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  • @coleandcharisma
    @coleandcharisma  Před 4 lety +513

    Hey everyone! Before commenting please watch the full video so you'll understand the full scope of what went into this decision. Thank you for your support! -Cole

    • @wstewartwi
      @wstewartwi Před 4 lety +13

      Do what is best for you. Trust whatever decision you make. You are a smart young lady. There's a lot of routes success and building a foundation for happiness. 😄🌷

    • @estherebai8855
      @estherebai8855 Před 4 lety +13

      I believe she did the right thing guys.
      My humble piece of advice to you today is; JUST BE YOU. You guys are a breath of fresh air to a good number of people out there. Keep up your good work guys.
      Cole, in my opinion, you are the most adorable person on planet earth. I am saying this as a health professional - ICU nurse specifically......

    • @nikkistahr7105
      @nikkistahr7105 Před 4 lety +16

      This is the single best decision of your life baby girl. You are young, take your time, pray on it, and let god guide you!! You have to have a passion for anything you do..this is your life we are talking about (as a OTR i promise you that you didn't miss out on anything my sister..i lost my passion for OT long ago..and i hated every moment i spent in gradschool pursing OT and i respect the profession but wish I was brave enough to leave when i had the chance..to not look back and pursue my passion which was medicine...but now time is not on my side and my hubby and i want kids...life just happened so fast). I am sooooo proud of you. I am in awe of you. You will manifest the life of dreams and will bring you everything your heart desires.
      My next passion has nothing to do with school and im gonna go out and pursue it, you inspired me babes.
      You are fearless 😍😍😘😘😘
      Congratulations on your next journey, on evolving past the standards society set for you..you pushing past and above that. To find and pursue your passion is a double blessing.
      I am excited to see where your life takes you..its going to be AMAZING🤗🤗🤗💃💆🙌

    • @mylene.b2336
      @mylene.b2336 Před 4 lety +9

      Charisma, you already know what you don't want! This is already a lot ... God will help find the right path👍😇💖💖💖😗Mylène from Paris

    • @jenjay8003
      @jenjay8003 Před 4 lety +9

      Forget that. You are smart enough. Don’t go into debt. Live your life. Omg you guys are beautiful together. I hope you guys have babies soon.

  • @cgvalle11
    @cgvalle11 Před 4 lety +298

    Just because you have a CZcams channel and share certain aspects of your lives doesn't mean you have to explain and divulge everything. People have to understand that , ultimately, this is YOUR LIFE.

    • @cataranneth8517
      @cataranneth8517 Před 3 lety +5

      Yes! Charisma...do you!

    • @ruthplummer2040
      @ruthplummer2040 Před 2 lety +2

      You are an amazing couple I love to watch you guys Charisma is so cute and positive ,and Cole is so handsome and positive and so loveable the love is real God bless you (2)

  • @Dotthel
    @Dotthel Před 4 lety +466

    I’ve switched careers multiple times... you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone!!

    • @faithmumbi
      @faithmumbi Před 4 lety +14

      Super awesome...and the more you switch the more you find yourself and still find others who don't want to here anything concerning school.

    • @lizzasuero1996
      @lizzasuero1996 Před 4 lety +10

      Omg, that's happen me too. Sometimes I'm very angry of give explanation to every one about my desitions. Horrible. Is like if you change your opinion is bad.

    • @numberone-vm4gg
      @numberone-vm4gg Před 4 lety

      she's a loser. so embarrassing to the black community.. she quick after she found out she was going to marry to the money. yes, he is not rich but he can keep her stable (money wise).

    • @TheManeWolf
      @TheManeWolf Před 4 lety +32

      @@numberone-vm4gg How can you say this girl is an embarrassment to the black community? She is obviously in love with Cole. She pays her own bills and does not need your approval. There are plenty of ways for her to make money. She doesn't seem to be in it for the money. She is bright, articulate and hard working. She is not lazy. You should be proud of her in the black community. She's a very lovely girl who is spreading positive messages and offers encouragement. I love this young woman. She is destined for goodness and success.

    • @TheManeWolf
      @TheManeWolf Před 4 lety +14

      She is an asset to the community and is a contributing member of society. I don't delineate because she happens to be black because that's racist. Be proud and pray for the nay sayers 🙏🙏 🙏.

  • @Siberia087
    @Siberia087 Před 4 lety +471

    I felt it when you said bachelor degrees don’t do anything, and you’re paying back student loans your whole life. 😢 It was a deep feeling.

    • @nora_ray
      @nora_ray Před 4 lety +29

      Literally me now. I had a Bachelor's degree and was getting paid on 12.75 at a PART TIME nonprofit job.

    • @Siberia087
      @Siberia087 Před 4 lety +18

      Nora Stimpson Sane. Expect I don’t have the .75 tacked on. I have a BA and never made above $12. I had worked at a magazine for
      5 years and it was literally the worst. I hated it. The pay sucked, my boss was awful. COMPLETELY AWFUL. Took me 5 years to get out.

    • @roseiam
      @roseiam Před 4 lety +7

      I felt that too. But such is life.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 Před 4 lety +4

      Oh wow. Where yall live? 12.75 thats entry level here

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 Před 4 lety +1

      @@nora_ray depends on how much u took out?

  • @jwalt8019
    @jwalt8019 Před 4 lety +85

    I just love how Cole looks at Charisma. You can tell that he absolutely adores her and she adores him. I wish them many more blessings and even more success to come.

  • @antonioISoffLINE
    @antonioISoffLINE Před 4 lety +335

    I'm quad for over 8 years and i find this channel just now?? THANKS CZcams ALGORITHM...

    • @dj_here
      @dj_here Před 4 lety +10

      And u find it while the topic is about school 😂

    • @carolinekaka1823
      @carolinekaka1823 Před 4 lety +9

      you are most welcome. it's addictive. once you start, you will love it all the way. enjoy.....

  • @nora_ray
    @nora_ray Před 4 lety +458

    I'm sorry but I think it is rude as hell and demeaning for ppl to just expect Charisma to get a job to support both her and Cole. COLE IS NOT IMMOBILE OR UNABLE TO FEIN FOR HIMSELF. They are a team! God has a plan for everyone and there's always a reason on why you are feeling the way you are about certain situations. Keep pressing on Charisma and Cole!❤ STAY POSITIVE 💙💚

    • @Godgirl1966
      @Godgirl1966 Před 4 lety +5

      No I think you got it wrong mate! Charisma can't work to take care of Cole, Cole Syndnor is rich!!

    • @LifeJourneyful
      @LifeJourneyful Před 4 lety +7

      @@Godgirl1966 rich????????????

    • @Godgirl1966
      @Godgirl1966 Před 4 lety +3

      @@LifeJourneyful why are you getting so hype about it??!! Yes rich.😏

    • @debrajames6316
      @debrajames6316 Před 4 lety +13

      @S W Common sense would indicate that Cole is not struggling for money, he recently purchased a home. His parents are doing well , however it is best to have your own money. Cole gets paid well for speaking events and engagements.

    • @wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570
      @wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570 Před 4 lety +7

      @@Godgirl1966 I have Spina Bifida and I 'm on SSDI. I'm on a fixed income. I bet Cole is in the same situation.

  • @yescarycan
    @yescarycan Před 4 lety +455

    I now know who Charisma favors in looks.........a young Eartha Kitt !

  • @lulamamie8524
    @lulamamie8524 Před 3 lety +13

    Hey! I made the decision after 3 years of college to drop out and join my fiancé’s family in the business world. I remember my Accounting Professor telling me that I was making a huge mistake 😱 I still pursued my Accounting passion in the family owned business. 42 years later I am happy for that drop out decision. I am accounting educated, I work closely with our CPA. She is thankful for my knowledge and my expertise that makes her job easy ❤️ Life is GOOD 🤩❤️ Never feel shameful for making a decision from the heart ❤️

  • @sueelliott8814
    @sueelliott8814 Před 3 lety +14

    I just love how supportive Cole is to Charisma. Love you guys!!

  • @Barbara-zc6do
    @Barbara-zc6do Před 3 lety +19

    You don’t have to explain yourself. My daughter was in her second year of her doctoral program, 100k + in school debt felt the same way. She called and expressed the same fears. I told her to follow her heart and she feels so much better about herself and has started two business during the pandemic. You go for your dreams.

  • @EternalLoveAnkh
    @EternalLoveAnkh Před 4 lety +51

    This is a great story. More people need to hear stories like this. I was in fact in a similar situation. I was born with a disability and have used a wheelchair all my life. I was in the top of my class all throughout grade school and high school. Then college hit me like a brick. My freshman year was the toughest time I had academically. In fact, I was afraid to ask for help because I felt like I would be seen as stupid and I was also afraid of failure. After a year, I dropped out and got a job helping people with disabilities. Fourteen years after I dropped out, I made the decision to go back to college and finish what I started. I'm still doing that today and I even help out in the disabilities office. I learned so much in those fourteen years that boosted my motivation to go back and do what I need to do to be successful this time around, both academically and socially. If you'd like to hear more details of this story, please refer to my video entitled "Pathway to College Success".

  • @jonathanwilson4276
    @jonathanwilson4276 Před 4 lety +172

    It's nobody's business why you did that

  • @CrissyLynnB
    @CrissyLynnB Před 4 lety +21

    I have a useless degree that I have been trying to pay off for years. Half way through getting my BA degree I knew I was probably making a mistake, and with technology today it is outdated. Wish I had been brave enough to take a break when I was having doubts. I was so worried about disappointing everyone around me and now I realize how they would have supported me. I did struggle as I was unable to find a job in my field and have raised my 3 children as a single mom. I worked 2 jobs at times but still managed to be there for school programs, home work, bedtime, and special moments. I'm very proud of the adults they have become. Throughout those years I became aware that being a care giver is something that fit my personality, I found joy in, and had a passion for. I work in an assisted living facility for seniors with dementia and love my job. So I took a longer path to get where I was going, but it has been a happy and rewarding one. This is a place of positivity, so if anyone wants to criticize for you doing what you needed to do for you, they should move along. We each have our own journey, live your best life girl!

  • @sheilawilliams9869
    @sheilawilliams9869 Před 4 lety +107

    Charisma take care of you first. Remember you can't please everyone. Your dreams are your dreams. Follow your heart. Love ya.

  • @jonathanwilson4276
    @jonathanwilson4276 Před 4 lety +169

    I agree with Cole your health comes first

    • @evelynprice3976
      @evelynprice3976 Před 4 lety +3

      Sooo very true we will continue to pray for you and your family.I will continue to watch you guys go forward in life as long as you allow me to watch your Utube.

  • @msnesham.3135
    @msnesham.3135 Před 4 lety +130

    I love your transparency and you're definitely not a disappointment, I admire your strength and love you both as a couple and individuals!!

  • @morenomoms354
    @morenomoms354 Před 4 lety +64

    When something doesn’t feel right, it’s important to figure out why and act. 👍🏼

  • @michaellondon3306
    @michaellondon3306 Před 4 lety +242

    YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, GOD WILL LEAD YOU TO THE PATH THATS MENT YOU. YOU GUYS ROCK

    • @noraallan2652
      @noraallan2652 Před 4 lety +1

      Charisma you are on the right path!!!! And I totally get you.

  • @jessonajourney2976
    @jessonajourney2976 Před 4 lety +16

    I left a 5+ career in accounting for a career in memory care - I still feel like I have to explain myself even though I am happier than I ever thought I could be in a career!

  • @DiyDadFL
    @DiyDadFL Před 4 lety +22

    I dropped out of college when I was 19, never looked back. I have felt more successful without having an "education".

  • @glorialowe5881
    @glorialowe5881 Před 4 lety +85

    Cole look very handsome. He said he lost weight it is also a healthy look. Charisma you are beautiful no matter what hair style and I think Cole love them all. Both of you are so good together ❤️💕 and it shows. Inspiring for me love watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️.

  • @EmiliaJay
    @EmiliaJay Před 3 lety +3

    You are the only author of your life story....never give strangers the power to write chapters for you

  • @nancydrew1882
    @nancydrew1882 Před 3 lety +9

    Wow!!! That sounded so overwhelming. The commute and the stress was not worth it. You just have to do what’s best for you. It just wasn’t your destiny. You’re just on a different path. It is exhausting to try to live up to other ppls expectations. Just do what makes you happy! It’s never too late to go back as well. You’re young and you have time. I went back to school at 35 and two kids in a totally different field from my first degree. Work at your own pace.

  • @rosemarienarcisse4756
    @rosemarienarcisse4756 Před 4 lety +35

    Cole is a great guy. Blessings to Charisma and Cole always. 🙏🏽🕊❤️

  • @davidbrouwers7309
    @davidbrouwers7309 Před 4 lety +250

    You don't owe anyone an explanation, people judge what they don't know anyway
    If it takes more energy and affects your health than taking a break or quiting is the best option, you already have a lot on your plate as it is

    • @debrajames6316
      @debrajames6316 Před 4 lety +1

      Well said and she is already a accomplished OT. Sadly it seems like she is in line for a stroke. At Times her speech is interrupted and her brain seems like the electrolytes are imbalanced.

    • @msanross
      @msanross Před 3 lety +2

      ❤❤❤❤ on point. Same thing I wanted to say. I have a masters and struggle with keeping my head a float. Wanted to push my children to go to college but not anymore. Its all a lie and people steal the money you have to pay back.

    • @nsanenthembrane
      @nsanenthembrane Před 3 lety

      adriane ross preach

  • @embracinglight6072
    @embracinglight6072 Před 4 lety +137

    There is only one person you need to please: yourself, and two people you have to answer to: yourself and Cole. The world can only benefit if you're being true to yourself and doing what brings you joy. Much love, light and blessings to you both!❤

  • @tammyeime5070
    @tammyeime5070 Před 4 lety +3

    If you hadn't gone down the OT road then you wouldn't have met Cole. So now that you have met Cole, that road has served its purpose and now it's time to travel down the new road together.

  • @PalmTreeDayDreams
    @PalmTreeDayDreams Před 4 lety +38

    I'm in such a similar position right now! You've got to just focus on what you love and what makes you happy above all else! Life is way too short to be stuck doing something that your heart isn't in 💕

  • @cwigi
    @cwigi Před 4 lety +64

    My husband a similar migraine that was stroke like many, many, years ago that was stroke like and stress related. He switched careers and, knock on wood, he hasn't had another. Do what you need to do to make you happy!

  • @vanessaguizar64
    @vanessaguizar64 Před 3 lety +2

    WOW. I feel like it was fate that I ended up on your channel. This is destiny. I am in OT school right now, thought about doing PT before, because I thought I wanted to go into healthcare and now that I am in school..I have no drive, I have no excitement, I have no motivation and it is scary!! Mind you, I am in my first week and first year, but I just can't describe it and it is HARD to describe to others what I am feeling. The emotions I am experiencing. Thank you for making this video. I am passionate about working with seniors and planning excursions, dances, birthday parties, movie nights and making their lives more pleasant through the events I put on for them. I feel like that is what I like and enjoy, but it's hard to make that final decision. I don't want to live a life with regrets or be in debt for something that I am unsure about.

  • @astrudbryan492
    @astrudbryan492 Před 4 lety +153

    Charisma, you are being an OT and living an “occupational” life. The aim of an OT is independence-using life’s resources to enhance life. The education you would have received would have defined your technical professional skills but the life you’ve chosen to live, will be refined because you’re living your best life...living and loving and being loved and cared for by your beloved. You’re experiencing life.. girl or rather Ms. Charisma, live, learn and continue to be open to the changes your spirit desires.

  • @nicolasgerst90
    @nicolasgerst90 Před 4 lety +10

    as a person who forced themselves through grad school and was unhappy the entire time, i am so happy for you! congrats on making such a great decision for yourself!!!

  • @NeoKirchBaby
    @NeoKirchBaby Před 4 lety +128

    I never had any interest in grad school. The moment I finished my bachelor's, I knew I was done. I always had a dream of being an old fashioned stay at home mom honestly. I went to university as a backup; incase I would not find a husband. When I met my now husband in my final year of my degree, I knew I was done with university lol

    • @laverngeti5466
      @laverngeti5466 Před 4 lety +7

      Neo KirchBaby how are the boys ☺️

    • @jnunyabizio5169
      @jnunyabizio5169 Před 4 lety +26

      Never rely on a man

    • @elizabethumoru2558
      @elizabethumoru2558 Před 4 lety +2

      Proud of you.

    • @phurplkyxxex
      @phurplkyxxex Před 4 lety +7

      What if your husband die? Who will fend for the family?!

    • @beautifulangel5627
      @beautifulangel5627 Před 4 lety +9

      @@phurplkyxxex I understand your concern for sure. But I think she has the degree to fall back on. If you're industrious enough to get a 4-year-degree, you're industrious enough to find a job if you need one. Or even another husband is her love is being a homemaker. The job world is great for some; overrated for others.

  • @KatE-yk6bs
    @KatE-yk6bs Před 4 lety +2

    I am soooo PROUD OF YOU! You do you gurrrrl! What makes it best, is you have an AWESOME SUPPORT SYSTEM!

  • @tammymasson2343
    @tammymasson2343 Před 3 lety +1

    You both are so wise! You are so right, so on target, so insightful, so helpful, and in my eyes, absolutely perfect! I mean it from the bottom of my heart!

  • @carlagat1075
    @carlagat1075 Před 4 lety +64

    I'll support you with whatever you want to do.

  • @anitawong753
    @anitawong753 Před 2 lety +4

    Charisma you made the right decision. I’ve been an OT for 40 years and although I love it , the field has changed and healthcare is a big business. You’re a natural and I’m impressed by your abilities and how awesome you are with Cole and how you guys work together. You’re on the right track!! I wish you both success and happiness❤️

  • @tndee
    @tndee Před 4 lety +54

    Charisma, the path you took led you to your true passion. Me personally, I'm proud of you for making the decision so many of us might be afraid to make.

  • @adrianafelix8702
    @adrianafelix8702 Před 4 lety +7

    Glad you've taken the decision that is best for you, dear Charisma! Proud of you! 👏👏👏🌻😊

  • @nnekaowens1325
    @nnekaowens1325 Před 4 lety +5

    So proud of you! You will definitely expand your reach and you are still doing what you love. Not disappointed at all! We got your back!

  • @nomagugugasa6057
    @nomagugugasa6057 Před 4 lety +103

    I'm currently doing my masters and I'm often feeling so overwhelmed. I'm glad you made your decision to best benefit you. I'm scared to leave because I feel I would have disappointed so many people. I can't wait to just finish honestly

    • @queenbee2447
      @queenbee2447 Před 4 lety +11

      I feel if you start something you should finish.

    • @tiffany171720052005
      @tiffany171720052005 Před 4 lety +5

      Exactly. I finish in June and it's been so stressful. I cry every week. The curriculum is rigorous.

    • @lindajorgensen2580
      @lindajorgensen2580 Před 4 lety +5

      @@tiffany171720052005 Almost there Tiffany!! Congrats 👏

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 Před 4 lety +2

      @Jenette M thats what 500 level courses are for. Juz gotta handle it 👍

    • @beautifulangel5627
      @beautifulangel5627 Před 4 lety +2

      If the program is not making you ill, please finish it. How can you regret completing the degree?

  • @fionagal123
    @fionagal123 Před 4 lety +1

    So agree Charisma, you need to be happy and both you and Cole would be happier. They are many opportunities that you can capture many by spreading the awareness. Health comes first.

  • @Msmakeupfaye
    @Msmakeupfaye Před 3 lety +3

    You don't owe anyone an explanation. I have changed my Major twice and I do not apologize to anyone. Just follow your heart and whats best for you. So glad you made the decision that is going to make you happy.

  • @yvetteberry1652
    @yvetteberry1652 Před 4 lety +12

    Your Health Is More Important. So im glad your in a place where your health is being taking care of. You got support from both families. And im looking forward to being on walking with you on your next journey. I love the way Cole said i would be there in an hour. That's love.

  • @mjsnow9413
    @mjsnow9413 Před 4 lety +20

    I’m glad that you’re ok! You need to take care of Charisma ❤️ Do what makes you happy❤️❤️❤️

  • @commscompany1502
    @commscompany1502 Před 2 lety

    One hundred percent support your decision (for what it’s worth). I had similar symptoms once at the apex of stress from work and school. I totally 💯 percent agree with your decision. This channel and everything around it is your calling and you’re awesome at it !

  • @elizabethd.7662
    @elizabethd.7662 Před 4 lety +19

    Congratulations, on your bravery and for following your dreams! We can’t wait to see where your journey takes you both. I took a 10 year break before getting my masters degree so don’t worry, take your time.

  • @Jem4Fam
    @Jem4Fam Před 4 lety +37

    It takes courage to both find and follow your passion.

  • @pamsmallwood3277
    @pamsmallwood3277 Před 4 lety +42

    Enjoying life is way more important than school. If you find something that make you happy go for it. Don’t worry about what people say just do what best for you and Cole. Stay positively

  • @nikkiwilkins7281
    @nikkiwilkins7281 Před 4 lety

    I support the both of you. I was not able to continue grad school due to migraines either, but hopefully I can return soon. Much love to you both from NC.

  • @elainehardy3502
    @elainehardy3502 Před 4 lety +33

    Anything that makes you sick doing it isn't worth it. I'm happy for you that you knew the right thing to do for you. It's your life you are doing great.

  • @YTuser874
    @YTuser874 Před 4 lety +45

    I love how open, vulnerable, candid this channel is. You both are very genuine hearted people and it shows. It’s good that you have a backup plan & honestly going to grad school
    For non profit studies sounds like a winner. ☺️☺️🙏🙏👍👍

  • @jessbear2871
    @jessbear2871 Před 4 lety +3

    Charmisa, great decision and especially if when you discovered it early. I was an OT for 11 years and on a SCI unit in an inpatient rehab hospital. I just left back in Sept '19. I loved it and I hated it. I was exhausted all the time. Health care industry is so hard. I have my own health problems from an autoimmune disease. I finally felt like I was failing the people I was working with and trying to help. I found a new opportunity and am still rediscovering myself. But I feel so much better and give myself more to my husband and daughter. Best wishes to you!! :)

  • @virginamorgan1481
    @virginamorgan1481 Před 4 lety +1

    I support you 1000%. Life is short so do what makes you happy and fulfilled. Love you C&C.

  • @marvasewell2895
    @marvasewell2895 Před 2 lety +1

    The way Cole looks at Charisma is so darn adorable. Keep pressing on!

  • @margaretbest2453
    @margaretbest2453 Před 4 lety +25

    I was wondering about this. Your journey is your journey 🙏

  • @queenbee2447
    @queenbee2447 Před 4 lety +5

    You were there to meet Cole.
    Truly understand your reason for putting it on hold.
    BTW love your hair.

  • @goochlandluv2431
    @goochlandluv2431 Před 4 lety +1

    YOU ARE AMAZING! I'm so proud you made the decision to put peace of mind first. No one can ever be disappointed in you. Cole, you are so supportive and caring in showing your love for this hard working women. Thank you two for sharing.

  • @puccaleo
    @puccaleo Před 3 lety

    New subscriber...so proud of you for doing what's best for you and following your passion. My partner had a stroke at 32 during her last year of a doctoral degree. She didn't finish and it was a blessing in disguise.

  • @devyngoddard9645
    @devyngoddard9645 Před 4 lety +7

    I'm a full time college student going into year 6 and still have 2 more years and I'm struggling. I've cut back on work to focus on school but even then I've changed my major 4 times after finding out I wasn't on the right path. Just follow your heart! You're doing great!

  • @ashleycloud1567
    @ashleycloud1567 Před 4 lety +5

    Only you know what’s best for you! I used to believe that I wanted to do Cardiology but am now in Nursing & LOVE it. Sometimes it takes time in order for you to realize what you want. Don’t feel bad Charisma 💕

  • @lolabaker641
    @lolabaker641 Před 4 lety

    Congratulations Charisma!! I love the way Cole looks at you. Hes clearly very proud of you.

  • @donnbarricklow1600
    @donnbarricklow1600 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Cole and Charisma you two are outstanding couple. I see love and this alone is so beautiful. I really enjoy “Roll with Cole and Charisma.” I feel these videos that you put out has really help so many people. Charisma, if you need time out from college then take it. Do what you really want. You will be loved regardless of your decision.

  • @kre.7339
    @kre.7339 Před 4 lety +6

    Gotta live YOUR life, Charisma!! Always supporting C & C....Ride or die.❤️️🙏 #support #nojudgement

  • @traceyanne6284
    @traceyanne6284 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you girl. Im also struggling and I just withdrew from my masters program this semester and I needed to hear this. It is hard sometimes and my mental health was getting a big hit so I had to do it. I still havnt found the courage to tell anyone yet, but this really helped me. Sending love from Australia ❤

    • @kiki7507
      @kiki7507 Před 3 lety +1

      You're so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm glad you are finding a happy place for yourself.
      I'm thinking about doing the same thing too. I applied to grad school but I found out my anxiety and depression are back after another consultation. I've been struggling on and off for the past 6-7 years. Also, I had severe migraines and my left eye was twitching for like 3 weeks straight.
      I want to go, but also my mental health is deteriorating a ton. I don't feel present or alp there. Furthermore, I'm spending more money than what I bargained for.

  • @fatcat225able
    @fatcat225able Před 4 lety

    I’m so happy & proud of you Charisma! Do what’s right for your family & future. Definitely not a disappointment. Charisma you rock!

  • @AJSMAS18
    @AJSMAS18 Před 3 lety +1

    Charisma and Cole, you two are the best ❤️❤️❤️ love your channel. You are doing amazing work! As an RN, I have totally felt concern for you being a caregiver full time for your paid job and then caring for Cole and your future family. It would’ve been too much. You have made such a good decision!!! I am truly happy to hear this news. Can’t wait to see what you two accomplish!!! 💕💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheRyelandfamily
    @TheRyelandfamily Před 4 lety +6

    I’m so glad you are happy in your choice!! You have to be happy!!

  • @bradtaylor7032
    @bradtaylor7032 Před 4 lety +9

    At the end of the day you have to be happy and not overwhelmed, still love you guys and support you 100%

  • @ashlinshayk
    @ashlinshayk Před 4 lety

    Oh Charisma❤️ Your health is more important. You will do great in whatever it is you go into. I really think the two of you going out talking/educating people is your path in life. Much Love to you both😘

  • @phyllisforde7096
    @phyllisforde7096 Před 4 lety +1

    Great decision you have made. Keep doing what you are comfortable with. You are on the right path for you and Cole. Stay positive.

  • @mariaelliott706
    @mariaelliott706 Před 4 lety +140

    Your health is more important. I figured you weren’t in school but it’s ok. You really don’t have to explain. My nephew dropped out of school his senior year in college. He know works in his field and takes care of himself, has traveled out of the country 7 times, and is loving life. Most of all he’s happy. All without the degree. He does plan to go back but the company he works for is paying so now he doesn’t have the stress of student loans. Keep your head up, we are proud of you. You will achieve success in whatever you do.🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ehgratto
    @ehgratto Před 4 lety +12

    I see many have said it already, but absolutely, you do not owe anyone an explanation for any decision you make! Having suffered migraines all my life, and knowing some of my worst ones were totally from stress and no one needs to feel that stressed to cause them! Take care of yourself, and make your decisions for yourself!

  • @cbsmith8412
    @cbsmith8412 Před 4 lety

    Proud of you Charisma! You’re courageous spirit will take you far!

  • @juliaskagfjord6207
    @juliaskagfjord6207 Před 4 lety

    I am half way through this and I love the share. I love you two and you both still look quite young. I spent 8 yrs in college and university studies in 4 different fields of study. I ended up with two diplomas. But I actually have a smoking career now. And after leaving school and returning more than once, I finally was done at age 33. So go easy on yourself and take the time you need to do it right, for you and in your own way. I love this vlog, you are so busy in your lives and the quality of youtube content you are creating is stellar and a huge inspiration! Great vibes. Keep rolling!!!

  • @tamecablack9022
    @tamecablack9022 Před 4 lety +8

    I think you two should do what you think is the best for you two! Keep being positive!

  • @yellow45bird
    @yellow45bird Před 4 lety +5

    You all are such a blessing to us. Your health and happiness is foremost important. Follow your hearts. God is with you both. Continue to inspire and uplift us. Much love forever.

  • @arithesage
    @arithesage Před 4 lety +2

    You’re awesome Charisma and congratulations for making a brave and smart decision for yourself and not others (society)!! This is something a lot of our generation needs to see and take into consideration.

  • @cheryllambert4440
    @cheryllambert4440 Před 4 lety +2

    You go girl! You and Cole just stay happy and live healthy lives. Keep those smiles on your faces and like you tell everyone else, stay positive! Luv u guys!!!!

  • @Aquintisburnett
    @Aquintisburnett Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you I feel like this message was meant for me today. I have so much I want to do but I don’t feel like school is needed to help me achieve it

  • @BabyGurlCarter1
    @BabyGurlCarter1 Před 3 lety +3

    Your family is so supportive. My family was not the same when I quit school. I was struggling mentally and my family didn’t care. All they cared about was me finishing.

  • @sharonnrussell2137
    @sharonnrussell2137 Před 3 lety +2

    You can! Whatever u decide, it's gonna work out. You got this!

  • @synergisticsara6926
    @synergisticsara6926 Před 4 lety +1

    This is so encouraging. Almost every path I've wanted to walk on, people have told me I shouldn't. But now I'm walking that path and it's an amazing feeling. Watching this just gives me reassurance that by doing what makes me happy, I'm doing the right thing. You two are so inspirational, I love your positivity, and it's awesome you're doing what makes you genuinely happy.

  • @RollingThroughLifeMinistries

    I am so proud of you. I know you had a lot of pressure but it takes courage to not let the views of others to guide you. I think you are courageous to look within yourself and find YOU and the path that YOU want to take. Life happens and so often the life experiences can change the path we see our life taking. Way to go. You both are so awesome and I’m so so so proud of you.

  • @BarefootLady2
    @BarefootLady2 Před 4 lety +6

    Live your life girl. Follow your dreams and no one else's! Stay positive!

  • @101gmom
    @101gmom Před 3 lety

    we support you Charisma and Cole follow your dreams. I Always look forward to seeing your post. Love you guys.
    Gmom from Texas

  • @keshacarter7374
    @keshacarter7374 Před 3 lety +2

    As a mom and educator, I do believe school is important, but it doesn't define you as a person. I am not a religious person but I know that we are all given talents that we are meant to share with the world. When you are doing what you're created to do it's not work and everyone benefits. I believe you were destined to meet Cole and have the life you are living now. You both are teaching the world so much. When you are doing what is best for you and your family you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Take care of yourself first so you can take of those around you. You guys are amazing!

  • @RidingWithRuffian
    @RidingWithRuffian Před 4 lety +3

    I just finished my Doctorate of Physical Therapy in May and passed my boards in July.. PT school was by far the hardest 3 years of my life and it was SO easy to lose track and want to quit but I'm so thankful I didn't because I love my profession. With that said, therapy isn't the field for everyone and I'm glad you made that decision before you completely dedicated your life (and finances, it's too pricey!) into it. Best wishes to you and your future profession/career path, I love watching you all and know you will do great at whatever you put your heart into

  • @fanolawilkinson8309
    @fanolawilkinson8309 Před 4 lety +6

    Congratulations! At least you quit while you were on top of things. Life is short enjoy it with Cole
    Love you all.

  • @normabarros3124
    @normabarros3124 Před 3 lety +2

    You make me want to cry. I love your testimony. You both are so encouraging. I think what matters is if whatever you do if you enjoy it , you'll never feel like your working a day in your life. Your love is pure God will take care of you both and your babies, with creative ideas.

  • @rebekah3483
    @rebekah3483 Před 4 lety +2

    Health is so much more important! Long back story of my own, so I'm just confirming this again for you! Much love to you both!

  • @patriciaoneill2353
    @patriciaoneill2353 Před 4 lety +38

    Charisma I can understand the fear of telling your parents and Cole's because there are parents out there that are not that supportive of a decision like that and I feel so sorry for those that do not have the support of their parents. You and Cole have such great parents and both are just so supportive in all that you guys do. Both you and Cole have a great future ahead of you! I just know that! You both are smart and are driven with everything you do! I'm glad that you do not have that pressure on you anymore! And Migraines are no joke! I suffer from Chronic Migraines and it is not fun!

  • @tracibillington8025
    @tracibillington8025 Před 4 lety +6

    I am leaving my job for similar reasons and understand how you felt. Luckily, I have supportive family and friends too. I will continue to pray for the best for you and Cole and ask for your continued positivity in the world. 😍🙏🏽

    • @debrarogers6529
      @debrarogers6529 Před 4 lety

      Your decision is your decision Charisma. Your health and your well-being is the most important thing. You have "Roll With Cole & Charisma, CZcams, speaking at seminars, taking care of Cole and you're getting ready to prepare for a wedding to get married girl! You have enough on your plate. Please yourself!

  • @jillyeager9418
    @jillyeager9418 Před 4 lety

    I just found your channel recently. People are so judgemental when they don't know the behind the scenes that help make that decision. You two are great together and informative. I too left a job after 15 years because I was sick and having migraines every day. YOU DO YOU 😃

  • @paulinejane9742
    @paulinejane9742 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Wow how could anyone be disappointed in you? You are such a beautiful soul & Cole clearly recognised that judging by the way he looks at you. You’re beautiful together x

  • @kymberlyp4056
    @kymberlyp4056 Před 4 lety +5

    Doing what’s right and feels good for you and your family will always be right.😁
    I got my Bachelors and Masters in Social Work (BSW/MSW) to only find that my true passion came through nursing and getting my BSN.🤗
    Good for you in knowing what and where you want to go in life. Know that it’s always okay to change your path. Life is a journey.💚

  • @faithfulone4678
    @faithfulone4678 Před 4 lety +10

    Charisma it's your life, all that matters is your own happiness!!!! No one has a right to make u feel bad about a decision that you made, that is this best decision for you!!!!! You are awesome girl, stay positive💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗

  • @lexijpoole
    @lexijpoole Před 4 lety

    Charisma! I suffer from those same exact migraines & have been having symptoms & repeating migraine episodes all week. that is the worse pain I think anyone can experience. I'm happy you made this decision for you & hope you are doing better!

  • @shirleybien-aime1221
    @shirleybien-aime1221 Před 4 lety +2

    Omg I completely understand. I changed my mind alot too. I graduated in O.T. Got into the masters program and left the first semester. I still want to be in the medical field.

    • @nsanenthembrane
      @nsanenthembrane Před 3 lety

      Why’d you leave? Good for you though if you knew it wasn’t for you and got out early