My First Time As A Plus Size Woman | Plus Size Dating Horror Stories
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- čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
- Hey babes! Welcome back to another #storytime ! So per y’all’s request I’m doing a storytime about my first time as a plus size woman. I wanted to share this story because it’s kind of a dating horror story and I learned so many things from this experience and it’s apart of my growth and journey so I hope y’all enjoy my story and learn some lessons Chile lol ❤️
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I was so nervous to do this but I hope this helps lol don’t forget to like this video ❤️❤️❤️
Yes pleaseeee do more vids like this!! I’ve bee waiting for this video 🤣🤣
I be tickled with the way you give new meaning to storytelling. I'm a Los Angelina too, born and raised..At one time, Gangsta -life was legit my lane. However, we can now safely say it's out our system.
Sis this is so embarrassing but I'm turning 24 in a few days and I'm still a vigin. I was raised exactly like you! And honestly speaking I have never come across a man that I believe truly deserves me in that sense. I refuse to settle for less than what I believe I deserve. Especially seeing so many of my friends with regret and bad experiences. But as of recently it's men have been shaming me for it. It really is affecting me negatively. Because men say they need women with experience. I used to be so proud but now I feel so ashamed and unloved lol. Like is there something wrong with me? Please Send help!
Omg your sooo blessed! Please don’t think your doing anything wrong. Men aren’t the men we looked at in movies they aren’t the same. Stay connected to your values. It’s not worth it at all.
Nothing embarrassing about this!!!! Boy if I could do things differently, I’d do the same.
If i could do things differently i would be in your shoes. Only a real mans gonna value the fact you're not out here with your legs wide open.
U golden boo! Don’t give it up and honestly it’s none of their business if you are a virgin or not! Get to know each other first and spend great time together before moving on rather it be to a committed monogamous relationship, engaged/ married or having sex for the first time! There’s nothing wrong with you boo!!
@@jessicagrooms2198 Right!! I agree!! It’s not all roses 🌹 and peaches 🍑
Whew! In the backseat of a BUG lord. I’m so glad you’ve grown into the woman you are Chrissy. I definitely want to wait not only for biblical reasons, but I also feel like it weeds out the douchebags that are really only there for 1 thing. Love you Chrissy☺️
Trust me! It really does!!!!
My good sis the girls needed this! A LOT of us have been there but look at us now! Thank God for his unconditional love and our growth. Love you candidly Chrissssy your mess has turned into your message and I love that for you. 💕✨
This channel is full package, its full of laughter, tears, fashion, girl chat/advises i mean the list is endless. Hearing you talk about you first made me remember my first and gal it was as horrible 😂😂😂😂. Gone are dem days🤣🤣🤣
I really appreciate you being so candid about your life. I really pray that this video will really help other young ladies to make better choices. This is really great, keep doing what you are doing.
Thankyou so much! That was prayer as well when I decided to do this video ❤️❤️❤️
I’m so glad there are influencers like you that use their platforms to help others even if it means sacrificing a little more of yourself. I’m sure this content helped so many young girls facing some of the issues you endured with your then, bf.
Thankyou so much! That was really my prayer when I did the video I just hope the people that need to see this do and learn something from it ❤️
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability! I am 30 and still a virgin. For biblical reasons yes and also for reasons of I haven’t met anyone yet who makes me want to give that to them. So grateful that my mom was so open about sex and it wasn’t taboo in my house so the shock factor for me young wasn’t there. Love you boo 💕 sex is a beautiful thing
Purity culture is pretty toxic.
Chrissy I really appreciate your honesty and transparency sharing these things with us. I'm in my early thirties and look back on things that I wish I could change. There are young women who are watching this right now and reevaluating their situations thanks to your wisdom. Kudos to you my love.
Thankyou so much babe ❤️ I really hope all the right people are seeing this video!
Thank you Chrissy. This is such a timely chat that needed to be had
Girl you crack me upppppp!! 😂 your laugh is everything
Girl when you said, “🥴that’s it”, that was me at the same age, i was mad for days, thinking i waited for this! LMAO…
Girl feeling like Robin off Waiting to exhale,like " Does he think he just did something,I could of had a v8".
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@@ChrissybStyles As matter of fact,I'm ready to go .
@@shaquanadavis4359 😂🤣
Your BROWS are giving what they are supposed to !!!!!! I loveeeee them 💕 thank you for the story times sis we love you
I am kee-keeing so hard like we’re in the same room!!! 😂🥰✨💕
Same sis! Kml
Love you Chrissy❤️one of your younger subscribers this video was very informative and helped me a lot❤️ I gotta remember my worth and confidence and inner and outer beauty. Thanks soooooo much.
You’re so welcome love ❤️❤️❤️ you got this!!!!
I love your charisma and energy so much! :)
Thankyou love! ❤️
You are wise beyond your years. I know you helped someone today.
Thankyou so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Very good content. And I’m glad you touched on std’s! My friend works closely with the health department and was saying how much Syphilis has been going around in our area. So to anyone watching, take care of yourself. And don’t let anyone pressure you into having sex. I wish I could have taken my own advice so long ago.
Yesss! STD’s are running rapid and people do not think about it at all!
The transparency in your video was EVERYTHING & oh my I definitely want through a hood guy phase when I was younger too. Lol blame my suburbs upbringing. But hey once we experience some things we grow, move forward, and say never again! ❤
Exactly!!!! I’m never looking back because that is not my life!
Every story time is excellent and entertaining
Thankyou babe!!! 💖💖💖
I was one who said this topic on your post last week lol. I'm so glad you shared your experience. I literally grew up the same and was attracted to hood guys. Thankfully I grew out of it I was always trying to fix a man. I'm 29 I'll be 30 May 7th and I'm a virgin waiting until marriage. Even then I've been in some tight situations 😬😂. God knew I couldn't handle sex with anyone besides my husband. I used to be scared of sex honestly. I be wondering if it'll hurt now but other than that I had to release some sexual trauma I experienced. Than you for being vulnerable 💜
Same here! growing up the same way but growing up in Chicago hood guys don’t hit the same out here so I never been attracted to them😂😂 however this walk has NOT been easy but it is worth it I’ll be a 29 in July and still holding on, I took a vow in high school to wait until marriage because sis we worth it 💁🏾♀️❤️
You’re so welcome babe ❤️❤️❤️ I really hope this video helped!
I love your entergy straight into the video
Thankyou so much boo! 💖
Chrissyyy 😂😂 that was my 1st reaction too…. THAT’S IT?! This what y’all hype about 👀
We all have to start somewhere. Whew! 😄 thanks for sharing your truth. You are very entertaining.
Love the honesty and advice
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I love your storytimes luv😂😂😂
Thankyou boo! ❤️❤️❤️
Ok girl u did a great job great storytime
Thankyou so much! ❤️❤️❤️
I came from one video and ended up viewing 20 love your channel
I appreciate you for being so candid and sharing your experience as well as the very sound advice you gave. I know you said it quickly and laughed that you wouldn’t want your husband to be a virgin but all the wonderful advice you gave after that for girl applies for guys too. ❤️ If you think about it you probably said that based on your current experience but had you waited like you now know feel like you should have and your husband does as well you both learn together and have nothing or no one to compare sex to. Besides who are the guys suppose to be with if you think the girls should wait until married? Love this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nah you’re definitely right!!!!
Preach pastor Chrissy YESSSSSSSS!!!
Not reminiscing when the song comes onnnn😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 chileeee
I dated a good dude from LA and I definitely have PTSD it’s fun in the beginning but turns into a nightmare
I feel like all LA girls went through that phase of being with a LA nigga. It was a good time lol. But now I'm thinking back he was definitely verbally abusive, and over protective... The "niggas dont never have no car" lmaoooo I'm crying!!!! This whole story has me crying becuase its SO relatable 😆🙃
Lol girl I couldn't do and never did hood guys... my sister did and I didn't. Bad news 😆 🤣 but loved this video... thank you so much for sharing ❤ 💕 💗 Love you sunshine
as a gay man, I wish I would’ve treated sex a little more differently while growing up. due to my lack of self confidence and someone doing things to me that they shouldn’t have been, that played a big part in how I maneuvered sex. another great video Chrissy 🤎👏🏾
Thankyou so much love! It’s definitely not too late to handle sex differently, I hope that everything you endured that you shouldn’t have begins to heal and that you use those experiences for a greater purpose ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was so nervous when I lost mine too. I was 20
You don’t lose anything. You can’t “lose” anything. You just had an experience. You’re still whole. Sex doesn’t make you “lose” something.
Thank you for this video. I have been at a crossroads with this guy. We have done some stuff but not penetration. I just couldn't go through with it. Realising now that I was just not ready to give that to him.
Ooouuuu that wine look expensive puuuuurrrr 😭
Girl! I was a strict Christian in high school so I never went to the parties in high school but when I graduated baybe I was OUT!lol like girl sit down! At the time I had low self esteem and didn’t care on how I was treated and courted but I get the whole wholesome background and dating thug dudes.
Yesss girl same!
Where is your jewelry from?
Hey Chrissy, I'm 49 and haven't had sex in 4yrs. The last person that I was with just turned me off. But now I what monogamy and someone that doesn't have community d---. I feel so much better that I decided to this....my 😺 is too precious
I’m crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I am dying laughing lol! I feel like I was old when I lost my virginity I was like 21.
Try 25
Girl that’s not old at all!
You didn’t lose anything. Sex doesn’t make you lose anything, you’re still “whole”.
Im hereeeeeeeee
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Lmaooo I’m so weakkk at you liking hood dudes Lmao I’ve always been scared to date the hood ones because I ain’t got time to be getting pulled over 😆😆 lmao but I’m curious 🧐🤣
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Lol girl I remember how many times I did the nasty at dockweiler beach girl lol I got engaged there that be the spot lol
Chileeeee 😂😂😂
Hahahahhahaahhahaha this is beyond ghetto not at the beach playing Boosie love & you ain’t never lied they NEVER have cars that’s part of their starter kit 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I didn’t know Bugs had backseats
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I have a red buggie right now lol
Chile you know them cars are small lol they’re bigger than what people think inside but still small
@@ChrissybStyles It sure is, girl! I feel that 😂
Fly crippppiiiinnnn hahahahahahahahhahaha perioooodt ain’t nothing like a valley vibe girl dating a gangsta BAAAAAAABY what strike you said you on again 😏
Listen okayyy!!!!!! Lol
Love this video! Can I email you?