Cheaters ruining their marriages in 10 seconds or less - REACTION
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I will never understand people who cheat instead of just breaking up đ
Men donât usually leave until they have the next woman lined up and theyâre in the new situation already
they probably get a high when they get away with it like the child they are.
I also don't get where they find the time LOL. 1 good relationship is good enough.
Breaking up is hard but not as hard as keeping up with an elaborate lie!
Control
Me too
"I cheated on my step-brother with his brother." Well, let me get my teađ”
Edit after I finished the story: I spit my tea outđ
⊠and a puke bag.
What in the incest smut is this
Iâm just thinking âwhy did the parents decide to get married when their kids were together first?â
ââ@@fizzydizzystudios4768 seriously, I don't care if I have deep feelings for my kids partner's parent, I would be taking that to the grave before I ever started a relationship with them let alone got married to them?! I would never do that to my kid, because you're putting a ton of stigma on them.
@@fizzydizzystudios4768 Because trashfire runs in the family.
People who cheat on their *pregnant* spouses are a-whole-nother kind of evil.
You've connected yourself to another human in the most permanent and intimate way possible - by creating a shared life between you - and you so casually go about unprotected with no regard what so ever.
*HOW DO YOU EVEN I DO NOT UNDERSTAND YOOOOU*
It happens a lot. The man's excuse is usually, "Well you're not giving me enough sex." It's gross.
@@DawnKellyPhotography That IS gross. đ€ą Like sorry, you're not getting your daily orgasms, but having sex while growing a baby is harder than it looks. đ And it's not like they can get back on the horse right after giving birth either. In fact, doctors advise against it. Why? Because the lady bits need time to heal. They don't get better within a few days. It could takes weeks, it could take months. Especially you've given birth for the first time. I know not all men act this way(thank goodness), but whenever I hear a man tell his wife who is pregnant or had just given birth that the reason he cheated on her was because he wasn't getting enough sex from her, it makes me wanna throw up. đ€źđ€ą
â@@DawnKellyPhotography ikr!! But we're the bad guys for not putting up with it appearantly smfh đ
â@@PrincessQ-fj9ly not all,sure,but way too many do. So many that there are literally nurses every single day having to tell pregnant women that their husbands are cheating smfh
â@@DawnKellyPhotography my ex used that excuse... Especially when I was pregnant.
The 1st lady really knows how to tell a story. I was enthralled đ
Same but the second one too lol, this was just a good episode overall and the last one was just hilarious
yes for sure!! the storytelling was amazing! :D all that extra emotions
@@tsc373personally I donât have the attention span for the storytelling style of the second one but I was still so interested in the end of the story so I had to keep listening đ
(by the attention span thing I just mean I was sitting here watching it thinking âwill you please say more than half of one sentence before pausing and unpausing to finish the sentence?! Just get it all out!â đ)
I thought it was so boring! She literally _could_ have told the whole story in 10 seconds. I was like "get to the point!" the whole time...
Same!!!!!! Dramatic too â@@anniestumpy9918
If you keep catching your husband or boyfriend on dating sites, and it ain't enough for you to leave, at one point you got to stop blaming a leopard for his spots and start blaming yourself for staying.
Right! I have to agree with you because why are grown ups going around catfishing their own husbands. I'm sorry but if I catch my husband on just ONE dating site I don't have time for all the shenanigans. I'm just going to leave him. This lady's husband has multiple so what does she think he's doing other than trying to get with them. Smh.
Way to put the blame on the victime.
@Shellygrrl2573 right, and I'd assume it's not new behavior. He/she just got too comfortable and got caught.
â@paulinebarre7940 it's not "blaming the victim" it's telling someone to have common sense and realize you should have more respect for yourself, because like they said...if you're SO goes through all the trouble to create a site, talk to other people, etc, they have already went past the point of deciding to cheat. Needing validation from others besides your SO is mentally cheating, and that's enough for any self respecting person to be done with them
I told her that but she still on that dumb bitch juice!
"I wanna thank the viewer that sent this in" is the same thing as going thru a whole journey in a video game only for the ending to be it was all a dream
the way I felt both relief and like it was an anti-climax lol
Haha! Yup
FFX vibes here...
I had Little Misfortune flashbacks đđ
Yes exactly! And Iâm always going to think of that girl in the red shirt being the one who has a baby with one stepbrother and marries the other, even if the story allegedly wasnât about herâŠ
Cheating on your spouse in the military will get you in big trouble. He can get court-martialed for that.
No kaka. Adultery [and its sister, fraternization - see with an underling] and drugs were the most 'popular' court martial when I retired.
It's worse when the spouse is a dependapotomus Karen (military slang for a significant other, usually a woman, who marries enlisted personnel to get the benefits). You know, the _'You will refer to my as my husband's rank!'_ type? Dude can catch a BCD, a Bad Conduct Discharge, if it's bad enough. More likely that he'll just get dropped a rank or something.
Almost a year divorced, still healing. My ex and I had a lot of problems, one of them being him constantly cheating. Every time I'd find evidence, he would gaslight me and get angry AF! Watching this video made me realize that THAT is a normal reaction from a chronic cheater and that I'm not crazy. We live and we learnđ Thanks Charlotteđ
Glad you moved on and are healing, no one deserves that
Glad you've been on your healing journey. I hope you find a man who is truly worthy of you and your love. đ
Be happy that your cheating ex is now gone.
It's so heart wrenching and I'm so sorry you went through that. I wouldn't wish that pain on most people.
My ex fiance of 7 years cheated on me and I found out 2 days after our anniversary. It's been 3 years and I'm still not 100% over it. Yes, I'm doing a heck of a lot better but still not all the way there. To be honest, I'm not sure if I'll ever be completely over it.
I left a 11 years relationship, where we had a child, 8 months ago. It's a very scary time when someone can lie about sexual history & putting your health at risk,& can just disappear and reappear whenever they feel like it. The partner I left was also using hard drugs, borrowed their counselors car for 3 months when they were trying to get it back when my ex didn't pay them for the car. I had to cut them off & go no contact after he broke into my parents house(me and my son live with my parents & don't have any way to support us being a full-time caregiver & chronic health conditions) my Dad was out of town for work that week & my Ex wouldn't stop calling and texting as I was getting my child to bed. I told him I don't want him there & that I'm scared of him. He kept trying to manipulate me in different ways, saying he was sunburned and getting eaten alive by mosquitoes, that he just needs water etc etc so I said you can come in to get water in 2 hours and that's All. Well he waited 45 mins, my child was drifting to sleep, but was awoken hearing the back door open & close. My child tried to go see but I said you stay & I'll go see. He was still in the back porch & he said his phone died & that he "waited 3 hours & that it was getting ridiculous" I said what ? I was just putting child to sleep it hasn't even been 2 hours yet, I told you to wait so I could get them to bed. He started yelling at me that he saw a light on & clearly I didn't even get my child to sleep yet & what kind of parent am I if I can't even do that simple thing...funny cause my ex has only put our child to sleep less than 5 times in 8 years. I told him if he wants to get water or come back he has to wait for me to get child to sleep. He said no F that. I said you have to leave then, I put up clear and concise boundaries & you crossed those boundaries so no you have to leave now. He tried to bum rush me and I didn't let him past the sliding glass doorway. He looked at me as if I just killed his dog.. I said, I'll fill it for you(the water, the water spout for the water tank was right beside the door) and he continued to try to shove me. I wouldn't move, then he grabbed my arms and put his hand over my mouth and nose and squeezed my face(I had little cuts just above my cheeks) and I started screaming for him to stop until I somehow got the sliding glass door shut and locked idk I kinda blacked out it happened so fast, to close and lock the door. He screamed at me through the door and that was the last time I saw him. He won't ever change & I realized that night & the following days and weeks that he could put my child's life & my life in jeopardy & I don't want to take that chance. I'm too scared of people being dishonest, to ever try to be with anyone again.
The number 1 rule is that when a woman asks you a specific question, they already know the answer. The reason why they still ask you is because they are giving you one last chance to be honest and show you are trustworthy. When someone can't pass something this simple, the relationship ends. Romantic or platonic.
Yup. I asked my husband how much alcohol he bought when he came home. He bought two bottles of wine. I saw them. He didn't know that. He said one. In a grand gesture, he brought it upstairs, MOSTLY EMPTY ALREADY, and told me I could drink it or dump it.
That was the beginning of the end.
This.
Facts
They ssssstill fail to get this though đ€ŠđŒââïžđ«
and then they get mad and try to make it about her "tricking" them
My mom married my dad's brother! My real dad was an abusive, unemployed alcoholic! When my mom filed for divorce, the State of Iowa made her wait 6 mos because I had just been born. My mom was poor & had no parents to speak of. She got the divorce & went on ADC. We, my mom, my 4-yr-old brother & me, moved into our own house. 3 years later, when my mom was dropping us off to visit my grandmother, my uncle was home on leave from the USAF. They all knew each other because they grew up on the same street. My mom mentioned she was going out with her girlfriends & he asked if he could come along. My mom rarely got to out because she just didnât have the money, she had 2 kids & just wasn't a drinker. She told my uncle he could join them. He went back to the base but started writing letters to my mom & seeing her when he got time off. He was stationed in Omaha. He had been in Germany for 8 years, so there was no hanky-panky behind our real father's back. My uncle got stationed to N.C. & just before he left, he asked my mom to marry him! I was almost 5-yrs-old. She said yes, and now my uncle is my step-dad! My grandmother wasn't happy about it, nor my real father. But, my uncle been the only father I've really had. They stayed married until my mom died last year at 89-yrs-old! My brother died in 1985. So now it's just me & my step-dad.
The world was smaller back then so these things were pretty common. Glad they ended up happily married and you got to have a happy family â€
@@stitchncoffee Thank you!
That's a lovely story! Way back in my distant ancestry (like in the1800s) one of my great x uncles married his brother's widow, my great x grandmother. I think that was common back then. Your story is way sweeter, though!
That's actually such a sweet story!
That's awesome!
I love that fact that as soon as the secound woman finished saying that she cheated on her step brother's with his brother and doesn't know what to do , an add for online therapy popped up .
My dad was a serial chester. đ
He was telling all the women he was hooking up with, that he was divorced from my mom (rhey were still married), he only had one child (me, I have three other siblings. Four kids in total đ ) . Told them, allllllll these lies.
Finally. My mom asked for a divorce, and he went through with it with no struggles. Didn't look back
BUT
My mom got to meet some of the women he had been involved with, and they were absolutely. STUNNED. Due to all the lies he spun, coming undone đđđđ
Suddenly. They were mad at him too, for lying about being divorced. For lying about my mom being mean and ab*sive, and they were all like; "YOU MESSED TF UP. YOU MESSED UP. YOU HAD THE BEST WOMAN YOU'LL EVER HAVE!!!!"
He realized that đđđđ
Way TOOOOOOOO late, and was sad for a loooooong time.
He did grow up though, and he's passed away this past month, and I have to say. His wife (my step-mom) is a beautiful, wonderful woman. And they were so in love.
My mom told her that she's glad my dad settled down and was happy, after allllll the sh*t that happened.
Either way.
Yeah
NEVER LIE
YOU GRT CAUGHT EVENTUALLY
Hot take on the second story, donât date men who go to strip clubs. I donât trust it. Especially if he knew she was cheating.
So trashy
That's fairly good advice. I might be biased here since I don't like strip clubs, but I just get a bad vibe or two from strip clubs.
Me too, its filthy. Not to matter it's my opinion that men purchasing women's bodies is the root issue. It's the market that's buying that's disgusting.
Same with only fans or paying for porn. There's nothing healthy going on in a man that works like this.
@@PrincessQ-fj9lysame, I agree. Especially when he wants her to leave. You found her there and now you want to change her? Heâs a red flag too.
As a former dancer, most men who come into clubs are not there to cheat. I'm sure there are exceptions, of course. But most of the guys on there are just blowing off steam and it usually doesn't lead to anything from that.
When my wife was pregnant, I ALWAYS told her how lovely she was! I wasnât lying either. A pregnant woman carrying a child in my view is the epitome of beauty and in my case made realize how much I loved her. I could never fathom cheating on my wife when she carries that precious life we made together!
You're a good man.
Thatâs lovely, my husband hated me pregnant, âItâs gross when it movesâ so I had to be careful not to brush against him at night. It was awful.
@@judywright4241why doesnât this say ex husbandâŠ
Why couldnât I have found a man like you? Mine had a daughter born after our marriage. đą
â@@judywright4241you mean ex husband right..??
When a woman asks you the same question twice in a row, she ALREADY KNOWS THE ANSWER.
Good man. . .
1. Heâs not afraid of difficulties and is ready to solve any problems.
2. He can prepare dinner by himself.
3. He will always support you, even if youâve made a serious mistake.
4. He pays attention to detail.
5. He is wise, not just smart.
6. He knows how to cheer you up.
7. He knows how to compromise and negotiate.
8. He doesnât forget about your problems immediately after leaving home.
9. Your opinion matters to him.
10. He helps you with household chores.
11. Financially responsible.
12. HE IS NOT A CHEATER!!!!
Behold, the fabled, desirable unicorn. A truly rare find in the wild.
This is definitely my life partner. And I thank my lucky stars every day that we met when we did. Is he absolutely perfect, no. But damn close.
The technology to create this clone of a man is coming soon!
100000%
Definitely my partner. He's not perfect, and we still annoy each other, because we're humans, but that loyalty and willingness to care for the other above yourself, it's what gets you through. I think about him, he thinks about me, and we're both covered.
Step brother's step brother....girl that ain't a family tree, that is a wreath.
It's still her step brother but it's baby's daddy half brother
This comment has me in tears! đđđ
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genuine lol!
Girl with the step brothers needs to stop relationships altogether and fix herself. đ”âđ«
She is just trash and nasty to be with her boyfriends brother
It sounds like a wattpad story in real life đ
It's not like she started dating him when he was already his stepbrother or had any knowledge of a relation between one man and the other, tho. And tbh if someone tells me that he's going to unalive himself if I leave I'd feel trapped too, that's straight up emotional abuse. Sounds like baby daddy AND his dad who just had another kid laying around need to fix themselves more than she does
Yep- just get yourself and the kid outta there before the kid grows up with issues!
@@beccymalloyi dont think its that easy for her
The first lady is an awesome story teller. Shes very animated, does the voices and is just overall very captivating. I felt like I was witnessing the whole thing while listening to her.
The lady that was narrating the confession the viewer sent in was actually talking like it was her own story. Like with the hand gestures and expressions, it legit looked like it was her own confession. She should be an actress đ
Once he said he no longer loves his wife to another woman, there is no need to set no date up.
The cheating is one thing, but to say you don't love your wife, it's done over, no coming back from that
Agreed
It depends if the significant other is typically a gaslighter and a liar, some people need to catch them in the act. This way both will know exactly what's going on and even if that person tries to deny it, it won't work. But not all relationships are like that. Getting screenshots can be enough proof for someone to leave and don't need to have the person admit it.
By the way, I used to have a cat named Taz!! My cheating ex-fiance kept him when we broke up. I kept our other cat.
Guys say that all the time and the wives stay. Itâs crazy. Thatâs a no⊠hell no.
@@cynn29 they probably put up with cheating too huh /s
Periodt.
You catch them red handed and they will STILL play in your face đ€ŠđŸââïž. âBaby it wasnât that seriousâ, â It was just fun with her but I really love youâ, âI knew it was you all along. I just came to catch youâ. đ The gaslighting NEVER stops đ©đđ
Nope. And honestly, it irritates me, especially when they insulted the person they're supposed to love just a few moments prior. Yuck! đ€źđ€ą
Then when they realize they're not going to successfully gaslight you, it turns into insults and blaming you for their actions đ
like thatâs supposed to make me feel better or something?? lmao đ
I think the gaslighting and lying is more insulting, but those fools don't deserve good women! They want all the "fun" without any of the adult responsibilities.
My all time favorite: "But it didn't mean anything--it just happened." đ So, if it "didn't mean anything WHY'D YA DO IT?!" Also, no one is walking along and then they suddenly 'just happen' to fall into someone else's bed.
The narcissistic gaslighters aren't worth our time.
â@@fallenbee yup. Every single time.đĄ No accountability.
With the whole boyfriend and girlfriend becoming step- siblings, remind yall of Caitlyn and Tyler from Teen Mom OG. They were together since middle school, when his dad married her mom. Like crazy
I read somewhere that "Men cheat, woman leave." - Talking about marriages, because a man rather settle and stay comfy and secure in a unhappy marriage where even without love he have all the perks in society of being married plus someone who take care of him and the home for free. Woman leave because even thought society will jugde her for being divorce is better than have to take care of someone who she doesn't love or respect for the rest of her life.
Donât crush people emotionally by cheating. Just leave if you donât love them anymore.
Even if you still love themâŠ
This! Exactly this! I mean come on. It's not that hard to do the right thing and end the relationship if you're not happy. I get divorces and break ups in general can be messy, but spare yourself the ire and your partner the extra heartache. Please.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly exactly, i agree with you.
So true
If you know you know
Kudos to the creator, she read it in such a way I genuinely thought she was talking about herself.
Also, I fully agree with Charlotte, just break up if you feel like cheating.
Same. I totally believed it was her but I did keep noticing the huge ring on her ring finger and thinking it looked like she was already married or engaged.
I kept thinking but what if her boyfriend sees this đ€Ł
Last guy was playing Russian Roulette with not just his life but MULTIPLE OTHERS including his unborn baby & mother/girlfriend. SICKOOOO. Thank God she found that out.
The face of the nail technician when she said " you forgot to put on your bra after you..." was so funđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł And then Charlotte's reaction was even better, her wheez just sent međ€Łđ€Ł
Yep, did the fake profile thing to my ex. Except I had him waiting at a seedy hotel for about an hour. Watched him for over an hour from across the road. He went from excited to anxious to angry and it was a joy to watch.
đđđđ vicariously living through your story đ€ŁđđŒ
Man, you really rode that out!! But you did get alllllll the closure. Ugh.
Oh my gosh I love your genius mind â€â€â€đđđ
It has been my experience that people are serial cheaters have internal issues that no one else can âfix.â
I think you're absolutely right
So true. My ex cheated from day one. On me, on his second wife, on his third wife...
They're looking for their missing pieces in others, then get dissatisfied when they find out those holes are still there. I swear some of them start to genuinely believe that everyone else is the problem, that it's everyone else's fault that they become temporarily fulfilled in the beginning of a new thing, only to later start feeling the itch of those missing pieces again.
I swear I've met older people, who STILL haven't figured out that they have to find that fulfilment within themselves. That it's impossible for another person to "fix" it for them.
Exactly! It's actually a deep issue inside themselves and it CAN be fixed with the help of therapy, but these people usually don't understand that and just look for another ride..understand
Yep. They keep looking to new people, new relationships etc. for the rush that fulfils them for a moment. But they never find true satisfaction because their issues are internal - external validation soothes you temporarily, but it can't fix your deep-rooted insecurities with yourself. You have to do that work. No one else can fill in those holes for you.
When they are asking point blank questions - they know the answers. You're toast, dude.
That last one had me rolling. Truly the definition of "never let them know your last move" đ€Ł
"I cheated on my step-brother with his brother"
đđ thank god i wasnt driving when i heard that cause the *swerve* i would have trying to replay that bit would probably kill me
I was driving đŹ
Girl I'm driving and I'm currently listening to that part..typing at a red light lmfaooo
I was soooo confused, my head is still reeeling. Like that family get togetherâs are gona be weird.
Lol omg please be careful! Pause this piping hot tea until you guys aren't driving đ
Sameee thank god I'm sitting down when heard that đ
You know itâs some hot tea when the *nail tech*, the QUEEN OF TEA herself has to pause the service and process this information
Nail techs and hairdressers have the most tea because women will talk to them more than their girlfriends.
The look of pure SHOCK on that nail techâs face đ
I hate the stopping and editing
Story no. 3 should report the husband to his bosses. Adultery is basically a crime in the military and he could get demoted, discharged or even jailed
Exactly, a friend of mine got pregnant by a Navy guy she didnât know was married. Her and the wife teamed up because they were both being lied to (and both in the Navy as well) and got him thrown in the brig.
wow is this the 19th century?
Not defending cheaters; but that's a personal matter and not the military's business.
Lmao "tell him to tell her it his momma bra." OmGoooooOoOoOooossshđđđđ that face when she asked if shes havin an affairđ
Cheating is such a weird concept.a relationship as is takes a lot of energy and time let alone secretly making another and being able to look your partner in the eyes while doing so.such a crazy concept
I think that is part of the appeal to them. They are looking you in the eyes while duping you. They get a big dose of dupers delight. It makes them smile.
Yeah. How someone makes time for that, I'll never understand.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly right??? Like relationships are take up a lot of time and effort how are people out here having more??đ
Because they don't actually put any real time or energy or effort into their relationship. They're basically just getting their corn buttered in more than one location.
@@jaginaiaelectrizs6341good point.
That last story, I feel her pain. At 5'8", even when I weighed 100 pounds, he called me fat. And cheated with big gals. Gaslighting, projecting, cheating. Bastard.
Yess my son's father did the same while I was pregnant. He cheated on me with toothless, homeless, drug addict, big girl. I was like...really mow
As a Lash Artist, I can confirm that I hear so much tea and crazy stories from my clients, that I could write a book!! Lol I don't just give them lashes, but I'm a therapist as well lol
An old highschool ex bf and his dad live by the mantra "you can do whatever you want as long as the gf and the wife don't find out".
âIâm gonna need to roll it back.â Me too. Me too.
Hey guys, it happens. My dad and my MIL got married after their spouses passed away. My husband and I had already been married for 10 years. So I guess technically Iâm cheating on my husband with my stepbrother lol.đ€·đŒââïžđ
Yes it happensâŠ.but with all the rest? Nope
So your father and MIL are creating a wreath in your family tree. Lol
Yo for its not like any of these people grew up together but even then if they're all consenting adults who aren't actually related just let people be happy. This world is already a cruel place. Don't try to take somebody's love
But they had passed away đź that's different, the baby daddy is pretty much alive đźđźđź
My uncle married my sister's high school boyfriend. They didn't get married, but he did propose.
The last one got me cracking up Lolz đđđis the way she told the story and the nail tech was giving her advise đđđđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
"I say it with love, i get how you feel, your feelings are valid" You keep it real and you spread love! We love you Charlotte!
The step brothers story was the most convoluted kind of relationships Iâve ever heard of. And Iâm loving it (while feeling bad for OP)
Her parents were wild. I don't blame her for getting with Jace, but still wrong though. I hope Jace deals with his brother though. She should marry jace. That's the only solution đ
Time to cut your losses and cut the relationship with both if them. Better start something with a new person than staying in this family. There'll be drama until you die if you do (or longer, cuz the kids are also involved with your decisions)
@@Nathan_Bookwurm well said! I support this messages
The step brother one is crazy! Its gonna be awkward as hell during Thanksgiving and Christmas get togethers đ
Can you imagine the wedding drama there would be! Insane!
I am fascinated by these types of stories. It's a whole different world for me. Cheating isn't really a thing in my relationships so I miss out on all the stressful drama đ
Literally got to the part when Charlotte got to the thumbnail story and is going like âWait what did I hear!! Roll it backâ and a ad starts playing longest 5 secs of my life!! Needed to hear that tea!!
Sameeeee....Did Charlotte place that ad there on purpose just to do that to us đđđ
That last lady, needed to go to his superior and tell them. They military doesn't play that. He could lose rank or be kicked out of the military for doing that to her. If she didn't, she knows she could have, and the fact that she didn't want to ruin that man's life after what he did, ((no benefits from the military, other than an honorable discharge, stripped of his rank, housing, va loans, etc gone) means that she is a nice and kind person and he's the devil. She could have done all of that with one phone call. â€
Thank you Charlotte đ â€big love.
Seriously! I've heard that in the military there's a saying : "50 miles and a bridge and you're single." That guy didn't even bother with that!
If she financially ruins him, how will he support their baby? She's not just being nice, she's being smart.
Plus, military men can be dangerous. I wouldn't want one trying to retaliate against me.
@@lkf8799 good point. It must have taken a lot of restraint not to mess him up like that. she's stronger than I am for that.
The CoC doesn't usually care when that's happening, unless its bleeding into the unit or there is DV. Even then, some units still try to protect the guys. Now if the mbr is sleeping with a subordinate and crossing an instructor /student boundary, then that's a different story. A large chunk of the guys sleep around, but they won't get kicked out unless there is a form of abuse involved (ie. physical or drug). Given, it's probably different in other armies, units or branches.
@@HummingbirdG6843they 100% will care if itâs reported. Iâve seen it first hand at my other unit.
That first wife should have let him keep the date and show up. THAT would be a shocker to him.
2nd girl....drink the damned tea already!
1st - "Do you like Pina Coladas?" Better to have exposed at the meet đ
2nd - Why are you supporting 2 boys? Why didn't you kick the leach to the curb after 3 months of not working?? He's not even taking care of his child while you're at work! đł
3rd - I hope you asked him how he'd feel if you talked to his CO... đ€š
Last - Your neighbor? Seriously! Gladys Kravitz is gonna narc on you! đ
Yeah, and bring divorce papers along with her.
â@@strawberi6257 second one was abusive to her. He threatened to kill himself if she left, which is psychological abuse, and I would be surprised if more was happening behind the scenes
Gladys Kravitis đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łbrings back many a Saturday morning when I too was your age đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€ŁCheers đ·
@@justaperson4656 I've heard that several times. I stayed the 1st time and walked immediately every other time.
Thereâs nothing better than coming back from a long vacation and having a bunch of charlotte to watch!
14:48 đđđđđ. Damn. She didnât. BUT. Itâs still SOMEBODY. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđđđđđ
The time and energy some people put into cheating on their partners is beyond me đąđą
Charlotte has said it before I can barely keep up with one relationship. Try two. I'd just crazy
They will do anything and itâs honestly disgusting đ€ź
Anybody else feel like she's trying to hypnotize us with that teacup to not freak out over the stepbrother thing? đ I'm in the sunken place.
Like in the movie Get Out. đ
Not the Get Out reference, hahaha.
The first lady really knows how to tell a story.. i was hooked, upset, brokendown tooâŠ. And my man is just tryna sleep đąđ
This was so entertaining! That last one was the cherry on top - her reactions! Thank you!! And thank you for all the hard work you put into these videos!!
All of these stories sound like they're straight out of wattpadđ
The dramatic readings of them made me not believe them đ
@@jinnyweaver ikr!! Like i can totally see a 15 yr old uploading this thinking it's gonna rank no.1 or smth.... Nd it probably did lol
Or Apple Texts
Charlotte, my day doesn't feel right without a daily dose of your glorious humor and beauty~
You're the best!
@@CharlotteDobreI agree with them! All Hail the Empress of Petty Potatopia!!! đșđșđș
Luckily - thereâs plenty of older videos to catch up on on her off days
Same
Same
Omg the snake part at 6:58 literally killed me đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ
So 20 years ago I started cosmetology school & then apprenticed under my mentor & worked in the salon full time. I was just starting to reach my twenties & very naive, gullibleâŠâŠ just very green! My mentor was very well known in the industry, like well-known around the world in the âhair worldâ & had moved to my area to retire so long story short I was very lucky & grateful to have that opportunity! He went to Vidal Sassoon hair school way back & he told me that he was actually involved in a science study/experiment to see if people; men & women, open up more to their hair stylist or therapist! So itâs a scientific fact that people feel more relaxed & open the flood gates for their hair stylist, barber, nail lady, esthetician, etc than their therapist!!!! lol! It was crazy knowing all the secrets I knew! But that also meant you had to keep your mouth shut because no matter how big the city, everyone knows everyone! It was very draining actually but itâs one of the best occupations to have!!!!!đ
That first one, oh no no Charlotte.. What we would do is act like we're accepting his answers and keep the conversation going. He's never gonna give the other woman his address out of fear that she'll show up at the house. So then one day, you start acting like a stalker. Send him a message that you saw him with another woman, (wife) and give details about where you saw her. Then start sending creepy messages, get him to block the other woman.. Then leave him a hand delivered gift at the door, to be found on a day when the wife was running late, and watch him silently freak out cuz this chick is crazy and she knows where he lives. Then mail him a birthday card to his mother's house. Just keep it going till he's ready to call the cops, really mess with him.
EPIC!!
This is evil... I love it
@@Bane_Amesta Haha yeah keep it going till he confesses out of fear that this crazy stalker is gonna đ„đ„đ„ the house. My friend and I once saw her hubby's car parked at a strip club in town (there were two, not too far apart) so she grabbed his spare keys and just drove the car to the parking lot of the other one where I picked her back up and went about our business, never saying a word. Dude reported his car stolen and then it was "recovered" but he just thought he'd gotten so drunk that he did it himself and forgot, but he had to hide the details. You can turn on the gaslight if you want, but I'll turn that gaslight to shine where I want it.
@@chrismazz75you are my new best friend
Of my gosh I love this way too much. Deliciously diabolical
That second story sounds like a YA novel plot or shojo series. That walking in and seeing her fiance as the lost brother clinched it. I can't believe it's real. đ€
Literally what I was thinking
All that was missing was the part where the new step brother knew all along who she was and planned to steal her away as part of a revenge plot for the life he never had. đ
that absolutely sounds like a Slice Of Life Shojo manga and i would have ate that shit up in middle school
@@SuperBettyxoxoonly he fell in love with her and decided not to use her to enact his revenge but it was too late. Now he needs to earn her trust but can he really hurt his soul mateâs baby daddy when theyâre both just casualties of their fatherâs (the real villain) sins?
Telenovela đ
Charlotte, I am living for your makeup!!! Love it!!!
The best plan (in relation to the 1st video) is to have him go to meet up, take a photo of him at the restaurant or whatever, have him wait hours (stuck in traffic, won't be long etc) before cancelling/ghosting, wait for him to come home and then proceed to question him. That way you can catch him out in the lies, prove his true intentions through the meet up AND have him sit around for hours only to get disappointed. Win win
Why is it always so hard for some people to break up instead of cheating.
Because theyâre cowards
Right!!!!
And selfish.
Because they don't want to lose their "nest" until they find a bigger one. Until they find one, that's worth "the trouble" of breaking up. Always looking on the other side of the pasture.
Regarding serial cheaters especially:
The mentality of some is, Why give up the same old, always reliable bird in the hand - and ALL the day-to-day perks that come with it (sex, meals, a home, etc) - if you can get away with also having other, new and more exciting birds on the side?
While others can't stand to be alone and/or constantly need attention and ego stroking, so they hang onto that one person who will pretty much always be there and available to them for the times if/when others aren't.
And what all serial cheaters have in common is NO respect or regard for ANY of the people (women OR men) that they get involved with. They're just objects to be used at their own convenience and for their own pleasure and comfort. And they're quite expert at picking out who will let them get away with this. They figure anyone who is so stupid (or just plain gullible), and/or so needy (desperate, lonely, without boundaries, "damaged" etc), and/or so "nice" (always forgiving, a doormat, completely avoids argument/confrontation, likes to keep their head in the sand of la-la-land, etc) and/or generally just so lacking in self-respect that they'll get involved with them (in the first place) and then put up with being treated like that, is just asking to be treated like that.
So my friend at the time sent me a screenshot of my bf at the time tinder. We were on the couch with my mom talking. I handed him my phone, showing the picture, stood up and walked out. The convo with my mom had ended so it was perfect timing. He followed me and bawled his eyes out saying all these excuses. He left me for another woman after proposing but told me he was going to see family in NY and had me send him money. I am now happily married to a man who donât even notice other women. The good ones are out there babes, keep looking!
That nail tech's flabbers were ghasted for sure!!! lol
I just want to say I love that blue eyeliner on you! And your videos are always making me laugh! much love for getting me through some dark days đ€đ Thank you so much!
I swear, Charlotte is the most stable thing in my life â€
Sighs....me too âș
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I'm judging her for sipping tea from a soup spoon.
It was annoying me so much, and I can't really put my finger on why. And what was she eating in the beginning?
â@@PernicketyPern I thought maybe, raw honey? But I'm not sure
Glad I am not alone đ
ââ@@PernicketyPernyes. I thought it was caramelized onions.đ
Me too. For some reason slurping tea from any kind of spoon seriously bothers me.
This eyeliner makes your eye color POP!!! Loving the 60s vibe :)
Oh my god that last one had me cackling with my T cracked voice in the middle of the night I hope I didnât wake a neighbor laughing at the nail ladyâs face when she realized she was getting some real tea!
This first story is literally "If you like pina coladas..."
Cheaters are narcissists and they don't leave their partners for two main reasons:
1. Narcissists thrive on unwavering adoration and compliance in every aspect from everyone all the time.
2. You are their extension and they'll be damned to let you go or otherwise live happily without them.
Money/drugs/etc are bonuses to cheaters but not always the standard.
This. Right. Here.
That's so not true. The issue with cheating is that people tend to see the whole scenario as black and white and it's not always like that. Btw, I'm not trying to defend cheaters nor victim blame, what I'm saying is that narcissism is not the only answer.
Let me explain, sometime ago, I had this coworker that cheating literally saved her life. The short version is, her husband beat the crap out of her at least once a week for who knows how long, when I started working there, she was already in that situation. About 6 month's after I started working there, new coworker enters the scene, 2 months later, emotional affair started, 1.5 months later, she ran away with the AP. 8 month's later, ex husband ended up in prison for unaliving his new GF.
Most of the times it's not like that, of course, but there's so much more than just "narcissism".
Came back to add that, I'm not condoning cheating xD There are waaaay to little scenarios where it might be "acceptable" but, besides the one I just mentioned, I'm having a hard time overthinking to find another one xD
@@peachesnsht I understand there are always exceptions and gray areas, cheating and theft included. Some people have killed in self-defense, and I wouldn't label them a murderer even though they took a life.
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK â€â€â€â€â€
that nail tech at the end - hahaha - I want her to be my nail tech!!! Lol
That last one omg!!! She was so invested after the affair confession đđ
She's wants to know the tea. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
I love you Charlotte and the fact you can have empathy for someone in a bad situation, but still spit the facts that cheating is just not ok.
I love the nail tech's expressions!
That step brother one, sounds like a smut anthology I was going to submit LMAOOOO!!!
The step-brothers story could have a happy ending. If she left her baby daddy, waited until the baby daddy had recovered from that and was dating someone else, then if he was eased into it him and his family might be able to accept her dating his brother. Then, if she could wait a couple of years, she could marry the brother. It would look like a normal relationship timeline, and if the baby daddy had moved on enough there's the potential for everything to work out fine.
Such a messy situation, tho. đ
Ifffff itâs realâŠ.i am not sure why no one else thinks this story is just not real
If he wanted to marry her, had he not been close enough to mention he is going to meet his biological dad and half brother? I think it could work overtime but it is a messed up situation for sure!
If the baby daddy WAS a loser lazy bum PO? It wouldn't honestly matter later in what he thinks of the mom's relationship, because he's only there to help raise the child they made together, support them, and make sure they have a stable life with both parents.....the relationship (if important enough) will progress as it should if it's meant to be, and it's not up to him who she dated at ALL, as long as that person is good to their child. If she hadn't cheated, then maybe things would have tipped in her favor for the better, but I already just don't like how she downed the guy she had a baby with, while already LYING to him about her job, then cheats, but blames him for being a bum? If she had talked to him, he likely would have gotten his shit together or they would have split anyway. It only would have gone two ways
â@@karakloss1761I don't believe it either because that girl's whole vibe is off
â@@nopetfout5426not talking about parents and family was probably a taboo because their whole point of interaction was a monetary transaction for some alone time. I don't disagree with your points but there's another level of complexity that "his dad is my step-father and my mom supports the relationship" brings. The only one I feel bad for is Jace and the child.
Also, I hope to God this is fake or else I would harass the hell out of the step-father and mother for using their children's dates to also get close to each other.
That first story just draggggggged on. Jesus lol
It was like a Tedx Talk
Yes
The second story was longer...
@@nic.capone.8483the second story had more story beats and was told a little better so it was more bearable. The first one I had to play at 2x it was just so boring.
I know, right. Just get to the point already!
Charlotte, I really like the eyeliner I mean in general when you wear colorful eyeliner, it adds sparkle to you đ
14:39 The banjos are *STRONG* with this one!
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I agree with you about the 1st one, I would have waited to see if he actually showed up to the agreed upon meeting.
Meh, dude is sending pics of his junk, to ladies he just barely met online. I think thay is plenty far enough I don't think I would have waited either
Good day, petty potatoes đ„
Yes good dayâš
Correct
Good day â€
It's a very good day
Have a great dayâ€
@7:54 This is some straight up whiskey tango screaming at people in the Walmart parking lot nonsense here.
I love that Francia was MAKING TEA while telling us THE TEA!!!đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
On the story about the girl dating the brother without knowing, I've done that by accident (kinda). Dated this one guy in my hometown, has known him for years. He had a half brother through their mom. His brother, I'll call him John, had another brother through his dad but had never met him. John is married to Jen with 3 kids. This is relevant.
Months later, I move 5 hours away and end up breaking up with my ex. Couple years later, I meet this new dude. Seemed nice, we got along. Started dating and he said he had a brother with 2 kids that he'd never met. Said his sister in law's name was (we'll say) Jane. Well, scrolling through fb, I notice he's friends with Jen. I ask how he knows her bc he's never even been to my hometown before and he goes "Oh that's my brother's wife!" WAIT WHAT??? Yeah turns out I found the long lost missing half-brother 5 hours away. I dated both of John's half brothers and I told him he better not have a third bc I refuse đ
Why do cheaters even get married? Itâs sad that some women and men donât have any respect for themselves or the people they use and hurt !
Imagine the STD chances that they may be spreading around!
So many people are still cheating on their fiance when they get married. Like dude, you're getting MARRIED and you're texting your mistress at your wedding.
It's happened a lot. And with brides too. It's ridiculous. Clowns.
@@DawnKellyPhotography I hear ya. If you can't commit yourself to your partner or any partner for that matter, then just don't be in a relationship. Stay single. Heck, I'd have more respect for these people if they just had flings while staying single.
Wife appliance is very useful.
Love your eye makeup! So pretty!!
Lovely Charlotte, Iâm literally breaking up with my bf of 4 years today and heâs moving out and all that⊠your video has still made me smile! Thanks girly, love your vibe and your authenticity. Makes it easy to find a smile even on a hard day â€xx
Wishing you a happy positive life ahead. You deserve to be happy too
@@lilywilson4839 â€ïž thank you, been a long time coming but itâs still sad. Looking forward to new horizons đđŒ
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Good day, petty potatoes đ„.
Am i the only one who kept getting annoyed with how many times the lady with the step-bother, brother story kept reaching for the screen i.e. her phone and the change of takes? Just međ
Anyway, great video Charlotte đ„łđ„łđ„ł
Yes, thank you, it kept bugging me so much!
Yep
That was driving me nuts. Made sense once we found out it was a story submission. Obviously scrolling her script up.
Makes me think of my grandparents, my parents and my aunts and uncles, whom all have been in committed marriages. We've had multiple parties for 25, 30, 35 and 40 years of marriage
My dad's aunt and uncle unfortunately have recently passed away, but they were together for over 75 years!
My mom's sister recently passed as well at the age of 67, fighting cancer for over 25 years đą but her husband, my uncle, has stood by her always. They had been together from when they were only 17 and 18, married for 48 years. My uncle would never look at another woman. He absolutely adored her and I have no clue how he emotionally is managing to keep going without her.. they did have 4 children and there are a bunch of grandkids, they're probably what keeps him 'afloat'
We can only hope to find a love like that... it feels like guys(and girls) like that no longer exist because values and life in general have just changed to much. My parents met when my mom was only 14, my dad was 19, which just sounds crazy for todays standards. They didn't hookup until much later, but still. They, like almost everyone in their family and friend groups at that time, got married young at 19 and 24
I remember being 19... I was such an immature kid still back then, still studying and basically just being a kid still. Cant imagine having gotten married thenđ no one I knew was mature enough at that age to be getting married..
But my parents and their siblings grew up in a different time. The one aunt I talked about had already moved out to go to nursing school and live at the dorms there when she was only 14(!!) đź They were all grown up and full on adulting before they were even 18
And now here we millenials are... đ«ą still not adulting at 30+ đ
Your my favorite creator đ I literally listen to you everytime I drive anywhere and have for the past few years my boyfriend gets so annoyed đI listen to you while I walk and cook and everything really đđâ€â€â€
Me and my husband between 27 and 30yo. Married for 7 years. He told me today we beat a statistic like top 1.7% of marriages that have lasted over 5 years.
Celebrated my 8 year wedding anniversary last week, I'm 31 my husband is 33. I'll have to let him know đ its quite sad really though
Coming up on 27th anniversary. We married at 22â€â€
What statistic is he talking about though?
Only Charlotte can make me laugh about cheaters lol, her Channel really helped me a lot when my ex boyfriend did that to me. Thank you Charlotte for all the laughs that made bad days a little bit better.â€
I'm just happy to hear that he's now your EX, bestie!!! â€
@@lisamelroy2855 thank you so much.
@@lisamelroy2855 yes, i don't want anyone like that in my life. Thank you for your kind words.
@@lisamelroy2855 thank you for your kind words.
Thank you Lisa for your kind words. â„ïž
Charlotte has the best personality and is so incredibly funny. Love ya, bestie.
Me n Charlotte having the same responses and facial expressions the first 7:40 of the video. đđ