I was violated on a cruise ship
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- čas přidán 26. 08. 2024
- I tell my experience of being on a cruise ship with one cruise passenger who committed a violating act towards me while onboard our cruise ship during our Cruise! What do cruise ships do with problematic cruise passengers at sea? How do Cruise Ship Crew handle these dangerous cruise passengers? Are cruise ship passengers bad people? We talk through our experience being on a cruise ship with one cruise ship passenger who took actions that were extremely violating and how we handled it. Did we get cruise crew to handle it onboard our Cruise Ship 2023? What would you do?
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That needs to be reported to the security team right away.
You should have reported it because they might have been checking to see if a woman was alone in the room, you never know people's intentions. You might save someone from getting attacked, plus if it was all innocent the security will be able to put your mind at rest. Just my humble opinion.
That's funny--Security on cruise ships is even worse than TSA requirements.
Agreed. This may help you and someone else. Always report.
Agreed safety first.
This is scary and needs to be reported.
Please do not invalidate your experience. Victims don't report situations like this because they talk themselves out of it. Like, it's not "really" a big deal. You were doing nothing wrong and someone violated you and your space. As a professional who helps victims in a variety of capacities, what happened to you was not okay. It is completely understandable as to why you would downplay this, but please listen to your gut. That icky feeling will linger with you if you don't address it. Take care of yourself. Sending you much love.
I agree with you 100% and I'm not a professional in this area but I can tell you this. If you don't take some kind of action at least go speak with a professional like this person that has replied to your video. Sounds like they know what they're talking about.
I agree!! Should be reported
I'm so sorry this happened. Being a public figure doesn't give people the right to violate your privacy.
Sooo sorry this happened, and I’m glad you had the courage to share your experience. Icky is the perfect word to describe it. Having been violated myself, in my experience it stays with you for awhile. Perhaps sharing what happened with the hotel manager at the end of your cruise might give you some closure and you might be helping someone that didn’t have your courage. There are boundaries that people must not cross, even on a cruise ship. Privacy is a buggy. Be well, Sandra
Oh Jared! I’m sad to hear you experienced this violation. Your authenticity in describing the peeping event is a cautionary tale for me next time I cruise. You don’t deserve that & I’m sending you a long distance (non creepy!) hug. Thank you for sharing. 💜
My opinion is, they really couldn’t see you. When your out in the bright sun light - its hard to see into an inside space. I noticed this by being out side and looking into the store, I own. Often I see friends walking by while I’m in the store and I think - why don’t they wave and I realize - they really can’t see in. Because of them being out in the light and I’m inside. Just my take. You might ask your neighbor on the other side - if you could test this out.
Good point
Doesn't matter, it's his perception how he saw it and felt at THAT time.
@@jdoe836they’re just clickbating, the views have been low the last 6 months and they found a title they thought would pop on the algorithm . Maybe don’t be partially nude in your cabin if you’re that worried some perv is going to stare at you? The ship was designed that way to expand staterooms, and I highly down he even some this dude in his “underwear”. Unsubbed
I'm so sorry that happened. That is very weird and uncomfortable.
Also, I want you to know that I really enjoy your channel and very much appreciate your positivity.
1. Report to security. Once was one to many times.
2. Jordan . No. Support your husband and don't try to sugar coat this. It should of been immediately addressed at guest services. No excuses.
3. Yes it's happened to me. No you shouldn't have to deal with inappropriate behavior because you're public figures.
God. Im having my own flashbacks. I'm so sorry Jared. Your feels are valid. Please advocate for yourself. ❤
So sorry this happened to you. I am glad you are talking about it rather than keeping it a secret. So proud of you!
This is NOT normal nor is it acceptable!! You should definitely report this. If there are some mental issues going on, you’ll find that out once there is an investigation. I’m so sorry this happened to you!!!
Wow. I am in shock for you. I think I would still make a report of the incident and maybe even ask to be moved. Even if the person isn’t mentally cognitive of his actions it does not change the way it made you feel and I personally just wouldn’t feel comfortable in my room again unless I was able to move. I’m so sorry this happened to you Jared. Hugs ❤
I would also request to be moved to a different room.
I'm with these two- please ask to be moved.
Icky is the perfect word to describe the feeling when this sort of thing happens. It's happened to me several times, although not on a cruise.
I'm going to add my voice to those who have suggested that security be alerted if it looks like he's even thinking about doing it again.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I wish I could give you a hug.
I'm so sorry this happened .I travel with my sister and I definitely would have contacted guest services. Like you mentioned maybe he was mentally incapable of understanding what he did was absolutely not acceptable. I'm still awe struck at 65 cruises. How fun maybe I'll run into y'all at some point. Our Next sister cruise is Australia to NZ. 50 days .
My client did, she's the reason I followed them and she said they were absolutely kind and funny and treated she and her husband like friends. ❤
I am so sorry this happened…and it’s NOT normal for a stranger to literally look inside your cabin 😡. Definitely if that happens again call security. Ugh….some people don’t understand the concept of boundaries.
They do understand the concept. That’s why they do it. It’s a thrill.
...agreed this is not normal ... if the door was ajar ... you cannot blame anyone from comparing rooms or cabins tho ... you never know what they were thinking ... on a cruise too ...
Report this to security now.
So sorry & angry that happened. You should report it. What if he does it to the balcony on the other side & a child is in there. If you're not going to confront him, then at least have it documented with security & guest services. Besides, I think you would feel less violated and more in control if you did 💜
I totally agree with you..have it documented for your own peace of mind at least…
Report it. For everyone's sake.
That is ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE!!! I am so sorry that happened to you and left you with a horrible feeling inside! Please please please report that to guest services and or security. I love cruising and want to feel safe!
Yes you are a public figure that does not give anyone the right to abuse you in ANYWAY! So love you guys and feel awful that happened to you! Thank you for sharing that information. It is NOT normal! Take action you may save another passenger from it happening to them.
Wow. I’m very sorry that happened to you. It’s not too late to notify the cruise line via email. I’m just worried about this happening to someone else later.
This story raises all my alarm bells. If it had been me I would’ve (hopefully, once I got over the shock) immediately left the room and refused to go back in until either the creeper was dealt with or they moved me to another cabin. And this is me but I would go knock on the door of the passengers on the OTHER side of the creep, to let them know they might be getting 👀
Same!! I also would have knocked on that fools cabin and be like wth!!!
Wow, your experience creeped me out to my core. You have every right to your feelings. If this happened to me on a cruise, as a woman, I would definitely be concerned about my personal safety. I think I would definitely report your experience if I were you. Thank you for sharing this obviously personal information with your followers.
I would definitely talk to guest services about it. Speak with security. Honestly, this could have happened anyone unlucky enough to be neighbors with a creepy peeping Tom. You’re words to describe it were correct. It makes you feel icky.. I’m sorry this happened to you
It makes me so sad that he even said “Let me know if it’s normal, if I’m overreacting. “
He's already traumatized! It's kind of like when we're doing presentations as survivors to help other people and there is always this " Can I talk about it...without really showing how betrayed, uncomfortable and freaked out I was ( am ) ? " I was almost crying when he was relating what happened.
I am so sorry this happened to you! Listen to your gut. That “ick” factor is telling you that you are experiencing a fearful situation. As a 70-year-old female, I have experienced that fear and more. It’s hard to talk about, but you have done everyone a service by revealing your “ick” feeling and given warning. We all love you and want you to be safe in your travels!❤
OMG that is so horrifyingly creepy - yikes! Creepy stalker vibes. I would have tried to get a new stateroom. So sorry that happened to you!
I would ask security to pull the videos to determine if this improper act was recorded. I would also ask security to check if your neighbor did it while your cabin was unoccupied and if your neighbor was doing the same to the other cabin on the other side. I am sure the cruise line has protocols in place to address this type of issue. Stay safe!
So your ok with them (the ship) recording him in his stateroom ? But a kid or someone looks around the balcony panel and your all up in arms ? This kids a DRAMA Queen looking for reason's to make SHOCKING videos......Give me a BREAK>
To clarify, I am not aware of any cruise line that puts recording devices in state rooms. But I am aware and do know, cruise lines place monitoring equipment on the outside/public areas of the ship for safety and security reasons. This has become quite apparent as more and more cruise passengers have gone missing, jump overboard, throw stuff overboard, etc. A couple was arrested in late September 2023 for stealing $13k worth of artwork from a Carnival cruise they had been on. Security cameras captured the theft and a search warrant of the couple's home revealed the stolen items. In July 2023, security cameras captured a young man jumping overboard from his balcony on another Carnival cruise and unfortunately his body was not recovered. I don't think anyone would travel on a cruise ship that had recording devices in a stateroom as you suggest. There are good and valid reasons why balcony cabins have security partitions as well as security cameras affixed to the outside/public areas of ships.
@@glencline4547I’m all with you, this dude is a Drama queen x100… why he has a platform I couldn’t tell you. 🤣
That is really bad! I would absolutely discuss this with my partner and call security and seek appropriate resolution. Don't give up!
So sorry this happened to you. Definitely not normal. Security needs to know.
First I want to say, I am so very sorry that this happened to you. And I love the way your husband was trying to comfort and help you through this. However, if you feel violated, then you were violated. Never apologize for how you are feeling about anything. Your feelings matter. I can see in your beautiful eyes how deeply this incident has affected you. You have every right to feel safe in the space that you paid for. I do think you should report it because it's not ok that this person has done this. Even if he has an issue, he needs to be held accountable to his actions. Also by you reporting it, hopefully he will be on their radar so that this isn't repeated and he doesn't hurt you or anyone else.
Hold your beautiful head up Love and keep shining your bright light in this world! - Dawn
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing”
Please don’t be a victim! Take control.
I just had to comment because you looked so sad. I’m sorry for what happened to you. Hopefully in time that terrible feeling will ease up. Stay strong you’re in my prayers be well,
I am so sorry this happened to you. No, it is not normal and while we have never had this type of interaction, I think I would have said something to guest services, in the event it happened again.
This is definitely not normal. Your feeling of violation is totally valid. You should report him. Do not personally confront him.
So sorry this happened to you. Your privacy was violated. To my knowledge, this has not happened to Tiff or I; but this has heightened our awareness. Thank you for sharing this as I’m sure you’re helping others to have a fun safe cruise. ❤ Knowledge is power.
No darling, it’s not normal. I’m sorry this happened to you and you have every reason to feel violated. I personally would have gotten guest services and security involved. This would have completely unnerved me and rattled me for the rest of the cruise. I’m so sorry 💔
I have done it. I like to leave the door open to enjoy the sea air. At night, I kept smelling smoke, so I would close the door. I hate the smell of smoke, so once when I could smell it again, I took a peek around to see my neighbor on her balcony, smoking. She tried to hide it. I said, no smoking in her language. I didn’t smell smoke again for the rest of cruise. She was totally dressed, but if she wasn’t, I don’t think I was wrong.
That would totally freak me out. VERY icky. I would definitely report that. So sorry that happened.
For your own safety, report him. His possible mental health issue does not mean he gets to do what he wants with no repercussions.
If you don't do it for yourself, do it for the next passenger that he will violate, because he will.
So sorry this happened to you, this is so icky! On my last cruise on P&O's Arvia they have loads of cabins that go onto the promenade deck, some at the same level and I almost twist my neck everytime trying to not look into the cabins at all ever. Its hard though because if you are just walking looking forward you can see it. But still, this example is nothing like your neighbour, that's just creepy and your cabin should be a safe space! 😂
Even in the shade there can be a glare on the windows. I’m so sorry this happened too you. ❤️
Try not to take it personally. As a handicappable cruiser, it has happened to me several times either around the balcony divider or simply if the hall door is open. It is just a curiosity thing 1)....what/how much bigger/how is an accessible stateroom different then my "regular" stateroom, 2) what/ why do they need that room...which could be heightened as bot JJ 's are fully ambulatory. Yes I know and you all made it abundantly clear that you did Not request this cabin type but it was assigned to you. But John Q public has a bit of extra curiosity about the how's and why's. Most times I find that people are truely trying to be helpful...with holding doors or calling elevators and especially picking up things I drop. But on occasion the line between curiosity/sincerity and offensive/creepy is crossed.
If it happens again, as them if they want to take a picture so to stare at!😂
Jared so sorry this is affecting your trip....take a TS moment and....Shake it Off🎉
That person was a peeping Tom. Not normal.
awww im so sad that this happened to you. i just wanted to say, and please people from this channel dont come after me verbally attacking me, and im not a peeping tom or a pervet, but i have myself stuck my head around a balcony to look at what the balcony looked like compared to mine, but not to look inside the cabin. if i had of seen someone either on the balcony or in the cabin, i would have spun my head back around to my side so fast . after this video though i definitely will never do this again. i didnt think what would happen if someone was inside the cabin and how they would feel. so that time is the first and last time that i will ever do this. thank you for making awareness of this.
I am so sorry this happened, very sad. I am afraid that I would have gone to guest services
So sorry you had to deal with it. Additionally, they also violated your personal space. I would not even feel safe or secure enjoying the veranda.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. No one should be peering into your room. It’s not like you were on your veranda you were in bed. I would have been horrified. Bless you. Take care
I had a similar experience. I was changing clothes with the curtains open since we were at sea. Apparently my neighbors wanted to do drugs on the balcony so looked around to see me. I didn’t have any idea until I heard them say a couple minutes later “now she has the door open”. When I walked outside I could smell the drugs. It didn’t occur to me until later they had likely seen me undress! Sickening. I actually won’t book a balcony anymore due to that experience.
I’m am so sorry that happened to you Why don’t people respect privacy?
Did you report them?
@@saritah4757 Yes. And then asked to be moved to another room, which the cruise line did. It was the last night of the cruise.
so sorry and hope the remainder of cruise was without problems
This should be reported. You have to purposely lean over to look onto someone's cabin
I am sorry this happened, but as a woman, i would not describe that as a violation. Most younger women would experience worse than that from men. But yes, i would report him or even speak to him. Take care
That would definitely shock me to my core as well. Thank you for sharing! Your feelings are valid!
Maybe he really couldn’t see thru the window.
Should have called security immediately. That’s not appropriate. Disgusting
Hate that you experienced that. People should understand Privacy and please know, You guys are Great. Good and Positive Vibes to you!!
Sounds like a case of Molehill Mountain but it seems that you’ve manage to escape to safety thank goodness…
Lol - oh yes - a task force of the Green Berets saved him - and his underwear.
Omg that is crazy creepy. Really should have reported him. Cruise ships have cameras all over they would have been able to see what he was doing. Glad you are ok never know what people are going to do. I’m crazy paranoid and always keep the balcony door locked and drapes closed. Really awful to hear this sorry to hear it happened.
I don’t think this is normal. Now you’re vigilant. That is stressful. I do understand how you feel. You’ll report it if it happens again. Best wishes. Please keep us posted. ♥️
Sorry this happened. I would say that if this happened once, I would be annoyed but would probably let it go but if it happened a second time I would definitely report it. I have noticed that sometimes people do weird things but there is no wrongful intent behind them. Just people being dumb. That said you have every right to be upset and concerned. The partitions are there for a reason and people shouldn’t be hanging over them looking into other people’s cabins. I would say chalk it up to experience. Thanks for sharing because I am sure that not only has this happened to others but maybe some of your viewers unwittingly have done the same thing, not realizing it it unacceptable behavior. Anyway keep up the great work and don’t let one idiot ruin your cruise!!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I love watching your videos! Keep up the good work!
Most people say something when they know someone is on the next balcony like hi & don’t put their head around to look onto the next balcony. That’s creepy!
Please report this even if you are now off the cruise please you may stop someone else from being attacked or worse. So sorry this happened you did nothing wrong don’t downplay your feelings you have a complete right to feel this.
Report it immediately. For your safety and the safety of his other neighbors.
So sorry Jared. I definitely would report it. I would ask to be moved too if possible. I don’t think I would confront my neighbor though, but I’d let the cruise line know. This is not normal!
Jared, you can re-create what he saw - go on your balcony at the same time of day tomorrow and look in from the same angle. Maybe it is totally glared or whatever.
The way you described the whole scenario is certainly a head-scratcher. But I agree with you in just moving past this - assume this person will not bother you again - and enjoy your cruise. If it happens to happen again then do what you need - but all these people commenting to go report it are over-reacting in my opinion ... I would forget it and go on with my cruise.
That is so creepy. I’m sorry this happened to you. I would report to guest services after the first time just to have in record that something happened. People are crazy. Better to have everything documented in case something worse happened after the peeping.
I would report it. If you don't do it during the cruise report it on your survey. This is not normal and should be addressed by security or guest services. If you feel violated then you were.
Please report. Just about 5-6 days ago there was a story on reddit about a naked man breaking into the cabin next door through the balcony door. You just want to be safe.
Jared ....this is not okay. If this person did this to you, for whatever reason, they have or will probably do this to others. You have a few options - knock on his door and speak directly to him. Let him know that you saw him peering around the wall and you feel like it is a violation of your privacy. I would probably let guest services know that it happened and tell them you don't want any action taken at this time - but have a report completed anyway - whether it is to protect you or someone else. Most importantly - it was uncomfortable, but it was a moment in time. Let it go and enjoy the rest of your vacation. Just keep this in mind if you ever do an aft balcony again....and if you book one for a client, warn them of the possibility. Love ya'. And, I promise to never do this to you again. JK. 😘😘
I would definitely report it to guest services. You are definitely right to be uncomfortable! And you are right - yuck! Creepy! Sorry that happened!
It's ok to feel what you feel. Cruise safety must be at the foremost and when you mix so frequently with so many different people, things are bound to happen. This is a good reminder to all of us to stay vigilant.
Personally I think your making more of it than it is. If it happens a 2nd time then act
I am so sorry this happened to you. Please report this in as much detail as you can manage. You matter. Reporting this matters. I am so so sorry.
This makes me so sad this happened to you. I feel strongly it should be reported, it's so not normal behaviour and as you said it's creepy. He was purposefully looking as it's obviously not an easy way to look in... I would never even cross my mind to do that. As a momma I just want to give you a big hug!
First, I am so sorry that happened to you. I think you should report what happened.
This is not normal. And bravo to you for opening up about what happened. If you encounter this again, I would absolutely report this to security. Keep on sailing!
That is so NOT ok ! I’m sorry this happened to you ..🇨🇦
This is very alarming! But thank you for sharing. We should share this video so travelers can be more aware of our surroundings. I'm sorry this happen to you. This was not ok.
I’m sorry that happened to you! My gf was listening in the background and said maybe it was a ghost… not sure if that would be any better.
That’s awful and I am feeling 😢 about your situation. This is not something to brush off because you are a public person, no one has the right to your private time. This will put a damper on the rest of your cruise wondering/waiting to see if it happens again. As a person who has been sexually assaulted, I feel anxious just hearing about this and I hate that you were violated like this. Tell security or guest services, they may know more about this person’s mental health and can ensure it doesn’t happen again. Hugs to you, wonderful guy ❤
Agree, you need to report that jerk. No one should feel violated & if not you, it’ll be some other innocent person(s). Stay positive!
That is SOOOOO UNACCEPTABLE!
I’m so sorry for you, Jared. It doesn’t matter if he could see you or not, I say he could, it’s absolutely wrong! People get arrested for exactly what he was doing.
Poor you. I wouldn’t like it at all. I hope that you can enjoy the rest of your cruise. N from France.😀
That would make me very upset. I don't blame u. Hope it never happens to u again. Happy sailing.
Report this immediately! So sorry this happened to you. This is a straight up violation.
Hi Jared. My dear it’s A Crazy World 🌎 out there. Please Be Careful. You handle it with Class. Love From Louisville Kentucky
Oh, Jared. I’m so so sorry that this happened to you. I would definitely report it. You should be able to feel safe and secure in your cabin no matter what. Love y’all and see ya in March. ❤
Some people are so rude. I am so sorry that happened to you. People need to have respect for others privacy. Keep your positive and happy attitude. I enjoy your positive attitude. Keep smiling as you alway do.
That needs to be reported because it’s not just a violation of your privacy but what if he’s doing that to other people?
You should report that. This is safety issue. He could be homophobic and try to assault you or be a fan and try to assault you. At no time should anyone look around the petition to see into your space. What would you advise your mother, sister or grandmother?
. BE SAFE.
What sucks is that I don’t think the cruise line wont do anything, even if reported.
Do you expect that the captain will change the course and aim for the closest harbor and demand that the Coast Guard come on board? People - get real. That's what "ship security staff is on board is for. But somebody has to give them a call instead of happily posting a video on CZcams.
That Pervert should be arrested, Right Away, Please tell security- GOD Bless you!!!
I am a solo traveler. I have had the exact same thing happen to me. In my case it has usually been children or teenagers horsing around or being obnoxious. When I've told them to stop the parents have heard and called them down.
What you experienced is a totally different case. My first response would have been to pick up the phone and call security. The fact that you were being spied on deliberately was an
attack on your privacy. I may have wanted to initially give the benefit of doubt to the peeping tom on the basis of them maybe being first time cruisers. Still a good official visit from the ship's security would have been appropriate. Let them give you options as to what could have been done to stop this.
First of all sending hugs Jared So sorry this happened to you and I would mention to guest services.
So sorry that this happened to you! ❤
I wouldn't blame you for feeling like this. No one has a right to invade your privacy. Bypassing an obvious barrier to look into your personal space is totally unacceptable. Hopefully, his knowing you saw him will prevent it from happening again.
So sorry that happened to you! You still should report the incident , the person could do it to neighbor on the other side of your cabin. Not acceptable!
So sorry 😞 agree with many others that this needs to be reported.
Yes, this was deliberate and needs to be reported. The barriers are there for a reason.
Also, if the ship suddenly jerked or shifted, your peeper could have been seriously hurt.
Not sure if i agree how your partner handled the situation. And i am feeling this both from someone who was molested when very young and as a formerly licensed mental health counselor.
From a purely personal viewpoint, with your partner supporting you and going with you to report this to security and/or having security come up to your cabin so you could point out exactly what happened.
Much love ❤ and arm around your shoulder to you.
(BTW, this is different from the situation where the woman tried to get you thrown out of the dining room. I agree with the others that there is something going on with her that is deeper than what happened.)
I’m sorry you had this experience. This is something I think should be reported to security. Not acceptable behavior.
You say that you think. There was obviously not much thinking going on in this dude's head. Other than - BINGO - I got this week's story for CZcams.
Tell your cabin steward. He/she most likely services both rooms and can tell you if there is a mental issue or maybe talk to the person and tell them that they made you uncomfortable.
Thanks for letting us know so we can be aware.