you’re 12, not 21

SdĂ­let
VloĆŸit
  • čas pƙidĂĄn 22. 05. 2024
  • What happened to girlhood? 10 year olds dominating Sephora & 12 year olds making thirst trap tiktoks are just a scratch to the surface.
    The idolization of a romanticized "womanhood" is getting out of hand.
    Learn & Grow with me.
    💖 Instagram: / zoeunlimited
    💜 TikTok: / zoeunlimited
    đŸ‘©đŸ»â€đŸ’» LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/zoeunlimited
    🛒 Essentials www.amazon.com/shop/zoeunlimited
    📧 Business inquiries: zoeunlimited.official@gmail.com
    //🕙Timestamps:
    0:00 Intro
    2:41 10 year olds at Sephora
    5:19 'let girls be girls' - what Sephora children are made of
    5:57 1. Internet parents
    8:30 2. Beauty Giants: Let them start young
    12:26 Idolization of womanhood & sexual liberation
    //👗LOOKBOOK
    Turtle neck sweater rvlv.me/8QnWGw
    Beige pleated skirt rvlv.me/N8vboV
    Cream White Wide-Leg Dress Pants (M) shrsl.com/2v47d
    Lovers & Friends necklace rvlv.me/yyENDx
    Vitaly gold collar sovrn.co/7wtgp38
    Athena ring bit.ly/3G54y1y
    👉use code ZOEUNLIMITED10 for 10% off on YesStyle
    //😋Fav proteins
    - boba/ matcha protein [code ZOE10]: bit.ly/43T6Pc2
    - matcha/chocolate vegan protein [code ZOE10]: rb.gy/zr3bv
    - chocolate collagen protein: [code ZOEUNLIMITED20] bit.ly/3ojOapd
    - tastiest bars bit.ly/3OpQoN8
    //đŸ’ȘđŸ»MY WORKOUTS
    11 abs routine ‱ my 11 abs workout rout...
    Slim legs routine ‱ Slim Legs + Fuller Boo...
    Kpop idol arms routine ‱ toned arms in 2 weeks ...
    //💩FITNESS
    -Resistance band: amzn.to/3w2k3o3
    -Current yoga mat: amzn.to/3CICqjf
    //✹Fav skincare
    Toner shrsl.com/3st55
    Water sleeping mask shrsl.com/3st5j
    Lip mask shrsl.com/3st5k
    Dr Jart Vitamin mask shrsl.com/420l8
    Dr Jart hydration mask shrsl.com/4fl7n
    //📾 Camera: amzn.to/44iMhJN
    //📕MY CPA EBOOK amzn.to/2R3qVMi
    //📚RECOMMENDED BOOKS
    1) The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business: amzn.to/2BUJwGC
    2) Take Control of Your Life: amzn.to/38NUPfz
    3) Girl, Stop Apologizing: amzn.to/2W8mcvI
    4) Atomic Habits by James Clear: amzn.to/359KZUk
    5) The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck amzn.to/2VtNqQm
    6) How To Not Die Alone amzn.to/3LDBLDY
    //đŸŽ” MUSIC
    scott young - melt - thmatc.co/?l=4F3228DF
    Marv Krown - frothtrip - thmatc.co/?l=FB337417
    Ryan Little - Switch - thmatc.co/?l=915B4317
    Ryan Little - Heart Turned Cold - thmatc.co/?l=650615A7
    Marv Krown - make it plain - thmatc.co/?l=2EF4D5DA
    Marv Krown - advancement - thmatc.co/?l=35B8BACD
    Damien Sebe - new day - thmatc.co/?l=992A8C8F
    DJ Gonz - Floating Flowers To the Sky - thmatc.co/?l=4E19A9B3
    Sub count at upload: 3,084,853

Komentáƙe • 5K

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited  Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2887

    What was YOUR childhood like?🧾 Also what do you think is happening to girlhood?

    • @queenestherworld780
      @queenestherworld780 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +52

      Heyy lol i luv ur vids idk u slay zoe

    • @Bibi-kc6ho
      @Bibi-kc6ho Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +336

      When I was 10 I was playing fairy and making mud potions

    • @melonball_
      @melonball_ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +218

      my ass was playing with barbies up until i was 12 😭 i had fun tho bc i didn’t feel pressured to grow quick like these lil kids

    • @SuitedSkaterLion
      @SuitedSkaterLion Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +50

      (I wanted to post it here idk where else i posted this lmaoooo )No idea what to tell you, when we we're kids like 10-13, me sister, and many girls on the street would go outside and steal our parent makeups lol. They would do a big gathering on the street, and the girls would start to make up each other, like very very red lip stick, and even puting birth mark like Marlyn xD, lmao, foundation was too expensive, so there was like 1 girl bring it ,and not even use it lots. The single different thing now is that those products are even more accesible for kids, and i don't think is that nice to be used by kids on a daily basist, but let's say if is for a joke, you can "close" eyes a bit of it, but still honestly, the world is so gone by now that i can't even tell what is right and wrong.

    • @tiffanychae
      @tiffanychae Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +55

      the first time *I* went to sephora was when i was 14 to get makeup for a school play 😭

  • @BoundRusher
    @BoundRusher Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4961

    The main problem is children are being sexualized on the Internet and nobody seems to think it’s wrong

    • @OmniNeon900
      @OmniNeon900 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +141

      Not just on the internet either. Don’t forget some middle and highschools allow girls to actually dress like this, meanwhile they dress code some guy for wearing a hat inside!

    • @3ylit4aa
      @3ylit4aa Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +217

      @@OmniNeon900 i've never heard of any middleschool or highschool allowing girls to dress like this, i've only heard the exact opposite. at my old school girls get dress-coded for showing your knees, while the boys could show their knees as much as they wanted.

    • @OmniNeon900
      @OmniNeon900 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@3ylit4aa It’s the total opposite at my school, then again schools are different from state to state. My high school is a bit more liberal but overall centered. There are a few “cross dressers” but it’s not too conspicuous. It’s become a practical culture at my school for guys to rant about getting pulled aside in the hall for having their hood or hat on, meanwhile they just saw a girl with a bed hair scarf on. My redneckfriend got his cowboy hat taken away and at the same time I saw a girl with a bed scarf on. :/
      A lot of girls at my school wear ripped jeans and sometimes the holes are not in the most appropriate places but the black guys get pulled aside for wearing dew rags. Earlier in the year girls were wearing long shirts and short shorts to look half naked and they’ve stopped that since it’s gotten cold but then it gets hot again and the cycle starts all over.
      The only thing that people in general get dress coded for is wearing pajamas on non-spirit days or dragging their blankets with them across the halls.
      The ratio might be equal with guys getting pulled over for hats and mostly girls for blankets/pajamas but there is never really a sensible reason like the clothing causing a distraction or having offensive words on it. (This is just my school btw)

    • @-m00d-
      @-m00d- Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +27

      @@OmniNeon900FR!!! Some girl gets to wear a shirt a pr0situte would wear while I get dress coded for wearing a dress??

    • @thelying2594
      @thelying2594 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +26

      ​@@3ylit4aaNow it's more like the schools stopped trying. It was 30 degrees outside and girls were in school with crop tops. I've seen guys with tank tops too.

  • @hitiiii
    @hitiiii Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +14173

    The parents of these girls are at a huge fault here. No matter how much money they earn, they should not expose their kids to adult platforms.

    • @DianaRamirez-sm5nx
      @DianaRamirez-sm5nx Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +61

      Fr

    • @hitiiii
      @hitiiii Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      @@user-ml2oq8et9q thats true also

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @rainbowcake3254
      @rainbowcake3254 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +141

      @@user-ml2oq8et9qlol and those school girls don’t have parents? It’s not that this behavior comes from nothing. Kids learn from adults

    • @call_me_R
      @call_me_R Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@rainbowcake3254 I think what they meant is , there are already so many kids doing the trend already , school girls will expose it to your kid soon too. If you were to limit their social media or watch over their social media. Kids with other parents would still exist and be mean about it. When a trend occurs and if you have bad friends you will likely have kids be mean to you if you don't know it, I still recommend to watch over their media and not allow them to watch stuff like that but kids with bad parents are going to exist.

  • @mystiisun
    @mystiisun Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1335

    I’m 14, and I absolutely despise these trends (at least for young teens and pre-teens). However, it’s insanely difficult to avoid them. A couple days ago I was at a friend’s house in my usual sweat pants and hoodie, with zero makeup and only a simple gold necklace my grandma gifted me. These ‘friends’ of mine are 13-14, and they full on said to me, “y’know, you would be pretty if you became a basic white girl like us, it’s cool and stuff. No guys want a girl who hides her body.” And I went silent. The fact they even care about that- We’re not even in high school yet, like, come on- and that they can’t even accept me without me wearing a bunch of makeup and having a twenty-step beauty routine is insane. It’s so hard to live like this, but I don’t want to throw away my childhood yet, because I know that in a few years I’d wish I didn’t. Luckily I’ve found a couple close friends who think the same, but there are far too many who oppose my thinking, saying I’m ‘immature’ for not swearing every three words and ‘cheap’ for refusing to buy thousand dollar makeup things. But, I’m living, and I won’t let them break me.
    Part of this is probably because I have older parents who didn’t hand me a phone until I actually needed it- less than a year ago- and the fact I still can’t access many social media sites.
    Not gonna lie, I wish I was older than I am. I’m glad to be a Gen Z, but I hate being so young and trying to grow up with all the girls around me doing this stuff.

    • @sofiaAkinloye
      @sofiaAkinloye Pƙed měsĂ­cem +192

      Let me tell you what you are; You're in a phase of self-discovery. And my dear, you're progressing so well than your peers. I want you to listen to the inner you, not to the voices around you. You'll thank yourself for that. And if anyone gave me the choice to either "blend in" or "stand out", then I'll choose to stand out and be different.
      The criticisms you might be getting now is absolutely normal. It shows you are special. Very special. Physical appearance is the least of value to humans. What's inside is actually what matters ..

    • @Eledyy_
      @Eledyy_ Pƙed měsĂ­cem +118

      Hey, don't listen to them sweetie. I'm 20, and I was the hoodie-sweat pants-tomboy girl when i was in secondary and high school. I had my 1st phone at 16, I had plenty of time to develop my hobbies, go outside and all. People were making fun of me because I was "weird", always reading, talking about movies and games and drawing when they were doing flames on snapshat and dancing on musically. I was seen as an alien no living in her era, but fast forward to now, those girls who were making fun of me got their heart broken 10 times bc they started dating at 13, lost contact with their friends when I have loyal friends and my first boyfriend who loves me for who I am.
      Keep being who you are, be authenthic, be kind and empathethic, be curious about the world and eager to learn about everything, you'll make a difference

    • @mintbell6722
      @mintbell6722 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +56

      As 26 the fact that a kid said to expose herself freak me out.
      It's okay sweetie you're doing great. You only got your childhood once, and it's a short period. Play to your heart content. Dont let your friend and internet ruin you with weird idea.
      When I was kid I dont have any boyfrient till in my college year, and my first boyfriend become my husband now. We dont even doing sex before married. Dont expose your self, dont sell yourself cheap. You're worth more than that ❀

    • @saddlerrye6725
      @saddlerrye6725 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +23

      Hey, maybe you could try to look for hobby groups that are NOT associated with social media. I'm sure that you'll find a Tolkien club or a gaming shop or a crafting group or anything else you might be interested in.
      Of course every space has it's own weirdoes, but I still want to think that most people are just happy to share their hobbies with others.
      Of course this won't "solve" the problem of not fitting in (coming from someone who's an expert at being an outsider), but it could give you a supportive community on top of your good friends to lift your mood up a bit when you start to question if maybe you're the crazy one.

    • @jessy1982
      @jessy1982 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +38

      I'm 24 and want to tell you this isn't just an age thing. You NEVER have to start swearing, wearing makeup or change yourself to try to make yourself appealing to guys. What you do should be what YOU want at whatever age it you feel comfortable doing it. If you only start dating at 30, if you never have a relationship, if you don't wear any makeup ever, if you wear "too much", it's up to YOU and what works for YOU. It's the 21st century, you don't have to go along with your peer's expectations, you can be yourself!

  • @LiaLuna96
    @LiaLuna96 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1021

    The fact that using anti age products when you are young make the skin get old before the time

    • @rottencupcakess
      @rottencupcakess Pƙed 23 dny +25

      and make up too ruin young skin

    • @pinokosthewife
      @pinokosthewife Pƙed 14 dny +10

      Makeup in general clogs up your pores and chokes your skin, more product = faster aging. All you really need is face wash, moisturizer, and sunscreen. People who have really bad acne that won't improve with good hygiene and a good diet can see a dermatologist for specialized products. That's it.

    • @pinokosthewife
      @pinokosthewife Pƙed 14 dny +3

      @@rottencupcakess Exactly! I avoid makeup aside from sunscreen (which is more of a necessity, especially if you're on the paler side and get freckles, MUCH higher risk of skin cancer--even darker skin can get it, but the incidence rates are fortunately much lower) and lipbam. I just use a face wash (also necessary to, y'know, get the sunscreen off completely.) Rarely, some rosehip oil or rose otto oil to gently moisturize.

    • @rottencupcakess
      @rottencupcakess Pƙed 14 dny +1

      @@pinokosthewife exactly i also don't put much make up because i know this thing and also we are beauty natural. just mascara and lipstick some time eyeliner but in my skin i don't put foundation i have acne problem and make up up is even worse for the skin if u have that problem so.. not all the products are good for the skin ^-^

    • @eddiethepothos2648
      @eddiethepothos2648 Pƙed 5 dny

      agreed they want to look grown up now but by the time they are 20 they will look 30

  • @Shy-xm4kn
    @Shy-xm4kn Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +7761

    I’m mainly worried about online predators and grooming. Like no 13 year old should be posting “thirst traps”. And where tf are the parents!

    • @beauxanges
      @beauxanges Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      And the 13 year olds that think it's cool that older guys are hitting on them

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +162

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @illowkul
      @illowkul Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +160

      i saw a child doing that belt trend on tiktok. the comments were disturbing so i tried warning the kid but i got blocked.

    • @DrinkYourNailPolish
      @DrinkYourNailPolish Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Exactamundo!! They are gonna be the victims of human trafficking!!

  • @elliotsdadd
    @elliotsdadd Pƙed měsĂ­cem +167

    i feel like i matured really fast but instead of spending $1000 at sephora i was reading crime and punishment

    • @xya9321
      @xya9321 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

      omg. Yes !😭😭

    • @v.t.7534
      @v.t.7534 Pƙed 19 dny +4

      Not me listening to true crime Videos while falling asleep at the age of 13 (10 years ago) 😂

    • @miraclepainting
      @miraclepainting Pƙed 13 dny

      Real but american psycho

    • @ItsDarkHUD
      @ItsDarkHUD Pƙed 10 dny +1

      real asf

    • @Just_Anfisaaaaa
      @Just_Anfisaaaaa Pƙed 8 dny +2

      No way same! I’m fourteen and there are ppl with 20 step beauty routines (nothing against selfcare at this point, selfcare is important!! ) and I’m here reading Dostoevsky, Kafka and Marx lol

  • @jasminengplays9867
    @jasminengplays9867 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +317

    As a 17 yo Gen Z, I'm so glad that I experience both the park(the games we play with other kids that we instantly be friends), DVDs, boardgames, good movie series, and toysrus and so on to the online games, social media and trendy stuff. I rlly hope Gen Z will learn from the mistakes that the Millennials make and raise a better child.

    • @lilyblake5409
      @lilyblake5409 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      I'm 21 and I have faith in my generation to restore the balance!! I'm so happy to have experienced these as well. I also didn't have internet growing up- still don't- and sometimes I'm thankful for that. I only got my first phone with data when I was 12 because I had volleyball practice after school, so I needed to have communication with my parents. However, I was only allowed 1 gig of data. I don't understand why more parents cannot make these limitations. It's like they don't even want to be parents :(

    • @axolotdraws9946
      @axolotdraws9946 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@lilyblake5409 Yeah, I was twelve when I got my first phone because I was going to summer camps and I needed communication. It was my moms old iPhone 6 with 2 gigs of data, and I'm honestly glad they did that

    • @rottencupcakess
      @rottencupcakess Pƙed 19 dny +3

      just enjoy your childhood guys trust me.

    • @notapeopleperson6761
      @notapeopleperson6761 Pƙed 13 dny +3

      @@rottencupcakessyeah I’m 17 and I still collect stuff I loved when I was younger. Plushies for life.

    • @justsomerandomkpopfan
      @justsomerandomkpopfan Pƙed 4 dny

      loll same, im 14 btw 😭😭

  • @williamwoznack5312
    @williamwoznack5312 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +7686

    that's just the death of childhood in general lmao

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +480

      ://

    • @DianaRamirez-sm5nx
      @DianaRamirez-sm5nx Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +168

      Fr it's sad

    • @williamwoznack5312
      @williamwoznack5312 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +48

      @@zoeunlimited source: me (american sophomore in hs)

    • @barbecuedsimsbaby
      @barbecuedsimsbaby Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +186

      Seeing little kids throw away their youth when I was forced to grow up early is so sad and infuriating...

    • @kindauncool
      @kindauncool Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +158

      Boys do not have to deal with this. This has always been a misogynistic issue, and with the rampant misogny these days, it only makes sense that this iteration of the same problem is so much worse.

  • @fenohikari
    @fenohikari Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4702

    pov: you're 20, can't process it and still feel like a 12 years old vs them acting like they are much older than you

    • @LucyFerr000
      @LucyFerr000 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +212

      Regret losing a huge chunk of childhood will sink in to them... I guarantee it. 😂 And then the parents will point fingers and say, well, you wanted it, you let it happen. "You" could be anyone in that argument.

    • @hipsta26please
      @hipsta26please Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +168

      I'm turning 24 this year and right now I'm watching Bluey and coloring an anime themed coloring book, feeling like I've never even grew up since I was 14... not sure if it's normal and adults (which, gosh, I am considered one) really are pretending that their lives are under their control like all the time or I truly haven't yet learned how to be mature :/

    • @anticherries
      @anticherries Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +82

      @@hipsta26please i turned 22 recently.. the best thing iÂŽve heard about adulthood the last few months was: "youÂŽre 22.. youÂŽre only a 1 year old adult, your whole life adhead of you, still learning so much, still having to learn so much."... i would never hold the same standards for a 3 year old than i would for a 13 or 23 year old, you shouldnÂŽt either!
      consuming things marketed towards or traditionally used by children does also not mean that youÂŽre not mature. rather view it as taking care of your inner child, which almost every adult carries with them, but chooses to ignore.
      i love childrens shows and colouring books and picking up little critters, inspecting them and showing them to my mom. iÂŽm not immature for any of that, though some people might view it that way.
      youÂŽre good. youÂŽre never alone. donÂŽt worry.

    • @talea9593
      @talea9593 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +29

      I'm in my 30s and I dont remember ever acting like this at any age.

    • @hipsta26please
      @hipsta26please Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      @@anticherries thank you for the kind words ❀

  • @ridhimashree7889
    @ridhimashree7889 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +92

    I am a gen z too born in 2006, at 10 I used to cry to not to go to school and my biggest worry was not being allowed to sit with my friend in class :) I'll be 18 this year and I still don't have any makeup products except a nivea lip balm and yes I still hate school.

    • @shannonbalthazor8712
      @shannonbalthazor8712 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      It gets better - every school has a different culture and not everyone fits in.
      But the good news is that outside of high school there are so many more kinds of people and you will find your niche. There will still be difficult people but you learn to adapt and handle them.
      The world is very wide outside of high school!

    • @notapeopleperson6761
      @notapeopleperson6761 Pƙed 13 dny +1

      Yeah same, I’m a 2006 kid and I only own eyeliner and mascara.

    • @chupachaMari
      @chupachaMari Pƙed 3 dny

      Yes me too, i was born in 2005 and by the way i even not from English speaking country
      And there also a lot of children using makeup in kindergarten and in elementary school.. it’s crazy for me

  • @sweet_basil3171
    @sweet_basil3171 Pƙed 13 dny +21

    People nowadays act like being mature is based on how you look or dress, when in reality, maturity is based entirely on experience, worldview, and perspective.

  • @serenediipity
    @serenediipity Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2856

    the saddest part is that these 8-14 year old girls have the most to lose and creepy men have the most to gain

    • @barbecuedsimsbaby
      @barbecuedsimsbaby Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      I know, right? So much of body positivity is about exposing yourself, how attractive you are to others and all that. It should be about loving yourself despite all that. And then little girls so thirst traps online as the only form of confidence and beauty so then they do it too so that they can feel better about themselves.
      It. Is. A. Trap.

    • @user-rm8tx7dp3z
      @user-rm8tx7dp3z Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +88

      Yup, it's so sad to see this happening.

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +3

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @barbecuedsimsbaby
      @barbecuedsimsbaby Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +116

      @@ville__ cringe

    • @ZOBsSs
      @ZOBsSs Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +48

      I'm a 11 year old girl and ur so true we r pressured to stand out like pre teen r now 20 or 21

  • @epe-equestrianpatterneduca6184
    @epe-equestrianpatterneduca6184 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +3681

    If you can’t tell me the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell you don’t need to wear $40 foundation.

    • @stutikarur2678
      @stutikarur2678 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +38

      True 😅

    • @buckygal
      @buckygal Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +21

      đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @Moon_Sh0t_X1
      @Moon_Sh0t_X1 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +24

      Good one 😂😂😂

    • @Ri-77
      @Ri-77 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +8

      😂😂

    • @yourmomandyourboba
      @yourmomandyourboba Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +44

      I knew that when I was 7 because of memes not a great point,but I agree!

  • @moonzye
    @moonzye Pƙed měsĂ­cem +83

    “the pre-teen era did not exist anymore” thats so true

  • @aminamiavs.marufamia3800
    @aminamiavs.marufamia3800 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +46

    As a kid myself, I absolutely hate putting makeup on my face 💀 Like bro I'm a kid I'm not supposed to be wearing makeup-

  • @Familliarsurroundings
    @Familliarsurroundings Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1349

    I’m 16. I don’t feel like a young adult or even a teenager. Still feel like a kid. These 8,9.10,11,12,3,4,5,6,7 year olds acting like they’re in their 20s drives me insane. I KNOW I’m not ready for all of that so how can these girls already be ready NOT EVEN 15 SECONDS OUT OF THE WOMB

    • @Itskam.tocawrld
      @Itskam.tocawrld Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +57

      ITS THE PARENTS !

    • @marcey4207
      @marcey4207 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +49

      ​@@qrettyb0nes yeah and being a teen is still being a kid, i am seventeen and im still a kid, even though i am also a teen, im just confused

    • @mickey_09
      @mickey_09 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      ​@@Itskam.tocawrld true , I mean these days everyone wants to be a model/influencer n when they become parents , they got nothing to teach their kids

    • @trixfox45
      @trixfox45 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      Can just agree and I'm going to be 18 this year :')

    • @iliagr
      @iliagr Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      I turned 18 on December and I couldn't agree more

  • @user-xq2qn9by8i
    @user-xq2qn9by8i Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2544

    I'm 16, and when I was 10, ALL I cared about was slime, fidget spinner, cat scraddle and my friends. I'm so grateful that I could enjoy childhood

    • @dervla_
      @dervla_ Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +106

      i’m 16 and same i still played on the playground. i didn’t care how i looked.

    • @wonydiaries
      @wonydiaries Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +96

      I'm 16 and I still can't do makeup, I couldn't imagine doing it at 10

    • @AintnoSqint
      @AintnoSqint Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      Literally same

    • @iWatermelonCat
      @iWatermelonCat Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +18

      I know this is gonna sound so dumb. But I love using makeup and skincare. (Im eleven this sounds terrible) But its good enough that I do understand its an issue and Im glad I didn't start using makeup till middle school. Also most of my makeup and stuff are received at chirstmas and other holidays and some random crap my mom doesn't want. Rarely am I ever getting anything that's not a gift or something kinda trash. I am grateful for it though and tbh I hate the big brands. Smaller drugstore brands are kind of better.

    • @user-xq2qn9by8i
      @user-xq2qn9by8i Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +43

      @@iWatermelonCat It's okay to love makeup/skincare kiddo, but what's not okay is to get so into it, that you lose your childhood. So do what you love, but put on you skin just how much you need and not a whole adult routine as that's harmful for your and even my skin, since I'm just 16

  • @jiiyjeiiy
    @jiiyjeiiy Pƙed měsĂ­cem +27

    im 14, 14, and having to see people my age act like this at a young age is crazy

  • @stoastla9751
    @stoastla9751 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +21

    I'm glad to live in switzerland with no sephora in sight. And back when I was in school it was literally laughed at and ridiculed when you would wear make up to school, and mind you, we were 14-15 back then

  • @mrtickletoes52
    @mrtickletoes52 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2156

    "And I was so young when I behaved 25
    and now I've turned into a tall child."
    - Mitski

    • @raccoonchild
      @raccoonchild Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +36

      Is this the usual pattern? I feel like I've never once 'behaved 25' and it's been forever since I actually was that age. I never once wanted to grow up. And I was right to cherish my happy time as much as I did.

    • @Jkdkdkcudjrndksozoos
      @Jkdkdkcudjrndksozoos Pƙed měsĂ­cem +48

      ​@@raccoonchild Idk about everyone, but when I was a child and a teenager I desperately wanted to become an adult because I felt that I'm not "cool" or respected enough due to my age

    • @rhiannablondell556
      @rhiannablondell556 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

      @@Jkdkdkcudjrndksozoos this jut makes me think about that one time i was barely a teen and my grand mother and cousin was telling me how i was looking for big black men, had to leave my mom a note hoping she would help since i live split houses. (was feeling embarrassed about saying it so i wrote a note and stuffed it in her chair)

  • @lucyk2634
    @lucyk2634 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2673

    For me is most horrific how they can't even talk properly and hold a pen properly but they still putting makeup for grown ups and act like they have every right to do so 😭

    • @localfailure1116
      @localfailure1116 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +52

      And most of the time they are using the products wrong or in damaging ways so its even more of a waste for the parents

    • @helenanilsson5666
      @helenanilsson5666 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +41

      I feel like it wouldn't be a problem if it was just kids "playing grown-up" trying to mimic their moms, if it was just them and maybe some friends safe at home. I got my grubby little hands on a rouge container and dolled myself up until it looked like I had a bad fever when I was 9ish. That's just the normal clown phase of pre-teen existence. (note: this was in the late 90s and the rouge experiment culminated in mom putting her makeup on a higher shelf and it would take another two years until I got my hands on some mascara)
      What scares me is seeing these kids making videos about it on sites where they shouldn't even have accounts yet. You should be at least 13 to have an account on a site where you can interact freely with other users. IMO the age limit should be at least a bit older on the major social media sites, because of the non-existent moderation on those sites.
      An avatar dress-up site with a forum is relatively safe, those usually have staff or volunteers that can step in if someone's behaving inappropriately. The social media giants don't give a single fuck about the well-beings of their users and will never have enough moderators to keep up with the massive amounts of users. You could organize a genocide on facebook and no one on facebook's staff would even notice as long as you don't post in English, and the-site-formerly-known-as-twitter *would* notice the genocide when the hashtag starts trending but would probably still let it happen as long as it generates engagement.

    • @Keithinnie
      @Keithinnie Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      @@helenanilsson5666 i agree, kids shouldn't be allowed in makeup stores nor own anti-aging or just generally any kind of skincare. Like i used to play with foundation on my mom because and dolls because it was funny.

    • @ejenplitobarces
      @ejenplitobarces Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      ​@@Keithinnie why would any kid use anti-aging products? Do they want to look like a fetus? 😂😂😂

    • @Keithinnie
      @Keithinnie Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@ejenplitobarces probably😂 but all jokes asides it’s mainly the fact kids are growing up too fast and Think they’re “Old”

  • @aestheticxollie
    @aestheticxollie Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5137

    I think younger children-preteens experimenting with makeup is ok but going into makeup stores, disrespecting workers and ruining samples isn't.

    • @xynium.
      @xynium. Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +260

      Exactly. Personally, I never had an interest in makeup as a kid, but if a kid over the age of 10-12 wants to experiment with makeup AT HOME, go for it. Just don't wear it out lmao.

    • @Ali-Oli09
      @Ali-Oli09 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +229

      One thing is experimenting a little, and another completely different one is getting a whole different face every day with makeup they don't even need. Like, why the heck do they need anti-aging skin care??!!

    • @Ali-Oli09
      @Ali-Oli09 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +17

      @@xynium. Agreed.

    • @rowan0331
      @rowan0331 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +34

      As a kid I never did my own makeup, I only wore it when I'd have dance recitals and my mom would do it for me 😂

    • @transenby42622
      @transenby42622 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +44

      Yes, absolutely. I'm a teen, and the most I've ever worn is eyeshadow and lipstick. But I think that people (especially young people) should use makeup as a form of self-expression or to feel good, not this. And harassing and disrespecting workers is never ok, no matter how old you are.

  • @bijocy
    @bijocy Pƙed měsĂ­cem +23

    this topic always stresses me the heck out and makes me want to cry honestly. so many lives and their safety and mental health are doomed.

  • @DieselMya
    @DieselMya Pƙed měsĂ­cem +7

    Social media is a big problem. I was still playing with Barbies and dolls at that age.
    Bring me back to the 80s-90s when everything seemed to be “normal”, and don’t let me start on this either


    • @Angela.Mirafuentes
      @Angela.Mirafuentes Pƙed 4 dny

      If it makes you feel any better I was playing with Barbie’s until the age of ten. Gen z is also incredible in what they’re doing (please don’t be discouraged by everything you see in the video)

  • @hitiiii
    @hitiiii Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2410

    The concealer tip is bigger than the child's eye. It's insane

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +244

      You’re so right 😹

    • @user-rm8tx7dp3z
      @user-rm8tx7dp3z Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +9

      Ikr? 😅

    • @Yuki_Official_777
      @Yuki_Official_777 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +33

      I'm scared for the generation I'm in😭😭

    • @winterblake3321
      @winterblake3321 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +21

      @@Yuki_Official_777 just do your own thing and have one or two close friends who get you, and you are ready to go into adventure!

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +5

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

  • @maymoonabashir6162
    @maymoonabashir6162 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +789

    girl when I was 10 I was making mud and grass soup 😂

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +94

      why does that sound so fun 😭

    • @pasta_sauce666
      @pasta_sauce666 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +12

      Yum

    • @sonascorner8345
      @sonascorner8345 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      I did that too!

    • @melophile_69
      @melophile_69 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      Same 😂

    • @mugglepuff
      @mugglepuff Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      omg me too. I did it in the bird bath in my back yard with my neighborhood friend.

  • @Ratatouille-wm9yf
    @Ratatouille-wm9yf Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

    Your voice is so soothing and relaxing to listen to. I love how you explain this topic in such a reasonable manner, not villainising the children and instead giving logical solutions. ❀

  • @daydreaming_fleurr
    @daydreaming_fleurr Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    When I have a child, I will not be letting my 10 year old shop around at Sephora. It’s unnecessary, when I was 10 I was still playing with toys and going to Claire’s and collecting shopkins. What has this world come too!? 💔

  • @kellydebotts7690
    @kellydebotts7690 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1419

    when I was 10... my favorite song was gangnam style and I thought that sephora was a hospital 💀

    • @vannessa5878
      @vannessa5878 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +153

      HELP I THOUGHT SEPHORA WAS A SINGER 😭

    • @kcthefrogusedyt8319
      @kcthefrogusedyt8319 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +136

      I didn’t even know Sephora existed XD

    • @asila_brand_2024
      @asila_brand_2024 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Same lol ​@@kcthefrogusedyt8319

    • @Lillian_5459
      @Lillian_5459 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +41

      I thought Sephora was a paint store 💀💀💀

    • @YeojinsWings
      @YeojinsWings Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +19

      I thought Sephora was like a giant choir đŸ„Č

  • @janaehari53
    @janaehari53 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +916

    !!!!!! Attention Gen Z!!!!!!
    We can end this with our kids. It starts with us to teach our daughters that they are beautiful and have inherent value by simply existing. Let’s be better parents.

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +41

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @user-br3ty9rt1m
      @user-br3ty9rt1m Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +63

      As a young millennial who probably won’t have kids, I really hope Gen Z learns from the mistakes of millennial parents. Millennials tried to “do better” than Gen X/boomers, and as we can see the pendulum has swung in the opposite direction. đŸ˜©

    • @OmniNeon900
      @OmniNeon900 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCoreI don’t like Tik Tok either but banning it isn’t gonnna do anything. All the content on there will just seep into other medias
the way it already is.

    • @hinkle3634
      @hinkle3634 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +20

      Step 1: Just don't put your kids through the misery of public school. It is fr not worth doing anymore

    • @terror404
      @terror404 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +18

      i'm planning to do this :) i work now as a preschool teacher which is my part in undoing the harmful effects of social pressure. i am so excited to see how my own children lead by example, after years of uplifting others and working to instill value and self worth. they may not have phones at 13 but they will have confidence, integrity, empathy, intellect, and faith. đŸ€đŸ•Š

  • @ThatWeirdoIvy
    @ThatWeirdoIvy Pƙed 27 dny +7

    As a twelve year old, I'm fine with my lego, paper books, water skincare and fish necklace.

  • @verycoolperson4940
    @verycoolperson4940 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    this is the first time I stumble upon your channel but I literally love the way you speak and the way you break down the issue?

  • @VimblesArt
    @VimblesArt Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2076

    Nobody has brought up how the quarantine, not being able to go to school and socialize, might have had a pretty significant influence on this.

    • @roro85514
      @roro85514 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +29

      Fr

    • @Uchiha.Itachii
      @Uchiha.Itachii Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +70

      yeah maybe but parents should have been more strict

    • @Starry-ph6yx
      @Starry-ph6yx Pƙed měsĂ­cem +42

      as someone who was still in secondary during covid - covid was like 1-2 yrs ago everyone has gotten over it and it is no longer an excuse for like anything

    • @tuition_jewelery
      @tuition_jewelery Pƙed měsĂ­cem +84

      It’s less of an “excuse,” more like a reason. I know for a fact that COVID will affect me for the rest of my life. I’m not *blaming* quarantine for how I act, but I know that the two years of missing real social interaction from school and stuff has subconsciously changed how I see people. Seeing nothing but filtered faces and emotionless-seeming comments in place of real people pretty early in my life HAS to have made an impact, and I can see it in my friends.

    • @Janika1123
      @Janika1123 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +10

      this was also common like 12 years ago when I was 12, they just started to get to it sooner, as they are exposed to it sooner thanks to social media... and who let them go there this early? if we are bringing covid to the chat, we better just say, just cause they were stuck at home together, doesn't mean parents were not supposed to parent...

  • @U_quintessential.K
    @U_quintessential.K Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1900

    Bruh im 15 n i swear to god I would cry if I had my pre teen years as that. All I wanted was snacks, cartoons, family time n friends.

    • @SuitedSkaterLion
      @SuitedSkaterLion Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      If you are not into make up why you are here We got you.

    • @Mannequinned
      @Mannequinned Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      I'm 15 and i love makeup but when I was a child? No.@@SuitedSkaterLion

    • @sulbamt7622
      @sulbamt7622 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +10

      Same

    • @U_quintessential.K
      @U_quintessential.K Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +10

      @@SuitedSkaterLion I am now

    • @OLE885
      @OLE885 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +105

      I’m 15 too and honestly at 11 years old I was still wearing sequin changing clothes and the only “makeup” I wore was chapstick unless it was a special occasion. I feel bad that kids these days feel pressure to act like they’re 20 years old. I’m glad I got to experience what childhood should be.

  • @AnviMalhotra-rk1gn
    @AnviMalhotra-rk1gn Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I really love how you explained this.. and being a teen girl, its evident on how peers and influencers are trying to be better women?

  • @k_a_b_c
    @k_a_b_c Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    my skincare at 10 was literally just sunscreen - only because i burned extremely easily and i actually went out side.

  • @atinyohan
    @atinyohan Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1272

    I'm 14 years old and the girls at my school exclude me because I don't look like a 20 year old girl

    • @ErinyHany-ve9lp
      @ErinyHany-ve9lp Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +106

      Don't listen to them, enjoy it while it lasts đŸ’Ș😂

    • @Tulips313
      @Tulips313 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +83

      Girl, I'm 22 and I don't look like an "adult", but I am one. Those people are just insane. Take care of yourself and don't let them drag you in their sh*t

    • @Guineapigzz
      @Guineapigzz Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +43

      Im also 14 and I am also bullied. Reason: because I'm "different" and "werid"

    • @VampyStar405
      @VampyStar405 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +22

      @@Guineapigzz Same here! Like at this point why can’t people accept that everyone is different.

    • @VampyStar405
      @VampyStar405 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +25

      Exactly! I’m 14 as well and I don’t understand why me and a whole bunch of girls out there are getting bullied just because we don’t dress or do makeup the way people my age shouldn’t. I don’t really mind if they do makeup and stuff but the reason why they do it kinda sad. Most people are doing it to impress others and to fit in with the younger adults but it’s getting out of hand.

  • @nicole-midnights
    @nicole-midnights Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +2103

    Parents are the main problem here. But also, it's terrifying how much these kids want to grow up fast. SLOW DOWN. You'll have ALL the time to do make up when you'll be older. You'll have ALL the time to be "grown up". Kids enjoy your childhood once you have it, 'cause once it fades away forever, you'll want it back.

    • @aygustauuu1251
      @aygustauuu1251 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +151

      I think children always wanted to grow up quickly. The problem is that now the parents let them do it

    • @Ri-77
      @Ri-77 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +56

      Exactly! My school life is almost about to end and I just wanna stop time and live this a little more longer. I don't understand the obsession with looking older than you actually are.
      I look way younger than I actually am, Yes at times I have been insecure about it cause girls younger than me look more mature than me but Im grateful for my strict parents to never let me do those stuff.

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +7

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @Ri-77
      @Ri-77 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCore thankfully tiktok is already banned in our country

    • @Babezilla
      @Babezilla Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCoreyou sound 12


  • @lupeelizeche
    @lupeelizeche Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    this needs to get more views, this topic is so important and people have to start screaming about it

  • @scruffycheat
    @scruffycheat Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    I’m so glad I had an actual childhood before all this happened

  • @lamari_posa
    @lamari_posa Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +516

    A kid’s skincare should be just water💀

    • @natty-xox
      @natty-xox Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +31

      body lotion: đŸƒđŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ’š

    • @kacediamond2591
      @kacediamond2591 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +21

      Don't forget soap

    • @nalinakha
      @nalinakha Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +26

      believe it or not, some people get acne very young. It really depends on their situation. its obviously unnecessary to have a vanity full of products, but some people really needed at least a bit of skincare (doesn’t apply to this video)

    • @HehdBdnd-hd5no
      @HehdBdnd-hd5no Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      All I use as of now is noxema, and I’m still pretty young

    • @lamari_posa
      @lamari_posa Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +19

      @@nalinakha yeah, if you are like 11 and get acne (like me, I'm not 11 btw lmao) a gentle cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen should be their skincare, but putting on a 12 step skincare is wayy too much, even worse for a 7 year old who can't even say "mommy" yet💀

  • @HeatherakaMEE
    @HeatherakaMEE Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +896

    As a teen I hate the fact that some girls feel so pressured to change them selves and meet certain standards so they “fit in”.

    • @Ann-eo8fr
      @Ann-eo8fr Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      True

    • @Midnight_Afton645
      @Midnight_Afton645 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +10

      That's what I feel (But don't want to do) I'll have to do next year (I'm going into 9th grade next year) to fit in cuz aside from pk-1st grade and 5th grade (cuz quarentine) I've suffered enough emotional abuse at the hands of my classmates. I don't wanna die before I turn 18

    • @SheilaA-ie2oq
      @SheilaA-ie2oq Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Shut the fuck up bitch! At least they’re doing something with their lives

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +10

      I have been guilty of this actually...
      My mother would put pressure on me to do the house chores and dress in a more "mature" way, until thankfully my older sister would come and tell me, that I don't need to force myself to grow up.😱
      My sister understood me because she had similar expectations, coming from her. Until we finally became older as adults and both started to finally understand more each other.

    • @fioph-86
      @fioph-86 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +7

      So true, if youre not in trend youre are not part of anything, thats so sad cuz we have to be ourselves, not follow this hypersexualize trend

  • @lenzieflower2048
    @lenzieflower2048 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    i absolutely love how you see a positive side to this! Great video :) :D

  • @Piper73
    @Piper73 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +43

    God, I am so, so glad that I always stay out of all that tiktok stuff
    Like I‘m 16 and even though I got used to it by now, I still remember when my classmates started excessively wearing makeup and dressing in a very sexualizing way.
    Needless to say that we were like 12
    I think I‘ll never stop being grateful towards my mother for raising me differently and communicating with me about the problems of social media
    ❀

    • @cinthiasantos8879
      @cinthiasantos8879 Pƙed 29 dny +2

      Yeah I'm glad for you too ❀
      My mom always raised me differently, at the time I didn't understand and would always get mad at her, but now I get it.
      This generation is getting more influenced by the social media and young girls think is okay to sexualize themselves while clearly ITS NOT
      Thanks for your comment, and stay safe ❀❀

  • @michylaavery6768
    @michylaavery6768 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +852

    All I cared about at 10 was horses, hanging out with my dog and writing stories. Heaven help the future.

    • @user-rm8tx7dp3z
      @user-rm8tx7dp3z Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      Same. 😅

    • @winterblake3321
      @winterblake3321 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +19

      its so silly how we are all acting like the boomer generation already. back in my dayyy

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +5

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @selferl
      @selferl Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      me too but I wish I never had acne at age 8 ... rlly matured me and the acne worsened so much my face was ambushed

    • @ToOreo
      @ToOreo Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCorestop spamming this everywhere lil bro

  • @priscillia-b
    @priscillia-b Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +781

    As a black girl, I’ve been sexualized way too early because I’ve had the misfortune of hitting puberty as early as ten and getting a huge growth spurt and major body changes such as boobs growing and hips widening within my tween years. I was easily given the age of 16/18 when I was just 12 and easily 18/20 when I was just 14. At first, I was just insecure of looking so different from my girl friends, boys my age were not interested in me because I was taller than all of them and I just constantly wished to be short and cute. But the worst part came when older men made me hyperaware of how they saw my new body, and these men included random strangers, older boys but also teachers (!!!) and other authority figures of my life at that time. People praised me for “being” mature when they actually meant “looking mature” and I felt the pressure to act the age I looked because otherwise I would be called childish (I remember once a random lady scolding me to get off a playground because it “was not for my age” when I was still within the age limit required for it). Somehow it even managed to skew my parents’ perspective, I was striving so hard to be up to the expectation of being older that even they deemed my normal tween behavior as not appropriate. Just this year I’ve hit my 21th birthday and it doesn’t feel special at all because I’ve felt 21 for years now. I would give a lot to experience a normal full childhood again because I can feel how the trauma affects my relationships and body image now as a young adult. Please cherish being a kid and being perceived as kid and as a society we have to try a lot harder to protect our young girls as much as possible from this predatory society and give them plenty of time to become well-balanced adults.

    • @MikaHyx
      @MikaHyx Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +49

      Omgg the playground part is crazy
 I’m now 16 almost 17 and I remember still playing at a playground around the age of 14/15


    • @raj_nan_di_ni
      @raj_nan_di_ni Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +27

      Oh girl, you went through real sh*t , we know you could not enjoy your childhood but I'm sure the adult life is worth living for even if there's lots of limits, well I'm sure your already used to that. Nonetheless i wish you happiness,,,

    • @fridaal634
      @fridaal634 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      😱😱😱

    • @Pudding_zip
      @Pudding_zip Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +19

      I have large bust I always wanted to put on jackets and stuff too. I'm so sorry u had to go through that.... I really wish we all could do something and protect these younger girls especially with the rising pedophilia.

    • @friendlygrace9278
      @friendlygrace9278 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +11

      I feel you all the way, I’m 11, about to be 12, and because of my height (5’6) people constantly think I’m between the ages of 14 and 17, MY OWN COUSIN (that to be fair, I’ve never met before) THOUGHT I WAS 16. and grown men constantly look at me even though I have basically no curve other than my small(ish) waist, I’m scared to go out in a crop top without an undershirt because of those creeps, heck! I’m scared to show too much of my legs! But at least I’m not sexualizing myself like these 12 year olds today, I feel stuck in the middle even though I’m not like them at all, I know I’m not a Sephora 10 year old with all the makeup ever in my hands, but I’m not a 12 year old sexualizing myself in dances, and I don’t want to be but I’m going into the age where people now group all the kids nowadays in that age as the same, I’ll never be that, and I know it, but because I’m between the two ages, I’m getting grouped into kids that are “maturing” way too young. I live in Tennessee so I go to bonnaroo (the biggest festival after Woodstock) and last year my brother and I were playing a game where we guess people’s age and then ask them, well it was my turn and I went over to this woman to check if my guess was right, I was close but I then asked her to guess how old I was, you know what she guessed? 19. That woman guessed I was 19, I wasn’t even dressed like a 19 year old! But I don’t see how someone’s height can determine how old they supposedly are, and like you said, they ALWAYS say “well it’s because you’re so mature!” 
..I have the maturity of a 7 year old in the 1990s. But I feel you😱

  • @coconut71687
    @coconut71687 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

    Thank you so much for making this ! I'm a parent and this is extremely dangerous to these girls

  • @lineesvrsn
    @lineesvrsn Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Truly it is on the parents. My younger sister did want makeup, but my parents told her she was WAY too young to wear actual makeup. Instead we bought a flip phone with a mirror and lip glosses from Claire's , and she loves it.

  • @PlinkusSmoothie
    @PlinkusSmoothie Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +558

    I’m a 14 year old girl and this made me think about the way society sexualizes us from such a young age. At the beginning of freshman year, I was wearing baggy shirts, baggy jeans, no makeup. But later into the year I started to wear more tight fitting things, like shirts and started wearing makeup bc I thought it made people like me more and made people notice me. Even though I hated wearing all this stuff, I was willing to sexualize myself so that I could please others and get boys to notice me. I finally took a step back and looked at what peer pressure and society has turned girls into, and it made me sad. Thankfully I’m wearing less makeup and feeling happier with dressing like myself.

    • @PlinkusSmoothie
      @PlinkusSmoothie Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +37

      @@sofijones5048 I know, it just opened my eyes a little and made me realize i wasn’t comfortable with how I acted

    • @-yasmean-
      @-yasmean- Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +14

      I'm muslim, so I dress more modestly. I don't even wear t shirts or anything short sleeves, at some point, I did want to wear a crop top, but I eventually realized that growing up to fast SUCKS i barley use any skin care products i do use moisturizer but was only bc i have eczema my little sister has more make up products then me she has a toy make up kit but it's actually good quality . But anyways I don't even have foundation or concelar. So it's so weird seeing kids buying and using so much adult products on their skin and even start swearing and disrespecting others at kindergarten

    • @uniquex89000
      @uniquex89000 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      and man is blame for that?

    • @sukriti7213
      @sukriti7213 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +33

      @@uniquex89000 The comment says "peer pressure and society," her peers would be girls of her age, and society is both women and men. How'd you extract that she's blaming just men 😭

    • @uniquex89000
      @uniquex89000 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@sukriti7213 nop nop! woman sexualizes self and young girls are coping them, I have no problem woman wearing red lipsticks at work or wearing too tight cloths as sport thing , but am 100% sure there are no influence by man , woman does that cos they want and cant tell why they wearing to short cloths , to ask them they just want to look as they want and its not about being sexy for man , but man might stare woman's body because its reproduction thing , one reason why male and female exist is to they attract each other and reproduce , and its very hard for man to not like and express his attention on good looking female , young girls need mothers attention to explain everything , but I wouldn't boil man in that topic

  • @lookatme_31
    @lookatme_31 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +724

    It's really weird for me to see many 12 year old girls worrying so much about skincare, vaping and doing those kind of stuff while my friends and I used to play with my little ponies and just dance! I think they want to "grow up faster" and act like they were mature adults but in the end they're just pretending to be something that they're not yet. The influence of social media and the lack of control of their parents is really sad :(

    • @Toca_preppy24
      @Toca_preppy24 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +15

      I think they should only go for pimple patches and Actual skincare they need.

    • @SleepDeprivedSEUNGBERRY143
      @SleepDeprivedSEUNGBERRY143 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +10

      @@Toca_preppy24agreed. My mom didn’t let me wear makeup until I was 11, but nothing more than powder, mascara, lipstick, yk, stuff that was somewhat appropriate for my age. Around 12, she let me wear whatever I wanted, but I still didn’t wear it on a daily basis.

    • @IBSSnapey
      @IBSSnapey Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +13

      The vaping is the most worrying of all, it has serious negative effects on their future health.

    • @Uchiha.Itachii
      @Uchiha.Itachii Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1

      they wanna be like us that are 20+ , because they think our life is cool

    • @Uchiha.Itachii
      @Uchiha.Itachii Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@SleepDeprivedSEUNGBERRY143for me it was like 15-16☠

  • @juliaowcayt9117
    @juliaowcayt9117 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

    Im 13 and im just sitting in my room and making barcelets , playing with my toys and drawing but my friends
.

  • @Carla_Akilah
    @Carla_Akilah Pƙed 8 dny +2

    I was a big ass tomboy at 10 and wanted all of the boys in my class to fear me so they wouldn't bully my friends 💀💀

  • @aricarly
    @aricarly Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +288

    My parents sold cosmetics/dermatological products when I was a child... and at 10 I thought an antiaging cream would make me dissapear (because it promised to erase 10 years of aging haha).

    • @vaninarossi3919
      @vaninarossi3919 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      😂😂😂

    • @ejenplitobarces
      @ejenplitobarces Pƙed měsĂ­cem +11

      The antiaging cream would have made us look like newborns or even fetuses LMAO

    • @aricarly
      @aricarly Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

      @@ejenplitobarces True haha, if it accomplished its promise.

    • @PersonZinroo
      @PersonZinroo Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      You should have tested it, turned into a baby and do all the baby things you missed out on- no wait thats weird

  • @lovesick-kiki
    @lovesick-kiki Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +341

    Gen Alpha makes me feel grateful I grew up in the 2000s

    • @OmniNeon900
      @OmniNeon900 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      Same 😱

    • @chenillesagoe6348
      @chenillesagoe6348 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +12

      True at least I played with ACTUAL TOYS 🧾

    • @piperburns6804
      @piperburns6804 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      Tbf its your generations fault a little bit. Like saying the way kids talk nowadays and say shit like skibidi toilet and stuff was all stuff gen z made. Ofc little kids are going to see what you guys say or do and get influenced by it đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€

    • @princess_spxilxd
      @princess_spxilxd Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +16

      ​@@piperburns6804 it's mostly the parents fault. They just shove an ipad in they're faces in which exposed them to the internet.

    • @piperburns6804
      @piperburns6804 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      @@princess_spxilxd there’s nothing completely wrong with the internet in general though. as long as you consume healthy amounts of it. what’s wrong is them seeing stupid content that others are making and being influenced by it. which it’s not like the people making it are realizing that kids are seeing it but I’m just saying.

  • @DelaneySimonette
    @DelaneySimonette Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    i started vaping n smoking weed when i was 9 because of a friend who was also 9. now im 13 n have gone through n continue to go through rehab. due to my incredible dad who knew how to take action and help me, im one month clean today but i hate how i can see the problem of this generation in myself

  • @r1woos
    @r1woos Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

    when i was like 10 i still was shopping at clairs 😭

    • @r1woos
      @r1woos Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      they don’t need this skincare stuff they’re still growing

  • @cor3bunny
    @cor3bunny Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +358

    When i was 12 i was reading and dreaming of becoming a MAGICAL FAIRY

    • @aikoo_0
      @aikoo_0 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      ME TOO

    • @kcthefrogusedyt8319
      @kcthefrogusedyt8319 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      REAL

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      literally me

    • @tree2-qq7ed
      @tree2-qq7ed Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      idc why people are so mad about 10 yr olds wanting to wear makeup... who cares???

    • @cor3bunny
      @cor3bunny Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Its not just that its them DESTROYING things that dont belong to them. Were not saying not to wear makeup, but were saying not to wear it at such a young age. So yes we HAVE to care@@tree2-qq7ed

  • @mossy_dropTHEnumb3r13M0
    @mossy_dropTHEnumb3r13M0 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +463

    As a young gen z my class is full of gen alpha girls and yes i can confirm, they're getting boyfriends, talking about sex, vaping. And im just like "damn. I wanna go home bro."
    And i understand how being chronically online can suck, hell i struggled with hypersexuality disorder because of it, but i feel like parents should start caring about their children.
    Its not that hard to prevent things like this. Just take the phone dude

    • @pansy4687
      @pansy4687 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      wtf, gen alpha and talking about sex/vaping? they're not even legally allowed an unsupervised google account 💀

    • @priojong
      @priojong Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +50

      Taking the phone won't instantly take away the ignorance. In fact, it will just cause the child to be even more naive, and bring sneakiness inside the equation.
      Parents need to actually practice parenting and teach/educate their kids on dangers of early sex, social media, drugs, etc. Taking away the phone only takes away small access to certain media, without the phone they still perform the acts they do.

    • @mossy_dropTHEnumb3r13M0
      @mossy_dropTHEnumb3r13M0 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +10

      @@priojong i understand that but I'm talking about how it happened to me and how i think it should have happened to me to prevent it idk man :/

    • @lilydawn3145
      @lilydawn3145 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      I was wondering if this was just kids with influencer parents, but I guess it is a more general issue. I've never been more thankful for being homeschooled 😂. Best of luck đŸ«¶

    • @arlynnecumberbatch1056
      @arlynnecumberbatch1056 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      dont take their phone perms away, instead, blocks social apps from their phone, and if they want to watch youtube, dont install youtube kids. theres still creepy things in that app

  • @riyak672
    @riyak672 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

    at ten i was begging my mum to take me to toys r us, and at 15 i was still smiling at twilight sparkle finding friends.
    what are these kids on?
    enjoy your barbie doll, summer sun, disney and DC comic phase while it lasts, honey.
    retinol can't anti-age this treasure back to you.

  • @snowbelltheicewing66
    @snowbelltheicewing66 Pƙed 12 dny +1

    my daily skincare routine:
    water
    soap (optional)
    I have never stepped foot in a Sephora.

  • @lizardbrick8939
    @lizardbrick8939 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +820

    This makes me so sad. Childhood is one of the best times in my life. I mean, we didn’t even have a lot of money or anything. My siblings and I would just go outside, or play with the toys that we owned. Gone is the time of not only childhood, but imagination.

    • @skitterly
      @skitterly Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +13

      Yes! Kids aren’t given unstructured play anymore and it’s really damaging to the development of their imaginations. These are gonna be the next generation of artists and creators and they’ve hardly even played with toys.

    • @bedazzledangel4669
      @bedazzledangel4669 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      When I was ten years old, I was outside climbing trees, getting my knees scraped, and playing with Barbie’s 😂

  • @tattoocutiegal7629
    @tattoocutiegal7629 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +462

    I think we also need to talk adout how womanhood is sexualized, teenage boys also want to be seen as grown up at some point but they don't need to sexualized themselves to be seen as more mature.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Yeah, that's exactly the reason why girls need their mothers, who can expose them the truth about women.
      And boys need guidance from men, because they are what they naturally become.
      Toxic boy moms and toxic girl dads, created these disfunctional relationships with their children.

    • @justcommenting5117
      @justcommenting5117 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +30

      As a boy, I think the real conversation is about how culture became much more centralized around sex. Movies, clothes, social media, pictures, videos, songs have all explored sex appeal intensively in the past few decades and these things do end up affecting children.
      Even though it's not as noticeable as it is for women, the understanding of adulthood to some boys is also centered around sex. They don't sexualize themselves, but sometimes their way of looking grown up is to talk about the size of their intimates or about how they watched stuff they don't have the age to, which also includes p0rn, which comes with its own set of psychological effects. In fact, I believe there's a mutual correlation between what's happening with young boys and young girls.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@justcommenting5117 Young boys and girls have similar traits, but they are not behaving in the same way.
      Both like to discuss about the attractiveness of the other gender. Males talk in a more RAW way about what they like in females. Females are SNEAKY, when they talk about the things they like on an attractive male.

    • @justcommenting5117
      @justcommenting5117 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      @@missstranger7697 but I didn't say they behaved the same way, I said both are being affected from a young age by the sexualization of culture. But anyway, I do agree overall that males speak in a more raw way, while females are more sneaky.

  • @cybercriminal3110
    @cybercriminal3110 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I played with toys up until like 13, never wore make up, and now at 19 I'm happy and confident in my looks.

  • @Cozy-vlog466
    @Cozy-vlog466 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I can't believe that you have chosen a really good topic, it is not good at all that nowadays our children have forgotten how to be children and the main culprits are the parents.đŸ‘đŸ»đŸ‘‹đŸ»đŸ‡©đŸ‡°đŸ‡©đŸ‡°đŸ‡©đŸ‡°

  • @narutosinuyasha11
    @narutosinuyasha11 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +468

    They look and act like they’re mid 20’s when they’re 10 😭 😂 wtf

    • @user-rm8tx7dp3z
      @user-rm8tx7dp3z Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +6

      Ikr? 😂

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @ZOBsSs
      @ZOBsSs Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      We r not trying to act bcuz of these loads of 10 11 12 year olds we all r defined as "sephora kids" and it's not fun we r always pressured to stand out and be pretty 24/7

    • @ziniascarlett8534
      @ziniascarlett8534 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +33

      ​​@@ZOBsSsnobody is telling kids to stand out and look pretty, you just watch tiktok too much.
      Not being rude but i'm fr concern, cuz never that i ever heard anyone telling kids to look stand out, look pleasing, and mature.

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +5

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

  • @samuelll934
    @samuelll934 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +195

    it took me 5 months of courage to ask my mom for just a lipgloss as a teen, these kids be getting 10 bags of makeup💀💀

    • @adoroselatte
      @adoroselatte Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +11

      When I was 10,no makeup either 💀💀 man these newer gens scare me

    • @stinkymaryx
      @stinkymaryx Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      I never wore skin products till my skin actually GOT DRY 💀💀

    • @Somethingiguess-tj6xo
      @Somethingiguess-tj6xo Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      I still don't have the courage

    • @madshmuck
      @madshmuck Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      no srsly i had to secretly use my mom's lip balm at 14 cuz i knew she'd never allow me one😭

  • @loujaineomran7713
    @loujaineomran7713 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    the world needs people like you

  • @honeyydew8609
    @honeyydew8609 Pƙed 29 dny

    This is a really good video!

  • @Strawberry_Finch
    @Strawberry_Finch Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +359

    I can’t believe I’m at the age to say “when I was younger we did
” and it’s actually different than today. Like I was the justice kid, swinging on wingers with bright clothes from justice 😭

    • @Midnight_Afton645
      @Midnight_Afton645 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      Fr, my birthday rlly soon and it feels weird to say "When I was a kid" cuz technically I still AM a kid

    • @aricarly
      @aricarly Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      I still have my Justice tops from when I was a tween, and I'm in my late 20s... somehow the last decade flew by so fast.

    • @Midnight_Afton645
      @Midnight_Afton645 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1

      My birthday was 2 days ago-

    • @angelelida4680
      @angelelida4680 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      The main reason I suspect is not because you’re so old, but because there has been so much recent change. Least that’s the case for me. It’s unrecognisable from only a few years ago.

    • @aricarly
      @aricarly Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      @@angelelida4680 Not the OP, but I feel like somehow everything was so long ago and like yesterday at the same time... In my case I believe it's because I haven't changed much at all, but everyone and everything around me did, so it's like my mind is stuck in 2014-2018, but everyone else has moved on very fast. Sometimes I feel the same I did in 2017-2018 despite being 6-7 years ago, and most of my friends are already on other stages of life and I'm stuck there.

  • @Sarz.Bestie
    @Sarz.Bestie Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +553

    As an 11 year old, I'm more focused on studying and playing with my friends than putting on anti aging stuff. Oh, I forgot to say, I'm literally making friendship bracelets-

    • @Somethingiguess-tj6xo
      @Somethingiguess-tj6xo Pƙed měsĂ­cem +32

      Haha, I'm glad.

    • @PowerPixel_
      @PowerPixel_ Pƙed měsĂ­cem +16

      YES! SAME! :D

    • @caramelcoral-vu1nz
      @caramelcoral-vu1nz Pƙed měsĂ­cem +15

      You go girl!

    • @zainab_hashmiii
      @zainab_hashmiii Pƙed měsĂ­cem +55

      :DD but please don't share your age online!! there are alot of gross people online, make sure to stay safe 💖💖💖

    • @Sarz.Bestie
      @Sarz.Bestie Pƙed měsĂ­cem +18

      @@zainab_hashmiii thank you for worrying but im very safe online, don't worry❀

  • @user-rc6xc3po1x
    @user-rc6xc3po1x Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I am 13 and my mom would keep any divice away from me when was a kid and I am really thankful for that.

  • @saanvigupta7075
    @saanvigupta7075 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Heyy Zoe. Big fan here. I'm 13 and what you said I think is completely correct. This is the age I think we should focus on physical and mental health. But thing is, if you(as a teenager) don't follow these trend, your friends completely exclude you from their group, leaving you completely lonely and depressed. What are your opinion on this, how can I tackle this issue. Thanks a lot for this video. Lots of love

  • @ravenfall9203
    @ravenfall9203 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +426

    In Turkey, do that sh*t, you will work 10 years to pay one product.

    • @vodarii
      @vodarii Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      THATS TRUE LMFAO

    • @AzathothTheGreat
      @AzathothTheGreat Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +38

      I'm Greek and that bottle of perfume thee toddler was squeaking about "omg it took me a WEEK to earn this!!!!" Costs more than 1/3 of my monthly wages 😂 I wish I was a spoiled murican toddler like that 😂

    • @urgfwannabeme
      @urgfwannabeme Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      i feel you as a half greek half turkish person the economy sucks:/
      @@AzathothTheGreat

    • @EVA-ki5vw
      @EVA-ki5vw Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      Rich people do exist, even in turkey

    • @Kinyasrana
      @Kinyasrana Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +13

      Lan yorumlarda bunu beklemiyordum KEƞFQƞFWƞLDƞDLD

  • @justwatchingandcommenting
    @justwatchingandcommenting Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +440

    Basically we're going backwards to a time where children got married and pregnant with 13/14.
    It's getting even more normal to give birth as teens... I'm just shaking my head because sadly, nothing of this can shock me anymore.

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @kupchinaspqsuk3792
      @kupchinaspqsuk3792 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +28

      ​@@ville__ dude im high ashit you scared me

    • @HumanHuman-fe8rc
      @HumanHuman-fe8rc Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +21

      Fr I lost my V-card at 14 because my friends told me I was still a baby until I did

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +9

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @justwatchingandcommenting
      @justwatchingandcommenting Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCore in China they are controlling TikTok and just showing their kids things like do it yourself stuff or things for studying... I mean yeah it's huge but.... It seems to work... And stuff like CZcams is completely banned... Maybe we should start the same... I mean for real.. When I see them kids trying to be adult... I just want to throw up... And why in hell would you want a woman from the outside who is still a kid in mind? Disgusting....

  • @SaintCharlos
    @SaintCharlos Pƙed 15 dny +1

    I couldn't wait to grow up when I was a child... And now, as an adult, I miss my childhood. I didn't have to worry about jobs, money, college, or worldly issues back then.

  • @ivoluvsbangtan
    @ivoluvsbangtan Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I started doing a 4 steps skincare (with literally neutral products, if not, my skin go crazy) that is based in a cleanser, a toner, hydrating cream and sunscreen, and I also started donning makeup (nothing so heavy) I’m 17 and I STILL think that is a very young age to start doing all this stuff.
    Seeing this girls just makes me so sad.

  • @daisymerollin555
    @daisymerollin555 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +292

    this is making me EXTREMELY anxious like, how am I supposed to raise my kid?

    • @BunnyKip
      @BunnyKip Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +55

      Just let them be a kid and make sure they learn the important life lessons, don't let the internet influence them and make sure to check up on their mental health often and make them feel safe to come to you when they have issues. Do all those and you're pretty much a great parent!! Good luck dude :D

    • @annanicole5494
      @annanicole5494 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +35

      Keep them away from the internet no matter what. No matter how hard you try they will want to see everything that’s out there because they know they can with a single click. There’s nothing more curious than a child and if you think you’ve got your computer locked down, they’re a step ahead. Soo many kids ended up traumatized from being first introduced to the internet with no parental witnesses

    • @annanicole5494
      @annanicole5494 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +15

      Also like she said in the video, TV!!! Rerun those old Baby Einsteins and cartoons from Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network

    • @Slaskungen
      @Slaskungen Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +23

      NO TIKTOK thats a given. Be invested in your child, be a constant safe person for them to go to, catch them if they fall, dont scare them just love and guide them. You'll be fine, children are very intuitive so don't worry so much and enjoy the journey.

    • @daisymerollin555
      @daisymerollin555 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      @@BunnyKip but won't they feel peer pressure? and tbh it's definitely going to come at them.

  • @AJHUMAN-sr5uo
    @AJHUMAN-sr5uo Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +670

    I agree 100% , when I was 10 I used skincare, not drunk elephant. I used clean & clear, ONLY because I had really big breakouts. Seeing girls with perfect skin having to use expensive skin care and makeup is crazy.

    • @mariaylllow
      @mariaylllow Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +46

      I used a small brand called wash with water. I got bullied for not using bigger brands like damn 💀💀

    • @coffeize4829
      @coffeize4829 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +11

      I use soap and glory and stuff that are gifted to me

    • @sukriti7213
      @sukriti7213 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +11

      Yeah, seeing girls do elaborate makeup/skincare routines at 10 years old is so insane to me. At 10, I'm pretty sure I was still washing my face with bar soap, I didn't even have a facewash or something.

    • @squid-123
      @squid-123 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      this 6th grade pick me ik has drunk elephant and always makes it aware to me and my friends, even though a) she has clear skin and b) literally no one cares.

    • @neriothefurry
      @neriothefurry Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      im a teenager and i only use a designated face wash whenever i break out around that time of the month, otherwise i use warm water and body wash. why would kids 6 years younger than me be using more skin care than my mother (who is sorta obsessed with looking younger lol)?

  • @ur.safe-place
    @ur.safe-place Pƙed 27 dny

    i’m 12, i just got my first skincare yesterday and it’s a moisturizer and a cleanser, from cvs

  • @Hannahcats
    @Hannahcats Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Watching this really scared me because when I was 10 didn’t even know what moisturizer or anything makeup related was

  • @haunted_lunchbox
    @haunted_lunchbox Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +617

    This is so sad. I didn't even think about any of this at 10 years old. I was too busy playing video games, being outside & just being a kid. It's really unfortunate that they are skipping this period of life.. the carefree time..

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      *Don't translate..
      à€­à€”à€€à€ƒ à€čà„ƒà€Šà€Żà€žà„à€Ż à€§à€Ąà€Œà€•à€šà€‚ à€•à€€à€żà€Șà€Żà„‡à€·à„ à€˜à€Łà„à€Ÿà„‡à€·à„ à€žà„à€„à€—à€Żà€żà€·à„à€Żà€€à€ż, à€…à€žà„à€Ż à€¶à€Ÿà€Șà€žà„à€Ż à€źà„à€•à„à€€à€żà€‚ à€Șà„à€°à€Ÿà€Șà„à€€à„à€‚ à€à€•à€źà€Ÿà€€à„à€°à€‚ à€źà€Ÿà€°à„à€—à€‚ à€źà€ź à€šà„ˆà€šà€Čà€žà„à€Ż à€žà€Šà€žà„à€Żà€€à€Ÿà€‚ à€•à„à€°à„à€”à€šà„à€€à„* .

    • @milknhoney3368
      @milknhoney3368 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +8

      I can still remember going to trick n treat with my cousin, cause Halloween isn't a big thing in Asia, and this still sticks with me 10 yrs or so later.

    • @kayleighdriessen
      @kayleighdriessen Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +7

      I spend most of a weekends visiting my grandparents throughout my late childhood to teen years and I as well as them loved it, I was often curious about what my life would be like when I'm an adult but never felt obsessed about already acting like one just so that less people looked down upon me or made me feel weird for basically having my own unique personality and interests that I still had all the time in the world to work on developing over time while enjoying the present moment. People shouldn't be desperately rushing from childhood to adulthood but then dread the idea of getting older and older untill they might reach elderhood one day, in this day and age it's driving too many people nuts it's not even funny.

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @CheapLemonadeIsbetter
      @CheapLemonadeIsbetter Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@ThePrincessOfCuteCore just make one reply no need to spam every comment under the damn sun.

  • @clara.cipher
    @clara.cipher Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +284

    The worst part is the way this will also create a generational gap between gen z and gen alpha. They are not to blame, it's clearly their parents fault for underestimating and neglecting parenthood, but the way these kids are being made fun of and ridiculed by everyone will ultimately push them further into this endless cycle of sexualization and consumption. It's really tragic to think about all the mental health problems this will lead too for many of these poor girls.
    And again, I am absolutely disgusted by the parents lack of self awareness and "don't care" attitude...

    • @aeoligarlic4024
      @aeoligarlic4024 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +33

      At least gen Z still had a bright childhood. I was a teenager during their childhood era and we watched the same cartoons like danny phantom, fop, kids next door, and all those good things

    • @ThePrincessOfCuteCore
      @ThePrincessOfCuteCore Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      Honestly I just hate nowadays 😭 all these kids are getting shown nothing but adults that talk about skims,surgery,bbls,skincare and shit like no stop it 😭 it’s insane what kids’ll do to be more mature and I hate it I’m 17 turning 18 this year and I do look quite mature for my age my bsf even admitted I look 21💀 but I have a young looking face- and that’s fine but these kids shouldn’t be doing this especially not at 12 also that girl that I saw in this vid taking was it pills for her hair? God knows what else she could be taking and it could have ANYTHING in it 😔 we really need to stop this no matter how many vids get put up talking about this situation with these children that parents OF COURSE see they’ll still keep doing it!!!đŸ€š like do we have to ban these kids from these socials? Because it’s soo problematic honestly we need people under 18 to be kicked from TikTok and for TikTok to monitor there app more so they can take down videos such as “thirst traps” etc and get rid of the minors bc there’s just 1 thing once TikTok is gone for these minors THEY'LL STOP ✋ TikTok and the adults are the literal problem here✋😔
      #BanTikTok

    • @DelilahDarling17
      @DelilahDarling17 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +18

      (Sorry, kind of long comment. I just got a lot to say. If you read all of this, I really appreciate it!)
      It sickens me as a Gen Z young adult to see. You're right. But honestly? Some of these comments do, as well. Whole fifteen year olds already snarkingly talking about "back in my day."
      While I understand that yes, many of gen alpha's parents are severely neglecting parenthood, that's the issue. The *parents.* None of the kids deserve to be mocked and ridiculed.
      I have four little cousins, and from what I know of, one of them threw away her dolls and really just wants all this makeup and such. She's about thirteen. But when I heard of this, I didn't ridicule her for it. I didn't make her feel inferior because at my age, I was still playing with dolls and was widely possessive over them.
      Instead, I ask her for makeup tips, and let her ramble to me about her newfound passion of makeup. She actually looks up to how her mom does makeup, and tries to mimick it and wants to one day surprass her mom in makeup skills.
      I'll never understand how she got into skin care so early, though. Even her mom doesn't encourage that part. I could say it was social media's influence.
      But I support her, anyways. And do my best to lift her self-esteem. Because she already gets a lot of flack for her age. And as a result of the major bullying she's faced for not fitting in with the latest trends from classmates, or actually acting her age from adults, she has a *very* low self-esteem.
      "The girls kept calling me a gorilla for not shaving my legs yet/mom said I need to act my age and check my attitude," and hearing the many grown adults talk about how back in their days, they didn't have iphones and drank from water hoses.
      No matter what generation you're in, the younger ones will always be mocked and looked down upon no matter what they do. It's a cycle that's gone on for centuries, that gen alpha *will* do to the generation after them.
      Not to say that generations aren't free of criticism. They all have their major flaws. Including gen alpha. But, like... that's also kind of the point. If I see another "I hate nowadays! I wish we could go back in time," I might snap.
      *TL;DR:* If I ever hear that I made my little gen alpha cousins feel inferior, that would shatter me. As you said, there's enough of a divide between Gen Z, Millennials, and their generation already. The last thing they need is their big cousin falling for that trap, too. Go ahead, my little gen alpha cousins. Teach me that weird TikTok dance you mastered.

    • @clara.cipher
      @clara.cipher Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +5

      I loved to read your comment, and I can relate a lot to what you said!
      I also have a younger cousin who is very fascinated by make-up and fashion. Sadly her mom isn't very nice about it, which is just horribly sad. Especially since it's due to her lack of monitoring on her daughters consumption of social media. And yeah, it's exactly as you said it, making them feel bad about it and themselves won't solve a damn thing. I'm always really torn between anger, frustration and sadness when thinking about this. AND YES. This trend of generations making fun and talking down on the younger generations drives me absolutely NUTS. I'm also a young adult of gen z, and how much shit did we get from millennials? And honestly most of all the previous generations just because we are the first generation who started to have technology at a young age. So it's really sad to see our generation do the same to the new one. WHEN IT'S THE PARENTS FAULT (as we've established lots of times by now hah, but they deserve that we hammer it in).
      The comment probably doesn't make a lot of sense and has a lot of repetition, sorry about that! @@DelilahDarling17

    • @remwifeyy
      @remwifeyy Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      i feel like you all are forgetting the youngest of gen z is 2012.. gen alpha are like covid babies n/m!!

  • @mayar.broeks3044
    @mayar.broeks3044 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    hey, love the video!! just thought maybe i should let you know that it might be good to have a different background than the kind of black staticky one or put a photosensitivity warning before it? just thought u should know lol

  • @excitedcrap
    @excitedcrap Pƙed 22 dny +1

    i'm a gen alpha. I was raised by protective parents and a brother who was a gen z. I didn't really get attached to all this stuff that 12-years old did now, thanks to them. However, my friends did, and i was surrounded by that environtment. The standards really changed here, and because I didnt 'match' with them, I felt kind of left out. Like, I'm not allowed to spend money on beauty products (except when my mother says that I really need it), i'm not allowed to hang out in a mall, etc. So they never really asked me to hang out. This pressured me deeply. I'm afraid maybe sooner or later I'll eventually became on of them.

  • @itisfrosty
    @itisfrosty Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +147

    This sad i am 13 and i have anxiety just because at my school girls bully me because i don't know what trends are going on or because i don't use makeup i just wanna draw and play
    I just want this generation that i am
    apart of to see the light because I'm really scared

    • @battlewriter
      @battlewriter Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +36

      Keep on being true to yourself! I know it’s hard, I was always the weird kid in school but now as a 52 yo woman with kids in their 20’s, I have great skin (because I didn’t smother it in makeup), I draw, paint, play piano, knit, sew clothes, crochet, dye my own yarn, build stuff
..and I’m happy. Those bullies will be the ones left behind when you soar past them! Be kind to yourself and take care.

    • @itisfrosty
      @itisfrosty Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +17

      @@battlewriter thank you for the kind words and I hope you have a wonderful day

    • @biscuitt0
      @biscuitt0 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +16

      I'm 13 and I have anxiety too :')- no social media or makeup. I grew distant with one of my childhood friends bc she just changed.. like a lot- she would always point out my insecurities, make fun of me in front of her 'friends' and sometimes just ignore me completely- but I'm glad that I've found better friends that genuinely care about me. Just don't change yourself or listen to those girls! 💕

    • @stinkymaryx
      @stinkymaryx Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      same I dont even have an identity anymore I just wanna hang out and talk about normal things not abt bad stuff,sex or trends and theres an inside of me that stills wants to play with dolls.

    • @Somethingiguess-tj6xo
      @Somethingiguess-tj6xo Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      I feel this.
      Don't let rude people get to you, just think about the good things.

  • @Jiminiechimchim
    @Jiminiechimchim Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +101

    As a 14yr old whos never touched makeup in her life, this is just disturbing

    • @THEST4R99
      @THEST4R99 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      Im 11 and i only put sunscreen and i dont even have makup

    • @Jiminiechimchim
      @Jiminiechimchim Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@THEST4R99 lol literally same

    • @angelelida4680
      @angelelida4680 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      Values from my age group (in my 30’s) would be to add a little lip colour from about 16, and light makeup from around 18. If you stick to that (as opposed to more) I think your adult self will thank you for it. Keep this video in your mind if the peer pressure starts to vamp up, but equally, don’t feel triggered into boycotting makeup entirely - when age appropriate and used tastefully, it can be a lovely thing. Regardless, the most important thing is to stay true to your inner core self.

    • @bizzybezz940
      @bizzybezz940 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      I've only used soap and moisturizer bcuz of acne and it baffles me bcuz I know somebody that comes to school almost everyday with a face full of makeup. We're in 8th grade 😭

    • @MacdunalduMac
      @MacdunalduMac Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      20 yrs later you will thank yourself! đŸ„č

  • @user-ul7mm4ru8k
    @user-ul7mm4ru8k Pƙed dnem

    I am a 12- year-old in Asia and basically my whole friend group are literally still obsessed with squishmallows, so it's so shocking that kids overseas are doing these

  • @SheniyahHayes
    @SheniyahHayes Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +303

    As a minor myself,even if i go to Sophora I get looked at with disgust. Im honestly a goodie two shoes. All i wanted was a cute glittery eyeshadow for a cosplay i was working on (hatsune miku) but then i left with an ungodly amount of guilt.

    • @ToOreo
      @ToOreo Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +32

      Ngl just go to claires

    • @deliciouscake4971
      @deliciouscake4971 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +15

      Nothing wrong with going to Sephora as long as you get products safe for your skin and are super respectful!

    • @iWatermelonCat
      @iWatermelonCat Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +12

      bro miku cosplay is so cute 😭😭😭 Im glad to hear that someone out here is actually cool and not just a trend glazer.

    • @zepetogacha9970
      @zepetogacha9970 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      wow ur gud for a minor i mean i dont think those kids even know how to speak a well made sentence

    • @hankthedog9432
      @hankthedog9432 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      My heart goes out to you for having to experience that hun. Best of luck with your Miku cosplay I’m sure you’ll kill it!

  • @emilphant
    @emilphant Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +725

    I was preyed upon from 11y/o for looking older than I was without the need for makeup or revealing clothes and it ruined my life. Still coping with the SA trauma at 25. To top it off, I'm autistic.
    I just know this shit is a child predators wet dream and it churns my stomach. End time vibes are strong.

    • @FanGurl4TY
      @FanGurl4TY Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +84

      Im sorry to hear that I wish you nothing but healing and peace in your life 💓 💗

    • @squid-123
      @squid-123 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +67

      as a victim of s/a, i hope you can heal healthily and happily :)

    • @ameliaellicott7706
      @ameliaellicott7706 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +47

      i’m so sorry for you love. being a girl in this time is so hard,. sending love, i hope you heal and feel happiness

    • @annanicole5494
      @annanicole5494 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +32

      I thought the same damn thing! I see so many underage kids in booty shorts and crop tops alone in malls, public spaces etc. I wanted to dress like that when I was young but my mom would whoop my a$$!!! Where are there parents??? Disgusting

    • @LilXancheX
      @LilXancheX Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Grow up, by 25 you should already be over it. I bet you’re gonna be 30 with wrinkles and still crying about it

  • @ameliex
    @ameliex Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    3:10 I started playing sports when I was 9, so I was def running that soccer field with my little ponytail (sometimes with a bow)

  • @pompompurineditz
    @pompompurineditz Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

    my girlhood is still here while it lasts 😭😀
    I go to Claire’s for fun and I go to Sephora with my sisters cos they need to get supplies
    I like to wear oversized clothes because it just feels weird when I wear tight stuff
    my childhood and girlhood is still alive and thriving ❀

  • @itsm3l12
    @itsm3l12 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +290

    I‘m 19 years old now and in the last year of being a teen and I still feel like 16 ✹đŸ„Č💗🎀

    • @victoriaschumacher7428
      @victoriaschumacher7428 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +6

      Same 😭😭

    • @Beelzebubby91
      @Beelzebubby91 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +38

      That’s normal, don’t worry. I’m 22 and around 16 I feel like I stopped aging mentally. I always expected to magically have a super mature adult brain after one birthday, but nope. 😂 most young adults feel the exact same way

    • @rere139
      @rere139 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      same honestly, 19 but i still feel like im stuck at the age of 15

    • @injalu
      @injalu Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +13

      Dude I'm 17 and I get existential crisis for going to college. I haven't recovered past 14

    • @itsme-pm9fj
      @itsme-pm9fj Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1

      Omg same 💀💀

  • @evil_ferret
    @evil_ferret Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +282

    My sister said that so far in her school a few people have already been starting to wearing makeup and revealing clothes, and at one point a fire alarm went off because someone was smoking inside of a bathroom.
    Shes in middle school.

    • @tfisitsobrightfor-kr8yp
      @tfisitsobrightfor-kr8yp Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +19

      isnt wearing makeup in middle school like a common middle school experience?

    • @Best_goat_ever
      @Best_goat_ever Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Bro I'm in middle school and they be vapin so hard
      They also wear a lot of makeup, nails, heels
      They also did drugs this year
      On insta they're all filtered and '' sexy'' for whoever the fuck they' re being sexy
      And I've been commented for not wearing makeup and other stuff that are as superficial
      Disgusting

    • @overnightcreationsbyme8504
      @overnightcreationsbyme8504 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +22

      @@tfisitsobrightfor-kr8yp sort of...i...guess? but not really for me since in my school people starting smoking and being um (horrible people thinking they're awesome) unique and saying bad words and makeup at 9th,10th,11th and 12th.

    • @PotatoWaffle-sl4xf
      @PotatoWaffle-sl4xf Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@overnightcreationsbyme8504. Ik it seems annoying rn and some of them might just be bad people, but trust me its probably just adolescence causing a school to look like a food chain. Oh yeah, and middle school, that’s like
.6th grade to 8th grade or smth like that? So 11-14 years old? Well i would say that’s pretty normal behaviour for kids that age who want to look “cool” and “tough”. It’s not new to this generation

    • @buttbobaggins
      @buttbobaggins Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +15

      i'm 23, when i was in middle school 2011-2014 kids totally wore makeup and smoked in bathrooms and had sex and all the crap you get up to even worse in high school. someone below said kids didn't start "saying bad words" til 9th grade.... dawg what planet do YOU live on

  • @nenudiaries
    @nenudiaries Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I am going to be 19 this year and still love to play in playground and swings and toy rides likeee yaaaa!! I love all that stuff stilll

  • @Butterfly_flowers13
    @Butterfly_flowers13 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1

    10 years old I was still reading the highlights magazine

  • @star-8943
    @star-8943 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +106

    bro I’m almost 13 and people get bullied for not wearing crop tops, corsets, and PLAYING ROBLOX

    • @suniannian1623
      @suniannian1623 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Just say them : *fuck you*

    • @soniananagara5769
      @soniananagara5769 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +17

      BRUH WHATS WRONG WITH PLAYIN ROBLOX??????? im 14 next month and i always play it when i don't need to study

    • @stinkymaryx
      @stinkymaryx Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +15

      same they go like ''u never had a bf?'' ''u dont have social media? are you kidding me? even if i am 13 and above

    • @koiifsh
      @koiifsh Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      i can kind of see why theyd bully you for the first 2 reasons (not that id do it, i just think i can see from their perspective) but i seriously thought roblox was still 'in with the kids'?? i just turned 15 and all my classmates play roblox, but maybe its a cultural differences thing then

    • @hayleyteoh9263
      @hayleyteoh9263 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

      Gurlyyy, you do you as long as ur happy cuz clearly they don’t get that Roblox is fun affff

  • @westvirginiascoolestcanadian
    @westvirginiascoolestcanadian Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +196

    i’m 19 and starting to regret every minute i spent in middle/high school trying to be more mature.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +9

      I have also been kinda guilty of this and mind you I am 21.
      At least my older sister who is 23, would try to warn me and protect me from a young age.

    • @westvirginiascoolestcanadian
      @westvirginiascoolestcanadian Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@missstranger7697 fr. you could not pay me to go back to that time of my life but i wish i let myself enjoy it and wasn’t pressured to grow up so fast. i’m an only child so no one besides my mom would warn me, and obviously teenagers don’t listen to their parents.

    • @nara9404
      @nara9404 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      Being the second youngest in my huge number of cousins, I still act so childish it puts the youngest aka my sister to shame 😅

    • @oodo2908
      @oodo2908 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      I can't imagine how many guys hassle you. People from my generation looked like kids until their 20's so men knew when they were illegal. And they weren't showing out so they didn't look sexy to attract guys anyway.

    • @missstranger7697
      @missstranger7697 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      @@oodo2908 I was the same way. I was avoiding sexualizing myself at school, until I started getting used to my body, at the age of mainly 19-21.
      And even then, I had a hard time, because I wasn't raised in a much encouraging family. I was either getting bullied by my mother, or my older sister.
      Sexualizing yourself can also lead you in isolation, because people don't want to deal with you.

  • @lizzieplatt247
    @lizzieplatt247 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Another thing that isn't just affecting young girls but just kids in general, the rise in popularity of club sports and the push for kids to get very good at sports very young, for example at 10 I was doing 9 2 hour swim practices a week.

  • @J3llu_
    @J3llu_ Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I'm turning 13 this year and I don't even act like these kids or wear makeup yet. Yes I do little skin care, but I only do it when I need to cause I don't want to damage my skin. But like now days 10-12 years old's are rude.. Plus how the quarantine, not being able to go to school and socialize, might have had a pretty significant influence on this if you think about it. Like these 4 years have gone by so fast it is insane, And these year too.