My father did not play a major role in my life as I started getting older, but I will never forget how kind and logical he was. He would sit me down, talk to me, let me speak, and just tell me why my behavior was unacceptable. My father truly made me feel like an actual person, that I was important. Now living with my mother and step-father, the beatings and emotional abuse was rampant and could happen over the smallest issues, by the time I moved out with my first girlfriend, I would have panic attacks in the middle of the night because the house was so quiet, and everything was peaceful. I was so accustomed to screaming and fighting and arguing that it took me months to acclimate to a calm and normal setting. I don’t know how I got through it, and I’m still a little fucked up in general I suppose, but I will never forget how my father treated me.
You get those sort of parents who were smacked/hit as a child say "well I was smacked as a kid and I turned out all right" .I think no you didn't you turned out to be someone who's just as dysfunctional who's repeating the same abusive behaviour as your parents. If its not ok to hit your wife then it's not ok to hit your kids.
People who experience trauma, especially as a kid, they laugh at it because they dont know how else to feel. when something that traumatized you comes up in casual conversation theres a numbness but as a comedian he cant show that, so he does what he does best ans trys to make people laugh
Jonathan Brooks dude walked in on his mother dead on the floor while he was high on lsd at 13 and his father died while he was super young as well. That’s the most traumatic thing a kid could go through.
Jonathan Brooks Joey has some extreme antisocial tendencies from all the damn stories I’ve heard from him... This mf is crazyyyy no cap but a funny and interesting individual
@@jonathanbrooks9768 That's not how people typically cope with trauma of this nature. Studies have shown that abuse and violence experienced as a child has had the same effect as combat on veterans. I don't see many veterans laughing because "they don't know how" to cope. It's not about coping. It's about the fact that people like he or I see the differences in how people raise kids and think about what our parents would do to some of them today. You could imagine the looks on their faces and it's really quite comical to think about as an adult.
@@sammiches6859 dont tell me how people "typically cope with trauma" im speaking from my experience and the people around me who went thru trauma that make jokes about thing they dont know how to talk about. and probably because veterans had a support system, their squad and their families are there for them kids in homes with abusive parents rely entirely on themselves.
I used to get beat like a red headed step child for just about anything. It didn't stop me from getting in trouble, and if anything made it worse. I was a hell raiser, and my high school years were a blur of fighting, partying, and getting in trouble with the law. I have never hit my children. I talk to them, use positive reinforcement, and alternative punishment like time out, loss of privileges, extra chores, etc. My kids are all well behaved, respectful, and do well in school. Don't hit your kids people.
Nah there’s a difference between what you went through which was abuse and hitting a kid. I was hit but only when I did stupid shit but then those hits taught me not to keep fucking around. The love my parents gave me outweighed the punishment I got from them
Thank god you didn’t repeat the cycle. My mother was abused and she abused me. I forgave her because she was a young mom repeating what her mom did. Thank god for people like you❤
Joey: “That kid was the devil.” Joe: “He was probably the devil because his dad beat him.” I feel like that statement isn’t given enough time to breathe in this conversation. Kids need discipline, but kids who get beat and abused are just so much more likely to become problems for society and the rest of us when they get older. Its a fucked up reality.
My mom always tell me about a story about one dad was always nice to his kids. They were really religios so the dad never beat them up. But now the kids are older and 3 of them use drugs.
I’m currently a psych major (disclaimer bc im not claiming to be an expert). We were studying the effects of disciplining a child by spanking and hitting. Children who are spanked or hit as a form of discipline, are on average, significantly more aggressive than children who were not, and lack the necessary communication skills to maintain endearing, prosocial relationships and perspectives. Because little to no communication occurs between the parent and the child in these moments, children are often not specifically told what they did wrong and why it is wrong, but they take note to the methods at which the parent got them to stop an unwanted behavior or carry out a punishment. These children go on to view aggression as a tool, and go on to be abusive towards their peers, friends, etc. I was hit a lot by both my mother and father as a child, but best believe that when I have my own child, I will never lay my hands on them or allow anyone else to.
I was in 4th grade in 84. There was a divorced father with two sons that lived across the street from me. They were a year and 2 years younger than me. They had all the cool toys n shit so I hung out with them every summer. Their dad was a vet from Vietnam and for the most part he was a cool guy. He would tell us viet nam stories and take us riding 4 wheelers and everything. I remember one day I was over there and all three of them were working on a fence. The older boy is ignoring his dad and he yells at his son to come here. He says no. His dad takes his belt off and goes to town on this kid. Hes screaming and yelling and the kid just bolts into the house ballin. Im standing there with his younger brother and his dad turns and looks at him and goes, COME HERE! Dude goes, no daddy what did I do. To tell you the truth, the kid did nothing to upset his dad. His dad just wanted to finish beatin someone after the first kid ran in the house. So his dad walks toward him with the belt and this kid just takes off around the house and hauls ass down the street. His dad had to have been at least 38, chain smoked 3 packs a day.....catches this kid about 3 houses down and goes to town on his ass with the belt in someones yard. I run back home across the street and just watch it all unfold. It was nuts.
I'd rather have no father than the one I got. This arsehole was only ever there to hit me or make me work. And if some bitch ever used me as a threat against my kids, she would get one warning that it would never happen again. The next time my kids would be saying "Wait till my daddy gets home." Solve your own problems you cow.
I was mentally and physically abused until I was an adult by my parents. This one hit home especially when Joey talked about the kid with the glass is getting in trouble in school and his dad hitting him like that right there in school.
Man, we had like the same Dad. A kid started a fight with me at school and I wound up beating him up. But when security broke us up they only saw the part where I was “winning”. Well, my prize was getting the shit kicked out of me when my dad got home. I know what’s about to happen, I wanted to hide but felt like that’s gonna make things worse for me. He came in with the death glare stomping my way. As I opened my mouth to try to say my side. He clotheslined me onto the expensive coffee table he had bought. It broke, he took a leg of it and beat me all over and all I could do was cover up. He made me pick the pieces up. As I tried to say I was sorry he then front kicked me in the chest with steel toed boots on and I almost got impaled but a splintered leg that was upright. It paved the way for me to wind up bullied by older kids on my bus, I got skipped two grades after taking the state tests we’d all do as kids. The older boys hated that the girls they liked were interested in talking to me because I was this little kid in their class. So instead of having any confidence I just feared standing up for myself. That is, until I choked my father out when he punched me in the jaw at 14. I cried because I hated the idea that I hurt my father. Childhood fucking sucked but let’s do better than they did. For the sake of future children, right?
I can relate to this so well....Myself, my brother, and one of my best friends were beat up by another kid's dad for having an agreed upon snowball fight. He went running home to his dad and his dad came back and chased us down individually, dragged us in the snow and smacked the shit outta us. I remember dude looked like Hulk Hogan to us as kids....I couldn't move in sheer fear like a dream watching it happen to my brother and best friend.....and when he got to me I pissed myself when I was being held & slapped open handed in the head, face, and body by a 40+ year old big man. I was 8, just before xmas 1990. My mom(single parent)didnt press charges in fear.... but I do remember going to the police station and them taking photos of the bruises. I want to see him now that I'm 40 and have an 8 year old son.....
Hunter the pigeon we could quote the Bible but let’s not do that.. there’s a difference between discipline and abuse. If you cross that line there is Severe repercussions.
@@Milk88488 Hitting without warning is abuse. When they know the consequences and are given fair verbal warnings, beating is not abuse. It's the most immediate and universal way to put a voice in the back of a child's mind to consider their actions. Not every child has the competence to reason with words by the time their personality is formed by age 4-5. My parents didn't hit me out of spite. They made it clear it wasn't about their being mad. It was about facing consequences. The very first lesson a child should learn.
It's about being firm. It's like a handshake. When you shake someone's hand you don't want to be a pussy and have it be weak. At the same time you don't want to be an asshole and crush the hand.
I was severely physically abused until I was 12 my face was beaten to a bloody pulp at just little over a year old for drooling on the floor by my dad. Now I have alot of troubles with my nose because it was broken several times by my dad before I was even old enough to walk and sad part is I remember it even tho I was so young. My dad took me to Georgia at 4 and he would basically torture me and starve me sometimes he had people put on mask and scare me even had them drag me out of the house into the woods in middle of the night one time just to scare me for fun. was living there until I was about 5yr old then came back to home state and my grandparents got me but my dad still got visitation by law were I had to stay at his house a couple weeks each month abuse went on everytime but state wouldn't take his visitations away. Then when I was 12 my grandparents got full custody because on Christmas my dad kicked me in the stomach so hard I had internal bleeding that was what it took for my grandparents to stop the states forced visitation things were I had to stay with him. I now suffer from sever anxiety issues PTSD and alot of mental health issues. Have anxiety attacks from public spaces being around people I don't know cant function in a job because I've been fired within a day of every job I've ever had due to my sever anxiety attacks. I'm diagnosed with PTSD and a few other mental health problems but still can't qualify for disibilty even tho I have family who are on it just for having ADHD and I have that and much more.. I'm trying my best but I'm so mentally fkd I don't think I can repair myself into working order tried meds hasn't helped tried therepy if anything made my anxiety issues much worse..
I’m so sorry, I wish I could help in some way. Most people don’t want to hurt you. There are lots of stupid people in the world but most of them are kind and don’t wish any harm on you. Have you looked into jobs around nature? Ecology work and things like that can be really wonderful and it doesn’t involve being around lots of other people, instead getting to enjoy nature and feel connected to the world
My friend, I hope you are doing well. I understand that resources may be heavily limited but I can advice something free. Mindfulness. Do it everyday and over time you will change the way your brain is wired. It will give you the ability to live a more normal life. There are plenty of books and apps about the topic
I was hit alot growing up. And half the time it was way too extreme. One time when i was 6 years old. My adopted dad tossed me through the air because i didn't take my meds. I take meds because im disabled. My brother also had part in mentally and physically beating me. My folks and brother ask why i barley spend time with them these days as an adult. Its because of the trauma they caused me. I was molested at age 11 by a cousin. I was beaten. bullied. I even lost my birth parents and i raised by my abusive adopted parents. I went through the worst things a child could go through. And somehow God saved me from hitting the ground after i fell. I never became a criminal and I live on my own. Moral of this. If you're a parent, don't beat or assault your kids, because if you do, they'll not want to be around you and their lives may debate whether they'll turn out bad or good. Ill never hit my kids. If they do something wrong. I aint gonna go to the extent of physical violence. Ill sit and talk with them on whats right and whats wrong. Explain to them what the consequences will be on what bad things they do.
A "spanking" and a "beating" are two completely different things. If I wasn't spanked as a child, I'd probably be in prison right now. If I was beaten as a child, I'd probably be in prison right now. See the difference?
Baggin Brooks I got spanked, my brother got beat! Neither one us has been to prison! And he’s more successful then I am! Everyone handles these types of situations differently!
Following that logic. you would have been better off being beat because not only would it have kept you out of prison, but being beat would have made you an upstanding citizen. Or being spanked as a kid actually made you the deviant you were and it was just luck that you stayed out of prison. Either way, it's not me that needs to see the difference. It's the kid being hit and if they're being hit because they cannot be rationalized with, they likely also don't understand the difference between spanking and beating. Understand?
@@scalp340 However, if they can't be rationalized with by verbal communication. Perhaps a spanking is the best way to communicate that something maybe bad or potentally dangerous. Nobody likes getting spankings as kids no matter how small or unintelligent they are, they will try to avoid it. There are times when spankings can have a good impact (maybe not at the time) on a child and potentially save their life. Examples: 1. Your child keeps jumping around and playing at bedtime. This is not a good time to spank your child. Solution: Perhaps read them a book? 2. Your child goes to stick a metal spring from one of his toys into an outlet. You've warned him of this 4 times before that it is dangerous and could make it so he would never see mommy or daddy again. He does not understand the concept of death so he keeps doing it. Solution: Spank the child on the bottom, with bass in your voice say "no". The child will now associate the outlet as a very bad thing and will now stay away from it. Congradulations to you as well for having just saved your childs life from any further actions he may take with the outlet. He now understands the outlet is very bad.
I remember one of dad's friends brought his kids over who only wanted to start a conflict with me in my bedroom as a kid. And I remember this kid's dad coming into my room and invading my space as well as his kid was, and grabbed me by the hair and told me not to bully his kid. It took 95% of me to try to hold back from punching him right in the nuts and I was only seven and this dude 10 times my size that had a hold of my head. I explained to my parents within the next 10 minutes what had actually happened and problem solved, never had to deal with them again. As far as I remember they left peacefully without a shitstorm but it was definitely on the table, my parents were not going to put up with that. Number two, I had my kid kept away from me for years and beaten by his mother's boyfriend. I regained contact through State Police visits and Welfare checks and I won full custody of my twelve-year-old in court, along with several restraining orders, I represented myself and my son without a lawyer. The way I see it I owe It 2 this world to be responsible with my offspring. Fight the good fight and mean to win. Settle for nothing less.
I'll never understand how someone could come to the conclusion that even in the moment; it's okay to hit another person's kid. If one of my kids told me someone laid their hand's on them I'm going to earn that trip to jail.
But what if your kid hits someone else's kid, unprovoked, and the parent is furious enough that she/he slaps your kid in turn? Because that shit actually happened to me. I was 6 years old at that time (I'm a woman) and a boy in my class cornered me in an empty corridor during after-school hours and punched me straight in the stomach. I couldn't stand up or breathe for a few seconds and he ran off smirking. I told my mum and she came to school the next day and slapped him and told him NEVER to do that shit to me or anyone EVER again.
@@aytanitamamasita No dummy. A Spanking is very different from a beating. Spanking a child on the butt as a means of correction and discipline is very different from beating a child. Plus the spanking is last resort. It results from a child or teen blatantly disrespecting the parent or doing stuff they were told not to do.
I got messed up growing up with both physical and mental abuse from my father and I don't be anything like that toward my kid. You don't have to hit kids, for you can form positivity with positivity! Which also should be the next big topic for people to learn. People never quite understood babies and children, and they still dont.
As a kid, Joey got the living shit beat out of him by his mother on a regular basis. As an adult, he got addicted to drugs and led a life of crime. How he managed to survive such a dysfunctional life and come out the other side intact is nothing short of a miracle.
Yeah my brother and I used to get beat all the time for breaking the smallest of rules. All it did was make my brother and I hate rules and get really good at not getting caught. Our parents also never used to by basic needs. Food, shoes, school supplies. So I started doing home invasions and my brother sold drugs. Thank god we never got caught. My fucking parents were idiots.
My first fat lip, broken nose and cracked rib were gifts of dear ol' dad. I thought one day he would kill me. I lived in perpetual fear. One day I heard my mother getting him going. I knew he was coming and I thought this was going to be the day he kills me. I was so afraid I was shaking uncontrollably. I heard him stomping towards the stairs and I panicked. I ended up jumping out of a second floor window. I was 11yo. I didnt see him again until the cops brought me, unwillingly to his house. That was the first time I saw a man shot to death. And it wouldnt be the last. I remember the cops explaining to him what I had seen. I heard him tell the cops to "get him the fuck out of here. I dont care where you bring him, just get him the fuck out of here". For the next 20-25 years I struggled with life. Ive never had a positive role model. There were only drug dealers and the criminally minded. Today im a 48yo ex drug dealer, alcoholic and addict. I struggle with living in a world that most of you take for granted. I dont know how to do the simplest of normal life things. Even making a friend is something I struggle to do. My life changed a few years after my sons were born. Twins. Ive never hit them. Both are smart kids and good students. They seem happy and I know we are close. I spend as much time with them as I can. Id surely be dead or in jail had they not come into my life. I owe them a better life than I had and my only goal it to make them better than me. They are my air.
nonya bizzness I feel you, and I hope the best for you and your family. I’ve had similar issues but I ain’t even 20 yet. Just trying to figure out who I am now
When I was 11 years old I got slapped around the kitchen by my dad for making myself a sandwich without asking first. I've never forgotten that and the stupid reason he punished me.
They "don't remember" is a bunch of bull$#!t - they're just making excuses and not taking responsibility for their actions, those are the worst people...
That was my life, father was a Jekyl and Hyde drunk and half the time couldn’t even remember beating the shit out of me. He would even ask where marks came from that HE left on me. My mom wasn’t much better she’d use religion to justify abusing me. Don’t beat your kids, check them once in a while, needs to happen. But there’s an art to discipline and it’s certainly not beating your kids near to death.
Friend (m) was abused by his dad. Me, him and a group of friends started to work out when we were 14. When we didn't know what to do in the gym we did a bit of boxing. Like a year later he did bad on one exam... His father went to beat him up but he didn't know he was 2x stronger than before and the dad ended up with a broken nose and lost 4 teeth. Police was called and friend was about to be arrested but my boy took a photo of his every bruise and wrote up the date. Dad is now in prison for domestic violence.
This just shows the real lesson you teach your kids when you beat them. That your power and their respect for you only lasts as long as they're weaker than you. Also good on your friend defending himself in that situation.
I feel that when raising a kid, its important to learn which methods and approaches of parenting have positive impact on your childs growth, if you have a child that thrives from a little tough love then one of the parents gotta give a little bit of that, now tough love doesn't mean beating. Same way another kid could grow from a boost to confidence, having a parent that is always in their corner and there to let em know it's okay. A lot of time it's a bit of both, and you have to distinguish when is the time to be a good cop or bad cop. But the most important thing aside from obviously not being a douche bag parent is being there for your kids whether you are there to be tough on them or show them support. You cant have a kid and just decide "I'm gonna be a super strict parent or im gonna give my kids everything I never got" to some degree that may be needed, but at the end of the day, you gotta study your kids, be with them and realize what methods of parenting work best and at what times, as a parent you must learn from experience and adapt your parenting to suit the needs of your kid's growth, because at the end its about them being the best versions of themselves as adults, not about how you want to raise them.
I got my ass whooped and was a demon child. With my kids, I'm strict-ish, but I could never hit them. My kids are little angels and both me and my wife were "problem children". I definitely believe hitting your kids just makes them rebel more. My kids actually come up and tell me if they did something they thought was wrong instead of covering shit up out of fear like I did as a kid.
Man this guy story telling is so crazy and vivid. He makes you feel like you was there. Ex addicts have the best stories man. I got an Uncle Richie who smoked crack back than funniest man I know. Love you Joey you the Goat.
Man I have struggled with abuse from my dad as a 13-15 year old. I felt like he doesn't do much to now because I have grown bigger and stronger. He tried forcing some beliefs in me and was a narcissist the entire time. Dude changed randomly one day after I turned 16 and acts like that makes up for the shit he did that made up my fucked up personality. I am coping with shit about myself at the root ik the abuse has killed a lot of good in me. finding all those pieces back has been my goal for the past three months. I pray for anyone undergoing any kind of abuse as a young kid. It's not okay it did make me who I am today but it came at a cost of my mental fortitude.
It's worse when they try to change their tune with being Christians and thinking that being Jeebus people will make up for a destructive childhood. And even going as far as to believe that just because they're "saved", that their old sins are somehow okay even at the expense of you being subject to the abuse. Yeah prayer isn't gonna help with the anxiety and trust issues. Got abuse from both parents growing up, and although they're still my parents, that closeness is forever ruined. That will not happen with my kids.
My father was adopted and beaten his whole life. I was never beaten and it was because he knew the fear it caused and he knew it didn't work and he wanted to be a better father than the one who adopted him. Very protective of us and he was a tough MF. He wasn't the best father in the world, but he was damn close. He only ever grabbed me once like he was going to hit me and it ended pretty quick because he saw that he lost control and felt terrible about it for months after that. After reading some of these comments, I know I was blessed to have him. I miss him a lot.
@@tommycastro9424 Yeah, I have a lot of respect for people who are able to break the cycle of abuse. I know from personal experience that it's really damn hard.
I got the shit beat out of me and I turned out okay. But then again my wife has never been beat in her life and she turned out okay too. I’ll never beat my kids. You can raise a good human being with out beating them.
Samuelu Johnston Funny, I also got the shit beat out of me but will never beat my kids because I know can raise them without putting them through the same thing.
It's the truth and nobody wants to hear it. And people say that they turned out fine. It becomes painfully obvious when one begins to have an understanding to these things
@L H It's not about whether or not someone can handle it, it just doesn't have the effect you want it to have. There are better and more effective approaches when it comes to dealing with unruly children.
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Whenever I think about the beatings and mental abuse I used to get of my parents, it makes me wanna move out an never see them again. Yes they fed an clothed me (like any parent should) but it’s not enough to cover up the traumas they’ve left me with. Only when I started martial arts (Tkd) was I able to cope with my past.
When I was 18 my Dad took me aside and asked me how many times did he hit me growing up? It took only a second to answer NEVER. He then told me that's an important lesson: DONT LET ANYONE HIT YOU !! My dad is no joke. athletic, tough as nails, raised in Spanish Harlem NY . product of immigrants etc etc AND to this day . I thank him for that lesson
Diamond Bourne I come from a country where children were beaten by parents and teachers. I guess even know they do still do it but majority of the children I grew up with ended up rebelling in their teen years. So really beating doesn’t do much.
The thing a lot of parents fail to understand is if u beat your child because your trying to mold them into being a top athlete, your only making them despise the sport even more.
Yah plus if you make that his whole life and nothing else. Say Pistol Pete never made it in the NBA but still had that childhood. He would’ve been completely broken because his childhood and all the hardships were for nothing.
I used to get hit a lot. Granted I was a bad kid. but I never knew how much damage my parents really did to me until I was about 19-20. I was let down. Wont happen to my kids.
My dad beat me down a few times and broke my nose a couple times. I was an angry kid and dealt with things with violence until I understood what I was doing. Now my son is 20 and I never hit or spanked him. He is an awesome person and is not angry.
Ryan Adam how would he remember these street numbers and shit if he’s just lying😂that shit doesnt just add up, have u heard him call people on his podcast and shit about his stories?🤦♂️
for those that know, what goes on behind closed doors whether its your biological parents or not, cowards dont show an ounce of sympathy to kids when they beat them and i know how abusive it can, more stories like this needs be shared so the good people can keep an eye on the kids that actually need help from such hostile parents so we can save them, a little or a lot of discipline can do wonders for the little devils but when it turns into abuse, thats when only outside help can point the finger at the scum that beat children for whatever pathetic reason
@@Rollingace You probably have an effective conscience. Action/consequence is what makes people sharp and behaved. A well communicated and drawn physical punishment makes sense. All these people are just labelling it as senseless "violence", like the kid does something wrong and just gets smacked in the face instantly. Whereas my parents gave me warnings verbally and with gestures. If I didn't listen, they didn't hit me immediately or angrily. It was "come here" in a flat tone with a scold. Then my mom would use whatever was within reach and hit me 3 times. Am I volent person? No. Am I afraid to fight? No. Do I think about actions/consequences constantly? Yes.
Adults are supposed to be the examples for children. Children can grow up to become monsters because the people they were supposed to rely on were monsters. There are more ways to teach children better behavior than getting physical.
I'm late for a reply but I just wanted to say that joey most likely wouldn't of laughed if Joe didn't make it funny, I'm pretty sure a good amount of people at least chuckled when he made that face and noise, he even chuckled a bit
I have ptsd from being abused physically, emotionally and verbally, so I will do my part in never physically disciplining my kids, I don’t ant them to fear me
Pistole Pete one of the greatest to lace them up, but sadly that story about his very very abusive father is true. Turned the dude into a basketball machine, but that abuse came back in the form of booze. Shit is sad man.
My father NEVER hurt me… ever. My mother smacked me once and i deserved that. Raising my children without physical discipline is sometimes challenging but makes me appreciate my parents so much more and reminds me that theres always a better way.
As a son of a foreign dad when I was younger I got beat pretty bad but not abuse. It made me respect and not disrespect my dad and as I got older I understood why and we are closer then ever
Yeah I’m proud to say I’m edgy and I have more than 6 fucking holes in my wall idc anymore one day I might just burn the house down after all you need to revolt right?
My ex used to say that and she was literally psychopath incapable of expressing herself without violence lol. She was determined to hit her eventual kids as well, i told her i wouldn't have kids with someone who hits them.
My two brothers and I lost our parents around 12 years of age. They never wanted us living with our mother’s family because they were horrible people. They sold drugs and lived in filth, no food for their kids. Our father called his family and his brother our uncle agreed to take us if anything happened . Well when they passed we called up father’s uncle and he told us he couldn’t take us. A friends family from our elementary school was nice to take us in until the state came to take us to foster homes. We were told if the state took us kids that we would be split up and adopted by different families. My brothers and I did not want that. We ended up going to live with our mothers family. They only took us because they knew we would each have monthly social security death survivors checks coming in each month. We lived in filth and were verbally and physically abused and never ate unless it was at school. They lived the high life buying alcohol and drugs and eating like kings at jack in the box every night without getting anything for us kids. The beginning of every month our checks would come in the mail. They would sneak out of the house like we didn’t know and go eat at ihop with our money and go on spending sprees without buying anything for us kids. If you care about your children you will have a plan in place if something were to happen to you. Don’t let what happened to my brothers and I happen to your children!
Your story was one of few that has ever touched me. I'm also a foster child. I just wanted to say thank u for sharing this. I pray that you are doing great in life. 🙏 ❤
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Some people don’t deserve to have kids. I know this sounds stupid but makes me think licenses to raise children won’t be a bad idea.
You can train and discipline animals without violence, why would you use violence to discipline an intelligent human being? Parents who use violence with their kids are just plain stupid and shouldn’t be allowed to have them, Is it too difficult to make a child differentiate between what’s wrong and what’s not? Is it difficult to talk to them to make them understand?
james coburn every child is different and disciplinary measure vary from child to child. I do believe in spanking but it’s a last resort as far as discipline measure.
As someone who was abused physically and mentally growing up, I can tell without a doubt that straight up abuse is not gonna make ur child any better, it’s not gonna make ur child hard, it’s gonna trap them and make them feel weaker bc if they really do love you they won’t try to hurt u back, and in the end they’ll just feel trapped in this cycle of abuse. If you really wanna make ur kid hard, teach him, love him, expose him to difficult tasks and give him the drive and reason to overcome those task. That is what’ll make ur kid strong, not abuse.
I had an experience at my job where my boss saw me working and didn’t like what he saw. He told me that I wasn’t cut out for that type of work ( tree climbing work). I was hurt and devastated when he told me that, so I used the doubt he had put on me and worked my ass off and now I’m a top climber in my industry. I hated him in the moment but I respect him for not sugarcoating anything. It’s a weird appreciation because your not supposed to thank those who put you down, but I guess sometimes those people can be the biggest motivation.
Not really the same thing though. You think you’d have ended up even better if your boss had beaten you? I mean, I guess you might have cause you could’ve sued him…
Joe: “I was maybe hit once by my grandmother”
Joey: “By the time I was born, I was already shot 22 times and burned by my ma”
Harrison's Playground hahahaha holy fack 🤣🤣
Joey was born with an 8ball of coke halfway up his nose
@@MrBluman999 mustve had a big fucking nose then
Harrison's Playground cracked**
damm
joey diaz always looks like hes a minute away from having a severe heart attack
TigerJesse Okwulehie he sounds like it too 😂
That’s because he IS always a minute away from having a severe heart attack haha
@@MusicPlayer10497 I have a feeling this won't age well lmao
I hope not. If cry
He looks like he's in the Italian mafia.
Joe: "There's some evil people out there that will hit little kids"
Joey: *laughing uncontrollably, struggling to breathe*
🤣
My favorite part of the video
I always come back to this clip because it captured that moment in the podcast 😂 literally my favorite Joey Diaz moment on his podcast
Ygeee ygeee
Was cracking up about to comment on the same thing when I saw this. Hilarious!
Why does Joey just laugh during the most traumatic stories 😂
Seeing humor is a coping mechanism imo
It’s also the face and weird noise joe made
It brings back memories for him I'm guessing. It normalizes the crazy shit hes lived through.
9:47 was cringe worthy. Who the fuck laughs at that shit? I was disappointed that Joe didn't say "WTF ARE YOU LAUGHING AT, DICKHEAD???"!
@@tensaikingX literally and then Joe does that looking to his right thing
Joey Diaz is a living Scorsese character
Hes a real og, dont have anything bad to say about him.
The man speaks as if he had rehearsed each anecdote prior to being on. He’s a very good storyteller, notwithstanding the content of what he’s saying.
Wrong,he’s Cuban,not Italian
@@jacobrod976, he could still pass for an Italian.
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Joe "Maybe my grandmother cracked me once" Rogan
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My father did not play a major role in my life as I started getting older, but I will never forget how kind and logical he was. He would sit me down, talk to me, let me speak, and just tell me why my behavior was unacceptable. My father truly made me feel like an actual person, that I was important. Now living with my mother and step-father, the beatings and emotional abuse was rampant and could happen over the smallest issues, by the time I moved out with my first girlfriend, I would have panic attacks in the middle of the night because the house was so quiet, and everything was peaceful. I was so accustomed to screaming and fighting and arguing that it took me months to acclimate to a calm and normal setting. I don’t know how I got through it, and I’m still a little fucked up in general I suppose, but I will never forget how my father treated me.
Did you take revenge on your stepfather?
@@rejectionistmanifesto8836revenge is not the jedi way
@@mr.0318 at the same time its understandable
Damn my man lived in the no country for Old Men and survived
I hope you're doing well
You get those sort of parents who were smacked/hit as a child say "well I was smacked as a kid and I turned out all right" .I think no you didn't you turned out to be someone who's just as dysfunctional who's repeating the same abusive behaviour as your parents. If its not ok to hit your wife then it's not ok to hit your kids.
Exactly. People be like yea I got smacked and turned out fine and then be the type of person to abuse kids. Dark shit man
I love how when Joeys telling a story he just starts naming streets and shit like everyone knows exactly where he’s talking ab 😂
Its actually common with people from that area
@Prince Ali wtaf I read that word for word as I heard it woah
Londoners are the same. Lol
it’s the same as when suburban ppl mention someone by 1st and last name
@@hendrix2478 Do we? We usually say if it’s North South etc and the Borough and there about 30 of them
Joe Rogan: "That's some dark shit man."
Joey Diaz: *dies in laughter*
People who experience trauma, especially as a kid, they laugh at it because they dont know how else to feel. when something that traumatized you comes up in casual conversation theres a numbness but as a comedian he cant show that, so he does what he does best ans trys to make people laugh
Jonathan Brooks dude walked in on his mother dead on the floor while he was high on lsd at 13 and his father died while he was super young as well. That’s the most traumatic thing a kid could go through.
Jonathan Brooks Joey has some extreme antisocial tendencies from all the damn stories I’ve heard from him... This mf is crazyyyy no cap but a funny and interesting individual
@@jonathanbrooks9768 That's not how people typically cope with trauma of this nature. Studies have shown that abuse and violence experienced as a child has had the same effect as combat on veterans. I don't see many veterans laughing because "they don't know how" to cope. It's not about coping. It's about the fact that people like he or I see the differences in how people raise kids and think about what our parents would do to some of them today. You could imagine the looks on their faces and it's really quite comical to think about as an adult.
@@sammiches6859 dont tell me how people "typically cope with trauma" im speaking from my experience and the people around me who went thru trauma that make jokes about thing they dont know how to talk about. and probably because veterans had a support system, their squad and their families are there for them kids in homes with abusive parents rely entirely on themselves.
I used to get beat like a red headed step child for just about anything. It didn't stop me from getting in trouble, and if anything made it worse. I was a hell raiser, and my high school years were a blur of fighting, partying, and getting in trouble with the law. I have never hit my children. I talk to them, use positive reinforcement, and alternative punishment like time out, loss of privileges, extra chores, etc. My kids are all well behaved, respectful, and do well in school. Don't hit your kids people.
Nah there’s a difference between what you went through which was abuse and hitting a kid. I was hit but only when I did stupid shit but then those hits taught me not to keep fucking around. The love my parents gave me outweighed the punishment I got from them
There’s difference between discipline and abuse/causing severe pain
Thank god you didn’t repeat the cycle. My mother was abused and she abused me. I forgave her because she was a young mom repeating what her mom did. Thank god for people like you❤
childhood has so much influence on our lives. It's incredible.
Even the way we think to
Joey: “That kid was the devil.”
Joe: “He was probably the devil because his dad beat him.”
I feel like that statement isn’t given enough time to breathe in this conversation. Kids need discipline, but kids who get beat and abused are just so much more likely to become problems for society and the rest of us when they get older. Its a fucked up reality.
my dad used to beat me and I turned out fine.
I constantly wanna kill myself but thats a different story lol
My mom always tell me about a story about one dad was always nice to his kids. They were really religios so the dad never beat them up. But now the kids are older and 3 of them use drugs.
Dragon flair
There will always be exceptions. But typically, kids who get abused have issues later on.
@@lifelesscorpse7365 Is it though?
@@jolez_4869 Nah man...
IF IT CAN CRAWL IT CAN BRAWL
😂😂😂😂
Omfg this is so messed up and hilarious at the same time 😂😂😂
Mannn...your comment really made me laugh.
Epic,dude.
👍 😀
Lmfao 😂😂😂
Feroz Ouryakhil thats how mafia works
I’m currently a psych major (disclaimer bc im not claiming to be an expert). We were studying the effects of disciplining a child by spanking and hitting. Children who are spanked or hit as a form of discipline, are on average, significantly more aggressive than children who were not, and lack the necessary communication skills to maintain endearing, prosocial relationships and perspectives. Because little to no communication occurs between the parent and the child in these moments, children are often not specifically told what they did wrong and why it is wrong, but they take note to the methods at which the parent got them to stop an unwanted behavior or carry out a punishment. These children go on to view aggression as a tool, and go on to be abusive towards their peers, friends, etc.
I was hit a lot by both my mother and father as a child, but best believe that when I have my own child, I will never lay my hands on them or allow anyone else to.
@The Great Pumpkin Facts
check back with us when you have your own kids lol. discipline is far from abuse. the communication part is golden and also common since id hope.
@@devinmoore4787 Yikes🤦♂️
A bit aggressive is significantly better than too soft
@@devinmoore4787 way to put yourself as a child abuser fam
I was in 4th grade in 84. There was a divorced father with two sons that lived across the street from me. They were a year and 2 years younger than me. They had all the cool toys n shit so I hung out with them every summer. Their dad was a vet from Vietnam and for the most part he was a cool guy. He would tell us viet nam stories and take us riding 4 wheelers and everything. I remember one day I was over there and all three of them were working on a fence. The older boy is ignoring his dad and he yells at his son to come here. He says no. His dad takes his belt off and goes to town on this kid. Hes screaming and yelling and the kid just bolts into the house ballin. Im standing there with his younger brother and his dad turns and looks at him and goes, COME HERE! Dude goes, no daddy what did I do. To tell you the truth, the kid did nothing to upset his dad. His dad just wanted to finish beatin someone after the first kid ran in the house. So his dad walks toward him with the belt and this kid just takes off around the house and hauls ass down the street. His dad had to have been at least 38, chain smoked 3 packs a day.....catches this kid about 3 houses down and goes to town on his ass with the belt in someones yard. I run back home across the street and just watch it all unfold. It was nuts.
Nothing strikes fear into a child when your mom says "wait till I tell your father."
Lol for me it was another way around my father never hit me ever but my mom tho lol that’s something else
solotov you deserve one
Lol i wish that bitch would tell my dad
@@DavidHernandez-nc4oe same
I'd rather have no father than the one I got. This arsehole was only ever there to hit me or make me work.
And if some bitch ever used me as a threat against my kids, she would get one warning that it would never happen again. The next time my kids would be saying "Wait till my daddy gets home." Solve your own problems you cow.
Everytime I listen to Joey Diaz, I have the need to cough
Lmfao
Clear my throat
Yea weve heard this joke a million times. Not funny anymore.
U have SARS-COV-2
I would like but you got 420 likes, so this is my symbolic like
I was mentally and physically abused until I was an adult by my parents. This one hit home especially when Joey talked about the kid with the glass is getting in trouble in school and his dad hitting him like that right there in school.
Man, we had like the same Dad. A kid started a fight with me at school and I wound up beating him up.
But when security broke us up they only saw the part where I was “winning”.
Well, my prize was getting the shit kicked out of me when my dad got home.
I know what’s about to happen, I wanted to hide but felt like that’s gonna make things worse for me. He came in with the death glare stomping my way.
As I opened my mouth to try to say my side. He clotheslined me onto the expensive coffee table he had bought. It broke, he took a leg of it and beat me all over and all I could do was cover up.
He made me pick the pieces up.
As I tried to say I was sorry he then front kicked me in the chest with steel toed boots on and I almost got impaled but a splintered leg that was upright.
It paved the way for me to wind up bullied by older kids on my bus, I got skipped two grades after taking the state tests we’d all do as kids.
The older boys hated that the girls they liked were interested in talking to me because I was this little kid in their class.
So instead of having any confidence I just feared standing up for myself.
That is, until I choked my father out when he punched me in the jaw at 14.
I cried because I hated the idea that I hurt my father.
Childhood fucking sucked but let’s do better than they did. For the sake of future children, right?
Did you ever get revenge?
@@IXSuperRadGamerXIsorry you had to go through that. Hopefully it makes you stronger big bruh
I can relate to this so well....Myself, my brother, and one of my best friends were beat up by another kid's dad for having an agreed upon snowball fight. He went running home to his dad and his dad came back and chased us down individually, dragged us in the snow and smacked the shit outta us. I remember dude looked like Hulk Hogan to us as kids....I couldn't move in sheer fear like a dream watching it happen to my brother and best friend.....and when he got to me I pissed myself when I was being held & slapped open handed in the head, face, and body by a 40+ year old big man. I was 8, just before xmas 1990. My mom(single parent)didnt press charges in fear.... but I do remember going to the police station and them taking photos of the bruises. I want to see him now that I'm 40 and have an 8 year old son.....
Why you want to see him bro? Lol
to beat him up obv i mean thats what i would do
Sounds like there may be another side to this story
Well he's probably dead
@@Bubbles99718 can't think of many cases where a grown man beating up an 8 year old is justified...
I love how Joey Daiz always calls Joe rogan by this full name
Like tyrone biggums in the dave Chappelle skit
That's what's up
Who the fuck is Joey Daiz
@@SnailHatan 🖕
@@joeydiaz3286 Oh, it’s Joey Diaz. I love that guy. But why are you so salty that I don’t know who Joey Daiz is?
“Kid was the devil probably because his dad beat him.”
Well said Joe
Lies.....out here I see kids who are devils .... specifically cos they didn't get beat
@@Nika-potter not specifically. You failed as a parent/human if you think that beating children is the right thing to do.
Hunter the pigeon we could quote the Bible but let’s not do that.. there’s a difference between discipline and abuse. If you cross that line there is Severe repercussions.
@@Milk88488 Hitting without warning is abuse. When they know the consequences and are given fair verbal warnings, beating is not abuse. It's the most immediate and universal way to put a voice in the back of a child's mind to consider their actions. Not every child has the competence to reason with words by the time their personality is formed by age 4-5. My parents didn't hit me out of spite. They made it clear it wasn't about their being mad. It was about facing consequences. The very first lesson a child should learn.
It's about being firm. It's like a handshake. When you shake someone's hand you don't want to be a pussy and have it be weak. At the same time you don't want to be an asshole and crush the hand.
I was severely physically abused until I was 12 my face was beaten to a bloody pulp at just little over a year old for drooling on the floor by my dad. Now I have alot of troubles with my nose because it was broken several times by my dad before I was even old enough to walk and sad part is I remember it even tho I was so young. My dad took me to Georgia at 4 and he would basically torture me and starve me sometimes he had people put on mask and scare me even had them drag me out of the house into the woods in middle of the night one time just to scare me for fun. was living there until I was about 5yr old then came back to home state and my grandparents got me but my dad still got visitation by law were I had to stay at his house a couple weeks each month abuse went on everytime but state wouldn't take his visitations away. Then when I was 12 my grandparents got full custody because on Christmas my dad kicked me in the stomach so hard I had internal bleeding that was what it took for my grandparents to stop the states forced visitation things were I had to stay with him. I now suffer from sever anxiety issues PTSD and alot of mental health issues. Have anxiety attacks from public spaces being around people I don't know cant function in a job because I've been fired within a day of every job I've ever had due to my sever anxiety attacks. I'm diagnosed with PTSD and a few other mental health problems but still can't qualify for disibilty even tho I have family who are on it just for having ADHD and I have that and much more.. I'm trying my best but I'm so mentally fkd I don't think I can repair myself into working order tried meds hasn't helped tried therepy if anything made my anxiety issues much worse..
Jesus dude I'm sorry that happened to you
I’m so sorry, I wish I could help in some way. Most people don’t want to hurt you. There are lots of stupid people in the world but most of them are kind and don’t wish any harm on you.
Have you looked into jobs around nature? Ecology work and things like that can be really wonderful and it doesn’t involve being around lots of other people, instead getting to enjoy nature and feel connected to the world
My friend, I hope you are doing well. I understand that resources may be heavily limited but I can advice something free. Mindfulness. Do it everyday and over time you will change the way your brain is wired. It will give you the ability to live a more normal life. There are plenty of books and apps about the topic
id look into becoming a park ranger! sending you love
Maybe try ketamine therapy, or take DMT with shaman
I was hit alot growing up. And half the time it was way too extreme. One time when i was 6 years old. My adopted dad tossed me through the air because i didn't take my meds. I take meds because im disabled. My brother also had part in mentally and physically beating me. My folks and brother ask why i barley spend time with them these days as an adult. Its because of the trauma they caused me. I was molested at age 11 by a cousin. I was beaten. bullied. I even lost my birth parents and i raised by my abusive adopted parents. I went through the worst things a child could go through. And somehow God saved me from hitting the ground after i fell. I never became a criminal and I live on my own.
Moral of this. If you're a parent, don't beat or assault your kids, because if you do, they'll not want to be around you and their lives may debate whether they'll turn out bad or good.
Ill never hit my kids. If they do something wrong. I aint gonna go to the extent of physical violence. Ill sit and talk with them on whats right and whats wrong. Explain to them what the consequences will be on what bad things they do.
A "spanking" and a "beating" are two completely different things.
If I wasn't spanked as a child, I'd probably be in prison right now.
If I was beaten as a child, I'd probably be in prison right now.
See the difference?
Baggin Brooks I got spanked, my brother got beat! Neither one us has been to prison! And he’s more successful then I am! Everyone handles these types of situations differently!
Exactly...
Following that logic. you would have been better off being beat because not only would it have kept you out of prison, but being beat would have made you an upstanding citizen. Or being spanked as a kid actually made you the deviant you were and it was just luck that you stayed out of prison.
Either way, it's not me that needs to see the difference. It's the kid being hit and if they're being hit because they cannot be rationalized with, they likely also don't understand the difference between spanking and beating. Understand?
@@scalp340 However, if they can't be rationalized with by verbal communication. Perhaps a spanking is the best way to communicate that something maybe bad or potentally dangerous.
Nobody likes getting spankings as kids no matter how small or unintelligent they are, they will try to avoid it.
There are times when spankings can have a good impact (maybe not at the time) on a child and potentially save their life.
Examples:
1. Your child keeps jumping around and playing at bedtime.
This is not a good time to spank your child. Solution: Perhaps read them a book?
2. Your child goes to stick a metal spring from one of his toys into an outlet. You've warned him of this 4 times before that it is dangerous and could make it so he would never see mommy or daddy again. He does not understand the concept of death so he keeps doing it.
Solution: Spank the child on the bottom, with bass in your voice say "no".
The child will now associate the outlet as a very bad thing and will now stay away from it.
Congradulations to you as well for having just saved your childs life from any further actions he may take with the outlet. He now understands the outlet is very bad.
@The Tick kids are hit and tossed around the system because of mass production of and lack of education with guns?
You can hear everything joey diaz has smoked
LMAOOOO 😂🤣😭💀
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@@Tranced24 yes gotta be careful for those thiefs stoling comments.
@@bobbinette3368 unnecessary comment.
Is that why I can hear yo mamma?
I remember one of dad's friends brought his kids over who only wanted to start a conflict with me in my bedroom as a kid. And I remember this kid's dad coming into my room and invading my space as well as his kid was, and grabbed me by the hair and told me not to bully his kid. It took 95% of me to try to hold back from punching him right in the nuts and I was only seven and this dude 10 times my size that had a hold of my head. I explained to my parents within the next 10 minutes what had actually happened and problem solved, never had to deal with them again. As far as I remember they left peacefully without a shitstorm but it was definitely on the table, my parents were not going to put up with that. Number two, I had my kid kept away from me for years and beaten by his mother's boyfriend. I regained contact through State Police visits and Welfare checks and I won full custody of my twelve-year-old in court, along with several restraining orders, I represented myself and my son without a lawyer. The way I see it I owe It 2 this world to be responsible with my offspring. Fight the good fight and mean to win. Settle for nothing less.
Amazing. I hope the ex you talking bout burns in hell. its just as much her mistake as the abuser
right on brother!
I'll never understand how someone could come to the conclusion that even in the moment; it's okay to hit another person's kid. If one of my kids told me someone laid their hand's on them I'm going to earn that trip to jail.
But what if your kid hits someone else's kid, unprovoked, and the parent is furious enough that she/he slaps your kid in turn?
Because that shit actually happened to me. I was 6 years old at that time (I'm a woman) and a boy in my class cornered me in an empty corridor during after-school hours and punched me straight in the stomach. I couldn't stand up or breathe for a few seconds and he ran off smirking.
I told my mum and she came to school the next day and slapped him and told him NEVER to do that shit to me or anyone EVER again.
I can’t tell if Joey is having ptsd flashbacks or if he’s just high
Both
@@ssssSTopmotion a lot of both
Both
In what way does he act high or like hes having ptsd flashbacks?
@@balder6337 it's a joke, numbnuts.
There’s a difference between beating a child and disciplining a child
If you “disciplining” child by beating them, than there’s no difference. You can discipline with words if you are a good parent?
Айтан Мамедова that shit did not work for my cousins
Айтан Мамедова if my kid disrespects someone im slapping him and taking his shit away...🤷🏻♂️
@@aytanitamamasita No dummy. A Spanking is very different from a beating. Spanking a child on the butt as a means of correction and discipline is very different from beating a child. Plus the spanking is last resort. It results from a child or teen blatantly disrespecting the parent or doing stuff they were told not to do.
Lp Inc. well they failed unfortunate
I got messed up growing up with both physical and mental abuse from my father and I don't be anything like that toward my kid. You don't have to hit kids, for you can form positivity with positivity! Which also should be the next big topic for people to learn. People never quite understood babies and children, and they still dont.
U know it’s gonna be a good story when Joey says “when I lived on 133 8th st in jersey”
I love how specific he is as if anyone knows what it is.
As a kid, Joey got the living shit beat out of him by his mother on a regular basis. As an adult, he got addicted to drugs and led a life of crime. How he managed to survive such a dysfunctional life and come out the other side intact is nothing short of a miracle.
Not sure "intact" is the word. It's likely taken years off his life. He doesn't seem like the healthiest of people.
And then says it helped him
Yeah my brother and I used to get beat all the time for breaking the smallest of rules. All it did was make my brother and I hate rules and get really good at not getting caught. Our parents also never used to by basic needs. Food, shoes, school supplies. So I started doing home invasions and my brother sold drugs. Thank god we never got caught. My fucking parents were idiots.
@@oopsiepoopsie2898 Your parents deserve to be in prison. You should count yourself lucky you're still alive. Fucking home invasions?
@@oopsiepoopsie2898 nobody with the username oopsie poopsie done home invasions sorry bro
My first fat lip, broken nose and cracked rib were gifts of dear ol' dad. I thought one day he would kill me. I lived in perpetual fear. One day I heard my mother getting him going. I knew he was coming and I thought this was going to be the day he kills me. I was so afraid I was shaking uncontrollably. I heard him stomping towards the stairs and I panicked. I ended up jumping out of a second floor window. I was 11yo. I didnt see him again until the cops brought me, unwillingly to his house. That was the first time I saw a man shot to death. And it wouldnt be the last. I remember the cops explaining to him what I had seen. I heard him tell the cops to "get him the fuck out of here. I dont care where you bring him, just get him the fuck out of here". For the next 20-25 years I struggled with life. Ive never had a positive role model. There were only drug dealers and the criminally minded. Today im a 48yo ex drug dealer, alcoholic and addict. I struggle with living in a world that most of you take for granted. I dont know how to do the simplest of normal life things. Even making a friend is something I struggle to do.
My life changed a few years after my sons were born. Twins. Ive never hit them. Both are smart kids and good students. They seem happy and I know we are close. I spend as much time with them as I can. Id surely be dead or in jail had they not come into my life. I owe them a better life than I had and my only goal it to make them better than me. They are my air.
nonya bizzness god bless you man 🙏🏾
Good luck man! Please be the model to your kids you never had and give them the love what you couldn't get
I'm praying for you and may God forever bless you.
@@RickyRippper if you don't care then fuck off
nonya bizzness I feel you, and I hope the best for you and your family. I’ve had similar issues but I ain’t even 20 yet. Just trying to figure out who I am now
😂 Joey always gets so engrossed in his stories that they almost turn into a psychotic episode. His listeners are like “here we go again” 6:10
2:54 “ *GASP* IF I EVER DID THAT IN MY HOUSE IN MY HOUSE, JOE ROGAN??” Made me laugh hard af
The worst part about getting beatings from parents is when they don't remember any of it but it still haunts you as an adult
"the axe forgets, but the tree remembers"
When I was 11 years old I got slapped around the kitchen by my dad for making myself a sandwich without asking first. I've never forgotten that and the stupid reason he punished me.
They "don't remember" is a bunch of bull$#!t - they're just making excuses and not taking responsibility for their actions, those are the worst people...
That was my life, father was a Jekyl and Hyde drunk and half the time couldn’t even remember beating the shit out of me. He would even ask where marks came from that HE left on me.
My mom wasn’t much better she’d use religion to justify abusing me.
Don’t beat your kids, check them once in a while, needs to happen. But there’s an art to discipline and it’s certainly not beating your kids near to death.
Trust me they remember, they just don't want to remember
Friend (m) was abused by his dad. Me, him and a group of friends started to work out when we were 14. When we didn't know what to do in the gym we did a bit of boxing. Like a year later he did bad on one exam... His father went to beat him up but he didn't know he was 2x stronger than before and the dad ended up with a broken nose and lost 4 teeth. Police was called and friend was about to be arrested but my boy took a photo of his every bruise and wrote up the date. Dad is now in prison for domestic violence.
This just shows the real lesson you teach your kids when you beat them. That your power and their respect for you only lasts as long as they're weaker than you.
Also good on your friend defending himself in that situation.
Filda Vole depressing story
Best Story ever.
Neal Comstock Fuck your fruity ass, imma say it if you can’t.Now that..... was badass.
Mad respect for your friend.
I feel that when raising a kid, its important to learn which methods and approaches of parenting have positive impact on your childs growth, if you have a child that thrives from a little tough love then one of the parents gotta give a little bit of that, now tough love doesn't mean beating. Same way another kid could grow from a boost to confidence, having a parent that is always in their corner and there to let em know it's okay. A lot of time it's a bit of both, and you have to distinguish when is the time to be a good cop or bad cop. But the most important thing aside from obviously not being a douche bag parent is being there for your kids whether you are there to be tough on them or show them support. You cant have a kid and just decide "I'm gonna be a super strict parent or im gonna give my kids everything I never got" to some degree that may be needed, but at the end of the day, you gotta study your kids, be with them and realize what methods of parenting work best and at what times, as a parent you must learn from experience and adapt your parenting to suit the needs of your kid's growth, because at the end its about them being the best versions of themselves as adults, not about how you want to raise them.
You have been noticed good sire
This is the clearest and sweetest opinion about this topic.
I got my ass whooped and was a demon child. With my kids, I'm strict-ish, but I could never hit them. My kids are little angels and both me and my wife were "problem children". I definitely believe hitting your kids just makes them rebel more. My kids actually come up and tell me if they did something they thought was wrong instead of covering shit up out of fear like I did as a kid.
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This man’s voice is so satisfying bro he could be a good ass Noir genre voice actor
Maby L.A noir 2 made by Rockstar games in the future.
he's just so interesting to listen to
Dude there's no way this guy didn't act in the irishman
THERES NO FUKIN LOOSING IN MY HOUSE
He needs to do voice acting for the next Mafia game lmao
Joe: maybe my grandma cracked me once
Joey: i got stabbed 17 times before age 6 and it made me who i am today
Tf? 😅
Yo what is this comment 😂
Brooo shut up😂😂😂
But he didn’t say that and he clearly would not.
@@IsraelCountryCube shut up israel
Man this guy story telling is so crazy and vivid. He makes you feel like you was there. Ex addicts have the best stories man. I got an Uncle Richie who smoked crack back than funniest man I know. Love you Joey you the Goat.
Man I have struggled with abuse from my dad as a 13-15 year old.
I felt like he doesn't do much to now because I have grown bigger and stronger. He tried forcing some beliefs in me and was a narcissist the entire time. Dude changed randomly one day after I turned 16 and acts like that makes up for the shit he did that made up my fucked up personality. I am coping with shit about myself at the root ik the abuse has killed a lot of good in me. finding all those pieces back has been my goal for the past three months. I pray for anyone undergoing any kind of abuse as a young kid. It's not okay it did make me who I am today but it came at a cost of my mental fortitude.
Jesus loves you my friend. Get to know him and let him heal you
@@josef1944 bro shut up
It's worse when they try to change their tune with being Christians and thinking that being Jeebus people will make up for a destructive childhood. And even going as far as to believe that just because they're "saved", that their old sins are somehow okay even at the expense of you being subject to the abuse. Yeah prayer isn't gonna help with the anxiety and trust issues. Got abuse from both parents growing up, and although they're still my parents, that closeness is forever ruined. That will not happen with my kids.
My father was adopted and beaten his whole life. I was never beaten and it was because he knew the fear it caused and he knew it didn't work and he wanted to be a better father than the one who adopted him. Very protective of us and he was a tough MF. He wasn't the best father in the world, but he was damn close.
He only ever grabbed me once like he was going to hit me and it ended pretty quick because he saw that he lost control and felt terrible about it for months after that. After reading some of these comments, I know I was blessed to have him. I miss him a lot.
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Sorry for your loss man, sounds like he was a great dad
Normally the father would follow the trend and beat you good on him for being the abnormality
May he rest in peace
@@tommycastro9424 Yeah, I have a lot of respect for people who are able to break the cycle of abuse. I know from personal experience that it's really damn hard.
I got the shit beat out of me and I turned out okay.
But then again my wife has never been beat in her life and she turned out okay too.
I’ll never beat my kids. You can raise a good human being with out beating them.
Delicious David what the actual fuck is wrong with you
Delicious David. 😂😂😂😂
Agreed minor spankings ear pulls arm yanks shirt grabs but nothing major 💪😎
Samuelu Johnston Funny, I also got the shit beat out of me but will never beat my kids because I know can raise them without putting them through the same thing.
@@jaidsalgado what is your definition of "beat?"
I love how it ends with Joey cracking tf up at something most ppl would be taken aback by. 😂😂😂 The real MVP. 🙌
"That kid was probably the devil because his dad was beating the shit out of him" 💯
It's amazing how much the behavior of "bad kids" resembles the symptoms of PTSD. We're messing up our kids, and then blaming them for it.
It's the truth and nobody wants to hear it. And people say that they turned out fine. It becomes painfully obvious when one begins to have an understanding to these things
Ur damn right
@William Beltran uhhhhhhh no need to comment if ur gonna be rude :/
@William Beltran oh no, how ever can I live without the respect of random internet shit bag?
Guess I'll die.
@L H It's not about whether or not someone can handle it, it just doesn't have the effect you want it to have. There are better and more effective approaches when it comes to dealing with unruly children.
Joe: and this grown adult smacked her in the face
Joey: *goes into labor*
Nathan Messner idgaf .. this is the funniest comment here😂😂 i started dying!!
Hassan Javed sir I’m sorry to tell you but you’ve been in a coma for 10 years. We don’t know why or how but we found you lying in your room with this comment on screen. Unfortunately your father has passed away and you’ve missed countless family events. We know this is confusing and hard to hear but the good thing is that your alive and well. You’ve lost extreme muscle and bone density and that will take years of exercise,to get back. I think you should just relax and rest for a while. You’ll be staying here in the hospital for another week before you can go home.
LMFAOOO
I love it when Joey names streets so I can go and look it up on maps when he tells the story lol
Whenever I think about the beatings and mental abuse I used to get of my parents, it makes me wanna move out an never see them again. Yes they fed an clothed me (like any parent should) but it’s not enough to cover up the traumas they’ve left me with. Only when I started martial arts (Tkd) was I able to cope with my past.
Joey: tells a story about a kid getting fucked up
Joe: *rocket noises*
“Uhh” “ooohhh” “uggghhh”
At least it’s not
Joe rogan: sheeeeeeeeeesh
chhhhhhhhhhhooooooooohhewwwww
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Joe: has a podcast
Joe: *looks to his right instead of the guest*
Joey "the lady next door didn't see a knife" Diaz
Chris Baptiste Yea they slid past that quick.
@@Meatwad787 fr 😂😂😂
Fucken legendary!!
Much respect for that lady
Joey "he fucked em in the ass" Diaz
I could listen all day to Joey giving an intense story from his past and he gets angrier and more passionate.
Bro the way Joey laughed at the end lmao.
PISTOL PETE WOULD TAKE YOU *D E E P*
He's gonna make you his colt holster.
Swordlesslunk as he said it I was reading this😂
Ended up becoming a fuckin booozah 🤣
@@vrgabe8474 same dude
What
Joe is 51 and Joey is 55
They look a lot different.
Joey looks old
I thought Joey was 80+
Vvv Ooo
Genetics and not taking care of himself through the years. He's 1 year older than me but looks older than my father who's in his late 70's.
nah more like in his late 60s
Dude looks 64-67 maybe, not 80+..
Joey done alot of coke so i think that explains it
bob Jones and acid!!!
@6:13 😂 The man's rage takes over everytime and it kills me lmao 🤣
Brain trauma can ruin a child's life, and it doesn't take much to do serious damage
When I was 18 my Dad took me aside and asked me how many times did he hit me growing up? It took only a second to answer NEVER. He then told me that's an important lesson: DONT LET ANYONE HIT YOU !! My dad is no joke. athletic, tough as nails, raised in Spanish Harlem NY . product of immigrants etc etc AND to this day . I thank him for that lesson
@Lucky Joestar thank you for your kind words
Amazing dad ..
Your dad's a BOSS! Thank him again for me.
@@cmonkey83 Thank you ..I will be sure to.pass on your thoughts. I am fortunate and BLESSED to know it
and appreciate it.
Diamond Bourne
I come from a country where children were beaten by parents and teachers. I guess even know they do still do it but majority of the children I grew up with ended up rebelling in their teen years.
So really beating doesn’t do much.
The thing a lot of parents fail to understand is if u beat your child because your trying to mold them into being a top athlete, your only making them despise the sport even more.
agreed
And later become broken when their time in the game ends
If you force anything on a child and push them with hostile tone or say they’re gonna get punished for not doing it etc. They will hate it.
Fools must not have heard of tiger woods. Considered the best golfer ever
Yah plus if you make that his whole life and nothing else. Say Pistol Pete never made it in the NBA but still had that childhood. He would’ve been completely broken because his childhood and all the hardships were for nothing.
I used to get hit a lot. Granted I was a bad kid. but I never knew how much damage my parents really did to me until I was about 19-20. I was let down. Wont happen to my kids.
Bro the ending had me going like Joey 🤣😂😂
My dad beat me down a few times and broke my nose a couple times. I was an angry kid and dealt with things with violence until I understood what I was doing. Now my son is 20 and I never hit or spanked him. He is an awesome person and is not angry.
hard times make strong men and strong men make hard times into good times, good times make weak men and weak men make good times into hard times.
Good break they cycle your doing great things
@@MrShroomed stfu
@@MrShroomed Yeah and “strong men” beat children do they? Nice logic there
@@MrShroomed good quote, but not exactly relevant
I love how Joey talks, man. "I knew that kid. I KNEW THAT KID!"
why is he torturing joe rogan though...?
"that's some dark shit man" *uncle joey literally dying of laughter*
The end is brilliant😂 Joe rogan and joe diaz we love you😂🙏
My two cents: creating a world class talent is not worth ruining your kid's life.
reminds me of The movie whiplash except its the teacher.
100% agreed
I tonya is a great example of that
I was beaten daily. No wonder I’m a mess up.
We will never know but chances are they already had the talent to begin with to make it where they did
I wish I had the memory of Joey Diaz... MFr has a story for everything
He makes most of it up man, pay attention
@Luke yeah, i wouldn't trust anyone with a allegedly 1000 year old individual as a paternal figure
Ryan Adam how would he remember these street numbers and shit if he’s just lying😂that shit doesnt just add up, have u heard him call people on his podcast and shit about his stories?🤦♂️
@@lurkinhehe You know that was just figurative language right?
@@getchasome6230 Go back to your boring life.
My parents would never have hit me with intent to hurt me
i absolutely love these two gentlemen ❤
The shirt didnt age well.
pr1ce Good eye
Oorona?
LMFAOOOOO
Hey its a nice beer
Hmm
Joey has to have said "Ay i'm walkin here" at least once in his life to complete the stereotype of his accent.
I think Joey Diaz has to be an honorary Italian. He’s just too close to not be
Darryl Wayne ?? His name is Diaz?
MAC Corcoran what is ur point
Darryl Wayne just realized you said he wasn’t Italian but was close to being one. Thought you meant he was Italian
MAC Corcoran I mean who knows tho. I’m Hispanic and I’m a decent amount of Italian.
The joy Joey has hearing that kid got hit was great
What a fucking value you two are togheter, great talks, everytime.
Joey "when I lived on 88th St in Jersey it was 1982" Diaz
He made me think he lived on 88th street in Manhattan
Who’s the other guy he sounds like a mafia boss
Joey Diaz, His story is insane dude
How do you know who joe rogan is but not know who joey diaz is
@@burnzyable who the fuck cares. Shut the fuck up.
@@burnzyable who gives a shit, get out of your own ass man.
@@sashimi879 ok ok pipe down a lil
“It’s the ‘me too’ thing. Things come out, waddya gonna do?” Man is a national treasure
for those that know, what goes on behind closed doors whether its your biological parents or not, cowards dont show an ounce of sympathy to kids when they beat them and i know how abusive it can, more stories like this needs be shared so the good people can keep an eye on the kids that actually need help from such hostile parents so we can save them, a little or a lot of discipline can do wonders for the little devils but when it turns into abuse, thats when only outside help can point the finger at the scum that beat children for whatever pathetic reason
Everyone’s life experiences effect people differently. But generally speaking, kids that are exposed to violence tend to be negatively affected
@Dutchy McSmoka Exposure is different to perception.
Dutchy McSmoka Let me guess you also blame them evil video gaymes
I'm no I have been physically punished as a kid but I am as normal as anybody might even better
@@Rollingace You probably have an effective conscience. Action/consequence is what makes people sharp and behaved. A well communicated and drawn physical punishment makes sense. All these people are just labelling it as senseless "violence", like the kid does something wrong and just gets smacked in the face instantly. Whereas my parents gave me warnings verbally and with gestures. If I didn't listen, they didn't hit me immediately or angrily. It was "come here" in a flat tone with a scold. Then my mom would use whatever was within reach and hit me 3 times. Am I volent person? No. Am I afraid to fight? No. Do I think about actions/consequences constantly? Yes.
@@sammiches6859 yes that's how it was with me too with constant warnings and if things got too much then it would come down to physical punishment
10:10 plot twist. Joey is not laughing but having a heart attack
Adults are supposed to be the examples for children. Children can grow up to become monsters because the people they were supposed to rely on were monsters. There are more ways to teach children better behavior than getting physical.
8:32-8:51 is a super relatable quote that we can all think about when we meet new people and have not so great experiences with them at first.
Joe: 'That's some dark shit man..."
Joey: *Dying of laughter*
SMH...
hes laughing cause of when joe went " 0_0 EEE EEE"
Comedy is subjective pussy, you obviously didn’t understand the joke either
I'm late for a reply but I just wanted to say that joey most likely wouldn't of laughed if Joe didn't make it funny, I'm pretty sure a good amount of people at least chuckled when he made that face and noise, he even chuckled a bit
Dominic Green ok boomer
@@Jarvis2500 woah good job. Here's your participation award, zoomer!
“That kid was the devil”😂😂 Joey is a legend
Joey laughing at the end was amazing
Respect you’re elders:
The elders:
I have ptsd from being abused physically, emotionally and verbally, so I will do my part in never physically disciplining my kids, I don’t ant them to fear me
Luna Renzi exactly, people don’t realize that this is a very possible outcome from beating your kids.
Luna Renzi your a good man
They should fear you or else they will be bad and think they won't get consequences
KYW0 you shouldn’t have to make them fear you, you have to make them respect you. If they respect you then they won’t do bad shit
my step dad beat me a lot growing up and now im a pretty violent person and i 100% blame him.
Pistole Pete one of the greatest to lace them up, but sadly that story about his very very abusive father is true. Turned the dude into a basketball machine, but that abuse came back in the form of booze. Shit is sad man.
Wow...didnt see where the booze came from
the assumption is he wouldn't have been as good without the abuse, it is just as likely he would have been good whether that took place or not.
Wow, I thought the alcoholism was because of his chronic back pains and other injuries
@@Liam-rv3dj eh that certainly contributed to it
I know a crazy amount about basketball ive never heard this though.
My father NEVER hurt me… ever. My mother smacked me once and i deserved that. Raising my children without physical discipline is sometimes challenging but makes me appreciate my parents so much more and reminds me that theres always a better way.
As a son of a foreign dad when I was younger I got beat pretty bad but not abuse. It made me respect and not disrespect my dad and as I got older I understood why and we are closer then ever
People who say, "My dad beat me and I turned out fine!" did not turn out fine.
And the ones who do turn out fine, turned out fine despite the abuse--not because of it.
Yeah I’m proud to say I’m edgy and I have more than 6 fucking holes in my wall idc anymore one day I might just burn the house down after all you need to revolt right?
Punishments for everything a child does the parent doesnt agree with just creates secretive children
Captain...wrong
My ex used to say that and she was literally psychopath incapable of expressing herself without violence lol. She was determined to hit her eventual kids as well, i told her i wouldn't have kids with someone who hits them.
My two brothers and I lost our parents around 12 years of age. They never wanted us living with our mother’s family because they were horrible people. They sold drugs and lived in filth, no food for their kids. Our father called his family and his brother our uncle agreed to take us if anything happened . Well when they passed we called up father’s uncle and he told us he couldn’t take us. A friends family from our elementary school was nice to take us in until the state came to take us to foster homes. We were told if the state took us kids that we would be split up and adopted by different families. My brothers and I did not want that. We ended up going to live with our mothers family. They only took us because they knew we would each have monthly social security death survivors checks coming in each month. We lived in filth and were verbally and physically abused and never ate unless it was at school. They lived the high life buying alcohol and drugs and eating like kings at jack in the box every night without getting anything for us kids. The beginning of every month our checks would come in the mail. They would sneak out of the house like we didn’t know and go eat at ihop with our money and go on spending sprees without buying anything for us kids. If you care about your children you will have a plan in place if something were to happen to you. Don’t let what happened to my brothers and I happen to your children!
Your story was one of few that has ever touched me. I'm also a foster child. I just wanted to say thank u for sharing this. I pray that you are doing great in life. 🙏 ❤
Damn
I’m in pieces reading that. I hope you’re doing much better these days
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Some people don’t deserve to have kids. I know this sounds stupid but makes me think licenses to raise children won’t be a bad idea.
Sad we can’t drag people like that through the street and kill them
that cough at 6:24 is pure comedy and gold. What a legend.
You can train and discipline animals without violence, why would you use violence to discipline an intelligent human being?
Parents who use violence with their kids are just plain stupid and shouldn’t be allowed to have them, Is it too difficult to make a child differentiate between what’s wrong and what’s not? Is it difficult to talk to them to make them understand?
That’s the very reason though. It is because they are intelligent that they require greater means of discipline
if a cuban sandwich with a cigar in its mouth playing dominoes was a person, it would be Uncle Joey
My voice was always sufficient for my son. Never hit him ever.
My dad's voice had a similar quality, it could turn a melee into a tea party
Sounds like your kid has the spine of an overcooked noodle.
@@gigicestone4902 when you have respect for things you also have responsibility. ya understand?
@@gigicestone4902 Nothing to do with lack of spine. Maybe you have the noodle spine if you have to use violence to get respect?
james coburn every child is different and disciplinary measure vary from child to child. I do believe in spanking but it’s a last resort as far as discipline measure.
As someone who was abused physically and mentally growing up, I can tell without a doubt that straight up abuse is not gonna make ur child any better, it’s not gonna make ur child hard, it’s gonna trap them and make them feel weaker bc if they really do love you they won’t try to hurt u back, and in the end they’ll just feel trapped in this cycle of abuse. If you really wanna make ur kid hard, teach him, love him, expose him to difficult tasks and give him the drive and reason to overcome those task. That is what’ll make ur kid strong, not abuse.
I had an experience at my job where my boss saw me working and didn’t like what he saw. He told me that I wasn’t cut out for that type of work ( tree climbing work). I was hurt and devastated when he told me that, so I used the doubt he had put on me and worked my ass off and now I’m a top climber in my industry. I hated him in the moment but I respect him for not sugarcoating anything. It’s a weird appreciation because your not supposed to thank those who put you down, but I guess sometimes those people can be the biggest motivation.
Not really the same thing though. You think you’d have ended up even better if your boss had beaten you? I mean, I guess you might have cause you could’ve sued him…