Talking with Katerino | Dr. K Interviews
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
- Dr. K talks with @Katerino who is a Twitch streamer and content creator.
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00:00 introductions
07:30 Cheating & Mental Health
17:29 the relationship, vaginismus, emotions
29:30 Sexual abuse, depersonalization
40:29 Grandfather passed away, childhood
1:03:50 emotional processing, absence of anger, self-love
1:29:20 Meditation
1:45:50 Outro
1:52:10 Thank you, it’s ok to not love yourself
2:00:40 Thank you CallMeCarson, Sprim9189, Knightvision91
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Love her chunky legs
I really wish dr.k coulda been here for etika
Fuck man. Too soon, still.
In an alternate universe, he's probably still with us because he got the appropriate help...RIP my guy
why you gotta that real shit, etika would have loved this
Yeah... I don't know if K would have saved Etika. But I do think he would have helped him out A LOT. Maybe that in and of itself would have been enough. A guy who takes everyone's mental illness seriously. Regardless of the things they have done and or said. I really do believe that as close minded as it might be.
@@calin6327 alright no it isnt tbh. we all miss him but hes been gone for a while now, talking about things that could of prevented or helped him isnt wrong or off the table. if anything we should of talked about this while he was still here.
Callmecarson donating 10k at the end of the stream is the biggest Chad energy. Edit: guys he donated the money to the Healthy Gamer mental health coaching program, NOT to Katerino, chill.
Nah, just big simp energy
That was the simpest shit ever
People here being opposed to improvement. He said 'thanks for helping her', because he wants her to be a better person. Shaming him for wanting a person to become better is the pettiest shit. The human race is fucked if we keep such negative attitudes.
Novenae mhm, sure
@@Novenae_CCG I agree that the people callling him a simp are retarded, but i don't think this will have a significant impact on the human race. Retarded people and internet will always be a thing.
Carson is one of the smartest and strongest people around dude. He donated 10k to a great dude who's job is helping people. Dr K helped Kate for sure in this stream. It kinda showed people that kate is a human too. Carson is probably past being angry at her. Most likely just sad and disappointed by the situation and knows everyone involved got hit including kate. The donation is just pure king shit. Forgivness is not simping people
@@ghevisartor6005 MY MAN SquadW /s
@@ghevisartor6005 I don't think I'd call the average male or female streamer mature... Carson is the exception not the rule.
I agree
its easy to tell he was never really mad at her in his apology, just disappointed with both her and fitz like you said.
All people are human it doesn't mean anything except flowery language
DR. K PLEASE READ THIS: In Voicemeeter, you can set a limiter to each "strip" by left click + drag downwards on the "LED" volume indicators. I saw that you are hitting Red levels pretty god damn often and even if it sometimes isn't audible its not pleasant for your ears. Going in to Red values means the signal is "Clipping". If the signal is clipping, something/somewhere is distorting the output signal. Historically, peoples speakers have “poof’d” because of clipping. But this is nothing to worry about in this case. I heard you say you had VST-Host installed on your computer. That allows you to use external third party VST-FX Plug-Ins. My tip would be that you should try and find a tutorial on how to set up a effect chain with an EQ, Compressor and Limiter (At least a Limiter in the FX Chain!). You literally have everything installed to get a really good mic sound if you set it all up correctly :)
5head
audio is bad ass
upvote so boomer can learn audio lol
As an audio engineer I appreciate this post
@@TheConvectuoso As an writer and audio engineer I appreciate your appreciation on this post!
Dont dislike the video just because you dont like katerino, I really respect this channel and the video showing a different perspective
people are sheeple its how the internet works
@Jeff B what
I agree, that negatively affects the algorithm for Dr K he doesn’t deserve that
I don't understand peoples insane burning hatred for people that cheat. Is it a shitty thing to do? Yes. But treating someone who cheated as "subhuman trash" is so wild to me.
Im agree with the stranger
Really disappointing to see how many so called ''healthy gamers'' throw all of that empathy and understanding for mental health out the window as soon as someone they don't like comes on stream.
I wouldn't group up his entire community from what you see in Twitch chat. Twitch chat is typically kind of toxic, and I'm assuming more trolls showed up knowing who he was going to be talking to.
Yea, its just become Katerino bad. Yes she cheated on many people but we havent let her improve herself at all. We cant hold grudges forever, I stopped caring a few weeks ago
@@grant.keegan how is people not liking her stopping her from improving herself..? Whos not letting her improve... ..?
OH shit its almost like engaging in repeatedly disgusting behavior marks you as a disgusting person, who would've guessed? Damn dude you just solved mental illness thanks MeatNinja.
I think is more of a "this person hurt someone" thing, not so much about hatting someone but hatting for the sake of retribution for their acctions, maybe that and people identifying with being cheated... I don't like her or what she did but if she needs help good for her
i think the reason why she's laughing so much, interrupts dr.k a lot and isnt focused is because she's really anxious even when she said she's relaxed her defense mechanism is like on high gear
(for people who think she's disrespecting dr. k when that's really not the case)
yeah i can relate to this whenever i talk about personal stuff i do the exact same thing where my mind is racing and im constantly giving an explanation for everything i say or do and laughing and when i was younger that would also include stuttering. So yeah i think you hit the nail on the head. She comes off as eccentric but im sure she doesnt feel too good about it.
@@AXharoth this comment was edited so the replies dont make any sense
Yeah I agree, they almost seem like ticks or somethings she not controlling
I agree. I think Dr. K was actively trying to not laugh at any of her jokes because doing so would just reinforce that defence mechanism. The dude is out here with these big brain psychological moves lol
She actually has ADHD/ADD if I remember correctly. It can definitely seem like she was uninterested/un-focused
Dr. K - Went to med school, 180k subs on CZcams
Also Dr. K - I don't know how to plug in a second monitor
I;m stupid and even I know how to do that
Im a medstud and I dont know how to do tht either please sue me
@@Vyansya maybe only stupid people know how to do it
Vyansya its simple man all you do is plug it into your graphics card that is why it has multiple outputs of the same type.
As someone who works in IT currently, you would be surprised about who has no idea how to use technology outside their field lmao.
Timestamps:
00:00 introductions
07:30 Cheating & Mental Health
17:29 the relationship, vaginismus, emotions
29:30 Sexual abuse, depersonalization
40:29 Grandfather passed away, childhood
1:03:50 emotional processing, absence of anger, self-love
1:29:20 Meditation
1:45:50 Outro
1:52:10 Thank you, it’s ok to not love yourself
2:00:40 Thank you CallMeCarson, Sprim9189, Knightvision91
@@Mark-xw5yt Yeah, definitely agree hundred percent!
@Mark its katerinos career future :O
@@Mark-xw5yt hello Mark
Hey Hey
Its interesting when two people accidentally speak at the same time and then both pause its almost the exact same pause duration before they speak again.
Is it really that interesting
There seems to be a subconscious timer in our brains. Other examples include when you're hugging someone it will usually be for exactly 3 seconds.
It's like when you bump into someone at the super market and both move out the way to the same side again and again ....
We are living in a simulation and the pause timer is a fixed variable
@@Bombasaur101 same thing with hand shakes
Dr. K getting confused over "what a Keemstar is" is priceless xD
Where
he likes to play dumb with a lot of things just for the reaction he gets. Pretty smart.
U mean enviable
@@FreshFriF I am 38 years old and barely know that Keemstar is a person; he has been mentioned on other random CZcams videos as someone who literally runs a channel about drama and therefore has a very dark and drama filled orbit through the internet (please correct me if I'm wrong). What can happen when you're older and especially if you build up your own family and have a career that you devote huge amounts of time to is you find you don't have space in your brain for random internet people, you've already got so much on your own plate. The energy on twitch/CZcams that I vibe with is Sips of the Yogscast, and I just passively listen and never interact, and that's about as far into twitch that I would expect other 38 year olds to like Dr. K to go. Just FYI.
Y'all need to understand the difference between helping someone and simping. Carson was literally being thankful that Kate was getting help and y'all think he's a simp? 2020 is the worst year.
I don't think she's actually getting help. She seemed very insincere for most of the talk. I think she's just learning the right things to say to manage her public image. I got no impression that she's genuinely remorseful.
He wasn’t simping at all the money went to dr k showing how he’s thankful dr k is helping her?
Holding a door open for a girl will get you called a simp. I just don't understand the toxicity of these people
@@totlyepic pepelaugh
Prepare yourself for the future: Memes are only going to get dumber and dumber as current/future generations grow up.
Regardless of your opinion of Kate, just appreciate the conversation for what it is. Its centered around why people do what they do. Not to punish them, not to shun them, but to help them. And to me, that's just beautiful and it's the best way to invoke real change :)
True, I don't ever want to see another suicidal breakdown that happened before. I dislike Kate but i won't go out of my way to cancel her.
If only Dr.K was around at the time Etika commited suicide. I think he would've appreciated talking to dr.k about his problems.
Except I don't believe anything she says in this video because she has a biased interest in reviving public perception of herself.
JessAtlas you have the right to not believe but be a little open minded I get what she did was awful and she was manipulative but the point of this wasn’t to garner sympathy it was a discussion you have every right to feel what you do
it's hard to sympathize with someone who you know purposefully got 7 different dicks while dating people
granted, I ended up sympathizing near the end
still, cheaters get my blood boiling
Now this is the opening up I wanted Kate to do, this is way better than the small vids she did
if anything i think that small video did more damage than good, probably if she did like and hour video or something coming clean.
@@phitalsyndrome no apology she could have made would have changed anything.
@@phitalsyndrome it's the whole twitch community we're talking about here they would have hate/dislike spammed it regardless
@Coldfury I think that its possible that she actually did gain a lot from this but it also doesnt excuse her or her actions. She probably geuinly does want help, but she still also could still be a toxic person. The two can co-exist. I hope she geuinly gets better and she does seem to geuine about most of these things, however I dont think that makes her entitled to other peoples trust or forgiveness. She accepts she fucked up and It does seem shes geuine about it, and she really doesnt come off like she is trying to seek other peoples forgiveness. However her accepting that shes fucked up and moving through it does not erase the actions that she did Or make her entitled to people forgiving her. The reason that I don't think shes being manipulative is because of 1:24:56. I have dealt with manipulative people in the past and they don't think like that. But even if shes not being manipulative doesnt mean she is entitled to others forgiveness.
Coldfury everyone’s a human bud don’t forget that yeah she fucked up and maybe she doesn’t deserve all the success she could’ve had but that part is subjective and the fact that she knows she fucked up is just reason to be at peace with it instead of wasting energy trying to hate on this random girl that you’ve never met
People who send death threats because someone they don't know cheated on their boyfriend need to take a big look at their own moral compass.
I’m shocked there isn’t a “simp” comment on this
simp
Which one boyfriends tho?
@@piewdisiegaming uhhhhhhhhhh the 1198th one i think
More than that they need to fucking get their priorities right. Like taking interest in their own life instead for starters. But if seems like people live through others on the internet today and that's just... beyond sad.
just so everyone knows Carson didn't donate to katerino he donated to Dr. K and the gamer bro charity he's doing.
He could have donated at another time.
@@jlann8243 true, but why give aF about when? If anything it was the right time to do it... he was directly affected by her mental issues and that's him showing he wants more resources to go towards such issues.
People really on here bitter like the bitch cheated on y'all 😂😂
@@jlann8243 A donation is a donation stop being dumb.
he donated to dr k for helping katerino
why do you even care though.
I have been cheated on before. Never in a million years would I want that person who cheated on me to be harassed or to be treated as an irredeemable villain their whole lives. I am glad that they too are seeking help and bettering themselves.
Jordan's Unix-based Machine damn. That sucks hope you’re feeling good👍🙏
My friend was cheated on and decided to get back with her, cheat, and leave her. Do u think he did the right thing? I feel like she deserved it for playing with his emotions but it was a bit too far. Should he apologise?
@@Urmom-if5nc I think he wasted his and her time. Revenge is petty and silly, he should've used that time on moving on from her and betting himself. I hope both your friend and his ex use their time more wisely in the future.
@@whitesticcwilly8907 I'm doing great! It was a long time ago.
@@Urmom-if5nc yea he did go a bit far definally if she was willing to change. I get his mindset but it well just end in more negativity.
"Is Keemstar like Pogchamp?" nah man that's more like WeirdChamp to me
TRUE LULW
OkayChamp
PEPELAUGH LUL
What is a champ
More like should be in jail creep champ. Is there a champ for that?
You can tell she doesn't like that she laughs. Seems like it annoys her.
john, I want a divorce
Relatable in some way
Joker
corn bob AHAHAHAHAHAHA
when she started talking about her papa and his dementia it made me tear up because i just lost my grandmother last august to dementia and i was very very close to her as well. its been a while now but i still think about her.
CallMeCarson donated $10,000 "Thank you for helping her." I'm glad he doesn't hold ill will towards her even after what happened. Not necessarily for her sake but his own. He seems like a good person.
Couldn't be me wouldn't be able to look at her face
10 grand? well he did it so no one else becomes like her and hurts anyone else
@@malikmacro lol beta
DeuPKay fun fact we not wolves so we dont use alpha, beta ranks as to describe people
@@DeuPKay I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're a teenager or a kid. You'll get it one day dude. Sometimes you gotta spare your own sanity by staying away from people that hurt you before.
You're doing great work dr. K, good luck with starting up the program. Everyone definitely deserves the opportunity to have a talk like this, during their self development stage.
Ngl at first i gave a lot of smoke for the situation but this interview rlly opened up my eyes on how she has her own problems. Also made me realised not to judge anyone from face-value... good job Dr K
You're disliking Dr.K not Kate.
true
Dr. K's knowledge is futile in this matter.
I guarantee you, there is no helping this woman.
Take it from me and the small but enlightening handful of dating NIGHTMARES I've experienced, these types of girls rarely if ever, change.
@@ChristUponus That is as ridiculous as saying vaccines are ineffective because there are SOME people that they don't work on. Of course some women can't be helped, but it is ridiculous to make a sweeping statement and assert that these type of women cannot be helped based on your personal experience with them.
@@ChristUponus Also, you said they "rarely, if ever, change," which implies that, in your eyes, there is still a possibility of them changing. If that is true, Dr. K's expertise is NOT futile. In your eyes, there is a chance of her changing, and so people SHOULD try to help her.
@@ChristUponus LMAO are you really saying that to a harvard psychologist who is professionally trained to help people mentally by talking shit about his knowlege being futile?
This has to be one of the most powerful sessions Dr K has ever done.
Wow this was very personal on her part. I have more respect and understanding of Kate now, knowing her side of things. It doesn't make what she did okay, but it at least allows viewers to see for themselves that she is only human and humans make mistakes. She's obviously trying to better herself and I admire her for that.
@@johnbaptist5622 Woah who hurt you?
@@Hchiskasj Nobody hurt me. I have a girlfriend, who I love very much, and I'm going to an excellent university. It isn't hard to think rationally. This girl was just plain ridiculous. She was also plain cruel playing all these guys. I have no sympathy for her at all. I truly hope she loses all the success she's gained thus far.
@@johnbaptist5622 wow that's some stron
@Viszlát Nyár That's not a woman thing, that's a human thing. People will always gravitate towards doing what is easiest and convenient to the point of greed, it's not something related to sex or gender
To me, she did this of her own volition, and she probably didn't even give Carson any either. Carson may not like that we're still dogging her, but he should love every minute of it. Kate fucked up big time, cheating is BEYOND redemption. Always has always will.
This session was very heavy! And this video has a lot of power in it. It should be shown to those who needs it!
I have never clicked faster in my whole life
Factual
Why though
Broke my finger while clicking
You probably care way too much about internet drama.Maybe you should think about that.
@@lolizorz youve got point
Is it just me or her talking a lot, jumping from topic to topic, talking with rich and vibrant vocabulary is some sort of defense mechanism? Every time Dr. K. pressed gently on a serious issue, she immediately ran away into "storytelling" territory where she talked and talked and in the same time, mentally separating herself from emotions and feelings. It felt like Dr. K was chasing a bunny through a complicated maze, and every time one would think that Dr. K. "had" her pinned against the wall she managed to get away from his grasp. And when he finally "had" her during meditation, calmed her down and had her focused on one hard memory she was legitimately scared.
I know jackshit about psychology but I don't think she had dealt with everything on an emotional level. Her brain processed everything, she definitely put a lot of thought into her past, her abuse, her papa dying, her recent cheating, but I don't think she's emotionally ready to deal with everything she lived through. It's good that she's seeing a therapist, she will definitely need some help with that.
It could be a defense mechanism, it could also be that she has so many years of unproccessed thoughts and emotions all bottled up that whenever she does open up, the dam kinda bursts and it all comes flooding out at once, thus making it very scattered, unfocused, rambly and a bit chaotic. It's also possible that because focusing in on one memory makes her scared as you put it, she then has to move quickly from topic to topic as to avoid lingering in one place and feeling that fear, which is understandable.
yes and its totally normal for a person with a lot of trauma , stop judging
thats the fucking point einstein
i think your observation is valid. she uses her laughing as defense mechanism and she does it a lot. shes not relaxed and she certainly spends a lot of energy for just being okay.
Fibbles OH MY GOD I GET YOU SO HARD, that happened with my adhd too, one og my therapists tried to talk about stuff that i was really sensitive to and i tried to talk about other stuff and then i just left.
I've been dealing with a metric ton of bottled up emotions during this quarantine, and your channel has actually helped me to shed some light on what i'm feeling. Thank you Dr. K. , you're doing something amazing with your channel.
Katerino's therapist is punchin the air right now
It's great to see how much Dr. K has changed people. If someone laughs when they're nervous, they usually get called emotionally immature or "unready to talk". This comment section is the best thing to come out of CZcams so far. You may get passively judged but they will never openly drag you down because they know what you're going through. Amazing stuff :^)
This was such a ride man. I really learned from this video. Thank you Dr. K!
I forgave her the moment she said "Vagina broken. Don't work". I laughed way too hard. In all seriousness, I've been hurt by cheating a lot and I won't lie, I judged Katerino in the same way I judged those who hurt me. I realize now that was wrong, and I found she was actually fairly similar to me in some ways when all I wanted to do was silently judge her. I'm glad I saw this. It opened my eyes to not being so quick to judge based on my past experiences.
I'm glad she's brought up awareness of Vaginismus. I myself struggled with it for years and it caused problems in a lot of my relationships.
I developed it while I was sick and later diagnosed with cancer and endometriosis. It's been tough.
how open vagina
Do you know what timestamp she talks about that?
Natasha Tides 17:29
Spoot thank you
Imagine talking about all this incredibly personal stuff on the internet for anybody to see, that would be so difficult
@Turquoise Cheetah shes being forced to do it by witch hunting assholes like you. If she doesn't give her full story everyone online will continue to hate her because they don't understand. What is your problem.
@@Vero-jz5ex Imagine a public figure trying to do PR.
This was a good stream. How often do you get to hear this in depth about the mind of a perpetrator of a scandal? It's incredibly illuminating and reminds us of the humanity even in 'bad' people
Edit: To clarify, I'm not saying whether or not Katerino deserves forgiveness, or whether or not she is a bad person. I don't have any power to make that judgement, neither do I care to. I just really appreciate the perspective.
perfect comment
Indeed. I really wanted to hear her part of the story in this - in order to understand her and people that can be unfaithful in relationship, their motivations, inner state and history.
Well serial killers are fairly human as well
@@haticll I would love to hear Dr K talk to a serial killer.
@@elijahbuscho7715 same.
Her laughing throughout the whole thing really got to me. I can see how laughter is her shield to not crying. Holding everything in that’s happened to her. People can do bad things, but I truly believe many deserve second chances. Unless if there Hitler.
you know, its a weird feeling to relate so hard to someone like kate but goddammit here i am. I guess i understand myself a lot better by understanding her
!! I as well.
@Luigi DeNardis llol idek who she is i just saw this from watching chill
@Luigi DeNardis how old are you
@Luigi DeNardis yikes, man. Take a chill pill
Sound guy here: it was a big MISTAKE turning up the gain on your microphone. You pushed the input gain into distortion. In fact, you audio is always distorting on your videos. Look up "audio clipping", "gain staging", and also "vocal compression" seeing as you tend to sometimes increase your vocal volume very much, in sudden bursts.
yes! there was def nothing wrong with it, it annoyed me when it was turned up
Lhol I am also a sound person one who knows how to hear the sounds with proper quantities
Hey man :) Maybe if you send him a DM you can help him out via discord 1 on 1 :) Only if you want to of course! I think DR. K needs a bunch of help perfecting his streaming set-up x)
It's really amazing how open she is with everything that happened to her
In the comments section you can see the real biggest plague in history happen, drama addiction, that's the world boss of mental health. Those people are beyond hope.
Drama adicction is more dangerous than corona and black death together
I'll never understand how these people get so emotionally involved in other people's relationships. Felt the same way when the Doc had his scandal. What a waste of energy.
Cancelled culture at work here. All these zoomers stuck at home with nothing better to do.
where are all these toxic comments? i cant find one comment that bashes this girl or this video
junayd mohammed they’re a lot more drowned out but you’ll mostly find them in the replies to comments where people are just pointing out (not excusing) that trauma can lead people to doing fucked up things such as cheating
DAMN!! Dr.10K you make me go through my childhood and revisit all the times i failed in life and all the emotions that comes with it..... over and over and over again.. understanding oneself is a hell of a process and you help me go through that and for that i thank you soo much i needed that.. my life is a big mess i mostly go on wihtout too much worrying about that but sometimes it comesback to me and watching your videos help me a big deal going through that and i really appreciate your work and i thank you for the bottom of my heart sir!!
That was really a powerful episode! I asked myself a lot of questions and did a lot of work on myself during this show. Props to Kate for coming on during this time
The way therapists talk is so fucking comforting. I miss mine
Dr K should become president of the world. Love this guy so much, hope i can hug him sometime for helping me so much
Much love to you BOOMER
Stfu
he definitly doesnt look like a boomer. i wonder how old he is, he looks 30 max.
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 37
LULW That title is like going to College of Live PepeLaugh
Parece que encontrei um brasileiro. Se possível, curtiria trocar uma ideia contigo sobre essa parada toda.
I have sympathy for her after watching this. I relate to her so much. Thank you Kate for being brave enough to do this.
Dr K, you're one of the many support beams holding up my mental health. Thank you.
This was really eye opening in a lot of ways. I relate to Kate in a lot and watching this made me realize how much I struggle with Disassociation and Depersonalization in my own life. I had no idea she was sexually abused as a child and had been through so much trauma in her life. Nothing justified what she did but it is definitely insightful.
@Semore Taffie people have their own reactions to trauma
I really really appreciate your videos Dr. K I always learn so much, seriously thank you for uploading these... they help a TON!
I get that she made a mistake, and that shouldn't necessarily be forgotten all together, but y'all also need to learn to let shit go. It's obvious she is at least trying to be better, she took full responsibility for the cheating and emphasized that there wasn't any excuse for what she did.
@Green suit guy that was for the doc not for her
Green suit guy How does that make Spoonesi a simp? I’m pretty sure he’s defending Carson and not her but either way you sound like an incel. Go get laid or sum and calm tf down
Green suit guy Same can be said about the word simp. It’s overused af and it’s lost all its meaning kind of like ‘boomer’. But hey if you made ur peace with being a lonely loser who can’t get a girl than who am I to judge? I also don’t see how I’m a simp for defending Spoonesi who was defending Carson. Nobody in this thread is defending katerino u beta fuck. And also getting laid might not be the measure of a man but it definitely shows whether a chick even views you as a man which clearly they don’t considering u don’t get any
Green suit guy Why don’t you go do something with ur life instead of being such an angry incel on the internet like go outside for once, or go to the gym, pick up a new hobby or something? I’m just looking out for u buddy
Green suit guy I saw that deleted comment you pussy. I guess u realized how stupid u sounded
In case anyone is in some sort of doubt about the dementia part, that part is so accurate. My own grandad went through it, and my brother and mother are working in aged care (70% of the facility have dementia) and I visit to help them sometimes. Yeah, families can be torn apart by it.
The best friend grand dad breakdown I've personally seen twice, some of them forget the people they see everyday and I've had the same story about my real name about a hundred times. Its heart breaking to see someone just forget everything about themselves.
And its not forgetting temporarily, they lose the memory permanently. I've seen people forget their spouse's face, and talk to them about them without knowing why the spouse is crying.
Dementia is fucked up, if you think she wasn't being genuine about that, I'm gonna say you never had someone have this kind of breakdown in front of you. This is her breaking down, even if its not the media depicted way, in this I can say she is honest.
omg this got me crying dang. it just makes me mad that pedophiles do this is the exact reason why the map community on twitter is disgusting. after that said stay safe and if you are sexal abused as a kid it's not your fault your loved don't feel like you're not pure because of that.
From my experience these abused children grow up to be the same as katerino. Cheating on bfs and having multiple guys. Sad, that it happened to them, fuck the people who did that to them, but you have to be careful with these abused people, when you’re in a relationship with them.
@@norydaisy7393 yeah thanks for the input that's true and you do have to be careful very much so. I didn't judge much when I she said she cheated because I know everyone cheats for a reason I just like to know. I've been cheated on and it feels like it breaks you and you fall into a dark pit but people have to carry themselves to try to understand why they cheated.
@@Timely7 you sound like a nice and reasonable person, have a nice day! :0
@@norydaisy7393 aww thanks I try my best to grow you are a respectful person and nice as well you have an amazing day or night.
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Wow you guys are really wholesome! Even Katerino is very communicated and trying very hard to cope with the situation. Dr K is excellent as always.
this has to be one of the best/most interesting session i've seen in awhile.
Idk about you guys but i see a mess of a girl who wanted some momentary satisfaction in the past and now has to face not only the consequences of her actions but the trauma she suffered from the past. Right now the last thing she needs is more bashing, she is already unstable, doing that wont help her.
Same people who love Etika will still bash her. They don't give a fuck about people if they're bashing her for something that has nothing to actually do with them. Twomad leading by example, for example. People are just going to keep killing themselves after being bullied and shit and afterwards people will pretend to be sorry. Shit is wild.
@@TheGreatFuckinWorm agreed. That Twomad interview was terrible
@@TheGreatFuckinWorm Etika was good person though，and through her bad decisions - she is objectively a bad one. We can understand her pain and the nuances of her character but I don't think she should be so easily forgiven since she'll never undo the damage she's done. Some people went to far with her but at the end of the day，she isn't hurt by anyone，a death threat is just another hater who probably has issues like her. So why are we forgiving aweful things she's done to Carson while she gets hate messages that's common online. Seems very inconsistent if we forgive her becuase “she has issues”. Shit we can say that about the people who say mean things to her too
kjfdsjknfjkna fknsdlfnla He said the people that say they miss Etika were the same people harassing her. Also are you saying just because it’s common means it’s right?
@@quantum7495 even if it isn't right doesn't undo the bad things she's done. Some people went too far with harrassing her and they're wrong for that. All I'm saying is that her negative actions deserve critism and can't be forgiven so easily because some people are assholes like her.
s/o to Dr. K for giving Kate a chance and humanizing someone who was so villainizedby the community.
I had this video open and stopped right before the meditation part for a week or two. Not sure what was keeping me from it, but I'm glad I participated with it. Thanks Dr. K, keep up the good work :)
Not to mention katherine, it seems to me that these interviews show that you can have a normal conversation without unnecessary accusations, but with guiding you on the mistakes you made, and how be better person.
You guys are actually surprisingly blind and naive, I'm a total tool for expecting more from the internet though.
I can't believe my eyes with this comment section, how in the blessed soaring Fuck can you say this sort of thing?
Just because she's got a fairly pretty face doesn't mean you should so easily give her the benefit of the doubt.
Have some integrity.
@@ChristUponus Being on the neutral ground is a great way to live a life, going after someone just feels wrong in any way. No need to push your opinion on someone, let them speak their mind and move on, maybe even show your opinion while accepting the other.
Not saying that you can't have your opinion, just forcing it onto people is kind of weird ngl
@@ChristUponus Did she fuck up? Yes, I'd say so. Does saying it help anyone, does it even do anything? It helps no one, it does nothing.
If she wants to get better, I would rather cheer her on or remain silent than shit on her.
† oмnιaмoroυѕ † What Katerino did was horrible, but what good does it make if we keep shitting on her and insulting her? Nothing, at the same time, praising her won’t do good either. The best course of action is to let her get the help she needs. Therapy isn’t a cure, but it’s a treatment that makes life more bearable and opens new avenues for positive change.
@@ChristUponus I wrote not to mention katherino so i didn't talk about specifically her. I don't defend her and what she did was clearly wrong. So calm down
bruh why tf wasnt i tought about vaginismus in health class
@Jeff B "broken vaginas" lmao
Probably because some things are more important, dangerous and frequent that that one thing...
@Jeff B sure lets learn about every type of broken dick, too. beats learning about the fuckn quadratic formula
@@blew1t chances are, you'll learn more than you need to know about dicks and vaginas, by virtue of being on the internet.
On the other hand, if nobody forces the quadratic equation down your throat, you'll never even hear of it.
@@alfreddelatourquipenche8287 i dont think that holds true for every adolescent though, i feel like very few teens or whatever go into their sex life with the amount of info needed for it to be, uh, graceful. usually it's awkward. and i mean obviously the main point of sex ed is to teach kids about safe sex, but i think it could also help decrease awkwardness arising from sexual misinformation, or just lack of information, and i think that'd be especially helpful for people with vaginismus, because i'd imagine young men that aren't informed about that would be weirded out and it would just be a bad experience. maybe that sort of thing isn't worth spending much time on, but if there's gonna be sex ed lessons anyway, might as well briefly cover the bases of some common sexual conditions, because as kate said it's fairly common, some estimates say as many as 6% of women experience it
It feels super strange having this in the background while I'm working. I guess this is what a real therapist does, and they've had years of training to be that way, but he was super super kind and even when driving the conversation a certain way it felt like he knew exactly what he was doing and he wouldn't lead you into any traps or anything.
I can relate to her "depersonalisation". When I got too much going on and feel like things are slipping out of my control I kinda just check out and cruise along.
It doesn't make anything better or less urgent, but I can ignore it easier until pressure gets too much and I feel like I swallowed hot lead, or whatever I was ignoring catches up with me and bites me in the ass.
Can be really tough to get out of a rut like that but I'm getting better at forcing myself to do unpleasant things that need to get done. Even doing smaller stuff like cleaning etc helps me stay ontop of more important things like taxes, work, relationship maintenance or physical health.
For me, depersonalization is like when I do certain things, and convince myself that someone else did it, not me. Like I had times in my life where I would act completely opposite to my values, as if I were acting for a different life and not my own. So even though it's messed up, it's still an actual thing that can happen to some. It also makes people feel wrongly justified to do something wrong, just because "it's not me that's doing, it's another side of me.
I guess an easier way to explain this is in acting, when you play certain parts, you get too emotionally into the part. You become an entirely different person in that moment. And somethings you just feel in that moment because you are supposed to feel it, not because you necessarily do(example: losing a loved one in a play that you are part of and acting that part out). That's what depersonalization feels like to me.
I worry that this kind of personality is sociopathic and detached though.
I respect Kate for seeking help, being open and honest, and trying to understand herself. I'm going through a similar situation (didn't cheat on 7 people or whatever) where I need to understand myself and my problems to move forward, so I respect that a lot.
to people saying that Katerino should have gone offline: I think that would go against the point of healthygamer to help others (in this case where the interviewee is comfortable with it being broadcasted). people watching on twitch might not know this channel on yt, and some may connect with these discussions (maybe not with cheating, but maybe with discussions on vaginismus, self-acceptance, defense mechanisms, and grieving).
even if it were for clout, the fact that healthygamer can bring these topics to light and educate viewers is more important than the intent of the interviewee imo.
i agree. this is kind of a tangent but the vaginismus thing was something i was glad i learned about even though im a guy. when i used to live with my mom, she would tell me about how much god loves her and would satisfy her wishes, because she experienced so many "miracles" in her life. one of them was that she had a "curse" placed on her by a family member which made her not able to have sex, and it didn't go away until after months of prayer. stories like that really confused me, but now learning that this is a common condition really helps put the puzzle pieces together.
@@nuclear804 I'm sorry for what happened to your mom. I'm glad to hear that you learned from the stream, though.
Thank you for sharing your story.
as well as the fact that, she shouldn't be forced to not talk about things publicly or not allowed to stream because she makes a mistake. she has owned up to it and knows she is at fault of it.
@@LittleB1RDY definitely. I feel that this also makes more sense than my original comment.
I think that, even in the case that discussion on stream may not be applicable to the audience, interviewees should feel free to speak publicly with Dr K if they choose to.
Absolutely awesome video Dr. K, you inspired me to start seeking help.
Thanks for uploading the "Interviews". They honestly feel more like a session to me.
I feel like in every talk with someone I can reflect something onto myself and I really like how you approach the different things.
Thanks for doing those talks even though I can most of the time only watch them here on CZcams, I believe you are helping a lot of other people, not just the person you're speaking to :)
I know very little about this whole drama thing with Katerino, only that she received A LOT of hate. I'm sorta glad I'm going into this without an opinion of her. This should be interesting
what do you think so far?
@@popcorn.164 Yeah what do you think about it.
Update on your opinion of the situation, friend?
@@catfan__ Damn. R.I.P Ben.
@Jeff B and males. I've found myself in negative moral situations where I've slept with one women that I obviously led to believe we were exclusive and things where leading to a serious relationship and still sleep with one or two other women.
I know it's wrong and I find myself quite uncomfortable thinking about it. I'm quite good looking and that's what I've been told by many people throughout my life. I feel like it's part of my identity to be successful with women. Also I feel like the need to mate is strong in this one.
Takes courage to face the crowd like that. Respect.
Orrr you could argue that she's going on dr. K for reviving her dead stream.. Since we saw how much of a cloutchaser she really is, noone can really tell..
Lol.. this is her way of "redemption" in order to make her "depresonalization" joke seem more believeable and spinning this into both "I am a victim of mental disorders" and also "look, I am trying to get better, I am a good person" all while getting attention to revive her stream. Psychopathy 101.
@@GravyyTrain ok so for mental health we are supposed to support people with depression when they do stuff that is bad to themselves like doing bad at school or being socially anxious but when mental issues present themselves as negative actions that hurt others they are evil incarnate?
I'm not saying pretend that she did nothing wrong but let's not treat it as if she's fucking hitler either lol
@@vidzorkus6192 Maby that's why she went there but it could still become a genuine conversation.
@@PredatorH2O true, but i hate this situation since i can't really tell. I still don't forgive her for cheating, but i will admit that she must have had a pretty hard life up until now. So i think this dr. K talk is kinda justified
The video ending on 'Is a Keemstar a thing?' is hilarious
LMAO
Yea that was the best ending XD
Dr K thank you for making these! I know this is probably not how therapy really and truly is but this has taught me a lot about myself and made me less scared to seek out therapy!
This channel really can show the real type of people they are. Even if some people are controversial, at the end of the day, they're human. As long as they move on.
oof this got me tearing up. ty for doing his kate, I struggle with depersonalization too
Me too and it sucks shit. Hope you've been keeping well
Carson: Donates 10k during a stream with his ex who cheated on him with several people
jake paul: Loots during a protest under the guise of a dead man he doesn't even know the name of
Amazing Kate ; it takes a lots of courage to share what you have shared ..... much love 💐👍😍
Thank you for this, I really struggle with griefing my mother. I had a really similar situation when doing the meditation (and it helped me understand I am not ready to say goodbye completely.
Some people are calling Carson a simp for donating at the end. I can kinda get where this comes from, but what people are ignoring is that Carson donated to HealthyGamer, not Kate. Carson is being the bigger man by showing directly that he will not let a grudge against someone getting help from a network stop him from supporting the network; he’s not a petty person. This doesn’t mean he forgives Kate or forgets what she did. If anything, he’s not letting her have power over him in deciding to support a mental health network. And if that ain’t king shit, Idk what is.
I couldnt agree more man. I have so much more respect for him.
That's a lot of assumptions and bad faith if you ask me. His message was specifically "Thank you for helping her" which means he already does forgive her. He's grieved and has moved past it. Of course he still cares about her, as she does him.
Carson is a man we do not deserve
@@ticklord ding ding ding
the real "king shit" is not being super toxic about stuff that's not really their business
Forgiving someone doesn't make u a "simp" u guys lol
I've come to the conclusion that I need my own personal Dr.k lmao. Amazing video 👌
I'm glad Kate did this. Yeah, what she did was a very bad thing and she has to take responsibility for hurting people. But there were people going just a bit too far with it. If you see her as a person and you hear her experiences you sympathize with her on a human level and it's harder to be so cruel to someone who made a really bad choice like we all do at some point.
guys if you like the video it means u hate Katerino so like the video guys don't dislike it cause of Dr. K
"Is Pog champ a person or a thing? Pog champ sounds like keemstar, is a keemstar a thing?"
Haha, that had me in stitches.
I think they want keemstar on the show rofl.... that'd be hilarious.
keem is too insecure and is also a sociopath to be on the show.
DaftFader PogU dr K is king boomer
@@cerreta752 ye i doubt it would ever happen, but i'd love to watch it if somehow it did.
@@1Loftwing1 ok pogchamp
mental illness doesnt exist in his mind apparently.
Dr K is so wholesome I love watching his content.
these new label features are a really good addition they really help with finding specific topics
Amazing work Dr K! I think this video will help her and many people watching this. Keep up the good work.
You think you know the story and heard the song and dance 1000 times before with every apology video anyone has every released, but this what people actually needed to see. Parts of her story are heartbreaking.
What stuff like this always reminds me of, is that every bad thing a person does or every "bad" person has a story and a reason why things are like they are.
I think understanding that and thinking about this in certain situations helps to keep your mental clear and calm.
No, as Dr. K also said, sometimes it's not as black&white and people just do bad because they can and nothing else. It's dangerous to think that everything can be justified somehow.
The rant at the end put a lot of things in perspective for me
I’ve been feeling so broken for the past year because I’ve started to realize how my brain/anxiety works against me. I haven’t been able to get proper help so I feel like I’m broken until I can
But I’m 18. I have my whole life ahead of me. This isn’t the end
I know I’ve dumped a lot of comments on this video, but I feel like I have to. If Dr. K or someone on his team happens to read them, then I know that they may feel like their hard work to spread this information is working. And if some other kid in the same situation as me sees this comment, then they’ll know they aren’t alone
That meditation at the end actually helped me deal with a painful memory a tad.Thank you, Dr. K.
Why the dislikes Dr K is just doing his job we all know Kate's history but that doesn't mean you should dislike the video because she was on his show.
to be fair they probably know the dislikes aren't against Dr K or HealthyGamer, and it still makes the video more popular. I definitely feel like the hate she's getting is waay out of proportion too tho
@jeffB Katerino was dating 2 men at the same time (the boyfriend she mentions, and IWillDominate) she then messed around with a few other men, making it seem like she was interested in one, and none of these men knew about each other, and no one knew she was dating anyone. Thats the gist, but I’m sure there are a TON of videos covering it, it’s the big drama of twitch
Piss off with this herd mentality manipulation attempt, if someone wants to dislike the video that's their completely valid choice.
@@vinny5638 No need to get aggressive, I don't really see any malicious intent in this at all.
Vinny
And I have a right to say whatever I want so you piss off dawg
I was also abused as a kid and had a lot of difficulty developing social skills and making good decisions.
That is sad to hear. Are you better at that now?
Same
Still scrolling through the comments to see who asked
@@rubixsosa547 lmaooo
@@rubixsosa547 Found the Katerino simp
She's such a colorful person. I love her "bubbly, extroverted" personality and I'm so sad for her, there's so much pain.
I personally relate to her, I currently am figuring myself out and whether I also suffer from depersonalization.
I dont know an inkling about how Katerino functions and who she is as a person, but damn it takes a lot of balls to do this.
I really enjoyed this video and I think Dr. K did a fantastic job with the interview. Although I haven’t been through what Kate has been through I felt like I could relate in some areas of the conversation. I hope she can continue to grow but I believe for her safety and others I don’t think she should return to streaming. I hope others found this video insightful like I did.
Understanding first, judgement last
Judge and seek to understand simultaneously.
@Jeff B did I?
Jeff B way to judge him for judging you for disliking KEKW
Matt
*Judging to the 10th power*
@Jeff B I'm saying that I'd rather understand first and judge last.
I'm not saying anything about anybody other than the people who feel the same way as me and myself.
I had a similar thing happen with a girl who experienced the same things and was equally charming. It took a few years to get over but people react to trauma in strange ways and we cant hold it against them forever unless its murder or something as heinous .
Thank you, Dr K for doing this. It shows a different and much more human perspective on all of this.
I swear she be shocking me with new vital information related to the topic every 5 mins, no harm meant tho hope she's well now
first 30 minutes sounds like she hasn't gotten over her fathers death at all. :(
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This really changed my perspective on the girl. I wont lie as much as she said it wasnt for sympathy points it really did feel like it was at points; but you could also tell those were some genuine feelings. This vod helped me learn i depersonalize a lot too i didnt know there was a word for it. I also definitely think carson donated to show that the immense hate shes receiving is not ok. She fucked up big time and is paying the consequences she doesnt need thousands of ppl online telling her shes shit. Thanks dr k for what you do
Most cheating has nothing to do with sex. It's a craving for attention, feeling loved, being put on a pedestal that they actually seek and it becomes addictive
@vulture cyclops I tend to disagree, i think that men are seeking attention too, i think it's human and women just tend to admit it more. What surprised me is how fitz was easily dismissed for his actions towards his friend, while she received all the hate. I genuinely don't get this double standard, i feel like they are equally responsible. The mental disorder part is an easy way out, i do agree on that, i guess we'll see if she grows from this or go back to her old ways
@vulture cyclops I think it's mostly because many of us have been brought up that way. Very prominent part of media that targets women is about finding a partner and/or focuses on appearances.
Men crave attention too but more from their piers. Women are often just a way of getting aproval from other men.
@Normie Respecter Nothing I said is because I am female nor is it coping. And several people made smart observations here but women being inherently needy isn't one.
@Normie Respecter why?
I hope one day she will be able to talk about her vulnerabilities without breaking away into stories, joking etc. it will take a lot of work to slowly pick away at all these walls she built. I wish her all the strength and energy in the world and hope she will be able to use this as an opportunity to find herself and get in touch with her own emotions, she isn't a bad person! It doesnt take a bad person to do bad things, but it takes a good person to reflect on it learn from it and make changes, cause that shit is hard!
She is a bad person, dr k just navigates around it in a non judgemental way
@@diegomavalon7980 She isn't a bad person, she is a person who has done bad things. Doing bad things doesn't determine the trajectory for the entirety of your life.
@@ryanasher6284 ok liberal criminals then havant done anything bad right??
@@diegomavalon7980 a cheater is a cheater and a criminal is a criminal,i know a wife that killed her husband around my area,and the husband was friends with my dad.Katerino is far from being a bad person,there are women that are pure evil,she is not.
@@andrewpeter3631 and there aren't different levels of malice? She is sane and knows right from wrong.
It's interesting that so many streamers that I've seen, when they start to get "real", they assume the audience is bored by that. In turn, the streamer feels this need to return to their streaming persona - where all the audience wants is for the streamer to continue being the real version of themselves. We the audience will even explicitly tell the streamer this, and yet the streamer refuses to believe it.