Is He Pulling His Weight?!

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  • čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
  • In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk loads. Who's carrying more weight? Does it even matter? This was a really great discussion on comparing the weight each partner is carrying in your relationship.
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Komentáře • 110

  • @lcstrowdabridge1578
    @lcstrowdabridge1578 Před rokem +4

    Pray Yvette...God can reverse the vasectomy...👀😝😂❗

  • @wendyfearon9003
    @wendyfearon9003 Před rokem +35

    Would love to see Yvette and Glen sing together more- you both have lovely voices!😊❤

  • @fahnakafranklin8211
    @fahnakafranklin8211 Před rokem +30

    “Three out of four ain’t bad” 😂😂😂😊
    I had 1 out of two. She’s absolutely adorable now but we were worried 😂😂😂

  • @Mrcloudpotato
    @Mrcloudpotato Před rokem +26

    🤣 “Us tired is best podcast!”. Agreed! Y’all finessing it too ✨🙌🏾

  • @ahsinrev6704
    @ahsinrev6704 Před rokem +38

    Love yall so much. I don't even know if you guys know how big of a blessing you guys are. I've been trying to talk to my husband about this and I was praying to God for direction. Btw Yvette is looking amazing after 4 kids, what?!! Anyway, I'm going to watch this with the hubby and process this with him. Thank yall for being transparent and real. I pray our Father continues to bless yalls marriage and family. Love yall!

  • @gigim9587
    @gigim9587 Před rokem +10

    The break and the therapy is reflecting so positively this season, love it 💐

  • @humblocd1857
    @humblocd1857 Před rokem +4

    As black newly weds, who have Christ as our head, y’all are such inspo an vibes!! So much so I told my husband we’re having 4 kids. 3 boys and a girl loll

  • @Mgenao76
    @Mgenao76 Před rokem +12

    Great episode!! 🤗❤️
    “Comparison is the thief of joy.” - Theodore Roosevelt 😉

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime Před rokem

    CHOCOLATE BABY‼️
    I get that wanting a kid, but not having the capacity. Totally get it!

  • @SunshineQu33n
    @SunshineQu33n Před rokem +12

    I’m Yvette and Yvette is me so I didn’t know what pineapple meant (nor swinger for a matter of fact) 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️I’m grateful for the patience of my loved ones 😂😂

  • @ThatsSoLea
    @ThatsSoLea Před rokem +4

    When Glen mocked Anaya I hollered because she is Glens twin 🤣

  • @lorrainejohnson9721
    @lorrainejohnson9721 Před rokem +8

    Glen protect yourself from Yvette’s baby urges. Thanks for the info re 🍍yep I’m naive too. Great discussion as usual, comparing your experience at the gym and how we do the same in a relationship. So true, we are never sure how each other carries their weight. 👏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Grace_A.
    @Grace_A. Před rokem

    Guyss.. this was so good 🥺💕

  • @jubilantpublic
    @jubilantpublic Před rokem

    Love y’all thank y’all time and time again

  • @chrystal__creole4711
    @chrystal__creole4711 Před rokem +2

    Best this season!! 😂

  • @CrystalH777
    @CrystalH777 Před rokem

    I love tired podcast episodes! This was Really good! Omg so many gems! Thank You! 💚💚

  • @michellegibbs-spencer2495

    Thank you for your ministry. This is a game changer. Stay blessed, beautiful people. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✊🏾

  • @ifyalexis
    @ifyalexis Před rokem +1

    My favourite episode yet! Really loved this.

  • @TheForeverMoores
    @TheForeverMoores Před rokem +2

    Great episode 👏🏾

  • @TMonique
    @TMonique Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing 💜

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 Před rokem +6

    This episode was EVERYTHING!!! 😭

  • @mstkfit
    @mstkfit Před rokem

    Nahh this hands down top 5 podcasts so far! Halfway through & I’m blessed ! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @fromkittytocat
    @fromkittytocat Před rokem +4

    You gave him an empty water bottle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lol

  • @misscoldasf9643
    @misscoldasf9643 Před rokem +1

    Whewwwwwww.......this is a full sermon and blessed my spirit

  • @rosie9974
    @rosie9974 Před rokem

    Love your podcast and congrats on your success. I wish their were more episodes. I am hooked. I never miss.
    I love you and your family so much. Keep up the good work! K. Ford.

  • @edithf9499
    @edithf9499 Před rokem

    I love you guys!🤗❤️🙏🏽

  • @octaviad9082
    @octaviad9082 Před rokem +1

    You guys are so much more in sync & I just love / adore this for your family 🤍

  • @alesiasinspiration
    @alesiasinspiration Před rokem +1

    I like the feel and flow of your relationship now. Congrats on doing the work.

  • @Dvinecreations7
    @Dvinecreations7 Před rokem +1

    So I am such a lover of yall and yalls vibe that I even get hype from the intro! Like legit can’t control the joy I feel from the intro that I get up and dance every time I hear y’all do the intro!!! 💃🏽 I had to say it …ard Let me go head and jump in to the episode with you all🤗

  • @ramonamyers8295
    @ramonamyers8295 Před rokem

    Absolutely you each pull your own weight and at the end of the day it all works out I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast thank you so much have an amazing rest of your night and God bless you and your family

  • @msjnaomi
    @msjnaomi Před rokem +9

    Hi y’all, I’ve been listening to your podcast on Spotify for over a year now (so glad the podcast was revived btw). Anyway just wanted to say I was really touched by this particular podcast and it reminds me of how we look at others as well and their own “weight”. This was a wonderful reminder that everyone has their own problems/issues that they might be dealing with but it may not look like it on the outside. I think it’s important to practice compassion and empathy and realise that everything may not be as they seem on the external/outside.

  • @lovecatchingblessings7388

    So good... what a great analogy " the Weight Ball @ the Gym" comparing to the weight you both are carrying in your family & life. Love this....

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 Před rokem

    Btw, I really loved today's podcast, even with all the unfocused times and add-ons. They made it more spontaneous in my opinion.

  • @autumnmckay9825
    @autumnmckay9825 Před rokem

    This podcast has definitely leveled up. You two have leveled up. The break was completely worth it.

  • @inam7871
    @inam7871 Před rokem +3

    I love you guys❤. I thank God that y'all took a break because you guys are just in a much better place.
    Inam from South Africa

  • @WhenGraceCalled
    @WhenGraceCalled Před rokem +2

    This was soooo good. His weight is not yours to carry. Whew!

  • @eenee10
    @eenee10 Před rokem +4

    Listening to the intro of this podcast and realizing that i had missed watching this episodes so much. I’m so glad you’re back on our screens. 😊
    Ps. I love the chocolate babies too, last night i found myself reaching for my phone at night to watch the video with Uzzi asking “dad what’s your name?” 😂. Love your family, and pray that God’s mercy and favor continues to be with you.

  • @doolywrld
    @doolywrld Před rokem

    Bro im only 18 man but i can’t help but be invested in All their content i have seen so far. It’s just too good. Y’all are amazing🔥!

  • @tiffanycarter3134
    @tiffanycarter3134 Před rokem +1

    I must say, Yvette, you look absolutely fantastic! Forget that BMI nonsense. I immediately noticed in the office tour video how great you look. Keep up the good work!

  • @scelicasmith1605
    @scelicasmith1605 Před rokem +1

    I love what you both were saying about the weights, and each carrying you own loads. It is very similar to the conversation I heard this week on Latterras Whitfield 's podcast (Dear Future Wifey) this week.
    Thank you for your podcast, and allowing us the privilege to enter your personal space, I enjoy keeping up with what is going in with you guys, all the way in Blighty🇬🇧

  • @KimmieNoel
    @KimmieNoel Před rokem

    I’m have to hit the replay.

  • @nefertitinelson8374
    @nefertitinelson8374 Před rokem

    This is episode has tickled me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @joydesignstudio0
    @joydesignstudio0 Před rokem +2

    …anyway Glenn is not gonna reverse his vesectomy 😭😭 lol this made me laugh she already planned it out

  • @josss_ie8083
    @josss_ie8083 Před rokem

    Didn't know Yvette could SING 😍😍

  • @needsleep6633
    @needsleep6633 Před rokem +3

    To satisfy baby fever you can become a God Parent, assist a single parent in raising their child or become a Big Sister. Check out the Big Brother, Big Sister program

  • @AutumnnLatrice
    @AutumnnLatrice Před rokem +4

    Yvette I was with you and had a LED 🍍on my desk at work until a coworker told me. It was quickly removed after that conversation. 😂

  • @blossomwithgrace
    @blossomwithgrace Před rokem

    Thank You! I didn’t know about pineapples!

  • @caregiver-69
    @caregiver-69 Před rokem

    I did not know about the pineapple situation. So glad I'm not always up-to- date.

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 Před rokem

    Man you both are so funny!

  • @nilasmith8801
    @nilasmith8801 Před rokem +4

    awesome!! I'm so married I made my Husband diet with me

  • @monkisethojane2218
    @monkisethojane2218 Před rokem

    Lol we had one that was a Lil rough lol... Dead... I love your honesty you kids are adorable. Love your content

  • @lalim5743
    @lalim5743 Před rokem

    This has become one of the few things I do after working 12-16 hour days

  • @omifunkemccloud3362
    @omifunkemccloud3362 Před rokem

    The comparisons are erroneous. It's not a one to one ratio when comparing the woman's body and man's body, but you know that now. Keep up the great work you two! Any episodes coming up on Black owned businesses? 😊💥🏋🏿‍♀️

  • @lcstrowdabridge1578
    @lcstrowdabridge1578 Před rokem

    I say this because I have been having EXTREME BABY FEVER TOO...Mom of 4 here too❗Yvette, I ainne know about the 🍍...thanks for sharing.

  • @NaturallyShari
    @NaturallyShari Před rokem +1

    Highlight of my Thursday’s ✨
    Am I the only one that heard every Tuesday and Thursday?!

  • @ladyamazing75
    @ladyamazing75 Před rokem

    I didn't know that wow

  • @godlovesusall8115
    @godlovesusall8115 Před rokem

    Y'all are so cute

  • @muysatisfied
    @muysatisfied Před rokem +2

    Well I learnt about pineapple today lol I didn’t know for sure! I like pineapples 🍍

  • @caregiver-69
    @caregiver-69 Před rokem

    It sounds like you2 have a good trainer.

  • @ameliakyle4690
    @ameliakyle4690 Před rokem +3

    I just found our about pineapple 🍍 about 2 weeks ago. I laugh at how green I can be at times.

  • @erinandkendalldooley
    @erinandkendalldooley Před rokem +1

    I must admit...I didn't know about pineapples!!!!

  • @naomiolutayo
    @naomiolutayo Před rokem +2

    I'm weak this is not the first time you guys talked about one of your kids being an ugly baby 😭

  • @kittfln8168
    @kittfln8168 Před rokem

    Will u start putting the videos on spotify as well, since u can watch videos on there now??

  • @EvolvingMama_
    @EvolvingMama_ Před rokem +3

    I definitely relate to always having baby fever but taking my vitamins to prevent it from turning into a full on virus 😅 #whenyouknowbetteryoudobetter 🤣

  • @dsgbgirl8326
    @dsgbgirl8326 Před rokem

    What was this program Yvette went on? Cause I need to get my gut right lol

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Před rokem +1

    ME became WE , I became US when ...that's how married you became. Lol, blessings

  • @njaugu6374
    @njaugu6374 Před rokem

    🎶…and we ask 🎤How married are you🎶

  • @jubilantpublic
    @jubilantpublic Před rokem +1

    Wow didn’t know pineapple

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 Před rokem +4

    If nobody told you Mrs Melanin, know that we're proud of you for keeping yourself in shape despite the busy life. I know it's a daily decision and not easy.
    About the weights, I do pull mine but I wouldn't dream about pulling my husband's. The way he's aggressively grinding and making money out there, I could never. I always say I think as a woman I have it easier.

  • @EzzyDT
    @EzzyDT Před rokem +3

    Wow I have been asking friends for a lot of pineapples with the tops on so I can eat the pineapple and plant the tops. I wonder what friends have been thinking about my request. I even ask for pineapples for my birthday.

  • @thefuryofabyss131
    @thefuryofabyss131 Před rokem

    🖤

  • @iyanahgayle9872
    @iyanahgayle9872 Před rokem +2

    ayeeee one min ago 🥰

  • @anp0731
    @anp0731 Před rokem

    I was just informed about "pineapples". I actually like the fruit of pineapple so I would have been caught up by accident not knowing anything.

  • @iAMtheYELLOWrose
    @iAMtheYELLOWrose Před rokem

    What was the program, Yvette? How did you heal your gut?

  • @shawnacieh7156
    @shawnacieh7156 Před rokem

    😳😱 I didn’t know that about pineapples

  • @sevaughn4
    @sevaughn4 Před rokem

    I can resonate with Evette (sorry if I spelled your name wrong) I too have felt like that. Like I want to trade lol but it ain’t meant for me

  • @saab75
    @saab75 Před rokem

    I didn't know what Pineapple meant

  • @msnola915
    @msnola915 Před rokem +1

    ☹️ sorry I'm late☹️ hello hello❤️

  • @akilahroper9977
    @akilahroper9977 Před rokem

    I didn't know about this pineapple think ... wow

  • @Blessed9jaBeauty
    @Blessed9jaBeauty Před rokem +1

    👑💞👑

  • @kenefa7466
    @kenefa7466 Před rokem

    Yvette is top shelf married because the most I might have done was put a pot over it and wait for Glen to be better

  • @iyanahgayle9872
    @iyanahgayle9872 Před rokem

    wait what happened with the new video? Did it go private?

  • @Debonairful
    @Debonairful Před rokem +3

    What happened to the deep episode before this?
    Y’all took it down?

  • @LynnLKing
    @LynnLKing Před rokem

    what does it mean

  • @sevaughn4
    @sevaughn4 Před rokem

    This is rich y’all.

  • @tveney20
    @tveney20 Před rokem +2

    Think about the poopy diapers, the golden poop from breastfeeding that shoots out, and the sleepless nights cause the baby doesn't sleep through the night... 🤣🤣🤣 I mean if that doesn't change your mind Mrs Melanin IDK

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 Před rokem

    Whaaaat pineapple 🍍 s

  • @virjilliajbrown-oyenuga7690

    Y'all do make beautiful chocolate babies.

  • @Ossouko
    @Ossouko Před rokem

    BMI was created with white men as a reference so it’s not really something women can rely on.