Sense of Self-Value ft. xQc | Dr. K Interviews
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Dr. K talks with @xQcOW about value, self-sabotage, and $1000 bicycles.
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00:00 Introduction
6:45 tilt, immersion, self-sabotage
16:30 Dr. K patient storytime, Overwatch
24:20 Twitch cares about xQc
33:50 Caring about Appearances
41:05 "Is your dad proud of you?"
54:50 Unhealthy mindset, but it works
1:13:53 Fundamental sense of value
1:25:30 xQc's dad and a true sense of value
1:40:30 Takeaways
1:47:00 Meditation
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Hey Doc,
If it's ever possible, or you get the time to consider, could you please try to get your interactions into podcast form. I'm always so intrigued by your point of view and would love to have you in my ears on the go.
If it helps, I have an audio engineering background and would be able to do all the work for you as a donation for the work you do for us as viewers.
I seruously appreciate you Dr. K
Doc I'm listening to this in the background and I want to give my input. When trying to focus on something for me I notice that if I have 90% attention in one place the 10% can steal the focus. So what you mention is very true.
My eyes hurting, the WHITE is too much! Please balance it next time , thank you
You should reach out to wingsofredemption. He could use some self motivation with his life. This is a great video!
Its nice listening to xqc talking seriously about his thoughts and his feelings without hearing attention seeking spamming donos.
2 hours of xqc trying not to open up ms paint and show what he means
PeppersprayLaugh
PepeLaugh
quality comment
When he was talking about having a drawing or image in his head thats exactly what i thought about
GOOD ONE LULW
dr. K ‘you ARE a thousand dollar bike’
félix: ‘pog’
Where is this in the video?
R1CS0 1:15:38
It was a small little pog
777th like pog
i read this before he said it and i thougth it was a joke hahaha
20:37 When he talked about wanting to shave off viewers while he was playing badly, this clear image came into my mind of him picking McCree, inverting the video output horizontally, maxing out the color saturation, switching to the bad quality mic, cranking up the volume and adding deafening amounts of reverb. I guess some people did leave in those moments of tilt as that shit was almost unwatchable, but I would stay and laugh my ass off every time. Pepega Clap.
so fucking true holy shit. wouldn't have thought that this shit is so deep.
Very insightful
Haneul this is exactly what I imagined
Haneul that was so funny
I remember that. It had me fucking dying
feel like the language barrier stopped xqc from expressing his true thoughts at some points. still nice to see him do this and be open-minded about it
edit: hope you all have a lovely day :)
I think that Felix often express thoughts more emotionally and real because of that
Yeah I think it's a bit of language barrier but a lot of his alexithymia that's preventing him from opening up... I was pleasantly suprised to see that he was aware of all the systems he has created within himself and that he could explain them pretty decently!
@Timemaster f i watched it live :)
@Timemaster f all of these videos are taken place live on twitch, this one happened yesterday
@@kinglucky6594 i'm guessing he didnt really remember that this is streamed on twitch aswell
Everyone: Felix is actually very smart
Dr. K: sit up straight
Felix: 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘶𝘱
-Sit straight
-What does it mean????
@@user-rg1qt9ew6h It's when you sit with good posture
@@zackeekcaz ya man I know, I just laughed about that thing, when drk said "we could do something standing", and then clarified that he asked our lovely pepega to SIT still
And then, when xqc wouldn't understand, that dr meant him to sit "straight"
@@zackeekcaz ah shit my english is bad ffs
I just mean, later xqc asked numerous times "what does it mean?", like sitting straight
If that makes sense lawl
When does this happen
As a wise man once said:
Jam a man of fortune and J must seek my fortune.
Henry Averys, 1994.
Nacho C deep...
Must be a rich guy who said that.
@@AveoMB Multi Millionare LULW
I was eating when I read this, and blew chunks all over my keyboard. I've just spent a good 15 minutes cleaning up, thank you for this laugh
The fucking 1994 thing makes it so much funnier, it makes the text so much less whimsical for some reason
That story about Felix's dad disregarding his excitement about those subs made me really sad.
I actually teared up. Thinking about his excitement and the sudden denial by his dad hurts.
Lol gay
@@MajorasLullaby no u
Dunkey Kung beta male thinks acting tough on the internet will make him get laid
I still remember Felix laughing at a clip he watched from some reaction andy compilation, where a kid go "mom i have 400 subscribers on youtube" and she goes "who the fuck cares"
The Crossover I thought I'd never see
Owl LIT CROSSOVER 😂🔥🔥🔥
@uraharasama1 It's PEEEEEWDIPIE
As soon as i heard of Dr K i was like let our boy xqc go on it , because i worried about his mental state for whatever reason
SuDzY Ayy Wait does xQc has a mental illness?
@@leonardooal No
First time hearing him talk normally
Bence Szabó i didnt know that was a possibility
I was scared
wdym? he talks like thhis all of them time
Mik james I think he mean so calm like
Watch his interview with reckful
i feel bad watching an xqc stream cause literally everyone is just making fun of him and i dont think thats a healthy thing no matter how thick you think your skin is
They dont always make fun of him. They also pog and emote spam depending on what's going on. Chat is like an annoying little sibling. They can say some hurtful shit, but they can also make you laugh sometimes
Yeah i agree tbh
I remember how they used to make comment abt his nose and he would genuinely bothered. Idk if he was but i remember sometimes it looked like chat bothered him. It's funny that you mention the little sibling thing because this kinda of seems like this thing called parasocial interaction where fans of some famous figure will develop the idea that they are almost friends so they're comfortable doing certain shit which can include teasing that goes too far and arguably excessive praising. It's out of viewers' love for him but its not really healthy and it could not even be that but just some food for thought i guess
@@Ruby-eq1qg yeah i feel like chat can go too far as if they know felix like that. ofc it’s all meme kekw but sometimes people convince themselves it’s okay bc” it’s felix” acting like they r friends.
While it is mostly fun and making jokes, chat can be really genuinely hurtful sometimes. It's sad sometimes. :(
Dude Dr.k is killing it. Never thought i'd see him talking to my boy XQC.
@@lilsquidward2266 are u ok
This was so chill. Normally whenever I'm watching pvc there is music blasting and 20k people spamming big schnozer LULW in chat.
TRUE LULW
Johannes you’re in a comment section of a video involving a well known twitch streamer, expect it.
Johannes trying to provoke a reaction? Don’t you have anything else better to do with your time?
@Johannes malding over pixels LULW
@Johannes You're linking subreddits on a video that has nothing to do with Reddit. Quite hypocritical aren't you?
It's scary how much stuff is in common between these streamers, that isn't visible to the naked eye until examined at a closer look. We have seen small glimpses of what Felix has going on in his life, but the way he lives and the way he believes he's perceived and his mental state makes me feel thankful that we have someone like Dr K who is helping these streamers open up a little.
@Repanocho This talk happened yesterday on twitch, so a bunch of us already watched it live. Pretty sure all the stuff from this channel just catalogs talks/highlights from the stream.
a lot of people feel like this, not only streamers.
@@kiyoku_ this is the full talk, but no twitch chat :(
@AL-simcul people can only learn that money doesnt make you happy, once they have money.
That's because at the end of the way we're all humans, as much as some people would like to pretend they're completely unique. There's a lot of overlap with people in general.
I wish this guy was around before Etika left us
same
tbh I agree
man...
That conversation would have been amazing
Yeah, sure he could've helped him like he helped Reckful
Dr. K - “You are a $1,000 bike!”
Felix - “Pog.”
Instantly illustrating dr's other point about not feeling the emotions just stating them. Twitch probably has done much harm to as many people as it helped if not more. You arent happy. You pogging. With picture added right there for you. We need to cage FrankerZ (or whoever) before he becomes a supervillain.
Where's timestamp andy when you need em
EDIT: 6 months later and still no timestamp Sadge
@@_burd. 1:15:43
@@_burd. he has arrived Pog
Damn this isn't xQc... It's Felix
edit: To clarify: I don't think he puts on a persona but I do think that when he streams he is very focused on trying to do everything at once, read chat, play the game, react to dono's and it can end up being very chaotic. I also think the reason he sometimes trys to talk so fast on stream that nobody can understand him is that as he said im this interview he hates wasting people's time so he wants to get his thoughts out as quickly as possible and constantly wants to deliver content and entertainment. But here in this interview we see a very different side of him, he talks slow and collected, takes time to think how he wants to word stuff, he really listens to what Dr. K says and trys his best to give a good answer that Dr. K can work with etc. I honestly think this is the first time I have seen him like this. That's why I commented that. It feels like what we see here is not xQc with 50k viewers trying to make everyone happy, and do everything at once as fast and efficient as possible... this is just Felix having a relaxed conversation with Dr. K and I think it's really cool to see.
k
MonkaS
Fewix
I-I-I-IT ISN'T FELIX... I-I-I-I-IT'S THE FAM-M-M-OUS E-E-E-EL GOBLINO!
ITS THE CLONE
Xqc if you’re reading this,I watch because I enjoy you and your personality.Your recent streams have been games I would never play myself or watch anyone else play tbh but because you’re playing them and making them fun I enjoy it.Thank you man.
He would be happy if he has seen this. Hope someday.. Someday
@@D0G5Coolpat11 OH NO NO FF7 PepeLaugh
wholesome comment FeelsOkayMan
Henri Puusep geometry dash lul
For sure man I dont talk in chat ever but xqc always cracks me tf up😂
"i just need a second to think about how much i should engage your mind." man is on a different plane of thought for sure
Bayly Bennett yeah bro
5Head
The Hero we need.
Psychology is one hell of a drug
I WATCH XQC ONLY FOR FELIX HIMSELF. I DONT CARE WETHER HES REACTING TO JUBILEE VIDEOS, PLAYING TOTALLOCKDOWM OR ANYTHING ELSE. I WILL WATCH YOU ALWAYS XQC, XQCL. I ENJOYED MY STAY.
totalletdown pog
IG:Ftp.v1 DONT forget Hunters arena legends absolute pog of a game
POOGERS
Beautiful
It's sad to hear donos say things like this, and come to find out, it doesn't seem to sink in for him. :(
The man doesn't understand why anyone would watch him unless he's the best gamer available to watch. He doesn't like that people would want to watch him for any other reason, he doesn't grasp any other value in himself. That is so insightful into his character, since he's someone so often perceived as being egotistical and narcissistic.
Yeah often times the output of ego is to hide the lack of self worth inside... I've been there too... I've done that...often times as just a joke amongst friend like I'm playing this narsacistic persona of myself but it's also not all jokes... there's also a sense of insecurity in there
Xqc needs a hug
This was such a nice stream. I always saw xQc talk about how when he died in a difficult part of a game, he always wanted to switch games because its not content if he dies. In reality, we enjoy him because of him not because of the games he plays. Seeing Dr K talk to Felix was so nice.
Rule U Out ya it’s not that we care about him getting a perfect dark souls run no deaths it’s that we just want to watch him for him
xqc is weirdchamp and his community is just trash.
Sun Gokoo No u
@@lion-o848 that's mainly due to his streams being different from other streamers. Compared to other streamers and their communities, they're far from being close to what xqc had built. Yes, xqc and his community is mainly shitposting, that had given him success; however, that shitposting is mainly coming form xqc. Xqc allows for that as his personality to also show. That's the same reason to why other streamers have the joy emote on their channel aswell such as: Greek, Pokimane, Forsen, etc... And for other streamers like Mizkif to make fun of xqc and his community. To make fun of what he's doing that's giving him success. Sure, all the shit donations that come from his viewers and the chaotic behavior of xqc himself makes themselves seem like trash. But that's what go him to be among the top streamers on the platform. He's viewers are there everyday for him. The only reason he get's this dislike of him is from the youtube videos and top lsf clips of him, but thats only a fraction of who he truly is. I've known about him since 2018 for a winston play and only been watching him since the beginning of October of 2019 so you can call me a new frog. However, i've stayed to watch his streams longer than any other stream on the platform. The only times i've watched other streamers is when he's offline or banned. He's consistent with the work that's able to make his viewers stay for him. I watch until the end of every stream to enjoy my stay.
@@alanbythegallon Very well said
I really hope he comes on again, I think doing this a few times could really help him because anyone who is a big fan can tell he's got some stuff under the hood that would be good to work through.
Loved this talk, was really good.
People forget streamers can put on fronts just as much as anyone else in the world. People get so used to the persona they put on that they forget when they’re off camera they go through the same things we all go through. It reminds me of Etika and how he had all these issues under the hood and he was just a hype a guy as felix. I hope this opens peoples eyes that there’s more to the person than just what they see.
@@TheGamingMusketeer Damn man, I love Etika a lot and think about him all the time. His tragic end is one of the things that led me to discover xQc in the first place, as I feel they have a similar vibe of being super hyped at times and heartfelt at others which I haven't been able to find anywhere else. Not saying Felix is anywhere close to going in Desmond's direction, but it still makes me feel a bit better that he's talked to Dr. K at least once in order to understand what he's going through better. It's a shame that Dr. K wasn't around before Etika started on his downwards descent, but in the end you need to want to be helped in order to be helped and he refused it, evenly actively opposed it at every opportunity. Rest in peace.
@alt acct Adept seems to help him a lot so that's good
@@Tom-101 😞
"If I can't admit my defeats, I can't claim all my victories." - Félix "xQc" Lengyel, At the end of the day he's a human too and it's cool to see this other side of him
Pls Explain to me what this means. It sounds cool so i wanna understand the meaning behind it.
The result is irelevant because the effort was there
@@eliaschainriffo5056 I disagree. Hard work is ego
@@bentleyhuang93144 bro i just said that as a joke , xqc said that in a clip its very funny btw when he tried to use a tie
@@eliaschainriffo5056 r/woosh
That story about xQc telling about his sub count to his dad is actually pretty sad
actually made me cry
then the thing with the thousand dollar bike came up and he just responded with "Pog" it made me burst out laughing. xqcL
Synx Why? It was a sweet reply, no?
For real, seeing him trying his hardest not to cry right after almost made me.
timestamp?
@@ts6603 1:11:30
Dr. K should really consider interviewing El Goblino next, I think there's a lot he can discover through that rabbit hole...
Fuck you 4WeirdW
but he's banned so where would dr k stream?
monkaW
El goblino MEGALUL
@@xxevilellisonxx wtf is wrong with you
Hearing "is your dad proud of you?" hurts me so much
no dad gang FeelsBadMan
We're all stronger without them, Fam.
I can relate. That's why I want to be a dad that is proud of his son or daughter.
his biological father is actually cool and maybe proud, i think his mother just hate his real father and they divorced and his stpe father was a pain in the ass
@@yokailofi9329 Dr.K: 'well, not really. you need to recognize that its okay to blame them and to embrace the feeling that they owed you a normal life.'
1:32:11 “he needs to judge you for who YOU are, not who he expects you to be" that hit me like a rock
Imma take that home
Same hit me harder than my parents hit me
It's kinda weird to say, but the reason I like famous CZcamsrs more than other types of famous people is that they're usually much more open & vulnerable with their audience
*_I actually feel a sense of connection instead of just idolizing them like famous movie stars_*
Every Interview:
Dr.K: "Does that make sense?"
Streamer: "Yes" (no)
The way I see in that is they understand what they are saying but processing it is difficult because it is opening up something in the thinking process. Such as relating what he knows to it and trying to understand it more in depth which isn't "normal" so it requires some time to figure out so that is when the no comes into play. I could be wrong but I noticed he likes to take in more information to process.
@@dood6647 I don't understand many things either
@@Duenschissdoktor live life to learn and pursue happiness.
@@dood6647 idk if pursuing happiness is a good way to put it. more like enjoy the present moment for what it is. if u persue happiness your saying that you dont already have it but the reality is that is already within you. dont chase happiness, be it.
@@JacobyVisitMe Exactly how Dr.K would respond, ironically.
1:35:17 so genius how Dr K take's felix's unexpected answer and uses that to bring it back to his point: he needs to recalibrate his value and meet felix in the middle, just like what needs to happen with felix and his dad.
I’ve seen this guy (Dr.K) on twitch clips and stuff and I never liked the idea of it to be honest with you. Something about talking about this stuff on stream rubbed me the wrong way but I see now I was wrong. This interview was fucking amazing. Not only did we get an insight into parts of XQC we didn’t have any idea existed, but I learned some things about myself and my own life. This was really amazing.
I had the same, the concept of it sounds really strange and too good to be true, but Dr K is just such a genuine person.
Were those the out of context clips lol
I think this is the longest period I've seen Felix stream without slamming his desk.
Fewix can go for an hour without farting.
@@sp1602 Kapp sure
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@JXMTL hyperdanielsvideogaming
"There have to be people who are better at Overwatch than you. Right?"
...
"Yeah..."
xD
"yeah, right now yeah" OMEGALUL this guy
middle right busta PepeLaugh
PepeLaugh he WAS the best MR busta PepeLaugh
Of course he can barely aim so that is why he was playing the ape:)) Winston:)))
only in moments like this we get to see felix for once and not xqc
this is so dumb, twitch is the platforms where people themselves the most
Antoine Harvey not necessarily but i get what u mean
@@lesolstice_3465 Unfortunately no. Not even with XQC
“You ARE a thousand dollar bike”
“Pog”
That was such an amazing moment for so many reasons.
Dr. K: So how are you feeling?
Felix: The zing is like the boom to stay in the zone!
True 5Head
lololo
*True*
Dr K.: Ok felix can you sit up straight for a second
Felix. "Begins to stand"
Dr K.: You know well just run with it.
Classic mr cow LUL
Ok, this might sound crazy but I feel like the reason why Felix doesn't feel like he deserves something could stem from that one skating sponsorship when he was younger that he won and all the kids at the skate park were mad at him because they feel like he didn't deserve it since he wasn't the best skater there and got sort of bullied because of it. I don't remember that story time too well so sorry if it isn't correct and Idk if that's a direct cause but I think it could be a contributing factor
Yeah, a lot of peoples issues come from experiences that occurred during their childhood. A lot of the time they don't even realise it.
Is interesting how humans like to humiliate those who are better, some go as far as killing someone because they stole the oportunity they seek because that person is better, like, kids are the best example, they ridicule and bully those who are better at something than them so they get rid of their frustration that they're not as good by making the other one feel bad about it which is one of the most disgusting things to do to someone
Stickman Reaper It also happens when you’re the best at something for a long time and then you fail a little thing and everyone starts laughing.
Kids are the best example of those behaviors and usually it’s due to parents not knowing how to parenting, and make them learn what is to work in group.
@@manuelsousa Yeah, personally though, me, my brothers and friends laugh at each other when someone is better than us at something and we beat em once, is something we do for fun so it can also be a funny thing to do when you compete with others, but the main difference between what me and my friends are doing is that we have fun laughing at each othere like some dumbasses unlike people you barely know who can't wait to laugh in your face when you do a tiny mistake
Stickman Reaper yeah, that’s good. Competitive spirit is always good, but for instance I had a colleague in my class in middle school who aced everything and the few times she would fail, people would make jokes. Most of the people who made jokes were average students too, so seems she got the last laugh on that.
But yeah kids can often be idiots, but if their parents or family gives them the proper education and environment, it’s less probable something like that happen
1:49:34
Dr K: "Sit up straight"
xQc: *stands up*
lmao
LUL
Felix*
Teddy Scribner thats our pepega afterall . XqcL
Pepega Clap
first chess now psychology, he is turnign into a 5 head
He should drink wine on stream LUL
And listen to Bach and Chopin - Indeed
always has been m8
His 0 head.
@@FinnPlaysMCandVG ahhh, very good music I reckon the new generation doesn't know what baroque music is.
"That feeling deep inside you hidden away"
monkaW EL GOBLINO?
I’m an Aries, what does that mean for me?
@john smith astrology weirdchamp
Really impressive to hear XQC open up and talk so honestly about himself
This was genuinely amazing to watch for a lot of different reasons as an xQc fan but around 2:03:08 when your daughter came in I just lost it, reminded me so much about the guy in the news who had the exact same thing (x100) happen to him
i think you mean this right LULW czcams.com/video/Mh4f9AYRCZY/video.html
@@user-vs4yc9kh3g yeah exactly what I meant LULW
"You're a smart guy Felix" of course, he is one of the best carpenter from harsvard.
he made a pizza
@@uresyou not a door
Dr. K out here with the aoe heals again
I've never played a single match of Overwatch in my life and couldn't give a shit about the game. No offense. I 100% watch his stream for him. He is one of if not the funniest Twitch streamer on the platform. He is genuinely a funny, entertaining, charismatic person and seems like a good dude. It actually boggles my mind he thinks people only watch him for gameplay? That's sad. Have more confidence in yourself man. You're awesome.
Felix: "I build up a rank and lose it to get it back"
Me: *COD flashbacks*
LMAO
Felix's response after he was asked if his dad was proud of him almost made me tear up because it seemed like he was maneuvering around say no
NEVER DOUBT THE GAMING GOLEM PVC FeelsStrongMan xQcPeepo :Hand:
any truers?
@@SafetyKitten TRUE FeelsStrongMan
@@Sg.Oddball FeelsStrongMan
2?
cringe
Hi (sorry for bad english)
ZULUL
the old youtube meme returns
KEKW
@Jeff B Jeff Bezos? Is that you?
@@davevanlaren2501 zoomer chat wouldn't know pepeLaugh
oh gosh, that "can i see your face?" broke my heart. right in the feels.
lmao
Timestamp?
@@DesolateAE 8:50
@@aeroslothy 8:50
Ok that's reaching. We like to see the person we're interacting with when they are speaking on deep topics
“J am a man of fortune, and J must seek my fortune”
Is one of a million reasons why i watch Xqc, not his gameplay or community, it’s just his vibe, humor and personality
That name and pfp just kills me
Big Booty Batman just doing collectibles ForsenCD
"Henry Avery 1994"
12:53 PepeLaugh @xQcOW HOLD IT IN
You can tell he wanted to laugh a bit
Literally bruh momento
oh no no no PepeLaugh
RizzY The Memeiest forsenJoy BRUH
@@jonas034 PURE FLAMES MY BROTHER!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
FAX NO PRINTER😂😂👌👌👌😂😂👌👌👌😂😂👌👌👌
It feels so good when xqc is giving out his opinions without the chat spamming question marks and then xqc slams his desk.
but what about seven hundred and seventy seven quintillion
@@abeidiot xqcL
What a guy, kudos to Felix for being so vulnerable in front of so many people. Much love!
These are so powerful and relatable exchanges! I'm so happy to be able to see this! Thank you so much!
I didn't think i wanted this but I'm happy to see it
john smith wtf are you in about ? Scorpio? What are you 10?
Billy Boy he’s been cringe don’t mind him
john smith I acc thought you were joking but no apparently ur a nut job
OH YEAH YEAH
12:54 U KNOW FELIX THOUGHT OF ANELE CLAP HAHAHA LOOK AT HIS FACE
twimp haha
i knew that was exactly what he was thinking of it made me crack up
@@Flegneh same xD
Thank you so much I didn't notice that
And @27:31
You are such a blessing for this community and have been an immense help personally through your stories and care. Thank You!
I picture chat spamming “so bad lulW” when he tries to match his breathing with the stretches
he can't be bad at breathing with this giant shnoze LLLLLLLLL 77777777777777777
@@petersall1055 amazing comment
@1:14:51 Was such a great moment
Dr. K: "You don't have a broken chain, you ARE a thousand dollar bike."
Felix: "... pog!"
Dr. K: "... yeah!"
😂
This was incredible. Sometimes when we watch streamers on Twitch we disregard their feelings, things they may have gone through, or things they might be dealing with internally. It can be hard to remember that they are people, and just because they have a level of success it doesn't mean their problems go away. It's kind of the real definition of "money doesn't buy happiness".
This is the first vid ive seen from Dr. K and this dude sounds life changing tbh, he hit so many points that are relatable I cant imagine having a full session
This was really wholesome. Thanks for doing this with Felix because I feel like he really needed to hear it.
this was really refreshing and wholesome
I have been considering going to see a professional for my problems but I am kinda scared/don't want to but Dr. K is making it seem less formal to me. Really making me consider it❤️
do it nigga
I've been watching this video since it came out and I personally relate to Felix saying how he felt accomplish for reaching 212 subs on Christmas and saying how his father shut him down. Happened to me as well, I felt like I did something good in my life and told my dad about it and just shut me down and made me feel like shit. I still think about what my dad said to me to this day because hearing something like that from your parents hurts. So I applaud Felix for talking on stream about this. Good shit Felix.
This was a really great episode, thanks for doing it.
4:00 Very well articulated on Dr. K's part. I feel like Felix was thinking from a "content" perspective, almost like he didn't want to inconvenience Dr. K by potentially making his stream less interesting.
I think it goes more in the same idea and direction of "not wasting other peoples time". There is already some sense of self-devalueing going on that he might not be interesting on his own, thus wasting peoples time with stuff they already know. But Dr. K summed it up quite well. Besides emotions and reactions of each individual, we can understand the concepts but people are still different and exploring that might lead to new, more subtle concepts.
I’m not gonna lie I watched the entire video, it’s just so nice to see x talking, sharing genuine thoughts and talking about himself without dono spam as funny as it is.
I love how your able to help people in an entertaining way
"You ARE valid, Felix"
"Pog"
Been subbed to xQc since his first ban from Overwatch League. I am glad his stream blew up
He talks so calm, I like it.
Its only been a day, and I have watched this 3 times now. This relates to me so much. This helped me too.
The meditation was so fascinating. Actually all of Dr. K's 'therapy' sessions are so fascinating. I've been binging them, which is difficult bc they're so long 😂 but it's also so nice to witness people have revelations about themselves and their thought patterns. The meditation exercise seems like such a useful tool for people who have racing thoughts or who are always 'on'.
Bruv, I be slamming these videos down like water. I have the super power of being able to watch all my youtube videos at 2x speed (it's honestly a curse). This was an hour long video for me
This is poweful shit man. I got all up in my feels watching Dr.K realize and understand Felix's mental path.
The part about validation really hit home. I'm an illustrator and I used to feel that my stuff isn't great, even though everybody around me - friends, family but also strangers - told me my work was great. It got a lot better once I started freelancing because I could use the fact that people were willing to pay me as empirical evidence against my own low estimates. Even later, I started "tricking myself" by creating an imaginary scale on which I'd rate my own artwork, but add an extra 2 to 3 points if I couldn't tell what I found wrong with the piece. Essentially, I started "correcting" my own estimates based on the knowledge I had about myself being way too harsh.
Really reduced the amount of validation I need and also how I view it. I actually accept it now as "data to feed into my scale". It's really weird talking about it, but it somehow works.
Just wanna say that this was a great interview that really helped me a lot on issues that I struggle with myself. I really appreciate what you are doing Dr. K, this truly was helpful! :)
For some reason, whenever I watch Dr. K talking with streamers I enjoy watching and it shows a side of them we as viewers usually don't get to see, I feel oddly motivated to start taking things into my own hands and start working on myself again. Thank you Dr. K!
xqc is one of the more interesting minds I’ve seen on this show
I think he still has the same attitude about performance but he's switched competitive gameplay with content creation. So many times I've enjoyed the hell out his stream then he goes "Today's stream was shit sorry guys"
Thank you for uploading this.
I'm so glad I watched the whole thing. Not only did I related to some of the stories but the meditation technique going to be the key to me actually achieving meditation.
"I am my father's son, his shadow weighs a ton" - idles
goes and it goes and it goes
I like Felix's hairstyle
These conversations are profound to me. Thanks for putting them out.
What a fantastic conversation. I really resonate with how Felix comes at these things
I believe from the way he makes statements about not "deserving" others views. He had a strange relationship with authority in youth, maybe that is too "scripted", but he clearly does see others as more accomplished, and truly does not like that people like him, because he is unsure how to love himself, and may even become violent when he is doing bad at videogames because it is so deeply/subconsciously rooted that other people are better than him for some reason. He has actual mental triggers when he loses. He has an addiction to his ego, but may be an emotional person. His being says, get off the camera, work on that man, If he does other things that don't have people watching and that won't feed his ego he feels his ego has a problem attaching itself to the flow of his affairs later on. When he mentioned that he does not feel he is interesting it felt to me that was a tell tale giveaway that he was neglected as a child. I felt the same way as I was growing up, and looking at my life in retrospect I have imbalances that played hand in and with my neglect of attention in childhood. This is a community of people (mainly young) that put themselves out there so people will see them... That is the mindset of a lonely boy or girl who grows up and feels the pressure of being seen, because an authority figure never gave them the time of day. I think that that is one big causal link that streamers/youtubers have as far as mental well being goes. It is young people who constantly seek attention. Do you think that if their parents taught them value and raised them understanding that they deserve to be happy without other people saying so. that they would constantly seek attention or be chasing clout or making asses of themself? I would hope not... These are a generation of sad people who want to share their smiles with people and be the best so they don't feel hurt or emptiness. They are then confused about why their great success is so confusing day to day, when truly their desires come, typically, from a very innocent place.
I'd like to think that childhood trauma affects ppl differently, maybe it wasnt his parents that neglected maybe it was his friends or some ppl he looked up to. I've had a couple friends open up to me about abuse and being neglected by their parents. I had a friend that told me that his parents were always on the road and they never gave him attention even when they were home. He would slap my neck sometimes when I'd be on my phone and do ridiculous things to get other ppls attention, even in the middle of class. And theres also in the case of me and my other friend who was abused the same way I was abused and while he became more shy I became an asshole and started to not to be as nice as i should've been which also made me more of a bold person
@@lunatic2178I relate with that story fairly well, but my friends parent's were there, just ass holes.I wrote this comment 20 minutes in, but then continued to skip around in the interview and listen to sections, and over an hour in the doctor and Felix come the conclusion that it is most likely tied to his lack of intrinsic value, due to the conditional love his father gave him, and the fact that his family never accepted his accomplishments. He has a subconscious rooting that if he isn't on the rise and winning repeatedly, it means he really isn't successful and then he feels inadequate and gets upset, because his worth is tied to proving himself to his father instead of realizing that value comes from within.
Wish I could save comments to read again later 😓 . Good take on the interview
Thanks for the bedtime story I go sleep now zzzZzzzZzZZz xqcSleeper
I felt negative reading that. Mainly because you dress XQC to be chasing clout and acting like an asshole, is what everyone on the internet is like. But that is just how I felt, as if that comment made a grim judgement about my character.
Dr K's face in the thumbnail perfectly resembles the face of those who are watching pvc for the first time 😂
What does PVC stand for?
@@fabled. its a type of pipes, but xQc's chat calls him pvc as a meme, since it rhymes
True
@@fabled. he doesn't know PepeLaugh
PVC for survival situations let's check it out
Thank you. This really helped me think through and process things.
So excited to see you connect with so many of the streamers I watch. Specifically Félix as he is Canadian as well.
I ceased to breathe when felix said "well that's because they don't stream" and Dr. K reacted by saying "well ok fine devalue yourself however you want"
"Sit up straight"
**Stands Up**
I've watched this for 4 mins and I subbed to you.
This is what gamers need.
Serious respect for these two, mental health has been taboo for too long, this has and will help so many others 💜
That bike metaphor was so good especially when extending from just the chain to felix being a thousand dollar bike wow
i love how at the end pvc instinctively said goodbye to dr k like he says goodbye to us at the end of the stream
Man, watching this really calms me down. Good video Dr.K