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Komentáře • 360

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited  Před 3 měsíci +163

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    • @scouts92
      @scouts92 Před 3 měsíci

      wow thank you!!

    • @mossyay
      @mossyay Před 3 měsíci +1

      uhh hey i have dwarfism the m word is a slur to a lot of us

    • @Aye_pepitoo1789
      @Aye_pepitoo1789 Před 3 měsíci

      Dudeee I love Bellesa ! Way better than Pornhub tbh

    • @Pico983
      @Pico983 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@mossyaywhat's the m word?

    • @tahsinkhan4871
      @tahsinkhan4871 Před měsícem

      🙂🙂🙂

  • @shethegurl_shurl4964
    @shethegurl_shurl4964 Před 3 měsíci +1746

    Not the "you look ugly, i can fix that"😭😭😭

    • @BRR949
      @BRR949 Před 3 měsíci +22

      ​@@JuicyUTTPBot?

    • @user-dz8rt9vd1o
      @user-dz8rt9vd1o Před 3 měsíci

      no because she's such a damn pick me and problamatic for saying ugly people are lucky because they dont get SA'ed

    • @jujuonthatbeat9546
      @jujuonthatbeat9546 Před 3 měsíci +5

      777 likes 🤍

    • @Nilsoda
      @Nilsoda Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@JuicyUTTP huh😭

    • @Yuki_Official_777
      @Yuki_Official_777 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@polinafurmanova6855 AW THATS SO SWEET😭😭❤❤

  • @stefhanysilva3823
    @stefhanysilva3823 Před 3 měsíci +1905

    This obsession with beauty is killing people, I'm a 19 afro latina girl and I've been so obsessed with looking pretty all the time that there was days that I didn't want to go out cuz I didn't look pretty enough, I even thought that I wasn't worthy living because of how I looked.

    • @kelddsrx
      @kelddsrx Před 3 měsíci +37

      Sameeee.. how did you move past that?

    • @stefhanysilva3823
      @stefhanysilva3823 Před 3 měsíci +43

      ​@kelddsrx I am still struggling with that ngl

    • @mirishikibacchus6862
      @mirishikibacchus6862 Před 3 měsíci +29

      I'm struggling with that too, but from what I can see..I think your beautiful..and that's how I honestly think of you..with or without make up..but I understand exactly how you feel..you're definitely not alone..like I said..I'm struggling with my insecurities too..so afraid to go outside because I feel ugly on the outside..even with make up on..I then feel insecure about my weight..it doesn't help that I feel as though, I probably won't find love because of how I think I look😮‍💨 I usally try to fight it..telling myself that I'm beautiful..but other times I'm discouraged again..

    • @kelddsrx
      @kelddsrx Před 3 měsíci +23

      I always remind myself that life is short and that it's important to focus on friends, family, experiences.. all our bodies change eventually and we only have this one body that keeps us alive and gives us this one chance called life. Focus on why people love and wanna be with you.. probably not because of your looks but because of so many other things. These thoughts help but I always end up basing my self worth on my looks and then feeling really bad on those days I don't look that great.

    • @ElinePP
      @ElinePP Před 3 měsíci +15

      I've been struggling with that for 10 years.
      Wanting to hide forever , crying when I see a photo of me, wanting plastic surgery from the age of 12.
      When I explain this to my relatives they laugh and tell me it's not a real problem.
      To be honest, I know it probably won't change so I'm trying to find other things that make me a valuable person, and find happiness in my passions .
      Trying not to look in the mirror and ignore my disgusting reflexion ...
      But I'm alive 'cause I'm more than my body.

  • @Fruitypebbles489
    @Fruitypebbles489 Před 3 měsíci +792

    Honestly, this videos make me feel gorgeous for being normal and natural 😬 I’m proud to look human and not stupid and uncanny

    • @mochikluv
      @mochikluv Před 3 měsíci +7

      THIS

    • @sansshiber5060
      @sansshiber5060 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Indeed!!

    • @MikaelaTufts
      @MikaelaTufts Před 3 měsíci +18

      For real… I’m happy I look human and not like an alien doll…

    • @crazynicesonya
      @crazynicesonya Před 2 měsíci

      It’s not gorgeous to call someone stupid, btw. This girls just mentally unstable due social media, insecurities, low self esteem and so on, the fact that it’s made you think that you somehow better then them speaks a lot about you

    • @whynutt4868
      @whynutt4868 Před 2 měsíci +3

      That's what I also thought.

  • @mikevasquez1103
    @mikevasquez1103 Před 3 měsíci +697

    Comparison is the thief of joy.

  • @anju5124
    @anju5124 Před 3 měsíci +484

    "Dystopian".. Somehow that's the word coming to my mind!

    • @aliairving485
      @aliairving485 Před 3 měsíci +7

      True. And anytime I think about Palestine I remember we’re living in basically an active hunger games

    • @justwalkin1928
      @justwalkin1928 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@@aliairving485wait, you have a point... It's like we're the capitals and having unnecessary problems while they're people in the world who literally fights to live

  • @victoria586
    @victoria586 Před 3 měsíci +241

    This is why I like taking pictures with no filters and embrace my own beauty, showing my acne and acne scars. And also taking a break from social media as well.

    • @rosee_bae
      @rosee_bae Před 3 měsíci +3

      Me too!

    • @mist3995
      @mist3995 Před měsícem +2

      Me too, but I discovered lately that my phone has a built-in beauty filter installed in the (frontal) camera. I thought my skin looked very smooth but I checked "beautify" and it was set to zero, I finally found the other filter a week later and it's creepy how much it changed my perspective of my face even though I didn't want to edit it to begin with

    • @urora._.111
      @urora._.111 Před 19 dny +1

      Haha you're not beautiful

    • @rydiavalentine
      @rydiavalentine Před dnem +2

      I look better IRL than in photos or videos, edited or not 😂Somehow cameras usually change my face to look worse.

  • @spectatorg3
    @spectatorg3 Před 3 měsíci +592

    As an 18 year old Puerto Rican guy, I appreciate the commentary and editing.

  • @floofyguinepig9795
    @floofyguinepig9795 Před 3 měsíci +357

    As a half European half East Asian I was always praised everywhere by parents for my "long legs" and how (unhealthily) thin I was, I've moved now. I was happy with it as a kid but now its just painful to hear "I wish I could look like you" and even parents using me as an example for their kids, when I was literally going to a doctor for being too thin! I'm older now, gained a normal amount of weight, still admitedly affected by their standards, istg I'm eating 2 small meals a day and exercising daily idk why I just want to look thin again

    • @floofyguinepig9795
      @floofyguinepig9795 Před 3 měsíci +33

      fr tho, I'm still in the Asian community where I live now, all the Asian moms I know, including my own, own a bunch of beauty cam photoshop apps which they use for every picture, and talk how they hate how ugly they look without the filter, and then laughing ;-;

    • @mayaa6512
      @mayaa6512 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Girl make sure you eat enough nutritious food! Thin shouldn't mean beautiful, healthy and happy should... I am happy you got better and hope you will fully move on from these crazy ideals

    • @lord_explosion_murderer
      @lord_explosion_murderer Před měsícem +1

      Wowwww flxing are we now? (But do make sure to eat god food and exercise

    • @floofyguinepig9795
      @floofyguinepig9795 Před měsícem +3

      @@lord_explosion_murderer my mom keeps calling me fat this week😭😭😭

    • @ZuzanaHrachovcova
      @ZuzanaHrachovcova Před měsícem +1

      ​@@kaylie.raichel.aiko. she is half white and her white genetics made her fit into the colorist beauty standart in asia 😢😯

  • @gradzia3453
    @gradzia3453 Před 3 měsíci +179

    Feels intensely dystopic...

    • @Inqq_
      @Inqq_ Před 3 měsíci +8

      It's giving Hunger Games capital fashion

  • @jesuislechat__
    @jesuislechat__ Před 3 měsíci +100

    this scares me so much
    I think getting off of social media and touching grass is the only option now o7

    • @Tiny_Koi
      @Tiny_Koi Před 3 měsíci +10

      Truly Ive told many of my friends that struggle with body issues to get off of social media and to really look at real people in real life. Theres so much natural beauty in the world and in people.

  • @AdirondackRuby
    @AdirondackRuby Před 3 měsíci +122

    Every now and then I find myself thinking "I'm glad I grew up without that!" or "I'm glad that wasn't around when I was a kid"...but stuff like this is so much worse because it effects and affects EVERYONE, regardless of age (or sex or race or any other factor). You can't ignore it, you can't be too old for it. It is there, it is unavoidable, and it is only getting worse. I took a selfie with my friends 8-month-old baby and it smoothed her face! My phone actually had the nerve to "improve" the skin of a baby! It was a built-in setting I didn't even know about!

    • @Angel-jv1rj
      @Angel-jv1rj Před 2 měsíci +4

      That's sick, I can't believe that exists

    • @coldsky1p
      @coldsky1p Před měsícem +1

      Yes ! when i was seeing the new Phones I take a photo and it’s filtered by ai ! Imagine that without any apps or effects

  • @mylollipop100
    @mylollipop100 Před 3 měsíci +67

    I’ve come back to China recently to visit family and this has shocked me so much. The use of beauty filters is so normalised now it’s actually crazy. Parents even use face tuning apps on their very young children, exposing them to these toxic beauty standards and showing them a “better” version of themselves at such a young age. When I took photos with family, I couldn’t even recognise my face in the camera, and they refused to take photos without the face tune, saying it was a NECESSITY. Girls in china wear such extreme makeup that only really looks good on camera with extreme nose and face contour, foundation ten shades lighter than their actual skin tones and eye makeup they enlarges their eyes to the point of creepiness. Everyone has the same face, and it made me feel disconnected and insecure. This is a real issue but none of the people here seem to realise it.

    • @bDwaekkichan
      @bDwaekkichan Před měsícem +4

      It scares me honestly they don't even look normal or like human

    • @Youknowwho910
      @Youknowwho910 Před měsícem

      Asia itself is so toxic. From education to job market to beauty. Its no longer humane. Im saying this as an asian. Makes me admire the unfiltered westernness

  • @BotheredBoy
    @BotheredBoy Před 3 měsíci +59

    This was an insightful, horrifying, and harrowing watch. 10/10

  • @marymurphy1877
    @marymurphy1877 Před 3 měsíci +45

    the more im off social media the more i like myself. When i was in Japan I felt so self conscious and huge in comparison... :/

  • @mishterkhalid3117
    @mishterkhalid3117 Před 3 měsíci +88

    correction: these type of beauty standards exists in East Asia, not all of Asia. if you visit Malaysia, Indonesia, India, Iran, Syria, you will not find these type of crazy standards. these are exclusive to China, Japan and specially Korea

    • @Mallikaaa_04
      @Mallikaaa_04 Před 3 měsíci +21

      Exactly asia is a big and diverse continent. Asia does not mean just east Asia like korea, china, japan, etc.

    • @xiononi
      @xiononi Před 3 měsíci +3

      fr 💀

    • @selmacans
      @selmacans Před 3 měsíci +21

      Didn't she say east asia the whole video?

    • @aliairving485
      @aliairving485 Před 3 měsíci +23

      She literally said east Asia constantly - just say you didn’t watch the video 🤪

    • @andromedamessier3176
      @andromedamessier3176 Před 2 měsíci +6

      I would say Japan is less crazy in all these. They have different styles.
      Korea is plastic surgery
      China is filter and deceptive makeup

  • @ballistachicken
    @ballistachicken Před 3 měsíci +63

    I worry for the younger generation coming up in the world behind mine (I'm 30, for a reference point). Even though I don't always love my looks, I at least can appreciate that these things aren't attainable normally or even healthy in a lot of cases, but the younger group...they're just bombarded with this stuff constantly. I worry for them, and I hope we can help them navigate it as healthily as possible. Your body is your body. Does it have curves, some wrinkles, some cellulite? Excellent, you are certified as a human, congratulations! I hope we can help both my generation and the younger ones behind mine to understand that as long as you're human, you're beautiful as you are, there will always be someone who will find you desirable, and, most importantly, that being desirable is not solely based on your looks at all. It sounds cliche but it's a cliche for a reason: beauty doesn't stop at the surface, and self love isn't about what you look like.

    • @iqra8937
      @iqra8937 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @JuicyUTTP bro what 😭

  • @WorstAngelEver
    @WorstAngelEver Před 3 měsíci +42

    The fact my ex is always saying they have such a nice body & faces when we all know is not real still blows my mind 😂

  • @MsHoneyBBQ
    @MsHoneyBBQ Před 3 měsíci +92

    I love ur content... i actually went thru this years ago with just makeup. i started to HATE the "raw" me without makeup so much that i would often feel depressed after taking my makeup off at the end of the day........ i would even cry sometimes. after awhile, i decided to lay off the makeup for awhile (which i didn't even really enjoy that much in the first place), so that i could re-learn to love my actual face again.... i think makeup is AMAZING when it's fun and you still like urself. but that wasn't what i had been using it for. and that made me really sad. i want to love ME. even if the rest of the world doesn't think i'm pretty. cuz ur ABSOLUTELY right when you say that none of this shit matters😆. but, in the best way. nowadays, i use mostly a tinted moisturizer, mascara and a little highlighter and if i'm feelin froggy, some eyeshadow. lol. and i don't hate my own face anymore. so i call that a win. but that's just me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for making this video. THIS is the kinda stuff i wish we would talk about way more. Sending 💖

    • @catwithquill
      @catwithquill Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@cleigh3796
      Makeup is fun for artists. It's like paint. I personally love my own face, but if I want to look more intimidating, I put on eyeliner.

    • @thenamesilkmoon1366
      @thenamesilkmoon1366 Před 28 dny

      I cry i don't look menacing at all with eyeliner 😭 ​@@catwithquill

  • @sophiapainter-ij9mx
    @sophiapainter-ij9mx Před 3 měsíci +132

    I always love your insights and you’ve been such an inspiration to me this past year, thank you so much ♡︎

    • @sophiapainter-ij9mx
      @sophiapainter-ij9mx Před 3 měsíci +4

      NO WAY SHE LIKED MY COMMENT IM CRYING😭

    • @user-dz8rt9vd1o
      @user-dz8rt9vd1o Před 3 měsíci

      ...didnt she just say being ugly is a good thing cause you get SA'ED less?...

    • @user-dz8rt9vd1o
      @user-dz8rt9vd1o Před 3 měsíci

      wait lol she deleted my response or what?!?!?

  • @maetherabbit9999
    @maetherabbit9999 Před 3 měsíci +38

    It's fascinating that this is a thing considering how completely inhuman the filters make people look. It's the easiest aspiration because it can be achieved by an app

  • @giorgiovespucci7589
    @giorgiovespucci7589 Před 3 měsíci +23

    My ex girlfriend would always use these types of filters on snap chat and I always tried to remind her she didn't need them yet she always talked about how she liked the filters. 🤷
    I dont think she ever believed me when I said she was beautiful, idk

  • @karenfuentes5810
    @karenfuentes5810 Před 3 měsíci +14

    I loved the ending.. the confidence that will give you the inner peace you don’t need anyone else to see ❤

  • @amayaperry
    @amayaperry Před 3 měsíci +18

    I was literally just thinking about a video i saw a few years ago about ppl in the states getting plastic surgery to look like beauty filters from Snapchat.

  • @grace5116
    @grace5116 Před 3 měsíci +15

    I'm living for these videos- and I think it's interesting how people denounce both filters and a natural photo online. At the end of the day I personally think it's about making sure you're happy with yourself & practicing self-care but not self-indulgence. Love the critical perspective you take on beautification tools & thank you for sharing!🎉❤

  • @briza_md
    @briza_md Před 3 měsíci +20

    "using their beauty to bend metal and concrete" :D

  • @Lex1Dlover
    @Lex1Dlover Před 3 měsíci +17

    i love your video and how you explore all sides of the story

  • @leahmoogan5419
    @leahmoogan5419 Před 3 měsíci +18

    it is crazy that we're inducing mass delusions about how people actually look

  • @schmidty6513
    @schmidty6513 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Btw Zoe your beautiful, like I never see anyone on your level it’s crazy

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean Před 3 měsíci +5

    I deal with real life body dysmorphia. The only time I ever use a filter tool is when I want to look less sleepy in a photo 😅 I do not alter my face, my skin, or my body. Living in the real world as a Black Filipina who is tall and curvy is complex enough! I’ve seen these video and makeup filters, and they really trip me out. I stay away from that kind of content whenever I see it pop up when I’m looking to try different makeup looks or hairstyles. I try to find creators who don’t rely heavily on filters to create, because that’s how I’m tryna be out here, online and off! I found this video extremely validating. I’d rather work on myself in real life and show THAT in my content 💕

  • @angelartamesia2
    @angelartamesia2 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Not even joking guys… one day I was laughing while in my bathroom and saw my smile and I realized how pretty I was! I started wondering why I was so insecure about my face shape lol. Although I still don’t like my pimples… I take care of my skin RELIGIOUSLY and I still break out, but I feel pretty ☺️

  • @lecochono-o1906
    @lecochono-o1906 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I feel so bad, now I know I need to go outside more and tell everyone there gorgeous. Ain’t no one need a filter even if you got acne or eyebags that just means your human and beautiful!!

  • @cutechibichu
    @cutechibichu Před 2 měsíci +3

    omg, this is scary! We all know that what you see in magazines and on tv are not real, we know there's photoshop and editing but the whole body/face tuning that East Asia has is on another level! There were SO many times where I'd see a picture of the "doujin" makeup on pinterest and tried to do that make up on myself only to fail, thinking I'm just not good at putting on makeup but now I'm pretty sure it's just a filter! I mean there are people who are really good at makeup (I think, not really sure anymore lol). Anyway thank you SO much for shining the light on this! I can give up on trying to apply the filter with irl makeup!

  • @anhelinasv
    @anhelinasv Před 3 měsíci +38

    wow, thank you for motivating and inspiring to grow and improve youself. love your content

  • @S3verance
    @S3verance Před 3 měsíci +15

    Already slim girls using apps to become even slimmer is crazy

  • @shethegurl_shurl4964
    @shethegurl_shurl4964 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Looking splendid as ever❤❤❤

  • @nalurodriigues
    @nalurodriigues Před 2 měsíci +2

    omg i used meitu in elementary school as well! i also showed my mom back in the day and she LOVED it, used for a few years as well 😅

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie Před 3 měsíci +62

    yeah it's all fun and dandy while you are inside the app... but you can't fool people irl 😄 😭 it's so cringe with those asian filter trends. it's SO funny, the filter that gives you incredible long skinny legs😄 ..... excuse me are you a cartoon? lol

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  Před 3 měsíci +34

      it's crazy how it's becoming more and more real though 😭

    • @ellieartzz
      @ellieartzz Před 3 měsíci +11

      fr, it's giving one piece body type lol

  • @barborazatkova6790
    @barborazatkova6790 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Your vase in the background got my anxiety high

    • @Jesminda
      @Jesminda Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you! I thought I was the only one.

  • @UniqueUserName713
    @UniqueUserName713 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I don't post myself on social media often but when I do I make the decision to not use any filters because I used to have super low self esteem and I think it would be bad for my mental health to only see a "beutified" version of myself, I remember as a kid I didint even realize snapchat filters altered your face and shit and would get super sad because I didint look as good in real life as I did when I took silly pictures with snapchat

  • @mangopig5507
    @mangopig5507 Před 3 měsíci +4

    So glad you left accounting to bring up the topics I have thought about but never have anyone to talk about

  • @affectojfgidi1246
    @affectojfgidi1246 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great video, Zoe💜

  • @froge9843
    @froge9843 Před 3 měsíci

    Zoe I freaking love your videos, have you ever thought about making a podcast?

  • @rydiavalentine
    @rydiavalentine Před dnem +1

    Those filters are freaking nightmares 😱Body and face dismorphia is an epidemic omg. The worst part is that all of these extreme filters make people look actually ugly and they can't see it.

  • @Kaitopia_
    @Kaitopia_ Před měsícem +3

    One thing I noticed is that many underground Japanese idols heavily edit the pictures they post and when others take pictures of them (like fans or when a concert ends) they cover their faces with their hands

    • @U-qho
      @U-qho Před měsícem

      This is the case in entire East Asia not just Japan 🤣

  • @MinYoongi_0903
    @MinYoongi_0903 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I am 18 years old Indian girl .165 cm and 50 kg so basically my bmi is around 18.3
    My mom calls me fat because my thighs are fat saying they look like baby elephants
    Honestly its not just social media but society in general that influence your insecurities
    your average/healthy bmi for an Indian ranges from 18.5-22.9
    I am already an underweight right now,my friend same height weighs around 43 kg and she's proud of that (she's heavily influenced by east asian beauty standards ,I was too but then I realized I am beautiful they way I am and that instead of getting influenced by ppl who I have 0 matching traits with except same human genes I should focus more on the ppl around me who compliment my natural beauty. I am a lot happier now but yeah I will exercise a bit to lose all this belly fat😂)

    • @ZuzanaHrachovcova
      @ZuzanaHrachovcova Před měsícem

      Does your friend even have her period, this can't be healthy for teenager becoming young adult

    • @amethyst1062
      @amethyst1062 Před měsícem

      The only thing I will do is coffee grounds to improve my eyebags, my skincare(basic) and losing bellyfat(Anti-Ana/Anti-Mia)but I do not shame ppl with these conditions already having them it’s just not a good way to lose weight it’s the most disturbing way

  • @affectojfgidi1246
    @affectojfgidi1246 Před 3 měsíci +2

    More people need to see this video instead of another portion of filtered beauty content. We're living in an illusion

  • @arusha._.
    @arusha._. Před 3 měsíci +5

    This video also points out that not everything you see on social media has to be real, i remember going through the "Douyin" side of Pinterest and I saw a bunch of images of beautiful Chinese girls, so beautiful that it almost looked like AI. It made 14 year old me feel so insecure. I had no idea that those pictures were heavily edited, I became so insecure to a point where i would cover mirrors just so i wouldn't have to look at myself and feel disappointed, the idea of taking pictures also seemed like a nightmare to me. The chase for beauty is really toxic in today's world, especially in Asia.

  • @AJ_aayy
    @AJ_aayy Před měsícem +1

    This is one good reason I'm not on social media anymore. I just don't feel like scrolling through literal lies. I miss when we shared experiences and related to each other, not this "I need validation for how I don't actually look."

  • @naeyonii
    @naeyonii Před 3 měsíci +21

    Outrageous title😭

  • @holymacaroni2466
    @holymacaroni2466 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I am currently in Vietnam and oh my gosh the people are all so pretty and lovely in real life. When I exchanged my Instagram with some people and saw their profiles, it really shocked me to see their completely different online persona. In some Hotels I got skin whitening shower gel and the Models on billboards Just don't look human. I hope somehow this extreme trend in south east asia just dissapears..

  • @shio5234
    @shio5234 Před 3 měsíci +2

    its a big reason im not on many social media. i have never had big issue with my appearance, but everything has this natural filter. even what should be a colour filter, squishes my chin and nose down. it makes me feel uncomfortable. because its like, this is how its preffered. even if i like myself, i find myself to play into it, because, i do find i like myself like that more. but its dangerous, because its not real. so i look in the mirror with a new knowledge, if i could just shave some of these things down, if i could be LESS, i would be worth MORE.
    which is not true. i love the human form, and its sad we all feel this pressure.

  • @MOUNABAADDI-wf1tr
    @MOUNABAADDI-wf1tr Před 3 měsíci +6

    It's huge problem in the word now but in the end we still live in reel word we can see the reality of each other 😊
    Love you always froom morocco ❤

  • @pilorin
    @pilorin Před 25 dny

    Excellent video! Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @manda00613
    @manda00613 Před 2 měsíci

    Wait the girl in the pink dress and sun hat looked SO cute and pretty before the filters! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @RexofSteel
    @RexofSteel Před měsícem

    Your videos are so awesome. I just found you after going down the rabbit hole of Gen Alpha stuff and I love your content. Smart, funny, engaging, (and of course beautiful 😎😎). Keep it up! 😁😁
    Also this video shook me to the bone. BIG NOPE. 😨😨

  • @lolaaaaa01
    @lolaaaaa01 Před 2 měsíci

    14:25 TRUE!! I was also in elementary school when I discovered beauty cam and apps like such and at first it was just for fun but as time progressed, I started to become more and more insecure. Thankfully, my country banned that app, and I quitted social media.

  • @ryanchiao3030
    @ryanchiao3030 Před 2 měsíci

    I love your Mandarin!

  • @ariellewalls
    @ariellewalls Před 3 měsíci +1

    I LOVE YOU THANK YOU

  • @Sanismom
    @Sanismom Před 3 měsíci +5

    They look pretty good on you though I think they look good on you too I think you should get some of that in a couple weeks I don’t think they would have a bad time I just want a couple weeks of it to go with the right size for me I don’t know if you want to get it 😊

  • @zerosum1290
    @zerosum1290 Před měsícem

    nice work mate.

  • @LeeraPetermiko
    @LeeraPetermiko Před 4 dny

    Im glad I have good parents and siblings who mad me feel beautiful that I felt I didn't need beautifying apps or make up

  • @aliyaler9406
    @aliyaler9406 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you🫶

  • @jeremifrancisco1
    @jeremifrancisco1 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Damn, don’t people notice the so obvious alterations, are people so oblivious to it?

  • @HurricanePixie7
    @HurricanePixie7 Před 3 měsíci

    🎉👏👏👏 brilliant video!

  • @venuriyasaraart5946
    @venuriyasaraart5946 Před měsícem +1

    Both Chinese and Korean beauty standards are scary to be honest

  • @sondwich
    @sondwich Před měsícem

    the vase on the edge of the table took my whole attention in this video haha

  • @ayoZero._
    @ayoZero._ Před 3 měsíci +7

    i always looked up to the body type of franky and kaido in one piece. hope to achieve it in the near future ☝🏽🗣️

  • @Wouldyoupick1
    @Wouldyoupick1 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Omgggggggg,im the first one to comment!!!!love you zoe❤

  • @awesomepkxdplayer54
    @awesomepkxdplayer54 Před 3 měsíci

    I've been obsessed with MOXIE since i watched it 5 minutes ago

  • @mirsolus7789
    @mirsolus7789 Před 2 měsíci

    This is actually insane

  • @kyle__dotme
    @kyle__dotme Před 2 měsíci

    1:38 - im guilty to this. i really just hate it when i dont look presentable in that pic but they still post it anw ugh

  • @AvikaYadav-xe7zh
    @AvikaYadav-xe7zh Před 3 měsíci +4

    Why did I crack up when she mentioned one peice😂😂and honestly they dont look pretty rather creepy to me like is that even possible💀💀

  • @lunanightwood7890
    @lunanightwood7890 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I remember meitu from my teenage years, around 2014. I used it A LOT on my photos cause despite being latina I got bullied for being to white (no, not racism, people were just assholes to me) so I tried to fit at least on the asian beauty standard. it fucked me up to the point I don't post pictures of myself online anymore and I fear for future generations dealing with the constant editing and being chronically online

  • @sjotsu4000
    @sjotsu4000 Před 2 měsíci

    I live in Japan and teach at university, and one of the girls had that eyelash trend below her eyes. It was so creepy and it made her look very bad. The first time my friend and I saw it we were both so shocked and like jumped.

  • @doritofanchan2437
    @doritofanchan2437 Před 2 měsíci

    4:30
    I never had the birds and the bees talk or the period talk since I was only 11 at the time I used toilet paper for months

  • @meomeozzi5817
    @meomeozzi5817 Před 3 měsíci

    I can tell by my own example.
    When I was 12, I used the first filter app on my phone. They were especially popular back then, so everyone did it, so did I.
    What did it lead to - then I got so used to all these digital masks (especially on Instagram) that I couldn't perceive my face without them. Therefore, now, for three years now, I have been trying to reduce any filters on my phone (unless it's color saturation) in order to learn to love my face the way it is. So yes, this culture really scares me

  • @TheMarvelsEdits-ce7ux
    @TheMarvelsEdits-ce7ux Před měsícem

    I used to use this app that I think is Korean, and make videos on it when I was really little. (Not for social media, just for myself for fun) Not too long ago did i realize how light it made my skin, and how there was not a single "natural" filter that did not alter my face in some way.

  • @thoughtsonthis154
    @thoughtsonthis154 Před 26 dny

    I can already see the death of dating apps. Once bitten twice shy

  • @odie8689
    @odie8689 Před 3 měsíci +1

    omg.. I downloaded xiaohongshu for the hair and makeup tips and while I love the content, the amount of body dysmorphic content is triggering 😅

  • @annetteareid4128
    @annetteareid4128 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I was 16 when I realised the reason none of the pupils photographs on the walls had acne was because the school had been photoshopping it out. I only realised because I had a photo of me on the wall with completely clear skin when I knew I was having a huge breakout at the time. They did not ask if photoshopping was okay. I mean what teenager does not have spots at some time.

  • @user-bi8ko7kc6h
    @user-bi8ko7kc6h Před 2 měsíci +1

    Similar to lip fillers and bbl here in the west 😅

  • @Bulmachan224
    @Bulmachan224 Před 3 měsíci +3

    It's funny cause I naturally have the under eye thing when I'm really tired lol

  • @randomlyswatching9481
    @randomlyswatching9481 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Well as an Indian this hit home too. Fairest skin, no pores, no dark circles, thin body et etc... when will those stop 😐

  • @khadyadjisall5708
    @khadyadjisall5708 Před 3 měsíci

    I've always had pronounced under-eye, never knew they were trendy in East-Asia. lol

  • @well2619
    @well2619 Před 3 měsíci

    At the age of 15 I used this face changing apps A LOT. And I hated myself SO MUCH for being not cute enough, not slim enough, having wrong face shape and skin colour (I'm quite tanned for a Slavic girl). I couldn't take a single pictures without changing everything.
    I couldn't take pictures for TWO FUCKING YEARS when I stopped using this apps. It was very hard for me. But I finally feel good enough. Also, I don't have tiktok anymore. Hardly recommend.

  • @AmeelsV
    @AmeelsV Před 2 měsíci

    Everyone is so pretty before, I wish they could see that.

  • @ameliamonz387
    @ameliamonz387 Před 3 měsíci

    I am 14, I am considered as a thinner person and I think I have always been considered pretty. Because I saw some vidoes on youtub, I started having a complex about my waist size enven though it isnt big at all.

    • @user-dz8rt9vd1o
      @user-dz8rt9vd1o Před 3 měsíci

      if u are that young then PLEASE DONT CONSUME ZOE'S CONTENT THEY ARE NOT HEALTY

  • @Lilith-bw9pq
    @Lilith-bw9pq Před měsícem

    Some are scary but most of these standards are easy on the eyes. Can't lie about what my eyes love.

  • @sodasnonsense
    @sodasnonsense Před 2 měsíci

    I live in south east asia, and I hate how prevalent white washing filters are. I'm relatively pale and when my friends take pictures with me, I sometimes blend with the background. which is hilarious, but it goes to show how intense these filters can be

  • @Seooul
    @Seooul Před měsícem

    I did not expect Jessi to be there but ate I guess cus I love gum😘

  • @havensohn3821
    @havensohn3821 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I’m ugly everywhere I’d have to disappear to fix whats wrong with me lmao.

    • @glo_win
      @glo_win Před 2 měsíci

      Don't tell this to yourself and live your life happily!!

  • @SanjeevSingh-sc2bb
    @SanjeevSingh-sc2bb Před 3 měsíci +1

    6:38 😂lol seriously though

  • @thisnthat7760
    @thisnthat7760 Před 28 dny

    As a 5'5 asian.. the last time i was 45 kilos was while i was in ill health and suffering from anemia, now I'm 49 kilos and my health is better

    • @ilovecatssosomuch
      @ilovecatssosomuch Před 10 dny

      wow :( im the same height as you and im 65 kilos, how do you do it?

  • @Cauliflowerr_
    @Cauliflowerr_ Před 3 měsíci

    I really hope they will at least put laws in place that you have to state wether something is edited or even ai. At least when it comes to europe i can actually see something like that happening.

  • @lalalanf2955
    @lalalanf2955 Před 2 měsíci

    When Zoe said it's easier to edit your required results in pictures than actually work on body, suddenly I got reminded of 1st half of the movie WALL E where everyone were shown to be on their own virtual world. Where they'd completely forgotten about real human connection.

  • @gigithemouse
    @gigithemouse Před 2 měsíci +2

    People are afraid of themselves.

  • @Mallikaaa_04
    @Mallikaaa_04 Před 3 měsíci +18

    It's true that asian beauty standard is brutal. Like in India having fair skin and curvaceous body is the standard and sometimes people are bullied if they don't fit this. Even their own parents sometimes pass harsh and rude comments.

  • @kendramarkworth6855
    @kendramarkworth6855 Před 3 měsíci +1

    We are getting closer and closer to Ready Player 1 every day. Pretty soon, we won't be seen outside our screens anymore.

  • @arthurvalentine3524
    @arthurvalentine3524 Před 21 dnem

    I remember I was in Korea (female 165 cm and 68 kg in weight, european) for 10 days...I've never got so much compliments from just random people at the streets....it was nice. Maybe I just got lucky