamsr/Streamer. I *never* apologize for *anything* unless i feel i'm in the wrong. I absolutely refuse to even if it makes the situation worse. I wouldn't make it with my vocabulary.
Been comfortable being a nerd since my 20’s. I never let the labels pin me down. I was a nerd, who played football, wrestled, played football outside at home. I was a nerd who beat up bullies, I was a nerd who threw parties. A nerd who could dance, a nerd who treated women kind. I wasn’t running up numbers 😂I wasn’t trying to either. I called gay for the wildest non-gay shit. Wife saw my value. Been married for 10+ yrs. Seen and heard about many of the women’s tragic lives who called me corny. I wasn’t the corny one 😂😂😂 . Also gamers don’t want women that don’t want them back. Many of us have great times and relationships with women who like to game with us 😂😂.
I was heavily bullied in High school and middle school due to my nerd interests like anime, comics, video games, magic the gathering etc and it’s WILD how it’s trendy to be a nerd now. Like the very same people who were jock bullies are now into that sh-t heavy it’s wild
anime becoming trendy is :( the porn addiction amonst teens will skyrocket with anime plus mainstream anime will continue to be pumped out like marvel movies and less and less quality anime will be made. (already happening we are STILL seeing this with isekais) If you've been in any community online that's primarily anime, you know just as well as i do the sad state these people are in. Most popular anime accounts on instagram, twitter, etc that aren't CZcamsrs (or similar) are 80% lewd accounts.
Whatever lie you have to tell yourself. She was already into him, as long as he had a job she likely would have stayed attracted to him. Such a weird comment when nothing indicated that, not even her reaction and comment when he told her that.
@@Hello-qf3fd This is false. Having a business is definitely a huge factor. It's what possibly made her overlook everything else. A pretty face is nice, but easy to get past. Girls like attractive guys, yes, but that doesn't mean they'll stand for their shit either. Plus, a date is pretty innocent, it's not like she was accepting marriage or anything. Low stakes, easy to say yes. Attractive-check, has his own business-therefore possibly financially stable and free to do whatever-check. Her immediate subsequent question was regarding his business, too.
Couldn't agree more, Aba. I'm 26, and I grew up with comics in my household because my Dad was a comic book nerd growing up, and he briefly owned a comic book store before he had my older sister. I read the Infinity Gauntlet/Infinity War series way, way before anyone in my age range even heard the term 'Infinity Stone.' My Dad gave me a dope Thanos figure back in the early 2000's when I was a kid, and he easily was one of my favorite Marvel villains really early on. I'm not trying to play the hipster, "uh, I liked it before it was cool" card, but I'm just speaking from the heart. The first couple Marvel movies were solid, but it got really trash, really quick. I remember kids in High School trying to outplay me with Marvel knowledge and it got really fucking annoying. I'm glad they can bring joy to people, but I prefer my 80's and 90's Marvel comics... all day, every day.
It’s funny, I kinda feel the opposite. I tried to go back and read some of the older comics, and let’s just say that I’ll probably be sticking with the movies.
@ANIMEBEAST27 I grew up in a small country town where pretty much no one shared the same interests as me, but I have always been way bigger than my peers, so I was never bullied or mistreated because of my interests. At worst, my crush told me I was weird because I liked superheros. But yeah, I agree with Aba. There are people everywhere who share interests with other people, but it's not always obvious. You just have to find them. As for whether or not men get mistreated by men for "nerdy" interests. Absolutely. I've seen it. But people mistreat other people for every reason under the sun, so it's definitely best to just be yourself and surround yourself with accepting and caring people.
@alexis dogbo , that's fair. I appreciate the cheesy writing of the 80's and 90's comics, but it's not for everyone. I also just love old school art and coloring. John Byrne is an artistic legend.
That first girl thought? She offended me as an anime fan. But the guy is crazy, you "can't not like marvel"? You know this guy came at people who didn't like the She-Hulk tv show.
Bruh... he just said some bs to make himself feel better when he saw she was trying to beat him to the buzzer first. She thought Marvel and anime were the same thing.
The last guy has some serious issues. That's not just being nervous or socially awkward. And he's a prime example of the male version of "pretty privilege". And she knew he was a weirdo from the start bc when he rejected her she said that was the right choice. But she was going to tolerate it bc he's attractive.
More people need to be aware of the male version of “pretty privilege.” Because I know it adds weight to my theory that attractive men are living a reality similar to women(ie they get validation for existing,get more given to them than they will admit etc) I have seen where attractive dudes act weak,don’t want to do anything unless someone does it for them,acts like a bytch(which really shocked me and that doesn’t happen often). And they still get respect regardless of what they do
C-Dun who isn't aware of male pretty privilege? Everyone knows about it. The top 20% of men on dating apps get more matches than the bottom 80%. Nobody likes to say they got so where do to luck everyone likes to think they earned their success.
@@admaanhason7410 I won’t generalise but the male version is ignored whilst the female one is commonplace. I say “ignored” because the good looking dudes will play down the positive reinforcement from society,and less attractive dudes who praise them also seem to act like it doesn’t exist as well.
I realized that "nerd" culture wasnt popular, the wrong people just started to like it when i saw a cosplay photo of a couple dressed up as Tajiro and Nezuko from Demon slayer while he was holding her waist and she was taking the photo with the mirror reflecting them, and the caption was "his little devil" And everyone was saying, they clearly didnt watch the show, since you know They're brother and sister and its not that kind of anime At this point im sceptical about any new anime fan, to the point the go read the manga people have become less annoying to me
Man, Preach hit that straight away with the Andrew Tate reference. That last guy was really letting off some serious 'sigma-male-grindset' psycho vibes.
But he was top alpha in his mind with the aloofness, talk of hierarchy, negging, and having that IDGAF attitude. Dude is likely balls deep into red pill stuff.
I got one question: How is every woman rejecting a guy for being a "nerd" any better than every man rejecting a girl for being "not conventionally attractive"?
The black guy isn't stupid. He know the game. You say what's ur type around ur homies but around everybody it's simple: Someone who bring you peace, adds value and someone you can possibly grow with. Nice going young fella💯
@@RichardmpayiTnway He actually didn't because he told her the right answer. The "button" used his honesty against him when during the conversation with the latina.
To be fair that is the buttons fault entirely. He would of just said the line about "a girl that knows what she wants" if it asked his type without bringing it up
I was a girl nerd in the 80’s 😅 I loved everything about computers and went into computer science, where there was no girls lol. My parents wouldn’t get us an Atari, but they bought us a radio shack trs-80, so I programmed my own games in Basic and begged to go to computer camp at age 13. 🤓 Being a nerd in the 80’s was frigging awesome, especially when the movie Revenge of the Nerds came out. I had a glow-up at age 16 and became a cute nerd 😭 life was gooooddd I miss those years
Makes me think of one of my fav movies as a kid: Weird Science! Such a classic. Doesn’t really connect to your story but the girl they created was hot and it was a nerdy movie. Lol
Of course being a girl nerd in the 80s was awesome, you had access to numerous male nerds whom most other women overlooked. Nerds are now sought after and the competition for them is fiercer especially the finally well-off nerds and nerds who are obsessed with mainstream nerd stuff.
As much as the last guy was weird, this last woman is insecure. She hovered over the button the entire time. She's afraid of rejection and not confident enough in herself to just accept that other people wouldn't like her.
When the guy is genuinely not matching with any of the women he might go on a buzzing spree but not for petty reasons yet the girls find him to be an asshole. Then in the back rooms all the women just scream "GET HIM OUT" and when they go out instead of giving him a chance (cause he genuinely could be a suited match) their fixation is on getting him out cause all the other girls said he was an asshole (and the girl never finds out that he isn't for herself cause she gets egged on by the other women).
It shows you how vindictive and tribal women can be. Once one woman label's a guy a "creep" for the flimsiest reasons like merely getting rejected by the guy or getting hit by an ugly guy, she gets other women to gang up on the guy instead of coming to their own conclusions. Guys are more likely to filter out such biased BS (not aren't completely immune) and come to their own conclusions about slandered women.
@@bestreviewouthere6438 Why do y’all speak of being single like it’s a bad thing? I mean 52% of all marriages end in divorce and the # 2 reason is due infidelity so these marriages can’t be that great!
I always felt like word "nerd " wasn't created by so call "nerds" ; it was a descriptive term that the popular and @$$ hole kids used to shame anyone who wasn't trying to fit in with the In crowd and had their own hobbies. This new definition of "nerd has been hijacked by the mainstream for clout purposes.
People who show up in cosplay to date are a huge NOPE anyway. I mean if they go to places where cosplayers date...sure....but this chick is delusional.
For real! Especially with the eyes. Idk if he's on the spectrum or was a late bloomer and developed social skills much later in life. The only time he looked at her was when he finished what he said 🥴 Bro who are you talking to? But when the buzzer spoke he was able to maintain eye contact... With an inanimate object... Odd behaviour in any case
As a foreigner, if the interactions that happens in those types of videos are actually what happens in real life, damn... Must be really sad looking for a partner in the U.S
This artificial strange button pressing contest isn’t how convos naturally happen in the US. The button adds a completely different element to speed dating which makes it more about who will reject as many people as possible to boost their ego, vs actually attempting to find a partner
It's what happens in real life now that women have dick on demand with app likes Tinder or OkCupid. Once the dude displays one minor thing they dislike, they can discard and move on to the next cock.
My respect for Aba went up when he explained his take on old Marvel/current Marvel. Also, I wonder if Postmodern Jukebox will ever perform a Guns N Roses song reggae-style now.
Sooooo, in my experience its cool to be nerdy but, not a nerd. It always depends on whom you're talking to. In general (from a guy perspective) women love men that have hobbies they are passionate about but, can also be kind of out going as well, and of course, have something going for you (ambition), don't be a terrible person, and also be funny-ish.
Outgoing...ambition...those are women's code words for spending money, going to clubs bars and shopping, (aka outgoing) and plans to make money(ambition)
@@azaravalerie9832 mi argumento sería el mismo del comentario original, a nadie le importan tanto tus intereses si tienes habilidades sociales y más o menos sabes lo que quieres de la vida ( dependiendo de tu edad) lo que es bastante básico para cualquier adulto funcional. Pero tu respondes con un esteriotipo limitado de "como son las mujeres", por ende mi respuesta es de "quien te hizo tanto daño" para que pensaras que todas las mujeres son así, no conozco ninguna mujer así, de la misma forma que he conocido muy pocos hombres que cumplen con el estereotipo de hombre abusador. Pero me dio flojera usar el traductor así que "who Hurt you" es una mejor frase para decir que mi realidad no se hacerca a la tuya y deberías reflexionar en tus relaciones 🤷♀️
Being a nerd is not trendy, being attractive and nerdy is trendy.
@@tobiaslawrence8928 you’ll be playing the victim all your life bro 😂
@@tobiaslawrence8928 nah nah it does go both ways
Ah... so I just need to be attractive... Glass half-full guys, glass half-full.
Facts
@@tobiaslawrence8928 been playing D&D with the same group of friends since middle school my buddy Josh is the attractive nerd I've had tons of hot nerdy cosplay girlfriends. The rest of us arr Perpetual virgins though. I guess it's no different than being an ugly jock just because you're hanging out at the gym doesn't mean you're getting opportunities with the attractive girls at the gym. being attractive Dork is still being attractive and being ugly is still being ugly The Click you happen to be in doesn't really matter. What matters is how desirable you are to the opposite sex the more desirable you are the more and better options you have. The less sexually desirable you are the less options you have and the less picky you get to be. One of the hottest chicks I've ever seen in my life was one of Josh's ex-girlfriends and she was a huge Star Wars nerd who played D&D with us and collect digimon cards she still had a super high body count of super studs because she was smokeshow hot. Josh is just as big of a dork as any of the rest of us but he also has an extraordinary Lehigh body count all high quality
Yeah I agree with Preach, girl calling a guy a nerd to a room full of girls is more equivalent to telling your boys she likes astrology
LOL
Accurate as fuck 🤣🤣🤣
Lmao 🤣
I don't think that is accurate astrology means crazy nerds aren't crazy
@@zainabzolita8436 The effect it has on the boys tho is similar.
Yooo when ol buddy said he only dates Asians and the next chick was dressed as a Anime character had me rolling 😂😂😂
I literally fell from my chair
Jubilee did him dirty 😂
😂😂😂😂
It should be a seperate room for people who get rejected. It's not genuine and it feels like people just being petty
100%, for multiple videos now! It's so immature and petty. When it isn't even a group project, it's about INDIVIDUALS finding their best match 🤦🏼♀️
Exactly...the women who got rejected are influencing the women going in.
Do the guys get to compare notes too?
@@bronjesamuel1054 they do. That's why it's not genuine
Eggzactly
being a guy nerd is 100% different than being a girl nerd, not same level, just like preach said. The popular nerds are either very attractive or not actually that nerdy
true
Because women are sexualized more than men.
i see it more as the definition of nerd being very open ended. i will never consider an attractive person a nerd, since they have hygiene to be attractive, and a nerd stereotype is having bad hygiene. the guy at the beginning is a total nerd. i never saw "nerd" as reflecting any actual intelligence, just as a descriptor of someone who loses at life because they are too much of a fanatic
I don't fully agree with that. Because I think people hyperfocus on the nerd aspect and neglect everything else. Because you having nerdy interests doesn't inherently make you undesirable. It's simply a quirk at the end of the day, but how you outwardly project it is where the problem can arise. If you watch anime, game when you have time to, and idk play dnd on the weekend, but you have your life together, have social skills, and know how to present yourself, you're not being hurt by being a nerd. I was a nerdy ass dude from the jump, and the big things that changed for me in the years was getting into lifting, improving my social skills, and becoming more confident. I have 0 shame to my geek game and it works just fine. Once I got confident in my self, I could exude my personality in a way good way to people I meet, and they tend to not care about my nerdy interests. At the end of the day, it's simply passions. You're not wrong that attractiveness helps, but that applies to everything in life tbh.
Keep on being a geek, but please don't fit the physical and social stereotypes, as that's where you push people off. I have a friend group that started back in 7th grade. The only one who has had no interactions with women refuses to work on his style/presentation and thinks he shouldn't have to put any work into being more presentable for society. That attitude and what he does (read: does not do) for his appearance is his biggest issue.
@@DrHeavenly i don't really think the higiene is the biggest "nerd indicator", it's being socially awkward and unaware. And if you're socially awkward but cute/hot you pass🤷
My big problem with this button thing, is that the rejected party does have the opportunity to go back to the group and say what went wrong or what they didn't like and poison the group against the person who rejected them. I think some of these episodes would have gone differently if they came in fresh.
Yup 💯
They should definitely be separated after going out there.
Gotta be a woman who runs this. Only way the show runners wouldn't see this as a glaring issue. Women love gossiping about relationships.
Yeah and then it's just a game of "get them out." Gets boring reeeal quick
Yeah its stupid, Its clearly done on purpose
This dude really said "It's dangerous to be in a sober state for too long" What has this world come too!?!?!
I hoped he checked into rehab right after
he also said 'For me, at least" and that's not wrong, because if this guy is on nicotine and he's that crazy, imagine him on withdrawals.
Yeah, he's a red flag on legs
it's not even right, nicotine withdrawals are the lightest ones I've ever had and I've used it for years
Nicotine patch guy is a living RED FLAG, "I think its dangerous to be in a sober state for too long" Dude is TWEAKING
You gotta be to be an entrepreneur
Lol it's funny how she didn't press the button after hearing that
You can tell dude does speed
@@openendedthinking4033 lmao jo, u have to be sober all the time to be an entrepreneur
@@VilaToro64 Absolutely he's on speed. I came here to say the same thing.
If these guys ever get insanely famous and we do a biopic, I want the squeaky floorboard to be a character.
And the bed Preach falls onto whenever he's laughing too hard
😂😂😂😂
Bro I've always heard it in the back, but I've never actually acknowledged or noticed how loud it actually is lmao
If Aba doest walk off screen and start stomping on the squeaky floor, the video is ass
???
As someone whose been a nerd their whole life and it was never ever cool. It is definitely a trend right now to be a nerd and it's hard to find real nerds
Precisely why im single and have very little friends. I can tell when someone is being "Nerdy" just because.
Its still not cool, youre fallig for it
You need to go to the nerdiest of places. Anime and gaming Cons are no longer valid as they got infiltrated by them. Go to hackathons and niche conventions based on Sciences.
it is lame when grown men are into superheroes
Well, technically to be a nerd you have to be smart.
His reaction when she said "anime"
I felt offended by that one
That shit had me rolling😂😂
I don’t even Watch Anime and I know the difference
Talk about uncultured🤦🏾♂️
@@babywizardkelly166 you don't need to watch either to know the difference. I'd have hit the button too. Not because she didn't watch it, but because she doesn't appear to be intelligent.
Okay, so the way y'all break the behaviours and characters of different people down is SO USEFUL, especially for people like me, who tend to be slight ignorant with these things. Thank you.
Very useful skill to have,being able to identify when people are being genuine and their dynamics. That's how people get taken advantaged of
Frfr. It’s soooo important to be able to read people.
Stereotypes are useful when you understand the psychological reasons a person acts like that. At the same time you can’t marry the stereotype cuz there are plenty of outliers in life
@@semmywap2916 finally someone who agrees. Nobody likes stereotypes but they're there for a reason
That last dude is a prime example of the looks privilege. Any lesser attractive man talking the way he did, mumbling, not seeming 100% present, just being an overall weirdo, would've gotten him buzzed. She didn't even move toward the button because she thought he was hot and that is literally all that matters today.
So what you're saying is the 19th amendment should be abolished and bring back the clubs and struggle snuggle?
Yea I’ve seen him before in other videos, he’s been through a lot actually
@@millasboo link please, I need more of him.
@@themonsterwithin4000 yikes
for both men and women*
The first one hit me to the core. As an anime fan and a marvel and DC fan. But his response "like you can't not like marvel" come on bro.
well I am an adult
Yea “you can’t like marvel” come on man but her response “I can’t really get into anime” I woulda buzzed her too get that bitch outta here
@@marlom7882 i would've too, not gonna lie.
Dude already built like a reddit mod, he's not doing himself any favors
I didn't know the difference, well I never pay attention to the difference till I met my fiance. He's onto thoes stuff, eventually I got into Anime, marvel and DC films being around him. I liked cartoons so it was easy for me to follow up lol
Respect for Aba for giving a shoutout to the DC animated movies.
The DC animated movies are goated
I really don't like dc but the animated stuff they put out is great
Facts!!!!!
Any recommendations on where to start? I've seen them spread across HBO MAX
@@funto99 start with Flashpoint paradox, apokolips last
" he rejected me for not liking Marvel" is equivalent to setting a place on fire and walking away ...she was like "oh yeah" " fuck all your chances with everyone here" lol
I definitely agree with Preach. Being nerdy isn't as attractive to girls as it is to guys.
I think i can agree with you here.
I think it's because most nerdy men, at least the majority I've met, don't pick up social queues very well. The one time I went to a YuGiOh convention, I saw a butt-ton of ass crack; let's not forget the overall hygiene stereotype. I'm not going to say nerdy women don't have their own (rightfully earned) stereotypes, but that's what I've noticed with nerdy men.
You're right because it's so boring having a dude that only talks about JoJo and Power Rangers... And makes their personality around that.
@@misariumchan9448 Most of those guys were forced by the environment to not development any social skills outside of their circle
Back in the day been fan of any nerdy thing was synonymous of bullying and a beating on highschool
That's why a lot of male nerds are gatekeepers about those hobbys
They’re just trying to show you the portal to their hearts you UNCULTURED SWINE!!!!
That guy was a walking red flag at the end. " I can't be in a sober state. It's dangerous for me" " how did you make yourself known in the hierarchy"
Lol that question was mucho autismo, felt like everything was going smooth up to that point
he was high as a kite
He was definitely on da moon during this, and he said he can’t be in a sober state “for too long”
that's a red flag for us men but for her that was probably a turn-on like you see how she was still attracted to him and was weird the whole time.
@@joshualongoria8631 he is good looking that's why
It warms my heart to hear Aba give credit and appreciation to the DC animated films! Thanks Aba!
Same.
Couldnt agree more lol
@Calm101 idk why? Everyone loves animated movies
Never watched a minute in my life
Young Justice has just done it for me. Finished rewatched it and Chief's Kiss!!!
Also, the Latina female didn’t even give the guy a chance. She was influenced by the women in the back to get him out. It was obvious the last guy wasn’t into her but she went for the guy that is unavailable.
The black guy? Man she passed cause he only wanted a Latina 🫤 but asked what do you look for in a woman the second time in front of her he said some mush mouth bs
@@miamanning5315 Doubt thats why. The girls told her "Get him out" and she went in there ready to do just that.
@@FrostbitexP doubt? If she was into black men she would’ve ignored them
Also if he only wants you for your race there are plenty women who find that a turn off 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@miamanning5315 woman get swayed by their hoe friends all too often
@@miamanning5315 would black women feel uncomfortable if a black man like him said that even tho he is the same race?
Aba’s monologue had me 💀 and then I remembered Preach is in an interracial relationship which had me even more💀💀💀
Damn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is ? What color is he dating ?
@@praetorian3902 i beleive he's dating or married to a white woman they say it in one of their videos.
@@donutman. I must have missed that one. Thanks.
@@praetorian3902 Married to a white girl, they've been together since high school.
They had the nerve to clown on the Marvel guy but had a girl in Demon Slayer cosplay laughing at him in the room
Fr
And they're both big.
I don't know why I was hoping she would say something about it. That man didn't even show up in a marvel shirt so is not that bad.
@@e11es96 because he probably have a black widow's pillow in his room
@@aligmal5031 And she probably has a Inosuke dildo. Your point?
The button is easy to win; you just have to be attractive. 😂 My man said “How did you fit in the hierarchy with the other women?” And she was like “Yeah 😍”
They shouldn’t be allowed to be go back and talk to the group. It becomes a get back at the other side deal.
He talked like an Andrew Tate fan boy but couldnt even look her in the eyes...what a sad sight.
@@calistafalcontail Dude was higher than a weather balloon lol
For the women it does. It’s always the women that the camera shows doing that shit. The men just do it off attractiveness
@@laihela 😂 facts
Laihela, I’d have to be pretty high to tolerate being on that abortion of a show too 😂
The last guy was either high or psychotic. It’s funny how she was still down and seemed to have a little epiphany when he finally rejected her. It seems like like women are into a little bit of danger, but little did she know that this guy was Patrick Bateman
Nah. He makes content. Search "When the music video doesn't fit the song". I swear it's him in the video.
@@hesoyammy9438 it’s not! Although he looks exactly like Noah😭
no its just because he was very attractive
I'm pretty certain he was high, there are some people in the comments saying in other videos he was not like that. I just hope he gets off of whatever he's taking and gets help.
Nerdiness is attractive when the person is attractive. Kinda like with everything else.
🤣 yo for real
Exactly
More like neediness isn't unattractive if the guy is attractive. Nerdiness itself though doesn't enhance attraction. As for most men they either don't care if the girl is nerdy or if they are into the same stuff then it's a bonus.
Depends on what the nerd is into. If he nerds out on things a woman nerds out on too, that's attractive. If he nerds out on stuff she doesn't care about, it's neutral or a negative for a woman.
@@jzen1455 all that doesn’t matter if the person isn’t attractive. Let’s say I meet a girl that collects yu gi oh cards just like me i mean that’s cool but she’s unattractive so I don’t care same vise versa.
The dude said "I think its dangerous for someone like me to be sober for too long" and this girl fell for him? ARE YOU KIDDING ME. Dudes vibe was off since the start but I immediately yelled out "red flag" when he said that!
Bad boys, bad boys what you gonna do? Women will always be attracted to you.
@@MaeSteRWaR stupid women who don't want a good home for their children
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@@MaeSteRWaR 🤣🤣🤣
That guy actually had a panic attack when he came in, thats why he was beeing weird. Cody Ko interviewed him recentcly.
At least this guy was 90% honest "I'm just not attracted to you." is about as close as you can get to saying the actual truth "Because you're obese."
Funny thing is, most people don't find obese people attractive, even if most people happen to be obese as well.
@Livin' Large with Marc "Safety" has nothing to do with it. Your twitter trigger words don't fly here. If someone wants to push you for an explanation as to why you dare turn them down...yes, be honest and tell them it's because theyre obese.
@@marcthatrucker99 Tars deserved an Oscar for that movie tbh. The robots were epic characters
Hey at least she can change her weight. I've seen girls say they weren't attracted to my friend to his face cus he was short.
@@444ytb tbh that should be completely unacceptable , seeing todays trends with being tolerant and allat. But we all know nobody actually gives a fuck
I’m a nerd girl. I don’t know what nerdy men go through but hearing you’re weird from other girls is hard being teen, but my daddy helped me through it. Thanks Dad! However I have always loved nerdy guys. I was married 27 years to a nerdy man. Now I work with a room full of them 😂.
Because being called weird is the worst thing ever, omg.
Nerdy men still get stuffed into trashcans if they aren't big enough to defend themselves. Swirlies, hitting, endless harassment beyond being called weird.
What do u do if don't mind me asking? And how did u meet your man?
What's the difference between a Geek and a Nerd?
Nerds debate science, Geeks debate Science Fiction.
I can get behind that one.
Agreed
It’s the same thing just different
I'd put it reverse.
nerds - science fiction
geeks - science
@@l.s.11 Nah, "nerd" moreso generally means "book smart, not street smart," while "geek" is mostly associated specifically with obsessive fandom, so the original comment better reflects the dichotomy.
On god I fell out of my chair laughing when the big girl came to sit down infront of the Asian dude. Jubilee ain’t shit fr 😂😂
Fr🤣🤣🤣
I legit spit coffee all over my damn desk ☠️
man american women are so fat
I dont know if you watched the previous episode, but she was an extreme weeb who was WAYYYY into Asian guys😂😂they set it up💀💀💀
Bro I can't breath 😂😂😂
Aba doing his Pan-African rants make me laugh so hard! 😭
Took me back to the 90s being yelled at by NOI guys as they tried to convince my black friends I was the debil.
@@Thessalin 😂
ABBA turn to dr umar Johnson ! In sec
Black power!1!1!1Black emancipation1!1!1!1!
Went full Umar Johnson
I feel like have the 'contestants' being in a room together afterwards kind of defeats the purpose of meeting strangers. You can all just team up and have an opinion on someone before even meeting them this way
I can’t believe the Latina said yes to him simply because she found him attractive. That last guy was clearly unstable.
Every day the black pill gets darker
He was the most manic and awkward person out of all the guys you can tell this as he was talking to her looking away and everything and she was still trying to pick this dude.. women be bugging bro
I don’t want to say it but I’m waiting for the news feed with her name in the future
he was clearly on something
Just got to the part with him,I’ve recognized him from older videos If i remember he actually gone through a lot
the guy literally said 'its dangerous for me to be sober for too long' and she just sat there like 'hmm... okay im down'. This how dumbasses end up with the next jeffrey dahmer 😂😂
THATS WHAT IM SAYINGGG🤣🤣
On god
I seriously thought she was gonna buzz him after that! Maybe she does psychedelics?
You had me in the first ngl
@@CommanderCodyChipless It's 100% true. If you ignore very obvious MASSIVE red flags like that...your chances of ending up a Jeffrey Dahmer victim is WAAAY higher. If that person really is a serial killer you're screwed. If they're not, you're lucky. You gotta pay attention to these things.
Aba's black characters are fucking on point. Man needs to be doing sketch comedy
that omar impers was gold
Dude reminds me of the African guy, "Why you gay" dude💀😂😂
**KING KONG CONSCIOUSNESS**
He used too. You can still find them on the channel
On God 💯🙏🏾😂
Worst date I ever went on was with a marvel guy. When I said I wasn't a fan, he walked out in a fit of rage because I wasn't intelligent enough to understand the complexities of the cinematic universe 🙃
Abas monologue about keeping it in the race made my day 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol and you just KNOW he is mentally visualizing and channeling that ONE GUY from growing up (with aba) who'd always preach at him at every single barbeque and hangout
Right like 😂😂😂I can’t stand him
@@styxrakash4639right !!!😂😂😂😂
@@styxrakash4639 he was saying word for word Dr Umar quotes lol he even references king Kong konciousness lol
I'm on that part now lol 🤣
I was so shocked by that last couple. That dude was either trollin for TV or he was on something but it just goes to show men and women are shallow as hell. She only kept going cause she thought he was cute. That personality on a less attractive man would have gotten the button in 3 seconds. I mean he straight up told her he was an addict and she was like "Yeah cool awesome lets go out." 🤣🤣🤣 I am truly ashamed of her.
He was way off
@phljawn Waayy off...and she still went for it. I know the button is more of a game than an actual opportunity to meet someone but I couldn't even pretend to want to see that guy again.
Ashamed?😂
Women claim that they don’t care about attractiveness, but studies show that when it comes to actions, women absolutely take into account attractiveness
@justadummy8076 Well of course we "take it into account." Lol like all human beings we need to be attracted to someone we date, it's just not top priority to the average woman.
"She might be a Joe Rogan fan but she forgot the fitness stuff".
- Aba 💀💀💀
Pullin no punches today!!
it’s true tho…! she looks shaped like a pilbury biscuit
😂🤣
That WAS pulling punches 😂
Can I just say that I appreciate them going off script and shooting the shit with eachother about the state of Marvel movies and the industry in general. Thank you for not saddling up with the tomfuckery that Disney has allowed to bleed into all of their Marvel properties, even the comics have been disappointing, and don't even bring up what they did to black panther in the recent comics, anyone who reads the comics knows the pain I'm talking about
Oh hi...Mark?
Lmao “we can make jokes about race but we can’t joke about the other stuff” - Aba
“She might be a Joe Rogan fans but she forgot about the fitness stuff” - Aba😂😂😂😂
A girl literally knows within 5 seconds if she's attracted to you or not. That asian chick buzzing out the asian dude that quick was brutal 😭😭
that girl was mad beautiful bro
Oof, but true.
@Mr Sir he won't even try to slide in her dms.
@Mr Sir @stefonny both yall are weird
@@everyonesaidmynamewasstupi3713 She was ok looking. Like I'd go for her but she's no Selma Hayek
When she said “I think he made the right choice” Aba was 100% right, she was actually saying he’s crazy. It was all over her face 😆 when he was explaining why he rejected her
The funny part is she was willing to look past that because she was attracted to him. Women know the red flags but proceed and be mad when they are left Witt a baby and trauma when all the flags were there. That was wild to see in real time
@@marcusx3605and men do the same thing too bro it’s a people thing.
@@dfredankey WRONG
Men are more logical. I’ve backed out of a lot interactions with women I found attractive cause they were fckin batsht lol
I’ve only ever overrode my instincts when they were irresistible and I went bonkers and that’s been like twice ever. I’m in my 30s, so 99% logical haha
Most guys I know are this way also. Maybe like 15-20% of guys I’ve know have been complete dummies. But most have way better control over their desire
Whereas holyyyy shhhiiittt the women I’ve known that have gone for guys that are absolute trash. Very few ever listen when you tell them too smh
@@dfredankey it doesn’t work the same my man.
@@marcusx3605 Explain the differences some more dear sir
Let's be honest. She went out like that because he was overweight. If that Marvel Fan was built like Joe Manganiello, she would have said something very different... like "Oh yeah! I am a Pokemon Fan too!" 🤣
@@StephanieWitmer-iq5pv I doubt a 'Hot Guy' ask you out 'multiple times'. Who's REALLY living in a 'Fantasy World'?
So maybe he can stop over eating and move his body. Everybody knows being big isn't attractive, that's why he got rejected and all the big girls got rejected too.
I'm gonna have to disagree there Aba, being a nerd is only trendy if you look a certain way that is sexually fantasized as "quirky" and as a society nerdy men are just seen as that "nerds" and it also doesn't help if he is overweight, because nerdy-overweight-men have a ton of stereotypes holding them back, where as women who are nerds just come off as being pretty and quirky. But in some rare cases it can also be a set back depending on the woman. So again, Being nerdy is only trendy if you fit the romanticized aesthetic criterias that people love about ATTRACTIVE nerds/geeks. Also the type of nerds MOST people fetishize about aren't necessarily the DND, comic book, video game loving types. Its usually the person who is obsessed with math, science, history, biology, psychics, etc.
i aint reading allat💀
@@Loopdah skill issue 💀
LOL my brother watches that stuff!!!! Anime 😄she looked so happy & proud like she really just connected with someone or said to someone that's super into video games, or books, or whatever "nerdy" hobby some deep fact she knew about the subject surprising & fascinating them with how well she understands it. It was painful watching it man, and I agree all the beautiful girls that are into more "nerdy" things, that's when its heavily sexualized or romanticized & lusted after, and the sad thing is girls like this who openly display it aren't available for relationships for one reason or another. The girls who are genuinely into all this stuff not because guys they know are & they want to be "cool" or "hipster" or one of the bros, and have all their own passion for it away from men entirely, those are the best ones with real compatibility to begin relationships with out of the shared passion.
I believe that being a nerd for men and women is the same thing.
@@fundash5124 hell nah, female nerds almost never get trashed, male nerds have this very bad stereotype that comes with it. An Average guy with a bunch of comic books on his wall will get made fun of but when average girl (or even below) does it it's not even mentioned
When she called Marvel ANIME I wanted to push the button my damn self
🚨
For such a tiny thing?
I would find that kind of situation rather humorous but you do you :D
Kinda sucks, she was the best looking one in the group.
I would’ve found a way to get over it & explain later if she didn’t hit the button on my fat ass if I was him.
There is actual Marvel anime movies if that counts
All that response told me is “this woman lives under a rock.” Like you can have your interests and such, I’m not shocked if someone’s not into Marvel … but to not know what it IS??? To have heard of ANIME, but not be aware enough to know Marvel isn’t it??? I’m flabbergasted. I genuinely wouldn’t know what to say to this woman. That’s like someone saying they’re into keeping tabs on the National Sporting Leagues and the other person saying, “yeah, sorry, I really don’t care for pro wrestling…”
I felt bad for homie honestly. Like, he’s an attractive man, and they kept sending these women knowing full well it’s a mismatch 😂
They knew what they were doing lol
Also, Aba was on some other shit for this video and I loved every single minute of it 😂😂
fr like 9/10 women in this video were way too fat compared to the men
Fr 😭
Your name seems Zimbabwean
@@happyguy2k huh???
This proves dating is so dead. She ignored all the red flags with Nicotine guy just because she was physically attracted to him. Him buzzing her represents modern women in the dating world.
What a good comment JJ, nice.
Men are the same though if not worse. So let’s not blame it all on women now.
Go outside and meet more women. You're judging half of the world based on one stupid person.
@@smilechynwa no it's okay if men do it because it's " biological"
But if you're a woman.......
As a girl that’s a nerd (Marvel, and Anime) I personally have to agree. As much as I love the marvel franchise it has fallen off with the the newer stuff. And when they put out the newer content for Blade I’m gonna pray they do it justice cause Blade will always be one of my favs.
I got bad news for you apparently they messed up so bad the director might quit and the actor didnt approve of what they were trying to do .
No way will Blade be as good..I'm not going to fool myself. Best we will get is Blade 3 quality.
@@MPK112233 Who knows at the end of the day 🤷♂️ hoping it’s a good ass start.
You know they won't though, right? I'm not a nerd, can't stand Marvel movies, but I'm a big fan of Blade and Mahershala Ali - this is Disney, it's gonna get watered down to pander to as broad an audience as possible to bring in the dough. We can assume it's gonna be a PG-13 film too, for the exact same reason.
Anime is real different
The way that mans eyes were darting around like he was watching a fly buzz around says ALL we need to know. He was on another plane ✈️ of existence and shawty dodged a missile 🥴🤣💀
nah shawty wanted that CEO $$$
Yea h that dude looked crazy as fk..something not right about him Mike.
My guy was WIRED. With him talking about Nootropics I'm not surprised.
This is insane… he said it was not good for him to be sober. He acted like he didn’t give a shit at all. He was talking off track and interrupting her. She STILL wanted him.
She didn’t dodge the missile, he stopped the missile lol she was more than happy to take the missile head on
I’ve been a marvel nerd for a long time, both movies and films. I gotta say, being a nerd is only trendy if you’re attractive. Prime examples are Doja Cat and Megan the Stallion. Because they are attractive their nerdy qualities are easy to digest and some people use them as figureheads to rally behind/fetishize. Hell some people watch the movies just to see Chris Evans or Chris Hemsworth shirtless.
Megan the Stallion a nerd😄?
Bro if megan the stallion is a nerd then everyone on earth is.
She’s stated in the past she’s a huge fan of anime and has done costumes of my hero academia.
My thoughts exactly. 💯
Y'all ain't have to scream like that when that girl came in the room 😂😂😂
I'm so happy I'm married because women and men like the last 2 freak me out. She was into that crazy until it got real, and he seemed like he would kill his ex and her man. Everyone watching saw creep in him and saw low self-esteem in her. That was dangerous. And that's what connect like magnets in this world. Thank you, wife, for saving me from the public.
I love your last line.
indeed everytime i think i want to do the relationship thing I see/meet up with 3,5 different crazy chicks that have me changing my mind..
especially when i’m asked if i’m single..
Everytime I think an feel “oh maybe a relationship wouldn’t be so bad” I just listen to a single independent woman speak for a minute or so and I disregard the idea for another few months.
ppl will ask aren’t u lonely..an ill say i prefer freedom..and quiet..ANY sign or redflag I’m gone! besides sooo many women nowadays hate man.. i grew up seeing that kind of hatred, an disgust..so i’ll ✌️ghost a chick quick if i sense any sort of hatred,scorn,distain of guys.. zero tolerance.
I think he just craved nicotine fr
@Khirek I used to smoke for almost 20 years. I never acted like that. Thank God, lol
@@jayclearmen411 👏🏿👏🏿🤣🤣👏🏿👏🏿
The last dude wasn’t even trying, he was a walking red flag and shawty still wanted him. I’m telling you, pretty privilege.
This only works on dumb women and she seems to be one. He pulled some Andrew Tate attitude but couldnt even look her in the eyes...what a sad sight. Someone who tells me he thinks, that its not good to be sober for to long, can walk right off. He has a typical f-boy look and doesnt seem like husband material at all.
@@calistafalcontail u seem to be very judgemental
@@calistafalcontailI noticed the same thing with the lack of eye contact. He was trying to make his voice slower and lower to project a manly vibe but then stared into space and at the ground the whole time. Dude was definitely tweakin lol
7 out of 9 women were body positive, that's why "you're not my type" was the most common answer. Whoever is recruiting these girls really isn't trying, or maybe is also a body positive.
By the way for thise who may not know, "body positive" is the new terminology to say fat chicks if you don't want to get canceled.
Why dont you just say FAT or obese...thats what it is. And I think its either done on purpose, meaning they go for these ones, cause they will create controversy...or they cant find more normal, sane women who want to go on this dumb show.
@@calistafalcontail People like you and I, we're nobody. So we can say fat chicks are fat chicks because it won't cost us anything. But officially, the politically correct way is to call them body positive. Just putting it out there for those who may not know.
@@akumaisreal2090 Nah nah wait, you used that watered down term in a random comment that wont get you in trouble either, even though you could have just been real. You are not putting anything out there and why do you say it like others should follow along? We know it, we just dont want to use this bs. Where I come from, I can for sure still say obese and even if I would be a guy I would still use this word and not "body positive", cause thats the opposite of what this is. We have to stop caring about pc-culture instead of fueling it.
@@akumaisreal2090 exactly why i could never be a CZcamsr/Streamer. I *never* apologize for *anything* unless i feel i'm in the wrong. I absolutely refuse to even if it makes the situation worse. I wouldn't make it with my vocabulary.
You mean fat😅
Been comfortable being a nerd since my 20’s. I never let the labels pin me down. I was a nerd, who played football, wrestled, played football outside at home. I was a nerd who beat up bullies, I was a nerd who threw parties. A nerd who could dance, a nerd who treated women kind. I wasn’t running up numbers 😂I wasn’t trying to either. I called gay for the wildest non-gay shit.
Wife saw my value. Been married for 10+ yrs. Seen and heard about many of the women’s tragic lives who called me corny. I wasn’t the corny one 😂😂😂 .
Also gamers don’t want women that don’t want them back. Many of us have great times and relationships with women who like to game with us 😂😂.
I was heavily bullied in High school and middle school due to my nerd interests like anime, comics, video games, magic the gathering etc and it’s WILD how it’s trendy to be a nerd now. Like the very same people who were jock bullies are now into that sh-t heavy it’s wild
The problem is you probably made it your whole personality and that's the difference today
@@brockrock2359 This to a T.
anime becoming trendy is :( the porn addiction amonst teens will skyrocket with anime plus mainstream anime will continue to be pumped out like marvel movies and less and less quality anime will be made. (already happening we are STILL seeing this with isekais) If you've been in any community online that's primarily anime, you know just as well as i do the sad state these people are in. Most popular anime accounts on instagram, twitter, etc that aren't CZcamsrs (or similar) are 80% lewd accounts.
@@brockrock2359 I like how you assume this despite knowing nothing about it
That’s unfortunate it was the stuff that bridged all type of people in school.
The crazy part is that last girl felt something wasn't right with that dude, but she heard that he had his own business, so she wanted a second date.
Hypergamy always wins 😂
Whatever lie you have to tell yourself. She was already into him, as long as he had a job she likely would have stayed attracted to him. Such a weird comment when nothing indicated that, not even her reaction and comment when he told her that.
@@Hello-qf3fd This is false. Having a business is definitely a huge factor. It's what possibly made her overlook everything else. A pretty face is nice, but easy to get past. Girls like attractive guys, yes, but that doesn't mean they'll stand for their shit either. Plus, a date is pretty innocent, it's not like she was accepting marriage or anything. Low stakes, easy to say yes. Attractive-check, has his own business-therefore possibly financially stable and free to do whatever-check. Her immediate subsequent question was regarding his business, too.
@@catnap7579 nope, it wasn't because of the job... what if she has a better job, he never asked🤷♀🤷♀
Look up "halo effect". People will overlook sh!tty behaviors of attractive people.
Pretty boy: How was it walking into a sorority of women and how did you establish your dominance?
Latina: Omg you're so down to earth
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 like what?
It’s the looks
Couldn't agree more, Aba. I'm 26, and I grew up with comics in my household because my Dad was a comic book nerd growing up, and he briefly owned a comic book store before he had my older sister. I read the Infinity Gauntlet/Infinity War series way, way before anyone in my age range even heard the term 'Infinity Stone.' My Dad gave me a dope Thanos figure back in the early 2000's when I was a kid, and he easily was one of my favorite Marvel villains really early on.
I'm not trying to play the hipster, "uh, I liked it before it was cool" card, but I'm just speaking from the heart. The first couple Marvel movies were solid, but it got really trash, really quick. I remember kids in High School trying to outplay me with Marvel knowledge and it got really fucking annoying. I'm glad they can bring joy to people, but I prefer my 80's and 90's Marvel comics... all day, every day.
I didn't notice how bad they were until I tried to rewatch them.😢
Your thoughts on Aba and Preach's female nerd vs male nerd comment? Have you been stereotyped or mistreated by guys for showing nerdy interest before
It’s funny, I kinda feel the opposite. I tried to go back and read some of the older comics, and let’s just say that I’ll probably be sticking with the movies.
@ANIMEBEAST27 I grew up in a small country town where pretty much no one shared the same interests as me, but I have always been way bigger than my peers, so I was never bullied or mistreated because of my interests. At worst, my crush told me I was weird because I liked superheros.
But yeah, I agree with Aba. There are people everywhere who share interests with other people, but it's not always obvious. You just have to find them. As for whether or not men get mistreated by men for "nerdy" interests. Absolutely. I've seen it. But people mistreat other people for every reason under the sun, so it's definitely best to just be yourself and surround yourself with accepting and caring people.
@alexis dogbo , that's fair. I appreciate the cheesy writing of the 80's and 90's comics, but it's not for everyone. I also just love old school art and coloring. John Byrne is an artistic legend.
That first girl thought? She offended me as an anime fan. But the guy is crazy, you "can't not like marvel"? You know this guy came at people who didn't like the She-Hulk tv show.
Yea the guy was crazy for that tbh.
Bruh... he just said some bs to make himself feel better when he saw she was trying to beat him to the buzzer first. She thought Marvel and anime were the same thing.
Yeah I agree with Preach, being a nerd for a guy and a girl is completely different. Being a nerd is not trendy
I don't think so 🤔.
@@fundash5124 he right.
I disagree, i know girls that got mistreated for being nerdy. It goes both ways
It’s got nothing to do with gender. If you’re not attractive it won’t work. Regardless if you’re a guy or girl.
Amen on that blade reference!
Aba's take on current state of Marvel is BASED
Yep.
Phase 3 is when it ended for me. There’s nothing else for me in phase 4 and especially phase 5
It’s not it’s facts lml marvel movies now are garbage
.. Based on what?
You called?
The last guy has some serious issues. That's not just being nervous or socially awkward.
And he's a prime example of the male version of "pretty privilege".
And she knew he was a weirdo from the start bc when he rejected her she said that was the right choice. But she was going to tolerate it bc he's attractive.
More people need to be aware of the male version of “pretty privilege.” Because I know it adds weight to my theory that attractive men are living a reality similar to women(ie they get validation for existing,get more given to them than they will admit etc)
I have seen where attractive dudes act weak,don’t want to do anything unless someone does it for them,acts like a bytch(which really shocked me and that doesn’t happen often). And they still get respect regardless of what they do
C-Dun who isn't aware of male pretty privilege? Everyone knows about it. The top 20% of men on dating apps get more matches than the bottom 80%.
Nobody likes to say they got so where do to luck everyone likes to think they earned their success.
@@thechosenone93 There is no other version, it's the exact same thing. People like those that are attractive.
@@admaanhason7410 I won’t generalise but the male version is ignored whilst the female one is commonplace. I say “ignored” because the good looking dudes will play down the positive reinforcement from society,and less attractive dudes who praise them also seem to act like it doesn’t exist as well.
Like I said before. He's litterally Patrick Bateman.
I realized that "nerd" culture wasnt popular, the wrong people just started to like it when i saw a cosplay photo of a couple dressed up as Tajiro and Nezuko from Demon slayer while he was holding her waist and she was taking the photo with the mirror reflecting them, and the caption was "his little devil"
And everyone was saying, they clearly didnt watch the show, since you know They're brother and sister and its not that kind of anime
At this point im sceptical about any new anime fan, to the point the go read the manga people have become less annoying to me
damn bruh
Dont take it serious because crosplay was only real as fuck in the 2010's. Nothing real no more.
Bruh you know anime Fandom can be real degenerate. They knew my guy
Skeptical
@@rctecopyright exactly people freaky especially anime fans
Ohhhh when Aba went there with the deep and low tone!! I said Yeeessss instantly! 😂😂😂.
When I saw the pink hair and that jacket ☠️ The button knows damn well with they were doing with this episode 😂😂
That Dr Umar impression though
Nah that shit was incredibly accurate im laughing my ass off 😂
Response was 3 days ago?
Perfect honestly
@@viceverse11 the Glitch...
😂😂😂 that had me cracking up!
As soon as it said “Alfred wants a lot of kids,” it was over. Instigating robot knows what’s up. What a troll move. 😂
The absolute physical relief after "She might be a Joe Rogan fan but she missed the fitness stuff." 💀
Man, Preach hit that straight away with the Andrew Tate reference. That last guy was really letting off some serious 'sigma-male-grindset' psycho vibes.
But he was top alpha in his mind with the aloofness, talk of hierarchy, negging, and having that IDGAF attitude. Dude is likely balls deep into red pill stuff.
@@jzen1455 my point exactly.
that dude was on adderall or some shit
I mean it literally worked for him.
@@crome2021 because he is hot
Aba was stating facts on the current state of Marvel Movies while also giving a shot out to the underrated DC Cartoons!
funny how all the girls are always like "get him the fuck outta there" just out of spite, he just didnt like you, calm down
I got one question: How is every woman rejecting a guy for being a "nerd" any better than every man rejecting a girl for being "not conventionally attractive"?
What is a nerd to you?
I think it's cause all nerds are not the same thing. So you can't just generalise. But if you hate weebs then skip for all I care
they dont match up because you cant change the fact your ugly and you can change what you watch on tv.
The black guy isn't stupid. He know the game. You say what's ur type around ur homies but around everybody it's simple: Someone who bring you peace, adds value and someone you can possibly grow with. Nice going young fella💯
Yeah but you’re not supposed to expose yourself like that, fucked up his own game 😂
LATINASS
@@RichardmpayiTnway He actually didn't because he told her the right answer. The "button" used his honesty against him when during the conversation with the latina.
To be fair that is the buttons fault entirely. He would of just said the line about "a girl that knows what she wants" if it asked his type without bringing it up
He literally said his latinas. What are you talking about?
The awkward silence followed by preach whispering 👀 "Do it" to aba had me dying 😂😂😂😂 11:22
Preech’s SQUEEL when they brought out the cosplay girl is killing me 😭😭😭
Aba had me weak when he looked in to the camera and pointed as he says "I see you and I see them shackles" 😂
I was a girl nerd in the 80’s 😅 I loved everything about computers and went into computer science, where there was no girls lol. My parents wouldn’t get us an Atari, but they bought us a radio shack trs-80, so I programmed my own games in Basic and begged to go to computer camp at age 13. 🤓 Being a nerd in the 80’s was frigging awesome, especially when the movie Revenge of the Nerds came out. I had a glow-up at age 16 and became a cute nerd 😭 life was gooooddd I miss those years
my hero❤
Slay
Makes me think of one of my fav movies as a kid: Weird Science! Such a classic. Doesn’t really connect to your story but the girl they created was hot and it was a nerdy movie. Lol
Of course being a girl nerd in the 80s was awesome, you had access to numerous male nerds whom most other women overlooked. Nerds are now sought after and the competition for them is fiercer especially the finally well-off nerds and nerds who are obsessed with mainstream nerd stuff.
We had Coleco 😅
As much as the last guy was weird, this last woman is insecure. She hovered over the button the entire time. She's afraid of rejection and not confident enough in herself to just accept that other people wouldn't like her.
Yall are a vibe. Thanks for making the session that much better. I'm by myself.
12:38 mugshot cheeseeeee 🧀
When the guy is genuinely not matching with any of the women he might go on a buzzing spree but not for petty reasons yet the girls find him to be an asshole. Then in the back rooms all the women just scream "GET HIM OUT" and when they go out instead of giving him a chance (cause he genuinely could be a suited match) their fixation is on getting him out cause all the other girls said he was an asshole (and the girl never finds out that he isn't for herself cause she gets egged on by the other women).
It shows you how vindictive and tribal women can be. Once one woman label's a guy a "creep" for the flimsiest reasons like merely getting rejected by the guy or getting hit by an ugly guy, she gets other women to gang up on the guy instead of coming to their own conclusions. Guys are more likely to filter out such biased BS (not aren't completely immune) and come to their own conclusions about slandered women.
The men have done the same in pther episodes.
I mean true and it goes hands in hands with their single friend keep them single
Crabs in a bucket
@@bestreviewouthere6438 Why do y’all speak of being single like it’s a bad thing? I mean 52% of all marriages end in divorce and the # 2 reason is due infidelity so these marriages can’t be that great!
I always felt like word "nerd " wasn't created by so call "nerds" ; it was a descriptive term that the popular and @$$ hole kids used to shame anyone who wasn't trying to fit in with the In crowd and had their own hobbies. This new definition of "nerd has been hijacked by the mainstream for clout purposes.
damn
It's like calling indians indians when they never called themselves indians
@@OpticProPredator21 thats literally different
Girl you gonna have to slim down to cosplay that character 😂
The cleavage made it worse. im not sure how but it did.
People who show up in cosplay to date are a huge NOPE anyway. I mean if they go to places where cosplayers date...sure....but this chick is delusional.
@@RedRag684 the cleavage is nice cause you see it popping out if your stomach is popping out already boobs ain’t got the same impact
Ava’s 1 minute rant on race at 5:36 caused me to choke on my cereal lol
I Appreciate Aba saying “garbagio” it’s been my favorite word for years
The guy last guy saying it's a bad idea to be sober for too long is definitely high, THAT right there was a red flag not to mention the crazy eyes 😂
And she still went along with it lol I think she’s more insane lol😂
Completely ignore that part like it was commonplace the think that
For real! Especially with the eyes. Idk if he's on the spectrum or was a late bloomer and developed social skills much later in life. The only time he looked at her was when he finished what he said 🥴 Bro who are you talking to? But when the buzzer spoke he was able to maintain eye contact... With an inanimate object... Odd behaviour in any case
As a foreigner, if the interactions that happens in those types of videos are actually what happens in real life, damn... Must be really sad looking for a partner in the U.S
This artificial strange button pressing contest isn’t how convos naturally happen in the US. The button adds a completely different element to speed dating which makes it more about who will reject as many people as possible to boost their ego, vs actually attempting to find a partner
It's what happens in real life now that women have dick on demand with app likes Tinder or OkCupid. Once the dude displays one minor thing they dislike, they can discard and move on to the next cock.
They want drama in those Shows. Otherwise nobody would watch it.
This isn't how it's like at all. This show is very far off from RL.
Wait @@basharalbutseggs8056, you guys don't use the button when flirting? Weird-ass culture
AYO BLADE LETS GO
When Preach buss out laughing like that, I can't help but laugh. It's infectious!
He would be a great friend to have around to keep the vibe right
My respect for Aba went up when he explained his take on old Marvel/current Marvel. Also, I wonder if Postmodern Jukebox will ever perform a Guns N Roses song reggae-style now.
I'd let it slide that she's never seen Marvel, but calling it anime... I couldn't keep a straight face getting to the button!
Aba was having way too much fun this episode 😂
God my sides still hurt lmao
Love it when both of you laugh hysterically. It's very infectious lmao. 🤣
One of the many reasons why I love this channel
Preach is so authentic and giving, most of the time he acts tuff but when he breaks is hilarious 😂😂
he's both--a lover and a fighter
How is he "giving"?
Sooooo, in my experience its cool to be nerdy but, not a nerd. It always depends on whom you're talking to. In general (from a guy perspective) women love men that have hobbies they are passionate about but, can also be kind of out going as well, and of course, have something going for you (ambition), don't be a terrible person, and also be funny-ish.
Outgoing...ambition...those are women's code words for spending money, going to clubs bars and shopping, (aka outgoing) and plans to make money(ambition)
@@azaravalerie9832 who Hurt you
@@danitza6712 classic. Nice argument btw
@@azaravalerie9832 mi argumento sería el mismo del comentario original, a nadie le importan tanto tus intereses si tienes habilidades sociales y más o menos sabes lo que quieres de la vida ( dependiendo de tu edad) lo que es bastante básico para cualquier adulto funcional. Pero tu respondes con un esteriotipo limitado de "como son las mujeres", por ende mi respuesta es de "quien te hizo tanto daño" para que pensaras que todas las mujeres son así, no conozco ninguna mujer así, de la misma forma que he conocido muy pocos hombres que cumplen con el estereotipo de hombre abusador. Pero me dio flojera usar el traductor así que "who Hurt you" es una mejor frase para decir que mi realidad no se hacerca a la tuya y deberías reflexionar en tus relaciones 🤷♀️
6:55 i busted out hysterically about the cosplay chick, but this was probably Preach's best laugh that had me more ded af 💀💀💀💀
I enjoyed this from start to end and I was rolling with laughter. Aba is just a natural troll and I can't say I don't love it dude doesn't miss. 😂😂
I screamed with them when that chick came out in the cosplay outfit 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣